Frank Abagnale - FedTalks 2013

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  • @kuatiogui
    @kuatiogui 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6750

    should have started his speech with
    "my name is Frank Abagnale, that's Abagnale, not Abagnarle, not Abagnaile, but Abagnale."

  • @hannahkroeger2843
    @hannahkroeger2843 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5213

    He came to speak at my university this year and I kid you not - he gave the exact same speech there, word for word. He straight up has this entire thing memorized verbatim.

    • @isatche
      @isatche 8 ปีที่แล้ว +749

      +Hannah Kroeger He made the speech that way in order to utilize the time given and deliver the impact in a most optimal manner. I bet he had to re tell his story hundreds of times. It is well practiced and well rehearsed, but it doesn't make it any less inspiring.

    • @hannahkroeger2843
      @hannahkroeger2843 8 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Ivan Isakovic lol I wasn't saying it wasn't inspiring. I watched this video three times in a row because I love his story so much. I was just surprised the first time - I was expecting a different delivery. It's crazy to me that he has it memorized. Don't interpret everything as an attack. It was just an observed fact that I thought was interesting and a little mind blowing. Hop off, bro.

    • @AI-zo7gx
      @AI-zo7gx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Your saying he memorised a 30 min speech word for word? He's probably given that speech a hundred times by now, so it becomes more improv than anything.

    • @isatche
      @isatche 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      What do you think actors in theater plays do? Yes I think he memorized and repeated that speech hundreds of times

    • @ROGUESPIRIT_
      @ROGUESPIRIT_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      if you dont want him to interpret it as an attac dont deliver it as an attack. Your english is appauling

  • @airanator1212
    @airanator1212 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2156

    This dude is smooth as fuck when talking. No wonder his track record is so legendary.

    • @pwhnckexstflajizdryvombqug9042
      @pwhnckexstflajizdryvombqug9042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      This isn't the first time he gave this speech, although that said his memory and ability to think on his feet is astonishing.

    • @TheNamesArif
      @TheNamesArif 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well, he's the Frank

    • @mrnukes797
      @mrnukes797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Charisma level:♾

    • @Imagesiphone
      @Imagesiphone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@SC-kg5pz exactly, sadly hes a compulsive lier, and almost all of his claims are fake. But people Buy It lol

    • @praneel1059
      @praneel1059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, the way he talks kinda resembles the mentalist (patrick jane ) speaking ( MAYBE HE IS A MENTALIST)

  • @jackhammer111
    @jackhammer111 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm 72. my parents divorced in Texas with I was 7. My dad didn't want me and my brother with him or to share parenting so he went off to Southern California. So I stayed with my mother who brought us back to Columbus Ohio where we were from. Once when I was being dropped off for a rare visit with my father, said to me; "why don't you ask your dad if there was any chance of us getting back together again". She didn't understand that It was the cruelest thing she could have done to me. I hero-worshiped my Navy aviator "the right stuff" father. Of course, it didn't work. He went back to Palm Springs the next week and I was stuck in Columbus Ohio. I wanted my mother and father to be together. My mother remarried when I was 11 to a not very bright I'll tempered mean man that I could not accept as my father because abusive bully of a "man" who loved to intimidate children and I grew up in that hell of high anxiety until the day I got out of high school. It affected me physically and emotionally and screwed up my ability to form relationships for the rest of my life. Friends didn't stay, women didn't stay and I'm 72 and alone. I consciously refused to have children out of fear that I might screw up a child the way I'd been screwed up. Now my father is gone, My mother is gone and I have no children.
    Take what he says about the importance of parenting your children and not running out on them seriously.

  • @GarrettFogerlie
    @GarrettFogerlie 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3524

    Wow, his story was better than the movie!

    • @betmynamespookedyou4665
      @betmynamespookedyou4665 9 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      The movie was *Good to*

    • @simonin3d
      @simonin3d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Good to... WHAT?

    • @enriquejuarez6450
      @enriquejuarez6450 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Garrett Fogerlie Actually, the movie is pretty accurate since they didn't even interview him.

    • @frankobrien6429
      @frankobrien6429 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      much better story

    • @onebigkahuna69
      @onebigkahuna69 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same thing and looked down at the comments and saw yours.

