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  • @DeisekiChan
    @DeisekiChan ปีที่แล้ว +1175

    I was born in germany and I feel like this loneliness has always been a part of this country for some reason. As a student I often see foreign students in the train and always wonder how to connect with them and make some friendships. As an introvert im definetly not the person to approach someone directly. But my roommates and I seriously would love to share dinner with some people who feel lost in this country! If you have any tipps, please let me know :)

    • @_haru_2006
      @_haru_2006 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      be bolder

    • @sebastiano2508
      @sebastiano2508 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      In Poland it is the same, I think all of Central Europe is affected by this new wave of loneliness.

    • @EyeSEeYous
      @EyeSEeYous ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Ich dachte echt das liegt an mir. Ich kenne viele Menschen bei denen viel abgeht, aber irgendwie gibt mir Deutschland echt immer dieses kalte, lonely Gefühl. Obwohl Deutschland eigentlich ganz schön ist. Vielleicht lebe ich auch in der falschen Stadt.

    • @its_V
      @its_V ปีที่แล้ว +9

      heyyy, actually ig in a few years, i might be coming over there for my studies....I personally feel that:
      if someone cud help out with the stores and buying food, its great! and then maybe 'round the place, like where's the library or this store, and also some good restaurants nearby😋
      idk, i just guess this cud help out, tho thanks for hearing me out

    • @juliak8684
      @juliak8684 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@EyeSEeYous ich denke auch, dass viele deutsche einfach von natur aus nicht sehr offen sind. meine mutter ist immigrantin und hat nie wirklich deutsche freunde gefunden obwohl ihr deutsch besser ist als das vieler muttersprachler. ich hab mir mittlerweile einen mikrokosmos mit vielen offenen und lieben menschen geschaffen und 90% sind immigranten oder immigranten-kinder

  • @daphne_1233
    @daphne_1233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    "I actually like being alone so I don't get lonely easily" these words hits so hard. Don't worry girl!! I'm here for you as I'm also far away from home

  • @hollywarner4191
    @hollywarner4191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I am also a foreigner that lives alone in Germany :) I moved to Erfurt recently. I do get lonely at times, since I am in a Masters program but it hasn’t started so I haven’t met anyone. But I know how to enjoy my own company, and I think that is important in Germany. Knowing how to be alone is an important skill that not many have. I am fortunate that I work my American job remotely, because that’s where I get all my socializing from haha. But I enjoy having my peace and own space. It allows for a lot of growth and maturing.

    • @mediashoper3178
      @mediashoper3178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very nice to hear! I live in Weimar. I'm still 16, but I want to move out soon to become independent. I learned I need to live without my parents, but my finances said otherwise xD
      Good luck in Erfurt :)

    • @sweetlychee9293
      @sweetlychee9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so cool, fellow american here!!
      I live in Gotha :)

    • @luciamattheis8324
      @luciamattheis8324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm a German and I agree so much with your statement of 'enjoying your own company'. In school I've hung out a lot with friends but now that we all went our own ways after graduating, I actually really like being on my own. It certainly helped me mature. Sometimes I miss those times where I could hang out with ppl and just have fun but we just moved apart and I think it was very important for myself to find solitude in my own company. Due to my struggles with anxiety and social anxiety I don't go out a lot but I wanna start going out more, making a life for myself and not for my friends or anyone

    • @ClaireEmilia
      @ClaireEmilia ปีที่แล้ว

      I live near Erfurt! unfortunately I am going to spend the next 3 months in the US (well, it's actually not unfortunate :) ). Otherwise we could have met if you'd like to. If you want to find friends maybe try the Tandem program? I registered in it and met a Korean girl :D

    • @skytraveler8274
      @skytraveler8274 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey I‘m from Erfurt. 26 years old female. If you want we can meet ^^

  • @Farbensterben
    @Farbensterben 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Got your video on my recommendation page. I was born in Germany and I always find it so admirable of people to go live somewhere else be it for studying or working. I always was too scared to try it out. I think your way of managing those feelings of loneliness is very mature and healthy. I wish you good luck with your studies.

  • @26424
    @26424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    그런 날일수록 나를 욕할 거리를 주지 않아야 한다는 말, 저에게는 작은 깨우침이에요. 댓글을 자주 달지 않는 구독자인데요, 먼 곳이지만 누군가는 자신의 일상을 꿋꿋이 지켜나가고 있다는 게 이상하게 위로가 돼서 영상을 꾸준히 보고 있어요. 유일님의 소소한 일상의 안위를 언제나 응원합니다.

  • @yan3868
    @yan3868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    최근에 지나친 우울감이 몰려와서 마냥 웅크려 있었는데 유일님도 우울감을 느끼셨다니요 타지라서 더욱 크게 파고들었을 것 같아요 항상 댓글을 남기진 않아도 늘 응원하고 있습니다 우리 존재 화이팅!

