Ted Lasso: Be curious, not judgmental

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      @Rygoat ปีที่แล้ว

      Does this merch supports the shows creators?

  • @sketch3744
    @sketch3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    This scene is easily the best in the series. This scene will never be ursurped of that title. As time goes on I genuinely believe this will be referenced as one of the greatest scenes in t.v history. It's heartbreaking, heartwarming and massively inspiring while also stimulating introspection of ones self in a way that is nothing short of absolutely profound. Merely thinking of this scene gets the waterworks going. This scene in and of itself makes me completely, earnestly want to be a better person. Not just the idea that I should, but the actual willingness and want to be a better, more caring person than I currently am

  • @davidquinn6702
    @davidquinn6702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    Notice prior to Ted's monologue, Rebecca looks down at her watch. But once he begins, her attention increases when he talks about his dad's passing. Perhaps this is the first time she begins to comprehend what Ted is all about. That brief glimpse in the background, present but subtle.

    • @missmabel
      @missmabel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I feel like, in that look, we also see the final nail in the coffin of her revenge plot. Cause in the next episode, right when we see her hurt again by Rupert, and we're sure she's going to double down on her cruel game, she instead confesses the truth.

    • @christiangavrilidis4599
      @christiangavrilidis4599 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The show is amazing for quirky little moments like that.

    • @nwcoastlife
      @nwcoastlife วันที่ผ่านมา

      They were probably on their 30th take of the scene

  • @ef692
    @ef692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I rarely hear a quote that actually resonates with me. I've adopted this as a mindset to help with my people pleasing and anxious personality, obsessing over first impressions and doubting myself. So uplifting for me!

    • @camouflagejumpsuit
      @camouflagejumpsuit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Type the quote here.

    • @amfarrell42
      @amfarrell42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Indeed!
      Be curious, not self-judgmental!

    • @mikenadal9242
      @mikenadal9242 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Barbecue sauce

  • @CCJJ160Channels
    @CCJJ160Channels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    Still makes me sad when he says “from age ten ‘till I was sixteen when he passed away.”

    • @Oakshield2
      @Oakshield2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Specially now with the reveal

    • @io2112
      @io2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Rebecca's expression when he said that seems to suggest that was the first time she learned about that.

    • @connormacmillan2803
      @connormacmillan2803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Oakshield2 I know right. Going back to that line after learning how his dad died hurts.

    • @paullew4853
      @paullew4853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This line as well as the Richmond Tryout speech and the “being sad by not alone” got me misty.

    • @markseychell8443
      @markseychell8443 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The delivery of "barbeque sauce", full of memory and longing is also just perfect

  • @sixsevencomedy
    @sixsevencomedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This scene hits so much harder when you have seen all of Ted’s story.

  • @1235368
    @1235368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I can't begin to explain how this particular scene changed my life. I am achiever but I always felt I was up against a wall, feeling depressed and burnt out. My wife to cheer me up put this series. Although the series in itself is amazing, every word in the clip resonates with me. You gave me something to hold on that day that will remain with me for ever. For the one who wrote these lines. You made me peaceful ✌ from inside. You made me change the way I see the world. Just that Ted saw it on the board and I saw it in this clip.

    • @aguywithalotofopinions412
      @aguywithalotofopinions412 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well Jason Sudeikis is the lead writer so you could leave a message on his Twitter page or something

  • @timm8888
    @timm8888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    One of the best moments of any show I’ve seen, love it

  • @cannonball3420
    @cannonball3420 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ll never tire of this scene, perfect in every way. It is truly one of the most beautiful moments in TV, resonating far beyond a sweet, quirky series. This scene is canon & the show, Ted Lasso, a master class of quality TV.

  • @DMFroomer
    @DMFroomer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Scenes like this turn what would have been an alright show into one of the best out there.

  • @laurelhill3505
    @laurelhill3505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    Rupert calling Young Rebecca a "consolation prize" is all you need to know about the man.

    • @jsksjfnc
      @jsksjfnc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That ain't a man

    • @ryannarcisse
      @ryannarcisse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jsksjfnc Stop simping on youtube

    • @aishwaryachaudhary2933
      @aishwaryachaudhary2933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How is she staying with him.

    • @neildurbin
      @neildurbin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ok, I now agree with the English that American's don't get sarcasm.

    • @bobdole4916
      @bobdole4916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@neildurbin Just helping out - there's no apostrophe in that "Americans" because it's plural, not possessive.

  • @spacecoastmatt1401
    @spacecoastmatt1401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I shared this everyone. I have a friend who is a guidance counselor who uses this scene with her kids. It has become part of my personal philosophy.

