She can be emotionally vulnerable with Waka than her Mother. I see the difference!! Hes a good Father and girls need to be emotionally supported!! Its a need for young ladies and women.
Yea, because Tammy heart is cold lol...she downplays Charlie's feelings and gets upset with her when she gets emotional. I can't fault Tammy, she was raised to not show emotion and be hard, but that doesn't mean she has to raise her daughter the same way.
@@MultiSassy84 yea tammy is very emotionally disconnected & she like that wit everyone not just her daughter. that woman has been through a lot of bad.
As black people we have to get more comfortable expressing our feelings, it's OK to be vulnerable. I just feel like on a generational level we're use to holding everything in. I think it goes back to slavery, our voices was taken away from us. It's time to speak up and use our voices.
Beauty In J, that is soooooo true because I find myself holding in my Feelings especially when I'm vulnerable or hurting, thinking that I appear stronger..When I actually want to cry or be comforted. What a revelation, thank you for your comment God Bless you Sis keep telling the TRUTH..🙏❤🙏
Tammys response........ Can we see her go through therapy please 😂 it’s time to break down that rough facade so she can be emotionally supportive for Charlie!
@@janieshaboykin9525 But she's grown and has a daughter of her own now she should've been went to therapy for that can't blame your parents when your a grown ass adult
@@tiesharose8203 "Therapy" just became a Social Norm in the black community sis... Back in her time she couldn't "just go to therapy"... Plus alot of people don't have any knowledge of Therapy AT ALL or its benefits ... Alot of people believe "this just the way life goes 🤷🏾 only the strong survive" if the FAMILIES pathology is to "JUST DEAL WITH IT" then I'm not surprised at how emotionally stunted Tammy is... It's deeper than what you saying...
I really like them all. It's just Tammy seems 2 be so over Charlie's tears... But did we not forget when Tammy was in a corner on the floor of her closet on one of the old episodes balling her eyes out? Every body have to cry sometimes 🤷🏼
That’s rare for Tammy to break down like that though ... Charlie is very spoiled and bratty and has a smart mouth of the time and if she’s not acting like that then she’s crying about something and one of tammys issues w Charlie is that she doesn’t want her to be like that !!! Charlie hasn’t even hit the real world yet and acts like she’s gonna crumble to pieces over the smallest things Tammy wants her to be stronger than that and she says that all the time she even had said it in front of the therapist on the episode she knows her daughter has it in her to be stronger than the bullshit that she cry’s about and the things that shit she does that she knows isn’t right ... yea Tammy could be a little bit better emotionally but at the same time Tammy does need some tough love and someone to be more stern w her
@@validcollection3421 You know why Charlie is acting this way? Its called being a damn teen. Its called first experiences. Charlie still has a lot to experience in this world. She. Is. A. Teen. For crying out loud. This is a crucial time in a human beings life REGARDLESS of what you think, its fuckin science. Tammy wouldn't be having those emotional breakdowns if she just expressed herself and CRIED. One minute Charlie is "too grown" and the next she's "actin like a brat" like pick a fuckin side. When she grows up and experiences things, she will build that strength Tammy has. Holding in emotions can be detrimental to her mental health and that shit will follow her for a LONG long time. There's a reason why kids don't talk to their parents during college and I'm here to tell you, this is one of those reasons.
@@miichelle19 I agree with you both. I understand that Tammy doesn’t want her daughter to be weak and breaking down over every little thing. I also agree with you that she’s a teen and if this is how she need to express herself and get her frustration out then she should be allowed to do so. For me, when things have piled up and I feel really bad it’s nothing like a good cry to get all my frustration out. Once I’m done I’m ready to face the world and I feel stronger. We’re all wired differently and she shouldn’t be criticized so harshly for being who she is.
Charlie don't got to be adopted she already belong to him and can't nobody tell him nothing different and that is Deb's granddaughter and cant nobody tell her nothing different but this was beautiful it was a tearjerker but I'm here for it🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Quick reminder that God will never put weight on your shoulders that He knows you can’t handle. Whatever your going through just be patient and see why God made you wait. It may be hard but it’s all worth it 🤍
May God continually bless Waka. I'm in tears watching this. This is the best show ever. Remain Blessed Deb. This type of family love and understanding is rare
Charlie and Waka yall just melt my heart. Full of 😭😭❤ Am im the only one that watched this scene more than once and still couldn't control my emotions?
I tell u waka is the best dad she can ever imagine having he's been apart of her life all her life an im so happy for her to have him in her life God bless u Waka I hope u adopt her omg yall make me cry every time I see yall together.
