Im an og subscriber. As someone who is also creative and has absolutely no interest in seeing women go down the path of revolving their entire lives around men and having children, I thoroughly enjoy your diy/party planning content. It's nice to see women share interests and hobbies that aren't limited by patriarchy or money
I enjoy your content because you’re not following the same traditional path of getting married, having a bunch of kids. I love seeing a single woman pursue her hobbies, do arts and crafts! That is what is exciting for me to watch. Please keep doing you Raven I admire you so much you’re an inspo to me!
So interesting that no one really cared when you got your investment property I loveeeedddd that content and loved seeing you make boss moves and diversifying your income I’ve always wanted more content on it
This is a great topic. Quick observation …Aaliyah’s face content blew up during covid era/ after she purchased her home in Atlanta. She also did a bunch of luxury, soft girl, fitness topics which garnered her a huge audience. She was originally a makeup based TH-camr but transitioned to lifestyle. She never really shared her relationship and her audience didn’t really care, but would record date night Grwm, or cook at home with me, walked her dog, car vlogs, getting her hair done, nails done and taking the audience along ..etc (relatable content) and still somehow made the vlogs entertaining. I think the goal for TH-cam that most ppl miss is to do it for the plot, but to also still connect with your audience.
Of course every minute of every vlog isn't going to be some huge update or a big next step in life, so I know that she definitely incorporates the more mundane or routine aspects of her life too... but I find that her content does have a consistent cadence of updates or the overall feeling of forward progress and newness. She has done a great job of keeping her viewers on a journey. Keeping things exciting. Moving, getting fit, dating, traveling, leveling up her life. It's never JUST walking the dog and getting nails done, which was my point. But I agree, her personality and way of connecting with her viewers is a HUGE reason why she's so successful. You can't discredit that part at all! I think both aspects are equally important in this niche.
She did share her relationship and had her boyfriend on her channel. She was constantly going out, traveling, trying new restaurants, visiting family for holidays, she’s moved a few times and she’s bicoastal. She changed her home decor a lot and she had several updates about her home and life. Ravens life isn’t as busy and inclined.
Hiii I just want to say, It’s okay to want love and a healthy relationship at the same time my friend.. You don’t have to struggle about that. It is natural, but you can go on without it b/c It will come! You deserve everything great including love and a happily ever after in that area. It’s going to work out ❤️
The next big thing IS the journey.Take us with you while you figure it out. Try new hobbies, become a mentor, volunteer... sometimes it's not what you do.. but who you can help in the process.
Don’t leave us over here. I follow you across platforms and I enjoy all your content…no matter what you do or where you do it. So glad you are finding the confidence to ignore the naysayers and complainers. Do what makes you happy.
Cooking is always exciting! Raven's Ratchet Kitchen is NEVER boring! I could always watch those like a Raven's Ratchet Kitchen (cooking with friends) for vlogs edition😄
It’s crazy I been watching you since the college vlogs and I feel like we have grown up together. I love all the content you upload. Keep being authentically you and do what you love doing!❤
My knee jerk reaction to you saying mundane vlogs don’t work in long form content was that you were projecting but after listening to you explain further and give examples I actually do agree. When I think about it, I do love the mundane/routine vlogs BUT not from people I don’t already know/have followed along their journey. The ‘boring’ 45 minute long content only entertains me from someone that I’ve watched for years and have rode the ride with them. A quick, 1-3 minute TikTok of a routine day from some unknown person, sure, I’ll definitely look if it pops up on my FYP. And I think that’s the part that new creators that are on TT/IG that do have big success are struggling with as they are now trying to move their audience to YT in case of a ban and they aren’t getting the engagement they are used to seeing. In other words, you cannot be boring in long form content if we weren’t shooting with you in the gym 😂😂
Yes! You explained this perfectly! Creators have to ask themselves... WHY would someone care? Either your content is very interesting on it's own, or people are interested because they're invested. And it can be hard to get people invested like that.
@ I also yelled CLOCK IT at the 35+ minute mark! You are more than a mother and I cannot believe people are tuning out/disinterested because they don’t see a man and more kids in your life. You’re doing SO MUCH MORE! You are LIVING! I’m also not a fan of exploiting your family for clicks so I completely agree with you not centering your content around Ziya. I have enjoyed seeing her grow up of course and I will be SAT if and when you do decide you want to “settle down” with a man but that is not what I’m waiting for nor am I expecting that. A woman is so much more than a wife and offspring maker. I think you’re seeing the difference in the TT vs YT world because TT is heavily Gen Z and YT is mostly millennial and the values are wildly different between the two age groups. And this is coming from a married mother 😂
I feel like this is an example of why being an “influencer” and the weight it has on your mental health needs to be heavily studied because I can’t think of many other demanding professions in which you cannot separate your personal life from your career because this is mind blowing to me and kind of saddening that majority of your personal life is dependent on your income something about that is not right to me but yet here we are watching and commenting and liking idk it’s all maddening kinda
I just love the drama-free, driven, ambitious person you are, hence a loyal follower. I look at Amazon storefront first to see if what I want to buy can help support you. So yeah, loyal follower. What I would like to see more of is your real-estate investment journey. I hope that is growing. I am also invested in watching both you and Ziya grow, so an occasional appearance from here is also appreciated.
I left a comment on Spotify about what I think about the content, but I wanted to leave a comment about the “being relatable” thing. To piggyback on your example, Aaliyah stopped being “relatable” a long time ago, there’s a reason we still follow her and still get excited to watch her content. It’s enjoyable, she does what she wants to do and we can see that she enjoys whatever is that she’s doing, and we like it. She doesn’t over share, she posts whenever she has time to post and we still tune in every time.
You have to leave space for nuance in these conversations. You as one viewer can't speak for her entire audience either. I don't disagree with your point at all...but I've seen with my own eyes people complain about her "lack of relatability" and say it made them stop watching her...while at the same time I obviously see her continued success. What I'm saying is, all of our observations can be true at the same time. Success on youtube is about much more than just "being yourself and having fun with it"...if it was THAT easy, everyone would do it. I could do a whole episode just analyzing what exactly makes Aaliyah's channel successful. There's definitely layers to it, and strategy. The way you described it is kinda dumbing it down and making it sound like "all you gotta do is...!" and that's where I kinda disagree.
OG fan here! I’ve been watching since your days at UNT and have followed your journey ever since. I’ll admit, not all of your content resonates with me, but I still tune in because I genuinely admire how you’ve built so much-your business, your community, your personal growth, and more. It’s inspiring to see your evolution and to learn from your journey. You’ve shown me how to aim higher, beyond just finding a partner. Your family support, your strategies, and the way you celebrate life-it all means so much. Thank you for sharing your growth with us! ❤
You have absolutely valid points about the comments bothering you because there's so much personal truth to it. Also because you can't keep up with the other bloggers the way you use too, or should be able to, I totally understand you on that. That takes a lot of honest soul searching, to make peace with that moving forward. You said the same thing over and over for an hour, I know you'll figure this out!
I agree. She mentioned something like competition with Allyiah and I think that’s where the problem starts. Although I feel raven started the lifestyle vlogging and following “the journey” era, I feel vloggers like Kirah, Allyiah and Chelsie took off during the pandemic because people were home, bored and they were new faces with a different approach. All of them have their own lane that works for them. And those ladies have a different lifestyle from raven as it relates to her being a mother, more settled in, homeowner, etc while the other girls are trying to figure it out, kid less and traveling the world. I pray everything works out for the best for her. I’ve always admired ravens hustle. Heyyyy maybe it’s time to retire and just enjoy the fruits of her labor. We sometimes forget that that’s a thing. Especially when you are goal oriented.
You can’t be for everyone but those who you are for appreciate you. Also, travel would be another thing that would be exciting and us viewers could live vicariously.
I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way Raven. Take your time and figure things out, you don’t really owe any one of these apps your personal business , but we thank you for sharing. That relationship thing.. whew!! Please don’t feel pressured, it will happen when it happens. I love your content and whatever route you take we are here to support you! ❤
I watch vloggers for their personality… not really for what they do in their day. I like to hear their opinions, see funny moments ect. I don’t need a big journey to stay locked in. But that’s just me.
