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My wife divorced me because as she said “she wanted her freedom back” Now she’s with a new guy every month!
Facts!
She do got her Freedom back that p**** must be real free if she would have different guy every month😂🤣
Her Lost .
Enough said, that's exactly what they do
She wanted to be “ free “ to be “dumb”. Freedumb
Feminism: "YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!!!"
Real Life: "NO YOU CAN'T!!!"
Got told tonight by a 70yr old woman… but men are the same… men just don’t say it. Delusional.
@@RikkieMulder Was there a coherent thought in that comment?
Ha! Real life told feminism _"Stop the CAP!"_
@@tomsmithie3917 mine or hers
@Ricky P Easy. They weren't taught to think, they were taught to FEEL.
Kevin out here trying to put the weight of the entire African American community on his back. He definitely should be well compensated for his troubles.
facts
He is really on a Malcom X level
Oh dont worry he is very well compensated lol
@@MalevolentElephant Yet n still the job he is taking on is massive. We'll look back in our community 40 years from now and people will still remember him thoroughly. Trying to Fix the american black family structure makes Mt.Everest look like a pebble.
100% facts
I catch heat from many elder women in my family (who are all divorced or single) because of the way I honor my husband and the structure he has set up for our family. I used to fear marriage like this woman because of what bitter women perpetuated but once I learned what submission was REALLY about ( having a spiritual and physical covering that loves me and makes choices that benefits us both) I was happy to get married. We are going on 20 years now and the more I honor my husband’s role as the head, the more blessed the kids and I are, the more joy and peace we have, and the more he encourages and provides for me. My son who is in college has already rejected girls who are confrontational instead of cooperative. He broke up with his high school girlfriend and told me, “Mom, I can build a family with her. She can’t follow.”
🤷🏻♂️🤷🏾♂ wise decision sis stick with your man and family jealousy is an MF👈🏽😩 and misery does love company 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏼♀️
Kudos ma'am and congratulations.
And that's why you're married and happy while they're old alone and bitter.
Too many women don’t understand what you just wrote. I understand, and agree, that’s why I am married 35yrs to my husband. Congrats to you!
Smart kid.
Black women value their independence over everything. Even their own kids if need be
Fact!!!!
It’s the reason abortion rates is so high. They make poor choices in men and the results are to get rid of it and repeat the cycle. They don’t want accountability and responsibility for anything.
Factz 💯💯💯
@@stevisellemckenzie3708 💯
It is absolutely not limited to black women. All these these bitches are tripping
Can't start a family with a person who doesn't values it.
They will start a family with you. The problem with these women are they are Father Abrahams. .
Then quit making babies out of wedlock
Take your kids with you when you walk the door....you may even come back. But you would have just changed the dynamics.
@@timgreen2426
And if you get married before you have kids?
What if she still doesn't value family and just leaves with the kids just because?
Preach......
"Ya'll are playin.
And life ain't playin wit chu.
You got the streets to look forward to."
- Young KS
KS undercover BARS
*Straight spittin that hot fire!*
Waxing poetic right here!
Powerful.
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BW: "I don't want no man!"
Also BW: "Why is he with that white chick?!?"
absolutely true
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Yup. They shun us as not being shit and not needing us but are upset when other women value and appreciate what we can provide. Most black men I know in interracial relationships would be with a black woman if they had the choice
@Jay & Laong's World!🤪²⁰²¹ most hypocritical shit ever. The same women who dismiss us and disrespect us are the same ones that are mad we didn’t pick them 😂
Hilarious exchange!!
Me and my friend always had this joke. “You can’t handle a strooooooongg black woman” 🤣
Ain’t nobody about to “handle” nothing. You get right or get left. It’s that simple. Men if they ain’t with the program, jump to another database. We not negotiating cooperation.
The word is "skrooooooooooooooong" LOL
Especially in exchange for halfass effort
Amen bro.
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true words. don't waste time trying to handle the ones that don't want to be handled. the good ones want to be handled with care and affection.
When KS said if marriage was nothing then why did the LGBT community fight so hard for it? That was deep! And the part about black women being in open rebellion I see that every time I deal with the females in my family. 99% of them are not married and are all heading for a life alone just like my older sisters.
It's true. I don't believe marriage is for everyone, but a lot of black women have forgotten why the institution was created. At its very core, partnering with a male was about survival first, legacy second. Can't have a legacy if you don't survive. Like he said, if you're homeless and someone bigger and stronger wants what you have... what do you do? You get robbed. These ladies need to wake up.
This is so deep
Sure was deep
Everyone wants what they can’t have. Their divorce rates are similar.
Yeah that shit was Hard, me and my gf we dont belice in marrige, we still together and raising 2 kids and we want to grow old with eacother, but that dont make marrige mean nothing to others.
