Hey Elise. I hope you don't let these partly very boundary overstepping comments get to you that much. It feels like some people are taking the mere fact that they are subscribed to your channel as an excuse to read too much into the things happening in your private life right now. It worries me, since they assume you're being in a bad relationship, while behaving pretty damn toxic themselves in these comments 🥴 Being sympathetic is one thing, but straight up telling you to break up with your partner because of some weird and unfounded suspicions/allegations, is so bad. Please enjoy your little trip to Italy. I'm rooting for you 🧡
@@EliseBuch you know your story and what’s going on and that’s what matters. I know what it’s like to have people telling you how you should handle your relationship when not knowing the entirety of it. You do what you feel is best knowing your story. In the meantime, the right people will be around watching your journey. After all, that is what life is for us all.
I am sorry but I have say if something is bad, if a relationship has red flags , and we as followers have opinions, I survived Domestic Abuse not only physical but mental , a man should stand for his woman and protect her , not letting anybody to take advantage of her not even from his own family , you cannot just see something that it doesn’t seems right and not say a thing , in the end is her decision to stay in the relationship but at least we told her what she may not see , because love blind us
Some wise words given to me in my fifties. I wish I'd heard them sooner. We are responsible only for ourselves. We always have a choice, no matter how difficult the situation. We can choose to accept it, resist it or change it. We can give and receive support, we cannot choose for any other capable adult, only ourselves. Even significant others have to do selfcare for themselves. Your life, your body, your decisions. Only you can do the best for you. Follow your best dreams, always. ❤️
Elise you looked so much more calm this time. My heart still hurts for you. 😢 Don’t ever give up your cottage….it’s so obvious that it’s a love of yours….keep it and embrace her every inch of yourself!!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕 I’m sending you love and support and best wishes for your healing and most importantly your happiness! Don’t surrender yourself for nothing or no one!!! Love from NC 🇺🇸 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Honestly when I saw you at the cottage sitting on your bed I actually breathed a sigh of physical relief for you. I’m so happy to hear you’re doing a little better, this place will heal your Soul and I’m so happy that you have it to comfort you. I believe that spaces have an Energy of their own and this cottage wraps you in care and comfort. ❤
Always remember, when you choose to live your life in public, good or bad, right or wrong, the public will also assume that they are a part of your life...
Coming from the perspective of someone who spent a lot of money and labor remodeling my own home… to be honest, I was surprised that you were having such a large part in remodeling a home owned and financed by someone else. It’s such a stressful and financially challenging endeavor… there is no way I would have let others make decisions, even with the people I love and hold dear. Even in the best of situations, there are conflicts... and the reality for the one paying the bills is that it comes down to simple economics. My advice (not that you’re asking) is to focus on self-care and getting yourself situated in your own home, and taking the rest slowly.
Better to wait and buy a home on one’s own, then depend on others. That house did not need all of that renovation that was being done. It was fine to move in and then decide what the future held and then start doing renovations.
I am kind of in the middle here: 1) Let‘s reflect on ourselves here, not just Elise. Quite few of us seem very much involved here emotionally, I feel it myself. 2) We do not know very much about the circumstances OR what exactly happend and why it happend. That‘s a fact not to be discussed away. 3) There are red flags. And a community might function as a collective intelligence. 4) Elise works in public space and „working“ with her community’s comments is part of her job. She‘ll manage, even if it might mean some discomfort. 5) None of us is responsible for her - we are responsible for ourselves. Comment or not, pro or anti her boyfriend or whatever. 6) It‘s easy to project ones own history onto other people. But It‘s easier to see patterns from the outside as well. So 1:1 here.
Exactly, miscommunication its happening because you either share your life or not, 🤷🏻♀️ leaving little info or a lot of info hidden its opens for this wondering comments and its normal, if you choose this life as a way of income/patrons ect. 🤷🏻♀️
Hi Elise. Keeping your little cottage is absolutely the right thing to do now as it’s yours and is your peaceful place which gives you a sense of pride and independence feeling that nobody else was involved in your choice to purchase it. You look so much better and although there will be challenges ahead, it’s good for you to get away from things and get in touch with yourself again. Indulge yourself in all the things that bring you the most pleasure- life passes us by so quickly and you deserve to enjoy it and be happy. Have a great time on your trip to Italy and take care.🧡🍂🍁
I know there are a lot of assumptions going on in the comments. my advice, take it or leave it, it might not apply, but is still true: people don’t change. When I was younger I resisted this fact, and it wasted a lot of my time.
@@EliseBuch yes! Sorry, I was talking more about parents, friends, boyfriends. Older people get stuck in their ways….. and obviously I know nothing of the situation, just general vague advice that can be applied to many situations.
@@EliseBuch you need to be sincere and tell the whole story since you already started it. Honey, you do t sound in a safe place...but Im not your Mom...🤗
@@EliseBuch When you choose a partner, you choose the family, too. They are a package deal and inescapable. ❤️ Don’t regret any time you’ve had, but don’t stay bc you’ve invested that time. 🥰
Elise, I would be very careful going forward. I hope your boyfriend was not part of the problem, but I would keep that in my mind at all times. You know the old saying, “blood is thicker than water”. He will stick with his family over you. God bless you lovely. I pray for you and your safety.
Just because someone else can't see your vision, don't ever let their judgement close off your creativity and second guess yourself. You have an amazing gift of taking old things and using them to create new beautiful surroundings. Always listen to your gut. You need your own place to create your nest. You have experienced a blip in the road, use it as a learning lesson. Depend on yourself, love your bf but depend on you. Have a beautiful trip, and know we love you.
I've read a quote once that always makes me laugh during difficult times and this is the quote "Adulthood is like looking both ways before crossing the street and then getting hit by an airplane". Life has it's ups and downs. You're boyfriend's advise was spot on... I'm a Taurus like you and I know how we are. Let your feet land before trying to come up with solutions. That was great to hear those words spoken to you.
I love the quote. It did make me chuckle because it’s so true. I have a daughter who is a Taurus, and I’m a Taurus rising. That being said, sometimes Taurus can have a tendency to stay in situations that aren’t the best for them because they don’t like and sometimes fear change, because they crave security so badly. Though her boyfriend’s words were wise, I’m hoping, (and this pure speculation because none of us know what has occurred here……that her decision to stay is her decision only, and that she’s not in any way being manipulated into staying because she feels like she has no where else to go at the moment. ❤
We miss you so much and think about you Beauty Sending you love and prayers..looking forward to seeing your videos They are a blessing to so many of us..inspiration and strength.. 💗Keep strong and know your loved during any hardships your going through💗
I find this relationship so weird , If I was you I will fix my own place , or find my own place , and stay there , not to move in with a person that really give you mixed signals , because it looks like you are all over the place with him, no stability , feeling like he is doing things for a friend instead of his girl , you don’t feel protected just super vulnerable, I recommend you to focus on you , put your place together and stay there working on yourself, do not move with him
@@EliseBuch in the end is you who take the decision , but you are all over the place , you put all your heart and hard work in a home and they just remove you like that from that project , you have to leave during the night and ask your family to help you , what is your bf doing ?? , you are using all your creativity to please other people when you can be working on your own space , I am just showing you my concern as a follower , it is your decision in the end of the day , but your followers really worry about you, pay attention to red flags , don’t let the feeling of love or feeling loved , to make you blind , God protect every of your decisions .
