Don’t announce your pregnancy right away. Savor the moments with each other and your families and we’ll celebrate your joy when the time is right. Love to you both and lots of prayers for strength and peace.
Couldn't agree more. It's a private moment for them and those who truly love Mindy and Larry will understand it and wait for the right moment when they feel like sharing the good news. Byeeee 🙏🥰
You guys announce when your pregnant when you feel comfortable to, this your journey to enjoy. I’m so excited to for you guys. Your baby will be blessed to have you as parents. 💕🤗
@@BarronBarca absolutely so rude.. if you have nothing nice to say please keep the very terrible comments to yourself. Is it really that hard to be kind to people?!?!
As much as we would love to know when you are pregnant, you let us know when you feel comfortable. I’m happy you have shared as much of this journey as you have, but don’t feel pressured to share! 🥰🥰🥰
Definitely wait the 12 weeks to make the announcement! Anything could happen during the first trimester and you and Larry should enjoy the first 12 weeks together.
I'll definitely echo everyone who has said to wait until if/when you are comfortable and want to make that announcement. You owe nothing to anyone but yourselves. In saying that, you both are tremendously loved, and I'm wishing the world for your family ♥️
You’re a blessing to all of us struggling to conceive for being so open with your journey. However, you don’t owe anyone anything so announce whenever y’all are comfortable doing so!
That’s a good idea, IVF is so full on - it’s really opened my eyes to what’s involved - big respect to all the amazing mum’s & dad’s out there who have gone down the IVF route ❤️
Announce your pregnancy when you and Larry are comfortable. You’ve been so kind so share so much with us, that sharing when you’re ready is completely understandable. We will share in your joy with the time is right. ❤️
I agree with everyone who's saying to wait to tell us. We know this is a really big deal for the both of you and some things should be kept private even with how much you've shared with us through the entire journey. You guys take this moment for you, and only you. When you're ready to announce it to us, we'll be waiting and jumping in joy for you with open arms.
Announce your pregnancy when you’re ready. It’s a very personal and intimate detail that the public is not entitled to. Wishing you two all the best and thank you for your transparency.
This vlog felt like the fastest 19 minutes. I usually listen to the entire video for Q&A because the questions and answers are so interesting. Time flies having a great conversation.
I personally think you should announce it when you find out as its all part of the journey, but it’s obviously your decision. I feel like more women should share that they are pregnant in the early stages of pregnancy as if anything does go wrong it helps to normalise it and help people understand the difficulties of pregnancy as well as the good things. I had a miscarriage in week 8 of my pregnancy. Because I had only told those very close to me about the pregnancy, I then couldn’t share my situation or loss with others after it happened because they didn’t know I was pregnant in the first place. When I get pregnant again I have decided to be pretty open about it from the beginning. Wishing you all the best on your journey; I have found your videos invaluable 💕
As hard as it would be, I would totally wait. I didn’t wait with my first son and I kind of regret not having that special secret just between my husband and I. We decided to wait to tell anyone with our second pregnancy and it was so nice and felt really special.
We want you guys to share when in your heart you are ready. Even though I have no patience and I’d love to know ASAP lol you have to do what feels right for you!!!
I am so happy to hear y’all are doing fall merch!! I’m ready and so excited. Also. As far as announcing a pregnancy- please know that we all want you and Larry to do what’s best for y’all! If y’all want to savor that just for you and your family- you should absolutely do that. We will be here whenever y’all are ready. Love y’all and praying for y’all 🖤
Announce the pregnancy when it's right for you. Just know you have thousands of people praying for you, to make your dream come through. Always remember to never give up on something you want no matter what others think. You and Larry are to make decisions on what you want and not your fans. Love y'all can't wait to meet your precious baby....
Telling people/ WHEN to tell people is a personal decision to make. When I was pregnant with my first son, I waited until I was 12 weeks because that was the recommended time to wait “just in case”. When I was pregnant with my second son, I told everyone right away because I decided that, God forbid something bad had happened, I knew that I would have wanted as much love and support surrounding me as possible anyway. I wouldn’t have wanted to feel alone and isolated in that case. You do what feels right for you! ❤️
Definitely wait until after 12 weeks. I love that you share with all of us, but at the end of the day you need to do what is best for you and Larry. 🙏🏻❤️
Totally agree about sharing at 12 weeks. We sadly miscarried our IVF baby at 8 weeks. No one really knew we were pregnant so we shared our sad news afterwards when we were good and ready. Definitely will be keeping our next transfer quiet and if we are lucky enough to see those 2 lines again, I will be keeping quiet until 12 weeks. Good luck xx
Wait to announce until you are ready mama. 12 weeks is a great timeline. This is your pregnancy. Your body. Your moment. And you should have no stress love. Don’t feel guilty for your decision! Either option is the perfect choice. Wether to wait or announce knowing anything can happen and know you have a village to support you. I’m 12 weeks on Saturday and it’s still mine and hubby’s secret… and it’s fun being the only 2 that know. Soak up the moment together.
