One of my favorite dudes who is relatable by being down to earth. After a few rough starts, he finished the video very strong. I like when he talk to the cute big eye girl at the bench who was testing him, but he handle himself quite well around her. My favorite interaction is him being the life of the party by talking to the dude with the ladies. If he didn't get in good with the dude, it could have went left where the dude might have said what you are doing talking to my girls. I like how he showed respect to the big group by making everyone feel included. I hope he comes back because he was one of your best students by being receptive to your feedback. God Bless.
The one girl is hilarious giving him a whole interview she was really interested trying to make sure he’s a good do giving him all these FBI questions😭😭😭😂😂😂💀
As someone who has high levels of social anxiety(disorder), I would really like to participate in this. This channel really motivates me to face my fears of approaching beautiful women
it's intimidating for everyone. I'd say go for it. I've seen many other videos on this channel. Some people have stutters and they don't let that stop them from trying.
Can totally relate! I've always been an introvert. I don't go out much, except when it's necessary. I've been working my confidence up the past few weeks though. I asked a girl out at my workplace and she ended up reporting me for it. I didn't want that to deflate me, so I asked for another lady's Ig, and she gave me. I've been sent off for the first incident though, and I kinda feel like a badass. I am only waiting to get back to school to get girls digits. I already understand that being rejected doesn't mean you are a loser. You just gotta keep going till you get your first Yes.
Bro you don't shit where you eat. Getting girls at your workplace is never a good idea because that puts you in a vulnerable position. You should learn from that since you got fired. I suggest you subscribe to the channel "THE MAN MINDSET" He helps so much with game
When she was asking him all those questions whether he’s a creep, does human trafficking ,has kids , married etc. i personally would’ve said “All the above” lmaoooo
I think this is a good platform to encourage more social interaction in person. There is a few things this shows about woman, 1. They are dying to be approached 2. The internet has made humans socially awkward and 3. Although I grew up in the era when we had to cold approach it has its pros and cons. The cons being when you ask a girl for her number your basically asking to be put on her roster. I like the suggestion of asking her to hang out
Rubens jokea always crack me up 'you can be dressed sharp looking cool.. or you can be wearing a crappy outfit' I feel this comes back to his theme of treating someone like a friend, you would only make this kind of comment if you knew someone well and felt very comfortable around them
🤔🤨check out 21:29 . Who else did notice the magical connection of these two girls? They communicated wordless about the camera filming them!! Everytime so magical what women are capable of. Crazyy. Cool video by the way. I love this channel. I think it's helping me. Lots of greetings from germany!! 🥰😃
Ooooh what he said at the beginning is so relatable, the impulse of "don't be like other guys" or "don't be a typical guy." That's a big deal for me, always needing to be the polite gentleman who doesn't go for it. Makes me sick lately. And ladies, you ain't gotta be like that. If there's no threat, do society a favor and take the compliments. ❤️❤️
Great video man.. Over of my favourites.. this guy after the first intersection was flying.. he was very calm, natural, listened to what you said.. there was a lot of great advice and wise words from him at the end.. I think he said think after and be present now.. Powerful stuff man. I like how her noticed something genuine about them, gave a compliment, nice blouse, pink clothes, that girl was hot, just my type but too young really for my age.. The interaction with the group order people was actually quite touching tbh, how you all connected and you got an invite to the music, plus all there contact info and the guy giving you respect.. I did think the girl was his gf and I was thinking, Woh, how's this going to go.. But it all worked out well. I feel like me watching these videos is like its seeping into my brain that it's ok and do it.. like osmosis or being Mr meeyageed (from karate kid, wax on wax off)..ie it got into your brain without you realising it trying to. Nice one guys
damn this is like the perfect cold approach vid pretty attractive guy goes and approaches women getting better each time getting successful accurate description of cold approaching
Hey Ruben, how is it going man.. I am from India. I have recently started watching your videos. I'll have to say, this one is one of the best. The pieces of advices that you gave after each interaction were like gold-dust. It has completely changed my perspective of looking at a conversation, specially the one that you gave at around 6:40 minutes in the video. I am going to apply that going forward and I am sure its going to yield good results. I'll keep you posted.