Hi Elise, I hope this trip to Italy fills you of great energy for the next step in your life. Take it easy and don’t rush anything. I do feel sad that you lost your apartment and it seems your boyfriend wasn’t planning of moving out of his cottage. In this situation from the outside looks like you lost more than anyone else 😢 I think it’s super valid and ok to feel all the feelings, angry, disappointment and grieve to the idea of the house because you did lost a lot in this situation.
@@Feroniia Elise re-home Luna for very different circumstances than giving up her apartment. Even tho she hated the landlord of her apartment, she loved her space which she gave up because the “abandoned house” project was going to be her new home.
one of the main reasons i left my sons father was his parents were so aweful, especially the stepmom and he was not at a point to set boundaries and just let me suffer and let her be abusive to me and involved in our day to day. I couldn’t take it. She still does everything she can to be abusive to me 12 years later. It’s nuts, never sgain.
Can I say I agree , my ex-husband's parents were into monopolizing renters even sent the youngest son to collect 500$ month from the eldest who was an invalid and living in hospital for nearly 20yrs . Of course I wasn't allowed to have a say or any influence on any issue . No matter how much the inheritance spending a lifetime as a pawn in conflict just isn't my style .
Hello from Texas, Elise! The best advice I ever got was, if you had a daughter would you want her to be with a man like the one you are with. I took that advice and I've had one of the most successful relationships out of all of my family. We all have things we have to iron out in our relationships at one time or another. Blessings to you, sweet girl.
Shakespeare said it best in his play, Hamlet...and it totally sums this situation better than ANYTHING else that could be said..."Something is rotten in the state of Denmark". PERIOD!!!
I know that likely everyone commenting, myself included, doesn’t know you or your situation personally but there are a lot of wise words being shared. Here’s mine. You bring so much joy to this world & deserve someone who consistently appreciates and respects you. The surprise trip sounds a lot like “love bombing”. For example, my ex would use grand gestures like expensive gifts to make up real problems he brought into our relationship. The real problems never really got fixed because he never put genuine and consistent effort into showing up as a better partner. My current partner is nothing like my ex. He shows up with his full heart, listens intently and I have never once felt unsafe with him. It sounds like you’ve been seeing some red flags and I think you should listen to your intuition.
such a beautifully perfect comment. now is the time to begin to educate oneself about abusive patterns. because, no matter what, the boyfriend may be saddled with what he grew up with.
How long after the first did the nice one come? It's been two years and I feel so shut down after what happened, did the nice one just turn up one day? I need hope :))
I thought the same of "Love bombing". ... My ex would buy me expensive things after being abusive, ( pearls, diamonds, even a new car ) or expensive trips. He never worked on or ever admitted his abuse, physical and mental. Divorced him 2009.
I love that advice to not make a decision right away and fix everything as soon as possible. Let yourself sit with it and give yourself time. Really needed to hear that right now.
The problem with the cottage isn't the heat, its having no water at all. Its either a 2 or 3 season cottage. They turn the water off in the whole area there. So it's not livable in the winter. Maybe for a few days if she brings big things of water with her. I do agree, I would get a electric fireplace heater for living area. It would keep it really warm and look cozy. Even summer nights she could turn it on without the heat just for ambiance. Take care Elise. Hugs.
It is lovely to see you visiting Winnie - she is definitely your happy place. You got a good haul of potatoes too. The snow looked magical, you are bound to get some more before the end of winter. I hope you enjoy your break in Italy.
I would not be slowly moving my things into my boyfriends place while things are trying to be repaired between you. My opinion is not asked for but because Ive lived through alot as a woman( just consider us all Aunties) I have a little advice: Trips are wonderful! Travel,see more whenever you can. Never lose your independant ,natural self. Keep your cottage. You worked so hard. A mood board is so perfect. I do think it may be time to look for your own next home. To make your own. To chill in, watch movies etc. And meet up ,spend some nights at your bf's place. But keep your own until things are sure. Concentrate on your business too in your own space. If things ever go wrong you would not be stuck in his space. Many of us know all to well the ups and downs. Just a piece of advice you can take or leave . Just be safe.
It's been 1 year since this post and she's done amazingly well!! Can't believe how well she's done actually. I started following her when she had broken up with her boyfriend and lived in tge cottage. I had no idea all this had happened. This video randomly popped up in my feed today
Nice that you have your cottage as a quiet place for you. You are an resilient person, so you’ll figure it out. Having a support system like your family is so crucial.
Elise…I’m just going to come right out and say it!…. What happened? We all saw you working your fingers to the bone remodeling that abandoned house….I’ll say it again…it’s called ‘sweat equity’! You were either misled or used and manipulated by the boyfriend’s father! He should be furious for what you have gone through!! Why wasn’t he helping your family get your stuff out ‘ in the middle of the night’ ?!? And why did you have to do it in the middle of the night? There is something wrong here. We all live and adore you and respect you! Make sure boyfriend is doing the same! If he can’t stand up to his greedy father, there is something wrong. You deserve the very best in life! Don’t let anyone treat you otherwise. And I would hand the boyfriend’s father a bill for all of the labor you put in that house! It’s clearly documented from your videos how hard you worked! And YOU did the hard work! I might sound harsh and tough…but I got this way from being used by other people…especially boyfriend’s who didn’t deserve me. I now put up with nothing! Our son says, “ no one messes with my mom! She’ll put the fear of God in them!” And it’s true. Women need to stick up for themselves…and all our female ( and male, if they deserve it) friends. Forgive me if I’m making assumptions..but the story you have told us tells me I’m not wrong. That father and boyfriend do not deserve you worrying about their reputations. They are living the life they created…if they aren’t proud of what they did..that’s their problem. I’m wishing you the best!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️. You deserve all that is good in life.
This is the best comment I have read so far, experience comes with age. In my experience this is showing all the signs of a controller. I felt sick to my stomach when she said her boyfriend is bringing her on a surprise trip to Italy, the reward after the abuse. Dear lord, I hope I'm wrong. Blessings to you all. ❤️🌀❤️
Makes you wonder if the father over extended purchase and renovation costs and the house was going to be repossessed, by the 2 am family heist of her things. Sounds like the bailiff was coming to repossess. Why didn’t the boyfriend help in her “escape” in the middle of the night, as she said? Was the boyfriend helping with the renovations? And now she is stating she has to sell some of her own personal clothing for money, then in the next breath she is off to Italy for a week on holiday. I see other comments about the rabbit. I can see if many people are allergic to the rabbit and if moving in with her boyfriend. Why is it that Elise now has the financial issues, when she is not paying rent on an apartment, her boyfriend’s parents paid for the new home and renovation costs, so why all of a sudden the selling of personal items for Money. I could see selling them because they have enough materialistic things and are combining them. The boyfriend seems to not have the same financial issues as he is going to Italy and not selling his clothing.