I support your decision to share the news after 12 weeks if that feels right to you. You have shared so much with us thus far but that doesn't mean that you are required to continue on in the same vein. At the end of the day this is your and Larry's Journey and no one else's. Much love to you both! xx
When my husband and I decided to try for a baby we got pregnant almost immediately. I was so excited and told a few people right away. Well, I ended up having a very early miscarriage and then had to tell those people. We now have a perfect 6 month old baby boy and we couldn't be happier. I'm only telling this story because it might help you make your decision. If you think you want to wait the 12 weeks that's what you should do. You have a whole village of people who would support you! Love you both.
Absolutely wait to announce guys, this is your moment and you have shared so much with us. Take the time you need to process and tell when you are ready.
Remember, you are sharing your life with us and that doesn’t give us the right to know everything all the time. Share what you want when you want!! This journey is highly emotional and you need to protect you as much as possible.
Don't feel stressed about sharing information sweetie. You let us know when y'all are ready and we'll be here ready to hear all the details. We are your supporters. Remember that ❤ Praying. Love y'all.
You announce your pregnancy when you both feel the most comfortable doing so. Just because you shared so much with your viewers doesn’t mean we are entitled to that information. Best of luck to you both ❤️
Ultimately you should do whatever is right for you. Personally, I feel like the “wait 12 weeks” advice has kind of forced a lot of women to feel like they need to suffer in silence. There are so many women out there struggling with miscarriage and I feel like it’s a very normal part of the journey (statistically at least), yet we as a society have historically made it seem as though you can’t possibly share happy news unless you are more certain things will turn out. Life is messy, life doesn’t always turn out the way we’d hope it to, and just as with your IUI journey, that helps normalize that for a lot of other women (whatever happens). I also think it would be potentially be very hard for you if things didn’t work out for some reason, if people were constantly guessing you’re pregnant here in the comments because you haven’t shared it. People are pushy and there will probably be a fair number making guesses before you’re even ready to share (based on previous IUI attempts). Just my two cents, but wait as long as you’d like, I’ll still be rooting for you either way (in silence until you decide to share!)
As always, just announce when you’re comfortable and ready, but I’ve heard to announce when you find out, so that that baby has the ability to be celebrated from the start of its life and so that you have the support. Just a different perspective ❤️
defnitely announce when you feel comfortable. 6 weeks , 12, 39 weeks the pain of losing a baby is the same dont do it because of that fear. It does make it special having that lil secret between you and husband for that while.
We announced our pregnancy after our first ultrasound, when we were almost 9 weeks pregnant. And we truly loved sharing our joy with all our friends and family 🥰 but it is completely up to you and how you and Larry feel! 💗
You will know when the time is right to share everything…… you are very open and very expressive …. Somehow I think we will know by your mood and facial expressions …..
You two will make amazing parents. When you guys announce you’re pregnancy we will be incredibly happy. Honestly enjoy the pregnancy between you two. That’s an amazing journey enjoy it together.
I would personally wait until you’re through your first trimester. It’s an honor for us to have been included in so much. It’s not our right to be told immediately when you’re pregnant. Enjoy the first trimester within your little bubble of love when and if it should happen ❤️ sending you so many prayers and baby dust for this journey. Hopefully we have a baby mindy/Larry next year 🥰
My opinion about sharing or not sharing when or if you become pregnant? WELL you wanted to take us on this journey whether its good or bad.. people who are going through this are by your side as well and its helpful to others (this is why you chose to share this journey), and you have a lot of supporters who are in this journey with you.. I think waiting 12 weeks to let people know would be like saying "well, I am going to share with you only things that turn out positive" .. YES its your decision whether to share or not, but there are a lot of people who have been so supportive to you ans Larry and we arr here for you and we are also emotionally on this journey with you guys, I just think announcing it 12 weeks is such a LONG gap that people would feel completely disconnected from your journey that you openly wanted to share .. its up to you but I would feel disappointed that you didn't want to share with people who love and support you and not only that but you miss out on people really supporting you if it was hard.
Though we will want to know…This is your precious moment…You announce when you both feel comfortable…I for one will be patiently waiting for the good news…🥰 Love you guys
You announce your pregnancy when you feel comfortable. This is about you and Larry. Love your channel and love you both! Praying for a wonderful outcome! ♥️
As much as I would love to know when you're pregnant you should wait until you're comfortable to announce it. In the time that you wait you and Larry can enjoy your time together in bliss. We love you and support whatever decision you guys make💜
Thank you so much for being so open and transparent with your life. I look forward to your videos and seeing your and Larry's baby journey progress. There are so many people invested in your pregnancy journey and are anxious to hear what's coming next. We're rooting for you guys! But even if you are so open with us in sharing your pregnancy journey, it's still YOUR journey. Whatever or whenever you feel comfortable sharing is your business and you'll be supported in that. You're loved!
