I recently went to the US for a visit and was living at an AirBnB in New Jersey. To my surprise, the area is known as little India and I felt like the only Pakistani walking in India 😅
I am not surprised.... This is how society has become. I do not consider anyone as friend anymore... unless they are in different geography and different field. Also, this is not "desi" mentality, this is human mentality and survival for existence ... basic instinct where loyalty, honor goes out of the window.
I am 28 unable to find a single friend who would treat me the same way asthey treated me when I were nothing. not a single relative even. I am soo used to the materialistic behaviour of people that I feel nothing when people lie on my face for short time benefits and I just let them do it and I don't really care.
Same i have suffered all my life being a good human but all these events cant make me hate anyone log bohat bohat buray aur hasad say bharay hoay hain walk away and move on , Junaid bhai life is very very difficult in Pakistan ,why cant we think the way that if we do this as a team we can do wonders people of Pakistan bash you doing good 👍🏻
I live abroad and after many experiences like this came to a solution, Never share your assets as Junaid Bhai said plus do not look for friends rather be friends to other as much as it does not bother you. Long Live Junaid bhai our old Karachi style. I would suggest to take out abusing words out of your speech so we be able to share your videos with friends and family as well.
Video tips dream journey 1.many gujrati people live in new jarsee area desi 2.must increase your learning ability improves skills 3.know about your enemies in your back biting 4.do not show your plans just do work on it fulfill achieve goals 5.know about your friendship psychology human behaviour 6.find out your friends competitor in fields 7.do not share your future plans keep secret until target achieve 8.be careful not show off express yourself in-front anyone 9.be careful driving 10.do excerise avoid stress 11.stay away jealous people 12.you never know about people next step 13.lives life enjoy presents moments of life limited time enjoy with happiness
All other cultures in America proudly represent their culture and ethnicity to other people. I don’t understand why does are embarrassed of showing their culture to others in America. I have seen polish and mexican people proudly speaking in their language to kids and desi parents speak English with their kids.
Junaid bhai bht shukria, for valuable insights, I have friends, who revere you. Whenever I share your new video with them, they are like, "already seen it" lol.
This generation parents deserves to be in old homes Study you don't have choice For Carrier you don't have choice For life partner don't have choice What is the point being alive when you have have choice in life
Big deal! Mr. Desi, if he were really a friend would be happy his 'friend' applied as well. Not be angry. This is not friendship. Just upmanship. The gujju was looking for an underdog who makes him feel great.
talking about honour, aren't you the one who sold your soul for punjab government and maryan nawaz's money? Dosro per tanqed karna hamesha asan hote hai...
Wrong advice here. First of all, you need to understand that you BOTH are not each other’s true friend. You guys are just “passive friends”. If he was your true friend, he’d tell you that he would apply too. On the other hand, if you were his true friend, you won’t mind him applying (as long as at least one of you gets the job). Everyone should be able to apply to any job they feel good about. Neither of you are paying each other’s bills. There’s nothing for him to apologize. You guys are not “true friends” and that’s okay. Not everyone we hang out with is our true friend - some are just acquaintances. You shouldn’t feel bad that a person you “occasionally” hang out with applied to the same job as you. Grow up and move on.
@jay you were spot on...but jani remember its better to grow in silence. And thats why brownies prefer not to share things with co brownies. Beware its a state of mind. You need to remain thoughtful
Agreed i have found with fellow desi folks, gathering is to show off and discuss high level success. And never to give further details on how i got my success. As they say in hindi/urdu "logon k nazr bht jaldi lg jati hai"
Junaid I am the youngest in my family and as you said operate in silence I agree but always have a pressure that if i would do anything without letting them know later they will accuse me for this that i don’t give them respect, but my problem is if i will share with them they won’t keep it to themselves and will share with everyone even the people I don’t want to know. Share your thoughts on this dilemma
I'm a chemical engineer working in gulf in material testing field. These countries don't give nationality so I'm thinking of moving to US or other good country. Can anyone guide me?
I think, he is overthinking. That's how life work. You should keep things private. His friend found the very opportunity and he jump on it. However, his friend should inform him as well that he has also applied for the same job.