No matter where you live, you always make your places look like the most cozy place in the world! I love it, and I pay attention to every and each detail of your decoration. In fact, I mentioned you today, when I was buying paint for my bedroom and I told my daughter that I saw you painting your apartment before you moved out of it. I was so scared of doing renovations, but you motivate me and I'm daring more because of you! Thank you. We wish you all the best. Just relax and everything will be better than you had imagined, after all this. Hugs from Brazil.
Your creativity will come back with your happiness, don’t worry it will always be in you ♥️ take all time you need, we love you and we’ll always be there for you !
I truly believe you should have shared the whole story because being vague has us thinking all kinds of things !! My heart is broken because This is filled with drama and I can’t do drama !!
The thing I don’t understand WHY DID her boyfriend not help her mother, sister and brother move her out at 2 am. Where was the boyfriend when all of this was going on and then she is living at his place. Why did she have to go in the middle of the night with her contents of the house in such a hurry. Something does not sound right. Where was the boyfriend at 2 am, if she lives with him. Did he not know she was moving at 2 am with her mother, sister and brother and bringing things to his place? That is why people are sceptical about her story. The boyfriend does not help her ESCAPE as she noted in the middle of the night and NOW he is taking her to ITALY. She is going on about having to sell her own wardrobe to get money she needs and could do something illegal, then says she is joking. Another thing is, if you are moving with your boyfriend into that new home, it had been completely renovated, maybe not to her decorating likes, but it was completely renovated and her and her boyfriend could have moved in, lived together for a while and then renovated step my step. Now the house is in a shambles all taken apart and unfinished. Something does not sit right from the beginning on the family plan of this new home.
I never really comment on other people's life situations on the internet. I'm a complete stranger here, and of course, every choice you make in your life is yours and yours alone, so commenting on it seems sort of pointless. But you do share a huge chunk of your private life publicly, regularly take questions and say you are open to input and advice, and so I suppose you are used to and/or okay with people having thoughts around that. When I first stumbled upon your channel, I was surprised to find that I was concerned enough about this situation, that I felt compelled to say something. I had concerns back at the beginning of the abandoned house situation, but the number of red flags here, continue to increase, and do give me pause. So, here I am, giving unsolicited advice on the internet. Clearly I don't know the whole situation, so if my assumptions around the information you have shared are factually incorrect, apologies. Do with my two cents whatever you like. I assumed, based on how all this went down (your family having to basically rescue you and your stuff in the dead of night), that your boyfriend's parents were becoming combative and abusive around the old house renovation situation, and that your boyfriend was not supporting or standing up for you in that. If he was, he would have not allowed his family to treat you that way. If your boyfriend wouldn't (or couldn't) support you in this situation, and prioritize your safety, then just know that he certainly won't support you when it's important in the future either. Please know that if his parents were willing to treat you that way, then that is what was modeled to him as an appropriate way to treat someone he is in a relationship with, and the fact that he didn't push back on them when they treated you that way, and it was your family who had to intervene, instead, means that he either condones it, or he is not healed or emotionally mature enough to stand up and do what is right when it comes to drawing boundaries between his parents and other important people in his life. Unless he is willing to do a great deal of work on himself, this will not change. It is also very odd to me that he is giving you advice on how to process your emotions around what is essentially an abusive situation where HIS parents were the perpetrators, and where he was so indifferent to their treatment of you, that it was your family who had to whisk down there and move you out in a rush. This surprise 'apology vacation' is also a major red flag. I was honestly kinda on the fence about commenting on this situation at all, but you mentioning that trip clinched it for me. Surprise trips to Italy do not smooth over or make up for the fact that you have just been through a pretty major trauma at the hands of his parents, and he did so little about it that your family were the ones who had to take action. I understand that these things can be very confusing and painful, and take time to work through emotionally, but please consider you and your safety first and foremost. One of the first steps toward healing, is that you need to be in a space that is psychologically, emotionally and physically safe enough for you to be able to process this situation, feel your feelings, and not keep running up against situations with the perpetrators (and I include your boyfriend in that category, due to his inaction) that are going to re-trigger you, or upset you further. Please take care of yourself. I am glad to know that you are keeping your cottage, and have some creative plans for it. That is exciting, and it's good to know that you still feel that creative drive, have a desire to create a beautiful space for yourself, and will have a place to go when you need to. I hope that the holiday season will be restful for you, and that you will be able to move into the New Year with strength, peace and hope.
Elise, you’re becoming a cinematographer! The nature shots were lovely, especially the snow in the pines. Doesn’t the snow give you a sense of renewal? A sense that you can have or make any “do over” possible for yourself! Have a lovely holiday and looking forward to your renewal. ❤
I came to your TH-cam channel for the renovations, but dealing with panic attacks myself I completely understand how overwhelmed you must feel. I'm glad you have a support system to help to navigate through this rough moment of your life. Take care and enjoy the trip. You're gonna get through this! 💕
Elise, thank you for being the inspiration to why I opened a thrift store and decided to vlog the experience. So excited to see what you do with your adorable cottage and it can only be onwards and upwards from here. Wishing the best for you in these challenging moments ❤
His cottage is lovely. I can tell he is a creative like you. My husband and I are both creative and it helps to have someone who understands how important those feelings are.
A damp magic eraser will clean your wood stove glass like new without scratching it. Just make sure the glass is cool. This is a really cute new cottage.
Its been 17 days! Hope all is well! We shall ALWays remember to be so very thankful and grateful for all the blessings we have in this one life! Dont waste any of it..we only get maybe 27,000 days if we’re lucky!