  • @nazeera2
    @nazeera2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Huge respect for going alone to germany you study there. I would like to study in korea (even if im a bit old to study) but im learning the language and hope i can visit it one day. Greetings from Germany

  • @macmaresa
    @macmaresa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Giulia hatte Recht: toll gefilmt, spannende Einblicke

  • @user-ct4kk1xx5b
    @user-ct4kk1xx5b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    저도 지금 똑같은 심정이에요 이 감정을 이겨내기가 항상 어렵더라구요 그런데 저만 느끼는게 아니고 유일님 그리고 전세계에 이악물고 버티고 있을 모든 유학생들이 느끼는 자연스러운 감정이라는걸 알았을때 우리 모두 언젠가는 큰 보상이 오겠지 하며 넘길수 있었던거 같아요🧚

  • @sincerityisscary7
    @sincerityisscary7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    우울을 받아들이는 유일님 모습이 엄청 성숙하시고 저런 과정이 있을때까지 얼마나 고생하셨을지..
    항상 잘보고 있습니다 응원할게요

  • @thesummertalesd8816
    @thesummertalesd8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This Vlog is pure love. Every bit of it is so calming and positive. I just loved the way you cope up with not so good days.❤️

  • @fariyabano5995
    @fariyabano5995 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for making this video. I am an international student as well and was feeling very lonely. But I was holding it all in. So I wasn't able to do anything and was just laying in bed all day. Your video helped me so much. Just to think there's so many of us feeling the same way away from our homes gave me so much comfort. Your clips form the park also make me feel like I should go out more often to feel better.

  • @user-lj7ni6dv9j
    @user-lj7ni6dv9j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    공부하면서 유일님 영상 정주행한 거 또 하고 또 하는데 집중도 잘 되고 자극도 많이 돼요! 항상 예쁘고 재밌는 영상 만들어주셔서 감사해요🫶🏻 거의 인강처럼 보는 중 …………

  • @identityrose693
    @identityrose693 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It is so interesting to watch videos of students in different countries especially in Germany since I live here. Thank you so much for uploading this video. I love your editing!

  • @maha_sundararaj
    @maha_sundararaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    오늘 하루 진짜 너무 힘들었는데 언니가 알림와서 기분 업 시켰어요💜너무 감동적이야 타국에서 혼자 사는 언니 쉽지않은 롤모델 ...... 화이팅

  • @gloria_library
    @gloria_library 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    유일님, 우울을 가만히 지켜 보고 있는 모습에서. 강인함이 느껴졌어요. 그렇게 찬찬히 몸을 일으켜. 아무렇지도 않게 과제를 하고 세미나를 듣고. 유일님의 이번 브이로그를 보면서 제 자신을 되돌아 보게 되네요. 저는 언제나 허우적 댔던거 같아서요. 독일 유학생활 진심으로 응원합니다 !!!💓

  • @quokka7893
    @quokka7893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you for sharing your sad/not so good days with us ❤️ the Internet usually makes us feel like we should always make the best of our days so you sharing this bite of reality is quite comforting. Having said that, hope you’re feeling better now!! 🙌🏼🫶🏼

  • @jooyounglee8584
    @jooyounglee8584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    공부하니까 기분이 돌아오는 것 보니 진정한 대학원생이시군요,,,, 항상 화이팅입니다ㅎㅎ

  • @lilihi3795
    @lilihi3795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm happy to get to know you cause you are strong. When my lonely days come, I stop all my work and stay like a mess. I love the way you spent those days. Next time I'll try to spend my sad days as you did.

  • @libilibi5093
    @libilibi5093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    유일님의 우울에 익숙해졌다는 말이 왜이리 저에게 깊게 다가오는지ㅠㅠ 저도 매 학기마다 우울한 시기가 텀을 두고 찾아오는데 크게 별 일 안하고 이러다 괜찮아지겠지..하는데 유일님의 이번 영상이 그래도 괜찮다고 저에게 위로해주시는 느낌이라 눈물이 나네요ㅠㅠ 영상 잘 보고 있고 항상 응원하고 있어요! 우리는 우리 자체로 소중하고 충분하니까 같이 잘 살아봅시다:)

  • @myrmikonosthemyrmidon9387
    @myrmikonosthemyrmidon9387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a great example of living with inner peace, bliss, serenity and the constant struggle of being alone, searching for connection and community. As we all have that decision to make how to deal with this and how to perceive the circumstances we are in. I feel like lonelyness doesn't hurt much as long you have some purpose in life. Something vague that gives you a sense of meaning in your existence can help to deal with everything. Sending you a hug.

  • @user-yh7rh1yt9o
    @user-yh7rh1yt9o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    우울할 때 나를 욕할 거리를 주면 안된다는 말이 너무 인상적이면서도 슬퍼져요 ...,,, 언제나 잘 보고 있습니다. 응원해요 ♥

  • @user-yp4ty5rp2t
    @user-yp4ty5rp2t ปีที่แล้ว +16

    다 지치고 하기싫을때 영상보러오는 학생이에요 엄청 우울한 날 마침 이 영상이 올라와서 큰 위로를 받고 벌써 4번째 보고있네요ㅎ 우울할때 진심으로 위로되는영상은 처음인것 같아요 왜그런진 모르겠지만 이 영상 보면 힘이돼요 하늘이 예쁜 독일에 사시는 유일님 우울할때 또 보러올께요 영상올려주셔서 정말 고맙습니다

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      우리 조금만 더 힘내봐요🍀 응원할게요🫶🏼

    • @haleemakhan-qh9ok
      @haleemakhan-qh9ok ปีที่แล้ว

      Hlo i am from New York

    • @haleemakhan-qh9ok
      @haleemakhan-qh9ok ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hlo I am from New York

  • @sop_littlewoman
    @sop_littlewoman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    성실한 자는 빛난다는 말이 가장 어울리시는 분이세요. 유일님 반짝반짝 빛나요. 늘 좋은 에너지를 주셔서 감사해요. 건강 잘 챙기면서 지내셔요 여름에도 더운 물 많이 드시구요!