Even you have same desi snake mindset, i can sense from your comment, you are justifying his back biting , he could have atleast inform that even he wants to apply for that role
کپل شرما شو میں ایکٹر کے جتنےبھی انسٹا کے میسج سب اردو میں ہوتے ہیں اور اس کو سب انڈین انگلش میں ای میل کرتے ہیں جس طرح اس کا ایکسنٹ تیک ہے وہ ایک میل بھی فیک ہیں
I listen to your videos but I am disappointed by your advice here. The OP has no right to be upset about who applies to what job. The friend is right in keeping his personal life personal. He doesn’t have to tell anyone anything. The OP is reacting negatively about it. The OP is not happy that his friend is at the same job and this is negative desi thinking we need to talk about. I live in Denmark and whenever I see a Pakistani at work they make a face like they own the company and no other Pakistani can apply to that company. I’ve received bad advices regarding my career and life because Pakistanis cannot see anyone else succeed. I’ve seen Pakistanis here wishing no new Pakistanis will come here and steal ‘their’ jobs which they don’t even have. We need to learn that we all can grow together without putting other people down. We need to get out of this negative mindset. This is more harmful.
I never been a Desi person in my own society even though my whole family is pure Desi. So I get bullied alot about my behaviour not in Desi style 😭 I was watching the american cartoon my childhood instead of " Mujhe Dushman kae Bachoon ko padhana hai 😂 🤣" But this is the reality of mine I am so sorry
Hi junaid, I think theres nothing wrong for that guy to be there in interview. Thats because its a publicly open opportunity and agar ap bhooke sher (job hunter) ke samne gosh (opportunity) daloge toh wo usko lene ka attempt tou karega. Many a times they just apply everywhere. Maybe it was just a coincidence that he got selected till the group interview thing which he might not have expected Definitely you shouldnt share if u dont consider someone as your competitor. This is just basic human nature Agar OP ka bhai hota tou kya wo share nahi karta ye opportunity apply karne?
@@fazzalshah4013pura mahabharat ka turning point krishna hi kiya hai. By the way mahabharat tera bhi history hai aur mera bhi hai. Itna bhi 50000 km dur ka Saudi Saudi mat karo
Ajeeb!! Matlabb agar tumne apply kia to bas aor koi na kare, ye desion ka masla hai. Sab ki apni life apni choice hai aor wese bhi company ne merit p uthana hai. Work hard aor expect karna band karo chutiyon wali batein ajeeeb
I recently went to the US for a visit and was living at an AirBnB in New Jersey. To my surprise, the area is known as little India and I felt like the only Pakistani walking in India 😅
😂
Omg😮
It js gujrarat not India
@@wisdomok99there are all Indian communities in Jersey city. Big Independence Day celebrations also happen apart from other Indian festivals
@@anuchugh31🎀
I am not surprised.... This is how society has become. I do not consider anyone as friend anymore... unless they are in different geography and different field. Also, this is not "desi" mentality, this is human mentality and survival for existence ... basic instinct where loyalty, honor goes out of the window.
Sadly everyone has an agenda nowadays.
I am 28 unable to find a single friend who would treat me the same way asthey treated me when I were nothing. not a single relative even. I am soo used to the materialistic behaviour of people that I feel nothing when people lie on my face for short time benefits and I just let them do it and I don't really care.
You allow people to do it. Don't allow people to take advantage of you. And try to look for honest people as friends.
lets talk
I am someone with chaotic people around and prefer the Honor mode rsther than schemer mode.
One of the most respected media people, Junaid sir. Very big fan of you 🎉
Same i have suffered all my life being a good human but all these events cant make me hate anyone log bohat bohat buray aur hasad say bharay hoay hain walk away and move on ,
Junaid bhai life is very very difficult in Pakistan ,why cant we think the way that if we do this as a team we can do wonders people of Pakistan bash you doing good 👍🏻
Thanks for taking into account your international audience! Me as student have been struggling, and really relate to your content ♥️
I live abroad and after many experiences like this came to a solution, Never share your assets as Junaid Bhai said plus do not look for friends rather be friends to other as much as it does not bother you. Long Live Junaid bhai our old Karachi style. I would suggest to take out abusing words out of your speech so we be able to share your videos with friends and family as well.
Video tips dream journey
1.many gujrati people live in new jarsee area desi
2.must increase your learning ability improves skills
3.know about your enemies in your back biting
4.do not show your plans just do work on it fulfill achieve goals
5.know about your friendship psychology human behaviour
6.find out your friends competitor in fields
7.do not share your future plans keep secret until target achieve
8.be careful not show off express yourself in-front anyone
9.be careful driving
10.do excerise avoid stress
11.stay away jealous people
12.you never know about people next step
13.lives life enjoy presents moments of life limited time enjoy with happiness
Thank you for teaching the difference between a psychologist and psychiatrist 👏🏼
Amazing ending ... very thoughful and sincere advice !