  • @loriburnip1133
    @loriburnip1133 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1944

    The end of his speech is incredibly powerful.

    • @marianiles3529
      @marianiles3529 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lori Burnip indeed!

    • @frankregg9048
      @frankregg9048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen

    • @emmy3192
      @emmy3192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOL damn you now I'm going to definitely watch it till the end, although I didn't need much coaxing, what an interesting person.

    • @elijahroseberry842
      @elijahroseberry842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. Amen

    • @wanderinginminnesota8591
      @wanderinginminnesota8591 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course he is a co-man 😂👍

  • @Jay-vr9ir
    @Jay-vr9ir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Alright everybody , Frank has been outed by Alan C Logan and Wikipedia regarding the veracity of his story/stories .The entire thing is just a story , it has taken over 40 years .

  • @greglambrecht1086
    @greglambrecht1086 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Every child deserves a mother and a father" No greater words of wisdom have been uttered. Too bad our culture has rejected this great piece of advice. One of the most inspiring speeches I've ever heard.

  • @freelynx5
    @freelynx5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    Do you concur?

    • @jdm1066
      @jdm1066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      ...why didn't I concur?

    • @garyschraa7947
      @garyschraa7947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      eeeYes ?

    • @Ziialan
      @Ziialan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@jdm1066 i blew it, didn't i?

  • @granmastershake
    @granmastershake 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1123

    Divorce is a devastating thing for a child to deal with.

    • @ZeranZeran
      @ZeranZeran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      So is living with parents that never stop fighting violently.

    • @dkdc2402
      @dkdc2402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@ZeranZeran true.
      Equally bad or may be worst.
      Cause kids start to think its normal

    • @valkyrie2327
      @valkyrie2327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it is :(

    • @DavidDavid-fp6gv
      @DavidDavid-fp6gv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I literally saw this as he said it

    • @furkanbozdag8198
      @furkanbozdag8198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sad Sack so?

  • @user-sv4nq8vq1s
    @user-sv4nq8vq1s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This guy+jordan belfort could rob the whole world

  • @matthewcrowther
    @matthewcrowther 5 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Crazy, this is nearly word for word the same as the talk he did for Google. Like he knows it from memory word for word

    • @qqnxj712
      @qqnxj712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Matthew Crowther why is google twice the length?

    • @tonycarpaccio9550
      @tonycarpaccio9550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      qqnxj q & a

    • @kourtneyrenee4492
      @kourtneyrenee4492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They asked questions after he spoke at Google.... its definitely worth watching!

    • @matthewcrowther
      @matthewcrowther 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@qqnxj712 He took questions for half an hour

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He's probably given the speech hundreds of times in 30 years, id imagine it would be hard to not have it memorized

  • @SamBassComedy
    @SamBassComedy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1415

    Such a quick witted man. Fun to hear his stories.

    • @Dan-dd8cf
      @Dan-dd8cf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How can you tell someone is quick witted after reading out a rehearsed speech?

    • @steps8140
      @steps8140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Dan-dd8cf are you? The man lived multiple years off of pure wit and improvisation

    • @YourSenpaiZoro
      @YourSenpaiZoro 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dan-dd8cf rehearsed speech? Tell me how he rehearsed to be a pilot, lawyer, doctor etc. Dimwit.

    • @kirby7327
      @kirby7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Dan-dd8cf Nigga your name is Dan stfu 💀

    • @josephforest7605
      @josephforest7605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YourSenpaiZoro He never did any of it , after all these years , his lies are finally being exposed .Check TH-cam THE TRUTH BEHIND CATCH ME IF YOU CAN/FRANK ABAGNALE /A HISTORY SERIES

  • @cameronnichols6072
    @cameronnichols6072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +972

    bernie sanders really had an interesting life

    • @Rusty.rails1298
      @Rusty.rails1298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Deadass who I thought it was

    • @ajmalsafi13
      @ajmalsafi13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If bernie had 1/10 th of his gut.

    • @myerst52
      @myerst52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @nownumber5923
      @nownumber5923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ajmalsafi13 sad thing is that he does

    • @urmompart2210
      @urmompart2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      true

  • @MarbRedFred
    @MarbRedFred 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Man, I can’t imagine how hard it was for him once he found out that his dad passed away while in jail. Not being able to say goodbye or seeing your parents before passing would be unimaginably difficult to get over’

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว +7

      His entire story has been proven to be fake .

