Is It Speech Delay or Autism? | Early Autism Signs in Toddlers

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  • Dr. Mary Barbera discusses early autism signs in toddlers, and how to differentiate between whether your child may have a speech delay or autism.
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    Language delay warnings that your child is giving off are always stressful for parents. But it doesn’t always have to be autism as a result. In today’s video, I’m going to review the signs of autism, and help you understand the difference between when it’s autism or some other sort of speech delays. We’ll cover some of the key skills children should have at certain stages, as well as talk about child developmental milestones that’ll help you identify key events on your own.
    Not only will we review the speech delay signs, but we’ll also cover what action steps to take after you’ve spotted some of these developmental delays. After this video, you should be able to recognize and know how to tell if it’s autism or speech delay that’s affecting you and/or other children you may be working with.
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    🧩 About Mary Barbera 👩‍⚕️
    I'm Dr. Mary Barbera and I fell into the autism world more than two decades ago when my first-born son, Lucas, was diagnosed with autism. Since then, I became a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst, Host of the Turn Autism Around podcast (with more than 1 million downloads), and best-selling author of two books (including my newest book Turn Autism Around: An Action Guide for Parents of Young Children with Early Signs of Autism).
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  • @ewitsaug
    @ewitsaug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1673

    I just want to give a shoutout and virtual hug for all the worried parents here. we’re all in this together. 💛 please also remember having a child during covid WILL naturally set some things back, life is so weird right now our little ones are trying to adjust to new norms as well. 💛

    • @werty2172
      @werty2172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yeah… hope this pandemic ends soon.. cant wait to show the world to my son..

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      yes! I just recorded a podcast about this so watch for it in the next few weeks.

    • @v3rlu5t
      @v3rlu5t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's been so stressful

    • @yvettelopez5276
      @yvettelopez5276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We told this to our pediatrician and she completely shut it down and said The pandemic wouldn’t have caused him not to speak

    • @michellebell4055
      @michellebell4055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My 2 year old granddaughter don’t like loud sound

  • @lauralinehan5046
    @lauralinehan5046 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    My son has asd and had speech delays until around 7. He is now 14 and travelling international in debating competitions. He won best speaker a few weeks ago ❤

    • @amazinggrace9114
      @amazinggrace9114 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Praise God

    • @hanhtruong1078
      @hanhtruong1078 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      OMG ❤❤❤ You gave me hope.

    • @felybolisay7171
      @felybolisay7171 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Always hoping for my grandson

  • @tonidieumerci
    @tonidieumerci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1115

    My daughter had speech delay . She couldn't make up a sentence of 3 words....when she turned six she started to speak very well. Today she 11 yrs and doing well.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      wow. What an amazing story. Thanks for sharing.

    • @tonidieumerci
      @tonidieumerci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@marybarbera Now we call her the lawyer or the journalist she speaks with confidence and she does well in school.

    • @josphinemwanza2628
      @josphinemwanza2628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      When did she say her first word, my son Is 3.9years,but he hasn't talked, though he had an issue with his ear, but I thank God he is beginning to respond

    • @kazstv6007
      @kazstv6007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah, when did she start talking, Toni?

    • @kstayblessed
      @kstayblessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@josphinemwanza2628 When did your child start talking?

  • @aulim3785
    @aulim3785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    My friend's son had speech delay, but he is fine now in high school , now speak very well ,doing extremely well in high school.

    • @shaheenfayaz8267
      @shaheenfayaz8267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi. When your son started talking properly?

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing this! It means a lot!

    • @Jeremy-nb9ll
      @Jeremy-nb9ll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on TH-cam. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too

    • @AarohiAja
      @AarohiAja หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well

  • @nate7260
    @nate7260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    My son was speech delayed too until he reached 3.2 years old. I suspected it was because he was always watching tv which is in English, we parents don't speak English in the house. It resulted confusion for him. Now he just turned 5, he's very talkative, talks in english & doing very good in school.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is great to hear! Thank you for watching.

    • @holadaypejulius7162
      @holadaypejulius7162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This is exactly what is happening to my son. He is in preschool already and am already seeing improvements. Thanks for the video nurse.

    • @HopeinHim033
      @HopeinHim033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      We speak Spanish to my son but me and my husband speak mostly English to each other. My almost 2 yr old still isn’t speaking but understand us very well. I think this is also resulting in some confusion for him...

    • @Kuhmille17
      @Kuhmille17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When did he start talking?

    • @yasminkhalil5227
      @yasminkhalil5227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nyx Thine same is happening to my brother he’s 4 years old speaks broken English and a little of our mother tongue so worried about him

  • @lydiagiwa2178
    @lydiagiwa2178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Other videos are so scary.Thank you Mary for being positive and making me have hope.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so welcome

    • @richiemcconnochie2506
      @richiemcconnochie2506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @musclemomentsbahamas588
      @musclemomentsbahamas588 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mike Allen please tell me the herbs!!!!!

