Swear I be telling my daughter this. She friends with ghetto, troubled, criminal, hood neglected friends. Then follow them🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️3 more years she'll be 18. Glad I only had one. Whew!
If you’re not mature enough to make sure your phone is charged before leaving the house, you aren’t mature enough to go to a party at night! Lol! That’s what my momma woulda said 😂
Lmaoo did she say u raised me in the suburbs? Girl I’m from the hood and if they start shooting at a party best believe me and my suburb girls is running as well, hell I think everyone is going to run suburbs raised or not😂
I literally said the same thing, i was raised in a really good neighborhood and they was shooting at a carnival one time, best mf believe my ass started running lmao 😅thats a natural thing to do … duck and run like hell
This happened to my daughter and a teen. I let her go to a school skate party. I always picked her up a hour before PARTY'S ended. She called me right before I was about to leave and pick her up and they was shooting! Hearing them gun shots and kids screaming was the worst feeling in the world! It felt like I couldn't get there fast enough!!! Thank god she was ok!
You just have to train and prepare them for those situations and hope for the best☝️they gotta know what to do on their own. Let's just say you were outta town and you couldn't help them then what?
@Randomized Her child is perfectly fine. It's Tammy who has a problem with everything. She gets pissy on how she reacts like the girl hasn't grown up in the "industry".....Tammy is given SPOILED MOMMA.
@Randomized It’s true she doesn’t understand that part now but she will when she’s a lot older especially if and when she has kids someday she’ll be a little more grateful about everything her mother has done for her. I know parents aren’t perfect but they do try their best I would know because I’ve witnessed it first hand with my own mother and I’ll never take her for granted.
@@renitabentick7869 her daughter isn't taking her for granted. Tammy makes that girl feel like that. It's in a lot episodes of LHH that show that early on NOT on Tammy & Waka show. But once again if you gonna be a parent then stop asking for opinions from your child. You put your child on the same level as you. Charlie ain't dumb she just don't want to be involved.
Im Glad GOD & heavenly angels protected her as she ran from the party!! Thank you God for saving her life, Tammy would really then be a mess if something happened to her baby, and by this, I bet she won't let her be a teen again going to another party, its gonna be lets party here at my house... This is serious wake up call..
@@studentlearner2783 who tf are you to tell me what I needed to mention? You weird internet B!TCH I’ll say what I want to say how I want to say it. Now let me mention their skin tone AGAIN 😉 Tammy is light and her beautiful mom is dark. Omg their skin tones are so different. I love their different skin tones
@@upsidedown584 Oh. And you’re telling me because? I think they look like twins. Your opinion doesn’t matter to me at all. My opinion is the only one that matters
She doesn't get it now but she's young she'll appreciate what her mother did for her when she's old enough to understand. (& Wow this comment has 907 likes 🧐😅thanks y'all !! )
It’ll always be like that … all of us as teens never wanted to listen/comprehend until we got older and now I talk to my mom almost everyday 😭 , we just have to keep letting them know … I’m starting now with my 1yo lmao
@@shantahopson9803 yes and it's hurtful when you try to give your kids a good life and not have them live in the hood and in poverty. But unfortunately to young teenagers the ghetto is cool and the suburbs is lame. But we know as parents theyll eventually get it just like we did when we grew up
Lmfao listen I felt this. I grew up in the hood from birth to about 5th grade & was still going to school out there til abt 9th grade & my moms got her some money & put my ass in an all girls catholic highschool in the burbs . Lol I was so pissed I cried the first week of school & by 11th grade I had accomplished so many things. I joined the school choir we took a trip to Montreal in which I sang & came in 1st place. Amongst a million other great things. I’m so grateful for everything she’s done for me. I still call my mom & tell her thank you for whooping me when I needed it otherwise I woulda been out here wilding like my classmates from the hood schools. It gets easier Charlie, hang in there ❤
@@demetria4339 I think she just means no nonsense because now we have gentle parenting. You can always tell who the gentle parents are, because they're the ones who are miserable constantly and always criticizing someone else's parenting. It's probably because they have overly sensitive children who beat they ass all day long so I'd be miserable too honestly 😂
@@demetria4339To say, a true Black Mom is not an insult, it’s actually a compliment. Are you not Black?? You have a BW with an Afro in your pic but that don’t mean nothing, ppl cosplay being Black all the time.
@@tiaratauaese6197 that's some bs she may not parent the way others do she may not raise her in a way others think is good parenting but in the end it's her child what works for them may not work for you or others that's on her🤷🏽♀️ FYI any real parent def wants to see their child be do & have better than they did growing up in the hood ain't always a great experience ppl tend to become products of their environment Tammy lived it there's no shame in wanting better for you & your family Charlie is almost an adult Tammy got her to adulthood so that's a better childhood than Tammy had & that's what matters🤷🏽♀️
Maaaan I’m a mom and I’m telling you guys who aren’t parents, if your child ever calls you in a panic crying screaming they’re shooting and you don’t have their location your heart literally drops and you’re soul leave your body an you start to panic 😱 because you don’t know where your child is that’s a feeling I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, I feel where Tammy is coming from 😅
Just reading your comment brought tears to my eyes because the thought of having to go thru this, I have two sons 17 and 20 and they are really well behaved kids no trouble but you never know what someone else’s kid will do around yours, we didn’t have to worry about guns at no party back when we were doing that, we just worried about parents coming home lol shit sad
You sure ain't lying!!! I went to my nephew repass and soon after I was caught in a crossfire and was shot I had a calming feeling but I was able to call my mom before my cousin drove me to the hospital and the first thing I said to my mom was don't panic but I'm on my way to the hospital I've been shot and the screaming and yelling I heard from her is still with me. I'm thanking the Lord everyday to still be here to tell my story but like we've said we didn't have to worry about being shot just getting caught being out after curfew.