  • @joyful_Joy
    @joyful_Joy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    저도 독일석사 끝내고 어제 잠시 한국왔는데, 석사하는 중에도 논문쓰는 중에도 우울한 날이 많았어요. 특히 코로나 기간이 하염없이 길어지고 그로 인해 논문이 미뤄지고 뭐 이런 일들이 생기니까 내 마음대로 뭔가 되지않는 그런 나날들에 많이 지치더라구요. 친구들도 잘 만나지 않게 되고 혼자있는 시간에 익숙하게 되고 근데 또 북적이는 시간이 그리워지고.
    또 마음이 아파서인지 몸이 더 자주 아파지더라구요.
    병원가도 다 스트레스성이라고 하고 항상 편안하게 생각하라는데 도대체 그걸 어떻게 해야하는건지 잘 모르겠었어서 힘들더라구요.
    논문이 끝나고 졸업을 한 지금도 아직 낫지않은 느낌이지만 후덥지근 한국 여름 + 가족케어 하면 나아질거라 믿고 한국왔어요.
    유일님도 남은 학기 잘 보내시고 날씨 좋은 날에는 아이스크림도 일부러 먹으러 나가시면서 기분 전환하시길 바래요! 혼자만 그렇지 않다는 거 알려드리고 싶었어요 :)

  • @younghyunkweon4781
    @younghyunkweon4781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    갑자기 밀려오는 우울감과 외로움. 이겨내려고 하면 정말 답없고 까딱하면 내가 잠식당할수도 있으니 그냥 '얘네도 그냥 나 잘있나 확인하러 온거구나' 하고 넘기면 넘어가지더라구요ㅎㅎ 영상 초반에 울적해보이는 모습에 걱정이 되었지만 말미에 슬그머니 보인 잘 지내고 있는 유일님 모습에 오히려 제가 회복할 에너지 얻어가는 것 같아요! 멀리서지만.. 마음속이기도 하지만 항상 응원하고 있어용☺️ (이제막자취2년차되는주제에누가누굴걱정하는지😂)

  • @user-ps6xz4dz3x
    @user-ps6xz4dz3x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    항상 응원해요 힘들겠지만 열심히 하시는 모습보며 삶의 의지를 다져요 열심히 하다보면 좋은 일들이 가득할꺼에요 응원해요 유일님❤

  • @noo9730
    @noo9730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    유일님.. 타지에서 혼자 지내면서 우울함이 오지 않을 수가 없을 것 같아요🥺 그걸 굳이 에너지 소모해가며 이겨내려고 애쓰지 않아도, 그냥 자연스럽게 흘러가도록 두는 거 그리고 마냥 나쁜 감정이라고만 생각하지 않는 게 베스트라고 저는 생각해요. 보이지 않는 누군가는 유일님 영상을 보면서 우울함을 씻어낸다고 하면 유일님이 힘 좀 나실까요..? 힘든 시간들 잘 지나 보내셨음 좋겠습니다! 그리고 힘든 거 있음 구독자들과 조금씩 떼서 나누어 가지도록 해요☺️

  • @user-xf9dw6zl1u
    @user-xf9dw6zl1u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    저도 유일님 처럼 심리학과 유학생 이어서 늘 너무 공감가고 그랬었는데 특히 오늘 영상이 공감이 더욱 가는 것 같아요ㅠㅠ 바캉스 기간에 다들 본가로 내려가니까 동네가 더욱 한적해지면서 정말 낙엽만 휘날리는 분위기인데ㅜㅜ 그때 문득 혼자가 되었다는 느낌을 저도 확 받을때가 있더라구요.. 지금은 괜찮아졌지만 그 과정이 얼마나 힘드셨을지 너무 이해가 되어서 마음이 아프네요 ㅠㅠ 앞으로도 쭈욱 좋은일만 가득하시길 바라구 힘내세요!! 저도 같이 힘내볼게요!!😍

  • @user-ne7vj5pj5t
    @user-ne7vj5pj5t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    8년이란 시간이 참 길지만 우울감이나 외로움이 적응되기엔 짧은 시간인가봅니다. 그래도 잘 이겨내고 털어내는 유일님 멋져요 👍

  • @zish5461
    @zish5461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best part was time in park - the view and sound of wind flickering through tree leaves was simply soothing! ☺️ cheer up - after your master program you will eventually head back home so won’t be lonely in future ! Keep up and rooting for you ! 👍👌

  • @sugaringpotato
    @sugaringpotato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    관자 드시는 젓가락질에서도 슬픔이 느껴지는🥺 그래도 마찬가지로 과제 타이핑 하는 손에서는 조금 경쾌함이 느껴져서 다행이라고 생각했네요🥹 유일님이 종종 느끼는 우울감은 제가 유학 가지 않는 이상 평생 모를 힘듦이겠지만,,,항상 응원해요 정말정말 😍❤️ 아좌좟~!!!