    • @helentee9863
      @helentee9863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@musclemomentsbahamas588 this isn't a person. This is a 'bot'. An automated message trying to get you to click on a link.
      I have reported it

  • @angeebb3080
    @angeebb3080 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    My daughter was very speech delayed. Didn't speak until she was around three! She's now an English teacher.

  • @reannonking5514
    @reannonking5514 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My younger brother had a speech delay and suddenly out of nowhere at about 2.5 years old he just started speaking fluently. He is now a man in his 30s! It was just a speech delay. My daughter is 20 months old and I was concerned with her but once she started daycare about a month ago she’s suddenly saying way more words and stringing a few together. Not nearly as worried now.

    • @tolovefreely
      @tolovefreely 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow your comment gives me encouragement. I had my daughter evaluated and they told me it’s concerning that she could have autism because of a 1.5 hr evaluation when in my gut as her mother I feel she just didn’t want to interact with them.

    • @bhavyach2102
      @bhavyach2102 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is she respond to you when you call her with name?

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @thatgirl7337
    @thatgirl7337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for this video series.

  • @jessmatier
    @jessmatier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much! Very helpful ❤ god bless you and your family 💛

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching !!

  • @cassandrabrunson9131
    @cassandrabrunson9131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I love that your desire is to help, not sell a product. Thank you! So informative for those of us who couldn't see it nor recognize it as something more than the idea of all babies are different and develop differently.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Happy to help!

    • @katrecemiller8325
      @katrecemiller8325 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s just 7 days and the outbreaks are well treated and unseen. Thank you so much #Autism #Cancer #Herpes for curing my HSV 1&2 completely. 🌱th-cam.com/channels/_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww.html 💙💗

    • @rajaninaik9290
      @rajaninaik9290 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madam my 4 yrs. Grand daughter is not speaking (she speaks only 2, 3 alphabets like Amma, Tata, bye) no hearing problem no autism 3 months speech therapy completed in Mysore Institute of speech therapy & pursuing speech therapy locally in Bengaluru but no improvement. Please suggest further step/treatment.

    • @Jeremy-nb9ll
      @Jeremy-nb9ll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate

    • @AarohiAja
      @AarohiAja หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well

  • @mybibochannel
    @mybibochannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I highly appreciate your generous time and imparting your knowledge to us. God bless you Dr. Barbera.

  • @andiswaminyi219
    @andiswaminyi219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you for this information, its really helpful. My son is 9yrs and had been in this journey when he was 3yrs old discovered that he had delayed speech. Thank God, he can pass some words and do follow instructions. As a mom, I still want to see him developing well, help himself, sharing stories with me. Thanks, South africa

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching!

    • @brenettachatmon9729
      @brenettachatmon9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marybarbera LLPLLP

    • @richiemcconnochie2506
      @richiemcconnochie2506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @iamdesirealley0308
    @iamdesirealley0308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I know I am very late, I am a first time mom, and man this helped me in a way that I felt a weight lift off a bit ❤️

  • @neldalamb8623
    @neldalamb8623 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My grandson is 2 years of age started preschool thanks for this vedio i will work with him

  • @user-sz5uk7hu9o
    @user-sz5uk7hu9o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much, Dr. Marie Barbera

  • @stefanimerritt1185
    @stefanimerritt1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So imformative!! Thank you!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching. I am happy it helped.

    • @melvinmcpipe7264
      @melvinmcpipe7264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mary Barbera - Turn Autism Around can u check my comment or give me a call at +12253729600

    • @melvinmcpipe7264
      @melvinmcpipe7264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean if I ask her to clean her room she’ll do it but I feel like she not learning my her twin sister is really need to talk

  • @opaque1231
    @opaque1231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thankyou so much for this. Mine is speech delayed and sometimes doesn't want to listen.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching. Have you watched my free workshops bit.ly/2ELvSnM

  • @Goldenleaf20
    @Goldenleaf20 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Just had our doctors appointment yesterday for our 25 month old and she referred him for a speech delay/ autism evaluation along with a neurological and hearing exam. Wait time is currently up to 45 days. Just found this video and already learned so much. I just subscribed. Thank you so much for all the information!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching! I am happy you are getting help so early! I made a webinar just for parents of toddlers! Sign up for free here marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @divyanair721
      @divyanair721 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Itzel..did you have a diagnosis now. Is he ok

    • @richiemcconnochie2506
      @richiemcconnochie2506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tryth-cam.com/video/jtNkoWzXD14/w-d-xo.html

    • @kaylawells7966
      @kaylawells7966 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello any updates , I’m currently going through the same thing

    • @isabeaurobinson5413
      @isabeaurobinson5413 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any updates?