Charlie have me crying over here y'all I don't think they doing this for TV views babygirl really look up to waka as a father figure I love the bond they have for one another❤❤
I feel like Tammy is jealous of waka and Charlie’s relationship sometimes the fact that Charlie can have the courage to be vulnerable openly and how waka embraces her because she doesn’t have the strength to be who she really is
I think she's moreso jealous of Charlie. Charlie has everything Tammy wanted when she was a kid, including a father/daughter relationship. That's why she stay throwing her childhood struggles in Charlie's face. As if its Charlie's fault that Tammy grew up poor. It's a sad dynamic.
Being her father is his spot...i hate that it was edited as if he hesitated to answer her...thats his daughter and a piece of paper is not going to change that
I really love Waka & Charlie relationship he truly loves her unconditionally and shows her how she should be treated. He has always put her 1st and been a phenomenal dad to her blood or not that’s his daughter and can’t no one tell him different‼️
I'm not entirely sure how Tammy's mom raised her, but it seems like either she was taught or past trauma made her to not be emotional and vulnerable. She doesn't show her feelings and feels like everyone else shouldn't either.
Tammy mom didnt raise her, she battled with addiction when Tammy and her siblings were younger so the tough exterior is something she has had to have and its not easy to shake trust me I know.. And yes we can forget to be gentle and empathetic to our children that we actually stick around to raise and guard them from pain and struggle that life surely was handed to us.. It's almost second nature of survival and then going into battle that we forget to remove the shields for our babies.. It's hard, I'm a mom of 5, four being girls and I've heard the same pleas that Charlie has with Tammy from my daughters.. I listened but it was difficult and I'm still learning although they are all grown now.
@@StayAlert_StayAlive you must be mad, because i wasn’t trying to bash men, I was simply stating why these fathers can’t be mature for their kids. I never BASHED men, you act like I said “men ain’t shit” or “men are useless” when that’s not what i said 💀
If I was able to be vulnerable and more open with my father we’d definitely be in a better space . It’s so important to have emotional support from our parents. This is beautiful 👏🏼💯
His such a great dsd to her especially not his biological daughter n u wouldn’t even know it if u didn’t know them and such a loyal husband it’s so rare to find this type of man
I felt that. Blessed that I have a husband that loves his Step Children like Waka. Father's matter so much! Everyone want a good father in their life. I'm happy to see that moment for them. Absolutely beautiful ❤️
I love Charlie❤️❤️❤️😩 She brings out the best of the emotional moments in the show and literally brings everyone to tears🤦🏾♀️ Charlie, is someone special frfr😇😇
Let me add insight to Tammy, when you grow up in Baltimore City, there is nothing else to do but to be tough. That city is not for the weak.... as parents we do the best that we know how with what we have been giving. There are no rules to parenting. Their parenting skills are like ying and yang which provides a blend, which is actually needed. Father's are generally more emotionally vulnerable with their female kids. Would tammy benefit from therapy absolutely, a lot of us would, on the flip side coming from where we come from, you have no choice but to be built ford tough which is why i get Tammy with certain things. She doesn't want her daughter to have that snobbish im rich bish attitude, she wants to prepare her for the actual real world because people can be vultures. She is a wonderful parent through it all either way, so stop it!
That’s just a her thing. I’m from Baltimore as well and that’s not a Baltimore thing. I get that she wants to parent her child a certain way but you can do that while still showing some compassion.
Girl. IM FROM DETROIT. That’s somewhere tough frfr! N it’s most definitely different ways for her to teach her the “real world”. I would never make my child feel like they can’t come to me because 9times outta 10 idgaf.
People that just responded to your comment gave you a prime example. It’s not where tf you come from, that’s just what type of person she is what I’ll never get is she cries over waka. An get pissed when Charlie is vulnerable. An can’t drop one damn tear smdh🤦🏾♀️ Charlie a damn child. I could never to that my daughter. I love her to much. Stop giving people excuses @1Crystyles1
I wish she gets help because it’s a struggle to see her do this baby like this. She has a wall up and I’m sure it’s connected to Charlie’s father. She acts like she can’t separate the two and needs help. She seems to be happiest when the focus is on her only. Charlie is a sweet child and her mom seems to hate it
how do you know she’s not supportive just because she’s more emotional with wake? do you live with them or do you just see a clip from a show child, y’all kill me thinking y’all know these people.