  • @whatsoever4290
    @whatsoever4290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    got recommended your video and I loved watching it because it's so well made and also because I can relate. I moved to Germany last month and it gets lonely sometimes and i miss home too but it's nice to be by myself, explore & learn new things every day. Much love and power to you & everyone who misses home but still enjoys the privilege of being by themselves

  • @MeMer02
    @MeMer02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am taking my second course this coming Aug, and I can alrdy feel what you are feeling since I also experienced these kind of days back in college as well, with the first course I took.. I can totally relate with you, we may are different ppl but I also have similar ways of coping up with my feelings just like what you do.. Let's just keep on going, and appreciate our surroundings, esp. the walk you had in the park, that felt calming 😇🥰

  • @umiearth
    @umiearth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    전 우울할 때 유일님 영상을 돌려봐요.
    자막까지 집중해서 보지 않고 멍하니.
    타지에서 느꼈을 우울함을 이겨내고
    노력하는 분이 있다면 저도 이겨낼 수 있다는 힘을 얻어요.
    늘 응원해요, 화이팅!!!

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      감사합니다 ◡̈

  • @user-xc9be4md1g
    @user-xc9be4md1g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    유일님 우울함을 느끼고 이겨내는게 저랑 비슷하신 것 같아서 공감이 많이 되는 영상이었어요 물론 저는 유학생은 아니지만 대학교 4학년 졸업을 앞두고 있어서 가끔씩 막막하고 우울한 기분이 많이 들더라고요 저도 힘낼게요 항상 영상 잘 보고 있습니다

  • @26as14
    @26as14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    우울해지는 날이 있더라도 그런 날들이 적길, 그리고 곧 행복한 일상으로 감추어 사라지길 마음을 담아 기도할게요. 저도, 유일님도 그랬으면 좋겠어요 ㅎㅎ 다 괜찮아질거에요 ! 단단하신 모습 본받고 싶네요 늘 영상 잘보고있어요 잔잔한 편안함을 느끼게 해주셔서 감사해요 😊

  • @lean8132
    @lean8132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    타지에서 대학생활하는 것도 힘든데 타국에서 공부하는 유일님은 얼마나 단단한 사람인가 느끼게 되었네요 ㅠㅠ 당연히 독일어도 원래 잘하시고 학업도 잘하시고 하는 줄 알았지만 그렇게 되기까지 얼마나 노력하고 힘을 들였을지 생각이 드네요. 영상 항상 잘 보고 있습니다아! 밤에 쉬면서 보면 맘이 편해지더라구요. 유일님 유학생활 쫌만 더 힘내세요 응원할게요❣💫💫

  • @daky7814
    @daky7814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    저도 교환학생와서 너무 힘들었는데 공감이 가네요🥲 항상 화이팅하세요!!

  • @naneunsepping
    @naneunsepping ปีที่แล้ว +10

    저도 프랑스에서 유학하고 있는데 진짜 우울하고 한국이 너무 그리워요 ㅠㅠㅠ 오히려 좀 더 시간이 많아지다 보니까 잡생각도 많아지고 걱정도 많아지더라구요 그래도 좋은 기회니까 같이 힘냅시다!!!!!!

  • @lailar14
    @lailar14 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Current student that transferred from abroad to Germany. I am in my third semester now, and yeah... it gets really lonely now that its vacation time. You're not alone! Although that my not exactly help... I just try to watch dramas and movies when i'm sad or journal and go through a self-help phase. Trying something new also helps, be it getting a job somewhere interesting or paying for an experience, travelling through Europe and staying at hostels may help with meeting people. Try not to give up and stay confident :) Greetings from Hamburg

  • @oyukaod5950
    @oyukaod5950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first vlog that I watched from you. I really liked everything. I know exactly how you're feeling, in Germany being foreign student and during xmas and all holdays everyone goes to their parents' places but you just come to your dorm room alone.... I felt so much love from me towards you while watching, maybe because I imagined my youngersister in your situations that you showed. She is also soon going to abroad alone to study

  • @machiii-
    @machiii- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cause you've been sharing happy moments with us, I never thought you'd have a moment of depression... I hope you can get through this trough as soon as possible. Your video is always a big motivation for me to study (cuz I plan to study in Germany in the future). wish you all the best 💖

    • @taeilsqameroon
      @taeilsqameroon ปีที่แล้ว

      loneliness is not depression. depression also doesnt hold on for a moment..