  • @snoogansthejew
    @snoogansthejew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    My favorite scene of the whole season 🥰

    • @arklow3482
      @arklow3482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There were so many, but yes, this one tops them all. 👍🏻

    • @gregterhune9650
      @gregterhune9650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100% correct. In a season full of great moments, this is the best.

    • @tvarn595
      @tvarn595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @C.Chandler_May
      @C.Chandler_May 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BBQ sauce..

  • @maxjohansen9475
    @maxjohansen9475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Whenever I know about to win something I quietly smile and quip “barbecue sauce.”

  • @skylaryoung3819
    @skylaryoung3819 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how proud Mae looks while Ted is talking😊😂 Like a proud mother who knows she did a good job raising her child lol

  • @brews.n.bits.
    @brews.n.bits. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the scene that just solidified the series for me. It just really resonates with me ❤

  • @prathameshkhot1141
    @prathameshkhot1141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Watched this show for comedy but it was more than that❤️
    Excited for 2nd season 🎉

  • @TheSocratesofAthens
    @TheSocratesofAthens 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Whenever someone is negative to me, I think of this quote from Ted Lasso.

  • @sylance777
    @sylance777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I've watched this scene a dozen times, and every time I tear up.

    • @sketch3744
      @sketch3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Legit makes me ugly cry and I'm a fully grown man lol. This scene has a certain power to it that, in years to come, will be looked at as one of the most emotionally powerful scenes in t.v history. The brilliance of this scene cannot be properly described in words. Only in our collective tears can this scene be properly appreciated.

  • @namishway6439
    @namishway6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    BBQ sauce...👌👌👌 Best script writing of 2020.

    • @VishalGTitus
      @VishalGTitus ปีที่แล้ว

      what does that mean ?

    • @DACouture413
      @DACouture413 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@VishalGTitus not sure if it's the reference or not but Bulls-eye is a brand of barbecue sauce.

    • @VishalGTitus
      @VishalGTitus ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DACouture413 ok

    • @aouncenasadiq3341
      @aouncenasadiq3341 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There is a tweet by Ted Lasso where he says if you're about to take a winning shot, think of something that makes you smile.
      He also said in an earlier episode, BBQ sauce is the thing that reminds him of home/Kansas, which ties into the story about his father he’s telling while playing darts.

  • @paulmilkman8646
    @paulmilkman8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    agree with miss mabel, and also note that Rupert isn't the only one that has underestimated Ted. Likely everyone other than Coach, including Rebecca. In that instant she glimpses his life and journey and all that. Trent Crimm got it over the course of a day. Keeley and Nate got it early, and Jamie got it in a note on the bus.

  • @krowlee1554
    @krowlee1554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The Man City episode makes this beautiful and heart breaking

  • @Dom_Wotila
    @Dom_Wotila 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was one of the many scenes from the show that changed my life! Bout to get my first tattoo, and it’s gonna be the believe sign, along with the quote “be curious, not judgmental” from this scene. The only thing I’m trying to figure out is if I’m going to use the torn up version of the sign or the smooth version before it got ripped

  • @raeleelol
    @raeleelol ปีที่แล้ว +4

    0:22 “You know Rupert, guys have underestimated me my entire life, and for years I never understood why, it used to really bother me.
    But then one day I was driving my little boy to school and I saw this quote by Walt Whitman, it was painted on the wall there it said “Be Curious, not judgemental” and I liked that. So I get back in my car and I’m driving to work and all of the sudden it hits me…
    All them fellas that used to belittle me..not a single one of them were curious. You know they thought they had everything all figured out so they judged everything.. and they judged everyone.
    And I realized that their underestimating me..phew..who I was had nothing to do with it.
    Cause if they were curious they’d ask questions you know? Questions like “have you played a lot of darts, Ted?” Which I would have answered “yes sir, every Sunday afternoon at a sports bar with my father from age 10 to 16 when he passed away”

  • @LeoPetty-xw7ni
    @LeoPetty-xw7ni 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ted Lasso is such a legend

  • @gnperdue
    @gnperdue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If only life was full of justice this sweet…

  • @mjgovier5816
    @mjgovier5816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Carry this with you for the rest of your days! We will all benefit from it.

  • @Garcern94
    @Garcern94 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This already great scene is even better now in retrospect after season 2.

  • @toemblem
    @toemblem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that scene, so much.

  • @maxjohansen9475
    @maxjohansen9475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He says Barbecue sauce because
    ITS A KANSAS CITY MASTERPIECE
    HOLY SHIT.