This made my morning! You two are my favorite🥰❤️ Announce it when you two are most comfortable! We will be here along for the journey regardless! Sending all the positives thoughts & prayers!☺️
As much as I want to know the minute you’re pregnant because I’ve been along the whole journey, I also want you to be comfortable amd tell us when you’re ready ❤️
You announce it when you are ready love! We are here cheering you on and support your decision 100%. Praying for you guys! Believing for a successful transfer and a healthy growing baby!!!
(I am drinking a pumpkin cream cold brew whilst writing this 🎃): Mindy and Larry, thank you for answering these questions. Your honesty and transparency is helping and educating so many people. As for our thoughts on when you will announce, I think you and Larry need to do what is best for you. The community around you will understand why you want to wait or why you decide to announce it early. I know, because you have been so open since the beginning, you feel a sense of guilt if you do not share early, but please do not feel that way. If anyone is upset with you for not sharing early, that is wrong and on them, not you two. Do what is best for you both and we will be here to support you through the whole journey. I am praying for you both and hope you have a wonderful Tuesday! 💛
This is just my personal opinion. I have only been pregnant once. I miscarried twins at 8 weeks. I think pregnancy should be announced right away for several reasons. 1st whether babies are 8 weeks gestational or full term they deserve to be celebrated. 2nd regardless if you miscarry at any point you’ll still have to tell everyone. 3rd if you do miscarry you will need support from people that have been there. 4th we need to be more open about miscarriage , it’s taboo to talk about and too many women grieve alone. The only way to stop it from being taboo is to talk about it. Obviously you need to do what is right for you and Larry. We support you either way!!
Also with you taking us through the whole journey I think most people will figure it out either way. Cause if you become pregnant and then just stop talking about it, it’ll be noticeable and if you’re constantly not feeling well it will also be noticeable.
Mindy, it’s amazing that you’ve shared your journey so far with us, but honestly, this is your channel - you can share whatever you want, whenever you want 🥰 we will all be here waiting and will be super excited for you both! I’m keeping you both in my thoughts and sending lots of love. 🥰
I really hope you can let us know but it’s your baby, your body and your choice so whatever you choose will be respected ❤️ lots and lots of baby dust !!!
Don't feel like you need to tell us anything at all! I know you want to be an open book...it's truly ok to love each other in this moment and just live your lives. IVF is an intense thing to go through...you don't need us to be badgering you about it all. Relax. Enjoy the journey. I'll be happy to see a decorated house! yay!
Most clinics do the HcG blood test nine days after the transfer. Because the first two weeks of all pregnancies you are not pregnant, but those two weeks are counted into the 40 week pregnancy, one week after your transfer which is usually a 5 day blastocyst you will be 3 weeks pregnant!! It’s so exciting!! I’m praying for you guys ❤️❤️
When you feel comfortable and that it is safe, then you tell people. Not for the sake of the vlog. We can wait as long as you two need! Good luck! 🤗 🤗 🤗
Personally the decision to wait to tell people is totally whatever you are comfortable with. For me personally with my own journey I became pregnant and had the same mindset of not telling people in fear that something may go wrong. I feel like that stopped me from sharing the joy I had in those moments and the support that I would have gotten had I said something. Unfortunately, I had two losses before gaining my rainbow baby and that time was one of the worst in my life and I felt so alone. It didn't help to close myself off and not share those moments with others. I wish I had something like this to look back and remember the happier times with what could have been if that makes any sense..especially since it led me to where I am now. Hope this helps with your decision 💕 Good luck Larry and Mindy!
Just because you share a lot doesn't mean any of us expect it now, this is a very personal journey and whenever you feel like sharing is the right time! I'm 13 weeks pregnant now, my second, my first was very early 24 weeks one pound 7 ounces...when I got pregnant this time I couldn't help but tell everyone right away plus I'm having horrible nausea n vomiting so it was hard to keep it a secret, do what you feel and don't stress about it we love you guys...
Agree with so much of what’s been said. It’s amazing and super helpful to be along for the ride, but…BUT only share when you are both comfortable. It’s such a stressful, scary, nerve-wracking process. So please only share when you are both ready. We will be here to support you no matter what and whenever.
I always get a really good and relaxing feeling when I watch your videos always look forward to seeing how you and Larry's life is going. Thanks for sharing with us. Love you.
There is NOTHING wrong with waiting to announce until you’re out of the first trimester! That’s what most ppl do and you deserve that as well even if you’ve shared many moments with us. Hope this first round of IVF works!! ❤️❤️
My daughter has 3 beautiful IVF children. She used her last remaining embryo at 39 years old. The embryo had been frozen for 10 years! After 2 beautiful baby girls, we are so thankful for that sweet baby boy! Praying for a successful IVF pregnancy for you and Larry.