    • @machiii-
      @machiii- ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taeilsqameroon sry, i I don't know much about depression, so forgive me if i said something wrong. It's just that the author's title translates to "depression" in English

  • @vell2994
    @vell2994 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm a German, and my life as a student is pretty lonely ! I think it's so easy to stay anonymous and keeping distance in our universities

  • @MIN-kw9gb
    @MIN-kw9gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    영상 보기 전이지만 썸네일만 보고도 전쟁 같았던 하루가 위로되네요. 유일님도 힘내세요! 늘 응원합니다:)

  • @kkkkkyungminnnnn
    @kkkkkyungminnnnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    저도 그 파도가 잔잔히 지나가길 바라면서 기다리는 편이라 너무 공감,,,ㅠ
    전 어느덧 대학원 졸업을 앞뒀습니다. 유일님 영상보면서 힐링하면서 석사과정을 견뎠어요.
    영상을 보면서 오늘도 유일님의 일상이 평온하길, 소소한 행복이 있길 바라는 구독자들이 있다는 게 조금이나마 힘이 되었으면 해요!
    무튼,,,사,,,,사,,사랑합니다,,,!!!!!♥

  • @frani687
    @frani687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Omg I just found your channel and it's such a blessing, cause next semester I'm gonna be living/studying in Germany (all by myself hehe) and watching your vids is freaking inspiring me even more

    • @nehawaghmare3969
      @nehawaghmare3969 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heyy!! Me too gonna move to Germany...

    • @ewsienk9190
      @ewsienk9190 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! Starting from next semester

    • @lucycarlay8547
      @lucycarlay8547 ปีที่แล้ว

      German student here.
      If you want to make some friends or to know people here are some tips.
      Go to the Ersti-Woche. In my university it was the week before the start of Semester.
      Why you should go, because no one nows anyone. That is why the Ersti- Woche was established.
      You will mostly do games to know people, but there are also drinking games to don't come with an empty stomache. And be prepared.
      And go to the evening events.
      And then at the start or when the alcohol sets in talk to some people, maybe you will meet then in some courses or lectures again.
      And if you do not go. You will automatocally find people in your course and when you have some projects you are going to secure their phone number and boom you know people.
      And then look out what your Fachschaft post, cause they will make advertisment for Partys and stuff.

  • @alinachen4844
    @alinachen4844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You‘ re not lonely. We are always been there with you♥♥♥

  • @yipingping
    @yipingping 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    유일님 우연히 보게 되었는데 우울감을 이겨내는 모습이 저랑 비슷해서 공감도 많이되고 타지라서 더 힘드셨을텐데 꿋꿋이 견뎌내는 모습이 멋있고 인상 깊어서 댓글남겨요! 주변에 유학했던 친구들이 많아서 유학생들 보면 정말 대단하다고 생각들어요 늘 힘내시고 응원하겠습니다 😊

  • @gabrieleschwarz2233
    @gabrieleschwarz2233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just came to your channel through drinnies podcast and this is the first video I saw. I like it very much. Just to let you know: I live in Germany since 15 years now. My family still lives in Austria. I know those days that make you feel lonely. You are not "alone" with that, and it's good you went on a day off and relax a bit. Take care.

  • @johannalander9880
    @johannalander9880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    제가 한국에 살아 보니까 혼자 많이 다녀 와서 어떤 느낌이 있는지 알게 되었어요. 저도 외로웠고 우울한 것 같았어요. 하지만 저는 바쁘게 일에 집중하려고 노력했어요.
    저는 이러한 영상을 매우 멋지다고 생각해요. 이렇게 해외에서 계셔서 정말 대단하세요!

  • @abdelkarimnasri3294
    @abdelkarimnasri3294 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's very beautiful that you're sharing your story and emotions in this video! Love that

  • @user-ih3pd8hq7w
    @user-ih3pd8hq7w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    유일님 제가 유일님 영상 보고 시험기간에 위안도 삼고...시험끝나도 보고...음식도 따라해먹고,공부도 열심히 했어요.
    저한테 선한 영향주신 분인데 댓글은 많이 안달았고 표현도 잘 안한거같아요.
    항상 응원하는 마음으로 지켜보고 있어요
    사람이 우울할때도 있고 행복할때도 있는거죠!
    움츠러들때가 있어도 유일님의 소중함은 변치않아요,저희가 있잖아요💕파이팅!!!

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      감사합니다💕💕

  • @user-jv1cr3ke6m
    @user-jv1cr3ke6m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    역시 심리학전공이시고 대학원생이시니 자기를 조절하는것도 완전 프로이시네요 저는 이 나이에도 쉽지않던데~~ 많이 배웁니다~~ 영상 늘 아껴보고 다시보고 또보고 그럽니다^^

  • @yu754
    @yu754 ปีที่แล้ว

    It just felt kinda relieved when I saw your vlog, sharing how you deal with your loneliness.
    I’m now being an exchange student in Japan, and because of being diagnosed of corona, I arrived here late and miss a lot of activities, and thus couldn’t get along with the American and the European here.
    They are all kind to me but I just couldn’t speak English as fluently as those natives, so I somewhat felt lonely when I found out myself wasn’t viewed as part of them.
    Thank u for making this vlog and share what you thought about loneliness. It just made me feel more relieved.