@@muhall8135 There’s countless videos of her doing this though 🤷🏽♀️ So it makes more sense to you to think on TELEVISION she’s cold towards her daughter but off air she’s not? So, she treats her daughter funny style for ratings? 🤷🏽♀️ Guess you also missed the countless videos of her friends and family telling her to stop doing Charlie like that or telling her to listen more and be nicer to her child. Guess you also can’t read faces either because Waka makes a face EVERY TIME she does something to Charlie. Deb does too. Guess what she does when her folks tell her? She waves it off and says “I don’t care about all that” Sometimes it’s really a duck especially if you heard and saw it quacking 😂 While you’re capping for an ADULT; Charlie is a CHILD
actually.. very much closer with my mother cause she been the only woman in my life that i can depend on ... NO she does not need help !! so stop saying that my mother has been through a lot .. SHE FINE THE WAY SHE IS !! stop disrespecting my mother pretending.. ugh think y’all know everything
Personally jealous that’s silly I know Tammy is happy to have someone like Waka to help her raise such a beautiful daughter inside and out. Tammy was in shock that’s all. Charlie is a daddy’s girl and she wants Waka to be legally her dad. 😍
@@rsmith6903 that’s a lie. Over the years as Charlie and Waka gotten close you seen Tammy shut Charlie down multiple times. It wasn’t just this occasion. Charlie has always been comfortable going to Waka to talk about how she feels or even his mom. He listens to her and doesn’t judge her . Tammy just brushes it under the rug and tells her to man up . You can’t do that with every situation that little girl is feeling. That’s why Charlie went to therapy with Tammy because she knows she can’t be emotionally connected to her . It’s always been like that. Tammy has gotten jealous by how close Charlie and Waka are now but she should’ve seen it coming through those years when all she did was push her daughter away. Waka even called Tammy out on that a few times. Charlie’s dad abandoned her . What she supposed to do? Thank God for Waka because if he wasn’t in her life Charlie would’ve drove herself mad at such a young age.
Thank u she was jus confused on what was happening bcus charlie didn't tell any1 her plan until she gave waka the cake. Tammy was clearly teary eyed but i notice with tammy when she sees charlie cry she gets super protective bcus she herself has cried a lot. Some1 mentioned earlier that charlie is a cancer so shes gonna b very emotional throughout her life which will b a challenge for Tammy but if they get some therapy then maybe she can find a way to let charlie express her feelings without holding her back
@@cambridgeconcierge662 I guess that’s the way you took it. I agree she’s a daddy girl and yes Tammy is hard on Charlie. I don’t agree with some of her approaches. However Tammy is trying to prepare Charlie for the real world. No one is going to pat you on the back for nothing. We live in a cold hearted world. Any who much ❤️
Everytime I see them together it just melts my heart. I love the relationship that Waka and Charlie have and nobody could ever say that he don't love that girl. Love the genuine love
Waka you are a real man Charlie is so blessed to have you in her life.That truly is your God given child.I love to see you and Tammie together and taken your marriage to another level God bless y’all 🙏🏾 I appreciate and love looking at your show hate to see it go off so soon.More,More please thank you 🙏🏾
The only thing I can’t stand about Tammy is that she doesn’t really let Charlie cries it out, like it’s okay to let it out at times. That’s why she’s always talk to wake about everything.
Awwe, this is the ultimate best total father daughter relationship. This is how much I love my dad. 💛❤💙💜💚 Charlie will end up taking care of her parents when she gets older out of pure love from the heart👍🤗
That's sweet. I dont think Tammie is jealous of their relationship. I think her feelings was a little hurt because Charlie said he was the best person, taught her confidence . I sure Tammy knows the reason he loves Charlie is because he loves Tammy. Also Tammi my not have had a relationship with her father. From personal experience when you see a loving father daughter relationship, you become aware the of void in your heart. It brings up that emptiness.🥺🥺🥺
Idky but I thought he'd already adopted her a few years ago. Regardless, I love the bond that Charlie and Waka have. She seems so at easy around him and able to express herself freely. You can tell their love for one another is genuine.
Got tears in my eyes she and him is perfect she need him as her dad since her dad and mom is toxic together and never will see each other again wake is a good man a perfect father who give Charlie all the goodness she need bless this family
@@LoveCorielle She's really not being negative, she's being factual. I feel like Waka would've adopted her as when he married Tammy but thats not something that can easily be done without BOTH parents consent, even if one is a deadbeat. And as a man, Waka probably wants to give that man every opportunity to be a father because he knows how important that is. The bio dad has to be willing and as petty as he seems to be (King Petty for missing his daughters quince), his pride may not allow him to sign off. Whatever the case, Charlie is sooo blessed and I hope they can find some way for him to adopt her...
I absolutely love Waka! He's so amazing to his family & to see him with his daughter is beautiful. She may not be his biologically but she's his, period. It's so great to see how much they love each other! Why can't more men be like Waka?!🥰
Charlie and Waka literally melt my heart, like you can't tell him that's not his daughter 😩🥲🥰!
