As much as women be on these videos for drama or clout you'd be lucky if I even talk back. Then she asking too many question. I'm trying to be on my best behavior take all that somewhere else.
It's not always a bad thing to start out broke together. We started out homeless and now 19 years later our house is paid off, we have a 2003 pickup and a 2009 Ford focus both in mint condition, low mileage, and very happy
That’s the issue certain women want men pre made house car stable income so all she has to do is get in. They don’t want to struggle they just want to get there. I’m hoping to run into a women who’s willing to build but my goals come first
Right? Most couples I know (including myself and my husband) started out in a cheap rented apartment, maybe with a couple of things their parents gave to get them started and they built up together over the years to have their own property, two cars etc.
He is not just a man, he is a Gentleman. This guy is honorable and honest. He doesn't front or flex. He tells it like it is. This is what an Alpha looks like.
@@YungCed it's basically smtng based off your actions and mind set like you don't get confidence because of the title you get the title because of the confidence but the entire thing is kinda toxic anyway
He's not an alpha he's a man. Alphas usually won't validation from people. He is focused on self improvement regardless of anyone else. That's just called being a man. The generalization of people is what limits us. Time to wake up folks.
I had a conversation about this with my wife. She told me that women are taught that they deserve the man they want. If he says no, it’s a contradiction of that teaching. So they literally think it’s wrong for a man to say no if he’s single. Luckily, my wife learned early on the at just because she likes someone doesn’t mean she can have him. Lead her to be very down to earth, which is what I love about her.
Thats interesting, but I think only very very attractive or very spoiled women are taught this, and I think they are taught this first by their fathers then by other men. Because I guarantee you, especially for very attractive women, 9/10 men will fall in line because of her attractiveness so she believes that's how all men will react. For your average woman, most will wait to be approached instead of doing the approaching. Women fear rejection even more than men because most of us are insecure af.
Stop lying. Women are not being taught this. Why doesn t she confront her parents about it? That time will never come i m sure. Women shoukd stop playing the victim like it s some unknown entities who conditionned them like that. Since little girl, women has the stupid and arrogant belief they deserve to be loved. Every kid have been feeling special by their parents yet only the girls keep that entitlement and narcissism
@@unlimited971 okay then how come all of these young girls knows how to trick man and deal with situation like this of course they have to be taught and train with experience. Trust me every girl specially young ones will do the same tricks and will say i learned it from a friend or mother/sisters.
If a man hears the woman say she has a man they keep it moving but a woman will still hang around looking creepy asking questions after he already told her no like a lil stalker 😂
Lol this literally just happened to me yesterday. I feel like ole girl was cap cause how you on the media talking about “going out on Valentine’s Day dinner for 1” but you got a man?
I have to tell men that I’m a lesbian because just telling them that I have a man doesn’t make them leave me alone. And even still they will say “that’s even better. Can I get your number?” Just happened yesterday
This is an honest self assessment that everyone should do instead of just laying baggage or whatever that may be detrimental to relationships onto another person and just hope something will EVENTUALLY be figured out.
Actually that's me well actually people don't say i'm attractive but will say i look like the type to have a healthy relationship with somebody or is married. Like if i'm with a girl and we are just hanging out just like that people will come to me and not her saying is this your wife.
Went to the club in SF with some homies, as soon as we walked onto the floor a group of girls looked over at us. I saw one take a shot as if to build the courage and walked over. She came directly to me, eye contact the entire way, grabbed my hand and whispered in my ear to follow her to the bathroom. She started to walk away while grabbing my hand, obviously for me to follow, I simply raised my hand over her head and spun her as if we were dancing, let her keep turning until she was facing away from me and let go of her hand. Kept walking walked on to the dance floor with my guys, her entire group busted out laughing at her. She just continued to the bathroom quickly by herself . That was the smoothest shit I ever done
@@BryanaTV lol random woman gets defensive over something that didn’t happen to her, is the fact that a woman was rejected so hard for your small mind to grasp?
@@BryanaTV lol random woman gets defensive over something that didn’t happen to her, is the fact that a woman was rejected so hard for your small mind to grasp?
When I was younger. A beautiful woman sat down next to me at a bar. She was asking me how I was doing and what I was doing here? I told her that I was just chilling and feeling the vibe here. She asked me about my job and life. I told her that my job was downsizing and that let me go. She asked me if I wanted to go back to her place so we could talk some more. I told her no, and I just wanted to finish my drink go home. I also told her that I was not in the right mind or state to be good company. She understood and paid for my next drink and kept it moving.
I have also been a subscriber to her channel. Shout out to her for being more attracted to his mindset and not just the surface BS. The more he displayed his focus on his purpose. The more she was attracted to him. Ladies pay attention!
I never had a woman I rejected do it with grace. I'm always nice and we would have a conversation just like the one in the video. They would always ask if I'm gay or I must be broke, or something to damage me. I had one woman try to fight me. All I said was "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested" and she full fight mode. I don't get it. Guys you can say no too, it's ok.
One time randomly in a training class that I was in for a new job..... One of the women just randomly asked me if I had a girlfriend.... I did.... She kind of just said "damn I got shut down again" and then went on grumbling about how men don't want good women LOL
These women think they have the power cuz they have the kittie. All he needed to say was "Sorry not interested? " and go on his day. No explanation needed. Be strong guys. Dont get into anything you dont feel like doing.
I remember hearing about a situation, where a man was approached by a woman, and was rejected. She stabbed him in the chest and the judge let her off because she was working towards being a "doctor". She dropped out of college 2 weeks later.
Tmk they were dating and she stabbed him multiple times. She apparently has a history of domestic assault. Judge let her go, she did drop out of college.
I rejected a girl on accident. I halfway knew this girl who was seeing a guy that was lightskin with dreads. I'm a darker brownskin guy with a low haircut. She told me one day, "I'm not sure why me and him are still together. He's really not even my type". I was like "oh wow, what's your type then?". She said "I like slim brownskin dudes with waves". Quite literally described me. And my innocent/oblivious-to-the-situation self said "really? He looks nothing like that at all". I didn't realize she was even trying to holler until like a month later.
Or like many other white girls that nobody thinks about is they just date black guys so they can say the N word trust me it happens and they'll try to act black to. I mean have you seen a white girl with a bunch of black girls before its mad how they change depending who they hang out with.
She was so adorable and she really was really devouring him with her eyes. She was the definition of she wanted just to eat that guy up like a snack. As for him it was great just to see a gentleman. He was polite and straight forward.
i mean when you have a phone and recording the situation then yha everyone will be on guard and think its a prank specially for some men who gets this weird random moment of a girl actually going up to him and ask him out
The woman I rejected I had asked out before. She said no, started flirting with other guys in front of me, so I just payed 0 attention to her. For months she tried to get my attention and I finally ask her to see a comedy show with friends, but she’d already derailed. She was too hot and young to know how to give the respect that she got, but she really did try. I felt bad that I wasn’t more understanding, but I can’t just let some things slide that easily.