  • @wilfredmotosue2615
    @wilfredmotosue2615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks Mary. This video have helped me feel relieved. I've subscribed your video

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Happy to have you here! I also have free online workshops that you may find helpful here: www.marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @MrKarmoy1
    @MrKarmoy1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My grand children all were quick to learn to speak except my grand daughter, who as a baby was very quiet and was later to talk....even now at 18 is still a quiet person. Some children are just not outgoing as others and take time.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, this is true but it is important to act in case it is more.

  • @MK-he6zs
    @MK-he6zs ปีที่แล้ว +58

    We need more ppl like you. So glad that you are trying to help others without selling your advice! Thank you so much for being so kind and thoughtful of others!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so happy you're finding my content helpful

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @HangingwithMrWright
    @HangingwithMrWright 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was really helpful. Thank you so much Mary.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome!

    • @iloveallah3519
      @iloveallah3519 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My son use to mom,go ,give me , grandma, when he was 1year old and he is turning three and not saying much.

  • @chandraadam3656
    @chandraadam3656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless you for this work you do. Thank you.

  • @kurtielsliger6589
    @kurtielsliger6589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Vielen Dank für das Hochladen! !

  • @amiereamico5076
    @amiereamico5076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for this wonderful video.As a mother,I do really appreciate your videos..
    My son is 4.5 (4yrs old 5moths).
    He knows to memorize alphabet from A-Z,can count 1-100,knows the shapes,fruits,vegetables and everything is what he sees he can name that. The only thing is that he has difficutlties of constructing a sentence...Sometimes its frustrating to a mother seeing my son like this..i enrolled him in one nursery school and teachers noticed that he can perform and join acivities/exercises but short span of time only.he sometimes got difficulties of playing around with other kids (I dont know if it's maybe because he is my first bby and he get used to play alone)...

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It can be hard to say for sure ! The best thing to do is if you are concerned to get a developmental evaluation. They can help decipher if it is autism, ADHD, something else or just typical development !

    • @laryssa4640
      @laryssa4640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @AmieReamico any updates. Does your son use jargon is he potty trained?

    • @amiereamico5076
      @amiereamico5076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laryssa4640 hi Laryssa...what do u mean?.

    • @amiereamico5076
      @amiereamico5076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      my son is enrolled as nursery 2 now..
      he is good in school,he can write his complete name,can read sounds and phonics,easy to memorize and he cn answer u if u ask him what is the lesson on that day...
      the only thing that bothered me is when he is inside the school,he got tantrums sometimes.he likes to lay down on the floor and sometimes doesn't stay in one place but if u tell him to do his seatwork or anything about the lesson he cn answer..
      he still dont know how to construct a sentence but I observe lately that he is quite quite aware in his environment.
      he is my only son and I'm not pretty sure if it is one of the reason y he doesn't like to play with other kids..

    • @amiereamico5076
      @amiereamico5076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't have problem with him in terms of waking him up for school.he never complain that he dont want to go school.but when he is inside the room his bhvr change. he seldom play with classmates.sometimes lazy to write .buy when he reach at home,he can be normal kid.

  • @lindamarietorres1355
    @lindamarietorres1355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much 🙏🏼 You are a beautiful person. God bless you and your family.

  • @brendadignadice5442
    @brendadignadice5442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this! It’s so helpful.👍

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @CaptainGlennQuagmire.
    @CaptainGlennQuagmire. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this video it's been a great help for me and my son.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it helped!

    • @Goal67i
      @Goal67i 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marybarbera hi dr mary can have email I am mom who need to talk to..my names hanna

  • @edindoffer687
    @edindoffer687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for posting. Our son has been evaluated and does have a speech delay. Due to the COVID-19 issue treatment and further evaluations have been postponed. My husband and our daughter all can use this information to work with him. Thank you so much.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No problem! keep going and check out my other free videos. I also have an online course that can help while you wait . www.marybarbera.com/quiz to get started.

    • @reginegiordani6798
      @reginegiordani6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here, my child as getting speech 1x weekly. Due to Covid-19 all session stopped since March. He turned 3yrs old in May. Now he's no longer in Babies Can't Wait program. Hopefully he can start early school in the fall. He's not saying any words AT ALL, but babble ALOT. He's trying so hard to talk, but no words😢

    • @ndjapasandrine8503
      @ndjapasandrine8503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I found out plant infusions could also be helpful.
      th-cam.com/video/kpOqCcLjND4/w-d-xo.html

  • @fenikkepuntod1439
    @fenikkepuntod1439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Informative video. Thanks a lot doctor Mary.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching!

  • @hotdyme86
    @hotdyme86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is very reassuring thank you.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching and remember regardless of autism or speech delay check out my free workshops to help increase language and reduce problem behavior marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @fengzhichen68
      @fengzhichen68 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mary Barbera - Turn Autism Around thanks but they are in China

  • @alexisbyishimoofficial
    @alexisbyishimoofficial ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May God bless you for being so helpful. I'm going to start applying these ABA for my 3-years daughter. May God bless you, I had no idea, I use to think it is a normal delay but with this video, I've known the real issue.🙏

  • @mahmoudraafat3349
    @mahmoudraafat3349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God bless you ma'am. My son is 2 years old and still can't speak I was beginning to panic but you gave me a lot of hope when you spoke about pointing. Hope you have a great day

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome!