Fr I just found out that wasn’t his daughter ❤️
YES......INDEED......❤❤❤❤
No matter his flaws as a husband.....him as a farther melts my heart
I hope she gives him his own with her though.
@@TheKrystolMethod yes! Me too
When he said, "You're my breath" 😭😭😭❤
That was beautiful ❤️
#满意tears
I thought he said you're my little brat loop
I melted when he said that 😩🥺😭
@@IAmJe no he said you are my breath
She can be emotionally vulnerable with Waka than her Mother. I see the difference!! Hes a good Father and girls need to be emotionally supported!! Its a need for young ladies and women.
Absolutely!!!
@J bless I totally agree with you 💯 I was watching it on TV 📺and crying 😢right along with them when I see people cry it makes me cry 😢to
Yesssss Charlie is cancer we are very emotional
Yes 👍
So much!!!!
Every girl deserves a father like her.
Him*
Him
She said what she said . “Every girl deserves a father like her (charlie) !
I wanna be a father like her too lmao
Ya mean like Him 🤣
I definitely started crying as SOON as her voice cracked 🥲. I love their bond.
Me too
Me too
Yes 👍🏽
Omg same! I just melt inside
Me too
LOL I love Deb, she hates to cry but is ALWAYS the first to cry with Charlie lol. Too cute.
yes
Lol so true
She is very very emotional
😢blood ain't always everything & I mean that in a good way.That man is her father.
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Yes he is!
@@normam264 prima💞
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Facts!!
... She is more open and vulnerable with Waka
Yea, because Tammy heart is cold lol...she downplays Charlie's feelings and gets upset with her when she gets emotional. I can't fault Tammy, she was raised to not show emotion and be hard, but that doesn't mean she has to raise her daughter the same way.
they have a great connection
@@MultiSassy84 yea tammy is very emotionally disconnected & she like that wit everyone not just her daughter. that woman has been through a lot of bad.
@@MultiSassy84 I totally agree with you 💯 but Charlie and Walker
@@MultiSassy84 Na cold is not the answer they just grew up differently
As black people we have to get more comfortable expressing our feelings, it's OK to be vulnerable. I just feel like on a generational level we're use to holding everything in. I think it goes back to slavery, our voices was taken away from us. It's time to speak up and use our voices.
Beauty In J, that is soooooo true because I find myself holding in my Feelings especially when I'm vulnerable or hurting, thinking that I appear stronger..When I actually want to cry or be comforted. What a revelation, thank you for your comment God Bless you Sis keep telling the TRUTH..🙏❤🙏
@@tracyjoyce7363
Your welcome and you be blessed as well. 🙂
Your absolutely right
@Open Minded only 10% black people express their emotions were told “ stop that crying” or “ don’t you start crying “ etc etc
The boys are babied until 100 years old
Its really a blessing when you have a husband who loves your child like his own BIG UPS TO WAKA
They are what a father daughter relationship should look like
Tammys response........ Can we see her go through therapy please 😂 it’s time to break down that rough facade so she can be emotionally supportive for Charlie!
No fr like cry! 😂
Yeah but i blame her mom for that
@@janieshaboykin9525 But she's grown and has a daughter of her own now she should've been went to therapy for that can't blame your parents when your a grown ass adult
Perfect comment
@@tiesharose8203 "Therapy" just became a Social Norm in the black community sis... Back in her time she couldn't "just go to therapy"... Plus alot of people don't have any knowledge of Therapy AT ALL or its benefits ... Alot of people believe "this just the way life goes 🤷🏾 only the strong survive" if the FAMILIES pathology is to "JUST DEAL WITH IT" then I'm not surprised at how emotionally stunted Tammy is... It's deeper than what you saying...
What a beautiful blessing . Charlie was very brave to ask him to ADOPT her❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Someone said “ im tired of this sh!t. I cried enough at the birthday party”😳😳😩😂
🤣🤣 i looked thru the comments to see if anyone caught that, a kid too smh
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😭 it was a kid too
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol 😂
Charlie is just an emotional person! I’m 26 & still the same way! It’s not our fault we be caring😭😭
Awwww so freaking sweet. We already know he’s going to say yes. That’s beautiful
Waka is a beautiful being
Yes he is
Even though waka has his flaws we have to give it up for his mom Deb, for instilling great values in Waka.