Good Morning! In my opinion I would tell ppl when you're ready. However, telling people early is very uplifting for support. If anything was to happen you have a very wide support group rather then just the couple ppl you told. I'm praying nothing bad happens sending lots of love.
I'm seeing all these comments and I fully agree- announce when it's right FOR YOU!! IT'S OK!! No one can understand anyone else journey- you keep yourselves in your family pod.
Honestly it’s your choice if you want to tell your family and close friends right away and wait twelve weeks to announce on social media. It’s very understandable to wait until the twelve week mark! Do what’s right for you and your family! I’m so happy for you two!
All in all you should announce when your ready but in saying that if your worried about making it to a safe Zone there is no safe zone. I know people who didn’t announce and lost their baby and wished they shared the life while they could but as I said it’s up to you both x
You announce when you feel is right. Don’t let anyone pressure you into something you feel you shouldn’t. We love you guys and I’m praying everything works out in the best way.
I would say go wait. Savor that special moment with Larry and once you’re ready and comfortable and everything is going great, then you can announce it the way you want to♥️
You have to do what is right for you with announcing, it's your life and journey, nobody else's business. Please don't stress about it, it's not worth it. We're so thankful for you bringing us along on the way and we look forward to when we will be invited back in. Keeping you both in my prayers, you deserve the world. 🙏❤️
You tell people when you are ready. My husband and I personally always told after a doctor confirmed pregnancy but that’s us. We wanted to celebrate and if anything was to happen, we wanted people to mourn with us. But again, everyone is different. You tell the world when you are ready to share it.
Absolutely I wouldn’t say until 12 weeks. I lost my first pregnancy at 8 weeks, 10 years later got pregnant with my rainbow baby girl. I didn’t say anything until I reached 12 weeks. Couldn’t hide it from the people that see me every day since I make HUGE bumps. Wishing you all the best!
It's definitely ok to let us know at your 12 weeks. It will be a great surprise for us! I can't wait! Stay positive and we are all sending you good positive vibes to the future mom and dad❤🙏
Great Q&A! Although I am dying to know when a lil Minx is coming, y’all should definitely go with your gut when it comes to announcing. You can always film footage that can be shared later on. I can also imagine that might be a special time to cherish that secret with your loved ones, until y’all are ready. Lots of love and positive vibes! 💛
I think you should wait and process the excitement however if nothing is announced everyone will know that you are. I'm so excited for you and Larry. I do have a question if you feel comfortable in answering. I'm so fascinated by the amazing advances they have made in fertility. The procedure that Larry had could he have that done again to retrieve more content? Love you both. God Bless Y'all ❤❤
We thank you for sharing everything that you have so far..while we can’t wait to hear the pregnancy announcement, I respect you waiting til you are 12 weeks! ❤️❤️
Don’t announce your pregnancy right away. Savor the moments with each other and your families and we’ll celebrate your joy when the time is right. Love to you both and lots of prayers for strength and peace.
Very well said.
Well said x
Couldn't agree more. It's a private moment for them and those who truly love Mindy and Larry will understand it and wait for the right moment when they feel like sharing the good news. Byeeee 🙏🥰
Agreed!
I agree as we’ll 🥰
You guys announce when your pregnant when you feel comfortable to, this your journey to enjoy. I’m so excited to for you guys. Your baby will be blessed to have you as parents. 💕🤗
Agree!❤️❤️❤️
Agree!
A baby that comes out with grey hair 😂🤣🤮
@@BarronBarca absolutely so rude.. if you have nothing nice to say please keep the very terrible comments to yourself. Is it really that hard to be kind to people?!?!
@@BarronBarca that’s rude
As much as we would love to know when you are pregnant, you let us know when you feel comfortable. I’m happy you have shared as much of this journey as you have, but don’t feel pressured to share! 🥰🥰🥰
Agreed
Definitely wait the 12 weeks to make the announcement! Anything could happen during the first trimester and you and Larry should enjoy the first 12 weeks together.
Totally agree❤️🐨
Yes!
I'll definitely echo everyone who has said to wait until if/when you are comfortable and want to make that announcement. You owe nothing to anyone but yourselves. In saying that, you both are tremendously loved, and I'm wishing the world for your family ♥️
I don’t think you and Larry could keep it quiet the moment you find out you are pregnant!
We will be able to see it in both of your eyes:) I think
Announcing a pregnancy should always be when you and your partner are ready to do so.❤️
You’re a blessing to all of us struggling to conceive for being so open with your journey. However, you don’t owe anyone anything so announce whenever y’all are comfortable doing so!