  • @christinajeon3957
    @christinajeon3957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    영상 잘 봤습니다. ^^ 저보다 한참 어린 분이신데 단단하고 야무진 분 같아요. 많이 보고 배웁니다. 힘내시고 건강한 유학 생활하시길 바래요. *^^*

  • @sxxjin7234
    @sxxjin7234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    유일님:) 제가 댓글을 많이 다는 편은 아닌데 오늘영상은 저와 비슷한 모습들이 비춰져 남기게 되었어요,, ㅎㅎ 저도 혼자 있는 것을 너무나 좋아하는 사람인데 가끔씩 감정이 들떠있다가 큰 돌덩이가 쿵 하는 것처럼 아주 깊이 우울해지곤 하는데 저도 마찬가지로 이 우울한 감정 내가 어떻게 할 수 없으니 처음에는 빨리 이 감정을 떨쳐내려고 억지로 무언갈 했는데 또 금방 우울해지더라고요 그래서 지금은 저도 그 감정을 충분히 느끼고 그냥 아무소리없이 지나가게 냅두는 거 같아요 사람마다 감정을 다스리는 방법이 다르고 유일님이 하고있는 방법이 유일님에게 맞는거니까요! 타지생활이 많이 외로우실 거 같아요 스스로 어느정도 적응했다고 하면서도 막상 그러한 감정이 오면 많은 생각을 하실 거 같기도 하고,, 그래도 너무 많이 외로워하진 마시길 바랄게요! 유일님의 가족과 친구 그리고 구독자들이 항상 옆에 있을테니까요! 어찌보면 그 우울감 다 이겨내고 다시 일어설 수 있었던 건 유일님 본인의 힘이 그만큼 강한 사람인거 아닐까요! 너무 길어졌죠 ㅎㅎ 유일님 힘내시고! 타지에서 건강하게 지내세요 ♥️

  • @blink33d
    @blink33d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you very much for your content - it really calms me down a lot after a stressful day!
    Giving us a glimpse into your daily life and showing us your joys and struggles must not be easy...
    I will always cheer for you, who is strong and doing well day by day in a foreign country - in this video even without boba ;)
    Anyway, I hope you that you know that you have built up this community, who will always have your back and who you can reach out to, if required :)

  • @archanakumarimeena3058
    @archanakumarimeena3058 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so relaxing to watch your videos during my low days❤️❤️

  • @RS-qx3bx
    @RS-qx3bx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    totally agree. and it also make sense, you have been 8 years living abroad alone. Emotion is always come and go. Embrace it. Stay positive & happy.

  • @user-oe1ch1ti7u
    @user-oe1ch1ti7u 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    유일님을 좋아하는 수많은 사람 중에 한 명이에요! 언제나 잘 보고 있고 또 마음속으로 항상 응원하고 있어요 파이팅^^**

  • @user-dk2gd9ql1e
    @user-dk2gd9ql1e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    유일님 항상 파이팅이에요☺️ 우울함 절루가..🥲

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      감사해요🙈 화이팅😊😊

  • @jiyouvlog
    @jiyouvlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    외로워도 꿋꿋하게 자기할일 하는 모습이 너무 멋져요, 화이팅!

  • @olhastefanova1885
    @olhastefanova1885 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It is unbelievable how your situation is similar to mine... I am a foreign student in Germany too and even though it is my 5th year here, it feels like I still don't have real friends here, and it makes me sad from time to time. I am quite introverted, so I enjoy being alone, but obviously, at some point it is too much and I just kind of miss people and communication with them...
    No idea whether it is because of the German culture or just because of me being too shy, but I wish there was some kind of international students community where we could get to know and support each other. That would be really cool...

    • @kahlschlag955
      @kahlschlag955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Depends on the city where you are living. Usually there is always a ESN section which does exactly this for students from abroad.

  • @bellyache9870
    @bellyache9870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing. Sometimes I feel lonely too and this video felt like a hug.

  • @usami9548
    @usami9548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It comes and it goes라는 자막이 너무나 와닿네요. 전 한국에 있지만, 그런 우울감이나 생각들은 언제나 저의 삶에 있었던 것 같아요. 가족이나 친구 물론 위로가 될 수 있지만 결국은 삶에서 그것들을 마주하는 것은 나라는 존재니까요. 언제나 어디서나 비슷한 종류의 사람들이 유일님과 비슷한 모양의 마음을 느끼고 있어요. 저도 여기서 버티지 않고 잘 흘려보낼게요!