Elise, I wrote down this quote the past year and wish I knew who to credit: "Some days she's a warrior. Some days she's a broken mess. Most days she's a bit of both. But, everyday, she's there.. standing... fighting... trying." I think a bunch of us can relate to that. My wishes are that you get your own cottage one day. In the meantime I wish you joy and happiness wherever you lay your head until that dream is fulfilled. Peace and love from Florida! 💚🌻🌺
Elise, you are a beautiful and creative person. No matter what you do or where you go you will always bring beauty and creativity there. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for sharing your life. Your yellow cottage is adorable. 💛💚❤
Elise, ignore negative comments about your life please. I truly want you to be happy no matter what you decide to do. You are beautiful inside and out. USA
I’ve missed not seeing Winnie , so peaceful and calm. Things will take time , and I noticed the glow coming back to your beautiful face . Love and prayers x
I’m so glad to see your video today. You have been on my mind this week wondering how you are. You are a strong woman and you will be fine. I understand about the creative flow. The first time I didn’t make any jewelry, any crafts or did any crocheting for about two years. That lasted two years and then it came back strong. Too many thing’s to do. Now I’m cutting it back. Love yourself and take the time you need. You don’t have to tell us anything because it’s your business and not ours. Have a wonderful week. ❤
So happy for you. You look much better and positive. Take your time sweetie. Don’t rush to be back. Enjoy your time wherever you go. I will be here to enjoy any content you post! Recharge!!!!☺️👏🏽❤ safe travels!!!🌷🌷🌷
I think it’s good here to remember what you have instead of what you lost. You have a business, you have a tiny house and obviously you still have a roof over your head and a boyfriend who cares. I don’t like to watch click bait videos and I don’t like TH-camrs who I have followed for years and who I am emotionally invested in, post videos that provide breadcrumbs. I feel like that has happened. Maybe it would have been better to wait until everything was sorted out before posting anything because we have all been hanging on and I have been worried. If you are in the public eye you have a responsibility to those who you have engaged with to think about how it affects them. I don’t mean to sound harsh, I just feel a bit stressed by this content. I wish you all the best Elise, from the bottom of my heart.
You are such a beautiful soul and such a beautiful person. May love and comfort envelope you at this time and that you create goodness for yourself one step at a time. Sending a big hug your way Elise.
I am so happy to hear that you and your bf didn't break up. I'm in the U.S. and am confused as to why the project ended so abruptly. It's odd because here you would've had a contract and it couldn't have ended that way. I'm looking forward to hearing why when you're ready. How sweet it is that he planned a trip for you guys to get away for a bit. Enjoy your trip
I'm in the US too we normally have contracts but I can see why you didn't but it's a shame that someone close to you can be so hurtful be careful with your heart they still are his family you have been in my thoughts quite often missing your vlogs is like missing a old friend you will rise back up even stronger that's the person you are a beautiful brilliant young woman STAY STRONG
To Michelle Byrom. I'm in my 60's and am now in the process of making changes. Yes we are responsible for ourselves, but knowing we can learn from our experiances and still continue forward is a wonderful gift to ourselves.
Golly, just read through the comments. I think every one needs to hold their opinions and not read between lines, or let imagination run amok. Until she reveals whole story. Tis none of our business anyway. THE SNOW IS LOVELY!!! Take care and know we all are wishing you the best each day.🙂
she probably shouldn't of said anything. She was very vague and From what she did say say it sounded like domestic abuse. Maybe hold off saying anything until your ready to share the entire story , otherwise People will assume the worst.
Very happy about your cottage 😊 I would love to see a large area rug for warmth and coziness in the living area. Maybe a nice electric fireplace too to help a little with heating. Whatever you do I’m sure it will be wonderful 🎉
I’m so glad you’re feeling better and you’re keeping your garden cottage. Hang on to it as it’s your sacred place ❤ I know we don’t know the whole story and you’re not at liberty to say more than what you’re comfortable with. All the best Elise ♥️
IMO if someone leaves in the middle or the night ...either it's an un safe suitation or maybe they weren't getting their way and wanted to cause drama or had a severe panic attack from over thinking and wanted to get away from that suitation.Idk I wasn't there.But if you say stuff online people are going to form opinions.
I have been thinking about you ,sweet girl, looking for posts....hope your vacation went well, and you are rested and ready to get your life back to where you are content. We all have upsets in our lives and upheavals , but overcoming them, makes us wiser and stronger. Hope to see a post soon, so those of us who really care, don't worry. Prayers for you and yours.
I think the trip to Italy is perfect timing. Getting away from everyday troubles will aid you in processing the past few weeks events. Relax and recharge. Maybe Italy will provide you some new content inspiration!! Hugs 💚
I'm so sorry that you've been hurt and had a trust broken. Give yourself time. Creativity come from a place of love peace and contentment. Don't worry if it takes a little while until you are feeling like your old creative self. Give yourself time to regain your balance.
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Hey Elise. I hope you don't let these partly very boundary overstepping comments get to you that much. It feels like some people are taking the mere fact that they are subscribed to your channel as an excuse to read too much into the things happening in your private life right now. It worries me, since they assume you're being in a bad relationship, while behaving pretty damn toxic themselves in these comments 🥴 Being sympathetic is one thing, but straight up telling you to break up with your partner because of some weird and unfounded suspicions/allegations, is so bad. Please enjoy your little trip to Italy. I'm rooting for you 🧡
This comment is refreshing and I completely agree!
Yess, it is too much drama. ❤️ thank you for being aware that there's so little people really know about where to point.
@@dhall75608 thank you ❤️
@@EliseBuch you know your story and what’s going on and that’s what matters. I know what it’s like to have people telling you how you should handle your relationship when not knowing the entirety of it. You do what you feel is best knowing your story. In the meantime, the right people will be around watching your journey. After all, that is what life is for us all.
I am sorry but I have say if something is bad, if a relationship has red flags , and we as followers have opinions, I survived Domestic Abuse not only physical but mental , a man should stand for his woman and protect her , not letting anybody to take advantage of her not even from his own family , you cannot just see something that it doesn’t seems right and not say a thing , in the end is her decision to stay in the relationship but at least we told her what she may not see , because love blind us
Like I tell my sisters… remember if you get with a man you also inherit his family. Be sure they are ppl you want in your life.
So true
Exactly. I don’t think there’s any future for this relationship
Absolutely!!! Boy will take you as his father took
There's your beautiful cottage your happy place Elise.
I am 62 who has been married forty two years and I can tell you that is absolutely true.
Some wise words given to me in my fifties. I wish I'd heard them sooner.
We are responsible only for ourselves. We always have a choice, no matter how difficult the situation. We can choose to accept it, resist it or change it. We can give and receive support, we cannot choose for any other capable adult, only ourselves. Even significant others have to do selfcare for themselves. Your life, your body, your decisions. Only you can do the best for you.
Follow your best dreams, always. ❤️
amen you are so right/
Yes Michelle...💯👍💜💜🌻🌻🌻
Very true
Well said.
Elise you looked so much more calm this time. My heart still hurts for you. 😢
Don’t ever give up your cottage….it’s so obvious that it’s a love of yours….keep it and embrace her every inch of yourself!!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕
I’m sending you love and support and best wishes for your healing and most importantly your happiness! Don’t surrender yourself for nothing or no one!!!
Love from NC 🇺🇸
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Honestly when I saw you at the cottage sitting on your bed I actually breathed a sigh of physical relief for you. I’m so happy to hear you’re doing a little better, this place will heal your Soul and I’m so happy that you have it to comfort you.
I believe that spaces have an Energy of their own and this cottage wraps you in care and comfort. ❤
Always remember, when you choose to live your life in public, good or bad, right or wrong, the public will also assume that they are a part of your life...
Don’t be surprised if the relationship comes to a haunt soon.