He is her ROCK! That baby knows if NO ONE has her HE(Her DADDY) DOES!! AND THAT MEANS EVERYTHING to a young girl 🥰
I really like them all. It's just Tammy seems 2 be so over Charlie's tears... But did we not forget when Tammy was in a corner on the floor of her closet on one of the old episodes balling her eyes out? Every body have to cry sometimes 🤷🏼
Exactly
That’s rare for Tammy to break down like that though ... Charlie is very spoiled and bratty and has a smart mouth of the time and if she’s not acting like that then she’s crying about something and one of tammys issues w Charlie is that she doesn’t want her to be like that !!! Charlie hasn’t even hit the real world yet and acts like she’s gonna crumble to pieces over the smallest things Tammy wants her to be stronger than that and she says that all the time she even had said it in front of the therapist on the episode she knows her daughter has it in her to be stronger than the bullshit that she cry’s about and the things that shit she does that she knows isn’t right ... yea Tammy could be a little bit better emotionally but at the same time Tammy does need some tough love and someone to be more stern w her
@@validcollection3421 You know why Charlie is acting this way? Its called being a damn teen. Its called first experiences. Charlie still has a lot to experience in this world. She. Is. A. Teen. For crying out loud. This is a crucial time in a human beings life REGARDLESS of what you think, its fuckin science. Tammy wouldn't be having those emotional breakdowns if she just expressed herself and CRIED. One minute Charlie is "too grown" and the next she's "actin like a brat" like pick a fuckin side. When she grows up and experiences things, she will build that strength Tammy has. Holding in emotions can be detrimental to her mental health and that shit will follow her for a LONG long time. There's a reason why kids don't talk to their parents during college and I'm here to tell you, this is one of those reasons.
@@validcollection3421 u mean charlie.... last sentence u said tammy
@@miichelle19 I agree with you both. I understand that Tammy doesn’t want her daughter to be weak and breaking down over every little thing. I also agree with you that she’s a teen and if this is how she need to express herself and get her frustration out then she should be allowed to do so. For me, when things have piled up and I feel really bad it’s nothing like a good cry to get all my frustration out. Once I’m done I’m ready to face the world and I feel stronger. We’re all wired differently and she shouldn’t be criticized so harshly for being who she is.
boys and girls need fathers like this, fr.
Charlie is his baby!!!! That man loves her more than life.
Charlie don't got to be adopted she already belong to him and can't nobody tell him nothing different and that is Deb's granddaughter and cant nobody tell her nothing different but this was beautiful it was a tearjerker but I'm here for it🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Quick reminder that God will never put weight on your shoulders that He knows you can’t handle. Whatever your going through just be patient and see why God made you wait. It may be hard but it’s all worth it 🤍
Amen
Amen!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Needed this 🙏🏾💕
Amen God bless you I needed this ....
Amen ❤️
May God continually bless Waka. I'm in tears watching this. This is the best show ever. Remain Blessed Deb. This type of family love and understanding is rare
Charlie and Waka yall just melt my heart. Full of 😭😭❤ Am im the only one that watched this scene more than once and still couldn't control my emotions?
You and me both!
I tell u waka is the best dad she can ever imagine having he's been apart of her life all her life an im so happy for her to have him in her life God bless u Waka I hope u adopt her omg yall make me cry every time I see yall together.
Charlie have me crying over here y'all I don't think they doing this for TV views babygirl really look up to waka as a father figure I love the bond they have for one another❤❤
Me too so sweer
I am balling my eyeballs out right now!!! 😭 this was super sweet ♥️♥️
@@IfoundGOD1 i really was i felt it ❤
Yes but he was like you already mine!
Me to..
Am I the only one that teared up ..... I love their family Dynamic
No it brought tears in my eyes
Y’all got me crying,god bless you Waka for being an amazing father,need more like you...
Yes,yes,yes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That is Soooo Sweet ... She Really Look At Him as Her FATHER , SUCH A BLESSING❤️🙌🏽❤️
I feel like Tammy is jealous of waka and Charlie’s relationship sometimes the fact that Charlie can have the courage to be vulnerable openly and how waka embraces her because she doesn’t have the strength to be who she really is
I was thinking the same thing as I watched it. Low key seemed jealous
You right ✅
it came off like Tammy was confused as to where she was going with everything she was saying....
I think she's moreso jealous of Charlie. Charlie has everything Tammy wanted when she was a kid, including a father/daughter relationship. That's why she stay throwing her childhood struggles in Charlie's face. As if its Charlie's fault that Tammy grew up poor. It's a sad dynamic.
@@KayDivine even after she did it Tammy still looked like wtf
She should have asked in private instead of putting him on the spot. Anyways she’s lucky to have him, I’m glad he was on the same page.