  • @ailien_PAK
    @ailien_PAK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    유일님!! 기다렸습니다☺️ 타지에서 공부하랴 편집하랴 고생이 많으십니다!! 늘 응원하겠습니다. 무엇보다 늘 건강하십쇼!! 🫶🏻

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      감사합니다🫶🏼🙈

  • @user-dl1sy5li9o
    @user-dl1sy5li9o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    저도 타지에서의 외로움.. 이방인.. 그 기분 알거같아서 보다가 눈물이 났어요🥲 들떴다가 갑자기 모든게 원점으로 돌아오면 푸욱 가라앉는 느낌에서 오는 우울도 알것같구요 ㅠㅠ 보면서 에구 맥주 드시면서 해리포터보고 털어낼정도의 작은 우울이였으면 좋겠다라고 생각했는데 역시 유일님 기네스 드시면서 해리포터 보셨군욬ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 저 유일잘알인가요😎 아무튼 우울이 있다면 훌훌 털어버리시고 건강하고 행복만 하셨으면 하는 바람이 있어요 (거기에 적은 과제를 곁들인..) 오늘 영상도 잘봤습니다🤍

  • @yoon1005
    @yoon1005 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    우연히 본 영상이었는데 나도 같은 가분이 되는 사람이 있다는거 알겠고 좀 울것같았어요. 일도 싫고 뭔가 혼자라는 느낌이 들고 아무것도 하기 싫은 시기 가끔 왔는데 다른 사람도 그런 날이 있다는게 너무 위로가 됐어요. 그리고 유학을 하고싶다는 꿈이 있었는데 아직 못하고 있었어요. 이 영상 보고 다시 해보자 라는 생각이 들있어요. 감사합니다!!

  • @sonianariman9195
    @sonianariman9195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank God that you felt better as soon as you could ^-^ I believe that people who study abroad are so strong :) because that's for sure a hard decision and a hard time. You survive 8 years and you will in the future. Just have fun and try to attach to your friends. As a experience you had, they can be so helpful for you to not feel lonely.
    Love you a lotttttttt and hope you have a great time and be happy 😊❤❤❤

  • @user-wm2wg8hn2d
    @user-wm2wg8hn2d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    작년 9월부터 준비한 시험이 두달도 남지 않았어요. 저번달까지만 해도 시간이 조금만 더 있었으면 좋겠다 싶었는데 이제는 차라리 빨리 끝나버렸으면 하는 마음이에요🥲 약 1년을 첫차타고 학원에 가서 막차타고 오는 하루를 반복했는데 막상 쌓인 건 없는 것 같아서 내가 뭐한건가 싶고 그래요.. 두달 뒤에 제 모습이 어떨지 기대도 되고 무섭기도 하고 그래요😭 그래도 오늘 밤은 유일님 영상 보면서 편안하게 잠들래요. 오늘 영상은 아직 안 봤지만 항상 저의 위로가 돼주셔서 감사해요🌿

    • @yooilim
      @yooilim  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      다 잘 될거에요 🤍 남은 시간 조금만 더 힘내요🌷응원할게요🫶🏼

  • @dahyelee4340
    @dahyelee4340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    잘 이겨내는 모습 멋져요!

  • @piano851011
    @piano851011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    독일 음대 나왔는데 영상보니 잊고있던 독일생활이 스물스물 떠오르네요! 영상 잘보고 갑니다 :)

  • @detektiveconanfreak
    @detektiveconanfreak ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stumbled upon this video by chance and I am getting so homesick right now. Saarland is my home but since I study quite far away with a horrible train connection I only get to go home a few times a year, so that feeling of loneliness when all your friends go home over a long weekend is something I really understand. It was even worse in my year abroad in Korea, since I am not one to go out much and also generally like being alone, but since all my friends always planned trips over the weekends and semerster breaks I just got lonely really fast. I still have to get to the stage of positive thinking about this loneliness but your video gave me a lot of hope. 영상 너무 잘 봤습니다! 유일님 힘든 날들이 조금이라도 덜 있길 바랄게요^^ 응원합니다!

  • @vegeq7285
    @vegeq7285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you yooil for your comforting video.

  • @user-dr6nh6yx4t
    @user-dr6nh6yx4t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    저도 기숙사에서 지내서 타지생활로 우울함이 자주 왔었는데요 진짜 시간이 지나가는 것만이 답이더라구요..,
    그래도 항상 우울해짐ㅠ 유일님 같은 타지생활러로써 화이팅입니다ㅜㅜ

  • @user-vl4ff9kj7m
    @user-vl4ff9kj7m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    에고ㅠㅠ 저도 잠깐이지만 타지 생활을 해본지라 괜히 마음이 찡하네요 저라도 유일님 옆에 있어주고 싶은 심정 ㅠㅠ 그래도 먼 나라에서 씩씩하게 지내고 있는 모습 너무 멋져요ㅎㅎ 한국은 지금 밤인데 독일은 어떠려나요! 오늘도 맛있는거 많이 먹고 좋은 하루 보내세요🥰 화이팅

  • @user-ss9jg4nu6l
    @user-ss9jg4nu6l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    영상 완전 잘 봤습니다 응원할게요 🫶

  • @arpakornjittrapirom2670
    @arpakornjittrapirom2670 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The food and coffee look so good. You could use your cooking skill to make friends. Invite them to come over, you guys can cook together. I am also a foreign student and have been studying in Germany for 7 years now. My german friends are very sincere, once I get to know them really well. It just takes time to make friendship. I like cooking and my german friends love it, when I cook them my native foods. Be open and brave, do not afraid to make mistakes by speaking german. I told my friends to correct me when I said something grammatically wrong. I quite like it here. German people can be serious sometimes but they are also hard working, I can learn a lot from them. Understanding the culture, people and being able to adapt is an important skill for being aboard. Wish you all the best ;)

  • @Boo-nx4ut
    @Boo-nx4ut ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ich liebe dein video! Du hast ohnehin schon so viel zu tun was die Schule angeht, und dazu kommt dann auch noch Videos drehen und schneiden? Wow 👏
    Ich hoffe es geht dir besser und du schaffst das!!