@@socialanimal I live in the city of Bhopal, the capital of the state of Madhya Pradesh, right in the central part of the country. Yes ofcourse bro, I am all prepared to take up the challenge, your physical presence is going to take my confidence level sky-high. Its a matter of great honour for me that you have responded to my post and I am really excited to learn that you have put forward this proposition of coming to India. I heartily welcome you brother 😊
@@abhimendhe6785 I would love to come :) shoot me an email at ruben@socialaninal.us and we'll make it happen. Might take a few months but lets do it :)
I would love to do a coaching session with you. Shame i’m in London. For now I shall just enjoy all these videos that you’re putting out. I appreciate you, thank you for these great educational videos.
Big ups man to what u are doing for guys. I myself have real anxiety talking to strangers especially pretty girls but watching this video made me realize that it isn't all that big of a deal. And I love the feedback you gave chuma was real helpful, I would apply them when next I meet someone I want to talk to.
Real Talk. Feels like it needs a situation to approach to gain trust to hop in and interact w/o being akward. If u r abroad its always much easier imho, cuz u get the foreigner bonus. Challenging is to continue after rejection. But missed opportunities feels much worst, so always go for it and try- nothing to loose! Even if it feels like loosing confidence at first, it feel strenghten it.
The one thing I notice when the girls or just from my experience as well is when you walk up and just start talking rather than introduce yourself. This again could just be me. Just what I've found works well is saying hello insert name. Get there's and allows to break the touch barrier as well. Honestly really great seeing guys break out more and approach women. It is hard bc of all the things you here. It makes guys standoffish and for good reason, but it can be done and many ppl actually like someone to talk with them in person.
This guy just needed a little push. He has everything. The look, the charisma, the physique, etc. He simply was a victim of how feminists destroyed the mind of girls when it comes to guys approaching them. Happy he found the courage to go get it instead of overthinking it.
i absolutely love this guys style where these broads are like i'll give you my Social Media and hes like nah fuck that give me your number. I like it dude!
Delete those fkn apps and revert back to the ways of thousands of years where people just talked. Nobodys parents ever met through a dating app. Dating apps and social media are killing human interaction and props to coach Reuben for the resurrection.
If you ever come to Florida, specifically the Tampa area, can I help you help people? I dig what you’re doing and I’ve definitely been there when I was a teenager but I’ve long since learned to ignore all that nervousness or awkwardness because they’re just people like you. They have no power over you.
Can totally relate, also had very bad acne until 2 years ago, it is really harmful to confidence, espescially when you're young. I hope you're getting better soon ✌🏻
I had it too, really bad. When I discover this I got rid of all my acne: take an apple juice everiday for about three weeks. I has to be a real apple juice, I mean, just cut the apple and put it in the mixer. You gonna thank me later
I commend all of these guys because they're at least trying and going for it. Better than the ones too scared to do it (including me 😄, but i want to shoot my shot as well)
To me it was a clear sign she is into him and wants to know for sure he is legit. She just wants to feel safe. And whats up with always mentioning the shit testing terminology from a dinosaur in the old ages.
19:45 Wow... The brunette is my dream girl type, seemingly conservative, absolutely beautiful! She reminds me of Linda Cardellini in her youth, in Freaks and Geeks.
He should’ve gone for that one brunette in the group of friends you could see as soon as he came over her eyes went straight to him and she immediately snatched up for dat drink and started sipping while staring at him checking him out
This guy is so cool....
He even making the stranger comfortable while talking
Sounds like Jon Jones
@@stockyguru man, I was about to say it.
19:37 this guy was so cool!! he was helping him out, asking him very genuine questions and everyone just got more comfortable. let's go!