@@sirenthomas4595 the context of your comment is totally off from what you’re responding to. This isn’t projection. I know that on social media we like to use words and trending phrases but this doesn’t apply here. All this person was describing was what it feels like to have your child calling you in a panic and not being there to protect them.
I wouldn't call this "getting into it." Tammy is trying to give Charlie what she didn't have. And Charlie wants so much to be in a world she can't stomach. If being raised in the suburbs means you don't know what to do in an emergency, then stay in the suburbs. All we are seeing is a mother-daughter relationship playing out on TV.
LOL how bout mom shoulda prepared her more a shooting can happen anywhere ...ive seen full shoot outs in honky tonks lol hell the suburban clubs have fights and stuff too...just prepare her all around. She was mad she got scared and rather than reassess her parenting she does this mess.... i wonder if she will go low contact once shes older(the daughter)
@@sirenthomas4595 She should of prepared her more? 😒 She left the damn party, that’s what she was suppose to do! What else is there to teach? She’s not upset at her for leaving, she’s upset Charlie’s phone died and she couldn’t get her child’s location right away.
@@Under-constructioncoat yes prepare her more such as get her a portable charger...this is also an example of why its important to always have your own means of transportation ....she was scared ok but shes projecting her fear on her kid...a shoot out can happen anywhere...ive seen shootouts at rodeos ...anywhere ...🤷🏿♀️
@@sirenthomas4595 okay sure, portable charger, I’ll give you that. Own means of transportation? She’s a child. She’s not projecting anything, she was worried about her child.
@@Under-constructioncoat shes old enough to drive and again it brings up the point TAMMY dropped her off at the party IN THE HOOD and now is all upset a shooting happened ....LIKE come on now
No because that “what did she expect” would’ve got her checked regardless of the conversation. My momma would’ve hit me with a quick “who is she” and it would’ve been OVER
Amen 💕 Whatever you're going through it's not over until God says its over.. You gotta Declare Everything attached to me wins.Don't give up on God , because He won't give up on you ..
Chile! I felt this on all levels! Let's your teen go to a party, then there's a shooting.. phone dead, no location.. that's why I get everyones number before she leaves.
I’m convinced y’all be having kids and listening comprehension skill go out THA DOOR all because you was made to feel like no one should listen to you as a kid/teenager. This little 25 clip had some many misunderstandings and yet here y’all are clapping and agreeing 😅 You’ll learn the hard way why yo kids don’t visit you once they move out
Listening and comprehension goes both ways! Times are different now. We just want our kids to be happy and safe! If they’re mature enough to understand and respect that, they will appreciate our method and maintain a healthy relationship with us. This situation is relatable and normal between mom and daughter. Especially a spoiled daughter.
I always say if it was mandatory for kids to actually grade their parents once they turned 21, a lot of these parents would be upset! Too many of them swear they did everything right, yet the whole time those kids were telling them listen to understand me and not just to respond. 🤷🏾♀️
@Sleepycreepy Ah, you know me so well! Yes, I am the adult and I was also a child! I understand and allow my kids to express themselves fully. But, like you said, I am the adult which means I am responsible for my kids well being. What ever actions they take will come with consequences and repercussions, good or bad. Until they are old enough to take care of themselves and handle their actions on their own, they will live by mom and dads rules! By the way, my kids and their friends love me 😊
@@rellie_90 yup thinking "my child grew up to have this degree or make this amount" MAAM those are HIS/HER accomplishments not yours it says nothing of your parenting.
Poor Charlie. I really like Tammy but she is not loving enough to her Daughter. She is so stern it comes across as cold and uncaring. I can tell that Tammy loves her child but she just doesn't know how to communicate or show that love correctly. Tammy always sound angry and flustered.
I think it’s great as a parent that Tammy don’t take no mess. However she comes off so hard towards her daughter & I can see how that doesn’t offer a safe space. I also know Tammy was a single parent at one point, so she gotta be the main disciplinarian but sympathy goes a long way & charli’s frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed give the girl some grace. She loves her we all know but the attitude & always seeming mad at her doesn’t make that come across so clear
This particular moment she had a reason to be. Don't get me wrong I was definitely somewhat Charlie lol I'm an adult now and my phone stay dead 🤣 but my husband and my mother will still be very upset if I call saying ppl are shooting where I am and they are unable to get to me quickly because my lack of precautions and then blame my mom for raising me in good conditions so I wasn't aware of how to properlyrespond. My mother would not appreciate hearing that at said time. And as a parent myself I wouldn't either. Don't blame me making sure you aren't exposed to this regularly to it being a disadvantage. I would have rather you say "well mama I feel like you didn't tell me what to do in case of an emergency like that happens. I didn't know because we never talked about it" not blaming our whole lifestyle on this lol
@HeeeyOhaji first of all I was NOT talking about this clip alone I’m talking about their relationship in general how Tammy comes off. Obviously she was scared for her daughter but she never expresses that concern by saying “I’m just concerned” she always comes across angry even if it’s coming from a place of love. I can’t gaslight someone I don’t know & never even spoke to dumbass relax 🙄 comin out ya mouth sideways & idek you
@@stephanieknight7593 so we expecting Charli to elaborate and thoroughly explain what she means nicely when her mother has never given her an example on how to do that? Tammy be coming off crazy sometimes even though it’s out of love charli comes off crazy even though she knows her mother worked hard for their lifestyle. They both come off differently than how they actually feel bc neither one was taught the correct way in how to communicate & express themselves in a healthy manner. All I’m sayin!
@@Prev8ster well you kinda coming off like Tammy now with how you're responding lol I explained nicely and you coming off a little spicy so it's kinda giving pot and kettle a little but I see what you saying to a certain extent. I personally feel like you negate Charlie actions because of Tammy's and that's not always ok either.
@@stephanieknight7593 how am I coming off like Tammy when u not my daughter? Y’all are differentttt. U got a disagreement with someone & now they “spicy” I wasn’t even being rude to you never said anything crazy. The other chick was. Idk what spice u getting, but feel how u feel & have a nice day.