  • @phoenixphan573
    @phoenixphan573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve been living in Australia for 7 years. It does get pretty lonely sometimes but I enjoy being alone so kinda balance out tbh. Nice video btw I love the vibes 💕

  • @haeee9462
    @haeee9462 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    우울한 날 우연히 이 영상을 보게 되었는데 다 보고나니 위로가 되네요 저는 우울한 날에는 며칠이고 우울함에 잠식되어 무기력 해지는 편인데.. 유일님을 보면 너무 대단한 것 같아서 많이 배우고 갑니다. 저도 오늘은 유일님을 따라서 나를 욕할 거리를 주지 않으려고 노력해보려구요 감사해요

  • @got2beable
    @got2beable ปีที่แล้ว

    @12:13 i started having tears. You doing well all alone in this huge world we living in. I am struggling myself and i wish i can be like this someday.

  • @bigchoifreedom7413
    @bigchoifreedom7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    날씨 좋을때 자전거로 한시간만 타고 와도 기분 전환 하는데 도움 되더라구요. 에데카 봉투 오랫만에 봐서 반갑네요

  • @marla0412
    @marla0412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I really like watching your videos because Saarbrücken is my home town. I moved away to study but when I miss home I can watch your videos :) I'm also learning Korean so they help a lot. Thank you for making these vlogs

    • @sadoro104
      @sadoro104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also enjoy watching your vlogs from my hometown😭🙂 I live in the north of Germany.
      I send you all a 🤗

    • @niyume_
      @niyume_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are like reverse card of her xkdnfndn

  • @dhaani-leighchristie936
    @dhaani-leighchristie936 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching from New Zealand
    Thank you for sharing I am so inspired by you 😇💫

  • @holunderbake3398
    @holunderbake3398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hai:) I'm so happy that you know the sun and the nature always smile at you and you can give yourself that doing good things. you're strong and you don't have to be either some times. it gave me positive energy. Danke!

  • @tharanipathirajasooriya1718
    @tharanipathirajasooriya1718 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you yooil so much.
    I was feeling so down but this helped me so much .
    Thanks ❤️

  • @user-lu2ju9yz7u
    @user-lu2ju9yz7u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    나 역시 힘든일을 겪었어 너가 건강해지고 더 강해지길 바래 나도 정리하려고 노력하고 있어 내 인생은 꽤 엉망이야
    나도 항상 외롭지만 우리 모두가 있다는 걸 알아요 💜

  • @Cloud_7peace
    @Cloud_7peace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really feel relaxed while watching ur videos ❤

  • @flight4244
    @flight4244 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    미래에 독일서 석사할 제 이야기가 될거 같아서 열심히 봤습니다. 꾸준히 올려주셔서 감사합니다.

  • @gaganbajwa4331
    @gaganbajwa4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos always cheers me up 💗 I am really addicted with your videos ⚘ Have a good day

  • @user-wt7cl2yr6v
    @user-wt7cl2yr6v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    저도 유학하면서 세미나에서 발표 까이고 ㅠㅠ 그래서 기분 울적하던 차에 알고리즘이란 ㅠㅠㅠ 한없이 우울해지다가도 유학생활 너무 바쁘다보니 과제 할 땐 또 정신없이 하다가 우울해지고 그게 반복되는거같아요...항상 영상 잘보고 있습니다!! 화이팅 하세요

  • @normallymina2937
    @normallymina2937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I often feel the same, I literally don’t know anybody where I live at the moment and I often miss my hometown too 😅🤍

  • @Nongdam367
    @Nongdam367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    유일님 오늘도 영상 너무 잘 봤어요! 저도 우울감이 올 때 흐름을 바꾸려고 할 때도 많았는데 요즘은 이것마저도 지칠때가 많아서 더 나빠지지 않게만, 서서히 물러갈 수 있게 하는거 같네요 유일님 영상을 보면서 저도 토마토주스처럼 저를 위한 건강한? 저를 챙기는 행동을 많이 해봐야 겠다고 느끼네요 오늘도 너무 재밌게 잘 봤어요~!!! 아 배고프다!!!!!!!

  • @nymphyanne
    @nymphyanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love the thumbnail

  • @jayxspace
    @jayxspace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That loneliness part. I really feel you. Greetings from Thuringia. ♡

  • @diana-ph9de
    @diana-ph9de 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    your video got recommended to me by youtube and i watched it because you are studying in germany. When i then saw where you study i was shocked because i actually live near saarbrücken

  • @soya2982
    @soya2982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate to all of this even when I'm not studying abroad because I have to take a long ride from my home to get to my uni so I can't go back as often as my friends do. Studying is hard sometimes.That's the reality but I think somehow, someday everything will be worth it and we'll be so proud of our achievement 🥺😭🤍

  • @taylordo2873
    @taylordo2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ich mag dein Video so sehr. Mach weiter!