It's a universal bro code
Ikr. You can literally see them changing
You are genuinely a gem to this platform. I am actually kind of surprised you don't have more subscribers. Anyway Keep it going man!
Thank you for the support, means a lot and is very encouraging to hear :) thank you!
Absolutely agree! :)
Super underrated, this channel will be big one day!
@@slyfurz He is definitely going to blow this year
yhh
That girl was hilarius "Do you sell girls on the black market?" and she kept going... :D :D :D Killing it every time. :D :D :D
She wasn't really feeling him tbh. Her one armed hug and her shit testing him was proof of that.
@@ChicagoScorpionbruh what are u even saying
Racism, bro :/
@@ChicagoScorpionshe was wary of him. She seemed to be questioning his motives, which is understandable. It doesn’t mean much.
She was testing him and he passed. She definitely liked him. Even complimented his chest.
Ruben is the Hitch in a society where dating apps and social media has taken over
So spot on man. They both really fill a huge void in society.
One of the best ones yet! A lot of wisdom in this video
:) thank you, anything you liked in particular?
@@socialanimal there were a lot of take away things.. talk like they are a friend, don't try and use some line and dress things up etc.
One of my favorite dudes who is relatable by being down to earth. After a few rough starts, he finished the video very strong. I like when he talk to the cute big eye girl at the bench who was testing him, but he handle himself quite well around her. My favorite interaction is him being the life of the party by talking to the dude with the ladies. If he didn't get in good with the dude, it could have went left where the dude might have said what you are doing talking to my girls. I like how he showed respect to the big group by making everyone feel included. I hope he comes back because he was one of your best students by being receptive to your feedback. God Bless.
The one girl is hilarious giving him a whole interview she was really interested trying to make sure he’s a good do giving him all these FBI questions😭😭😭😂😂😂💀
As someone who has high levels of social anxiety(disorder), I would really like to participate in this. This channel really motivates me to face my fears of approaching beautiful women
I totally agree I really want to do this but it always seems so intimidating, with just anyone in general!
Expect it to be, then tell yourself the more nervous you are doing it, the greater the accomplishment!
it's intimidating for everyone. I'd say go for it. I've seen many other videos on this channel. Some people have stutters and they don't let that stop them from trying.
Imagine them as a sibling or a friend u talk to comfortably whenever ur approaching
The dude at 18:00 was really chill. Respect to him for handling it so well.
Can totally relate! I've always been an introvert. I don't go out much, except when it's necessary. I've been working my confidence up the past few weeks though. I asked a girl out at my workplace and she ended up reporting me for it. I didn't want that to deflate me, so I asked for another lady's Ig, and she gave me. I've been sent off for the first incident though, and I kinda feel like a badass. I am only waiting to get back to school to get girls digits. I already understand that being rejected doesn't mean you are a loser. You just gotta keep going till you get your first Yes.
Yea that sucks that you got fired. But the yes was good. Keep doing it! Unless you find one you really like and want to stick with only them.
Bro you don't shit where you eat. Getting girls at your workplace is never a good idea because that puts you in a vulnerable position. You should learn from that since you got fired.
I suggest you subscribe to the channel "THE MAN MINDSET"
He helps so much with game
Yo mate, never date someone who is in your workplace, like school, workplace./or someone who has personal business link with you.
@@rrsp7148 what if u naturally connected with them while working with them
Dodged bullet. This is why Men are afraid to approach women
wow the end conversation was just so wholesome dude!!! love it!
Really liked the thoughts you shared!
Next big challenge: Approaching a big group of only guys
Soon :) maybe it will be you :) I don’t know if I already asked you but where are you located ?
Lol for some reason I think approaching guys is wayy harder
@@davidquintanilla9330 nha guys its easier , we know how rejection is like so we are more open
When she was asking him all those questions whether he’s a creep, does human trafficking ,has kids , married etc. i personally would’ve said “All the above” lmaoooo
his energy is something else man
may God bless him
21:46 Bro got the squad wipe hahaha
Dude I have been inspired by this series! I definitely wanna start approaching women I find interesting/attractive from now on!