I don't really know the youtubers that you mentioned because i only watch your videos . Raven , dont listen to them. Do/ show what you enjoy doing . Im sorry about the negative comments. You are a very creative person, and if people dont like that , thats on them😅I saw your recent Christmas video only has 84k views, but just know that i enjoy your content ❤
It’s fascinating hearing your perspective and the examples you provided because I actually don’t watch the specific vlog when the content creator starts bombarding us with boyfriend/husband content (and this coming from a married woman 🤭). I don’t have an interest in the romantic relationship because it’s never comes across authentic so I don’t even bother. I absolutely love your diy and hosting content… that’s what I’m passionate about as well. So just know I’ll STILL be tuning in. “I hate that the relationship unlocks the door” PREACH!!!! Meanwhile, I be skipping those vids because I become a subscriber for the WOMEN’s personality, passion, and interests not for the romanticized fantasy of the heterosexual relationship. Side note: I commend you on not going against your principles just for the sake of “content” by explicitly intimate moments with your child or family. Being a successful content creator as a primary source of income is not easy. Much respect Raven for your level of integrity. ALSO, have ever considered purchasing a commercial property to be used an event space? Event/wedding venues industry is such a low maintenance business and people would pay to have their next event at a “hall” curated by you… just sharing an idea 😊
I think a lot of people agree with you on not really seeking out the boyfriend content. If you follow the woman, you stay for the woman, not her man. BUT when the woman becomes a girlfriend or a wife (or even a mom) SHE becomes "more interesting" because HER life now has new paths to take...which I think is interesting to the viewer and THAT'S the real appeal behind it. Maybe you wouldn't care to see my boyfriend himself, but what about the new house we bought together that i'm now working on furnishing? I think it's more about that domino effect of the way it might affect my life and routine and new adventures. - About the event space: I've gotten that suggestion a ton, even from my own mom, but I'm afraid that business isn't as low maintenance or high yielding as it seems and it's not something I feel passionate about so I'm worried it would just be a lot of added stress for little return. But who knows!
I think it depends on your audience. For example the people who followed her from college were probably in college as well, they got jobs, moved in with boyfriends/ husbands, had kids and they grew with her. It could be that the same people are now busy with kids and don’t have time to watch videos anymore. And I’m saying that because I have kids now and don’t watch lifestyles videos the way I used to before I had kids. 31 is when people start settling and building their life, fortunately for her it happened earlier. People are asking if she is moving because probably they are building their homes and are looking for search content
When you were living downtown Dallas grocery shopping etc. I had a boyfriend & my frontal lobe hadn’t developed yet & thought damn Raven just not gonna have a man? But as we got older & now that we’re in our 30’s I realize that you were ahead of the game my friend. I’ve always respected how you took control of your life early on & have accomplished so much as the boss. Society might not catch up soon as it is still very much male centered and women are expected to struggle but you should be proud. You are that girl❤
I’m an OG subscriber from the end of college/loft days and have loved your content since then. I watch both you and Alliyah and I’d say the biggest difference with your channels is the DIY content is very niche while Alliyah has a more broad approach to her content. She’s private but still shares A LOT of her day to day wins, struggles, etc. that keeps her interesting despite having big life events. I think big life updates are interesting to most but I don’t think it’s the most important thing that keeps an audience. I enjoyed when you shared your day to day and just enjoy your personality in general. I think with the DIY content you as a person are less of the focus and it’s harder to connect or be interested when the content isn’t about you. If someone isn’t particularly interested in learning how to do said DIY project, I’m not sure if that would yield the same results as content about you on TH-cam specifically. I enjoy your content regardless and appreciated your perspective on this topic. As a non entitled viewer, I hope you are happy in whatever direction you take. You are still one of my favorite creators because you are genuine and THAT is what I think is the key to being a great creator ❤
It's so sad that ppl have such a small view of things that are interesting...a man, home, baby. Your DIY projects are what I love to see. I'm not much on the socials, I'm a youtube person. I want the work bench and the work tools and want to make all of the things. I hope society turns around and expands. Sending you love and hugs regarding your mental health. Each day is a blessing but also a journey, glad you take time for you.
As someone who started a podcast with maybe 1200 followers across all my social media platforms this conversation was both very discouraging BUT also very motivating. It's opening my eye on how to create content and what people want to see!
OG here and I love all of your content! In my opinion, you stand out more because I literally view this as “Raven’s TV network.” There’s cooking, vlogging, DIY, home updates, travel, hosting, Ziya, property management, podcasts, you get the picture. You stand out because of your willingness to pivot and make it professional. I’m always looking for that 12 o’clock video drop. Like you said in one of your tic tok lives, I’d watch your video even if it was just you chillin on the couch watching tv lol. I think social media has really warped society’s brain where some don’t have the bandwidth to watch a video more than 3 minutes; much less having some outrageous attention grabbing content. I also think that society feels as if influencers are the new “entertainment” since celebrities are overrated (my strongest opinion). I definitely see how this could overwhelm you and I’m all for the breaks, but please don’t leave us ❤. Side note: you set bar real high on these birthday parties 😂.
i’ve been watching you since before you had ziya and i will say the thing we tuned in for is your transparency and rawness: you showed your acne journey, navigating being a single mom, family dynamics with having them work with you, developing friendships with other creatives. NOW you’re not as transparent with those things and it makes us feel like you’re on a personal journey that we aren’t a part of anymore. yes being a DIY/Home improvement girl is a journey but it feels like only a fraction of your life that’s done only for content and not as organic/authentic as the real life things. ❤
This has put me on a diff perspective on influencers and creators as a whole. The internet will always be entertainment for us just like the radios and TV shows before the internet came out. It's tough out there..
I picked up everything you put down in this podcast!! Love it! Rooting for you Raven love how grounded and authentic you have remained over the years !!
That’s me! OG subscriber who has no expectations of you and will watch whatever you post bcuz I like your vibe! We could lowkey be friends in real life bcuz of your personality.
As a person who watch since before you even got pregnant i loved all your content never complained but i really really loved the more professional partying/diy videos i still cant believe so many ppl didnt like it i watch all your platforms and love everything you post
When the weekly vlogs came back i was so sad to see the newer exciting content go i still watch them cause i like you and your videos i will watch them but i know what you mean we know every thing we are going to see every time you upload one i think maybe do what you love to do and your new following and the ppl who actually love any content you post will still be there
I watch all your videos every single one but sometimes i have to get up to date now cause i know what to expect from them but i will continue to watch and support all of them
Been loving the reels and tiktok i love the era of DIY i love watching you go into this hobby to me it is apart of the story but maybe i could care less bout marriage or babies when it aint mine lmfaooo
The pressure people put on you to find a partner is so annoying to READ as a viewer, I can’t imagine what it feels like to have it be directed at me, I’m so sorry. I’m sure it is frustrating because you built your empire and made a beautiful life for yourself BY YOURSELF. Can we stop centering men, please?
I’m here for the journey. I actually think that life is full of changes. Just as we grow and evolve so do our interests. I’m not a DIY girly, but I enjoy watching you learn and develop a know skill. The key word in “lifestyle content “ is LIFE. I truly watch your content for the vibe. I’m loving the short content and the IG lives. Podcasts are a great way to get to know people and engage with them on another level. Keep doing YOU! Just let me know where to find the content and I’m there. ❤❤❤❤
I love all of your content and I also appreciate the evolution. I, too, respect the fact that your child isn’t the center of your content. I love the DIYs and party planning. You are relatable. You show that moms can be good moms and also have their own hobbies and interests outside and away from their kids. I know people ask, but don’t feel pressured to get married bc that’s the “next step.” For some people, it’s not. And that’s ok. A lot of people find themselves in a marriage they don’t want to be in bc they thought that’s what they were supposed to do. This is such a good conversation bc I know you’re not the only one who feels this pressure ❤
I have to say Ive enjoyed your journey so far, the ups downs the deals the rants, literally your an inspiration gurl. I do want you to find romantic love and live happily ever after but right now you’re exactly where you need to be.
As an OG, this was very eye opening. I’ve always genuinely just enjoyed hanging out with you. I do be on the TikTok lives and you’re right lol. I personally find the vlogs no matter what’s going on relaxing but I totally get it. I have the same passions as you so I’m good either way. We will ride on whatever platform. We just want you to be happy.
Thanks for your rant, I have a new found respect for vloggers. I can’t imagine having to have to always think of the next big thing, you can’t just settle and enjoy the life you built like normal people. I can’t imagine my value being tied to such superficial things. Either way, you are doing great and love you sticking to your values and doing things that bring you joy!