All other cultures in America proudly represent their culture and ethnicity to other people. I don’t understand why does are embarrassed of showing their culture to others in America. I have seen polish and mexican people proudly speaking in their language to kids and desi parents speak English with their kids.
It is human nature to get hurt, but ignore and move on. You are not stuck with him
A lot of positive energy comes from you
Junaid bhai bht shukria, for valuable insights, I have friends, who revere you. Whenever I share your new video with them, they are like, "already seen it" lol.
This generation parents deserves to be in old homes
Study you don't have choice
For Carrier you don't have choice
For life partner don't have choice
What is the point being alive when you have have choice in life
Best way is to openly communicate if its 1 year old friend. Communication is important
Big deal!
Mr. Desi, if he were really a friend would be happy his 'friend' applied as well. Not be angry.
This is not friendship. Just upmanship.
The gujju was looking for an underdog who makes him feel great.
Exactly, how is that bad thing, he didn't mention it...
I don't think he had to apologize for anything, it is his life his decisions...
Work in silence, let the success make the noise.
talking about honour, aren't you the one who sold your soul for punjab government and maryan nawaz's money? Dosro per tanqed karna hamesha asan hote hai...
i am grateful that i havent made any desi freinds. Asteen kay samp hotay hai
4:34 how Straight Facely He Says It 😂👏
ALLAH AP DONO KA NASEEB ACHA KARAY OR APKO JO SUPPORT KARTA HAI USKA B AMEEN SUMMA AMEEN
That Portrait looks nice.
i want to say thank you just keep on correcting the morals of people
Why do you call yourself a friend if you are worried when he also applied?
Yes
GANJI TUU HII TUU MERA DOST HAI😊
Wrong advice here.
First of all, you need to understand that you BOTH are not each other’s true friend. You guys are just “passive friends”. If he was your true friend, he’d tell you that he would apply too. On the other hand, if you were his true friend, you won’t mind him applying (as long as at least one of you gets the job). Everyone should be able to apply to any job they feel good about. Neither of you are paying each other’s bills. There’s nothing for him to apologize. You guys are not “true friends” and that’s okay. Not everyone we hang out with is our true friend - some are just acquaintances. You shouldn’t feel bad that a person you “occasionally” hang out with applied to the same job as you. Grow up and move on.
@jay you were spot on...but jani remember its better to grow in silence. And thats why brownies prefer not to share things with co brownies. Beware its a state of mind. You need to remain thoughtful
Agreed i have found with fellow desi folks, gathering is to show off and discuss high level success. And never to give further details on how i got my success. As they say in hindi/urdu "logon k nazr bht jaldi lg jati hai"
Junaid bhai in full form to get another silver button from this channel 😂😂😂❤
We are not your friends, we are your Dollars 😂
Jealous, tum bano na himat hai
Junaid I am the youngest in my family and as you said operate in silence I agree but always have a pressure that if i would do anything without letting them know later they will accuse me for this that i don’t give them respect, but my problem is if i will share with them they won’t keep it to themselves and will share with everyone even the people I don’t want to know. Share your thoughts on this dilemma
Nice video, but the F word was used 4 times in the first 12 minutes, I was disappointed as you are a role model for so many children.
He's not responsible for your children watching content that's mature for them. You need to be better parents.
03:38 Debt Burden Ratio!
5:40 you are very right
exactly bilkul theek kaha apne jabhe mene bht sare doston se ab nahe milna chahata hu i have only 2 friends as well
Thanks 🙏🏼
Its like good advice from granny 🎈
There is no such position in McKinsey called Senior solutions architect.
I think you need mental treatment
Why is he so pissed off having seen his friend in the same interview? Why didn’t he tell him about his interview? It’s a stupid thinking!
His friend showed the results 🤣😂
I'm a chemical engineer working in gulf in material testing field. These countries don't give nationality so I'm thinking of moving to US or other good country. Can anyone guide me?
But they pay good and life is hard in these countries like US and Canada. Every country has its prons and cons.
@junaid akram, its Repayment capacity of a borrower
I think, he is overthinking. That's how life work. You should keep things private. His friend found the very opportunity and he jump on it.
However, his friend should inform him as well that he has also applied for the same job.
Even you have same desi snake mindset, i can sense from your comment, you are justifying his back biting , he could have atleast inform that even he wants to apply for that role
You have MF Husain painting in the background (Ganesha) 😮
Is it real or print?