Tammy holding a lot of anger inside . Charlie is a good kid she don’t gotta yell at her so much 😫 and what else was she supposed to do in a shoot out ?.. I’m confused too . just let some of that hurt go Tammy it’s hurtful .
Your not a mom…. She needs to be up her ass. The reason she’s good is because Tammy’s on her ass. Now if Charlie was a handful y’all would be ready to say Tammy needs to be a better parent. We need more parents like her with these bad ass kids in Atlanta!!!??
@HeeeyOhaji😏 I don't necessarily think she's disrespectful. I've seen some disrespectful children and Charli isn't one of them. She may say little slick things here and there but what teenager hasn't at one point in their lives? Overall she seems like she has her head on straight
Yea wacka was a great mediator and the peace for them. That secure male safety net. The not so emotional responder. It feels so different when that’s gone.
I just want to say that I love how Waka is Charlie’s dad, no matter what. It’s just so beautiful, no matter what happens between him and Tammy… I’m thankful that Charlie has a father who loves her❤
This happened when I was like 16 (32 now) . When I tell u I called my sister to see where she was while I was running & got into some strangers car from the party all at one time. I wouldn’t dare hop in no strangers car today, but yea u do what u gotta do… survival mode. & then everybody met up at dennys 😂😂😂😂. Those were the days
And this why she would have been in the house. I let you go out and have a good time and you blame me for not having your phone charged. This was cute, but I believe parents have to know their kid, you can go but charge ya phone, be where you say you gonna be, stuff happens I know but always take precautions.
@@johnytawanamaker4169 stop trying to debate perspective and move on in life. Debate about God or something. Things of true importance that will elevate your spirit & mind. You care that much about this subject to go back n forth about it?!! 🥴🙄🤦🏽♀️😒
Tammy and Charli just show me what me and my Daughter gon be like because I am jusssssst like Tammy I need to go find my Wocka bcs this lil girl already tryin it 🤣
OMG Me too!!!!You are most definitely not alone 💯 it's gotta be SOMETHING in the water THESE DAYS. This generation stay ready to debate EVERYTHING! God bless 🙏 😂
Tammy comes off as annoying. She just seems like she's always upset over something and nagging about it. Is she bipolar and narcissistic? What's going on ? Yelling at her child but tried to be the bigger person with Joseline...
Charlie a cancer Tammie a Leo lord Leo's eat cancers alive now wonder Charlie is pry depressed, Leo's have the biggest hearts but we're assholes, fire sighn🔥
@@prettypuffprincess I agree what's funny is cancers always block my ass after I hit them with the truth 🤣🤣pry why Charlie wants to move far away from her mom lmfao Leo's we just can't stand weak people it fuels the fire In us..
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Mannnn my daughter didn't understand then but she does now.... Proud single mother of a high school/ college student!!!! Best thing I've ever done in life!
Laaawwwwd Charlie was NOT BEING UNGRATEFUL ABOUTBHER UPBRINGING. She was letting you know why she ran away from a party with active shooters 😅 Wow, Tammy be too ready to be on go with the ppl in her life. She’s done it with Waka. Cussed the man while he was only joking about something 🤦🏾♀️. Baby work thru thag hurt and anger cuz it’s coming off wrong to your audience and I’m pretty sure your child as well
The way she said it tho sounded ungrateful like she was using where she came from as an excuse for her behavior. That teenage stage is such a pain in the a** because that’s where they really start trying your nerves 🙄 plus she told Tammy she ran away from the shooting but she didn’t say where, that’s why she was worried, hell I would be to cause I still need to know where you are in case somebody does a drive by shooting or something.
@@renitabentick7869 There is literally zero disrespect in that child's tone and words. The way so many of y'all were brought up being yelled at and spoken to like you are a piece of garbage is why y'all think this is okay. Is it any wonder why they see nothing wrong with a man speaking to them like that??
The way Tammy talks to this child is problematic. It's so weird cos on social media its all love pouring for this child. But on they're show it's just toxic interactions. Why does Waka have to be the mediator when she isn't even biologically his? He has always had the compassionate approach to this child. Follow suit and Raise her and Love her it's your ONLY job now. Ain't no music career, u ain't the poor cheated on wife no more, raise your child.
Exactly Tammy just be yelling just to tell so annoying. But Joseline knocked yo head off your shoulders. Just because you from BMore don't mean you hard. Tammy look like she had family to fight her battles.
@@babydd4 Joseline snuck Tammy full of that Toni Montana but your acting like she didn’t hop up soon as she seen her. One thing I’ve seen Tammy will swing Yes she does talk to her child hard. But don’t discredit her like she ain’t about her business. I hate that for some of y’all
Tammy needs to alter her parenting style. Charlie is a gentle natured child and she'd get further talking to her than screaming and berating her. Tammy is a street woman raising a sheltered child. She needs to chill.
I don’t like that the 16 year old daughter fingernails be longer than the momma and grandma and aunties fingernails and they wonder why grown men be trying to talk to her
@@adonisknite5346 no grown men be trying to talk to her because she be looking older than 16 whe a child should stay in a child's place and not be trying to look grown with long fingernails and long hair and all that extra stuff
@@DF3.2082 u act like many weird men dont do that period come on if she stay in a childs place sum weird dude will still do it she can wear her nail long
Omg!! 🤭 Oh! YOU RAN FROM THE PARTY. U raised me in the suburbs. What did you expect? 😂 ....I moved out to the suburbs tryna give you a better life. With a straight face. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Charlie stole her mom whole face and Tammy stole her mom whole face..Generation of natural beauty
Ummmm Tammy and her daughter are the only beauties. Not sure who else you’re talking about because it dang sure ain’t the bear with those twist braids
That is tammy mother, that is so mean !
@@AnAdorableWombat1unless you look like a supermodel , I suggest that you don’t judge someone else’s appearance ..
