FATHER WOUNDS, RELATIONSHIPS + HEALING with Odilakachi (Ep. 80) | Express Yourself Black Man Podcast
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- In XYBM 80, I talk with Odilakachi who is a Master Life Coach, Therapist, and content creator. We talk about father wounds, how they show up in relationships, raising children, vulnerability, toxic masculinity, how to heal and more.
Listen to the full episode on all podcast streaming platforms including TH-cam.
Leave a 5 star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!
SAFE HAVEN:
------------
Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be paired with a Black therapist, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from 250+ Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.
Join the Safe Haven waitlist: www.expressyou...
SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
------------
Safe Haven: www.expressyou...
Monthly Donation: buy.stripe.com...
Merchandise: shop.expressyo...
FOLLOW US:
------------
TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman ( / expressyourselfblackman )
Instagram:
Host: @expressyourselfblackman ( / expressyourselfblackman )
Guest: @professor.odi ( / professor.odi )
TH-cam: / expressyourselfblackman
Facebook: / expressyourselfblackman
EVERYBODY WANNA BE MUFASA, but don’t NOBODY wanna be responsible of everything the light touches🗣️
Bars 🔥💯
I like that. Powerful
This episode was exceptional, layered, insightful with plenty conversation starters for all sexes. I definitely benefitted from seeing this and was compelled to self reflect how the topics discussed show up in my life and relationships.
Thank you so much for watching. I'm really glad you gained value from it!
I’m a young man 17 yrs of age trying to find comfort in my masculine and feminine energy’s nd just would like to say I appreciate Wht y’all are doing for the community
Love nd peace my brothas 🙏🏾
We are proud of you young brutha!
Keep growing, young brother ❤❤❤
Great topic as my therapist told me that most of the small issues I would bring up to him are based in the love I want from my father
This rlly is helping me accept who my father is too.. time to move forward
Hey I'm doing a podcast as well brother thanks keep grinding
Man I needed to hear all this. The segments that truly touched me was the unwillingness to admit what I’m struggling with off the basis of hyper masculinity, emotionally abusive women and talking so harsh to myself dehumanizing myself
Thank you so much for being authentic
Hearing you brothers talk about repeating lines to learn things is SO IMPORTANT, and THAT'S WHY we black man have to watch what we listen to!!
How many songs PROMOTE hyper- masculinity and are misogynist!?
I haven’t had something so layered to unpack. As a mother who has a son… this was a beautiful truth and reality
Trucking was considered a man industry, but women are coming ing to this industry at a fast rate, Everything he's saying is the truth how we view muscalinity as men we are making muscalinity toxic.
@36:04 you made WAY too much sense !!
Great episode!!!! Lots of Gems 💎
being a black man this podcast really opened my eyes to a lot of different perspectives. thank you so much.
This episode will be on repeat because it a lot to process. Too many things are hitting home for me
This was so good! Being able to admit to yourself that you were hurt by your father's actions or lack thereof is so difficult for a lot of men because they feel like they're betraying masculinity. That's deep.
Very true! Thank you for tuning in 🙌🏿
I ❤ that you are unapologetically addressing the needs of Black men and their mental health. 🖤That IN 👏🏾IT 🙄SELF 👏🏾is revolutionary!!! So many gems.
Wow... by far one of THEE most crtical episodes everyone needs to listen to!
Tic Tok brought me here, I’m truly grateful for the podcast. Thank you so much!
I’m probably going to be running this interview back for the rest of the month because there were so many jewels back to back to back.
Not gonna lie me and my pops fell out today. Recently got hooked into the podcast for about a month now. But this episode popped up at just the right time. Really needed that. On my self healing journey. Love the cause and will engage in any way possible
I'm only 25 minutes in and wow! Very deep and insightful conversation for both men and women to be able to self-reflect on. Thank you for this episode 👏🏾
I found your channel via IG…THESE are the conversations that need to be had 🙌🏽If I hear one more black male centric pod cast asking a BW what she brings to the table I think I’ll scream 😂
I'm a 41 year old man. This episode touched my spirit. I've made some many connections. I ty you brothas
Top notch 👌
Off the rip ! 🔥The conversation is next level, much needed and necessary. We as black men are in a state of emergency ! Time to lean forward.
Needed this as a young black man. Who knows our mentality and ways are not the best I’m highly invested.
Brothers you guys are helping a lot of guys like myself heal from wounds of not having a father and dealing with the lack of male guidance now
Gents.. this was much needed. I appreciate y’all peeling back the layers, especially with Father wounds. I couldn’t stop sharing this video🙏🏽
I have NO WORDS for this episode!!! I can’t put enough 💯 and 🔥 emojis on this!!! When he was talking about anime!!!! DONE!!!! 🤯
This was my first listen and I’m walking around mind blown and realizing how much I related to this and how I view not only myself but my relationships past & future wise
It is a must to have every black man to listen and learn. I’ve went through a lot of what was discussed but really didn’t understand why I was going through it. Lift up every black man. Love my brothers!!!