How can a person not hear the facts he spits?! Pure genius.
Fakts thats the only way they understand whit Logik and calm speaking
Because there’s so many women that are DELUSIONAL, have Absolutely No Idea what reality is due to being so used to hearing it’s going to be okay, it’s possible, know your worth, body positivity, someone will take care of you, men are expendable, don’t settle...... which causes the exact issue with women that’s going on right now!
@Silenced Thoughts as if you knew! Shut up
Women react instinct, emotion, & then ration. It’s hard to talk/argue with a women when she’s stuck at the emotional part. They want to live equally with men but can’t take how men speak to each other. Facts & truth
@Silenced Thoughts well he’s a genius in this generation full of robots who don’t even have common sense
35 year old modern woman: "I'm keeping my options open!" 🤦🏾♂️ You can't make this shit up 😔
The options to be homeless, vulnerable and alone...with oversized eye lashes, fingernails weave and 200 plus pounds.
Casket gonna be open to
@@dasmith1207 I was going to ask "What options?!" but you answered it so nevermind...
It would be like if I said
I'm a 5'8" man with no athleticism and 35 years old. I haven't committed to an office career because I don't want to be tied down if the NBA calls me up.
Get the point?
In 10 year from now, most brother will soon head to other country for great quality of women.
It’s so sad how misguided these modern women are. Men let’s just leave them alone and focus on our own self improvement.
Its hard when you want to make a family.
QUIT MAKING BABIES WITH WOMEN YOU ARENT MARRIED TO! THere. Problem SOLVED!
@@timgreen2426 these women are not even worth Marrying, once a h03 always a h03
@@hated4life662 go to the Caribbean or Asia
Because it's not gonna go away fam
This poor woman, almost 40 but the mind and forethought of a teenager..
this country is full of 40yr. old girls.
@@damionpalmer2866 Making boys who turn into 40 year old hyper-emotional boys
@@damionpalmer2866 Lol! I know black women in their 50s more immature than 25 year old women. Like Kevin says, “you can’t make this shit up”
Say it again for the cheap seats.
the female dilemma; the most adult teenagers to have ever existed.
I honor, obey and love my husband. In return, he has afforded me a loving and affectionate husband, a beautiful home, an easy life, and an environment of happiness and peace. Yes ladies...give your man what he wants and he will give it back to you a thousand times over.
Preach it over and over again! hopefully they listen.
Yes!!!!!
Maybe in your situation and I am happy for you.
Yes, so true
Beautiful 💕
I’m currently reading a book called “Subverted”. Lord have mercy! These videos are so reflective of what Susan Ellen Browder talked about. Black women especially fell for the okie doke.
Sad, but so true.
Okie Dokie, indeed. So many are in total Lala Land. It's so very, very 😢😭😭.
Who's the author?
@@johnreadstoomuch6927 sue ellen browder
@@teklife8271 thanks fam, I read right past that. Was anxious to find a new book lol
Much thanks. Peace!
Now I understand why there are pages all over internet calling on people to sign petitions to ban this channel. Kevin is very wise, he's giving real advice!
He is single handedly subverting the system that once subverted the original system and became the new way and they can't have people awakening
When you ask question and peel back layers these women they really don't know basic shit that makes life work and progress. Doesn't matter race anymore fellas find a good woman no matter what.
They truly dont. They think shit just magically happens. Everybody can make $250K and be millionaires. That they can get married at 45. That a 28 yesr old man can buy a Benz and $400K house. Just all magic thinking
@@dcuthbertson5778 my favorite is they want the ambitious man who makes six figures but has the time to live the lifestyle of a celebrity aka lots of vacations, random trips etc.
They expect every dude who has money to be able to drop everything to tale them to Fiji or some shit and domt understand that for most cases they are going to hear the following phrase ALOT " Hey honey, yea im sorry im gonna be home really late "
@@jlogan2228 Yeah. It’s just not realistic at all. I’m finallyyyyyyyyyyyy making money after being out of school for 20 years. That’s the other abut they don’t get. It takes a lonnnnng and time to get to $200K to $300K, if ever. It doesn’t happen over night. That’s why I hate social media. I know it’s not real. I don’t have time for that shit. I can do like 4 Caribbean trips a year now but I still work 60 to 100 hours a week. Hell I was working on all of my vacations this year. Lol lol 😂
@@jlogan2228 Thats true. My fiancé makes good money, but on the other hand, he doesn't do anything around the house, doesn't get involved into our social life etc. He literally just has no time for that! Thats my "job". And thats normal, the division of labor, be it phisical, emotional, whatever. Tbh, I couldn't have done what he does if the roles were reversed (was never the competitive ambitious type), and you gotta be honest with yourself and let go of your ego in admitting those truths to yourself. Instead of competing , we both play around our strengths (mine is emotional labour and "creating atmospheres" I believe, he often tells me Im his peace and thats such a compliment for me, always melt down hearing him say it). This method and understanding your role without overcomplicated words and "what ifs" has been going great for us, I can proudly say we have an awesome relationship.