I really hate this for you sis!!!! And I as an og subscriber I really appreciate that your content is so organic and sometimes in shambles and hectic! You were talking about an air bnb type fun house that’s something that ifs it’s still a goal would be different I was excited when you said that! If not a goal anymore then I’ll be here no matter what 💜 from a 35 yr old no children unmarried woman I totally understand the pressures
I personally love the DIY videos and similar things the most, so inspiring. DIY vlogs and planning too. I don't understand why people can't/don't want to accept your personal life. Love from Germany 💕
I think you are on a journey though. I see the move away from vlogging to diy and navigating a different niche as a journey in of itself. I've enjoyed this journey you are on... It interest me because not only is it entertaining and inspiring to see the diys, it is also a mind floss to see content outside of same old same old. We've been watching lifestyle, mommy, couple, family vlogs for decades. To be honest it gets boring from time to time to see the same formula on repeat. Furthermore, it's intriguing and informative to see you navigating and hearing you being forthcoming about the business of youtube and its challenges. I find myself truly rooting for your success. So yeah, to me this is absolutely a journey!
I’m a silent viewer, been watching you for a longgg time. And this is my second time commenting: I’ve been married for 14 years. I am in a happy and healthy marriage. Not one day have I said I wish u had relationship/married content: I love that you are you. I love that you are very specific in your vlogs. A lot of other vlogs the TH-camrs are not specific or detailed in what they are saying. I think you are hard on yourself because you’re a perfectionist. Which is normal, but I think some of those comments you’re talking about have taking a tole/ you might also just be at that age where you yourself want something else. And it might be a partner which is fine. However most TH-camrs I watch that do show partners, I find boring: I don’t think it’s genuine. I love the authenticity in your TH-cam. Another thing I don’t always get notified when you upload: and I def clicked to notify me: that might be another thing. Regardless I enjoy your TH-cam channel a lot. I enjoy your ig I don’t go on TikTok much but when I do, it’s only for you. Mental health is wealth, so please take care ❤of yourself
Thank you for being so transparent, open, and honest over the years. Sometimes life is just "blah" and we can't explain it. I really recommend considering talking to a therapist (maybe a cool female therapist) who can help you map out your thoughts and bring in a new, unbiased perspective.
I am so happy you bought this back. I'm 29, and I feel like I'm in the same boat. I get frustrated that people are asking questions that they struggle to answer themselves. It lacks creativity and creates anxiety. It takes a lot of talking yourself through the seeds you have planted, and just waiting for God to water them. People really do act like people chose to be single knowing the options are rough that come across their plate. People also act like choosing a partner isn't a huge decision that you should not rush into. It's important to figure out this piece of your life too (adapting to career , hobbies, wants, needs, etc. changes) BEFORE getting into a relationship, so that dissatisfaction isn't the focal point of the relationship. The struggle with figuring things out is not going to go away just because you find someone. You want to find the right one. A partner is a component of life not life itself, and that is where most people keep messing up. Great episode. You are not alone, and we will figure it out!!
I have wondered about what you are saying about being "tired" of vlogging. Everyone grows and changes but when this thing is your job, can you afford to get tired of it. That doesn't change the fact that you are tired. There are other folks that I follow and have followed for years...some just fall away without saying anything and some push through and you can tell they're a little tired. Thanks for talking about it. Praying for a solution that works for you and your family.
I started following you because of your diys on TH-cam and subscribed because it was cool to see you be creative. I didn’t even realize that people were being that invasive on TH-cam. It’s fascinating to listen in on your thought process as a creator and I do hope people evolve. I think your diy content is dope and inspiring.
Don’t allow the pressure to vlog get to you just because that’s what people want to see, at the end of the day do what brings happiness to you. I believe that TH-cam was so much more authentic when TH-camrs did it out of pure passion and not solely focusing on the views, algorithm and the money. I love the authentic sit down talks and the real vulnerable moments that is what makes you, you
I’ve been watching you since you had the baby the acne and so forth. There will be lulls that’s life. I feel like a proud auntie. Wishing you so much success
Hang in there Raven I can DEFINITELY relate to you on this topic. Just feeling like a black hole in life and damn society saying a “Man” is needed to fill that hole! BS
I so appreciate your candidness. I think you are so very descent and honestly down to earth woman. I think how your life has evolved speaks to a journey rights of passage etc that is guided by you putting one foot in front of the other. You are settled and are maintaining. Having a man is not what you need. Doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be nice to have a partner. But you have managed without one and with your family support system. I really get a lot from your content since I started watching after Zi ya was born. You motivate me to get up and do things in my home and with my writing. You will figure out your next chapter. ❤
Hey hello hi. Silent viewer here. I’m someone that joined the YT crew when you bought your new home simply because I love the creative process of designing and putting a home together. I then stuck around because of the personality lol, but I now LOVE your new lane of DIY because I enjoy watching any creative process and seeing it come to life. Simply just wanted to say, I hope you can find some peace in the fact that your people are out there and will continue to find you - even if it seems to be a hella slow process on YT. I know easier said than done, but don’t let the people who don’t enjoy this evolving part of yourself keep you back in a place that doesn’t bring you joy. Negativity will always seem louder but they will eventually (hopefully lol) move on if the content no longer serves them which will make room for the community that supports and enjoys it. 💕 As someone who was and is also feeling hella “blah” lately, hoping you find that new passion you’re looking for - cuz same, sis lol.
From this podcast and the last I was surprised people didn't like your diy/party planning. I actually started following you right when you were building your house and I'm a single mom but don't like the "Mommy vlogs" . My own selfishness wants to to stay on TH-cam but I get your growth and am here for it.
Your DIY and hosting content is 🔥! And yes, you can definitely be a successful blogger without a husband. Continue to focus on what you want to share with us and what makes you happy and the audience will follow. For those who want to be difficult, they can go kick rocks, lol. You can’t please everyone smh Love ❤️ your content!
I guess 2024 was tough for everyone lol. But I love that your content is not male centered, NEVER CHANGE! And my personal opinion is that relationships shouldn’t be content, it almost never ends well. I love that you and your creativity is the star of the show. Keep it that way!
I’m super interested in the landlord journey!! Definitely a future goal of mine to buy properties and rent out so I’d love that to come back more. I’m about to be a first time mommy so I’m gonna rewatch all your old videos again ❤ been here since almost day 1 and I love you no matter what you do or share
I feel like it never ends. People do love drama they just keep wanting more no matter what. I’m been watching your channel since you were in college. The journey has been amazing. I’m not saying the views won’t hit a high if you get married but where does it end? At what cost of what you want? Be real with what you want outside of what’s popular in the content world. It’s change babes you have to know what your change should be. If you’re not relatable you grew hun. If people don’t like that then they’re not your audience any longer.
Even in my real life the way people treat me at work/my likability skyrocketed when I got into a new relationship. I was single for all of my twenties and now I’m 29 and the most interesting thing to everybody 😂😂
Totally understand. One point you may have missed is sometimes people are invested in one’s life. So as soon as they post they are going to watch! I do think as long as it’s organic and you want to share share. Host, throw parties, get really with me, hauls, be a landlord, clean with me organize, budgets. If you do go on a date or out with friends film a portion of it. There is so much content someone in your position could provide if that’s truely what you want to do. Women are so multifaceted. I would love to see you tap into your fashion. You got this girl.
I said it before and I’ll say it again. I like Raven in general. Just as a personality. Like we could be friends IRL 😂 That’s why I watch your content. But also I just admire your talent. You are multi-faceted and I enjoy watching that. But not everyone is here for that and I understand. I genuinely only watch people I truly enjoy all around so my opinion may be subjective in that way.
Raven! I’ve been watching you since you were in college! I’m from Dfw area too and was around the same graduating year as you! But just saying all that to say that I am so proud to see your journey and far you came! You are such an inspiration as others have also agreed! I hope to see you get your happy ending!
I think I’m definitely in the minority in that I follow you for you! I enjoy your energy and vibe and honestly I would watch you commentate on a paint drying competition. My first video of yours was one from years ago when you opened up about your mental health after a hospital stay and I had never felt so seen by a creator. Personally, I’m along for the ride for whatever you do next and as a 30 something year old woman who is focused on career and not family, I love that your content is focused on your joy and hobbies and passion and not family.
I’m so excited for the future of this for you Raven 💞 I just know you’re going to continue to embolden in the way that is true and real to you. I’m just haaapppy UGH im so happy for you, bc I’ve been watching since I was a teenager and we’re all kinda just. Growing and branching out in a bunch of different directions. But anywho, keep being you and figuring out who that is. We love you girl 💐
I love you Raven and have always been a fan of your content! Your vulnerability in this episode is so admirable and is why you’ve had such a loyal and solid following. I know you said you won’t do certain things just for the sake of content, which I totally agree with. Just listening to this sounds like you’ve hit a plateau in your self growth and I could definitely relate to this myself being single and not having those big milestones. I think going on a self re-discovery journey would be super beneficial for you and your wellbeing. It has certainly helped me. Maybe do try to shift things up a little in your life and try things out side of your comfort zone. I know you’ve built such an amazing and wonderful life for yourself, and it’s so easy to be comfortable where you’re currently at, but maybe this could nudge you to open up your world a bit. Even if it’s not for the content.