To have a roof over your head, food to eat and know your loved is everything. Bless you young lady.
🥰❤️❤️
Coming from the perspective of someone who spent a lot of money and labor remodeling my own home… to be honest, I was surprised that you were having such a large part in remodeling a home owned and financed by someone else. It’s such a stressful and financially challenging endeavor… there is no way I would have let others make decisions, even with the people I love and hold dear. Even in the best of situations, there are conflicts... and the reality for the one paying the bills is that it comes down to simple economics. My advice (not that you’re asking) is to focus on self-care and getting yourself situated in your own home, and taking the rest slowly.
Better to wait and buy a home on one’s own, then depend on others. That house did not need all of that renovation that was being done. It was fine to move in and then decide what the future held and then start doing renovations.
I am kind of in the middle here:
1) Let‘s reflect on ourselves here, not just Elise. Quite few of us seem very much involved here emotionally, I feel it myself.
2) We do not know very much about the circumstances OR what exactly happend and why it happend. That‘s a fact not to be discussed away.
3) There are red flags. And a community might function as a collective intelligence.
4) Elise works in public space and „working“ with her community’s comments is part of her job. She‘ll manage, even if it might mean some discomfort.
5) None of us is responsible for her - we are responsible for ourselves. Comment or not, pro or anti her boyfriend or whatever.
6) It‘s easy to project ones own history onto other people. But It‘s easier to see patterns from the outside as well. So 1:1 here.
I agree . Such a good comment !
Exactly, miscommunication its happening because you either share your life or not, 🤷🏻♀️ leaving little info or a lot of info hidden its opens for this wondering comments and its normal, if you choose this life as a way of income/patrons ect. 🤷🏻♀️
I feel the same
Hi Elise. Keeping your little cottage is absolutely the right thing to do now as it’s yours and is your peaceful place which gives you a sense of pride and independence feeling that nobody else was involved in your choice to purchase it. You look so much better and although there will be challenges ahead, it’s good for you to get away from things and get in touch with yourself again. Indulge yourself in all the things that bring you the most pleasure- life passes us by so quickly and you deserve to enjoy it and be happy. Have a great time on your trip to Italy and take care.🧡🍂🍁
I know there are a lot of assumptions going on in the comments. my advice, take it or leave it, it might not apply, but is still true: people don’t change. When I was younger I resisted this fact, and it wasted a lot of my time.
I don't need my boyfriend to change, we needed the situation to change and to withdraw from it ❤️
@@EliseBuch yes! Sorry, I was talking more about parents, friends, boyfriends. Older people get stuck in their ways….. and obviously I know nothing of the situation, just general vague advice that can be applied to many situations.
There are people who change. And there are people who don't. I saw both.
Elise I wish you peace and happiness, you’re lovely person.
Just add me to the list of those viewers who love the pink. That said, sometimes a refresh is just what we need. Blessings to you.
No matter where you live..you always make it so cozy...I want to be like that... enjoy your lifestyle 💖🐰
There are so many red flags in this relationship...but we will see how it goes🤷♀️ I wish you the best Elise...
I know and he is at fault too and giving Elise an advice and Elise is taking it. I do not understand.
No, there were all red flags when it comes to the house project and the many visions and ideas someone else had for us and our future.
@@EliseBuch you need to be sincere and tell the whole story since you already started it. Honey, you do t sound in a safe place...but Im not your Mom...🤗
@Coetzee Familystead yes, it can start slowly, and very very subtly.
@@EliseBuch When you choose a partner, you choose the family, too. They are a package deal and inescapable. ❤️ Don’t regret any time you’ve had, but don’t stay bc you’ve invested that time. 🥰
Elise, I would be very careful going forward. I hope your boyfriend was not part of the problem, but I would keep that in my mind at all times. You know the old saying, “blood is thicker than water”. He will stick with his family over you. God bless you lovely. I pray for you and your safety.
Just because someone else can't see your vision, don't ever let their judgement close off your creativity and second guess yourself. You have an amazing gift of taking old things and using them to create new beautiful surroundings. Always listen to your gut. You need your own place to create your nest. You have experienced a blip in the road, use it as a learning lesson. Depend on yourself, love your bf but depend on you. Have a beautiful trip, and know we love you.
Yes 🙌 Sound advice 🙏🏻
I agree. She needs her own place.
I've read a quote once that always makes me laugh during difficult times and this is the quote "Adulthood is like looking both ways before crossing the street and then getting hit by an airplane". Life has it's ups and downs. You're boyfriend's advise was spot on... I'm a Taurus like you and I know how we are. Let your feet land before trying to come up with solutions. That was great to hear those words spoken to you.
I love the quote. It did make me chuckle because it’s so true. I have a daughter who is a Taurus, and I’m a Taurus rising. That being said, sometimes Taurus can have a tendency to stay in situations that aren’t the best for them because they don’t like and sometimes fear change, because they crave security so badly. Though her boyfriend’s words were wise, I’m hoping, (and this pure speculation because none of us know what has occurred here……that her decision to stay is her decision only, and that she’s not in any way being manipulated into staying because she feels like she has no where else to go at the moment. ❤
That’s a good quote
Miss seeing you, how you're enjoying yourselves and this holiday season.
Take care
Spend a couple of days at the cottage for quiet and calm. Regarding the pink room, it looks so warm no matter the cold outside💗
Take care of you😘
We miss you so much and think about you Beauty Sending you love and prayers..looking forward to seeing your videos They are a blessing to so many of us..inspiration and strength.. 💗Keep strong and know your loved during any hardships your going through💗
I find this relationship so weird , If I was you I will fix my own place , or find my own place , and stay there , not to move in with a person that really give you mixed signals , because it looks like you are all over the place with him, no stability , feeling like he is doing things for a friend instead of his girl , you don’t feel protected just super vulnerable, I recommend you to focus on you , put your place together and stay there working on yourself, do not move with him
Never my boyfriend's fault that bad things happened, we were both naive and trusted an idea and process that were never our own dream.
@@EliseBuch in the end is you who take the decision , but you are all over the place , you put all your heart and hard work in a home and they just remove you like that from that project , you have to leave during the night and ask your family to help you , what is your bf doing ?? , you are using all your creativity to please other people when you can be working on your own space , I am just showing you my concern as a follower , it is your decision in the end of the day , but your followers really worry about you, pay attention to red flags , don’t let the feeling of love or feeling loved , to make you blind , God protect every of your decisions .
@@tamber6837 🙄 are you going to be ok?
@cristinasway3915 be quiet man seriously.
You have been on my mind all week. I hope you are safe.
I’m so glad you are keeping your cottage. What a blessing to visit Italy! I’m glad to see that you’re feeling better, you are a beautiful soul.