This is serious. How do women not get this? It’s honestly heartbreaking.
Because they see world with feelings only, not with a balance with feelings+thinking(logic) men and women should be like yin and yan but not extremist totally white or totally black
Women was a type of color and now they changed it because the old color wasn't enought and still this color isn't ok either
Because they made themselves the “Prize.” And that means they cannot be the heart of the family and maintain their independence.
They don't get it because, if you noticed, most women still pick guys and relationships like the are still teenage girls. It's not until they have been ran over and run down before they wake up and devolope a sense of maturity in picking the right man or even wanting a man for that matter.
Twonne1 what’s funny is, when a man is with a woman purely for her looks, he gets dragged for being immature, sex crazed, creepy if he’s significantly older. You name it. But women will prioritize looks all of the time. Or other things that don’t correlate to how a man would be as a husband and father (or in many cases, inversely correlated). It’s crazy that a career felon can have multiple baby mamas, and a high school math teacher struggles to get a second date
She wasn't mean or rude, but this was another example of a Sista not thinking things through. Productive interview. Great video.
Lmao this is sooo true! I’m Latina. I dated a black guy once who loved my Latin food but taught me how to cook his favorites with Lowry and other seasonings 😂 he said I made it wonderfully. 🤷🏻♀️ stay fit. He bragged about me all the time. Get it together ladies.
I'm a black man and I can tell ya ain't no seasoning better than Lowry's lmao
If you post this anywhere else black women would dragg you. Lool
*Lawry's
@@killaswing1000 only if we could see the dislikes lol
I'm white so it's usually just some salt and pepper if I'm feeling adventurous that night. What is this sorcery you speak of?
This generation of women coming into their 40's & 50's is the first generation in history where 50% of women will retire as alone and broke spinsters. You can walk down to your local feminist chapter and thank them personally.
I think that number is more like 70 to 80 percent
@@gotmesom - 70% - 80% is more likely...I was being cautious with 50%,
@Rs S real world statistics disagree
61% of BM are childless and in the middle class. By now I memorized it and I am not black. Yet a black woman disagrees....how would any men deal with this nonsense?
@Rs S who said we got to retire in the United States. With 40k a year you can become a god In other countries. With that type of money you can have as many women you want. I can’t say the same for black women cuz no other group of men will tolerate you.
This shit was powerful and I hurt for the community. I just wanted us to win win win. It’s much more stronger moving together then apart. 🧑🏽💻🤜🏽🤛🏽
That part!!!! Stronger together. When each side is at war no one wins!!!!! Men and women should give one another Grace. Everyone is hurt and scared.
I wish this was true, but the fact is if you want to be successful, you have to align with other successful people, whether they're in your community or not.
@@PatronHall well said; enough of this skin color mess, people of like minds will move the same…”whether they’re in your community or not.” 💯
it would be simple, just refuse all government sponsored welfare of any kind.... and yet it is such an impossible ask...
“Say it like it’s real” he’s so right…women are avoiding reality. They need to say this stuff out loud and realize where their behavior is taking them.
So true, so so so true. They fight hard to just not say the words because then it becomes real.
Who says women mature faster?
These ridiculous delusional fantasies of theirs, it ain’t normal.
Men too brother...
Open relationships for all black women
They got so used of the image of big mama living alone and being the matriarch. Never realizing that the house is being paid for by Pops' life insurance and social security. And even then they had to budget HARD!!
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I was just telling my 47yr old friend this. She was lost… before I reminded her of that.
Yup. Both my paternal grandmother and great grandmother stayed married til they were widowed. And they lived in homes paid off by my grandfather and great grandfather. My maternal granny on the other hand never married and each month all her kids had to put in money to pay her bills. These sistahs thinking getting old unmarried and alone is easy retirement got another thing coming!
@@seensay2132 Facts. There are going to be tons of women who had kids who couldnt even start their own lives, because they dont respect the value of family planning.
Can you imagine having a son or daughter who has to wait to start families, because their MOTHER was bleeding them dry?
If she can't cook, that's the end of the conversation. I can cook and I'm not going to be the only one cooking. Going out every night is not an option. I can afford it but it's a BIG waste of money and also not healthy to eat out all the time. To build a family requires a team.
I can cook pretty well myself too but I would want my wife to do most of the cooking at home. You really do save at least 2-300 bucks a month just from cooking your own food.
@The Esquire of Sports® I would agree. Absolutely no excuse not to be able to cook a few basic dishes. The only reason is laziness. If she can't cook as well as me, that's fine then I can pay for lessons.