Wow, you hit the nail on the head. This past year I’ve been struggling mentally and it’s because there is no new excitement. It’s the now what? I finished school and have a job in the profession I’ve always wanted. I have a dog. I’ve travelled the world. I can do anything I want. But it’s like what am I working towards now? I’ve reached my goals so now I feel stagnant. I question what’s next. Idk and that’s what scares me
This is all so true. I was so annoyed at the ppl in Sadie's comments that were so happy she showed her new man. Like...her content was awesome before she had that man
This part of the journey is called contentment and I can relate. I am a single mom with a great career and life is content and steady and peaceful. Rest in it!
i’m so happy the podcast are back. i’ve been subscribed forever and i just love hearing raven talk. her over the topness is the one thing i look forward to having a virgo daughter lol
I have certain content creators I will always support and you are one of them. If I happened to not like the content which hasn't happened I would watch it anyways in the background. I think putting expectations on creators is kind of unfair. Your channel and the other people I support post content based on what they want to do and thats what I will continue to support. I think alot of people need to be way more mindful of their comments and questions as frankly sometimes its just not nice. I appreciate your content so much so whatever you post is what I'm watching lol
Watching this has made me realize I need to engage more. I love the diy and party content. And yes, I love to see you just living life but as you said the numbers don't lie. But know it's some of us here for just you not the storyline. ❤
I don’t find your videos because of you being a mom. My sister was watching you first, because you and her had your daughters at the same time. But I started to watch when you started posting diy and parties. I appreciate your honesty and realness out side of you being a mom because society says all of that stuff you said. You hit every point society claims your life is moving forward. You are Raven before any of those other titles, which means you’re a fashion designer, artist, outspoken, etc. You are not alone and thank you for your rants. ❤😊 Can’t wait for the next pod.
Hey Raven! We actually met at culture on last year and I was truly inspired. Your podcast was suggested to me and this was very relatable. Im currently also in the space of not feeling happy about life and im grateful that bigger creators such as yourself can be vulnerable and share that even though you’ve reached heights that we think will change everything, there can still be days that are hard. I’m sorry that you have to experience the hard days and am glad you have this outlet and your creative journeys to explore
I’m a OG subscriber for you & alliyah. But tbh your channel is the one I find myself constantly checking and keeping up with. Definitely one of the followers that don’t care what you have going on. & if people have been around since the beginning they know you always did DIY before being a mom. For a women who maybe haven’t found love yet, the not so traditional girls still pushing thru with life your content is relatable
20:31 i think this is where it transitioned to you ENJOYING your house , that has been very much apart of the journey.. watching you enjoy your home and body parties. but i understand not everybody loves the party planning and people are still searching for the next big update.
I totally understand the appeal of the short form audience. BUT , and this is my opinion, I think it's a sense of building an audience all over again. New people are getting introduced to the content you want to make now and love it, but once you want to move on or change that content it will be the same. Because like youtube you "condition" them in a sense to expect that content. The die hards are the ones that will stick and grow with you. Growth isn't linear. I've been with RE TV since the makeup and hair tutorials. It may be hard see that the numbers aren't always going up, but the audience you want WILL find you. 10 years ago you probably wouldn't have even thought about a sponsorship with Home Depot now look at you.
I’ll miss the TH-cam DIY videos but I understand! Please keep doing DIY stuff on short form content ❤ take care of yourself! I’m a single girl on my own and I find you so relatable!!
I’ve been a subscriber since you were in hs/college DIYing the hoodie with grommets lol my favorite content of yours is definitely the DIY things and the podcast. like most og supporters I’ll watch all eras of RETV and I don’t have TikTok so TH-cam is where I watch you the most. I think the podcast and diy content is where you appear to be more free
as an OG subscriber, i was a fan of the vlog with your friends and family. The gatherings, The cooking segment and the appartment styling. I was less interested in the Mom Vlogs but it’s was fun to see you grow and achieve your dreams (house, diys and sponsorship with walmart or target). I think that your House content was ahead of his time, because people were watching HGTV for that type of content and less TH-cam (as i can remember).
So I normally don’t post but I’ve been watching for years now. Not one of the OGs but definitely quite some time now from when Ziya was a baby. Anyways - I’m glad I watched until the end of the podcast because a lot of what you said really hit home. I’m 35 and accomplished quite a bit in my 20s. I was always grinding. Leveling up in promotions, bought my first house (a triplex) at 26, lots of traveling, fitness journey, relationship was great at the time… then 2020 came I really decided to step back from my high stress job and find something more 9-5. Now, as I watch my peers hit a lot of the milestones you’re speaking of, I’m kind of like… what’s next for me? I feel like I’ve been coasting from about 2021 too. Obviously I’m not a content creator LOL but I decided to live with purpose in 2025 and make multiple small goals across 5 areas - finance, wellness, professional, travel, personal and work towards them. It’s given me a new sense of purpose this year. I absolutely love watching your content, PARTICULARLY the DIY/hosting content. I bought the ebook as well! I’m not sure if you’ve considered it but maybe a YT channel just for your DIYs? This audience as you’ve said came from a different time and not everyone evolves in the same way. But just as you’ve found new followers on TT and IG around DIY content, there’s millions of people on YT who love that content. I follow quite a few creators who do that solely. I love the stuff you do with your Cricut, etc. I want to learn more about that. Anyways, sorry for the ramble! Just wanted to post that you are not alone, a lot of us are struggling to figure out next steps and you being vulnerable and posting about this IS relatable and IS a “life update” and we appreciate it, and we appreciate YOU. 💕
I’ve been following you on TH-cam since you were in college, and I like that the content has been changing up and I love this DIY era. Honestly, content creators who only do X or only do Y, I get bored of eventually and always end up unfollowing. I believe you are the only creator I’ve consistently followed & watched for YEARS. I will admit, I’m mostly a silent viewer, I’ve commented here and there but I usually don’t. So I’m sorry that the negative comments & vibes have taken over, when there are people like me who genuinely enjoy the current content… just silently. 💜
I feel you Raven. Maybe it's now time to try the journey inward. That's one of the most important things now. I can understand about having a platform and having to keep up with the 'joneses' Believe me I'm not giving you any crazy advice, just saying that I can understand that the 'material' is no longer fulfilling. I sometimes think of going to an Ashram lol! Keep pushing through, you will find out, the journey never ends.
I think it goes without saying that having to show up for work when you are uninspired by the requested tasks is difficult. Your content has evolved from beauty/hair/fashion to mom/travel/home/business/brand. I think many who may have only been here for a piece of those things may not see how your current delivery is relevant to their needs. I personally enjoy the DIY in short form because it’s a little more instant gratification if all the videos have been posted. I truly believe you will figure it out or as you have things to share you can figure out. Even an idea like showing the BTS of content creation, providing party planning consulting or new business ventures is “milestone” content. At the core of what ppl are asking for is the stripped down everyday who is Raven content weaved into what you are passionate about.
I’m actually so surprised to hear that the audience wasn’t feeling the diy and hosting content. It has been my favorite era from you by far!
By far my favorite era . I love watching the process of planning the party . It’s honestly inspirational
Same! i love this era.
I don’t get it either.
Same!!! I'm trying to plan a wedding reception, and the DIYs are SAVING ME! I feel I can do anything now lol
I agree i love it
Im an og subscriber. As someone who is also creative and has absolutely no interest in seeing women go down the path of revolving their entire lives around men and having children, I thoroughly enjoy your diy/party planning content. It's nice to see women share interests and hobbies that aren't limited by patriarchy or money
I enjoy your content because you’re not following the same traditional path of getting married, having a bunch of kids. I love seeing a single woman pursue her hobbies, do arts and crafts! That is what is exciting for me to watch. Please keep doing you Raven I admire you so much you’re an inspo to me!
Agreed!