    • @skylarkauto7380
      @skylarkauto7380 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is he now? My son is 2 and not talking too. Is your son talking now?

    • @ruthkimiri4340
      @ruthkimiri4340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @kesefagriculturalfarm4820
    @kesefagriculturalfarm4820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you . God bless

  • @andreadamascceno2139
    @andreadamascceno2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes. Thank you for sharing.
    My grandson has been showing speach delay.
    Dr said to wait 3 more months to move forward, but suggested hearing test.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing! Your best path while waiting is to join our online course and community. Attend a free workshop to see if it's a good fit. Marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @annawilkinson9287
    @annawilkinson9287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for a brilliant video - really useful

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for watching! I am happy you found it useful.

  • @reeseew5508
    @reeseew5508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you soooo much for this video

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching! I also have free video workshops! Sign up here: marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @ayamjago1
    @ayamjago1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative and assuring thank you so much

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching! If you haven't checked out my free workshops you can sign up here: www.marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @nkosicollier4984
    @nkosicollier4984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! This was very informative

  • @sheri6492
    @sheri6492 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve recently started working as an ABA therapist. Thank you for being thorough and informative. Your video really helped answer questions I had.❤

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so happy you found this video helpful! If you're working in the ABA field, I would highly recommend taking my online courses. For more information, join me for a free online workshop at www.marybarbera.com/workshops.

  • @carolbandow499
    @carolbandow499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My son is almost 35 years old and he has PDD-NOS. I sure wish things had been different for him as he was in 5th grade before his teacher helped us get the guidance he needed.

  • @MunaAbbas.
    @MunaAbbas. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for explaining what you have noticed,a lot of parents will now know where they stand,thanks

  • @rudyrodriguez1265
    @rudyrodriguez1265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your advice and your research. Thank you for sharing

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anytime! Thanks for watching.

  • @lindaforgiarini3740
    @lindaforgiarini3740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was interested in hearing this, even though my 2 sons are now 33 and 29. I did not know back in 1988 and 1991 that speech delay was an early sign of autism. When my first son did not talk like the milestones stated, this was something I had never heard about, I didn't know you could have a child that didn't start talking like they should. I still am interested in learning about this, even though they are grown up now. Thank you. At one point, they gave my first son a diagnosis of PDDNOS, pervasive developmental disorder, not otherwise specified. I think that was a way of saying they didn't know what to call it.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for sharing your insight.

    • @RM-sv4ju
      @RM-sv4ju 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ Linda: how is your son is doing now still shows autism symptoms or he has outgrown it ? Please reply if you can I’m worried about my son

  • @nicogutz4559
    @nicogutz4559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you doc mary. now i know what to do with my 3 years old daughter.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great . Thanks for watching! I also have free workshops that may help you. bit.ly/2ELvSnM

    • @nicogutz4559
      @nicogutz4559 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm having doubts with my child OT. were paying them per hour session and not seeing any improvement at all.

  • @skytyper2
    @skytyper2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. Very helpful!

  • @jayded4364
    @jayded4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this Google says this should be by 12months so I was worried as my 12 month old is not pointing, not clapping, loves his cars but is clingy. And google had me convinced he had autism. This gives me hope thank you so much

  • @Cm18850
    @Cm18850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Am a father of a four year old boy who is still struggling with speach and this is so helpful

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy you like it!

    • @PsychicReadingsWithKara
      @PsychicReadingsWithKara 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Charles ur comment spoke to me I’m recently struggling too with a 2 years old how is ur son now did you see any improvement

    • @Cm18850
      @Cm18850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PsychicReadingsWithKara hey, he has started to say few words, but not yet able to make a full sentence, but he is doing better... we are positive that he will soon be able to have full speech..

    • @watchingyourvideo8029
      @watchingyourvideo8029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cm18850 my kid just turned four last month, and has yet to put a sentence together. He draws in detail, spells his name, all the good stuff. No talking. My friends kid is the same exact way, 4 days older than mine. WTH?

  • @saytmavazquez8557
    @saytmavazquez8557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love this information, thank you☺️

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for watching and following the videos!

  • @adewaleadeyemi5168
    @adewaleadeyemi5168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful presentation,

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching!