I feel the same way. Definitely going to start working on that.
Start treating it like a video game 😂😂😂
I think this is a good platform to encourage more social interaction in person. There is a few things this shows about woman, 1. They are dying to be approached 2. The internet has made humans socially awkward and 3. Although I grew up in the era when we had to cold approach it has its pros and cons. The cons being when you ask a girl for her number your basically asking to be put on her roster. I like the suggestion of asking her to hang out
I have to say Ruben's feedback and tips are great. As what I would call the host he makes this show.
I would hope I am not useless :))))
@@socialanimal Far from it. Just finishing up basically all of the videos. Such a good find here.
@@DominickSpano I was joking :) I can see you are enjoying the videos, thank you for commenting and supporting bro ;)
Good to see him taking action!
:)
he killed it!, 21:46 can't believe he got all their numbers
He did ;) what a beautiful moment ;)
Rubens jokea always crack me up 'you can be dressed sharp looking cool.. or you can be wearing a crappy outfit' I feel this comes back to his theme of treating someone like a friend, you would only make this kind of comment if you knew someone well and felt very comfortable around them
:) can you remind me the timestamp on that one?
I clicked on this vid, cuz' I thought dababy was in the thumbnail lmfao🤣
Liked the group interaction. Do have to say that when a girl mentions social instead of a number don't argue it.
Wow the way he vibed with that group was stellar.
The way he finesed it from instagram to the number# is insane
This video deserves way more views ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
:) thank you for the support!!!!
wow enjoyed this, the man is so genuine and down to earth
Great video. Loved the vibe he brought to the group at the end!
yea it was so cool :)
Hes literally a Dababy lookalike😂
🤔🤨check out 21:29 . Who else did notice the magical connection of these two girls? They communicated wordless about the camera filming them!! Everytime so magical what women are capable of. Crazyy.
Cool video by the way. I love this channel. I think it's helping me. Lots of greetings from germany!!
🥰😃
Ooooh what he said at the beginning is so relatable, the impulse of "don't be like other guys" or "don't be a typical guy." That's a big deal for me, always needing to be the polite gentleman who doesn't go for it. Makes me sick lately. And ladies, you ain't gotta be like that. If there's no threat, do society a favor and take the compliments. ❤️❤️
This is one of my favourites, always a great experience for the subscriber, and quality content
Great video man.. Over of my favourites.. this guy after the first intersection was flying.. he was very calm, natural, listened to what you said.. there was a lot of great advice and wise words from him at the end.. I think he said think after and be present now.. Powerful stuff man. I like how her noticed something genuine about them, gave a compliment, nice blouse, pink clothes, that girl was hot, just my type but too young really for my age..
The interaction with the group order people was actually quite touching tbh, how you all connected and you got an invite to the music, plus all there contact info and the guy giving you respect.. I did think the girl was his gf and I was thinking, Woh, how's this going to go.. But it all worked out well.
I feel like me watching these videos is like its seeping into my brain that it's ok and do it.. like osmosis or being Mr meeyageed (from karate kid, wax on wax off)..ie it got into your brain without you realising it trying to.
Nice one guys
damn this is like the perfect cold approach vid pretty attractive guy goes and approaches women getting better each time getting successful accurate description of cold approaching
Hey Ruben, how is it going man..
I am from India. I have recently started watching your videos. I'll have to say, this one is one of the best. The pieces of advices that you gave after each interaction were like gold-dust. It has completely changed my perspective of looking at a conversation, specially the one that you gave at around 6:40 minutes in the video. I am going to apply that going forward and I am sure its going to yield good results. I'll keep you posted.
Thank you bro ;) happy you enjoy it, and if I come to India would you be down to do the challenge? :) where in India are you ?
@@socialanimal I live in the city of Bhopal, the capital of the state of Madhya Pradesh, right in the central part of the country.