Agree
Being her father is his spot...i hate that it was edited as if he hesitated to answer her...thats his daughter and a piece of paper is not going to change that
@@duecekl this!!!! Like Chile please he her daddy in public but asking him that in private. The irony
I really love Waka & Charlie relationship he truly loves her unconditionally and shows her how she should be treated. He has always put her 1st and been a phenomenal dad to her blood or not that’s his daughter and can’t no one tell him different‼️
That's Heavy!!! CHARLIE!!! "HEAVY HEAVYYYY YOU GOT SO HEAVY FO MEEEE!!!" IN MY DREAMGIRL VOICE!!
I'm not entirely sure how Tammy's mom raised her, but it seems like either she was taught or past trauma made her to not be emotional and vulnerable. She doesn't show her feelings and feels like everyone else shouldn't either.
Tammy mom didnt raise her, she battled with addiction when Tammy and her siblings were younger so the tough exterior is something she has had to have and its not easy to shake trust me I know.. And yes we can forget to be gentle and empathetic to our children that we actually stick around to raise and guard them from pain and struggle that life surely was handed to us.. It's almost second nature of survival and then going into battle that we forget to remove the shields for our babies.. It's hard, I'm a mom of 5, four being girls and I've heard the same pleas that Charlie has with Tammy from my daughters.. I listened but it was difficult and I'm still learning although they are all grown now.
He has been her father from day one, he raised her n taken care of her. Gb u n their family
aweeee omg This was so beautiful I knew it was coming 🥺🥺🥺♥️
Growing out without parents this video was very touchy. I felt her pain. Super sweet.
her cryin made me cry & istg🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I can't stop crying
His wide eyes cracked me up lol We love him for his growth, direction & loyalty to Ms Charlie!!!
Blessings and light on your journey 🤎🤲🏾✊🏾🙏🏾
notice how half of these fathers are never mature and emotionally supportive like Waka 💀✋🏽
And he just don’t know he’s teaching them.
U took this opportunity to bash men smh. Did u also notice that TAMMY, her MOTHER isn't mature and emotionally supportive?
@@StayAlert_StayAlive That 50yo woman is still living out her youth.🤷🏽♀️🙄
@@StayAlert_StayAlive you must be mad, because i wasn’t trying to bash men, I was simply stating why these fathers can’t be mature for their kids. I never BASHED men, you act like I said “men ain’t shit” or “men are useless” when that’s not what i said 💀
Tammy always make it seem like Charlie cry too much but she stayed crying over waka 🙄
😂😂
Out of words rn.This comment deep
Lmaooooo I’m weak
Ouuuuu🤷🏽♀️😎😂😂😂🔥🔥
She wants Charlie to be more guarded because she doesn’t want her to feel the type of emotional pain that she has gone through with Waka.
Now Charlie got me crying watching this.
If I was able to be vulnerable and more open with my father we’d definitely be in a better space . It’s so important to have emotional support from our parents. This is beautiful 👏🏼💯
His such a great dsd to her especially not his biological daughter n u wouldn’t even know it if u didn’t know them and such a loyal husband it’s so rare to find this type of man
I felt that. Blessed that I have a husband that loves his Step Children like Waka. Father's matter so much! Everyone want a good father in their life. I'm happy to see that moment for them. Absolutely beautiful ❤️
I love Charlie❤️❤️❤️😩 She brings out the best of the emotional moments in the show and literally brings everyone to tears🤦🏾♀️ Charlie, is someone special frfr😇😇
She making me cry, because they have such a beautiful relationship. Every time she cries he’s right there
Let me add insight to Tammy, when you grow up in Baltimore City, there is nothing else to do but to be tough. That city is not for the weak.... as parents we do the best that we know how with what we have been giving. There are no rules to parenting. Their parenting skills are like ying and yang which provides a blend, which is actually needed. Father's are generally more emotionally vulnerable with their female kids. Would tammy benefit from therapy absolutely, a lot of us would, on the flip side coming from where we come from, you have no choice but to be built ford tough which is why i get Tammy with certain things. She doesn't want her daughter to have that snobbish im rich bish attitude, she wants to prepare her for the actual real world because people can be vultures. She is a wonderful parent through it all either way, so stop it!
That’s just a her thing. I’m from Baltimore as well and that’s not a Baltimore thing. I get that she wants to parent her child a certain way but you can do that while still showing some compassion.
Girl. IM FROM DETROIT. That’s somewhere tough frfr! N it’s most definitely different ways for her to teach her the “real world”. I would never make my child feel like they can’t come to me because 9times outta 10 idgaf.