  • @mamameeemoments610
    @mamameeemoments610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative,thanks Barbara

  • @sandravega1759
    @sandravega1759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks. I've learned so much through your videos. My son is two and has been with Early Intervention since he was 16 months. He displays many of the autism signs. They will not do an Autism Diagnostic test until he is between 2 1/2-3 years old. Right now he's been labeled with a 30% developmental delay and speech delay. He receives speech, OT and DT weekly. Hoping to learn more and works with him at home. He isn't talking and his frustration level and tantrums have increased with age. He is learning basic sings but will jot use them consistently. I'm hoping to help him communicate better and learn ways to express his needs and wants.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so happy you have found them helpful. I think my toddler course would really help you build those language skills and signs with him. Check out a free workshop www.marybarbera.com/toddler-ws

    • @user-qj3pg1gb8v
      @user-qj3pg1gb8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, how’s your son doing now? My daughter sounds very much like your son.

  • @andrewaupositivepsychology
    @andrewaupositivepsychology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Dr. Barbera. This is a second video from you that I'm watching. My 31m.o. (i)observes and look but doesn't point. He uses his middle (rather than index) finger to explore new things; (ii)can follow some simple instructions like, "put your bottle on the table" or "throw this wrapper into the dustbin". However, I'm unsure if he is actually understanding the language or habituated to the behaviour since these activities are happening daily.; (iii)imitates his elder brother (5yr4m) in making sounds, reading 1 or 2 syllable words, & starting to have little bit of imaginary play like pushing toy cars around, hugging teddy bear. He has some toys where he is more fixated with (e.g., toys with blinking lights & sounds) but can grow tired of them after awhile and move on to another toy. I have not seen him playing with one toy for hours but maybe a little over an hour.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is hard to say without knowing him but I do have online courses that may help you even if he isn't diagnosed. Check out www.marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @andrewaupositivepsychology
      @andrewaupositivepsychology 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marybarbera Thank you very much!

    • @Ajay.sekhawat
      @Ajay.sekhawat 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How's your son now

  • @portianolwazinyundu8743
    @portianolwazinyundu8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for sharing
    So relieved after watching this video

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching! I'm happy to hear that you found it helpful.

  • @Lots2SmileAbout
    @Lots2SmileAbout 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this video! My son is 20 months and very advanced with fine motor but delayed with speech and lacks pointing. Your video is the first to offer comfort as we wait for our evaluation! Bless you and the work you do!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @tahleafinn4461
      @tahleafinn4461 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How if your son now? My daughter is 2 & is extremely developed in fine motor skills but also lacks in pointing so I’m a little concerned after watching this as it’s never been brought to my attention about the pointing.

    • @Lots2SmileAbout
      @Lots2SmileAbout 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@tahleafinn4461 He's doing wonderfully! The pointing eventually came. His speech improved tremendously, too. I was assured it would in our evaluation -- but we also cut screens in January, and that's when I saw the biggest improvement. How is your daughter's speech? I'd bring the pointing thing up to your pediatrician and see what they have to say. Mine was always very reassuring that kids develop on such different timelines. ❤

  • @agnesvictoria5836
    @agnesvictoria5836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I learned a lot from you. My grandson who's 3.4yrs old was diagnosed by his pediatrician has mild autism non-verbal. So he is undergoing theraphy to improve his social behavior and also speech theraphy.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is great you have some services. I have free workshops just for parents so you can help your child gain more skills at home! www.marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @janrymaricar7352
      @janrymaricar7352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marybarbera hi ms. Mary my toddler is 2 yrs old before while he was around 16 months he says many words but know he stop speaking but he understand things.. but he is doing flapping hands :(

    • @AChanandMiChanChannel
      @AChanandMiChanChannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janrymaricar7352 same with my daughter😢

    • @jessicawagner2326
      @jessicawagner2326 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janrymaricar7352 that can be a sign of autism..the regression of language and stimming “hand flapping”. I would talk to your pediatrician to see if they could recommend you to someone to get an evaluation/screening.

    • @btlmir
      @btlmir ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janrymaricar7352 how is he now
      Did u get him evaluated

  • @sethkale5031
    @sethkale5031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Mary. This video is so helpful.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for watching and following along!

  • @evelynmendez7514
    @evelynmendez7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very helpful thank you .

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am happy you liked it!

  • @vallynjoy5196
    @vallynjoy5196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow I bet if my parents saw this video they would realize I was just a late talker since I never talked until I turned 2yo😅 they almost thought I was deaf-mute(since it was in early 90s). Good to know that its somehow normal as well

    • @Satisfyingasmr94
      @Satisfyingasmr94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What about eye contact and you response for your name when they called plZ?

    • @lindy8876
      @lindy8876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My child did not speak a word until he was 2 years old. He stuttered when he did speak . He seemed to grow out of it . He's perfectly normal thank God.

    • @revathyjayaprakash3316
      @revathyjayaprakash3316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindy8876 could you please tell me When did he speak his first word. My boy is 14 months old and has not spoken even a single word.im.worried

  • @laurenthomas7200
    @laurenthomas7200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When my son was diagnosed in February I was devastated but your videos helped me cope and gave me the strength to fight for services. Thank you!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so happy to hear that they helped you!