So interesting that no one really cared when you got your investment property I loveeeedddd that content and loved seeing you make boss moves and diversifying your income I’ve always wanted more content on it
This is a great topic. Quick observation …Aaliyah’s face content blew up during covid era/ after she purchased her home in Atlanta. She also did a bunch of luxury, soft girl, fitness topics which garnered her a huge audience. She was originally a makeup based TH-camr but transitioned to lifestyle. She never really shared her relationship and her audience didn’t really care, but would record date night Grwm, or cook at home with me, walked her dog, car vlogs, getting her hair done, nails done and taking the audience along ..etc (relatable content) and still somehow made the vlogs entertaining. I think the goal for TH-cam that most ppl miss is to do it for the plot, but to also still connect with your audience.
Of course every minute of every vlog isn't going to be some huge update or a big next step in life, so I know that she definitely incorporates the more mundane or routine aspects of her life too... but I find that her content does have a consistent cadence of updates or the overall feeling of forward progress and newness. She has done a great job of keeping her viewers on a journey. Keeping things exciting. Moving, getting fit, dating, traveling, leveling up her life. It's never JUST walking the dog and getting nails done, which was my point. But I agree, her personality and way of connecting with her viewers is a HUGE reason why she's so successful. You can't discredit that part at all! I think both aspects are equally important in this niche.
She did share her relationship and had her boyfriend on her channel. She was constantly going out, traveling, trying new restaurants, visiting family for holidays, she’s moved a few times and she’s bicoastal. She changed her home decor a lot and she had several updates about her home and life. Ravens life isn’t as busy and inclined.
Hiii I just want to say, It’s okay to want love and a healthy relationship at the same time my friend.. You don’t have to struggle about that. It is natural, but you can go on without it b/c It will come! You deserve everything great including love and a happily ever after in that area. It’s going to work out ❤️
Hi Raven, my name is mommy Green. I love watching vlogs I love walking podcast,
Hi Raven, my name is mommy Green. I love watching vlogs I love walking podcast,
The next big thing IS the journey.Take us with you while you figure it out. Try new hobbies, become a mentor, volunteer... sometimes it's not what you do.. but who you can help in the process.
This is the key, don’t figure it out… then come back. Take us on the journey! That’s what the TH-camrs that I watch do.
Don’t leave us over here. I follow you across platforms and I enjoy all your content…no matter what you do or where you do it. So glad you are finding the confidence to ignore the naysayers and complainers. Do what makes you happy.
Cooking is always exciting! Raven's Ratchet Kitchen is NEVER boring! I could always watch those like a Raven's Ratchet Kitchen (cooking with friends) for vlogs edition😄
It’s crazy I been watching you since the college vlogs and I feel like we have grown up together. I love all the content you upload. Keep being authentically you and do what you love doing!❤
My knee jerk reaction to you saying mundane vlogs don’t work in long form content was that you were projecting but after listening to you explain further and give examples I actually do agree. When I think about it, I do love the mundane/routine vlogs BUT not from people I don’t already know/have followed along their journey. The ‘boring’ 45 minute long content only entertains me from someone that I’ve watched for years and have rode the ride with them. A quick, 1-3 minute TikTok of a routine day from some unknown person, sure, I’ll definitely look if it pops up on my FYP. And I think that’s the part that new creators that are on TT/IG that do have big success are struggling with as they are now trying to move their audience to YT in case of a ban and they aren’t getting the engagement they are used to seeing. In other words, you cannot be boring in long form content if we weren’t shooting with you in the gym 😂😂
Yes! You explained this perfectly! Creators have to ask themselves... WHY would someone care? Either your content is very interesting on it's own, or people are interested because they're invested. And it can be hard to get people invested like that.
@ I also yelled CLOCK IT at the 35+ minute mark! You are more than a mother and I cannot believe people are tuning out/disinterested because they don’t see a man and more kids in your life. You’re doing SO MUCH MORE! You are LIVING! I’m also not a fan of exploiting your family for clicks so I completely agree with you not centering your content around Ziya. I have enjoyed seeing her grow up of course and I will be SAT if and when you do decide you want to “settle down” with a man but that is not what I’m waiting for nor am I expecting that. A woman is so much more than a wife and offspring maker. I think you’re seeing the difference in the TT vs YT world because TT is heavily Gen Z and YT is mostly millennial and the values are wildly different between the two age groups. And this is coming from a married mother 😂
I feel like this is an example of why being an “influencer” and the weight it has on your mental health needs to be heavily studied because I can’t think of many other demanding professions in which you cannot separate your personal life from your career because this is mind blowing to me and kind of saddening that majority of your personal life is dependent on your income something about that is not right to me but yet here we are watching and commenting and liking idk it’s all maddening kinda
I just love the drama-free, driven, ambitious person you are, hence a loyal follower. I look at Amazon storefront first to see if what I want to buy can help support you. So yeah, loyal follower. What I would like to see more of is your real-estate investment journey. I hope that is growing. I am also invested in watching both you and Ziya grow, so an occasional appearance from here is also appreciated.
I left a comment on Spotify about what I think about the content, but I wanted to leave a comment about the “being relatable” thing. To piggyback on your example, Aaliyah stopped being “relatable” a long time ago, there’s a reason we still follow her and still get excited to watch her content. It’s enjoyable, she does what she wants to do and we can see that she enjoys whatever is that she’s doing, and we like it. She doesn’t over share, she posts whenever she has time to post and we still tune in every time.
You have to leave space for nuance in these conversations. You as one viewer can't speak for her entire audience either. I don't disagree with your point at all...but I've seen with my own eyes people complain about her "lack of relatability" and say it made them stop watching her...while at the same time I obviously see her continued success. What I'm saying is, all of our observations can be true at the same time. Success on youtube is about much more than just "being yourself and having fun with it"...if it was THAT easy, everyone would do it. I could do a whole episode just analyzing what exactly makes Aaliyah's channel successful. There's definitely layers to it, and strategy. The way you described it is kinda dumbing it down and making it sound like "all you gotta do is...!" and that's where I kinda disagree.
OG fan here! I’ve been watching since your days at UNT and have followed your journey ever since. I’ll admit, not all of your content resonates with me, but I still tune in because I genuinely admire how you’ve built so much-your business, your community, your personal growth, and more. It’s inspiring to see your evolution and to learn from your journey. You’ve shown me how to aim higher, beyond just finding a partner. Your family support, your strategies, and the way you celebrate life-it all means so much. Thank you for sharing your growth with us! ❤
You have absolutely valid points about the comments bothering you because there's so much personal truth to it. Also because you can't keep up with the other bloggers the way you use too, or should be able to, I totally understand you on that. That takes a lot of honest soul searching, to make peace with that moving forward. You said the same thing over and over for an hour, I know you'll figure this out!
Literally the same thing😂😭! For basically two podcast episodes…
I agree. She mentioned something like competition with Allyiah and I think that’s where the problem starts. Although I feel raven started the lifestyle vlogging and following “the journey” era, I feel vloggers like Kirah, Allyiah and Chelsie took off during the pandemic because people were home, bored and they were new faces with a different approach. All of them have their own lane that works for them. And those ladies have a different lifestyle from raven as it relates to her being a mother, more settled in, homeowner, etc while the other girls are trying to figure it out, kid less and traveling the world. I pray everything works out for the best for her. I’ve always admired ravens hustle. Heyyyy maybe it’s time to retire and just enjoy the fruits of her labor. We sometimes forget that that’s a thing. Especially when you are goal oriented.
You can’t be for everyone but those who you are for appreciate you.
Also, travel would be another thing that would be exciting and us viewers could live vicariously.
I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way Raven. Take your time and figure things out, you don’t really owe any one of these apps your personal business , but we thank you for sharing. That relationship thing.. whew!! Please don’t feel pressured, it will happen when it happens. I love your content and whatever route you take we are here to support you! ❤
Lol Chef Toni "I'm sorry but your videos are boring !" 😆😆🤣
I watch vloggers for their personality… not really for what they do in their day. I like to hear their opinions, see funny moments ect. I don’t need a big journey to stay locked in. But that’s just me.