@@AnAdorableWombat1youre evil
@@h0pevfxeven if she looks like a supermodel she shouldn’t judge.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That’s it and that’s all!
“You raised me in the suburbs .. what did she expect” 😂 Touché
So basically when you hear shooting, you become obvious? They kill more in the suburbs based on the per capita ratio
literallyyyyyyy LOL
Right shame on Tammy for giving her a better life. 😊
@@cindyben3089😂😂😂 I hate dem damn kids I swear😂😂😂
These kids will make you wanna pull your hair out.😂🤦🏽♀️
Tammy looks exactly like her mother. just different in skin tone.
Her whole face eyes, nose, neck, and chin
@@prettypuffprincess yep wait Not the Neck 😭
@@prettypuffprincess yep! 😂😂😂😂
And her daughter looks like her. Triplet
YUUUUUUUUUP!!! This the first time I saw her mother & mother!!! Yes ma'am!!! They ALL look alike💓💓💓😌
“ girl I was tryna give you a better damn life “ lmao
Exactly 😂😂 kids these days man
Exactly 💯
Swear I be telling my daughter this. She friends with ghetto, troubled, criminal, hood neglected friends. Then follow them🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️3 more years she'll be 18. Glad I only had one. Whew!
Lol 😂😂
She is so pretty!!!
If you’re not mature enough to make sure your phone is charged before leaving the house, you aren’t mature enough to go to a party at night! Lol! That’s what my momma woulda said 😂
You have a very wise mom!
Facts 👏🏿👏🏿
She probably had an iPhone we know the battery life isn't great.
While tellin me to keep running she otw 🤣🤣
@@rjones4748I stg I leave the house with mine fully charged and half way through the day it’s suddenly at 18% like how?!! 😂😂
Lmaoo did she say u raised me in the suburbs? Girl I’m from the hood and if they start shooting at a party best believe me and my suburb girls is running as well, hell I think everyone is going to run suburbs raised or not😂
I'm from the city..I was raised to lay down immediately, because no one is shooting at the ground
@@forever39 this the one! 💯
@@forever39 THIS!!!!! as long as you not like at a party where u shoulder to shoulder bc you will get trampled
I literally said the same thing, i was raised in a really good neighborhood and they was shooting at a carnival one time, best mf believe my ass started running lmao 😅thats a natural thing to do … duck and run like hell
I was raised in the suburbs but melanin and common sense just seemed to work for me.
This happened to my daughter and a teen. I let her go to a school skate party. I always picked her up a hour before PARTY'S ended. She called me right before I was about to leave and pick her up and they was shooting! Hearing them gun shots and kids screaming was the worst feeling in the world! It felt like I couldn't get there fast enough!!! Thank god she was ok!
You just have to train and prepare them for those situations and hope for the best☝️they gotta know what to do on their own. Let's just say you were outta town and you couldn't help them then what?
Oh my word, my heart is palpitating just thinking about it. Im glad shes ok. This mom needs some wine after reading this
Terrible parent imagine letting kids go to parties and not expect something bad to happen possibly lol
@@paulkendrick4153 It was a school event dummy!
Amen 🙏🏿
Tammy always pissed at her daughter. "Raised me in the suburbs" is the best explanation for this child.
@Randomized Her child is perfectly fine. It's Tammy who has a problem with everything. She gets pissy on how she reacts like the girl hasn't grown up in the "industry".....Tammy is given SPOILED MOMMA.
@Randomized It’s true she doesn’t understand that part now but she will when she’s a lot older especially if and when she has kids someday she’ll be a little more grateful about everything her mother has done for her. I know parents aren’t perfect but they do try their best I would know because I’ve witnessed it first hand with my own mother and I’ll never take her for granted.
@@renitabentick7869 her daughter isn't taking her for granted. Tammy makes that girl feel like that. It's in a lot episodes of LHH that show that early on NOT on Tammy & Waka show. But once again if you gonna be a parent then stop asking for opinions from your child. You put your child on the same level as you. Charlie ain't dumb she just don't want to be involved.
@@tiaratauaese6197 stfû make no sense
@HeeeyOhaji girl bye Tf
Waka is my guy.. wish they could have made each other happy. Would’ve liked to see them work
That man cheated on Tammy like humans need air! She should have left! 😂
She's a single mom for a reason. They not good for relationships
@@bdb7185and you are a single incel. Y’all are def not good for a reason.
Tammy looks just like her mom omg!!! Just different skin tones. Both very beautiful ladies 😍😍
Im Glad GOD & heavenly angels protected her as she ran from the party!! Thank you God for saving her life, Tammy would really then be a mess if something happened to her baby, and by this, I bet she won't let her be a teen again going to another party, its gonna be lets party here at my house... This is serious wake up call..
You didnt need to mention skin tone. The obvious will be obvious, okay!
I don’t think they look alike at all.
@@studentlearner2783 who tf are you to tell me what I needed to mention? You weird internet B!TCH I’ll say what I want to say how I want to say it. Now let me mention their skin tone AGAIN 😉 Tammy is light and her beautiful mom is dark. Omg their skin tones are so different. I love their different skin tones
@@upsidedown584 Oh. And you’re telling me because? I think they look like twins. Your opinion doesn’t matter to me at all. My opinion is the only one that matters
The face she made when she said, "Mommyyyy they shootinnnn!"😅
Wow! Charlie looks like Tammy! Beautiful gorgeous twins...😍 ❤
They both look like light skinned versions of Tammy's mother
And that's why she jealous of her
@@AngelHolleyshe’s being a concerned parent you weirdo….
Tammy is just so 🤣 its her fast talking and her comebacks. And Charlie just makes it worse because shes so giggly. 🤭
Well said, I love these two!!!