People that just responded to your comment gave you a prime example. It’s not where tf you come from, that’s just what type of person she is what I’ll never get is she cries over waka. An get pissed when Charlie is vulnerable. An can’t drop one damn tear smdh🤦🏾♀️ Charlie a damn child. I could never to that my daughter. I love her to much. Stop giving people excuses @1Crystyles1
Wonderfully said 💕
I love how emotional she is with him. She deserves that🧡
Awww Charlie 😢 This Was Beautiful 🤗
Awkward moment felt like an hour pause. Wishing Charlie the best. God bless.
Once again, Tammy is not supportive to Charlie... you can tell Charlie is more comfortable around waka... do better Tammy
Exactly
I wish she gets help because it’s a struggle to see her do this baby like this. She has a wall up and I’m sure it’s connected to Charlie’s father. She acts like she can’t separate the two and needs help. She seems to be happiest when the focus is on her only. Charlie is a sweet child and her mom seems to hate it
how do you know she’s not supportive just because she’s more emotional with wake? do you live with them or do you just see a clip from a show child, y’all kill me thinking y’all know these people.
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There’s countless videos of her doing this though 🤷🏽♀️ So it makes more sense to you to think on TELEVISION she’s cold towards her daughter but off air she’s not? So, she treats her daughter funny style for ratings? 🤷🏽♀️ Guess you also missed the countless videos of her friends and family telling her to stop doing Charlie like that or telling her to listen more and be nicer to her child. Guess you also can’t read faces either because Waka makes a face EVERY TIME she does something to Charlie. Deb does too. Guess what she does when her folks tell her? She waves it off and says “I don’t care about all that” Sometimes it’s really a duck especially if you heard and saw it quacking 😂 While you’re capping for an ADULT; Charlie is a CHILD
actually.. very much closer with my mother cause she been the only woman in my life that i can depend on ... NO she does not need help !! so stop saying that my mother has been through a lot .. SHE FINE THE WAY SHE IS !! stop disrespecting my mother pretending.. ugh think y’all know everything
Why they made me cry the ego damn season. 🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣. The way this man stepped up for his baby girl is so beautiful. 🥺🥺🥲
Personally jealous that’s silly I know Tammy is happy to have someone like Waka to help her raise such a beautiful daughter inside and out. Tammy was in shock that’s all. Charlie is a daddy’s girl and she wants Waka to be legally her dad. 😍
Jealous she is because one he treats her better than he treats his own wife and my step mom the same way
Wow Waka was surprised just like Tammy was...Both of them didn’t know she felt the way she’s feeling
@@rsmith6903 that’s a lie. Over the years as Charlie and Waka gotten close you seen Tammy shut Charlie down multiple times. It wasn’t just this occasion. Charlie has always been comfortable going to Waka to talk about how she feels or even his mom. He listens to her and doesn’t judge her . Tammy just brushes it under the rug and tells her to man up . You can’t do that with every situation that little girl is feeling. That’s why Charlie went to therapy with Tammy because she knows she can’t be emotionally connected to her . It’s always been like that. Tammy has gotten jealous by how close Charlie and Waka are now but she should’ve seen it coming through those years when all she did was push her daughter away. Waka even called Tammy out on that a few times. Charlie’s dad abandoned her . What she supposed to do? Thank God for Waka because if he wasn’t in her life Charlie would’ve drove herself mad at such a young age.
Thank u she was jus confused on what was happening bcus charlie didn't tell any1 her plan until she gave waka the cake. Tammy was clearly teary eyed but i notice with tammy when she sees charlie cry she gets super protective bcus she herself has cried a lot. Some1 mentioned earlier that charlie is a cancer so shes gonna b very emotional throughout her life which will b a challenge for Tammy but if they get some therapy then maybe she can find a way to let charlie express her feelings without holding her back
@@cambridgeconcierge662 I guess that’s the way you took it. I agree she’s a daddy girl and yes Tammy is hard on Charlie. I don’t agree with some of her approaches. However Tammy is trying to prepare Charlie for the real world. No one is going to pat you on the back for nothing. We live in a cold hearted world. Any who much ❤️
Man. Waka and Charlies relationship is so special
Awww! I love Charlie and Waka father/daughter relationship! Now that's what you call a dad ladies and gentlemen!
Our Father is very similar to Waka 🙏…. We would not change him for the world… Love you Dad 💯💯
That touched my soul
Everytime I see them together it just melts my heart. I love the relationship that Waka and Charlie have and nobody could ever say that he don't love that girl. Love the genuine love
Bought tears to my eyes. That is his daughter. Blood sometimes don't mean nothing.