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @abealasto9043
    @abealasto9043 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks a lot. At least now I know where to start from

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching ! My free workshops could help you as well . Marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @thefavoritemom7423
      @thefavoritemom7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m currently going through this situation with my 2 year old daughter. It’s been so frustrating because she shows signs of autism but then a lot of the things she does are completely the opposite of characteristics associated with autism. I find this video very helpful thank you! I love how you used your situation and experiences to help others. New subbie. 💕

  • @arvintan3629
    @arvintan3629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative thank you!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy you found it helpful!

  • @peachespeaches1924
    @peachespeaches1924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What I liked about your book are practical exercises that anyone can do! It's a doing book not a theory book! I felt so helpless just depending on the 2x a week speech therapist. I'm smart and educated and I can do this with him Too!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love hearing this! Thank you for the great feedback. Since writing my book i have made online courses! These courses offer much more practical advice than even my book. Find out more by signing up for one of my free workshops. www.marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @craze2coolbeltrn
      @craze2coolbeltrn 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @kenicolechannel509
    @kenicolechannel509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My daughter nicol was diagnose with neonatal autism at the age of two. Right now shes 6 and still dont speak but she follow simple command and responsible in doing simple household chores

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching. It sounds like you would benefit from my free workshops . Marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @margaretmurphy1552
    @margaretmurphy1552 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou for all this information

  • @carolinechilufya5205
    @carolinechilufya5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for this video , really helpful

  • @Mister_MasterzRN
    @Mister_MasterzRN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I genuinely want to thank you for the work that you do 🤗 I especially want to commend you for the education you provide to the physicians for early detection.

  • @OrlandNavarro
    @OrlandNavarro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My Parents / Relatives to me when I was a little... I cant walk until the age between 1 1/2 to 2 yrs old and 2 yrs old ive start running around according to my picture and also I cant talk word by word until age of 3 and I cant use phrase and sentence until age 4 but Thanks God I can do whatever I want with a little bit of support.. Im now 24 yrs. and 1 mo. Now and I have mild autism...

    • @galitaMiina
      @galitaMiina 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u have this hand flapping as a stimming since you're just a baby?

  • @tareakassa6399
    @tareakassa6399 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mary, this video is very useful as I plan to share with other

  • @sharamaemorilla4366
    @sharamaemorilla4366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very helpful for me thanks for making this video

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear it was helpful for you! my free workshops can likely help you as well . www.marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @mikuloo6063
    @mikuloo6063 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    As a first-time mom, I had a lot of questions that intimidated yet angered me from my son’s pediatrician. He just turned 2, but he can’t point at objects (but can use one finger on a phone/tablet), he can’t really follow many basic commands, he has limited speech (he’s in ST and OT), and resorts to whining or crying to get my attention instead of calling me “Mama”. He also tends to enjoy his own company at his daycare and not play with others as much. It gets frustrating for me at times, because he always points out at what he can’t do verses what he can do and say. He wants to get him evaluated, but he said at max, my son would be seen by six months to a year if I’m lucky. But until then, I’m happy that your video gave me solace instead of feeling Mrs constantly being compared to other toddlers his age.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  ปีที่แล้ว

      There is so much you can do while you wait! Join us for a free workshop to learn about our course and community. MaryBarbera.com/workshops for all the information.

    • @Iluvmydogs128
      @Iluvmydogs128 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My daughter didn’t point using an index finger until she was 23 months old and she is not autistic. Some kids just point later than others.

    • @tinakyeyune1323
      @tinakyeyune1323 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I am just confused, and when i think of my 2year old son who doesnt point out at objects neither does he call me "mama" i feel so sad and its like whenever i think of just the word "autism, i feel tears at my heart. I see some signs of autism in my son i feel bleeding inside me i read qnd listen alot about autism, i feel like doing my best for my son but as much as i read or watch videos because of the bleeding part in me, that is very scared i do not grasp anything i even got miscarriage i am sure it was because of stress of my son. I do cry inside me i remember that day that i felt the miscarriage, i could not hold of my thinking of my son i had just left him at preschool and i was just imargining how he is copying up with out speech, without responding to his name oh God just help us through this dilema

    • @ruellasworld9121
      @ruellasworld9121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hullo, your child is exactly like my son. I'm so worried, everything you said about yours is how mine is. I really don't know what to do he is making two years in February. Dis you get some help? I'm so worried don't know what to do

    • @georgianaaron4986
      @georgianaaron4986 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tinakyeyune1323 How's your son doing 4 months later? Any progress on the speach front?

  • @nonatube4314
    @nonatube4314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Well I noticed when I panned my child from TV and electronic his intelligence boost by the second day .. now I let him play 2 days a week for few hours since it is really hard to suffer from his cry every day when taking away his tablet

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's great he is doing better. That is too bad it is hard. Learn more about teaching in my free workshops www.marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @shawnsutton3073
    @shawnsutton3073 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very helpful

  • @wonderingdreamer1212
    @wonderingdreamer1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this video !