When she yelled out “YOUR PHONE WAS DEAD 💀 “ she had to bring it back in because she was getting upset all over again 😂
Lmaooo yess I saw that. I be the same way, h
Go right back to that moment 😂
She doesn't get it now but she's young she'll appreciate what her mother did for her when she's old enough to understand. (& Wow this comment has 907 likes 🧐😅thanks y'all !! )
I just told my daughter the same thing. they are sweet kids but just to young to understand that we have been there and done that so we know 🙏
It’ll always be like that … all of us as teens never wanted to listen/comprehend until we got older and now I talk to my mom almost everyday 😭 , we just have to keep letting them know … I’m starting now with my 1yo lmao
@@shantahopson9803 yes and it's hurtful when you try to give your kids a good life and not have them live in the hood and in poverty. But unfortunately to young teenagers the ghetto is cool and the suburbs is lame. But we know as parents theyll eventually get it just like we did when we grew up
Waka. Changed everything for Tammy. Show her the Life style
Yep just like how New-New was in the movie ATL. Wanted to be so good but from the suburbs lol. I just don’t get it.* @@loves3965
Lmfao listen I felt this. I grew up in the hood from birth to about 5th grade & was still going to school out there til abt 9th grade & my moms got her some money & put my ass in an all girls catholic highschool in the burbs . Lol I was so pissed I cried the first week of school & by 11th grade I had accomplished so many things. I joined the school choir we took a trip to Montreal in which I sang & came in 1st place. Amongst a million other great things. I’m so grateful for everything she’s done for me. I still call my mom & tell her thank you for whooping me when I needed it otherwise I woulda been out here wilding like my classmates from the hood schools. It gets easier Charlie, hang in there ❤
God bless your mama, and God bless you for appreciating all she's done, that's a good girl right there.
All girls catholic school are made for white kids not black i bet u got bullied 😂
“U raised me in the suburbs”🤣😂I died lmaooo
She said you raised me in the suburbs what do you expect 😂😂😂
Charlie always sounds congested
Tammy Is A True Black Mom 😂🤣🤣🤣 That’s So Me 😂🤣🤦🏾♀️🤣
A true black mom is wild
@@demetria4339😂😂😂
@@demetria4339 I think she just means no nonsense because now we have gentle parenting. You can always tell who the gentle parents are, because they're the ones who are miserable constantly and always criticizing someone else's parenting. It's probably because they have overly sensitive children who beat they ass all day long so I'd be miserable too honestly 😂
@@Lbree1077 what ?!?!?
@@demetria4339To say, a true Black Mom is not an insult, it’s actually a compliment. Are you not Black?? You have a BW with an Afro in your pic but that don’t mean nothing, ppl cosplay being Black all the time.
I miss the three of them together.
“I tried to give you a better life”
Tammy trying to give herself a better life and doesn't like how that shit played out.
@@tiaratauaese6197 Exactly!
@@tiaratauaese6197 that's some bs she may not parent the way others do she may not raise her in a way others think is good parenting but in the end it's her child what works for them may not work for you or others that's on her🤷🏽♀️ FYI any real parent def wants to see their child be do & have better than they did growing up in the hood ain't always a great experience ppl tend to become products of their environment Tammy lived it there's no shame in wanting better for you & your family Charlie is almost an adult Tammy got her to adulthood so that's a better childhood than Tammy had & that's what matters🤷🏽♀️
@@byrddii3516 you so upset you missed the whole point. Find GOD.
@@tiaratauaese6197 no you missed the entire point of what Tammy was saying guess that happens when you can't relate find yourself
Maaaan I’m a mom and I’m telling you guys who aren’t parents, if your child ever calls you in a panic crying screaming they’re shooting and you don’t have their location your heart literally drops and you’re soul leave your body an you start to panic 😱 because you don’t know where your child is that’s a feeling I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, I feel where Tammy is coming from 😅
Just reading your comment brought tears to my eyes because the thought of having to go thru this, I have two sons 17 and 20 and they are really well behaved kids no trouble but you never know what someone else’s kid will do around yours, we didn’t have to worry about guns at no party back when we were doing that, we just worried about parents coming home lol shit sad
You sure ain't lying!!! I went to my nephew repass and soon after I was caught in a crossfire and was shot I had a calming feeling but I was able to call my mom before my cousin drove me to the hospital and the first thing I said to my mom was don't panic but I'm on my way to the hospital I've been shot and the screaming and yelling I heard from her is still with me. I'm thanking the Lord everyday to still be here to tell my story but like we've said we didn't have to worry about being shot just getting caught being out after curfew.
but thats YOUR FEAR dont project it on your kid...ok what if she was 25 and called in a panic again a shooting can happen anywhere now
Her phone dying is why my husband buys small portable phone chargers. I have NO SENSE of direction without GPS. I might die on the spot.
@@sirenthomas4595 the context of your comment is totally off from what you’re responding to. This isn’t projection. I know that on social media we like to use words and trending phrases but this doesn’t apply here. All this person was describing was what it feels like to have your child calling you in a panic and not being there to protect them.
SOMETIMES TAMMY'S RESPONSES BE ON A MILLION W/ HER AGGRESSIVE ENERGY!!🎯 CHARLIE IS SOOOO FREAKING BEAUTIFUL AS EVER❤️❤️💃💃
I’d be on a million too if that was my daughter lol
I’m literally the same way 😅
im the same way w my son !!!
A mothers tough love !! That’s frustrating her phone was off then she was worrying about her daughter. ❤
And the daughter always chillin
I wouldn't call this "getting into it." Tammy is trying to give Charlie what she didn't have. And Charlie wants so much to be in a world she can't stomach. If being raised in the suburbs means you don't know what to do in an emergency, then stay in the suburbs. All we are seeing is a mother-daughter relationship playing out on TV.
LOL how bout mom shoulda prepared her more a shooting can happen anywhere ...ive seen full shoot outs in honky tonks lol hell the suburban clubs have fights and stuff too...just prepare her all around. She was mad she got scared and rather than reassess her parenting she does this mess.... i wonder if she will go low contact once shes older(the daughter)
@@sirenthomas4595 She should of prepared her more? 😒 She left the damn party, that’s what she was suppose to do! What else is there to teach? She’s not upset at her for leaving, she’s upset Charlie’s phone died and she couldn’t get her child’s location right away.