I don't really know the youtubers that you mentioned because i only watch your videos . Raven , dont listen to them. Do/ show what you enjoy doing . Im sorry about the negative comments. You are a very creative person, and if people dont like that , thats on them😅I saw your recent Christmas
video only has 84k views, but just know that i enjoy your content ❤
It’s fascinating hearing your perspective and the examples you provided because I actually don’t watch the specific vlog when the content creator starts bombarding us with boyfriend/husband content (and this coming from a married woman 🤭). I don’t have an interest in the romantic relationship because it’s never comes across authentic so I don’t even bother. I absolutely love your diy and hosting content… that’s what I’m passionate about as well. So just know I’ll STILL be tuning in. “I hate that the relationship unlocks the door” PREACH!!!! Meanwhile, I be skipping those vids because I become a subscriber for the WOMEN’s personality, passion, and interests not for the romanticized fantasy of the heterosexual relationship. Side note: I commend you on not going against your principles just for the sake of “content” by explicitly intimate moments with your child or family. Being a successful content creator as a primary source of income is not easy. Much respect Raven for your level of integrity. ALSO, have ever considered purchasing a commercial property to be used an event space? Event/wedding venues industry is such a low maintenance business and people would pay to have their next event at a “hall” curated by you… just sharing an idea 😊
I think a lot of people agree with you on not really seeking out the boyfriend content. If you follow the woman, you stay for the woman, not her man. BUT when the woman becomes a girlfriend or a wife (or even a mom) SHE becomes "more interesting" because HER life now has new paths to take...which I think is interesting to the viewer and THAT'S the real appeal behind it. Maybe you wouldn't care to see my boyfriend himself, but what about the new house we bought together that i'm now working on furnishing? I think it's more about that domino effect of the way it might affect my life and routine and new adventures. - About the event space: I've gotten that suggestion a ton, even from my own mom, but I'm afraid that business isn't as low maintenance or high yielding as it seems and it's not something I feel passionate about so I'm worried it would just be a lot of added stress for little return. But who knows!
I think it depends on your audience. For example the people who followed her from college were probably in college as well, they got jobs, moved in with boyfriends/ husbands, had kids and they grew with her. It could be that the same people are now busy with kids and don’t have time to watch videos anymore. And I’m saying that because I have kids now and don’t watch lifestyles videos the way I used to before I had kids. 31 is when people start settling and building their life, fortunately for her it happened earlier. People are asking if she is moving because probably they are building their homes and are looking for search content
Happy for this consistency, because I genuinely enjoy your podcasts so much
When you were living downtown Dallas grocery shopping etc. I had a boyfriend & my frontal lobe hadn’t developed yet & thought damn Raven just not gonna have a man? But as we got older & now that we’re in our 30’s I realize that you were ahead of the game my friend. I’ve always respected how you took control of your life early on & have accomplished so much as the boss. Society might not catch up soon as it is still very much male centered and women are expected to struggle but you should be proud. You are that girl❤
Also I love that “the next chapter” in your life is just pursuing your hobbies and living your life ❤
I’m an OG subscriber from the end of college/loft days and have loved your content since then. I watch both you and Alliyah and I’d say the biggest difference with your channels is the DIY content is very niche while Alliyah has a more broad approach to her content. She’s private but still shares A LOT of her day to day wins, struggles, etc. that keeps her interesting despite having big life events. I think big life updates are interesting to most but I don’t think it’s the most important thing that keeps an audience. I enjoyed when you shared your day to day and just enjoy your personality in general. I think with the DIY content you as a person are less of the focus and it’s harder to connect or be interested when the content isn’t about you. If someone isn’t particularly interested in learning how to do said DIY project, I’m not sure if that would yield the same results as content about you on TH-cam specifically. I enjoy your content regardless and appreciated your perspective on this topic. As a non entitled viewer, I hope you are happy in whatever direction you take. You are still one of my favorite creators because you are genuine and THAT is what I think is the key to being a great creator ❤
It's so sad that ppl have such a small view of things that are interesting...a man, home, baby. Your DIY projects are what I love to see. I'm not much on the socials, I'm a youtube person. I want the work bench and the work tools and want to make all of the things. I hope society turns around and expands.
Sending you love and hugs regarding your mental health. Each day is a blessing but also a journey, glad you take time for you.
I’m on of the supporters that watch whatever you post raven 💕 love you
Yasss! You said you’d be consistent & wear pink. Thanks for giving me great content to watch for the next hour. 💕
I love that you NEVER FOLD plp go out and just date ANYONE marry ANYONE take your timeeeeeeee it's a dog eats dog world in these streets.
As someone who started a podcast with maybe 1200 followers across all my social media platforms this conversation was both very discouraging BUT also very motivating. It's opening my eye on how to create content and what people want to see!
OG here and I love all of your content! In my opinion, you stand out more because I literally view this as “Raven’s TV network.” There’s cooking, vlogging, DIY, home updates, travel, hosting, Ziya, property management, podcasts, you get the picture. You stand out because of your willingness to pivot and make it professional. I’m always looking for that 12 o’clock video drop. Like you said in one of your tic tok lives, I’d watch your video even if it was just you chillin on the couch watching tv lol. I think social media has really warped society’s brain where some don’t have the bandwidth to watch a video more than 3 minutes; much less having some outrageous attention grabbing content. I also think that society feels as if influencers are the new “entertainment” since celebrities are overrated (my strongest opinion). I definitely see how this could overwhelm you and I’m all for the breaks, but please don’t leave us ❤. Side note: you set bar real high on these birthday parties 😂.
i’ve been watching you since before you had ziya and i will say the thing we tuned in for is your transparency and rawness: you showed your acne journey, navigating being a single mom, family dynamics with having them work with you, developing friendships with other creatives. NOW you’re not as transparent with those things and it makes us feel like you’re on a personal journey that we aren’t a part of anymore. yes being a DIY/Home improvement girl is a journey but it feels like only a fraction of your life that’s done only for content and not as organic/authentic as the real life things. ❤
This has put me on a diff perspective on influencers and creators as a whole. The internet will always be entertainment for us just like the radios and TV shows before the internet came out. It's tough out there..
I picked up everything you put down in this podcast!! Love it! Rooting for you Raven love how grounded and authentic you have remained over the years !!
That’s me! OG subscriber who has no expectations of you and will watch whatever you post bcuz I like your vibe! We could lowkey be friends in real life bcuz of your personality.
As a person who watch since before you even got pregnant i loved all your content never complained but i really really loved the more professional partying/diy videos i still cant believe so many ppl didnt like it i watch all your platforms and love everything you post
When the weekly vlogs came back i was so sad to see the newer exciting content go i still watch them cause i like you and your videos i will watch them but i know what you mean we know every thing we are going to see every time you upload one i think maybe do what you love to do and your new following and the ppl who actually love any content you post will still be there
I watch all your videos every single one but sometimes i have to get up to date now cause i know what to expect from them but i will continue to watch and support all of them
Been loving the reels and tiktok i love the era of DIY i love watching you go into this hobby to me it is apart of the story but maybe i could care less bout marriage or babies when it aint mine lmfaooo
I actually appreciate you not including Ziya in everything. You’re so much more than just a mommy.
The pressure people put on you to find a partner is so annoying to READ as a viewer, I can’t imagine what it feels like to have it be directed at me, I’m so sorry. I’m sure it is frustrating because you built your empire and made a beautiful life for yourself BY YOURSELF. Can we stop centering men, please?
I’m here for the journey. I actually think that life is full of changes. Just as we grow and evolve so do our interests. I’m not a DIY girly, but I enjoy watching you learn and develop a know skill. The key word in “lifestyle content “ is LIFE. I truly watch your content for the vibe. I’m loving the short content and the IG lives. Podcasts are a great way to get to know people and engage with them on another level. Keep doing YOU! Just let me know where to find the content and I’m there. ❤❤❤❤
I love all of your content and I also appreciate the evolution. I, too, respect the fact that your child isn’t the center of your content. I love the DIYs and party planning. You are relatable. You show that moms can be good moms and also have their own hobbies and interests outside and away from their kids. I know people ask, but don’t feel pressured to get married bc that’s the “next step.” For some people, it’s not. And that’s ok. A lot of people find themselves in a marriage they don’t want to be in bc they thought that’s what they were supposed to do. This is such a good conversation bc I know you’re not the only one who feels this pressure ❤
I have to say Ive enjoyed your journey so far, the ups downs the deals the rants, literally your an inspiration gurl. I do want you to find romantic love and live happily ever after but right now you’re exactly where you need to be.
As an OG, this was very eye opening. I’ve always genuinely just enjoyed hanging out with you. I do be on the TikTok lives and you’re right lol. I personally find the vlogs no matter what’s going on relaxing but I totally get it. I have the same passions as you so I’m good either way. We will ride on whatever platform. We just want you to be happy.
Thanks for your rant, I have a new found respect for vloggers. I can’t imagine having to have to always think of the next big thing, you can’t just settle and enjoy the life you built like normal people. I can’t imagine my value being tied to such superficial things. Either way, you are doing great and love you sticking to your values and doing things that bring you joy!
I'm loving the podcast return and its authenticity!!! Even if you stop your main channel, please keep this one.