@@retrojay86 If she was a wife she would know how to cook beforehand because that is the standard. There is no guarantee someone that doesn't know how to cook will be interested in learning. Just like a man that doesn't have money to sustain himself, a wife, and a family shouldn't be married either.
" I ain't no slave"🤡
@@DwellInHouse4everHe was making fun of women that said that cooking and cleaning and being traditional makes you a slave not calling women a slave. It is called being an adult lol.
Most modern women live dysfunctional lives let alone make emotionally mature decisions.
He mentioned a great point about investing into the male, but the male is often neglected and abused, by the matriarchs demonstrating their masculinity.
Since they hate men, they hate their own sons as a reflection of the men they ran off.
Sam Radowick that’s true, it’s weird how it works, on one hand they want what’s best for their sons which is hypocritical of how they choose men, but at the same time they hate their son for being the offspring of a man who left them and didn’t take care of them.
The more things get stranger, the more I come to realize patriarchy might actually have been to restrain the egos of women so that we could all live in a functioning society, how the hell can you expect to have a functioning society when you have to deal with a 50% solipsistic creature rate
Yoo duck, I've been thinking the same thing, about the out of control unaccountable egos, the real reason they feel this way about men is to be a part of the "no good man" gang and daddy government enables it.. Kick the man out, abuse the sun, and the government will fit the bill..
Do males invest in women?
@@myisglim7801 With every single paycheck, house and car payment etc.
Modern woman: God find me a good man
God sends woman a good man…
Modern woman: he’s too nice, He’s not my type, too short, I want an aggressive man (pookie and ray ray)
Years later after getting knocked up and possibly have all these kids same modern woman
Modern woman: where all the good man at?
God:🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ I can’t
Me: she talking to a good man but complaining that she can’t find a good man
Yep. Same story times 100 million times.
@@leonelorozco2514 Same Story... Got to focus man 🙏💯
Good to see how this gentleman really knows how to break things down to the simple minds. That's pure wisdom! 😊
Our women need this type of fatherly advice and grasp of the reality we live in and some of the women are far gone beyond help
Many women have never heard it
@@oddstuff6137 I believe that
She's not "our women". She's a swirler that belongs to other races of men.
I spent a good couple of hours speaking about this topic with my father last night. That part about BW being in open rebellion to structure is straight up facts. If they aren’t in control, they don’t want it. I’m sick of this matriarchy, because it obviously doesn’t work!
It's not just black women. It's all Westernized women who have been brought up with feminism and liberalism. They are in rebellion with traditional gender roles and with patriarchal controls on their worst impulses.
They submit to the white man at those jobs they work at!!! Amongst other women with the same behavior. Harmoniously miserable
You are so right. I am a black man and I have two siblings. One brother, one sister(I'm the youngest). My brother and I both got married, over a decade ago, and started families with women of other cultures. My sister is still single. My mother is single. My female cousins? All single. And it's all because they want to have control without a plan or sensible rules. That is not leadership and it's doomed to fail every time.
Maelstrom8 what’s funny is that the men who would take a feminine and submissive role, they would hate being with those men with a burning passion. So they’ll still chase the masculine men, but bring their big D energy with them and just claim that men are “intimidated by a strong woman” when they don’t deal with them. They aren’t intimidated. They just have better things to do than having to assert themselves in a dominance hierarchy every day
@@hornetguy9063 One of the biggest issues is that even when the man has a legit great plan and leadership skills, they don't want to work with him. They would prefer to be in charge and getting terrible outcomes. The next issue is they don't appreciate anything men do for them. It's a good recipe to be on your own and repeating past mistakes. I tried to talk sense into them, but now I just continue doing what's right for me and my family.
""I've been dating, intentionally." Well, not even dating, actually." "I haven't been dating..." What the what??Huh? 😳🙄😳 This double-mindedness will destroy many. Before we speak we should have thought about what we intend to say.
Our society teaches us it's cool to behave like a dingy teenager even when in the shell of a 30-40 year old woman. It's just too 😢😭😭. Maturity matters. Being youthful doesn't have to mean being a dingbat. Knowledge should come with time and wisdom should follow experience. These behaviors are just bizarre and they don't 🙈 how bad it is because we lie to one another too much, as women.
Don't feel sorry for them. They will never feel sorry for taking advantage of you. Never save them. Never help them. Just let them rot and watch the show.
Exactly why modern women are no longer dependent on men and pursuing degrees and building their own empire… I know y’all hate to see it 🤣
Just watch em burn with a grin on your face 😏🔥🔥🔥🔥🙎🏾♀️🧑🏿🦰👩🏾🦰👩🏾🦱👧🏾🔥🔥🔥
Well said bro
@Classic Rebel, what empire are they building? Please do elaborate on this empire and the foundation to which it is being built upon?