She's cute, but dude is concentrating on himself so big up to him for putting that out like that and doing so in a kind, courteous way. She took it well, too. I've rejected many a female in bar scenarios for a variety of reasons: wasn't attracted, thought they were annoying, they were too drunk, I wasn't in a great place myself, etc. I'm not some model lookin' dude but vast majority of women I've been with were women that approached me. It happens more often than me approaching them, because I almost never do that personally 😅
I like that mentality because honestly I'm tired of approaching women. There are a good few that are interested in me but expect me to entertain them and all that noise. Then it becomes one sided while they barely engaging unless I start the convo first. That shit is aggravating and I had yet to find a woman that actually wants to initiate things with me more than I am willing with her. So I'm completely done with approaching and pursuing women unless they come to me first. 🤦🏿♂️
Been through the same scenario. A calm and focused mind often attracts people . Always important to build up some confidence and gain some self respect through working out and get yourself to a good job. Never let someone step on you , disrespect you and do decisions for you. That's a very unhealthy relationship scenario countless people have experienced. Never did much approaching when i was in my early 20s , i learned that harsh experience a few years prior to that. The moment you get more interested in her than the other way around, there's a risk that you will end up being used rather than loved.
lolol my man is career driven, but he didn’t want me slipping away lol he had started his career when we met , single, no kids, tall, attractive, with a full beard lol he was patient with me and i was with him, but rn we 6 yrs in the relationship and we both “stable” i guess , but we still waiting on the right time to get married and purchase a house because both of us are still not fully content with where we wanna be in life, everyone is different, some ppl need to be alone to focus and others don’t mind being with someone and working together to level up.. but this man did his best and i commend him for that, bcus he probably knows he can’t focus on a whole needy girl while his priorities are money and building a legacy. it’s important to take note as a woman, respect the man’s NO and be understanding that everyone is different.
This girl could have been a shining example how to handle a rejection smooth, instead she turned back into a 13-year-old... Scratch that, my 14-year-old daughter knows how to handle herself better than this one.
“Trust The Process” Not every black man is a “F” Boy. Is thoroughbred’s understand the Process, Focus, and Drive, which will always be desirable by women of any race. As men time is on our side, always make time to better oneself, and the woman will come. There is no fast tracking of this Process, and getting into a relationship before your Process is complete is downright selfish.
Last year I got hit up by an attractive woman. She was interested, but then right after she asked me she took a masculine frame and unsold me over her kids, her job, her ex husband, and her life. I turned her down.
I've honestly never rejected an attractive woman at a point in my life cause of what I've gone through personally and maybe I should've cause alot of them that I've been involved with ended up with terrible experiences. But seeing this was beautiful. I wish I had his maturity at the age I was at dealing with those women to figure myself out. This is a true gentleman right here and I love the way she handled herself. Maybe one day their paths will cross again and things will be different.
Either way could go bad for you. I've turned some women down in college when I was busy with classes. I regretted it later but remained cool with most of them. When they found out I was getting married things changed quickly though and had one lie on me saying I was still dating other girls. I had to drop everyone at that point and just focus on me and my relationship.
I understand where he's coming from 100%. I've turned down a lot of women because a relationship was not my priority at the moment. The craziest experience I've had in this situation was a woman started stalking me. I told her we can be friends, but nothing more. She couldn't understand it, lol. She was educated & attractive, but was not use to rejection 😁😁 For weeks I got random calls back to back, non stop. It ended with a crazy ass text message after all the calls were getting blocked. It didn't do anything but make me want to be single even longer, lol.
It's respectable that he's doin him 1st & focused on his career so he can have what he wants later on financial & relationship wise. I love how they had a real conversation & on both sides had a calm conversation. He's very level headed.
I ended up blocking her. Had a chick I did 3 dates. They all went well. Never kissed bc I knew where it would go. After this one date I go to her place to nap before getting on the road, thennn things happened. I regretted it told her and we agreed no more sex, which in turn made her want me more. She then showed herself to be disrespectful and started calling hours of the night she knew I was sleep. So since she didn't respect my time or sleep she got blocked.
I've rejected two girls that believe me were very attractive but for one of the incidents I was already taken and I'm not that kind of guy, the other I was kind of in the same boat as this dude where I was focused on other things in life. Neither of those women took it well. I got called vulgar forms of gay and then saying things like my man downstairs probably didn't work anyway, etc. Let's just say, I like beautiful women, but I dodged two bullets there. Wish I would've dodge a few more over the years! Haha
I just told this beautiful black woman that we should take a raincheck on our date tomorrow. She kept playing games with my words and I kept having to watch what I said when I spoke to her. So basically we aren't going to talk anymore after I told her that. Men should be willing to tell women no no matter how pretty they are. It was the playing games and the passive aggressive disrespect for me.
Being a nice guy doesn't attract the ladies...How I wish I'd known this in my rutting years..instead of in my 30s,being told "Treat them mean,keeps them keen"..I tried it,didn't reply to her texts,blanked her calls,then ignored her knocking on the door..Within 24hrs,her whole attitude toward me changed,we spoke without her resorting to shouting,we now talk,like grown ups,,she's finally realised using sex as a bargaining chip can backfire,and using your chooch to get that Mercedes,may be modern,but it's not very classy..
Yeah you actually don't need to manipulate her with the toxic mind games too,don't be too nice don't be bad either just be a man who focuses on himself,that'll get her pants wet
"Why are you single?" That question would definitely trigger a lady if the roles were reversed. "You don't have time for a man in your life?" - "I don't need a man!" "You don't think you might miss out on the right guy?" - "I'm just trying to find someone." "You have kids?" - "Not every woman wants children." Sticking her tongue out and everything. This whole conversation would be perceived as creepy.
So I have lived in China for the past 18 years. I do different things to get my hustle on. One thing that I did a few years ago was to buy a massage chair and a massage table. I had a niche business as I made house calls and with each massage I brought a small bottle of wine for the client and played relaxing meditation music and burnt incensce. 95% of my clients were women and at least half of those women would ask for a "happy endong". I know, most men would think that this is a good thing, but it wasn't. 1) This was my business that I was seriously trying to do and I didn't want that kind of reputation with my business. 2) I live in a somewhat small city and gossip runs through like tap water. 3) It felt dirty and I felt like a prostitue being offered money. I rejected these women and never heard back or had repeat service once I rejected their offer. Most were embarrassed and like I said this isn't a big city, so I would run into them on the street or in social gatherings. Long story short, I had ot stop doing massage because these women couldn't handle rejection and it was awkward, especially if I got referrals.
I've always been like this only difference is we still had sex and become friends. I rejected relationships because I wouldn't have time for them. I was chasing the bag all day. They loved the honesty.
I got like one or two and it was at the mall, she tried to get my mask to use the bathroom(note: she was with her girls tho) as a conversation starter and she was sad about the rejection but she understood. She prolly took it a bit secretly hard tho because i could tell she wasnt used to coming up to people. I'm focusing on myself and just vibing rn, cooling with everyone
Look at how much time she is spending with him!! This is the problem.. they chase unavailable dudes and why they go hard dude feel obligated and it turns into a TOIXC RELATIONSHIP!!