@@Under-constructioncoat yes prepare her more such as get her a portable charger...this is also an example of why its important to always have your own means of transportation ....she was scared ok but shes projecting her fear on her kid...a shoot out can happen anywhere...ive seen shootouts at rodeos ...anywhere ...🤷🏿♀️
@@sirenthomas4595 okay sure, portable charger, I’ll give you that. Own means of transportation? She’s a child. She’s not projecting anything, she was worried about her child.
@@Under-constructioncoat shes old enough to drive and again it brings up the point TAMMY dropped her off at the party IN THE HOOD and now is all upset a shooting happened ....LIKE come on now
Three generations of pure beauty, wow
Charlie😆… that’s my girl! She is hilarious! Love them💖
"you raised me in the suburbs what did you expect" 🤣🤣 i cried
Leo moms is extra with everything even the small things 😂🔥
Yes we are!!! And people take our passion as aggression 😂😂❤
@@DeeJohnRa885definitely be aggression if it isn’t in y’all favor
@@tylexxxd.4634😂😂😂💯💯💯💯A lioness saying they’re not aggressive 😂😂😂
I don’t feel like Charlie meant harm when she said you raised me in the suburb she meant like my first thing is to run to safety but I get both sides
No I don’t think so! I say that to my parents and I mean it as a joke
@@UniqueDenice I agree she was joking when she said it
of course it wasnt her mom is supposed to teach her what to do what was she supposed to stand there and possibly get shot?! or something else
Yes she telling her right periodttt
I love Tammy!!! Our Baltimore accent come out when we get mad!
BMore stand up!!! 😂
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Omggggg she look soooo much like her mama ❤❤❤❤
Charlie kinda has a Smart mouth tho😩
That my mother would have put in check already
Yup.
Did she say anything wrong here tho? She wasn’t being disrespectful.
@@DJ-kt1ht EXACTLY, I’m so confused as to what was disrespectful
No because that “what did she expect” would’ve got her checked regardless of the conversation. My momma would’ve hit me with a quick “who is she” and it would’ve been OVER
I feel you girl. My husband that mediator when I feel the same way.. 🤨🤨. I feel you girl
She knows she looks just like her momma.. Too cute!
My eyebrows raised when charlie said u raised me in the suburbs… chile😮
This why my mama said no!!! I didn’t even bother asking. 😂😂😂😂😂
You raised me in the suburbs ,of course I ran🤣🤣 meanwhile people from the hood ,half running with you ,other half recording live 🤨😂
Right
Charlie is a effin cutie 👌🏽
😂😂😂Hunnie, Definitely need that for them girls; a mediator or bail money lol
Amen 💕 Whatever you're going through it's not over until God says its over.. You gotta Declare Everything attached to me wins.Don't give up on God , because He won't give up on you ..
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
the wealth of the wicked laid up for the justice amen amen hallelujah hallelujah amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah
Chile! I felt this on all levels! Let's your teen go to a party, then there's a shooting.. phone dead, no location.. that's why I get everyones number before she leaves.
Omg,,All three generations look alike just different skin tones,,Beautiful 🥰
I’m convinced y’all be having kids and listening comprehension skill go out THA DOOR all because you was made to feel like no one should listen to you as a kid/teenager. This little 25 clip had some many misunderstandings and yet here y’all are clapping and agreeing 😅 You’ll learn the hard way why yo kids don’t visit you once they move out
Listening and comprehension goes both ways! Times are different now. We just want our kids to be happy and safe! If they’re mature enough to understand and respect that, they will appreciate our method and maintain a healthy relationship with us. This situation is relatable and normal between mom and daughter. Especially a spoiled daughter.
I always say if it was mandatory for kids to actually grade their parents once they turned 21, a lot of these parents would be upset! Too many of them swear they did everything right, yet the whole time those kids were telling them listen to understand me and not just to respond. 🤷🏾♀️
@Sleepycreepy Ah, you know me so well! Yes, I am the adult and I was also a child! I understand and allow my kids to express themselves fully. But, like you said, I am the adult which means I am responsible for my kids well being. What ever actions they take will come with consequences and repercussions, good or bad. Until they are old enough to take care of themselves and handle their actions on their own, they will live by mom and dads rules!
By the way, my kids and their friends love me 😊
@@rellie_90 yup thinking "my child grew up to have this degree or make this amount" MAAM those are HIS/HER accomplishments not yours it says nothing of your parenting.
@@bougiequeen8261yeah whatever her daughter admitted her fone was dead and agreed her mom jumped to defense
Waka don't play with this girl. Now Tammy can shout in peace😂
I really understand how she feel because that happen to my daughter it was nobody but GOD keep my baby I was crying looking for my car keys 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Having a Leo mother is not for the weak.
Facts cause I’m a Leo mom. 😂
Nah fr 😭
Poor Charlie.
I really like Tammy but she is not loving enough to her Daughter. She is so stern it comes across as cold and uncaring.
I can tell that Tammy loves her child but she just doesn't know how to communicate or show that love correctly.
Tammy always sound angry and flustered.
Running is how you get HIT BULLETS FLY you get DOWN baby 😂❤
Depends on how far you are from the shooter.