    • @mortgagefinancing5558
      @mortgagefinancing5558 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its his own fault he should have never left

  • @aviavi4717
    @aviavi4717 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He misses his father dearly . I’m crying while writing this because I too miss my father dearly …

  • @niftythelynx
    @niftythelynx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    Amazing how he like almost never stutters. Very smooth guy

  • @boredom2go
    @boredom2go 7 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    When Leonardo DiCaprio plays you in the movie about your life, you know you lived a life.

  • @universalchiro
    @universalchiro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    That was the best thirty minute speech I have ever heard.
    Absolutely amazing the cost of divorce and its unforeseen cost years later.
    He is an absolute genius, and blessed by God.

    • @josephforest7605
      @josephforest7605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Too bad none of it is true. After all these years Frank's true story/stories have finally surfaced .THE TRUTH BEHIND CATCH ME IF YOU CAN/FRANK ABAGNALE /A HISTORY SERIES

    • @zapatron1939
      @zapatron1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@josephforest7605 then post the "truth"

    • @matthewmccann7108
      @matthewmccann7108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zapatron1939 Why don't you do your own research.

    • @zapatron1939
      @zapatron1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@matthewmccann7108 because I believe the person themselves and consistent stories told over multiple different sites and speeches over greg from facebook

    • @matthewmccann7108
      @matthewmccann7108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zapatron1939 oh okay then👍
      You do realize people can bs through multiple platforms? Right?
      But hey your logic and rationale seems more fun. I might try it one day.

  • @sarangsrk
    @sarangsrk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow, mesmerising. Such a smooth talker. No wonder what he could get away with for so long. But then the most important messages come towards the end of the speech. He has done his time and more but still admonishes himself for mistakes he made as a teenager. Signs of a pure soul and a great man. Worth listening to few times more.

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว

      He is a phony and none of his story is true .

  • @christhorton6512
    @christhorton6512 10 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    I love the movie but I really have to say this is better than the movie!

    • @pasarkeramat550
      @pasarkeramat550 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree

    • @Moykel
      @Moykel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      try the book, 'catch me if you can'. well written and very, very funny.

    • @iamhestia4486
      @iamhestia4486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The story was much better from him than other author’s POV.

    • @devgill8517
      @devgill8517 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a lie. He is a common con man and did nothing of what he claims. He s law degree nor did any of the above he claim. He is a common household thief.

    • @AntiCx_edits
      @AntiCx_edits ปีที่แล้ว

      real is always better

  • @russlockard2699
    @russlockard2699 8 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    Broke down when he talked about being a "Daddy"

    • @nicolemajlat2768
      @nicolemajlat2768 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes me too and I am not even a parent 😢

    • @theteacher3163
      @theteacher3163 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nicole Majlat but u r a child..

    • @fly_swatter_
      @fly_swatter_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Russell Lockard damn onion cutting ninjas on the loose.

    • @cwhoff290
      @cwhoff290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too.

    • @msavetho
      @msavetho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too cause ive never had a daddy thats shows me loves and redemption ..been 3 to 5 years since we dont talk to each others

  • @TakuCityPop
    @TakuCityPop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Came here wanting to see how he recalls his past and now I leave in tears. Brilliant speech.

  • @flipnasty2296
    @flipnasty2296 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I already posted a comment but feel the need to again! As a 38 year old man (39 next week) with 2 daughters (one is 15 yrs old and have a new 9 month old ) I really needed to hear that last 5 minutes! All children need their mother and their father... all children are entitled to their mother and father! My dad has always been the same way... hug kiss and i love you even if im just going to the store! I hope that my children will do the same with their kids someday! Life is so precious... you're children deserve the best version of you! If you always try to be that for them ... even when they aren't watching (usually they are lol) then you will give them the best possible chance at being decent individuals and passing that legacy down the line! Thank you Mr. Abagnale!
    And may God continue to bless you!

  • @Xena9002
    @Xena9002 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1135

    What a great man. The love and respect he has for his family is uplifting!

    • @michaeljohnsson7630
      @michaeljohnsson7630 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +Xena T yes very refreshing in this world where just about everyone gets divorced. They are still married. This is inspiring I think aswell.