It’s not the fact he rejected her that made him attractive, it’s how he conducts himself as a person. He was a gentleman the entire time. He was honest and straightforward without being rude. Plus it’s showing that he values his time as well as anyone he may involve himself with so as not to mislead. Also, the women are beautiful. Everyone seemed to handle this in a mature fashion.
First off, he is an attractive gentleman and very honest about his situation. Nothing but respect for him. He knows he's not ready for or into getting with a woman just for a conquest so he doesn't go there. He wasn't rude or disrespectful. Nothing but respect for him.
Yha and that's okay patient is key lots of people rush in and then leave mistakes in the front. He will have a good healthy relationship wants he decides to start dating
She's a dating coach too lol I follow her channel cause she has cool content. Claims she wasn't flirting in that video tho 🤷🏾♂️ allegedly just inquiring and making conversation for content.
I had a similar situation but when I wasnt interested she then went and told people I had to be gay bcuz something to ing had to be wrong with me not wanting to get to know her
Few weeks ago i had to break up with my gf because of my career, financial, and life changes, which mentally drained me brought lack of time with her. Recently i had a mgmt job which i wanted and told her , that as of now, I know i dont have the time due to the new role and needed to take short break. She took it so bad, she started bringing up bad decisions that was made in our relationship, which i was at fault, and brought up her child( from another brotha) into the pity mix and it made me realize i made the right decision and made me not want to go back to the relationship.
The other dudes around was looking at her thinking mad respect for that gal in the black dress. She shot her shot and handled it with grace and ease. That's a rare women, with courage, and grace like that TBH. Most are cowards and die alone lol.
That's a UltraChad. The evolved form a Gigachad. This type of Chad is has access to the flow state where he focuses solely on himself until he is ready for anything serious. The Chad is super rare.
I wish more men and women would wait until they are really ready to be in relationships before they start one. It seems like some people just can’t be alone. It’s like they always have to be with someone and I’ve never understood that.
She not thirsty she’s just shooting her shot. Men don’t see this often so I guess that’s why she’s deemed thirsty. We need more women with her confidence
After my first husband and I split up I met an amazing man we got engaged and I broke it off with him and I did it a horrible way but I told him if you're still around when I get my head straight I would like to be together never in a million years that I think that man would have been single again because he's such an amazing man well I am now married to him 12 years and we have a son together he's the love of my life
was an assitant mngr and another assistant mngr (female) had obvious attraction for me. our boss and employees under us commented before i ever addressed things even with comments like "so when are you going to ask her out?" and "are you thinking about taking her up on her signals?" . so one night it is just me and her closing up and i finally address it. tell her i appreciate the underlying compliment but i will not go out with her till i get to know her a bit better. reassuring her that she was quite good looking. i was maybe 24 to 27 she was maybe 20 to 21 (at least off what i knew then) and she had just started college at TSU which was almost right next door to work. right after that she starts skacking in her work duties, each mngr had assigned duties and she immediately (next day or so) stopped even trying to do her part leaving me and our boss to pick up the slack. a week or so later she came into work late explaining she was in the ER all night due to complications from "the clap". (man did i dodge a bullet there) found out years later (ran into one of those working under us mngrs after we both were long gone from that company) that she was not anything of who she claimed to be. she had faked her identity, faked where she lived (me and others had given her rides to and from work) and stole a day's worth of deposits by running off with them after closing and last i heard had yet to be found and caught by law enforcement. that was when i knew just how big of a bullet i had dodged by being honest and preffering to know her more before attempting to date her.
I talked to a friend that I knew from high school band--we were in the same trumpet section. Back then, I was pretty chill with her and just saw her as a casual friend, nothing more honestly. A couple of years after graduating, she hits me up again during a time when I was trying to get my academics back together (since the college I went to really screwed them up from being way too fast-paced) and getting myself right in general. She was talking to me about her life and past relationships and stuff. Again--still saw her as a friend, and I was focused on studies. Out of nowhere one day, she sends a whole pair of nudes of herself after she had supposedly worked out and told me she's just comfortable in her skin. I really wasn't expecting or really wanted any of that, so I really didn't have much to say right then and there. In fact, I was kinda turned off... I wasn't into her like that. So I distanced, and she kept messaging... didn't respond all that much. Later in time, when I went to a different college, I found out from a couple of guys I really knew well that she talked with them too---one of whom was one of her exes, who told me she was crazy... which I detected even a bit before she sent me those pictures. That's how me and him really bonded. From that point onward, I turned away her attempts and blocked all her profiles she made trying to get to me.
She sent them to try to get your attention. Men will say anything about a woman. Don’t ever let someone else’s view of a woman determine your view of them. That’s child behavior
I had a guy reject me ... I was feeling this guy for awhile and he had a reputation for being a total asswhole but I could see more in him. I knew there was more to him than that...so one day to took my shot and told him how I felt and to no surprise he rejected me ...but he did it in the kindest way possible..he really let me down easy as possible....yea I was sad but I was OK. The friendship stayed the same he didn't blow me off or any thing ...so his asshole mask will just be our secret.
I remember when I was 17 It's years old and I got asked out on a date by my sister's twelve-year-old friend and I just gently told her that I was too old for her and she should fine someone her own age. That was one of the weirdest rejections that I ever had to give. I felt very uncomfortable after she asked me that and then I went to my sister and mom what happened.
Now that's what you called a man with a mission. I work at bars, clubs, and different events as a bouncer. I get hit on all time the by women, last night was the Grown&Sexy event, two ladies grabbed my arm, and started a conversation with me. But like always I kept it short and walked away, I just believe work is work and you don't mix pleasure with work🤷🏿♂️I'm there for a check, not cheeks 😂 I usually keep to myself, and speak when I'm spoken to. I guess that's why they approach me. Great video 👏🏿💪🏿
He did everything the correct way, it's not about rejecting someone but how you do it, some women may get mad and talk smack, some may want more information and be inquisitive, but it's always good to be straight forward and not a jack ass because you work 60+ hours a week and you don't want to turn a woman into a cheater because you truly work to much, so everyone should take notes and always make a friend instead of an ass out of their self , be kind to everyone and any one who tries to shoot their shot!
He was very respectful. I didn't like how one of the first words out of her month was that he was scared. Homeboy here is a great example to keep your money up and stay focused.💯🧐🎩👌😎
Feels like it was staged, but its something I have noticed with a lot of women. If a woman shoots her shot at a guy, unless he downplays himself, says he has issues or problems or other focuses in his life right now where he would make a woman's life worse, he's often shamed for choosing not to show interest in a girl who is interested in him. If a man's reasons for being single boils down to him simply enjoying being alone, valuing a life of freedom and less responsibility, lack of attraction to the woman in said situation, lack of desire for a family or partner, he's more often times than not, shamed for his decision and he's insulted and viewed as "less than a man" by many women, with very fragile egos. Not all women, but it happens far too often and its not cool. I say, whatever a person's reason is for not wanting to date you, ask you out, reciprocate your feelings, accept them in the moment, take that L, and move onto the next person. There's a reason there is 8 billion people on this planet. As long as you keep your options grounded in reality and look for options that are *Plausible* not just possible, then you'll find someone sooner or later.
