1:27 the problem didn't start with the kiss. The problem started when you publically got so drunk that men could have their way with you. Not only does that show a lack of self-respect, but a lack of respecting your partner.
Well, not "so drunk that men could have their way with her", but "so drunk that your inhibitions were compromised". She still chose to cheat, and getting that drunk to the point where she didn't stop herself is where it starts.
@@divyanshsahai everyone sees people they're attracted to but our conscious restraint stops us from acting on it if we're in a relationship. Getting into a position where that's compromised, in a party environment, is just stupid.
Why is it always the one that gets cheated on that gets accused of "trows away the relationship" because they won't just accept it. To cheat on someone and then trow that in their face is incredibly insulting, that statement alone should be proof enough that to them it was no big deal and that they will do it again in the future
So everyone harassing him, shes fine and does nothing He defends himself and hes in the wrong? She cheated, she made the mistake and she has to face the consequences.
It's not about a kiss, it's about trust. Once you realize you can't trust someone it's impossible to go back. Also, any woman in a serious relationship still going out to party without her bf/husband is a massive red flag. And that's before even accounting for how easily women cheat in that environment. The "getting caught up in the moment" and "being too drunk and not remembering anything" excuses for cheating are so common I still don't get how there are so many guys out there that allow this crap to happen anyway because they are afraid of seeming "insecure and controlling" when they are just being naive and stupid.
Doesn’t anyone else find it strange how OP didn’t count the kiss his soon to be ex-wife gave to some other dude as a red flag? Like come on! Either way the OP’s ex really has the nerve to try to rally the family against OP, maybe if she hadn’t done that the situation wouldn’t have spread to everyone else
Wasn't just a kiss, unless AP has no hands. Also not her first time. I also love how the cheaters say that their partner is the one throwing the relationship away. You know what they say about accountability right?
1:27 the problem didn't start with the kiss. The problem started when you publically got so drunk that men could have their way with you. Not only does that show a lack of self-respect, but a lack of respecting your partner.
Well, not "so drunk that men could have their way with her", but "so drunk that your inhibitions were compromised". She still chose to cheat, and getting that drunk to the point where she didn't stop herself is where it starts.
@@alexjeffrey3981 drunken actions are your sober thoughts. She wanted to kiss that man. And did it. Leave the 304 and move on.
@@divyanshsahai everyone sees people they're attracted to but our conscious restraint stops us from acting on it if we're in a relationship. Getting into a position where that's compromised, in a party environment, is just stupid.
"she didn't actually cheat"
"she was just kissing someone while dancing with him"
so she did cheat... lmao
Op is a badass. Also, never take seriously a party girl. She put herself in that situation willingly and she will do it again.
Why is it always the one that gets cheated on that gets accused of "trows away the relationship" because they won't just accept it. To cheat on someone and then trow that in their face is incredibly insulting, that statement alone should be proof enough that to them it was no big deal and that they will do it again in the future
So everyone harassing him, shes fine and does nothing He defends himself and hes in the wrong?
She cheated, she made the mistake and she has to face the consequences.
It's not about a kiss, it's about trust. Once you realize you can't trust someone it's impossible to go back.
Also, any woman in a serious relationship still going out to party without her bf/husband is a massive red flag. And that's before even accounting for how easily women cheat in that environment. The "getting caught up in the moment" and "being too drunk and not remembering anything" excuses for cheating are so common I still don't get how there are so many guys out there that allow this crap to happen anyway because they are afraid of seeming "insecure and controlling" when they are just being naive and stupid.
Doesn’t anyone else find it strange how OP didn’t count the kiss his soon to be ex-wife gave to some other dude as a red flag? Like come on! Either way the OP’s ex really has the nerve to try to rally the family against OP, maybe if she hadn’t done that the situation wouldn’t have spread to everyone else
I'm glad this guy's not a simp like some of the other ops in other stories.
King 👑
Wasn't just a kiss, unless AP has no hands. Also not her first time. I also love how the cheaters say that their partner is the one throwing the relationship away. You know what they say about accountability right?
She cheated. Also confusing thumbnail.