I really hate this for you sis!!!! And I as an og subscriber I really appreciate that your content is so organic and sometimes in shambles and hectic! You were talking about an air bnb type fun house that’s something that ifs it’s still a goal would be different I was excited when you said that! If not a goal anymore then I’ll be here no matter what 💜 from a 35 yr old no children unmarried woman I totally understand the pressures
I personally love the DIY videos and similar things the most, so inspiring. DIY vlogs and planning too. I don't understand why people can't/don't want to accept your personal life. Love from Germany 💕
I think you are on a journey though. I see the move away from vlogging to diy and navigating a different niche as a journey in of itself. I've enjoyed this journey you are on... It interest me because not only is it entertaining and inspiring to see the diys, it is also a mind floss to see content outside of same old same old. We've been watching lifestyle, mommy, couple, family vlogs for decades. To be honest it gets boring from time to time to see the same formula on repeat. Furthermore, it's intriguing and informative to see you navigating and hearing you being forthcoming about the business of youtube and its challenges. I find myself truly rooting for your success. So yeah, to me this is absolutely a journey!
I’m a silent viewer, been watching you for a longgg time. And this is my second time commenting: I’ve been married for 14 years. I am in a happy and healthy marriage. Not one day have I said I wish u had relationship/married content: I love that you are you. I love that you are very specific in your vlogs. A lot of other vlogs the TH-camrs are not specific or detailed in what they are saying. I think you are hard on yourself because you’re a perfectionist. Which is normal, but I think some of those comments you’re talking about have taking a tole/ you might also just be at that age where you yourself want something else. And it might be a partner which is fine. However most TH-camrs I watch that do show partners, I find boring: I don’t think it’s genuine. I love the authenticity in your TH-cam. Another thing I don’t always get notified when you upload: and I def clicked to notify me: that might be another thing. Regardless I enjoy your TH-cam channel a lot. I enjoy your ig I don’t go on TikTok much but when I do, it’s only for you. Mental health is wealth, so please take care ❤of yourself
Thank you for being so transparent, open, and honest over the years. Sometimes life is just "blah" and we can't explain it. I really recommend considering talking to a therapist (maybe a cool female therapist) who can help you map out your thoughts and bring in a new, unbiased perspective.
I am so happy you bought this back. I'm 29, and I feel like I'm in the same boat. I get frustrated that people are asking questions that they struggle to answer themselves. It lacks creativity and creates anxiety. It takes a lot of talking yourself through the seeds you have planted, and just waiting for God to water them.
People really do act like people chose to be single knowing the options are rough that come across their plate. People also act like choosing a partner isn't a huge decision that you should not rush into. It's important to figure out this piece of your life too (adapting to career , hobbies, wants, needs, etc. changes) BEFORE getting into a relationship, so that dissatisfaction isn't the focal point of the relationship. The struggle with figuring things out is not going to go away just because you find someone. You want to find the right one. A partner is a component of life not life itself, and that is where most people keep messing up. Great episode. You are not alone, and we will figure it out!!
I have wondered about what you are saying about being "tired" of vlogging. Everyone grows and changes but when this thing is your job, can you afford to get tired of it. That doesn't change the fact that you are tired. There are other folks that I follow and have followed for years...some just fall away without saying anything and some push through and you can tell they're a little tired. Thanks for talking about it. Praying for a solution that works for you and your family.
I started following you because of your diys on TH-cam and subscribed because it was cool to see you be creative. I didn’t even realize that people were being that invasive on TH-cam. It’s fascinating to listen in on your thought process as a creator and I do hope people evolve. I think your diy content is dope and inspiring.
Don’t allow the pressure to vlog get to you just because that’s what people want to see, at the end of the day do what brings happiness to you. I believe that TH-cam was so much more authentic when TH-camrs did it out of pure passion and not solely focusing on the views, algorithm and the money. I love the authentic sit down talks and the real vulnerable moments that is what makes you, you
I’ve been watching you since you had the baby the acne and so forth. There will be lulls that’s life. I feel like a proud auntie. Wishing you so much success
Thank you opening up about your mental health. You are sooooo very loved Raven 🤎🤎
Hang in there Raven I can DEFINITELY relate to you on this topic. Just feeling like a black hole in life and damn society saying a “Man” is needed to fill that hole! BS
I so appreciate your candidness. I think you are so very descent and honestly down to earth woman. I think how your life has evolved speaks to a journey rights of passage etc that is guided by you putting one foot in front of the other. You are settled and are maintaining. Having a man is not what you need. Doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be nice to have a partner. But you have managed without one and with your family support system. I really get a lot from your content since I started watching after Zi ya was born. You motivate me to get up and do things in my home and with my writing. You will figure out your next chapter. ❤
Hey hello hi. Silent viewer here. I’m someone that joined the YT crew when you bought your new home simply because I love the creative process of designing and putting a home together. I then stuck around because of the personality lol, but I now LOVE your new lane of DIY because I enjoy watching any creative process and seeing it come to life. Simply just wanted to say, I hope you can find some peace in the fact that your people are out there and will continue to find you - even if it seems to be a hella slow process on YT. I know easier said than done, but don’t let the people who don’t enjoy this evolving part of yourself keep you back in a place that doesn’t bring you joy. Negativity will always seem louder but they will eventually (hopefully lol) move on if the content no longer serves them which will make room for the community that supports and enjoys it. 💕 As someone who was and is also feeling hella “blah” lately, hoping you find that new passion you’re looking for - cuz same, sis lol.
As an influencer marketer of 7 years - this was fascinating. Thank you for sharing your experience.
From this podcast and the last I was surprised people didn't like your diy/party planning. I actually started following you right when you were building your house and I'm a single mom but don't like the "Mommy vlogs" . My own selfishness wants to to stay on TH-cam but I get your growth and am here for it.
What you said about vlogging is so true. You wouldn't want to eat the same thing all the time.
Your DIY and hosting content is 🔥! And yes, you can definitely be a successful blogger without a husband. Continue to focus on what you want to share with us and what makes you happy and the audience will follow. For those who want to be difficult, they can go kick rocks, lol. You can’t please everyone smh
Love ❤️ your content!
I guess 2024 was tough for everyone lol. But I love that your content is not male centered, NEVER CHANGE! And my personal opinion is that relationships shouldn’t be content, it almost never ends well. I love that you and your creativity is the star of the show. Keep it that way!
I’m super interested in the landlord journey!! Definitely a future goal of mine to buy properties and rent out so I’d love that to come back more. I’m about to be a first time mommy so I’m gonna rewatch all your old videos again ❤ been here since almost day 1 and I love you no matter what you do or share
I feel like it never ends. People do love drama they just keep wanting more no matter what. I’m been watching your channel since you were in college. The journey has been amazing. I’m not saying the views won’t hit a high if you get married but where does it end? At what cost of what you want? Be real with what you want outside of what’s popular in the content world. It’s change babes you have to know what your change should be. If you’re not relatable you grew hun. If people don’t like that then they’re not your audience any longer.
Even in my real life the way people treat me at work/my likability skyrocketed when I got into a new relationship. I was single for all of my twenties and now I’m 29 and the most interesting thing to everybody 😂😂
Totally understand. One point you may have missed is sometimes people are invested in one’s life. So as soon as they post they are going to watch! I do think as long as it’s organic and you want to share share. Host, throw parties, get really with me, hauls, be a landlord, clean with me organize, budgets. If you do go on a date or out with friends film a portion of it. There is so much content someone in your position could provide if that’s truely what you want to do. Women are so multifaceted. I would love to see you tap into your fashion. You got this girl.
I said it before and I’ll say it again. I like Raven in general. Just as a personality. Like we could be friends IRL 😂 That’s why I watch your content. But also I just admire your talent. You are multi-faceted and I enjoy watching that. But not everyone is here for that and I understand. I genuinely only watch people I truly enjoy all around so my opinion may be subjective in that way.
Raven! I’ve been watching you since you were in college! I’m from Dfw area too and was around the same graduating year as you! But just saying all that to say that I am so proud to see your journey and far you came! You are such an inspiration as others have also agreed! I hope to see you get your happy ending!
I think I’m definitely in the minority in that I follow you for you! I enjoy your energy and vibe and honestly I would watch you commentate on a paint drying competition. My first video of yours was one from years ago when you opened up about your mental health after a hospital stay and I had never felt so seen by a creator. Personally, I’m along for the ride for whatever you do next and as a 30 something year old woman who is focused on career and not family, I love that your content is focused on your joy and hobbies and passion and not family.