I read several news headline where men have beaten and killed women that reject them and the women aren't disrespectful. But i have never heard of someone being shamed for not wanting a relationship when they had other priorities.
@@SuperTruthful Not sure why you believe we live in a world where anything bad that happens to a man triumphs over anything that happens to women..... buuuuuuuuut did you just compare women getting annoyed and passive aggressively shaming men for not finding them attractive.... to domestic violence and abuse? Did you seriously just put those two categories on the same level of comparison? Like this video, I know this comment has to be fudged because there is no way you're *THAT* utterly stupid. lol
@@Netherwolf6100 I'm pretty sure the point was, the behavior the OP mentions happens to women, a lot and and the reactions by men are at times more than just disrespectful, they can be downright scary and violent. It's not ok for anyone to react this way disrespectfully or violently, and its interesting to hear that now that more women make the approach men have to deal with the negative reactions as well.
I wouldn’t even have considered this a rejection. The way he spoke and his reasoning for why he feels the way he feels, I’d have been impressed, honestly. Impressed that he was straight forward and honest and it was clear that he has personal goals to fulfill before dedicating his time and energy to a potential girlfriend. She should’ve wished him the best and not be offended or angry. (Not saying she was, but it doesn’t get more real than how he addressed all her questions)
I rejected a lot of them, and still is just because I like being alone honestly. But, they would give you a fight and try hard because you rejected them.
Mine was a disaster, it was this overweight white colleague who was my subordinate. I mean that is a harassment case just waiting to happen. Then on top of that, she wasn't my type. Turned out to be a whole drama, fortunately I got promoted out of that work space in about 2 months after her shot.
Shot my shot before. One time the guy gave me a fake number 🤣 I was so confused because we were having good conversation. But at least I didn't let it deter me
Nowhere near at this dude’s level, but I do get women give me the window and I see the disappointment when I don’t climb through it. Just last week I had this woman keep asking me questions just to keep me there. Then she gave me this look like she was confused at me. In a bubble, it looked like she recognized me, but couldn’t place my face. But the entire situation seemed like she was waiting on me to do something. Question, answer, pause 3x, then confused disappointment.
Before all of this covid hit i had a cute lady constantly ask me questions about sports. She asked if i liked sports. Later she said she likes to watch sports. I was thinking In the back of my head that she thought i was a football player or something. I could tell she was physically attracted to me because of how her eyes lit up when I awnsered her questions. But i think she got the picture that her conversation wasn't really going anywhere. I was hoping she would take it somewhere besides sports lol. But she definitely wanted to hold me there. As she got into a frate elevator with me, and was eager to ride down with me. I must have ended up not being what she was looking for though since i didn't share her same interests on sports. Lol and i never got the same attention from her after that.
Hmm idk how I feel about this. After the guy said he wasn't interested in looking for a girl, why did she keep asking him questions though. If she was shooting her shot after the initial no, it should be considered harassment? If a guy did this it would be viewed as such, or am I wrong?
I wouldn’t really call it a rejection. He was just more so focused on his future. He never really said he wouldn’t talk to her if he had time. I expected it to be a lot worse.
Honestly. I would have gotten turned off by that questioning as well. Don't go and put people on the spot like that if you're the one going up to someone. "You're attractive." "Thanks.." "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?" I'd be thinking, "What's wrong with her?" and think she's annoying regardless how she looks.
Not gonna lie, if a woman approached me and ' shot her shot' while filming, I wouldn't even take her seriously.
Exactly, I would be thinking this is a prank video or something.
As much as women be on these videos for drama or clout you'd be lucky if I even talk back. Then she asking too many question. I'm trying to be on my best behavior take all that somewhere else.
Plus SHE didn't shoot her shot. Her gaggle shot a shot.
Yeah I def would have thought she was fuckin with me
Exactly, if you were recording I'm gonna tell you to f off because I don't do social media and that tells me immediately that we don't mix
It's not always a bad thing to start out broke together. We started out homeless and now 19 years later our house is paid off, we have a 2003 pickup and a 2009 Ford focus both in mint condition, low mileage, and very happy
There's a lot women that won't give you the time if you're broke. That's not a option for a lot of people
That’s the issue certain women want men pre made house car stable income so all she has to do is get in. They don’t want to struggle they just want to get there. I’m hoping to run into a women who’s willing to build but my goals come first
Right? Most couples I know (including myself and my husband) started out in a cheap rented apartment, maybe with a couple of things their parents gave to get them started and they built up together over the years to have their own property, two cars etc.
@@warpedreflection3650 that’s my dream
Congratulations!!! Same here. I met my husband at a wedding, we were both broke. That was 26 years ago and still going strong 😁
He is not just a man, he is a Gentleman. This guy is honorable and honest. He doesn't front or flex. He tells it like it is. This is what an Alpha looks like.
If you need a title to be confident in yourself SMH I'll never get the Alpha beta thing
@@YungCed it's basically smtng based off your actions and mind set like you don't get confidence because of the title you get the title because of the confidence but the entire thing is kinda toxic anyway
He's not an alpha he's a man. Alphas usually won't validation from people. He is focused on self improvement regardless of anyone else. That's just called being a man. The generalization of people is what limits us. Time to wake up folks.
This guy is just level headed and composed. If you want to see an alpha go to Arlington National Cemetery or watch a medal of honor ceremony.
@@YungCed it's not a title it's a description of your personality I don't go around asking people to call me Alpha Dave
I had a conversation about this with my wife. She told me that women are taught that they deserve the man they want. If he says no, it’s a contradiction of that teaching. So they literally think it’s wrong for a man to say no if he’s single. Luckily, my wife learned early on the at just because she likes someone doesn’t mean she can have him. Lead her to be very down to earth, which is what I love about her.
Thats interesting, but I think only very very attractive or very spoiled women are taught this, and I think they are taught this first by their fathers then by other men. Because I guarantee you, especially for very attractive women, 9/10 men will fall in line because of her attractiveness so she believes that's how all men will react. For your average woman, most will wait to be approached instead of doing the approaching. Women fear rejection even more than men because most of us are insecure af.
Stop lying. Women are not being taught this. Why doesn t she confront her parents about it? That time will never come i m sure. Women shoukd stop playing the victim like it s some unknown entities who conditionned them like that. Since little girl, women has the stupid and arrogant belief they deserve to be loved. Every kid have been feeling special by their parents yet only the girls keep that entitlement and narcissism
@@unlimited971 okay then how come all of these young girls knows how to trick man and deal with situation like this of course they have to be taught and train with experience. Trust me every girl specially young ones will do the same tricks and will say i learned it from a friend or mother/sisters.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 you are talking zbout learning to manipulate. I was tzlking about being taught to be entitled.
"deserve"
She's looking at him like "Man you are a tall, refreshing glass of water and I need a drink." 😂
she gone continue being thirsty cuz his tap ain't running right now.
@@SuperTruthful His tap is busy watering the crops
@@jontest5718 His crops.
If a man hears the woman say she has a man they keep it moving but a woman will still hang around looking creepy asking questions after he already told her no like a lil stalker 😂
Lol this literally just happened to me yesterday. I feel like ole girl was cap cause how you on the media talking about “going out on Valentine’s Day dinner for 1” but you got a man?