I suggest you vlog the results and feelings all the way in real time but not share them with us until you’re ready to do so no matter when that is.
I agree and even if they choose not to share they will have the videos for memories
That’s a good idea, IVF is so full on - it’s really opened my eyes to what’s involved - big respect to all the amazing mum’s & dad’s out there who have gone down the IVF route ❤️
Good idea.
Announce your pregnancy when you and Larry are comfortable. You’ve been so kind so share so much with us, that sharing when you’re ready is completely understandable. We will share in your joy with the time is right. ❤️
I agree with everyone who's saying to wait to tell us. We know this is a really big deal for the both of you and some things should be kept private even with how much you've shared with us through the entire journey. You guys take this moment for you, and only you. When you're ready to announce it to us, we'll be waiting and jumping in joy for you with open arms.
Announce your pregnancy when you’re ready. It’s a very personal and intimate detail that the public is not entitled to. Wishing you two all the best and thank you for your transparency.
This vlog felt like the fastest 19 minutes. I usually listen to the entire video for Q&A because the questions and answers are so interesting. Time flies having a great conversation.
I personally think you should announce it when you find out as its all part of the journey, but it’s obviously your decision. I feel like more women should share that they are pregnant in the early stages of pregnancy as if anything does go wrong it helps to normalise it and help people understand the difficulties of pregnancy as well as the good things. I had a miscarriage in week 8 of my pregnancy. Because I had only told those very close to me about the pregnancy, I then couldn’t share my situation or loss with others after it happened because they didn’t know I was pregnant in the first place. When I get pregnant again I have decided to be pretty open about it from the beginning. Wishing you all the best on your journey; I have found your videos invaluable 💕
As hard as it would be, I would totally wait. I didn’t wait with my first son and I kind of regret not having that special secret just between my husband and I. We decided to wait to tell anyone with our second pregnancy and it was so nice and felt really special.
We want you guys to share when in your heart you are ready. Even though I have no patience and I’d love to know ASAP lol you have to do what feels right for you!!!
I am so happy to hear y’all are doing fall merch!! I’m ready and so excited.
Also. As far as announcing a pregnancy- please know that we all want you and Larry to do what’s best for y’all! If y’all want to savor that just for you and your family- you should absolutely do that. We will be here whenever y’all are ready. Love y’all and praying for y’all 🖤
Announce the pregnancy when it's right for you. Just know you have thousands of people praying for you, to make your dream come through. Always remember to never give up on something you want no matter what others think. You and Larry are to make decisions on what you want and not your fans. Love y'all can't wait to meet your precious baby....
Telling people/ WHEN to tell people is a personal decision to make. When I was pregnant with my first son, I waited until I was 12 weeks because that was the recommended time to wait “just in case”. When I was pregnant with my second son, I told everyone right away because I decided that, God forbid something bad had happened, I knew that I would have wanted as much love and support surrounding me as possible anyway. I wouldn’t have wanted to feel alone and isolated in that case. You do what feels right for you! ❤️
I waited for my 26 week scan to tell anyone kept it to myself
Both options are perfectly right! 🤍🤍
Definitely wait until after 12 weeks. I love that you share with all of us, but at the end of the day you need to do what is best for you and Larry. 🙏🏻❤️
Totally agree about sharing at 12 weeks. We sadly miscarried our IVF baby at 8 weeks. No one really knew we were pregnant so we shared our sad news afterwards when we were good and ready. Definitely will be keeping our next transfer quiet and if we are lucky enough to see those 2 lines again, I will be keeping quiet until 12 weeks. Good luck xx
Bless you, so sorry for your loss. Wishing you all the best in your future journey xxx
Thank you xx
Girl you do you. If you want to announce, awesome, I’d you don’t, awesome. No wrong answers as long as it’s what YOU and Larry are comfortable with ❤️
Well said 💖💙
Wait to announce until you are ready mama. 12 weeks is a great timeline. This is your pregnancy. Your body. Your moment. And you should have no stress love.
Don’t feel guilty for your decision! Either option is the perfect choice. Wether to wait or announce knowing anything can happen and know you have a village to support you.
I’m 12 weeks on Saturday and it’s still mine and hubby’s secret… and it’s fun being the only 2 that know. Soak up the moment together.
I support your decision to share the news after 12 weeks if that feels right to you. You have shared so much with us thus far but that doesn't mean that you are required to continue on in the same vein. At the end of the day this is your and Larry's Journey and no one else's. Much love to you both! xx
When my husband and I decided to try for a baby we got pregnant almost immediately. I was so excited and told a few people right away. Well, I ended up having a very early miscarriage and then had to tell those people. We now have a perfect 6 month old baby boy and we couldn't be happier. I'm only telling this story because it might help you make your decision. If you think you want to wait the 12 weeks that's what you should do. You have a whole village of people who would support you! Love you both.