Yes ofcourse bro, I am all prepared to take up the challenge, your physical presence is going to take my confidence level sky-high. Its a matter of great honour for me that you have responded to my post and I am really excited to learn that you have put forward this proposition of coming to India. I heartily welcome you brother 😊
@@abhimendhe6785 I would love to come :) shoot me an email at ruben@socialaninal.us and we'll make it happen. Might take a few months but lets do it :)
Great video man, keep them coming!
Thank you :) anything you liked in particular ?
@@socialanimal The whole concept itself, I think it’s amazing to encourage socializing. Do you have instagram?
thank you :) no I don't have instagram
@@socialanimal Aw man, it would be nice to contact you some how
Shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us
I absolutely love this guy
Nigeria nor dey carry last.. The confidence is in-built!
The girl with the tattoo was cool asf. Those are the kind of social interactions I look forward to getting but never get smh.
I love to see the awkward energy in the group change into a friendly convo where everyone is vibing 👏
I would love to do a coaching session with you. Shame i’m in London. For now I shall just enjoy all these videos that you’re putting out. I appreciate you, thank you for these great educational videos.
bro :) I am gonna be in London by September, shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us and lets make it happen :)
Thanks to your videos I got over the approach anxiety quickly. the real challenge is texting and going on dates...
bro this takes more than just balls. awesome :)
lol, where are you located? Come on the channel :)
Big ups man to what u are doing for guys. I myself have real anxiety talking to strangers especially pretty girls but watching this video made me realize that it isn't all that big of a deal. And I love the feedback you gave chuma was real helpful, I would apply them when next I meet someone I want to talk to.
That group interaction was pretty specialist
One of those rare TH-cam channels 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dont stop man, if ever you have a chance to go to the Philippines. I would love to be a part of this challenge
I would love to come, shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us, let’s make it happen :)
Real Talk. Feels like it needs a situation to approach to gain trust to hop in and interact w/o being akward. If u r abroad its always much easier imho, cuz u get the foreigner bonus. Challenging is to continue after rejection. But missed opportunities feels much worst, so always go for it and try- nothing to loose! Even if it feels like loosing confidence at first, it feel strenghten it.
Nice, you know I watch this and think to myself that I can do it , but when I get to go out it’s a different story, I just can’t the anxiety
16:43 that car pulled up like FBI
This guy has a masculine voice naturally 🔥
The one thing I notice when the girls or just from my experience as well is when you walk up and just start talking rather than introduce yourself. This again could just be me. Just what I've found works well is saying hello insert name. Get there's and allows to break the touch barrier as well. Honestly really great seeing guys break out more and approach women. It is hard bc of all the things you here. It makes guys standoffish and for good reason, but it can be done and many ppl actually like someone to talk with them in person.
In the middle of catcalling and not talking there's genuine, considerate communication
In the last conversation the girl in lady dress was interested since the first sight. She was like "oh my!" looking at him when he arrives.
I know lol he went for the wrong girl 😅
lm also shocked you dont have more subscribers your channel has a different vibe. STAY COOL!!!
I love these challenges .
Ruben man, this is awesome.
Opportunities r presenting emselves n this introvert is turning into cool animal.
This guy just needed a little push. He has everything. The look, the charisma, the physique, etc. He simply was a victim of how feminists destroyed the mind of girls when it comes to guys approaching them. Happy he found the courage to go get it instead of overthinking it.
They made it a bad thing to even interact with women you don't know
i absolutely love this guys style where these broads are like i'll give you my Social Media and hes like nah fuck that give me your number. I like it dude!
im so addicted to these videos
That ain't Da Baby thats my baby 🤣
eyoooooooooooooooooo hahaha the nigerian dbaby
At first when I heard them say “The boldness is really cool” I thought they said “The baldness is really cool” 🤣
The Chill version of Dababy😂
😂
5:15 her friend is interested
that look :)
this is a nice perception, better try to talk well with all the friends because in these situations you could have gone out with the friend
True 👀
The chick in green was LOOKING at broo
Surprised no one else caught on.