They are all so beautiful
I think it’s great as a parent that Tammy don’t take no mess. However she comes off so hard towards her daughter & I can see how that doesn’t offer a safe space. I also know Tammy was a single parent at one point, so she gotta be the main disciplinarian but sympathy goes a long way & charli’s frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed give the girl some grace. She loves her we all know but the attitude & always seeming mad at her doesn’t make that come across so clear
This particular moment she had a reason to be. Don't get me wrong I was definitely somewhat Charlie lol I'm an adult now and my phone stay dead 🤣 but my husband and my mother will still be very upset if I call saying ppl are shooting where I am and they are unable to get to me quickly because my lack of precautions and then blame my mom for raising me in good conditions so I wasn't aware of how to properlyrespond. My mother would not appreciate hearing that at said time. And as a parent myself I wouldn't either. Don't blame me making sure you aren't exposed to this regularly to it being a disadvantage. I would have rather you say "well mama I feel like you didn't tell me what to do in case of an emergency like that happens. I didn't know because we never talked about it" not blaming our whole lifestyle on this lol
@HeeeyOhaji first of all I was NOT talking about this clip alone I’m talking about their relationship in general how Tammy comes off. Obviously she was scared for her daughter but she never expresses that concern by saying “I’m just concerned” she always comes across angry even if it’s coming from a place of love. I can’t gaslight someone I don’t know & never even spoke to dumbass relax 🙄 comin out ya mouth sideways & idek you
@@stephanieknight7593 so we expecting Charli to elaborate and thoroughly explain what she means nicely when her mother has never given her an example on how to do that? Tammy be coming off crazy sometimes even though it’s out of love charli comes off crazy even though she knows her mother worked hard for their lifestyle. They both come off differently than how they actually feel bc neither one was taught the correct way in how to communicate & express themselves in a healthy manner. All I’m sayin!
@@Prev8ster well you kinda coming off like Tammy now with how you're responding lol I explained nicely and you coming off a little spicy so it's kinda giving pot and kettle a little but I see what you saying to a certain extent. I personally feel like you negate Charlie actions because of Tammy's and that's not always ok either.
@@stephanieknight7593 how am I coming off like Tammy when u not my daughter? Y’all are differentttt. U got a disagreement with someone & now they “spicy” I wasn’t even being rude to you never said anything crazy. The other chick was. Idk what spice u getting, but feel how u feel & have a nice day.
Tammy holding a lot of anger inside . Charlie is a good kid she don’t gotta yell at her so much 😫 and what else was she supposed to do in a shoot out ?.. I’m confused too . just let some of that hurt go Tammy it’s hurtful .
Your not a mom…. She needs to be up her ass. The reason she’s good is because Tammy’s on her ass. Now if Charlie was a handful y’all would be ready to say Tammy needs to be a better parent. We need more parents like her with these bad ass kids in Atlanta!!!??
Yea tammy be throwing me off when it comes to how to she talk to her daughter
Wake not there to take it out on
@@soulsistah5738 lmaooo Waka be acting like he don't nothing and it makes Tammy look like she crying wolf for a reality show.
@HeeeyOhaji😏 I don't necessarily think she's disrespectful. I've seen some disrespectful children and Charli isn't one of them. She may say little slick things here and there but what teenager hasn't at one point in their lives? Overall she seems like she has her head on straight
Tammy so pretty n Charlie also!! Waka is Blessed to have 2 beautiful young ladies ❤
Never been so happy glad y’all working it out we love y’all the queen and the don ❤️
Yea wacka was a great mediator and the peace for them. That secure male safety net. The not so emotional responder. It feels so different when that’s gone.
This was funny😂😂😂😂😂😂
I just want to say that I love how Waka is Charlie’s dad, no matter what. It’s just so beautiful, no matter what happens between him and Tammy… I’m thankful that Charlie has a father who loves her❤
Charlie has grown to be so beautiful! She got it from her mama!
Wow ❤ same face three times
Waka dropped the ball not valuing Tammy!!!! Men... Some... Smh!
She's controlling too
It’s sad to see people give up but I get it.
This happened when I was like 16 (32 now) . When I tell u I called my sister to see where she was while I was running & got into some strangers car from the party all at one time. I wouldn’t dare hop in no strangers car today, but yea u do what u gotta do… survival mode. & then everybody met up at dennys 😂😂😂😂. Those were the days
🤣 Charlie said she was raised in the suburbs.
And this why she would have been in the house. I let you go out and have a good time and you blame me for not having your phone charged. This was cute, but I believe parents have to know their kid, you can go but charge ya phone, be where you say you gonna be, stuff happens I know but always take precautions.
Or take a portable charger incase there is no outlets where they going 💯
Where did she blame tammie for her phone being dead?
Facts
She literally never blamed her how tf do y’all be coming up with this
@@johnytawanamaker4169 stop trying to debate perspective and move on in life. Debate about God or something. Things of true importance that will elevate your spirit & mind. You care that much about this subject to go back n forth about it?!! 🥴🙄🤦🏽♀️😒
I love me some Tammy she so high stressed about everything, but I get it. It's a lot to be parents rather your a mother or a father
Young Lady jus sit bac and 👂it goes a long way cause your blessings goes so deep LISTEN please 🤔🤗
the suburbs remake is sooo true. Like the way I act is cause yall raised me there 😂
Tammy and Charli just show me what me and my Daughter gon be like because I am jusssssst like Tammy
I need to go find my Wocka bcs this lil girl already tryin it 🤣
I’ve been in this situation & used to say I’d run, but in that moment I dropped to the ground & started crawling to safety😅
Yep, that's what I was taught to do in my "hood training" from my uncles and cousins who were about that life lol.
@@Nille0212 maybe that's why I did it LOL. I'm from the hood too
When she snatched the wig i screamed
These teenagers is something different & raising them is not for the weak 😩🙏🏾
I swear this so me and my daughter
OMG Me too!!!!You are most definitely not alone 💯 it's gotta be SOMETHING in the water THESE DAYS. This generation stay ready to debate EVERYTHING! God bless 🙏 😂
Charlie is the best
I'm like Tammy. One child and done. Ya'll can keep having em. Whew!
Congratulations Atlas. Awesome job 👏 👍
Tammy comes off as annoying. She just seems like she's always upset over something and nagging about it. Is she bipolar and narcissistic? What's going on ?
Yelling at her child but tried to be the bigger person with Joseline...