Men still hang around too. The favorite line is usually " you can still have friends, can't you?"
@@NODE1975 F'boys do that. Men don't do that.
@@menopillion9853 Simps do that.
I have to tell men that I’m a lesbian because just telling them that I have a man doesn’t make them leave me alone. And even still they will say “that’s even better. Can I get your number?” Just happened yesterday
This is an honest self assessment that everyone should do instead of just laying baggage or whatever that may be detrimental to relationships onto another person and just hope something will EVENTUALLY be figured out.
"You're attractive why are you single?" 10/10 flirting lmfao
Actually that's me well actually people don't say i'm attractive but will say i look like the type to have a healthy relationship with somebody or is married. Like if i'm with a girl and we are just hanging out just like that people will come to me and not her saying is this your wife.
Dude, someone asked me that but I took offence to it bcuz they’re were insisting I was gay rather than listening to me when I said I’m career focus
Went to the club in SF with some homies, as soon as we walked onto the floor a group of girls looked over at us. I saw one take a shot as if to build the courage and walked over. She came directly to me, eye contact the entire way, grabbed my hand and whispered in my ear to follow her to the bathroom. She started to walk away while grabbing my hand, obviously for me to follow, I simply raised my hand over her head and spun her as if we were dancing, let her keep turning until she was facing away from me and let go of her hand. Kept walking walked on to the dance floor with my guys, her entire group busted out laughing at her. She just continued to the bathroom quickly by herself . That was the smoothest shit I ever done
Uhhhh....🥱
And the entire club starting clapping
@@runwitvision47 take a nap bro, you tired
@@BryanaTV lol random woman gets defensive over something that didn’t happen to her, is the fact that a woman was rejected so hard for your small mind to grasp?
@@BryanaTV lol random woman gets defensive over something that didn’t happen to her, is the fact that a woman was rejected so hard for your small mind to grasp?
When I was younger. A beautiful woman sat down next to me at a bar. She was asking me how I was doing and what I was doing here? I told her that I was just chilling and feeling the vibe here. She asked me about my job and life. I told her that my job was downsizing and that let me go. She asked me if I wanted to go back to her place so we could talk some more. I told her no, and I just wanted to finish my drink go home. I also told her that I was not in the right mind or state to be good company. She understood and paid for my next drink and kept it moving.
I have also been a subscriber to her channel. Shout out to her for being more attracted to his mindset and not just the surface BS. The more he displayed his focus on his purpose. The more she was attracted to him. Ladies pay attention!
No, men pay attention.
Yeah that's Meli Molcano I think. She's french. I'm a subscriber to her channel also.
I never had a woman I rejected do it with grace. I'm always nice and we would have a conversation just like the one in the video. They would always ask if I'm gay or I must be broke, or something to damage me. I had one woman try to fight me. All I said was "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested" and she full fight mode. I don't get it. Guys you can say no too, it's ok.
When it comes to rejection women are not good at handling it.
@@toxicg6710 at all😂
One woman I worked with asked me if I was gay because I wasn't paying her any real attention.
That’s pretty toxic on there behalf assuming things about u, fuck man.. jail time lol for them
She was arrested for assault 🤣🤣
One time randomly in a training class that I was in for a new job..... One of the women just randomly asked me if I had a girlfriend.... I did.... She kind of just said "damn I got shut down again" and then went on grumbling about how men don't want good women LOL
These women think they have the power cuz they have the kittie.
All he needed to say was
"Sorry not interested? "
and go on his day.
No explanation needed.
Be strong guys.
Dont get into anything you dont feel like doing.
Men fully control dating interaction. 98% of women would be single if men didn't approach them. Intimate relations is 50/50 though.
I remember hearing about a situation, where a man was approached by a woman, and was rejected.
She stabbed him in the chest and the judge let her off because she was working towards being a "doctor".
She dropped out of college 2 weeks later.
i beg your pardon? 🤨 i beg your pardon?
@@C_The_Guy Yeah...
Tmk they were dating and she stabbed him multiple times. She apparently has a history of domestic assault. Judge let her go, she did drop out of college.
All cause she's a women i hope they at least put a restraining order on her as i hope that guy is safe from her killing streak.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 He died.
Every time I rejected a beautiful woman they kind of act as if i am a homosexual
I'm gonna start saying " if u reject men, then perhaps u are lesbian" if I get hit with this.
Same bro. What happened to no means no right?🤣
It’s weird
Same
Women can't take rejection. They aren't built for it. Pet, build yourself up for it. Not every man you throw the cat at wants it.
I rejected a girl on accident. I halfway knew this girl who was seeing a guy that was lightskin with dreads. I'm a darker brownskin guy with a low haircut. She told me one day, "I'm not sure why me and him are still together. He's really not even my type". I was like "oh wow, what's your type then?". She said "I like slim brownskin dudes with waves". Quite literally described me. And my innocent/oblivious-to-the-situation self said "really? He looks nothing like that at all". I didn't realize she was even trying to holler until like a month later.
😂 gotta be the worst feeling
Or like many other white girls that nobody thinks about is they just date black guys so they can say the N word trust me it happens and they'll try to act black to. I mean have you seen a white girl with a bunch of black girls before its mad how they change depending who they hang out with.
You did the right thing She for the streets
You did right. She wouldn’t have been loyal to you either
She was so adorable and she really was really devouring him with her eyes. She was the definition of she wanted just to eat that guy up like a snack. As for him it was great just to see a gentleman. He was polite and straight forward.
i mean when you have a phone and recording the situation then yha everyone will be on guard and think its a prank specially for some men who gets this weird random moment of a girl actually going up to him and ask him out
She wants his money. SMH. You’re just as blind. She’s sees him as money not love.
I really like the way this man presents himself, a nice well spoken dude 👍🏽 a lot to learn here
The woman I rejected I had asked out before. She said no, started flirting with other guys in front of me, so I just payed 0 attention to her. For months she tried to get my attention and I finally ask her to see a comedy show with friends, but she’d already derailed. She was too hot and young to know how to give the respect that she got, but she really did try. I felt bad that I wasn’t more understanding, but I can’t just let some things slide that easily.
yep that's how you get them make them think how to get your attention and you don't give a damn. Its a young people's mind games
She's cute, but dude is concentrating on himself so big up to him for putting that out like that and doing so in a kind, courteous way. She took it well, too.
I've rejected many a female in bar scenarios for a variety of reasons: wasn't attracted, thought they were annoying, they were too drunk, I wasn't in a great place myself, etc. I'm not some model lookin' dude but vast majority of women I've been with were women that approached me. It happens more often than me approaching them, because I almost never do that personally 😅
I like that mentality because honestly I'm tired of approaching women. There are a good few that are interested in me but expect me to entertain them and all that noise. Then it becomes one sided while they barely engaging unless I start the convo first.
That shit is aggravating and I had yet to find a woman that actually wants to initiate things with me more than I am willing with her.
So I'm completely done with approaching and pursuing women unless they come to me first. 🤦🏿♂️
Been through the same scenario. A calm and focused mind often attracts people . Always important to build up some confidence and gain some self respect through working out and get yourself to a good job. Never let someone step on you , disrespect you and do decisions for you. That's a very unhealthy relationship scenario countless people have experienced.