Hi Elise, I hope this trip to Italy fills you of great energy for the next step in your life. Take it easy and don’t rush anything. I do feel sad that you lost your apartment and it seems your boyfriend wasn’t planning of moving out of his cottage. In this situation from the outside looks like you lost more than anyone else 😢 I think it’s super valid and ok to feel all the feelings, angry, disappointment and grieve to the idea of the house because you did lost a lot in this situation.
@@Feroniia Elise re-home Luna for very different circumstances than giving up her apartment. Even tho she hated the landlord of her apartment, she loved her space which she gave up because the “abandoned house” project was going to be her new home.
@@anniechantale5869 thanks ❤️
one of the main reasons i left my sons father was his parents were so aweful, especially the stepmom and he was not at a point to set boundaries and just let me suffer and let her be abusive to me and involved in our day to day. I couldn’t take it. She still does everything she can to be abusive to me 12 years later. It’s nuts, never sgain.
Can I say I agree , my ex-husband's parents were into monopolizing renters even sent the youngest son to collect 500$ month from the eldest who was an invalid and living in hospital for nearly 20yrs . Of course I wasn't allowed to have a say or any influence on any issue . No matter how much the inheritance spending a lifetime as a pawn in conflict just isn't my style .
Hello from Texas, Elise! The best advice I ever got was, if you had a daughter would you want her to be with a man like the one you are with. I took that advice and I've had one of the most successful relationships out of all of my family. We all have things we have to iron out in our relationships at one time or another. Blessings to you, sweet girl.
Love the homey cottage where you're living now - hope it brings you peace and the answers you need at this time :)
It's her bf place
Shakespeare said it best in his play, Hamlet...and it totally sums this situation better than ANYTHING else that could be said..."Something is rotten in the state of Denmark". PERIOD!!!
Lol...how true!
Hi Elise, i hope you enjoy your trip to Italy. I missed your videos but i can understand when i read some comments that you need some space. 😘
💕COTTAGE💕Sage green brings the outside in whilst being warm & cozy & most colours go with it💕
I hope you are doing things that make you happy and are your choices. Lovely to see you in your cottage, you always look so happy and at home there 💜
I know that likely everyone commenting, myself included, doesn’t know you or your situation personally but there are a lot of wise words being shared. Here’s mine. You bring so much joy to this world & deserve someone who consistently appreciates and respects you. The surprise trip sounds a lot like “love bombing”. For example, my ex would use grand gestures like expensive gifts to make up real problems he brought into our relationship. The real problems never really got fixed because he never put genuine and consistent effort into showing up as a better partner. My current partner is nothing like my ex. He shows up with his full heart, listens intently and I have never once felt unsafe with him. It sounds like you’ve been seeing some red flags and I think you should listen to your intuition.
such a beautifully perfect comment. now is the time to begin to educate oneself
about abusive patterns. because, no matter what, the boyfriend may be saddled with what he grew up with.
How long after the first did the nice one come? It's been two years and I feel so shut down after what happened, did the nice one just turn up one day? I need hope :))
I thought the same of "Love bombing". ... My ex would buy me expensive things after being abusive, ( pearls, diamonds, even a new car ) or expensive trips. He never worked on or ever admitted his abuse, physical and mental. Divorced him 2009.
I love that advice to not make a decision right away and fix everything as soon as possible. Let yourself sit with it and give yourself time. Really needed to hear that right now.
That pink room is so pretty. Love it.
The problem with the cottage isn't the heat, its having no water at all. Its either a 2 or 3 season cottage. They turn the water off in the whole area there. So it's not livable in the winter. Maybe for a few days if she brings big things of water with her. I do agree, I would get a electric fireplace heater for living area. It would keep it really warm and look cozy. Even summer nights she could turn it on without the heat just for ambiance.
Take care Elise. Hugs.
It is lovely to see you visiting Winnie - she is definitely your happy place. You got a good haul of potatoes too.
The snow looked magical, you are bound to get some more before the end of winter.
I hope you enjoy your break in Italy.
Please continue making videos! We love and miss you!
I would not be slowly moving my things into my boyfriends place while things are trying to be repaired between you.
My opinion is not asked for but because Ive lived through alot as a woman( just consider us all Aunties) I have a little advice:
Trips are wonderful! Travel,see more whenever you can. Never lose your independant ,natural self. Keep your cottage. You worked so hard. A mood board is so perfect.
I do think it may be time to look for your own next home. To make your own. To chill in, watch movies etc. And meet up ,spend some nights at your bf's place. But keep your own until things are sure. Concentrate on your business too in your own space. If things ever go wrong you would not be stuck in his space. Many of us know all to well the ups and downs. Just a piece of advice you can take or leave . Just be safe.
It's been 1 year since this post and she's done amazingly well!! Can't believe how well she's done actually. I started following her when she had broken up with her boyfriend and lived in tge cottage. I had no idea all this had happened. This video randomly popped up in my feed today
I love the ideas you have for changing the room around color wise etc. If you make the color of the walls more calm, you can go crazy with the decor!!
Nice that you have your cottage as a quiet place for you. You are an resilient person, so you’ll figure it out. Having a support system like your family is so crucial.
Elise…I’m just going to come right out and say it!…. What happened? We all saw you working your fingers to the bone remodeling that abandoned house….I’ll say it again…it’s called ‘sweat equity’! You were either misled or used and manipulated by the boyfriend’s father! He should be furious for what you have gone through!! Why wasn’t he helping your family get your stuff out ‘ in the middle of the night’ ?!? And why did you have to do it in the middle of the night? There is something wrong here. We all live and adore you and respect you! Make sure boyfriend is doing the same! If he can’t stand up to his greedy father, there is something wrong. You deserve the very best in life! Don’t let anyone treat you otherwise. And I would hand the boyfriend’s father a bill for all of the labor you put in that house! It’s clearly documented from your videos how hard you worked! And YOU did the hard work! I might sound harsh and tough…but I got this way from being used by other people…especially boyfriend’s who didn’t deserve me. I now put up with nothing! Our son says, “ no one messes with my mom! She’ll put the fear of God in them!” And it’s true. Women need to stick up for themselves…and all our female ( and male, if they deserve it) friends. Forgive me if I’m making assumptions..but the story you have told us tells me I’m not wrong. That father and boyfriend do not deserve you worrying about their reputations. They are living the life they created…if they aren’t proud of what they did..that’s their problem. I’m wishing you the best!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️. You deserve all that is good in life.
This is the best comment I have read so far, experience comes with age. In my experience this is showing all the signs of a controller. I felt sick to my stomach when she said her boyfriend is bringing her on a surprise trip to Italy, the reward after the abuse. Dear lord, I hope I'm wrong. Blessings to you all. ❤️🌀❤️
Makes you wonder if the father over extended purchase and renovation costs and the house was going to be repossessed, by the 2 am family heist of her things. Sounds like the bailiff was coming to repossess. Why didn’t the boyfriend help in her “escape” in the middle of the night, as she said? Was the boyfriend helping with the renovations? And now she is stating she has to sell some of her own personal clothing for money, then in the next breath she is off to Italy for a week on holiday. I see other comments about the rabbit. I can see if many people are allergic to the rabbit and if moving in with her boyfriend. Why is it that Elise now has the financial issues, when she is not paying rent on an apartment, her boyfriend’s parents paid for the new home and renovation costs, so why all of a sudden the selling of personal items for Money. I could see selling them because they have enough materialistic things and are combining them. The boyfriend seems to not have the same financial issues as he is going to Italy and not selling his clothing.