Yes. I woulda ran away if I was Charlie
She's very protective
Charlie a cancer Tammie a Leo lord Leo's eat cancers alive now wonder Charlie is pry depressed, Leo's have the biggest hearts but we're assholes, fire sighn🔥
I’m a Leo and that is so true! We find it so hard not to give the truth with sugar on top!
Agreed. I have two Leo’s in my life and all ima say is boy oh boy 😂
@@prettypuffprincess I agree what's funny is cancers always block my ass after I hit them with the truth 🤣🤣pry why Charlie wants to move far away from her mom lmfao Leo's we just can't stand weak people it fuels the fire In us..
@@godmade4511 Nothing irks me more than stupidity! Leo's are very critical people! We see things differently!
(Leo’s) we mean we’ll, our delivery on the other hand 😩
They having fun.
They’re too cute 😂❤
SMH!!! Lord only knows where I would be if I ever came out my face to my mother. Period!!!
How about raising lillies above your tombstone
JESUS saves 🙌
JESUS heals
JESUS forgives
JESUS loves you
JESUS restores brokenness
JESUS is there for those who feel lonely or lost
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤This world is be coming scary hold on to Jesus. WE NEED JESUS back in our homes, school, work place on the street corner please hold on to Jesus and accept him in your life before it's to late❤❤❤❤
Charlie is her mom’s twin geesh!!
Mannnn my daughter didn't understand then but she does now....
Proud single mother of a high school/ college student!!!! Best thing I've ever done in life!
Laaawwwwd Charlie was NOT BEING UNGRATEFUL ABOUTBHER UPBRINGING. She was letting you know why she ran away from a party with active shooters 😅 Wow, Tammy be too ready to be on go with the ppl in her life. She’s done it with Waka. Cussed the man while he was only joking about something 🤦🏾♀️. Baby work thru thag hurt and anger cuz it’s coming off wrong to your audience and I’m pretty sure your child as well
The way she said it tho sounded ungrateful like she was using where she came from as an excuse for her behavior. That teenage stage is such a pain in the a** because that’s where they really start trying your nerves 🙄 plus she told Tammy she ran away from the shooting but she didn’t say where, that’s why she was worried, hell I would be to cause I still need to know where you are in case somebody does a drive by shooting or something.
@@renitabentick7869 she didn’t say it like she was ungrateful she was clearly joking y’all need to let that hurt that your parents brought onto u go
@@renitabentick7869
There is literally zero disrespect in that child's tone and words.
The way so many of y'all were brought up being yelled at and spoken to like you are a piece of garbage is why y'all think this is okay. Is it any wonder why they see nothing wrong with a man speaking to them like that??
The way Tammy talks to this child is problematic. It's so weird cos on social media its all love pouring for this child. But on they're show it's just toxic interactions. Why does Waka have to be the mediator when she isn't even biologically his? He has always had the compassionate approach to this child. Follow suit and Raise her and Love her it's your ONLY job now. Ain't no music career, u ain't the poor cheated on wife no more, raise your child.
EXACTLY 💯
Because she wasn’t raised to be soft
She wasn’t raised so it’s hard, parenting doesn’t come with a textbook and it’s much hard to learn with just one.
Exactly Tammy just be yelling just to tell so annoying. But Joseline knocked yo head off your shoulders. Just because you from BMore don't mean you hard. Tammy look like she had family to fight her battles.
@@babydd4 Joseline snuck Tammy full of that Toni Montana but your acting like she didn’t hop up soon as she seen her. One thing I’ve seen Tammy will swing
Yes she does talk to her child hard. But don’t discredit her like she ain’t about her business. I hate that for some of y’all
She like, look where you raised me😂😂
I miss Waka and Tammy together ❤️ she is really his soul mate love is funny times
Tammy needs to alter her parenting style. Charlie is a gentle natured child and she'd get further talking to her than screaming and berating her. Tammy is a street woman raising a sheltered child. She needs to chill.
And she is a reflection of her mother’s parenting… her mannerisms are understood by her daughter… and her daughter turn out fine this is just banter…
So wait Tammy and Waka aren’t together anymore?
Nope she left him
@@jesswhyuwannaknow930 good for her
NIIH; YOU. ACTNN" LIKE STACY DASH 🤔🙆🤫😁
Tammy is so cute. I love her 😂🤍
Omg Charlie came out..look so gorgeous such a beautiful young lady...keep up yur good parenting Tammy
I'm wondering if she's even interested to give her husband his first born child? It would nice to give him that
He can't have kids
@THE WEEKDAY damn 🥹
y’all be asking the most weirdest shit like what in the world . is that your business ?
@@christianbeckles8992 right!🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️
@@christianbeckles8992 make it make sense of course they had this convo idiots. Not you lol but the post creator!
I don’t like that the 16 year old daughter fingernails be longer than the momma and grandma and aunties fingernails and they wonder why grown men be trying to talk to her
Because she have longer finger nails growm men wanna talk to her come on be fr
@@adonisknite5346 right grown men shouldn’t be trying to talk to a child anyways
@@by4ku963 that part too what im saying is having long nails doesnt mean they are too grow and that’s the reason why grown men are pedos
@@adonisknite5346 no grown men be trying to talk to her because she be looking older than 16 whe a child should stay in a child's place and not be trying to look grown with long fingernails and long hair and all that extra stuff
@@DF3.2082 u act like many weird men dont do that period come on if she stay in a childs place sum weird dude will still do it she can wear her nail long
Charlie will ty for being a disciplinarian when she's old enough to understand. She'll love & respect Waka for who he is to her as well
Omg!! 🤭 Oh! YOU RAN FROM THE PARTY. U raised me in the suburbs. What did you expect? 😂 ....I moved out to the suburbs tryna give you a better life. With a straight face. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dang...Waka dropped that bag. Sucks for him😆
Charlie is growing up beautifully. Good job Mama!!!!
Her baby is glowing up so beautiful 😍
LEO MOM'S! We don't play at all😂