@GreedKills great example sir… A SINGLE BLACK WOMAN… NOT MARRIED! ADD RIHANNA TO THE LIST SIR 🤣🤣🤣
So many calls where there is no hostility, combativeness, attitude, etc. Just another example of many for folks who call the godfather an "a-hole". Keep doing the work KS! WE APPRECIATE WHAT YOU'RE DOING!🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💯
They act like he’s like that from the jump those same people react to someone being aggressive the same way
Once men understand that women are girls that just couldn’t grow up then you realise that it’s a happier life without them. Let them buy all the cats that need homes.
Quit making babies with them.
@@timgreen2426 agreed… rather blind either the left or right eye… we all have choices
Exactly how I look at them as immature children! Her mentality never ever grows and at this point it’s just a turn off😒
Facts bro!!
Women are children.
I’d say women value freedom more based on the way they often speak about marriage. So many women that come on have the worst impression of marriage. Many have said marriage is equivalent to slavery.
I will forever stress that a successful marriage will require one of the spouses to bury the other.
For who,the man?
@@dancespav What are you questioning here?
Not if we take the pills together love
They don’t understand it
Marriage is slavery and a trap… modern women are waking up and y’all don’t like it 🤣
"Ain't my job to break you" That's exactly what I've said to women who claim they want a strong man who can handle a strong woman. "Free range wild women". No man wants a woman he has to tame. WE'RE NOT FORCING ANY WOMAN TO DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANT TO DO. We get blamed enough for trying to have a family and provide structure to that family. The last thing we want is to force an unwilling woman into marriage and then force her to mother children. It doesn't work. If women want freedom, leave them be. I don't care what race she is. Find a woman who WANTS to be married and wants children and wants to raise them and wants to be a wife to you. There should be no need to train or break any woman. If she needs all that, leave her where you found her. She's NEVER worth the hassle! EVER! Regardless of race.
Preach!
To modern men wife equals slave
@@chrisharris2367 Good point.
She tried to jet from this tough conversation. Thats how we ended up here. Thanks for uploading this Kevin, hopefully people notice that part.
I think the biggest problem with our community is a lot of people aren’t educating themselves on the real world and how we’re supposed to operate in society, they’re just being sold these fake ideas about how life is supposed to go
“What’s the largest structure a single person can build?” -KS
This is one of those perfect open-ended question that really have a defined answer which is contained in a range. I’m going to use this question as an ice-breaker into these types of topics.
You can tell he really care about black women like her. You can hear it in his voice. He's literally screaming to her "please get with a man & start a family"
God bless you bro. That was exactly what he was trying to tell her. Her fear of marriage is nothing compared to the reality that awaits her of dying alone in the streets.
There are better things to do in life then to be weighed down by a man. A single woman with a good head on her shoulders can more than provide for herself without having to split the bills with a useless liability.
@@politicallyincorrect1546 If there were better things to do in life she won't be calling at midnight seeking for advice on her to figure out her deplorable dating situation. Very few women can fend for themselves till the end of life the stats speak for themselves and it isn't a question of going it alone because they can't. Arrogance and blatant denial won't help you nor her. Besides you need to crosscheck the definition of a liability. Last I checked someone who shares in paying of the bills is no liability.
@@politicallyincorrect1546 over half of these women don't make more than $40,000/year so how she can do better without a "middle-class" man?
@@rayt3 Most bm aren't making any significant amounts of money either so yes she can
To my black women, it's not humiliating getting under structure or discipline. It's not an insult either. We ALL have to do it at some point (job, business etc). Structure and discipline is needed for anything of value to last LONG TERM.
I love black women but we need y'all ready to be led. It's the only way to build strong families/communities.
I felt that all the way in South Africa 🇿🇦 👌🏽
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Atheism and modern women seem to go hand in hand… that’s called a correlation that should point to the bigger agenda at hand: women becoming men and men becoming a women, and women becoming more masculine and men becoming more feminine. A good way to depop and create more division amongst the sexes.
You know the vibes. Chaos in everything is the aim, subversion of the natural order. Keep holding the line!
someone said Atheism, feminism and Liberalism are the anti-wife trifecta. and said if you see one in the modern woman then the others are automatically there, i couldnt agree more.
Nice conspiracy. But the fault is the increasing thin skinned and thick skulled. It is more like stupidity on purpose by the public school system.
Gender roles evolve with culture. Traditional gender roles are not compatible with the modern world.
@The Esquire of Sports® Great way to put it
Wish I had 3 hands to give 3 thumbs up... Best points I've ever heard... hands down....
You have 2 hands and you cannot give more than 1.