How does this channel not have more subs?
you are here now, everyone else will come
Shawty at 8:10 had great energy hahah
I love watching your TH-cam videos because i am having this same problem. Eg i will go out for a day without talking to anyone one for entire day.
Delete those fkn apps and revert back to the ways of thousands of years where people just talked. Nobodys parents ever met through a dating app. Dating apps and social media are killing human interaction and props to coach Reuben for the resurrection.
My take-away, treat them as you would your friend(s)✊
Exactly this! You treat your friends as equals, and that is how you should approach a girl!
The Nigerian version of DaBaby! 😂😂😂
The guy on 13:28 looks so alike robert california from the office lmaooo
Was amazing watching this....I think I should jump into it
great channel and videos bro
Everyone on here is a software engineer lol
Lol just a few out of about 60 people, pretty wide spectrum of background actually
@@socialanimal okay :)
Man that was an amazing interaction
You just earned a subscriber bro 👍
Watching him become acquainted with that group was actually _climactic._ Why am I impressed by a _human_ socializing with other _humans?_ 🙄
Watching these vids kinda calibrate my social compass. Like i have a (percieved) bad interaction and this just sorts it out a bit
If you ever come to Florida, specifically the Tampa area, can I help you help people? I dig what you’re doing and I’ve definitely been there when I was a teenager but I’ve long since learned to ignore all that nervousness or awkwardness because they’re just people like you. They have no power over you.
I’m tryna see Ruben get out there 💪🏾
:) I am in all the earlier videos of the channel and most recently in the first episode of the last Miami series :)
Good energy
:)
Honestly the girl with the green plaid dress seemed super interested in bro 😂
this was another good job Ruben! I have a question though, do these guys all not actually use social media, or do you tell them to say that?
5:14. The way that girl was looking at him while he was asking for her number, made me nervous!
I see how he getting everybody's number, he looks a little bit like Da baby but with no hair with 🕶️😎🤣
A little bit more polish and this dude will slay it
20:40 "what do mean funny?
Funny like I'm a clown"??
Sorry things seemed to get serious for a second there 😂
I want to do this but I have bad acne that makes me extremely insecure.
let's focus on the first part of your sentence that you want to do it :) where are you located?
Can totally relate, also had very bad acne until 2 years ago, it is really harmful to confidence, espescially when you're young. I hope you're getting better soon ✌🏻
Focus on your diet. Wash your face 2 a day and take collagen
I had it too, really bad. When I discover this I got rid of all my acne: take an apple juice everiday for about three weeks. I has to be a real apple juice, I mean, just cut the apple and put it in the mixer. You gonna thank me later
Accutane
My man is God tier
this guy is amazing
I commend all of these guys because they're at least trying and going for it. Better than the ones too scared to do it (including me 😄, but i want to shoot my shot as well)
Dear lord. The chick at 10:27… just walk away bro. Damn. With all that shit testing please lady, tell me, what is it YOU bring to the table 😂
To me it was a clear sign she is into him and wants to know for sure he is legit. She just wants to feel safe.
And whats up with always mentioning the shit testing terminology from a dinosaur in the old ages.
@@jmdeking nah that was ode tho. Like I get asking a few questions but she was just throwing stereotypes atp
That girls’ questions were crazy.
When I watch these I feel like I’m him in the moment.
He got charisma and womans pick that quick.
Nice work.
19:45 Wow... The brunette is my dream girl type, seemingly conservative, absolutely beautiful! She reminds me of Linda Cardellini in her youth, in Freaks and Geeks.
IG?
He should’ve gone for that one brunette in the group of friends you could see as soon as he came over her eyes went straight to him and she immediately snatched up for dat drink and started sipping while staring at him checking him out
I know lol the brunettes are into him.Just like the first convo lol 5.15 part
omg is that my brother lmaooo