I'm only 28 mins in and already there have been so, so, so many jewels dropped. This is definitely what I needed. "Life is kicking my ass!"
i shed actual tears watching this episode thankyou..
I had to come back to this video before spinning the block 😂😂😂 blessing to brotha Odi
I love this tremendously i share to all my brothers and black friends, because I know a lot of them don’t speak out . But I love this . I have seen so many of me and what I hold back in my life . I AM GOOD , no I am not always good when I say . But I know now why I say . Love it . Bless you guys
Definitely coming back to tune into this‼️
38:55 the way you put this my guy, Jesus it really be that simple sometimes, it was funny how you delivered it but the impact of the message hit like a meteor.
Powerful conversation. I'm glad I came across yall today 🙏🏽 thank you 🧠🫡
This episode got me. This hit so hard right here im damn near 😢 maaaan!!!!!!
I’ve already shared the video six times! Gems Gems 💎
57:17 = TH-cam short video!!!!!
gonna have the team grab that!!
It’s sad because we treat men like they not even human and they treat themselves the same way.
This is the softness masculine posturing man I ever seen
30:12 - 30:41 thats a deep realization there!
👏🏾
🔥
I believe in spirital self and lesrning about healing for sure. As a women i want to really feel more close to my husband and try my best to give him peace too and for my kids. 😢😢
So glad to see a woman say that about her husband and children! Props to you!🙏🏽
❤
I appreciate this video right on time
Excellent episode!!
Definitely a solid interview. Taught me that my girl be trying to emotionally manipulate me when I bring issues to her. I’ll feel some way about something, and she’ll start talking about how it made her feel. Appreciate you brothers.
That's not a bad thing. But she needs to acknowledge what you said and navigate your thoughts. But then it's okay that you are aware of how your words impact her.
Ngl professor odi is extremely smart I learned a lot just from listening 💪
Loving this content!!!
Beautifully executed talk
13:46 - 14:04 MMM!
Mans was Hip Hopping though the conversation with all the BARS he was dropping! 👏🏾
This episode has changed my life and It definitely made me want finally do the work to heal thank you 🙏🏽 I just discovered this podcast a few days ago and I’m sold
Honored fam 🙏🏿
I hope you signed up for the webinar 🙏🏿
I think y'all confusing Pride, Ego, and Denial with so called "Toxic Masculinity"😂😂....feminism & LGBTQ coined the phrase "Toxic Masculinity" to shame & gaslight men.
❤❤❤❤
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
#leaveher
I wish I could come on your show an talk about these father truma wounds
LOVE THIS!!!
Love this episode a lot of things y’all touched on I see in black men around me
20 mins in and this podcast is golden
This video was right on time for me. i seen that it was posted weeks ago but didnt listen. Just went through a repeating situation with my father and these words came right when i needed them. Ihave to learn how to allow him to be him and not try and find the healing through him.
A powerful 01:14:00 segment that my brother sent to me. So many jewels were dropped in this segment and so much I can relate to. You bruthas are appreciated and thank you for this segment. A new subscriber gained. Peace and Blessings to you bruthas. 🙏🏿🙏🏿👊🏿👊🏿
POWERFUL session 💪🏾 PEACE Love and Light GodBody☝🏾
Love Odi and Love the platform bro! Definitely inspires me and helps me be intentional along my journey. Messing with EYBM, my emotional toolkit is getting deep! 😂
Seriously though, this is the episode I was the most excited for and it definitely exceeded every expectation 🖤
I have never heard toxic masculinity be explained this way, most of what we here is how masculinity in itself is bad.
thanks for this Proff really appreciate it
My new favorite podcast. Love the brotha Odi and the wisdom he dropped!!
11:45 in this video so many gems dropped!!
thank you for watching!
Powerful conversation!!!
This episode is refreshing to see other black men in the community openly expressing their emotions without being judged and showing emotional intelligence on many levels. And the best part is knowing the intentions behind it. Keep and continue helping the black community Brotherman💯
Mind blowing stuff. Phenomenal.
Wonderful. Thank you. 🤝🏾
Bro this is the shit man this is fire. man this is so true. compassion is the key for ourselves and then it will ripple out into all relationships
Man how can I have a mentors like him in my life I’m damn near brought to tears 😢
great pod. heavy heavy shit. here from tiktok
Prolly my favorite podcast out rn bro
Love brothers ! Good video y’all boys !
I hope that we as black men enter a space to be able to receive this.
This is powerful💪🏾
Amazing conversation!
✊🏾❤️
Had to pause this a couple times sheesh
DR UMAR SON
Absolutely love it
Beautiful work
YALL HAVE TO STOP WITH THE IN-VIDEO ADS!!! PPL LIKE MYSELF PAY NOT TO HAVE ADS. AUTOMATIC NEGATIVE OPINION ABOUT YOUR CONTENT