This is from the IG live last night. This woman seemed receptive so hopefully she'll plan for the future.
@The Esquire of Sports® at least they keep calling in to show that many BW think this way
She’s not even ready to face her own financial reality, so no, she’s not ready to start planning ahead.
I hope she has a 401k or Roth IRA.
OG Kevin always making solid sense.
"Because the fear that most of our women have come from our older generation lying.." Great quote
That's easy answer they value freedom 1st family 2nd
@House of Guards 🎯
“All that independent shit they would trade it all for a husband and some kids” K West
Man how does this brother keep his head from exploding during these types of conversations. I would be 🤯
Lol some people are built for these things
Very deep conversation. All Jokes aside. Very deep conversation. That homeless shit is real. You have to be prepared for the future and retirement. I have to help my mom now. If she didn't have a responsible child; she'd be in trouble. The women that do not have children are F'd if something goes wrong.
This chick is Damn near every woman in Oakland who lives by Lake Merritt
You know damn near every woman by Lake Merritt?
@@LJRoss-zv8hw triggered 😂
@@LJRoss-zv8hw
Super Triggered 😩
👍🏼😂 Thx for the heads up I won't be coming that way 😂😂
Lmao
Thank you for the work you do 🙏🏽🤎 You do more for women in a 20 minute conversation than an hour with a therapist.
You can tell from Kevin’s delivery that he is toning down how he speaks. He’s getting his point across calmly without triggering. I’m in sales and I notice the difference. His skill with words is masterful.
I noticed the same thing too I'm also in sale's
Yeah his gotcha moments was a really good to draw people to his channel and now I'm glad he's more about the message
I noticed that as well, not only is he speaking to the individual, it appears that he's, now also, taking the feeling of the female listeners into consideration as well. Quite masterful if you ask me; definitely a critical-thinker he is.
@@marvintindle5224 absolutely he is demonstrating humility right before our eyes showing that he is not prideful that he can take constructive criticism and apply it when it needs to be applied if it makes sense to better himself his art his craft and what he do in assisting people particularly us black people real talk 💯!
Ignorance is Never a Reason to be Harsh and Blunt.
But if you come with ignorance and disrespect, you get disrespect back.
My ex wife divorced me and the kids are with me 80% of the time. I have two daughters. It's all good. Lol
“IN OUR COMMUNITY BOYS ARE AT THE BOTTOM” could not have said it better 🏆
You need discipline to raise kids, especially boys. How many baby mommas claim their kids don't need discipline? If a man's perspective and role wasn't important in mass when it comes to children's development, then why do our children suffer so much? There are no good dudes that pump and dump, but there are more than enough guys that want to be there for their kids. We need to stop playing games with each other when there is a fragile life in the balance, a life that needs both parties to have the best chances financially and mentally.
@@juniorjunior5884 They dont hear it tho.
or, are they "bottoms?"
I am not a modern woman. I am an old fashion, biscuit baking, cater to my husband type of woman. I do any and all things he requires.
"White women can make macaroni and cheese and collared greens just fine." Yep, ask me how I know? 😂
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@Too Woke keep telling yourself that. They can cook to your taste just like any other woman...but I'm from the south so women knowing how to cook isn't a surprise.
@@kinte1870 keep telling your self that
@@amareimani4432 yeah I'm from the deep south so I actually have experience with southern women.
Depends on where she from.
Proud I’m marrying my Latina. She showed me things and brings the absolute BEST out of me. Brought me out of a very dark place when I couldn’t get right.
His point actually helped me to appreciate the bible's message and importance on marriage
The Bible is a pure Red Pill book!
@@thesurvivalist. The bible also states that the earth doesn't move, Clearly you make a claim you believe the bible but yet you don't believe gods words.
@@thecoolcarhd4402 Show me that scripture, I never read that before, but if you referring Psalms 104:5 your misapplying what it ment
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Its fixed...with curtains above spread about from East to West.?
The four corners of the world...from whenst the wind blows.
@@toxichammertoe8696 Lol clueless people misquote words they don't even understand and think themselves smart.
The real answer is that women want the freedom to have a family with the man they want, but those men are very scarce which is why marriage has been mostly an unfulfilling experience for the vast majority of couples.
Because good men are rare
The “I don’t need a man” Feminist campaign…It worked. I say, let them be. Don’t try to convince them otherwise.
No one will take care of her. I have seen it with my own two eyes. Family may try for a while, but then they have a life to live of their own. She will be in a nursing home or homeless. And nursing homes are VERY expensive.
@John Doe Exactly!