Absolutely wait to announce guys, this is your moment and you have shared so much with us. Take the time you need to process and tell when you are ready.
Remember, you are sharing your life with us and that doesn’t give us the right to know everything all the time. Share what you want when you want!! This journey is highly emotional and you need to protect you as much as possible.
It’s your journey and you decide if, when and how you want to tell the internet. It’s very personal and you should do what feels right for you!
Don't feel stressed about sharing information sweetie. You let us know when y'all are ready and we'll be here ready to hear all the details. We are your supporters. Remember that ❤ Praying. Love y'all.
Omg I laughed so hard when Larry compared it to the scene in the Santa clause 😂
You announce your pregnancy when you both feel the most comfortable doing so. Just because you shared so much with your viewers doesn’t mean we are entitled to that information. Best of luck to you both ❤️
Ultimately you should do whatever is right for you. Personally, I feel like the “wait 12 weeks” advice has kind of forced a lot of women to feel like they need to suffer in silence. There are so many women out there struggling with miscarriage and I feel like it’s a very normal part of the journey (statistically at least), yet we as a society have historically made it seem as though you can’t possibly share happy news unless you are more certain things will turn out. Life is messy, life doesn’t always turn out the way we’d hope it to, and just as with your IUI journey, that helps normalize that for a lot of other women (whatever happens). I also think it would be potentially be very hard for you if things didn’t work out for some reason, if people were constantly guessing you’re pregnant here in the comments because you haven’t shared it. People are pushy and there will probably be a fair number making guesses before you’re even ready to share (based on previous IUI attempts).
Just my two cents, but wait as long as you’d like, I’ll still be rooting for you either way (in silence until you decide to share!)
As always, just announce when you’re comfortable and ready, but I’ve heard to announce when you find out, so that that baby has the ability to be celebrated from the start of its life and so that you have the support. Just a different perspective ❤️
defnitely announce when you feel comfortable. 6 weeks , 12, 39 weeks the pain of losing a baby is the same dont do it because of that fear. It does make it special having that lil secret between you and husband for that while.
We announced our pregnancy after our first ultrasound, when we were almost 9 weeks pregnant. And we truly loved sharing our joy with all our friends and family 🥰 but it is completely up to you and how you and Larry feel! 💗
Announce it when you guys feel comfortable telling us. Love you guys and am so happy for you guys and this journey 😊😊❤️❤️
You will know when the time is right to share everything…… you are very open and very expressive …. Somehow I think we will know by your mood and facial expressions …..
You two will make amazing parents. When you guys announce you’re pregnancy we will be incredibly happy. Honestly enjoy the pregnancy between you two. That’s an amazing journey enjoy it together.
I feel so lucky to be included on your baby journey, but I respect what you feel comfortable sharing when you are ready. Sending baby dust! 💕
I think you should share your announcement because it’s that much more support for you along the way.
I would personally wait until you’re through your first trimester. It’s an honor for us to have been included in so much. It’s not our right to be told immediately when you’re pregnant. Enjoy the first trimester within your little bubble of love when and if it should happen ❤️ sending you so many prayers and baby dust for this journey. Hopefully we have a baby mindy/Larry next year 🥰
Love how Larry had a plan up his sleeve for apple picking!!
My opinion about sharing or not sharing when or if you become pregnant? WELL you wanted to take us on this journey whether its good or bad.. people who are going through this are by your side as well and its helpful to others (this is why you chose to share this journey), and you have a lot of supporters who are in this journey with you.. I think waiting 12 weeks to let people know would be like saying "well, I am going to share with you only things that turn out positive" .. YES its your decision whether to share or not, but there are a lot of people who have been so supportive to you ans Larry and we arr here for you and we are also emotionally on this journey with you guys, I just think announcing it 12 weeks is such a LONG gap that people would feel completely disconnected from your journey that you openly wanted to share .. its up to you but I would feel disappointed that you didn't want to share with people who love and support you and not only that but you miss out on people really supporting you if it was hard.
Though we will want to know…This is your precious moment…You announce when you both feel comfortable…I for one will be patiently waiting for the good news…🥰 Love you guys
You announce your pregnancy when you feel comfortable. This is about you and Larry. Love your channel and love you both! Praying for a wonderful outcome! ♥️
Whenever you find out about your pregnancy, do whatever feels best!!
As much as I would love to know when you're pregnant you should wait until you're comfortable to announce it. In the time that you wait you and Larry can enjoy your time together in bliss. We love you and support whatever decision you guys make💜
Thank you so much for being so open and transparent with your life. I look forward to your videos and seeing your and Larry's baby journey progress. There are so many people invested in your pregnancy journey and are anxious to hear what's coming next. We're rooting for you guys! But even if you are so open with us in sharing your pregnancy journey, it's still YOUR journey. Whatever or whenever you feel comfortable sharing is your business and you'll be supported in that. You're loved!