کپل شرما شو میں ایکٹر کے جتنےبھی انسٹا کے میسج سب اردو میں ہوتے ہیں اور اس کو سب انڈین انگلش میں ای میل کرتے ہیں جس طرح اس کا ایکسنٹ تیک ہے وہ ایک میل بھی فیک ہیں
First watch from india ❤❤❤
Berozgar 😂
Fuck it .... Fuck it... Ganji on repeat.... 😅
Bhai hum Asians emotional bohot ho jate hai that distincts us from west
Agreed 💯
Hi i m coming New York in 3dec for a week but no friends n relatives in usa anyone guide me for my this trip. I m working at Karachi airport
Lot of desi's live in NJ because its near New York.
Why use f word so often?
You have to sleep to achieve American dream.
recently landed in usa now ?
@ nah still in landhi
Nobody os a friend
shadi shuda behan bhaiyon se bhi har cheez share na karein
I listen to your videos but I am disappointed by your advice here.
The OP has no right to be upset about who applies to what job. The friend is right in keeping his personal life personal. He doesn’t have to tell anyone anything. The OP is reacting negatively about it. The OP is not happy that his friend is at the same job and this is negative desi thinking we need to talk about. I live in Denmark and whenever I see a Pakistani at work they make a face like they own the company and no other Pakistani can apply to that company. I’ve received bad advices regarding my career and life because Pakistanis cannot see anyone else succeed. I’ve seen Pakistanis here wishing no new Pakistanis will come here and steal ‘their’ jobs which they don’t even have. We need to learn that we all can grow together without putting other people down.
We need to get out of this negative mindset. This is more harmful.
*GANPATI PHOTO FRAME IN THE BACKGROUND...!?*
A fan/friend must have given him as a gift, made by him/her, so he hung it in the office. (Best possible answer)
This Giy himself is a big selfish why is he angry if his friend is in his same company
Dont use F words otherwise👍
I never been a Desi person in my own society even though my whole family is pure Desi. So I get bullied alot about my behaviour not in Desi style 😭
I was watching the american cartoon my childhood instead of " Mujhe Dushman kae Bachoon ko padhana hai 😂 🤣"
But this is the reality of mine I am so sorry
Same goes here, but I respect my culture . 😅😂
You’re lucky, we have to unlearn all those “ae watan k sajeelay jawano” etc at this age now 😂
@@life_in_china6780 Oh my God XD
It's so true about me too 😭.
110% relatable, whole video from Start till end.
USS moment 🍻
Tum apne country se etna nafrat kyu karte ho me bhai 😢😢😢
Pakistan is not pakistan anymore
This is not hate but you must critisize whats wrong.
Itna acha na ban jaantay hain tjhy chootiyeh Emaan Farosh
Har bat per Gali mashallah
Hi junaid, I think theres nothing wrong for that guy to be there in interview. Thats because its a publicly open opportunity and agar ap bhooke sher (job hunter) ke samne gosh (opportunity) daloge toh wo usko lene ka attempt tou karega.
Many a times they just apply everywhere. Maybe it was just a coincidence that he got selected till the group interview thing which he might not have expected
Definitely you shouldnt share if u dont consider someone as your competitor. This is just basic human nature
Agar OP ka bhai hota tou kya wo share nahi karta ye opportunity apply karne?
Fatwa ke dar se isne 'Jai Shri Krishna' nahi bola 😂😂😂😂😂
Krishna ne kiya kya jo uski jay jay kaar kre
@@fazzalshah4013pura mahabharat ka turning point krishna hi kiya hai. By the way mahabharat tera bhi history hai aur mera bhi hai. Itna bhi 50000 km dur ka Saudi Saudi mat karo
@@fazzalshah4013 Ex muslim Sahil se debate kar aur apne Islam ko defend kar ke dikha
@@arvindsherje3183 tera naya bahgwan ha kiya wo
@@fazzalshah4013 nai par tu aaja vo live hai abhi...🤣🤣
Just remember that not everyone who you shake hands with is not a friend…
You Asians are champions
Of
Toilet in west
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Who r u ?
Yes Muslims are champions of toilet
@@mohammedabdulaziz5949 Toilet😂.
Ajeeb!! Matlabb agar tumne apply kia to bas aor koi na kare, ye desion ka masla hai. Sab ki apni life apni choice hai aor wese bhi company ne merit p uthana hai. Work hard aor expect karna band karo chutiyon wali batein ajeeeb
Nowadays, I can conclude today's living in two words Paisa pehnk tamasha Dekh