@John Doe this is factz I'm a Medicare agent and I'd say 95% of my book of business is women on Medicare and Medicaid
@The Esquire of Sports® And no "Silverbird Package" for you!!!" Its not a Nursing Home
"It's a Retirement Community"
"Free range, wild, unbroken women" Unk killed them with that one
She needs to get a good financial planner. Children and spouses are no guarantee. But without those options, she is really needs a good health plan and elderly home care plan. It sounds like there will be a market for Black Retirement centers for single women in the future. Someone needs to get ahead of the game.
Yeah ok... Men are not going to be allowed to work there and WOMEN do not get along
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Oprah has their backs. No worries LOL
Am waiting to see that happen
@@Sociallydetached they have men at those facilities. I doubt that would be an issue.
Old dudes outnumber women 7 to 1 in retirement communities and I have no doubt there will some romantic experiences. Buy from a practical point the person who designs a planned community that caters to single black women without children may have a good market.
Shot out to this lady for being honest. Just keep that same energy when you finally decide to get a husband and there wont be eligible men rushing to marry you. Dont say where are the good men at
Man, it's like he is talking to brick walls! He's trying to let them know the importance of working with someone to attain something of significance and they literally think that time is going to stand still. It's really not a hard concept, but they either don't understand or don't want to understand it.
I don't even think it's a matter of understanding. It's just not what they want. Many, if not most, simply delude themselves into believing that they can have it all.
This is pure gold. Gold!
Not to demean her. But the fact that she did not instantly know that FAMILIES are the fundamental building blocks of communities say A LOT about her, about many other Black women and about why American Black people are so troubled.
I say this all the time, sisters swear they are so tough, so strong but dont seem to understand they are still under the protection of laws structured by MEN. Without it they’re all FOOD.
“…food” or involuntary incubators.
Build is just another sexy buzz word. Can you build an apple pie or a pound cake from scratch 🤔?
She's just wearing the glasses for "effect". You can tell she's a wild wild one.
Love how he stays on point💯
This is one of Kevin best videos
If a man did what she does for a living he would be called a loser. I’m an entrepreneur is another code word for being broke as a joke.
Yeah, “entrepreneur” basically means “I have a bunch of side hustles and cobble together an income”. When’s the last time you heard a successful small business owner refer to themselves as an “entrepreneur”? Her one saving Grace is that she is currently providing for herself, so money must be coming in.
@@hornetguy9063 Entrepreneur is the most over used word for people you have nothing substantial going for them. It’s like every broke person I know is an entrepreneur especially if they say they are real estate agent.
@@hornetguy9063 true I hate hearing that. Other than JT Automations there aren't many that know what their doing.
Zion Train I remember the dude from upstate New York whose parents had to go through the courts to get him kicked out. 30 year old “entrepreneur”, of course. The mental gymnastics people will put on to avoid a real job
@@hornetguy9063 yeah. I remember that case as well. It’s just funny how when men do it we call them losers but when women do it we give them a pass when in reality they are not doing anything meaningful.
- why aren't you married?
- I don't like the definition of marriage.
- what's the definition of marriage?
- blablablabla...there's no definition of marriage.. blababla........
Me: 🤯😵😵🤕
Woah 🤯 Did she say her last fiancé committed suicide? And nobody is asking why.? Usually when a man is in a relationship and he commits suicide, his reason was the woman he was in a relationship with. Maybe they’ll get to that later on in the interview but I can’t let her just breeze by that statement like it was just a fart coming out of her azz.
Yeah, I agree. I wouldn’t have let that slide, either. You would think that he left a suicide note or something. 🤷🏻♂️
I 100% agree with this! I decided to get my PhD and study racial differences in family formation to find out how to help our community.
I am married to an asian woman. I don't know if its her culture or just her upbringing, but I understand the meaning of peace at home. That cannot be taken for granted, quite frankly.
This lady said the following three things in a row.
1: “I’ve been dating intentionally.”
2: “Well, actually I haven’t been dating.”
3: “I’m keeping my options open.”
Making…no…sense. 🙄
+RJ Russo, black women can never make it make sense.
They don’t value family..
I hear older women telling younger women to travel and enjoy life and don’t get married too young. Then on social media, I see older men telling younger men not to get married.
That's a anecdotal experience. We need to come together and work with one another so everyone can have a partner in life so they dont die alone with out knowing what family and community feels like...
@@stayathomedad4830 yup.. making babies with women we dont marry is the problem
*Marriage benefits women more, not men.*
I've told both my sons to not marry until at least 35 and then only if they are housewife material and with a prenup.
@@thegeneral1418 that’s really not true at all. All a man has to do is split the same paycheck from the same job. A woman’s responsibility inside the house increases exponentially for every new member of the home in every area. It baffles me that ppl can say marriage is more beneficial to women with a straight face. 😳 and in the majority of cases-72% she’s still working outside of the home also.
It's like asking them to explain nuclear physics is when they try to explain what marriage is.
Kevin out here changing this country. God bless sir.