Never did much approaching when i was in my early 20s , i learned that harsh experience a few years prior to that. The moment you get more interested in her than the other way around, there's a risk that you will end up being used rather than loved.
Melli Monaco shooting her shot. She got rejected but the guy was kind and honest about turning her down.
Bright intelligent young man staying on his game. Bravo
difference is that he is entertaining her with his story most women will avoid any conversation and just wall up respect for this guy chasing his bag
lolol my man is career driven, but he didn’t want me slipping away lol he had started his career when we met , single, no kids, tall, attractive, with a full beard lol he was patient with me and i was with him, but rn we 6 yrs in the relationship and we both “stable” i guess , but we still waiting on the right time to get married and purchase a house because both of us are still not fully content with where we wanna be in life, everyone is different, some ppl need to be alone to focus and others don’t mind being with someone and working together to level up.. but this man did his best and i commend him for that, bcus he probably knows he can’t focus on a whole needy girl while his priorities are money and building a legacy. it’s important to take note as a woman, respect the man’s NO and be understanding that everyone is different.
He handled that perfectly 👏👏👏
This girl could have been a shining example how to handle a rejection smooth, instead she turned back into a 13-year-old...
Scratch that, my 14-year-old daughter knows how to handle herself better than this one.
She hovered like the kid that was told no but kept on asking for a cookie. At least she didn't become belligerent.
“Trust The Process” Not every black man is a “F” Boy. Is thoroughbred’s understand the Process, Focus, and Drive, which will always be desirable by women of any race. As men time is on our side, always make time to better oneself, and the woman will come. There is no fast tracking of this Process, and getting into a relationship before your Process is complete is downright selfish.
Last year I got hit up by an attractive woman. She was interested, but then right after she asked me she took a masculine frame and unsold me over her kids, her job, her ex husband, and her life. I turned her down.
It's so unfortunate that most men, including me when I was younger, don't think this way.
I've honestly never rejected an attractive woman at a point in my life cause of what I've gone through personally and maybe I should've cause alot of them that I've been involved with ended up with terrible experiences. But seeing this was beautiful. I wish I had his maturity at the age I was at dealing with those women to figure myself out. This is a true gentleman right here and I love the way she handled herself. Maybe one day their paths will cross again and things will be different.
Either way could go bad for you. I've turned some women down in college when I was busy with classes. I regretted it later but remained cool with most of them. When they found out I was getting married things changed quickly though and had one lie on me saying I was still dating other girls. I had to drop everyone at that point and just focus on me and my relationship.
and if the scene was reversed, he be a creeper
I'd like to see a tv show called "If a man had done that...!"
@@heedmywarning2792 Me too!!
@@heedmywarning2792 it’s so much content being given for it
Yes, because "no means no" only goes one way. Yay feminism, boo.
The girl I rejected called my friend and my dad to ask if they can get me to change my mind 😂
That's hilarious. It's like "no" means "yes" to them.
PLSSS 😂😂😂😂
I understand where he's coming from 100%. I've turned down a lot of women because a relationship was not my priority at the moment. The craziest experience I've had in this situation was a woman started stalking me. I told her we can be friends, but nothing more. She couldn't understand it, lol. She was educated & attractive, but was not use to rejection 😁😁 For weeks I got random calls back to back, non stop. It ended with a crazy ass text message after all the calls were getting blocked. It didn't do anything but make me want to be single even longer, lol.
It's respectable that he's doin him 1st & focused on his career so he can have what he wants later on financial & relationship wise. I love how they had a real conversation & on both sides had a calm conversation. He's very level headed.
It’s about how He turned her down. He wasn’t disrespectful, annoyed etc. Can’t say it would have been the same the other way around
I ended up blocking her. Had a chick I did 3 dates. They all went well. Never kissed bc I knew where it would go. After this one date I go to her place to nap before getting on the road, thennn things happened. I regretted it told her and we agreed no more sex, which in turn made her want me more. She then showed herself to be disrespectful and started calling hours of the night she knew I was sleep. So since she didn't respect my time or sleep she got blocked.
You went on a date with her?
@@robertpitts8161 he's jusy on about some random chick
My parents hate me because I’m a massive stoner that smokes weed on my TH-cam channel & i dropped out of school.. Your life can’t be worse than mine😩
Weird story. Why would u date a chick but not smash til the 3rd date. I sense some beta energy from you
@@shroud4269 🤣🤣🤣 beta energy explain the beta in that and who said I paid for dates goofy....
I've rejected two girls that believe me were very attractive but for one of the incidents I was already taken and I'm not that kind of guy, the other I was kind of in the same boat as this dude where I was focused on other things in life. Neither of those women took it well. I got called vulgar forms of gay and then saying things like my man downstairs probably didn't work anyway, etc. Let's just say, I like beautiful women, but I dodged two bullets there. Wish I would've dodge a few more over the years! Haha
I just told this beautiful black woman that we should take a raincheck on our date tomorrow. She kept playing games with my words and I kept having to watch what I said when I spoke to her. So basically we aren't going to talk anymore after I told her that. Men should be willing to tell women no no matter how pretty they are. It was the playing games and the passive aggressive disrespect for me.
Melli was like “please shut up friend, I want to take to the guy”
I totally respect the young mans honesty while he is talking to the young woman. He's a good man with very good morals.
Being a nice guy doesn't attract the ladies...How I wish I'd known this in my rutting years..instead of in my 30s,being told "Treat them mean,keeps them keen"..I tried it,didn't reply to her texts,blanked her calls,then ignored her knocking on the door..Within 24hrs,her whole attitude toward me changed,we spoke without her resorting to shouting,we now talk,like grown ups,,she's finally realised using sex as a bargaining chip can backfire,and using your chooch to get that Mercedes,may be modern,but it's not very classy..
Something to gain, is always more alluring, than something to lose.
Learned this at 18 I'm 22 now. I plan to utilize this knowledge well.
the 10,000 simps that be in Meli’s comments saying “😍” everyday could learn a lesson or two from the dude. relax, be cool, and stop being thirsty.
Yeah you actually don't need to manipulate her with the toxic mind games too,don't be too nice don't be bad either just be a man who focuses on himself,that'll get her pants wet
"Why are you single?" That question would definitely trigger a lady if the roles were reversed.
"You don't have time for a man in your life?"
- "I don't need a man!"
"You don't think you might miss out on the right guy?"
- "I'm just trying to find someone."
"You have kids?"
- "Not every woman wants children."
Sticking her tongue out and everything. This whole conversation would be perceived as creepy.
The dudes got his head on and so does the woman too. Normally after rejection women will call you all types of names...
Because you bring them back to reality
When your ego get crush
You start to face denial
Man. Going through this is rough for her but he did a good job.