He might as well he’s been there watching her grow taking care of her and her mother I love they bond
Waka you are a real man Charlie is so blessed to have you in her life.That truly is your God given child.I love to see you and Tammie together and taken your marriage to another level God bless y’all 🙏🏾 I appreciate and love looking at your show hate to see it go off so soon.More,More please thank you 🙏🏾
The only thing I can’t stand about Tammy is that she doesn’t really let Charlie cries it out, like it’s okay to let it out at times. That’s why she’s always talk to wake about everything.
Dang! Didnt expect to be crying like this😭😭 Love their bond💜
Dam I didn't see that coming but waka is a good man and father to her. As a man he made mistakes but he love his family.
Everytime I see this I cry like a baby!
💗💗💗💗💗💗Waka is a good man for his wife & daughter.
Omg I'm sure a cry baby 😣😣. I just love they relationship 😍
Wake coming in to Charlie's life is the best thing ever for her and Tammy Wake is the best for them both, he's so special,love ya'll as a family. ❤
Aweeeee ❤️ I am totally crying happy tears😊
I love how she’s expressing herself, it’s so beautiful to see
This is what life is about .. love ❤️
Awwe, this is the ultimate best total father daughter relationship. This is how much I love my dad. 💛❤💙💜💚 Charlie will end up taking care of her parents when she gets older out of pure love from the heart👍🤗
That's sweet. I dont think Tammie is jealous of their relationship. I think her feelings was a little hurt because Charlie said he was the best person, taught her confidence . I sure Tammy knows the reason he loves Charlie is because he loves Tammy. Also Tammi my not have had a relationship with her father. From personal experience when you see a loving father daughter relationship, you become aware the of void in your heart. It brings up that emptiness.🥺🥺🥺
Very well said
Wow she asked him can he adopt her oh 👍🏽😢❤️💯✅
Idky but I thought he'd already adopted her a few years ago. Regardless, I love the bond that Charlie and Waka have. She seems so at easy around him and able to express herself freely. You can tell their love for one another is genuine.
Beautiful 😇💙💙💙🙏, I Love Charlie, Tammy and Waka and their parents. Love Ms. Deb💯✔🥰❤ Peace and Blessing to all of them.
I knew that's what she was going to ask Waka
Peeped it from far ❤️❤️
It brought happy tears to my eyes. I'm crying now. He always been there for her. They both deserve this moment. I AM SO HAPPY 😊🥰
Waka and Charlie’s bond is ✨superior✨
Who gone tell him that’s not his daughter ? Do you see Ms. Deb ?! Those are GRANDMOTHER tears , so beautiful ❤️
Hell ya'll got me crying 😭
Got tears in my eyes she and him is perfect she need him as her dad since her dad and mom is toxic together and never will see each other again wake is a good man a perfect father who give Charlie all the goodness she need bless this family
Waka is a great man
I love their relationship. He loves her to the moon and back.GOD truly blessed the two them with each other.
Ummm I’m sure he wants to but unfortunately that’s only if Charlie biological dad gives up his rights.
Or waits til she’s 18
@@LoveCorielle She's really not being negative, she's being factual. I feel like Waka would've adopted her as when he married Tammy but thats not something that can easily be done without BOTH parents consent, even if one is a deadbeat. And as a man, Waka probably wants to give that man every opportunity to be a father because he knows how important that is. The bio dad has to be willing and as petty as he seems to be (King Petty for missing his daughters quince), his pride may not allow him to sign off. Whatever the case, Charlie is sooo blessed and I hope they can find some way for him to adopt her...
So, sis just gon' go and delete her comment after I wrote that whole dissertation?! 😅🤷🏾♀️
@@jojosmom8819 🤣😂
@@jojosmom8819 🤣🤣🤣 Your breakdown was good tho I guess she couldn't handle the comeback love
Waka loves his babygirl 💕 the facts she got emotional just shows how great he is to her its great to see fr
I absolutely love Waka! He's so amazing to his family & to see him with his daughter is beautiful. She may not be his biologically but she's his, period. It's so great to see how much they love each other! Why can't more men be like Waka?!🥰
I love how Charlie loves him as a dad ❤️
Tammy and those forced tears she tried too make ,,.. but Tammy soo negative she probably thinking where da hell she get adoption papers from Lool
So beautiful! These folks all love each other and it’s beautiful!
That's what real and grown men do
*This literally melted my heart!*
Awwww that was sooo sweet 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Much RESPECT to Waka Flava he is a real father and Man. I put him in the same class as papoose now. Straight many Blessings Waka, Tammy and Charlie
But did waka say yessss🥺😭
I cried it was so touching many blessings to this family Walka you are the man 🙏🙏
Why hasn’t he adopted her already she’s been with him forever?
Legally I believe her biological father has to have given up/signed over his rights.