    • @sbc1t
      @sbc1t 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brought a tear to my eye.

    • @tamarikshagidze9462
      @tamarikshagidze9462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea... he stole 5.5 million

    • @steps8140
      @steps8140 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brunolara2293 xD

    • @TheWefikus
      @TheWefikus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tamarikshagidze9462 what a badass

  • @timmyguo
    @timmyguo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    god i almost stood up and started applauding like an idiot at the very end

    • @paulamra1ify
      @paulamra1ify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So compelling .

    • @msavetho
      @msavetho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He still deserve it though

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Save your strength , his entire story is fake .Check TH-cam ,Alan C Logan's investigation of Frank's story ,it is a sham .

  • @coryboy345
    @coryboy345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is a phenomenal speech. Regardless of what he's done in the past, this man truly knows what life is really about, and have a great respect for him....

  • @anthonyguada
    @anthonyguada 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Any fool can be a Father
    A Father's job is easy........meets a woman..........weeks later the woman informs him, he is going to be a Father.
    Sadly, he leaves and never to be seen again...
    But it takes a Special MAN..........to be ............A Daddy
    A daddy is always there, to comfort, love, giving support, that loving hug, and always tells his child he loves them.
    I know...... I am a single daddy.

    • @rawbee8932
      @rawbee8932 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man. God bless you. Continue to be awesome...

  • @fosibodu
    @fosibodu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I like that he ended the story by de-glamorising the story.

  • @Shuwei1998
    @Shuwei1998 10 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    He's so good at telling story~

  • @chaseparish1791
    @chaseparish1791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Everyone in America should hear this message, not necessarily for the first part, but for the end.
    Thank you Sir for sharing, I was very moved.
    God Bless

  • @ruzavidojevic2931
    @ruzavidojevic2931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I laughed at the beginning but ended up crying... i grew up without both of my parents....

  • @meshalalshehri9207
    @meshalalshehri9207 8 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    I was listening to his speech while synchronizing the movie. I think I will never forget "Catch Me If You Can"

    • @Chrisfragger1
      @Chrisfragger1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Meshal Alshehri One of only 2 Decrapio movies I liked. That and Gangs of New York.

    • @djem_music4765
      @djem_music4765 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chrisfragger1 Are You serious?
      How bout "the departed" "What's eating Gilbert Grape?" "The wolf off Wallstreet" I mean the guy is a legend

    • @Chrisfragger1
      @Chrisfragger1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never seen them, not interest in seeing them. I am NOT a fanboy of DiCrapio, sorry if that offends.

    • @Kyuuri117
      @Kyuuri117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dicaprio is in The Departed but he definitely isn't the only star in the movie, and it's one of the best movies of the 21st century. You should really watch it. Matt Damon, Jack Nicholson, Mark Wahlberg, Martin Sheen, Alac Baldwin are also in the movie, just to name a few.

  • @RudeyCapone
    @RudeyCapone 7 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Very humble and honest, intelligent man. Came here because I saw "Catch Me If You Can" today. What an inspiring and motivational story, especially the last part. Wise words!

    • @looneynine
      @looneynine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes me 2. I saw Catch me if you can, So i searched for his name and here i am

    • @ApplePro121
      @ApplePro121 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too bahahah

    • @The112Windows
      @The112Windows 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      "Honest". Are you fucking kidding me.

    • @RudeyCapone
      @RudeyCapone 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So in your opinion a honest man is someone who never made a misstep? Sure this is a huge one, but coming clean and turning your life upside down sure as hell is worth a whole lot to me.

    • @The112Windows
      @The112Windows 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You call the greatest con man in history "very honest".

  • @bevfast865
    @bevfast865 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow,...what a testimony to what has and what will always be the most worthy pursuit in life. Family, Honesty , Love

    • @buzjevur
      @buzjevur ปีที่แล้ว

      Also.. what a load of bullshit. None of it happened. It's made up.

  • @ronyagpd
    @ronyagpd ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That deserved a standing ovation. Be interesting to hear his wife and sons' take on things, too.