So I have lived in China for the past 18 years. I do different things to get my hustle on. One thing that I did a few years ago was to buy a massage chair and a massage table. I had a niche business as I made house calls and with each massage I brought a small bottle of wine for the client and played relaxing meditation music and burnt incensce. 95% of my clients were women and at least half of those women would ask for a "happy endong". I know, most men would think that this is a good thing, but it wasn't. 1) This was my business that I was seriously trying to do and I didn't want that kind of reputation with my business. 2) I live in a somewhat small city and gossip runs through like tap water. 3) It felt dirty and I felt like a prostitue being offered money. I rejected these women and never heard back or had repeat service once I rejected their offer. Most were embarrassed and like I said this isn't a big city, so I would run into them on the street or in social gatherings. Long story short, I had ot stop doing massage because these women couldn't handle rejection and it was awkward, especially if I got referrals.
Her friend was hella sceptical about this dude. Lol Handled like a gentlemen. Hats off to you sir.
I've always been like this only difference is we still had sex and become friends. I rejected relationships because I wouldn't have time for them. I was chasing the bag all day. They loved the honesty.
She tryna get her “cup” filled 😂😂
I got like one or two and it was at the mall, she tried to get my mask to use the bathroom(note: she was with her girls tho) as a conversation starter and she was sad about the rejection but she understood. She prolly took it a bit secretly hard tho because i could tell she wasnt used to coming up to people.
I'm focusing on myself and just vibing rn, cooling with everyone
Look at how much time she is spending with him!! This is the problem.. they chase unavailable dudes and why they go hard dude feel obligated and it turns into a TOIXC RELATIONSHIP!!
It’s how they work emotionally unavailable people seek after other emotionally unavailable people. Yes it becomes toxic
It’s not the fact he rejected her that made him attractive, it’s how he conducts himself as a person. He was a gentleman the entire time. He was honest and straightforward without being rude. Plus it’s showing that he values his time as well as anyone he may involve himself with so as not to mislead. Also, the women are beautiful. Everyone seemed to handle this in a mature fashion.
First off, he is an attractive gentleman and very honest about his situation. Nothing but respect for him. He knows he's not ready for or into getting with a woman just for a conquest so he doesn't go there. He wasn't rude or disrespectful. Nothing but respect for him.
Yha and that's okay patient is key lots of people rush in and then leave mistakes in the front. He will have a good healthy relationship wants he decides to start dating
She's a dating coach too lol I follow her channel cause she has cool content. Claims she wasn't flirting in that video tho 🤷🏾♂️ allegedly just inquiring and making conversation for content.
Melli Monaco
She is literally eating that man with her eyes
Ofcourse she is gonna say she wasn't flirting because she got a sweet rejection
Here we go another person claiming to be fake
I had a similar situation but when I wasnt interested she then went and told people I had to be gay bcuz something to ing had to be wrong with me not wanting to get to know her
Few weeks ago i had to break up with my gf because of my career, financial, and life changes, which mentally drained me brought lack of time with her. Recently i had a mgmt job which i wanted and told her , that as of now, I know i dont have the time due to the new role and needed to take short break.
She took it so bad, she started bringing up bad decisions that was made in our relationship, which i was at fault, and brought up her child( from another brotha) into the pity mix and it made me realize i made the right decision and made me not want to go back to the relationship.
The other dudes around was looking at her thinking mad respect for that gal in the black dress. She shot her shot and handled it with grace and ease. That's a rare women, with courage, and grace like that TBH. Most are cowards and die alone lol.
That's a UltraChad. The evolved form a Gigachad. This type of Chad is has access to the flow state where he focuses solely on himself until he is ready for anything serious. The Chad is super rare.
She pretended like she didn’t know me
I wish more men and women would wait until they are really ready to be in relationships before they start one. It seems like some people just can’t be alone. It’s like they always have to be with someone and I’ve never understood that.
She not thirsty she’s just shooting her shot. Men don’t see this often so I guess that’s why she’s deemed thirsty. We need more women with her confidence
After my first husband and I split up I met an amazing man we got engaged and I broke it off with him and I did it a horrible way but I told him if you're still around when I get my head straight I would like to be together never in a million years that I think that man would have been single again because he's such an amazing man well I am now married to him 12 years and we have a son together he's the love of my life
She wants him more now.. forever fascinated with him
Yessir
Sometimes it takes a life time and several failed relationships to finally find the person who you are supposed to be with for the rest of your life
was an assitant mngr and another assistant mngr (female) had obvious attraction for me. our boss and employees under us commented before i ever addressed things even with comments like "so when are you going to ask her out?" and "are you thinking about taking her up on her signals?" . so one night it is just me and her closing up and i finally address it. tell her i appreciate the underlying compliment but i will not go out with her till i get to know her a bit better. reassuring her that she was quite good looking. i was maybe 24 to 27 she was maybe 20 to 21 (at least off what i knew then) and she had just started college at TSU which was almost right next door to work. right after that she starts skacking in her work duties, each mngr had assigned duties and she immediately (next day or so) stopped even trying to do her part leaving me and our boss to pick up the slack. a week or so later she came into work late explaining she was in the ER all night due to complications from "the clap". (man did i dodge a bullet there) found out years later (ran into one of those working under us mngrs after we both were long gone from that company) that she was not anything of who she claimed to be. she had faked her identity, faked where she lived (me and others had given her rides to and from work) and stole a day's worth of deposits by running off with them after closing and last i heard had yet to be found and caught by law enforcement. that was when i knew just how big of a bullet i had dodged by being honest and preffering to know her more before attempting to date her.
Last time I did that I got called gay smh 🤦🏿♂️
Yup, most can't handle rejection.
@@menopillion9853 at all the entitlement is real
Props to her for still uploading it
I really enjoy watching these videos Art, keep up the great work!!!!
Eeemooootionalll damage in my Asian voice
I talked to a friend that I knew from high school band--we were in the same trumpet section. Back then, I was pretty chill with her and just saw her as a casual friend, nothing more honestly. A couple of years after graduating, she hits me up again during a time when I was trying to get my academics back together (since the college I went to really screwed them up from being way too fast-paced) and getting myself right in general. She was talking to me about her life and past relationships and stuff. Again--still saw her as a friend, and I was focused on studies. Out of nowhere one day, she sends a whole pair of nudes of herself after she had supposedly worked out and told me she's just comfortable in her skin. I really wasn't expecting or really wanted any of that, so I really didn't have much to say right then and there. In fact, I was kinda turned off... I wasn't into her like that. So I distanced, and she kept messaging... didn't respond all that much.
Later in time, when I went to a different college, I found out from a couple of guys I really knew well that she talked with them too---one of whom was one of her exes, who told me she was crazy... which I detected even a bit before she sent me those pictures. That's how me and him really bonded. From that point onward, I turned away her attempts and blocked all her profiles she made trying to get to me.
She sent them to try to get your attention. Men will say anything about a woman. Don’t ever let someone else’s view of a woman determine your view of them. That’s child behavior
I had a guy reject me ... I was feeling this guy for awhile and he had a reputation for being a total asswhole but I could see more in him. I knew there was more to him than that...so one day to took my shot and told him how I felt and to no surprise he rejected me ...but he did it in the kindest way possible..he really let me down easy as possible....yea I was sad but I was OK. The friendship stayed the same he didn't blow me off or any thing ...so his asshole mask will just be our secret.