This broad said she make 75k in LA😂😂😂😂😂😂 she broke in reality she just dont know it
$75,000 in L.A. is above average. She shouldn't be broke. She has other issues though.
@The Esquire of Sports® you conveniently left out what an average salary is in L.A. where I actually live. I don't need a lecture on living expenses.
@@LJRoss-zv8hw I agree it is an above average income but not for the market. I mean she can get a spot in Compton maybe east la but who trying to live like that forever. Thats what i mean when i say she broke and don't realize it. You also have to account for the fact that she was clearly lying.. The biggest 9% i have ever seen. 100% of the women that call Kevin are in that 9%
@@MrReganomics1 you don't have to live in Compton making $75000 with no kids. We aren't going to agree. You can afford to live west of the 110 freeway which is opposite Compton and East L.A.
@@LJRoss-zv8hw I agree with you on that actually. When I lived in LA I lived in that area. But the area was going downhill. That was also 15 years ago so things could improve... But if she moves Midwest 75k for a single woman is a great standard of living. Im not simply a contrarian I am giving this thought. Maybe the cost of living in L.A. has gone down in the past 15 years when it increased everywhere else.
I just got divorced and while I know my ex was not good for me due to abuse, I have been binging Kevin's content...to try and be a better woman. For my next relationship. I completely respect what he is doing...and even though I love watching him put entitled women in their place....more importantly, I'm learning about myself. Much love and appreciation Kevin. Keep it up.
@Boston Shooter trust me my friend, I am no feminist. Even before my divorce. There are some elements to the breakdown of my marriage that I take responsibility for. Still, I am not throwing the word "abuse" around as an excuse to leave or manipulate the situation. I despise females who do that. My marriage was abusive, in every sense of the word.. And I can understand where you are coming from with your statement. But I am not one of THOSE women. Just someone looking to better myself for my next relationship, to be a better woman.
@@ChrissyMegargee 🤔🤔
@@yomanyomandx5609 lol I am really trying to be discreet about my own life and not blast details of my business online. I felt inclined to make my initial comment because I truly respect what Kevin is doing and believe in his content. I'm working on ME, as I originally said. But maybe I should have kept my comments to myself.
@@veggielover4336 I appreciate your response. My comments really came from a good, positive, self reflective place.
@@veggielover4336 KS treats men similarly - you seem to see only what you want to see - both genders are accountable - both need to stop trying to win - and yes there are truly some women who suffer from unprovoked DV - we need to stop the abuse from both sides and instead lift each other up
are we going to blow past the fact they are wearing the same damn glasses? LOL
The way k.s. words things is priceless! Godfather is undefeated!
i liked her. she was very sincere in her conversation and so humble.
My wife is Hispanic! Best decision I ever made💯
It started off with Eve in the garden and it has trickled down 5000 years later to the point of destruction... I'mma still keep loving the black woman yet separate myself from the rebellious one With the Jezebel spirit.....
@Eki Seork You sound like a Caucasian Esau himself questioning whether he was black or white you know the answer to that I shouldn't have to tell you.....
@Eki Seork weak minded individual please be gone
@Eki Seork you are satan minion
bye🐑
Something my dad told me once, "Freedom isn't free, son. Freedom comes with responsibility.....and that's a cost you constantly pay"
Kevin always speaking FACTS
Marriage is a beautiful thing if your heart is in it. Married for 29 years I had a wonderful marriage. You have to willing to commit to that person. My husband passed away I would still be with him 29 more. You have to willing to give 100% of yourself
... in the UK ... marriage and birth rates have plummeted ... females are actively delaying children until nearer 40 ...
This brother is breaking down ignorance and Jezebel spirit who is tearing down the structure of the building and order of gods system
This was good, KS. We NEED husbands!
I don’t like her perspective on anything 😂😂 it didn’t make sense. She’s a woman in age but very childlike in mind. She’s got a lot of growing up to do
... people do have different intelligences .... but she runs business brain in their somewhere ... not all people have financial management skills ... intelligence or IQ is not necessarily easy to improve ... many have fixed difficulties for life ... many never have the IQ to work in any job whatsoever and most of them are on the streets.
@@dn1697 I don’t believe anything you said was relevant to my comment. She’s contradicting in everything she says. Her mentality is childlike, actually like a teenage girl when it comes to deciding what she actually wants in her pesonal life
@@onyxxreiigns ... I agree ... she is confused ... I doubt it's with intent as such ... the idea of love or manifesting love is a complex problem ... and then maintaining it ...
At minute 5:15 is why I support his message. All of us have a country to look after, and if we don’t, what’s on the other side of losing it is nothing good. Home is where we can all carry out our little part of duty.
She wasn`t taking heed.
It`s a case of, I`m alright today and to hell with tomorrow.