  • @derekxiaoEvanescentBliss
    @derekxiaoEvanescentBliss 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    "everything I have, everything I've achieved, and everything I am, is because love of a woman..." my God what impact

  • @Ac76543211
    @Ac76543211 7 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    You know that his IQ has to be off the charts. : )

    • @FlyingBaNana3000
      @FlyingBaNana3000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@hualani6785 Yeah, because having an education always equates to having a high IQ.

    • @Alucard-gt1zf
      @Alucard-gt1zf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Hualani smart != iq
      This dude is a fraud genius one of the smartest fraudsters the world has ever known
      Just because he has no education doesn’t mean he couldn’t beat your ass in an intelligence game

    • @jerryduffin1358
      @jerryduffin1358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@hualani6785 Take his IQ and compare it to yours and see how many more points he has.

    • @JustinLodes
      @JustinLodes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was a bit of a con man in my teens. Still am actually. I can relate to him on so many levels. Including the moral ones which for me in my case have prevented me from being a multimillionaire. Thankfully money means very little to me. It’s just a form of security to me

    • @legallyblind1041
      @legallyblind1041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hualani6785 "much of what he has said since is total bs" LMAO he is a fuking con man

  • @Buckarooskiczek
    @Buckarooskiczek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Glad this came across my feed the day before Father’s Day.

  • @machavasu7898
    @machavasu7898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    such an entertaining speech. Powerful ending. Thank you.

  • @tuanlinh7287
    @tuanlinh7287 9 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    He is smart men, good husband and great father. I very admire him. Wish to him health and happiness.

    • @armani3885
      @armani3885 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Rip grammar

    • @hualani6785
      @hualani6785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tuan Linh you believe that because he told you so. Con man. No matter how many times he tells this worn out diatribe, retribution for his crimes has never been completed and cant be. Notice hes worked hard to ensure the guest appearances on Carson and others have been removed. Something(s) hidden from his life in 1970s. This same supposedly true story has been told and hes paid to tell it over and over again.

    • @Anxersi
      @Anxersi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rip yalls grammar, my eyes went blind

    • @lobosoul4528
      @lobosoul4528 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hualani6785 you want to be like him so you hate him

    • @johnschmidtdc3344
      @johnschmidtdc3344 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Anxersi yall's :)

  • @jeffw2004
    @jeffw2004 8 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I lost my father suddenly at 13 and my parents divorced when I was very little. I'm 32 now, and in a way I can identify with that wanting to run away. I ran from the feelings for a very long time. A I get older, I can look back on points in my life where my dad being gone has really influenced things. I missed him in more ways than I ever knew. I'm trying very hard now to become a man he would be proud of. It took me a very long time to find my direction without him. This really made me miss my dad.

    • @taylorhurst1499
      @taylorhurst1499 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I pray for God to give you blessings man. As well, I'm certain your father would be proud of you, just your emotional depth, the knowledge that you care to live righteously and your ability to love, would make any father proud of their son. I can definitely see those virtues in your comment, you may have lost your father young, but it is easy to tell he had a profound impact on your life. Rest assured my brother, he is proud.

    • @Chaosfury50
      @Chaosfury50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do it for yourself, don't shine someone else's nutsack.

    • @tatianahawaii13
      @tatianahawaii13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs

    • @michelles2299
      @michelles2299 ปีที่แล้ว

      My parents argued and fought all their married life as, a child I wished they had divorced I grew up hating the domestic situation and did try to run away I have been trying to run away from them both all my life they are, selfish individuals, and don't care about the trouble they cause they fed me clothed me critizised me, failed to support me, every hope I had for my future they knocked it on the head

    • @jeffw2004
      @jeffw2004 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michelles2299 everyone's situation is unique and my experience doesn't preclude yours, or yours mine. The best advice I can tell you is to learn to let go of the anger. It sounds like you're still dragging it up a hill. At this point it is clear you are deeply aware of what affected you. Before you die, it is imperative to attempt to take back the reins of your own life in its direction and potential by accepting the past as fact and for all practical purpose leaving as much of it back there as you can because outside of lingering influence on your nervous system response, it truly no longer exists or accurately informs. Another tenet of that is to finally stop comparing your weight to the weight carried by others. Trauma cause and effect is incomparable and attempting to compare is a negative outcome exercise. It blocks your ability to empathize and an important wisdom in life is you need to learn to give what you want to receive. You cannot do that by only filtering the merit of other's stories through the experience of yourself. It is not easy, but nothing worthwhile is, and you can grow past your childhood and take the wisdom of the fact that everyone has their own mountain and move forward with compassion for others and a gentleness for yourself. It's much easier to move things around inside when you learn to remove the weight of individual shame and accept the reiterated trauma of a collective human condition. You have community when you learn to look past yourself. Your parents taught you only to look inward by example of their own selfishness, you just approach it from a wounded angle of victimization. Your parents probably did too but it was impossible for you to see that angle as a child. Your childhood is over now. You aren't wrong, but you're also not alone. You can't rewrite the past, but you can work on yourself in the present regardless of who is to blame.