Johnny Legend’s Stunt double.. he tryna “take it SLOOOOOOW”
I remember when I was 17 It's years old and I got asked out on a date by my sister's twelve-year-old friend and I just gently told her that I was too old for her and she should fine someone her own age. That was one of the weirdest rejections that I ever had to give. I felt very uncomfortable after she asked me that and then I went to my sister and mom what happened.
Now that's what you called a man with a mission. I work at bars, clubs, and different events as a bouncer. I get hit on all time the by women, last night was the Grown&Sexy event, two ladies grabbed my arm, and started a conversation with me. But like always I kept it short and walked away, I just believe work is work and you don't mix pleasure with work🤷🏿♂️I'm there for a check, not cheeks 😂 I usually keep to myself, and speak when I'm spoken to. I guess that's why they approach me. Great video 👏🏿💪🏿
This was good! Thank you A Different Perspective!!
On the real dude is smooth, Great comebacks he is baggin bodies LOL
He did everything the correct way, it's not about rejecting someone but how you do it, some women may get mad and talk smack, some may want more information and be inquisitive, but it's always good to be straight forward and not a jack ass because you work 60+ hours a week and you don't want to turn a woman into a cheater because you truly work to much, so everyone should take notes and always make a friend instead of an ass out of their self , be kind to everyone and any one who tries to shoot their shot!
He was very respectful. I didn't like how one of the first words out of her month was that he was scared. Homeboy here is a great example to keep your money up and stay focused.💯🧐🎩👌😎
That's that girl that do that pineapple show
Bro, who is that standin behind your head? U not foolin me at all in this vid lmao
Feels like it was staged, but its something I have noticed with a lot of women. If a woman shoots her shot at a guy, unless he downplays himself, says he has issues or problems or other focuses in his life right now where he would make a woman's life worse, he's often shamed for choosing not to show interest in a girl who is interested in him.
If a man's reasons for being single boils down to him simply enjoying being alone, valuing a life of freedom and less responsibility, lack of attraction to the woman in said situation, lack of desire for a family or partner, he's more often times than not, shamed for his decision and he's insulted and viewed as "less than a man" by many women, with very fragile egos. Not all women, but it happens far too often and its not cool.
I say, whatever a person's reason is for not wanting to date you, ask you out, reciprocate your feelings, accept them in the moment, take that L, and move onto the next person. There's a reason there is 8 billion people on this planet. As long as you keep your options grounded in reality and look for options that are *Plausible* not just possible, then you'll find someone sooner or later.
Because it was staged.
I read several news headline where men have beaten and killed women that reject them and the women aren't disrespectful. But i have never heard of someone being shamed for not wanting a relationship when they had other priorities.
@@SonOfBaldo Knew it! lol
@@SuperTruthful Not sure why you believe we live in a world where anything bad that happens to a man triumphs over anything that happens to women..... buuuuuuuuut did you just compare women getting annoyed and passive aggressively shaming men for not finding them attractive.... to domestic violence and abuse? Did you seriously just put those two categories on the same level of comparison? Like this video, I know this comment has to be fudged because there is no way you're *THAT* utterly stupid. lol
@@Netherwolf6100 I'm pretty sure the point was, the behavior the OP mentions happens to women, a lot and and the reactions by men are at times more than just disrespectful, they can be downright scary and violent. It's not ok for anyone to react this way disrespectfully or violently, and its interesting to hear that now that more women make the approach men have to deal with the negative reactions as well.
I love seeing women getting rejected. They say men can't handle rejection but look how most women act when you tell em no
I wouldn’t even have considered this a rejection. The way he spoke and his reasoning for why he feels the way he feels, I’d have been impressed, honestly. Impressed that he was straight forward and honest and it was clear that he has personal goals to fulfill before dedicating his time and energy to a potential girlfriend. She should’ve wished him the best and not be offended or angry. (Not saying she was, but it doesn’t get more real than how he addressed all her questions)
Melli Monaco is a sweetheart I love her channel she is a singer rapper youtube celeb she just picked up a nice porshe.
Love her too. Super dope Chick
She? Now thats funny
she not sweet at all lmao. She crazy and rude af. She couldn't even hide her upset expressions to this man.
Thats a drag queen, a man in makeup
I rejected a lot of them, and still is just because I like being alone honestly. But, they would give you a fight and try hard because you rejected them.
Mine was a disaster, it was this overweight white colleague who was my subordinate. I mean that is a harassment case just waiting to happen. Then on top of that, she wasn't my type. Turned out to be a whole drama, fortunately I got promoted out of that work space in about 2 months after her shot.
Especially a beautiful woman like her being rejected by that gentleman makes her want him more..
Does anyone think it’s wierd how this dude or someone else is sitting there recording this convo?
She's recording it
It's stage asf
Could be a hidden cam.
She's a youtuber that approaches men. This is the content she makes. It's clearly a visible cam because everyone looks directly into it at times.
@@Ky-ma-ro thank you.
Shot my shot before. One time the guy gave me a fake number 🤣 I was so confused because we were having good conversation. But at least I didn't let it deter me
Nowhere near at this dude’s level, but I do get women give me the window and I see the disappointment when I don’t climb through it. Just last week I had this woman keep asking me questions just to keep me there. Then she gave me this look like she was confused at me. In a bubble, it looked like she recognized me, but couldn’t place my face. But the entire situation seemed like she was waiting on me to do something. Question, answer, pause 3x, then confused disappointment.
Before all of this covid hit i had a cute lady constantly ask me questions about sports. She asked if i liked sports. Later she said she likes to watch sports. I was thinking In the back of my head that she thought i was a football player or something. I could tell she was physically attracted to me because of how her eyes lit up when I awnsered her questions. But i think she got the picture that her conversation wasn't really going anywhere. I was hoping she would take it somewhere besides sports lol. But she definitely wanted to hold me there. As she got into a frate elevator with me, and was eager to ride down with me. I must have ended up not being what she was looking for though since i didn't share her same interests on sports. Lol and i never got the same attention from her after that.
If he asked to rub belt buckles in the car right there she would’ve said yes…lol
Hmm idk how I feel about this. After the guy said he wasn't interested in looking for a girl, why did she keep asking him questions though. If she was shooting her shot after the initial no, it should be considered harassment? If a guy did this it would be viewed as such, or am I wrong?
This is just conversation, and how it’s supposed to be when no one gets in their feelings
A stripper I was smashing told me she started to like me... I told her "Imma act like you aint say that".
Sometimes being honest is the best policy a girl can sense fakeness. But what that guy said is why i believe women and man love is different.
I wouldn’t really call it a rejection. He was just more so focused on his future. He never really said he wouldn’t talk to her if he had time. I expected it to be a lot worse.
I like the way he thinks and respect women because I also am the same as this man
When keeping it 💯 is not what she really wanted😂😂
Big difference between how a man turns down a women vs how women reject men 🤔
Honestly. I would have gotten turned off by that questioning as well. Don't go and put people on the spot like that if you're the one going up to someone. "You're attractive." "Thanks.." "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?" I'd be thinking, "What's wrong with her?" and think she's annoying regardless how she looks.