I am so happy that you didn’t sell your cottage. 😊
No matter where you live, you always make your places look like the most cozy place in the world! I love it, and I pay attention to every and each detail of your decoration. In fact, I mentioned you today, when I was buying paint for my bedroom and I told my daughter that I saw you painting your apartment before you moved out of it. I was so scared of doing renovations, but you motivate me and I'm daring more because of you! Thank you. We wish you all the best. Just relax and everything will be better than you had imagined, after all this. Hugs from Brazil.
Your creativity will come back with your happiness, don’t worry it will always be in you ♥️ take all time you need, we love you and we’ll always be there for you !
Another beautiful cottage. Yum banana pancakes. Thank you for another beautiful video.
I truly believe you should have shared the whole story because being vague has us thinking all kinds of things !! My heart is broken because
This is filled with drama and
I can’t do drama !!
The thing I don’t understand WHY DID her boyfriend not help her mother, sister and brother move her out at 2 am. Where was the boyfriend when all of this was going on and then she is living at his place. Why did she have to go in the middle of the night with her contents of the house in such a hurry. Something does not sound right. Where was the boyfriend at 2 am, if she lives with him. Did he not know she was moving at 2 am with her mother, sister and brother and bringing things to his place? That is why people are sceptical about her story. The boyfriend does not help her ESCAPE as she noted in the middle of the night and NOW he is taking her to ITALY. She is going on about having to sell her own wardrobe to get money she needs and could do something illegal, then says she is joking. Another thing is, if you are moving with your boyfriend into that new home, it had been completely renovated, maybe not to her decorating likes, but it was completely renovated and her and her boyfriend could have moved in, lived together for a while and then renovated step my step. Now the house is in a shambles all taken apart and unfinished. Something does not sit right from the beginning on the family plan of this new home.
Then stop watching. It's your job to regulate your own emotions, not some stranger on the net that you'll never meet.
Please don’t have a broken heart over a stranger who is weaving a narrative. Simply having a pretty face doesn’t earn trust.
"My Boyfriend Planned A Secret Trip"... Gurlll RUN❤
I never really comment on other people's life situations on the internet. I'm a complete stranger here, and of course, every choice you make in your life is yours and yours alone, so commenting on it seems sort of pointless. But you do share a huge chunk of your private life publicly, regularly take questions and say you are open to input and advice, and so I suppose you are used to and/or okay with people having thoughts around that.
When I first stumbled upon your channel, I was surprised to find that I was concerned enough about this situation, that I felt compelled to say something. I had concerns back at the beginning of the abandoned house situation, but the number of red flags here, continue to increase, and do give me pause. So, here I am, giving unsolicited advice on the internet. Clearly I don't know the whole situation, so if my assumptions around the information you have shared are factually incorrect, apologies. Do with my two cents whatever you like.
I assumed, based on how all this went down (your family having to basically rescue you and your stuff in the dead of night), that your boyfriend's parents were becoming combative and abusive around the old house renovation situation, and that your boyfriend was not supporting or standing up for you in that. If he was, he would have not allowed his family to treat you that way.
If your boyfriend wouldn't (or couldn't) support you in this situation, and prioritize your safety, then just know that he certainly won't support you when it's important in the future either. Please know that if his parents were willing to treat you that way, then that is what was modeled to him as an appropriate way to treat someone he is in a relationship with, and the fact that he didn't push back on them when they treated you that way, and it was your family who had to intervene, instead, means that he either condones it, or he is not healed or emotionally mature enough to stand up and do what is right when it comes to drawing boundaries between his parents and other important people in his life. Unless he is willing to do a great deal of work on himself, this will not change.
It is also very odd to me that he is giving you advice on how to process your emotions around what is essentially an abusive situation where HIS parents were the perpetrators, and where he was so indifferent to their treatment of you, that it was your family who had to whisk down there and move you out in a rush. This surprise 'apology vacation' is also a major red flag. I was honestly kinda on the fence about commenting on this situation at all, but you mentioning that trip clinched it for me. Surprise trips to Italy do not smooth over or make up for the fact that you have just been through a pretty major trauma at the hands of his parents, and he did so little about it that your family were the ones who had to take action.
I understand that these things can be very confusing and painful, and take time to work through emotionally, but please consider you and your safety first and foremost. One of the first steps toward healing, is that you need to be in a space that is psychologically, emotionally and physically safe enough for you to be able to process this situation, feel your feelings, and not keep running up against situations with the perpetrators (and I include your boyfriend in that category, due to his inaction) that are going to re-trigger you, or upset you further.
Please take care of yourself. I am glad to know that you are keeping your cottage, and have some creative plans for it. That is exciting, and it's good to know that you still feel that creative drive, have a desire to create a beautiful space for yourself, and will have a place to go when you need to. I hope that the holiday season will be restful for you, and that you will be able to move into the New Year with strength, peace and hope.
Great advice tbh
I really miss seeing you Elise. You are just so lovely! Sending you warmest thoughts and Christmas cheer! ❤
Love that you're feeling better. Looking forward to seeing what color you paint your cottage interior.
I wonder how Luna is doing. Hopefully Elise can do a video visiting little Luna. 🐰❤️
Elise, you’re becoming a cinematographer! The nature shots were lovely, especially the snow in the pines. Doesn’t the snow give you a sense of renewal? A sense that you can have or make any “do over” possible for yourself! Have a lovely holiday and looking forward to your renewal. ❤
Missing watching you and hope you are safe
Sage green is a very calming color and great to add pops of color to. Love your little cottage.
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I’ll love whatever you upload. Seeing you brings such joy to me.
Color experts say that pink is a calming color for the mind so you chose well, kiddo!
I came to your TH-cam channel for the renovations, but dealing with panic attacks myself I completely understand how overwhelmed you must feel. I'm glad you have a support system to help to navigate through this rough moment of your life. Take care and enjoy the trip. You're gonna get through this! 💕
Come back soon. We miss you.
Elise, thank you for being the inspiration to why I opened a thrift store and decided to vlog the experience. So excited to see what you do with your adorable cottage and it can only be onwards and upwards from here. Wishing the best for you in these challenging moments ❤
No opinions, no judgements for you. You’re a big girl. Thank you for sharing your life with us my dear ❤️
His cottage is lovely. I can tell he is a creative like you. My husband and I are both creative and it helps to have someone who understands how important those feelings are.
I miss you Elise! I hope you are OK. ❤
A damp magic eraser will clean your wood stove glass like new without scratching it. Just make sure the glass is cool. This is a really cute new cottage.