  • @robertsuermann1342
    @robertsuermann1342 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The last 5 minutes of this speech had me on the verge of tears and rightfully so I think this man has an amazing story but the lessons he can teach you from that story are the real knowledge and the real lessons one should learn

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว

      Save your tears , he is a phony and his entire story is fake .Check on TH-cam The Truth about Frank Abagnale .

  • @timothyryner
    @timothyryner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eight years ago, I’d have watched this with mild amusement.
    Today, I am awestruck.

  • @blackfrediegeorge
    @blackfrediegeorge 9 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is way better than the movie...

  • @AwesomeFaceHD
    @AwesomeFaceHD 9 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    He reminds me of George Bluth so much.

  • @romeocarpiojr.1558
    @romeocarpiojr.1558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Very inspiring talk. A person longing to his parents and God gives him a beautiful family.

  • @chloegilbert647
    @chloegilbert647 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love for his wife changed him.....that's so beautiful. In the end, love is the only thing that matters.

    • @chloegilbert647
      @chloegilbert647 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go spread some love. Love somebody and stop waiting for it to come to you.

  • @ElenaHaskins
    @ElenaHaskins 9 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Excellent speaker. His professed love for his wife and children is very endearing.

  • @dictionaryofwords1108
    @dictionaryofwords1108 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Holy shit, that got so real towards the end. That was inspirational.

  • @HaydenDavidson6
    @HaydenDavidson6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I see how he does it. When he speaks he gives a series of specific information, which comes across to the listener as if he is an authority and authentic. That's how he fooled people I guess.

    • @SC-kg5pz
      @SC-kg5pz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yep. Read his Wikipedia page, he made almost everything up!! His story was found to be BS back in 1978!

  • @derekogilvie6942
    @derekogilvie6942 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was astounding and I cried at the end - and then I listened to the Alan C Logan interview on youtube and I am literally shocked by this investigative journalist and what he has to say about Mr Abagnale. Alan Logan's book is called "The Greatest Hoax on Earth: Catching Truth, While We Can"

  • @ericmharper
    @ericmharper 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    So glad I came across this Ted Talk.

  • @mikosiko90
    @mikosiko90 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This guy has an extraordinary memory, i saw three speeches on three different occasions and all of them were identical, words, jokes, phrases, reactions,...all exactly the same

    • @ChessJourneyman
      @ChessJourneyman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because most of it is a lie. He is selling a fake story, like a circus show attraction.

    • @ianski
      @ianski ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChessJourneyman His story is different from the same man telling his story to Jimmy Carson. Once a liar….

  • @DashingDB79
    @DashingDB79 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Never heard such a powerful, emotional and wonderful speech. This was just superb

  • @LargestClassifieds
    @LargestClassifieds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love the ending with a beautiful and meaningful reflections.

  • @BillieMelissa
    @BillieMelissa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    This man is incredible. I can't say much more. I'm glad he's aware of what he's done & his love of his family and want to be a better man is so inspiring.

    • @Asht-mj4wy
      @Asht-mj4wy ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a pretty pathetic individual . Whole life story has been debunked as lies. He was actually a petty thief targeting families and small businesses. Many of his crimes involved sexually assault. Was never a doctor , pilot, lawyer or professor

    • @64kram
      @64kram 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's definitely a con man. Evidence is emerging that none of this really happened.

  • @redguru4773
    @redguru4773 8 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Great to hear his true story. Absolutely amazing and uplifting. Had not heard that he turned down three presidential pardons.