This made my morning! You two are my favorite🥰❤️ Announce it when you two are most comfortable! We will be here along for the journey regardless! Sending all the positives thoughts & prayers!☺️
Announce at 12 weeks or whenever you feel it's right for you and Larry. We all love and support you
Definitely wait the 12 weeks Mindy. That time is critical and precious, enjoy it with Larry.
Announce when your ready and do what's best for you. In the end it's your life and your decision.
I for one think this: You and Larry announce baby news when you’re ready.
You have a lot of people cheering for you!
I’m so glad Larry gets to be the bio dad ❤️
As much as I want to know the minute you’re pregnant because I’ve been along the whole journey, I also want you to be comfortable amd tell us when you’re ready ❤️
You announce it when you are ready love! We are here cheering you on and support your decision 100%. Praying for you guys! Believing for a successful transfer and a healthy growing baby!!!
Announce whenever you are comfortable doing so. Don't let anyone stress you either way about it.
(I am drinking a pumpkin cream cold brew whilst writing this 🎃): Mindy and Larry, thank you for answering these questions. Your honesty and transparency is helping and educating so many people. As for our thoughts on when you will announce, I think you and Larry need to do what is best for you. The community around you will understand why you want to wait or why you decide to announce it early. I know, because you have been so open since the beginning, you feel a sense of guilt if you do not share early, but please do not feel that way. If anyone is upset with you for not sharing early, that is wrong and on them, not you two. Do what is best for you both and we will be here to support you through the whole journey. I am praying for you both and hope you have a wonderful Tuesday! 💛
Definitely share whenever you are ready and comfortable! 💜
This is just my personal opinion. I have only been pregnant once. I miscarried twins at 8 weeks. I think pregnancy should be announced right away for several reasons. 1st whether babies are 8 weeks gestational or full term they deserve to be celebrated. 2nd regardless if you miscarry at any point you’ll still have to tell everyone. 3rd if you do miscarry you will need support from people that have been there. 4th we need to be more open about miscarriage , it’s taboo to talk about and too many women grieve alone. The only way to stop it from being taboo is to talk about it. Obviously you need to do what is right for you and Larry. We support you either way!!
Also with you taking us through the whole journey I think most people will figure it out either way. Cause if you become pregnant and then just stop talking about it, it’ll be noticeable and if you’re constantly not feeling well it will also be noticeable.
You announce when you are ready or feel it's right for you. My husband and I wanted to wait 12 weeks but my morning sickness gave me away.
Mindy, it’s amazing that you’ve shared your journey so far with us, but honestly, this is your channel - you can share whatever you want, whenever you want 🥰 we will all be here waiting and will be super excited for you both! I’m keeping you both in my thoughts and sending lots of love. 🥰
I really hope you can let us know but it’s your baby, your body and your choice so whatever you choose will be respected ❤️ lots and lots of baby dust !!!
I appreciate your vulnerability in this video. ❤
Do what’s right for you in announcing. I will say, though, before social media, it was quite normal to wait till you were past the three month mark.
I love Larry 💞 "normally when you create a baby both people are there"
Don't feel like you need to tell us anything at all! I know you want to be an open book...it's truly ok to love each other in this moment and just live your lives. IVF is an intense thing to go through...you don't need us to be badgering you about it all. Relax. Enjoy the journey. I'll be happy to see a decorated house! yay!
Share when you are ready! I didn’t share with my first child until I was almost four months. I shared right away with my second child!
Most clinics do the HcG blood test nine days after the transfer. Because the first two weeks of all pregnancies you are not pregnant, but those two weeks are counted into the 40 week pregnancy, one week after your transfer which is usually a 5 day blastocyst you will be 3 weeks pregnant!! It’s so exciting!! I’m praying for you guys ❤️❤️
You make the decision, we will just be over here, staying positive and supporting you guys!!! ❤
Coffee & Mindy... and Larry lol
I'm here for all the 🍵 😘❤
no you do what your comfortable with and when you're ready to
When you feel comfortable and that it is safe, then you tell people. Not for the sake of the vlog. We can wait as long as you two need! Good luck! 🤗 🤗 🤗
Personally the decision to wait to tell people is totally whatever you are comfortable with. For me personally with my own journey I became pregnant and had the same mindset of not telling people in fear that something may go wrong. I feel like that stopped me from sharing the joy I had in those moments and the support that I would have gotten had I said something. Unfortunately, I had two losses before gaining my rainbow baby and that time was one of the worst in my life and I felt so alone. It didn't help to close myself off and not share those moments with others. I wish I had something like this to look back and remember the happier times with what could have been if that makes any sense..especially since it led me to where I am now. Hope this helps with your decision 💕 Good luck Larry and Mindy!
