My First Gay Experience
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2010
- In response to ExplorationB's video (link below), I decided to put together my first gay experience as well. It was a really fun time!
Yesterday's video that I mention:
• Gimp Knees, Showers, A...
ExplorationB's video:
• My First Boyfriend
Thirteen. He was a friend and schoolmate. Blond, fair-skinned, blue eyed....hot AF! Don't remember how we started, but he started it, I think. 'Fooling around...just kids?' Nope. He moved away. He got married and had a kid. Lost contact with him. Was he gay...or bi? I'll never know. I just know that at thirteen, we 'explored our bodies' together and I knew I was into guys big time.
My first Gay experience was at 12 years old. He was a friend in my 7th grade class in Junior High School. He seduced me and I loved it. I knew I liked guys and it was my 1st time. This was back in 1960. I'm 74 now. Back then Gay was not talked about; and the word Gay didn't mean what it means today, until much later that decade. After that experience I was kind of scared and told my parents what I did and with whom. My Mom freaked out big time, but my Dad was semi-ok with it. (years later I found out that my uncle, my Dad's brother, was Gay and that is probably why my Dad didn't freak out like my Mom did). I had a few more flings with this boy through high school, but my 1st major crush didn't happen till I was 18. He was 16. I knew he wanted it as much as I did, but we were both too scared of acting it out for fear of our straight friends and parents, all who knew each other. Fear of harassment, vicious gossip, bullying, and worse. In that era it was very dangerous to publicly come out, so most of us Gays were forced to live a double life.....for survival. Fairly recently I found out that while he was in the military in Vietnam in the early 1970s, he had succumbed to that Agent Orange, which subsequently took his life. If I only broke through that fear I had! I could've, should've, would've, but didn't. I could have prevented that ultimate demise and we could have had a long term blissful relationship. I regret it to this day! Bottom line: Better to get a "no" answer or "rejection" than to go through the rest of your life saying "I would've, should've, could've, but didn't. That will haunt you indefinitely! Publicly, I have come out to more long time straight friends and relatives this past year than I did all the years since I was born put together! Almost all of them supported me and gave me love and comfort. No more double life and "hiding". And I must say that I can finally breathe!
sounds pretty familiar to me,i'm 67 now,
@GayComicGeek It's odd. I really, really lucked out as a kid. I was out early and lived in rural Kentucky, yet I had quite of bit of fun, wasn't particularly picked on, and never lacked for a date.
@ExplorationB Thanks bud!
Yeah, I wasn't full-on goth, but that was my crew. I was certainly punk/alternative though. Ahhh... those were the days ;)
"Not girlfriend, but you know, 'GURLfriend!'"
Love it.
that's so awesome! I'm 18 and I've never done ANYTHING with a guy before, not even a girl either but I wouldn't want to anyway. I can't wait till something like this happens to me!
--- *I sure hope that after 12 years, it has....*
OMG Thanks, I thought I was the only one who didnt count previews experiences as non-gay or something. I am still waiting to have my "first gay experience"
You should make this a video response to AGAYCOLLAB.
That was so tame.
Wow I wish my First gay experience was more like that but my town/highschool wasnt exactly gay friendly plus lots of the guys werent my type even though I was out when I was in high school I didnt express my self alot then as I do now.
blackartifact you have proven my point, bravo.
@8te8ter1 Ummm the same amount of gay people are in the US now as there was 20-30-50 years ago... I don't get your point.
My First Gay Experience was alright it felt good
I know everybody mentioned in this video, including Mom.
not sure if the black stuff was your body hair or ink....
thanks for sharing:) enjoyed it:)
I bet you did enjoy his company.
Thanks for saving. I can't really share mine.... at least not on youtube....
btw you're super cute. :-)
you are too cute! *.*
You have a really cute Smile :)
This guy is sick ~ Hell ~
HOLLA!
LOL My mum didn't listen to me as you can tell! ROFL
Awesome you were a Goth/Punk too! OMG Steal someones Boyfriend HOW DARE ... wait you are pretty right. I have loved watching this one and gay comic geeks one.
I think it's cool because you go back to when you were innocent and had these pretty basic thoughts. Well done on the video man!!
"got off" lol
Cute!
Wow otay atleast ur first gay thing was not as random as mine... 6 grade 1 of my bffs came up to me n says dude I want to try sumthing n r like my bestie so then hey just pulled me to the side n we started mackin on eachother... Dat was my first gay thing totaly random
Edit, edit, edit.
Anyone else straight and watching this out of interest?
No gay experience. Had some offers but just said No Thanks.
over 10 mins of making out?!? Geez...my lips would fall off. Too much lol. But I'm glad you had a fun time and such great friends. (:
My first gay experience. I was 16 working at a Godfathers Pizza. One of the strait guys I worked with was joking with me one night saying that I was the only one besides the manage closing that night and I'd better watch out. I asked for what and he just laughed. As it turns out it was just me and the manager who was about 21. We were almost done closing up and we turned out the lights. He said I really dont want to go home alone tonight. I asked if he lived in a bad neighborhood.....continued>
you look like jacksepticeye
Why?
Then he smiled and laughed because I was so clueless as to what he was talking about. Then he said Robert, I REALLY dont want to go home alone tonight. Then we looked into each others eyes and started making out in the empty dining area. Then he said, you know, I have this really great hot tub at my place. That's all I needed to hear. So, we made love in the hot tube for about an hour then went to bed. The next day the strait guy was making some gay jokes not knowing how correct he was. LOL!
Awesome video btw, thank you for sharing this with us :D
I like women
That was was in 1987 & 1992, long time ago.... We are now in 2012 almost 2013 so it's time to change homophobe bigotry. ;)
Have your husband do this....