  • @sharaerussell33
    @sharaerussell33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This has gave me so much info on the things i have been experiencing with my 2 year old. She was born at 26 weeks and of course there is a higher chance for autism. Her vocab. Only includes the word stop and car.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear it helped. Regardless of diagnosis you can start helping build her speech. You can sign up for a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshop

    • @kiking9260
      @kiking9260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is it going?

  • @davidking2952
    @davidking2952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I want to let you know I’ve been super concerned with my sons speech. But after listening to your video I am relieved that he does almost everything that he should be on track even though he is speech delayed .
    Thank you

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good to hear ! whether it is autism or a speech delay you can get started helping today. Go to www.marybarbera.com/workshops for a free workshop.

  • @dustynateter4001
    @dustynateter4001 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video helped put my fears aside I was worried my son had autism but thanks to you I figured out his just a slow talker and I can help him get on track

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you found this video helpful. Thank you for watching! Just make sure to bring any delays your son might have/concerns to your pediatrician, even if you don't think his speech delay is related to autism.

  • @krisq4133
    @krisq4133 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @leonardtipumbu697
    @leonardtipumbu697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for the video tutorial. I had a problem with my 4 year old milestone, and with his slow speech, have decided to equip myself with necessarily knowledge and education to improve his situation. Thanks for making the video

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching! Make sure to check out my free workshop to help your 4 year old progress in his speech bit.ly/2ELvSnM

  • @gigimullins3288
    @gigimullins3288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank/you. Grandmother of 2 & 3 year olds who do not speak... they babble all the time but no real words. You give so much information❣️

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so happy you found it helpful. Check out my podcast with a grandma of children with autism here www.marybarbera.com/grandparenting-child-autism-supportive-grandparent/

    • @niaholder1679
      @niaholder1679 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to cry right now because this my 3 year old . Gigi did your grandchildren have autism?

    • @gigimullins3288
      @gigimullins3288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nia Holder they are going to be tested soon.

    • @periscop2023
      @periscop2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Babble is very good. 2 yo immitates older. 6 months later everything fine? They started to speak?

  • @lindahowe7769
    @lindahowe7769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very helpful...thanks!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching. I am happy you found it helpful.

  • @donnascholey4883
    @donnascholey4883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful thank you...👍🏽

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy you enjoyed it.

  • @crystalkring
    @crystalkring 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Thank you! Very well explained. This gives me hope for my 19 month old baby girl. 💕

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy you enjoyed it!

    • @Oueux
      @Oueux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, I see your comment is a year old.. May I know how’s your toddler progressing? I have 2 years old son with delayed speech too

    • @crystalkring
      @crystalkring 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Oueux Hello my daughter is turning 3 in a couple of weeks now and thank God she is now communicating, talking, singing and dancing. She loves to watch cocomelon and kiddie japanese videos from youtube. We’re not japanese and we’re from Australia so I’m worried she might learn more japanese than english as she was starting to speak japanese as well lol. But I guess all children are different and could start talking in different times. 😊

    • @Wesleyfussell15
      @Wesleyfussell15 ปีที่แล้ว

      What all was your child lacking at this age? I see you said she is better now!

  • @an4eva1
    @an4eva1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for this lovely video. Very well explained. I specially learnt about ABA and the milestone chart on CDC website which I was not aware of. Many many thanks.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching!! If you have not checked out my free workshops I hope you do as many families find them helpful. marybarbera.com/workshops

    • @richiemcconnochie2506
      @richiemcconnochie2506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tryth-cam.com/video/jtNkoWzXD14/w-d-xo.html

    • @MariamClosets
      @MariamClosets หลายเดือนก่อน

      I get Dr Oyalo herbs supplements and it has been helpful on my child autism spectrum. All traits are gone with her speech and focus and attention is good to talk about

  • @vistaadeli6452
    @vistaadeli6452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very reassuring, thank you

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome

  • @francisadrianaguilar1453
    @francisadrianaguilar1453 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much God bless you for sharing this to us

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and for your support!

  • @smbot1991
    @smbot1991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My godson was slow to speak. There was a history of slow verbal development in the family. We had to wait a long time to get him assessed so he did not receive a diagnosis until age 3. There were lots of recommendations but no help available. His mom had a very hard time accepting the diagnosis because she felt that she had done something to make this happen (she hadn't, of course). She preferred to consider him learning disabled. However, he had clear signs of autism. To this day as an adult, he is able to speak but has significant difficulties with sentence structure both verbally and written. He requires supportive employment and is emotionally at risk for stressful events. This video. is awesome and all parents should be aware of these things.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. Happy to hear he is talking !