Just because you share a lot doesn't mean any of us expect it now, this is a very personal journey and whenever you feel like sharing is the right time! I'm 13 weeks pregnant now, my second, my first was very early 24 weeks one pound 7 ounces...when I got pregnant this time I couldn't help but tell everyone right away plus I'm having horrible nausea n vomiting so it was hard to keep it a secret, do what you feel and don't stress about it we love you guys...
How is your little 24 weeker doing? ❤️
Agree with so much of what’s been said. It’s amazing and super helpful to be along for the ride, but…BUT only share when you are both comfortable. It’s such a stressful, scary, nerve-wracking process. So please only share when you are both ready. We will be here to support you no matter what and whenever.
Share when you feel comfortable sharing Mindy! Thank you for taking us along this journey with you. Love you guys so much!!!!!♥️
I always get a really good and relaxing feeling when I watch your videos always look forward to seeing how you and Larry's life is going. Thanks for sharing with us. Love you.
There is NOTHING wrong with waiting to announce until you’re out of the first trimester! That’s what most ppl do and you deserve that as well even if you’ve shared many moments with us. Hope this first round of IVF works!! ❤️❤️
I'm so excited for this journey😩💜💜both of you are going to be wonderful parents. This is so beautiful. Can't wait!!
Mindy!! The right decision is what you feel in your heart. We are just happy you share with us at all! Sending so much love and hope you de-stress!!
My daughter has 3 beautiful IVF children. She used her last remaining embryo at 39 years old. The embryo had been frozen for 10 years! After 2 beautiful baby girls, we are so thankful for that sweet baby boy! Praying for a successful IVF pregnancy for you and Larry.
Good Morning! In my opinion I would tell ppl when you're ready. However, telling people early is very uplifting for support. If anything was to happen you have a very wide support group rather then just the couple ppl you told. I'm praying nothing bad happens sending lots of love.
I'm seeing all these comments and I fully agree- announce when it's right FOR YOU!! IT'S OK!! No one can understand anyone else journey- you keep yourselves in your family pod.
Honestly it’s your choice if you want to tell your family and close friends right away and wait twelve weeks to announce on social media. It’s very understandable to wait until the twelve week mark! Do what’s right for you and your family! I’m so happy for you two!
All in all you should announce when your ready but in saying that if your worried about making it to a safe Zone there is no safe zone. I know people who didn’t announce and lost their baby and wished they shared the life while they could but as I said it’s up to you both x
You announce when you feel is right. Don’t let anyone pressure you into something you feel you shouldn’t. We love you guys and I’m praying everything works out in the best way.
It’s your choice Mindy , as it’s a personal journey for u both
Good morning! Getting my coffee and settling in to listen. Love to you and Larry!!! 💜
I would say go wait. Savor that special moment with Larry and once you’re ready and comfortable and everything is going great, then you can announce it the way you want to♥️
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You have to do what is right for you with announcing, it's your life and journey, nobody else's business. Please don't stress about it, it's not worth it. We're so thankful for you bringing us along on the way and we look forward to when we will be invited back in. Keeping you both in my prayers, you deserve the world. 🙏❤️
I'm getting so excited for you both pray everyday for you both, God Bless!
You tell people when you are ready. My husband and I personally always told after a doctor confirmed pregnancy but that’s us. We wanted to celebrate and if anything was to happen, we wanted people to mourn with us. But again, everyone is different. You tell the world when you are ready to share it.
Absolutely I wouldn’t say until 12 weeks. I lost my first pregnancy at 8 weeks, 10 years later got pregnant with my rainbow baby girl. I didn’t say anything until I reached 12 weeks. Couldn’t hide it from the people that see me every day since I make HUGE bumps. Wishing you all the best!
It's definitely ok to let us know at your 12 weeks. It will be a great surprise for us! I can't wait! Stay positive and we are all sending you good positive vibes to the future mom and dad❤🙏
You guys have such a calming presence on TH-cam 🤗 thanks for sharing your journey with us!
Great Q&A! Although I am dying to know when a lil Minx is coming, y’all should definitely go with your gut when it comes to announcing. You can always film footage that can be shared later on. I can also imagine that might be a special time to cherish that secret with your loved ones, until y’all are ready. Lots of love and positive vibes! 💛
I think you should wait and process the excitement however if nothing is announced everyone will know that you are. I'm so excited for you and Larry. I do have a question if you feel comfortable in answering. I'm so fascinated by the amazing advances they have made in fertility. The procedure that Larry had could he have that done again to retrieve more content? Love you both. God Bless Y'all ❤❤
announce your pregnancy when you feel you’re ready!! we will all be here to support you no matter what! love you guys❤️ best wishes!
We thank you for sharing everything that you have so far..while we can’t wait to hear the pregnancy announcement, I respect you waiting til you are 12 weeks! ❤️❤️