    • @kaijugaming2374
      @kaijugaming2374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Doesn't he say it because he was speaking to Rebecca earlier in the season about what food reminds her of her childhood and kept getting cut off? I thought this was him saying the food that reminded him of childhood, playing darts, his dad, etc..

    • @maxjohansen9475
      @maxjohansen9475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaijugaming2374 maybe. Still, growing up in Kansas, might have several meanings.

    • @andpeeps1570
      @andpeeps1570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "Bullseye" is a brand of barbecue sauce

  • @dimedrey
    @dimedrey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ted had grown men crying

  • @Turbettma
    @Turbettma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Barbeque sauce."

  • @sergeyoneill1344
    @sergeyoneill1344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    0:18 GILES?! RUPERT GILES??

  • @lirolo8343
    @lirolo8343 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This really felt good

  • @bradmead9245
    @bradmead9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love the Bullseye barbeque sauce reference

    • @MelvinJoosten26
      @MelvinJoosten26 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does it mean?

    • @bradmead9245
      @bradmead9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MelvinJoosten26 Bullseye is a bbq sauce brand. So, by saying “barbecue sauce” he was saying bullseye.

  • @tnightwolf
    @tnightwolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wholesome show!

  • @johnsalas6444
    @johnsalas6444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great show, Ted Lasso is Ausome!

  • @FancyJester
    @FancyJester 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This would be so funny if he completely whiffed the last shot

  • @faraji834
    @faraji834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God I love this show ♥

  • @RCvetky
    @RCvetky 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best moment in the series!

  • @Matuse
    @Matuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ted reverse Inigoed Rupert.

  • @gregterhune9650
    @gregterhune9650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Someone accidently hit the thumbs down button on this video.

    • @elpatronhimself
      @elpatronhimself 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It was probably Rupert, that sore loser!

    • @hollykm
      @hollykm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they meant to say "dis I like"

  • @razasharif5386
    @razasharif5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awww man he didn’t use his lasso 🤠

  • @taliesinian
    @taliesinian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    does anyone know the artist referenced at the end of this video? Would love to lookup more of his work.

  • @GOcoach951
    @GOcoach951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Barbeque sauce!

  • @calebbigboss72
    @calebbigboss72 ปีที่แล้ว

    How is Ted Lasso the 1st time I’ve heard this quote

  • @JoshNormandy
    @JoshNormandy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Barbecue sauce.

  • @LordLagsalot
    @LordLagsalot 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any idea on what the name of the song is when he talks about the quote and his GrandFather?

  • @rgreerjr
    @rgreerjr ปีที่แล้ว

    Barbecue sauce

  • @camouflagejumpsuit
    @camouflagejumpsuit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Captions please? Some of us have hearing loss.

  • @toddsmitts
    @toddsmitts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anthony Stewart Head is playing a guy named Rupert, who is marrying a blonde woman several years younger than Buffy. Yikes.

  • @asadashraf2128
    @asadashraf2128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    T20 T20 Bull....10-16 you say 🤔

    • @Beorn19
      @Beorn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      what do you mean?

    • @asadashraf2128
      @asadashraf2128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Beorn19 professional players, even the best in the world, left with treble treble 20, treble 20, and to end with a bullseye, their odds would probably be over 1/50.

    • @SirSly28
      @SirSly28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well who’s to say he didn’t play when he turned 17 y.o and up?

    • @asadashraf2128
      @asadashraf2128 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SirSly28 fk it your right.

    • @user-tg9pm3dg7r
      @user-tg9pm3dg7r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@SirSly28 Indeed , be curious , not judgmental

  • @lizdevlin3238
    @lizdevlin3238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who are the 3 losers who disliked this?

  • @Flavum
    @Flavum ปีที่แล้ว

    This is season 1, episode 8, since "Ted Lasso Reacts" can't be bothered to provide a shred of info, except for how to buy their unlicensed, bootleg crap merch.

  • @scoobasteve5426
    @scoobasteve5426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rupert was curious tho. He literally asks him if he likes to play darts then Ted lies and tells him he's more of a cornhole guy then later says he played darts for years. TED LASSO SITS ON A THRONE OF LIES

    • @professionalcommenter483
      @professionalcommenter483 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well that doesn't mean that he doesn't know how to play darts does it

    • @jeremylemings
      @jeremylemings 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He said he didn't like to play, not that he couldn't. Something he and his dad did, for six years, up till he passed? Probably couldn't even look at darts without thinking of him. It's hard to like something that reminds you of the hole in your heart caused by losing someone.

  • @u3vs62cja
    @u3vs62cja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You know this whole show is just all Apple product placement