  • @HelenEk7
    @HelenEk7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Very interesting. My oldest son only started speaking when he was 3,5 years old. Up til them he knew less than 10 words. Also had very little understanding of language. But he WAS pointing.. He was at 3,5 diagnosed with speech delay, although they never found the cause of it. By the time he turned 7 he had caught up with his peers, and is now a thriving 9 year old. Between the age of 3,5 and 8,5 he had extra help in kindergarden and school. Luckily that plus the evaluations is covered by the government where we live, otherwise we would never have been able to afford it all. (Norway)

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is great to hear your son is doing so well! Thank you for watching

    • @adamn1371
      @adamn1371 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But he speaks okay now?

    • @anneanne9009
      @anneanne9009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is exactly doctors never diagnose children before 2 years, whether it's for autism, cerebral palsy etc and this video is all kinds of wrong.

    • @ummeyhabiba7931
      @ummeyhabiba7931 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hub

    • @ddoll128
      @ddoll128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

  • @buddysworldthroughoureyesh9325
    @buddysworldthroughoureyesh9325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative! Thank you!

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @MS-bh3uw
    @MS-bh3uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent and insightful.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @jay_87gunz95
    @jay_87gunz95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My daughter just had a reevaluation for her Speech Therapy and it looks like we’re going to go in to see if she might be autistic. Thank you for your video this is one of the videos that I chose to look at to get a little more Educated on what might be going on with my daughter. Very knowledgeable thank you.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching. Make sure to check out my new book which can help you with step by step action guides www.turnautismaround.com

    • @mukabatesijeannedarc2826
      @mukabatesijeannedarc2826 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mike Allen which herbs are those?

  • @gregaustin8076
    @gregaustin8076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great info! Thank you!

  • @marydeane8132
    @marydeane8132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yes thanks

  • @lologirlpumpkin7619
    @lologirlpumpkin7619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching.

  • @Shenibay21
    @Shenibay21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just subscribed. Thank you.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching. Remember to also check out my free workshops. Marybarbera.com/workshops

  • @madcrazymom
    @madcrazymom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish there had been more information like this when my son was young. Preschool teachers said he was stupid. Only one teacher said he was highly intelligent but that yes something was being missed. It wasn’t until he was 10 years old when I read a random article about Aspergers that I saw how he seemed to fit the spectrum and finally had a neuropsychological exam and definitive diagnosis. He is 25 now, married with a son of his own and doing pretty well. I do wish, though, that early intervention back then would have known what to look for on the higher functioning end of the spectrum. I did my best raising him with the info available to me then, and even though my son is still struggling with some socializing issues, I’m glad that other kids are now being diagnosed earlier. Knowing the early signs to watch for and getting help early on really can make a huge difference. Thank you for this video.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and sharing your story. You sound like a wonderful, dedicated mom!

    • @richiemcconnochie2506
      @richiemcconnochie2506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tryth-cam.com/video/jtNkoWzXD14/w-d-xo.html

  • @laurag7295
    @laurag7295 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My firstborn son did not really speak, he was born in 1988, was always watching. I thought perhaps he was deaf, but he was not. A very silent child, very shy. I was told not to worry about his language, "it would come". He was a select mute at school, had speech therapy. He speaks now mostly to his younger brother. He found out the useful word "fine". I was extremely impressed when he came home from his first day of grade 9 and said, without me asking, that he had someone from his grade 8 class in every one of his classes. Also found out later that the football team policed the cafeteria to watch for people who sat alone, and make sure they were not bothered by anyone. Mostly he was ignored, a silent, biddable child. At 16 he was given cognitive behaviour therapy, which allowed him to drive, get a job. He was finally, at age 18 diagnosed as a highly functioning autistic person. I was lucky, no tantrums, but many bullies bothered him, and he is so "literal". His regular music teacher was off on mat leave and the fellow who took over the band practices said, "If you are even 1 minute late to practice, don't bother coming anymore" My son was late once, due to bullying I learned later, and he did not ho back to band until the next year when his regular teacher was there, which I found out much later. My son gets jokes in movies, but he did not understand the replacement band teacher was joking about not coming back. So he is now a master of faking being "normal"as long as conversation is not attempted, other than to point out a mistake, or point you in the proper direction. I did something right, not everything, but some things.

  • @alejandraveloz8818
    @alejandraveloz8818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Mary, my daughter says a couple words, doesn’t point out things but if I say “time to shower” in Spanish also she runs to the bathroom ready to do so. But she does hits herself when upset or frustrated. Her daycare teacher just notified me she was in Observation and she harms herself because she doesn’t know how to express it in words. Overall thank you for this video it really helped a lot! 😃

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      self harm is serious and so you may want to check out my new book for more strategies to help her turnautismaround.com

  • @taylorreese629
    @taylorreese629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have so much questions for you about my son. Not sure where to start.. I just stumbled upon your videos. Makes me think alot.

    • @marybarbera
      @marybarbera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe check out one of my free workshops and see if those help www.marybarbera.com/workshops