I’m so excited for the future of this for you Raven 💞 I just know you’re going to continue to embolden in the way that is true and real to you. I’m just haaapppy UGH im so happy for you, bc I’ve been watching since I was a teenager and we’re all kinda just. Growing and branching out in a bunch of different directions.
But anywho, keep being you and figuring out who that is. We love you girl 💐
I love you Raven and have always been a fan of your content! Your vulnerability in this episode is so admirable and is why you’ve had such a loyal and solid following.
I know you said you won’t do certain things just for the sake of content, which I totally agree with. Just listening to this sounds like you’ve hit a plateau in your self growth and I could definitely relate to this myself being single and not having those big milestones.
I think going on a self re-discovery journey would be super beneficial for you and your wellbeing. It has certainly helped me.
Maybe do try to shift things up a little in your life and try things out side of your comfort zone. I know you’ve built such an amazing and wonderful life for yourself, and it’s so easy to be comfortable where you’re currently at, but maybe this could nudge you to open up your world a bit. Even if it’s not for the content.
It's great to see you back!
Wow, you hit the nail on the head. This past year I’ve been struggling mentally and it’s because there is no new excitement. It’s the now what? I finished school and have a job in the profession I’ve always wanted. I have a dog. I’ve travelled the world. I can do anything I want. But it’s like what am I working towards now? I’ve reached my goals so now I feel stagnant. I question what’s next. Idk and that’s what scares me
Oooh new thumbnail, so glad to see another episode!
This is all so true. I was so annoyed at the ppl in Sadie's comments that were so happy she showed her new man. Like...her content was awesome before she had that man
This part of the journey is called contentment and I can relate. I am a single mom with a great career and life is content and steady and peaceful. Rest in it!
i’m so happy the podcast are back. i’ve been subscribed forever and i just love hearing raven talk. her over the topness is the one thing i look forward to having a virgo daughter lol
I have certain content creators I will always support and you are one of them. If I happened to not like the content which hasn't happened I would watch it anyways in the background. I think putting expectations on creators is kind of unfair. Your channel and the other people I support post content based on what they want to do and thats what I will continue to support. I think alot of people need to be way more mindful of their comments and questions as frankly sometimes its just not nice. I appreciate your content so much so whatever you post is what I'm watching lol
Watching this has made me realize I need to engage more. I love the diy and party content. And yes, I love to see you just living life but as you said the numbers don't lie. But know it's some of us here for just you not the storyline. ❤
I don’t find your videos because of you being a mom. My sister was watching you first, because you and her had your daughters at the same time. But I started to watch when you started posting diy and parties. I appreciate your honesty and realness out side of you being a mom because society says all of that stuff you said. You hit every point society claims your life is moving forward. You are Raven before any of those other titles, which means you’re a fashion designer, artist, outspoken, etc. You are not alone and thank you for your rants. ❤😊 Can’t wait for the next pod.
I can see you developing your own line of kids linens, curtains and other home decor. Of course the journey would great for content.
Hey Raven! We actually met at culture on last year and I was truly inspired. Your podcast was suggested to me and this was very relatable. Im currently also in the space of not feeling happy about life and im grateful that bigger creators such as yourself can be vulnerable and share that even though you’ve reached heights that we think will change everything, there can still be days that are hard. I’m sorry that you have to experience the hard days and am glad you have this outlet and your creative journeys to explore
Your content conversations are very helpful. Thank you Miss Raven.✨
I’m a OG subscriber for you & alliyah. But tbh your channel is the one I find myself constantly checking and keeping up with. Definitely one of the followers that don’t care what you have going on. & if people have been around since the beginning they know you always did DIY before being a mom. For a women who maybe haven’t found love yet, the not so traditional girls still pushing thru with life your content is relatable
20:31 i think this is where it transitioned to you ENJOYING your house , that has been very much apart of the journey.. watching you enjoy your home and body parties. but i understand not everybody loves the party planning and people are still searching for the next big update.
I totally understand the appeal of the short form audience. BUT , and this is my opinion, I think it's a sense of building an audience all over again. New people are getting introduced to the content you want to make now and love it, but once you want to move on or change that content it will be the same. Because like youtube you "condition" them in a sense to expect that content. The die hards are the ones that will stick and grow with you. Growth isn't linear.
I've been with RE TV since the makeup and hair tutorials. It may be hard see that the numbers aren't always going up, but the audience you want WILL find you. 10 years ago you probably wouldn't have even thought about a sponsorship with Home Depot now look at you.
Yessss! Missed you Sunday! But happy the podcast is back!
Sooo excited for the podcast era ✨💕
I’ll miss the TH-cam DIY videos but I understand! Please keep doing DIY stuff on short form content ❤ take care of yourself! I’m a single girl on my own and I find you so relatable!!
I’ve been a subscriber since you were in hs/college DIYing the hoodie with grommets lol my favorite content of yours is definitely the DIY things and the podcast. like most og supporters I’ll watch all eras of RETV and I don’t have TikTok so TH-cam is where I watch you the most. I think the podcast and diy content is where you appear to be more free
13:29 that’s true but some I’m here for the food editing too. I do my best to support bc I really like your content and your personality
as an OG subscriber, i was a fan of the vlog with your friends and family. The gatherings, The cooking segment and the appartment styling. I was less interested in the Mom Vlogs but it’s was fun to see you grow and achieve your dreams (house, diys and sponsorship with walmart or target). I think that your House content was ahead of his time, because people were watching HGTV for that type of content and less TH-cam (as i can remember).
So I normally don’t post but I’ve been watching for years now. Not one of the OGs but definitely quite some time now from when Ziya was a baby. Anyways - I’m glad I watched until the end of the podcast because a lot of what you said really hit home. I’m 35 and accomplished quite a bit in my 20s. I was always grinding. Leveling up in promotions, bought my first house (a triplex) at 26, lots of traveling, fitness journey, relationship was great at the time… then 2020 came I really decided to step back from my high stress job and find something more 9-5. Now, as I watch my peers hit a lot of the milestones you’re speaking of, I’m kind of like… what’s next for me? I feel like I’ve been coasting from about 2021 too. Obviously I’m not a content creator LOL but I decided to live with purpose in 2025 and make multiple small goals across 5 areas - finance, wellness, professional, travel, personal and work towards them. It’s given me a new sense of purpose this year. I absolutely love watching your content, PARTICULARLY the DIY/hosting content. I bought the ebook as well! I’m not sure if you’ve considered it but maybe a YT channel just for your DIYs? This audience as you’ve said came from a different time and not everyone evolves in the same way. But just as you’ve found new followers on TT and IG around DIY content, there’s millions of people on YT who love that content. I follow quite a few creators who do that solely. I love the stuff you do with your Cricut, etc. I want to learn more about that. Anyways, sorry for the ramble! Just wanted to post that you are not alone, a lot of us are struggling to figure out next steps and you being vulnerable and posting about this IS relatable and IS a “life update” and we appreciate it, and we appreciate YOU. 💕
I’ve been following you on TH-cam since you were in college, and I like that the content has been changing up and I love this DIY era. Honestly, content creators who only do X or only do Y, I get bored of eventually and always end up unfollowing. I believe you are the only creator I’ve consistently followed & watched for YEARS. I will admit, I’m mostly a silent viewer, I’ve commented here and there but I usually don’t. So I’m sorry that the negative comments & vibes have taken over, when there are people like me who genuinely enjoy the current content… just silently. 💜
This is a word right here. Umkay!! You better preach Raven.
I feel you Raven. Maybe it's now time to try the journey inward. That's one of the most important things now. I can understand about having a platform and having to keep up with the 'joneses' Believe me I'm not giving you any crazy advice, just saying that I can understand that the 'material' is no longer fulfilling. I sometimes think of going to an Ashram lol! Keep pushing through, you will find out, the journey never ends.
I read before that it is easier to start something new than to "rebrand". Your sentiments sounds true to this. 39:50
I think it goes without saying that having to show up for work when you are uninspired by the requested tasks is difficult. Your content has evolved from beauty/hair/fashion to mom/travel/home/business/brand. I think many who may have only been here for a piece of those things may not see how your current delivery is relevant to their needs. I personally enjoy the DIY in short form because it’s a little more instant gratification if all the videos have been posted. I truly believe you will figure it out or as you have things to share you can figure out. Even an idea like showing the BTS of content creation, providing party planning consulting or new business ventures is “milestone” content. At the core of what ppl are asking for is the stripped down everyday who is Raven content weaved into what you are passionate about.