Its been 17 days! Hope all is well! We shall ALWays remember to be so very thankful and grateful for all the blessings we have in this one life! Dont waste any of it..we only get maybe 27,000 days if we’re lucky!
She didn't say she was on day one. She said she was taking life one day at a time
@@howareyou857 was talking about since she had uploaded her last vlog…
Nice to see you back in your cozy cottage. Hope you feel well soon. Slow down and just enjoy the moment. Love and peace to you.
Elise, I wrote down this quote the past year and wish I knew who to credit: "Some days she's a warrior. Some days she's a broken mess. Most days she's a bit of both. But, everyday, she's there.. standing... fighting... trying." I think a bunch of us can relate to that. My wishes are that you get your own cottage one day. In the meantime I wish you joy and happiness wherever you lay your head until that dream is fulfilled. Peace and love from Florida! 💚🌻🌺
The glow of fires warm the hearts
Elise, you are a beautiful and creative person. No matter what you do or where you go you will always bring beauty and creativity there. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for sharing your life. Your yellow cottage is adorable. 💛💚❤
I'm just all over on your videos. I watch new one's and older ones I haven't seen and I just love them all! You are so inspiring! 💖
So happy you are back. I'm very excited to see what you will do to the cottage. Have fun on vacation.
I’m glad to see you getting back to yourself after such a devastating experience. We love you girl! Happy healing ❤
Seems like Elise is missing her old life! I miss it too🎉❤
I love the way you fixed your cottage❤❤❤
Elise, ignore negative comments about your life please. I truly want you to be happy no matter what you decide to do. You are beautiful inside and out. USA
Community voices are important. Strong people can take dissenting opinions and be steadfast in their decisions.
Thank you ❤️
I love your little cottage, perfect colors. Your sanctuary.
I’ve missed not seeing Winnie , so peaceful and calm. Things will take time , and I noticed the glow coming back to your beautiful face . Love and prayers x
Awwww, The Cottage will save you. An Anchor while you mourn. ❤
I can’t wait to see the changes at the cottage. I love it!
I’m so glad to see your video today. You have been on my mind this week wondering how you are. You are a strong woman and you will be fine. I understand about the creative flow. The first time I didn’t make any jewelry, any crafts or did any crocheting for about two years. That lasted two years and then it came back strong. Too many thing’s to do. Now I’m cutting it back.
Love yourself and take the time you need. You don’t have to tell us anything because it’s your business and not ours. Have a wonderful week. ❤
No words...... just smiles for your contentment. (Now I want pancakes) 🥰
So happy for you. You look much better and positive. Take your time sweetie. Don’t rush to be back. Enjoy your time wherever you go. I will be here to enjoy any content you post! Recharge!!!!☺️👏🏽❤ safe travels!!!🌷🌷🌷
I think it’s good here to remember what you have instead of what you lost. You have a business, you have a tiny house and obviously you still have a roof over your head and a boyfriend who cares. I don’t like to watch click bait videos and I don’t like TH-camrs who I have followed for years and who I am emotionally invested in, post videos that provide breadcrumbs. I feel like that has happened. Maybe it would have been better to wait until everything was sorted out before posting anything because we have all been hanging on and I have been worried. If you are in the public eye you have a responsibility to those who you have engaged with to think about how it affects them. I don’t mean to sound harsh, I just feel a bit stressed by this content. I wish you all the best Elise, from the bottom of my heart.
You are such a beautiful soul and such a beautiful person. May love and comfort envelope you at this time and that you create goodness for yourself one step at a time. Sending a big hug your way Elise.
I am so happy to hear that you and your bf didn't break up. I'm in the U.S. and am confused as to why the project ended so abruptly. It's odd because here you would've had a contract and it couldn't have ended that way. I'm looking forward to hearing why when you're ready. How sweet it is that he planned a trip for you guys to get away for a bit. Enjoy your trip
I'm in the US too we normally have contracts but I can see why you didn't but it's a shame that someone close to you can be so hurtful be careful with your heart they still are his family you have been in my thoughts quite often missing your vlogs is like missing a old friend you will rise back up even stronger that's the person you are a beautiful brilliant young woman STAY STRONG
So glad to see you smiling. Have a safe and happy trip!
To Michelle Byrom. I'm in my 60's and am now in the process of making changes. Yes we are responsible for ourselves, but knowing we can learn from our experiances and still continue forward is a wonderful gift to ourselves.
Elise, thanks for answering some of the worrisome questions we all had.
I wish y'all all the happiness, & have a great relaxing safe trip!! ❤️🇺🇲
Golly, just read through the comments. I think every one needs to hold their opinions and not read between lines, or let imagination run amok. Until she reveals whole story. Tis none of our business anyway. THE SNOW IS LOVELY!!! Take care and know we all are wishing you the best each day.🙂
She's MADE it our business by discussing it with us. I'm not even sure we can trust what she tells is is truth.
she probably shouldn't of said anything. She was very vague and From what she did say say it sounded like domestic abuse.
Maybe hold off saying anything until your ready to share the entire story , otherwise People will assume the worst.
Prayers continue as I look at past vlogs. I hope you are doing well and taking good care of yourself.
I enjoyed seeing the cottage again. It felt familiar and homey to me.
So lovely to see your feeling a bit brighter, it was great to see winnie and the snow, enjoy your holiday 😊
Very happy about your cottage 😊 I would love to see a large area rug for warmth and coziness in the living area. Maybe a nice electric fireplace too to help a little with heating. Whatever you do I’m sure it will be wonderful 🎉
I’m so glad you’re feeling better and you’re keeping your garden cottage. Hang on to it as it’s your sacred place ❤ I know we don’t know the whole story and you’re not at liberty to say more than what you’re comfortable with. All the best Elise ♥️
IMO if someone leaves in the middle or the night ...either it's an un safe suitation or maybe they weren't getting their way and wanted to cause drama or had a severe panic attack from over thinking and wanted to get away from that suitation.Idk I wasn't there.But if you say stuff online people are going to form opinions.
I have been thinking about you ,sweet girl, looking for posts....hope your vacation went well, and you are rested and ready to get your life back to where you are content. We all have upsets in our lives and upheavals , but overcoming them, makes us wiser and stronger. Hope to see a post soon, so those of us who really care, don't worry. Prayers for you and yours.
I think the trip to Italy is perfect timing. Getting away from everyday troubles will aid you in processing the past few weeks events. Relax and recharge. Maybe Italy will provide you some new content inspiration!! Hugs 💚
Maybe Winnie the Cottage needs some insulation? Starting with the ceiling and north wall? Then it would warm faster & stay warm linger.
I'm so sorry that you've been hurt and had a trust broken. Give yourself time. Creativity come from a place of love peace and contentment. Don't worry if it takes a little while until you are feeling like your old creative self. Give yourself time to regain your balance.