    • @zachfakelastname
      @zachfakelastname 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Idk about the presidential pardons, but much of this story is sadly made up. He claims he was never arrested until France, but he was in jail multiple times when he was a teenager, as well as him never actually passing the bar exam and the "managing night doctor" role never existing at the time he claims he worked at the hospital. He's a very good story teller and he's using that skill to still con people to this day

    • @Juan-ek1vb
      @Juan-ek1vb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Zack - I also noticed that his story about being in the airport and being asked “what type of equipment?” changed over the years. When he went on Johnny Carson, back in the day, he said it was 1 pilot and that when Frank said “General Electric” the pilot just walked away. Then, Johnny Carson made some joke about “Flying a washing machine.” Now, in this speech, Frank says there were three pilots around. OK, maybe that’s not such a big detail that would indicate lying. However, in this speech Frank says the pilot replied “General Electric? What are you flying a washing machine?” Therefore, it is quite clear that Frank stole Johnny Carson’s tag-on joke and lied saying it was true dialogue from a supposedly true story.
      He also told Johnny Carson that he got a pilot’s uniform by saying it was stolen. In this speech, he says the hotel/dry-cleaner lost it.
      The #s about the amount of miles he flew and the amount of countries he flew to during the whole course of the scam were very different too vs. the Johnny Carson interview.

  • @ervin9720
    @ervin9720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This guys story telling is in another level, i would listen to this guy talk for hours.

  • @ramyel-naggar8136
    @ramyel-naggar8136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm only 15, but never in my life have I listened to a speech that I truly found honestly inspiring until this one. You can honestly tell how much he means every word he says here. He also made the speech hella funny and entertaining. Very respectable man.

    • @SC-kg5pz
      @SC-kg5pz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry buddy you got scammed. Read his Wikipedia page, he made almost everything up!! His story was found to be BS back in 1978!

    • @surfghost_4804
      @surfghost_4804 ปีที่แล้ว

      hate to break the news as well, but Frank Abagnale's biggest scam was getting everyone to believe his stories. They are all outlandish fabrications of a life he never lead.

  • @briansweat
    @briansweat 10 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I had the pleasure of seeing this speech live today at the Scaling New Heights conference. Frank is an amazing storyteller. I was blown away by his casual recount of these adventures and the unexpected lesson at the end.

    • @Asht-mj4wy
      @Asht-mj4wy ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a pretty pathetic individual . Whole life story has been debunked as lies. He was actually a petty thief targeting families and small businesses. Many of his crimes involved sexually assault. Was never a doctor , pilot, lawyer or professor

  • @JayAbiona
    @JayAbiona 11 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Frank is an absolutely amazing speaker with an outstanding story. I had a chance to meet with him in NYC many years ago and he is quite charismatic as well as impressive. I do admire him for his accomplishments and how he helps people today at NO charge to the FBI.

  • @dr.simonliem8975
    @dr.simonliem8975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who saw this great speech in 2019? 👍😁
    I never forget this movie that I saw in 2002.

  • @soap4259
    @soap4259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just watched Catch Me if You Can, watched the original To Tell the Truth episode with him in it, and watched this video. I'm so happy that I didn't end up missing out on the story of this great man right here. Will be remembered for a lifetime.

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว

      Great man? His entire story is fake , check it out .He has been doing it for years .

  • @xpayload_8952
    @xpayload_8952 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    holy shit. ... that was a powerful speech. God, Family, County. Awesome.

  • @tammanyfields3583
    @tammanyfields3583 9 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I am so touched by his message. It made me cry and so proud of how he over came and changed his life for the better.

    • @Asht-mj4wy
      @Asht-mj4wy ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a pretty pathetic individual . Whole life story has been debunked as lies. He was actually a petty thief targeting families and small businesses. Many of his crimes involved sexually assault. Was never a doctor , pilot, lawyer or professor

    • @stutzbearcat5624
      @stutzbearcat5624 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's all bullshit. He's a con man. His biggest con - is lying about his con.
      He was a small time crook that petty did crimes of opportunity not carrying who he screwed over.

  • @kaalen24
    @kaalen24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Incredible speech by an incredible man. His commitment to his wife and family enforces that he is now, telling the truth. And his value's have always been there despite his crimes.

    • @Asht-mj4wy
      @Asht-mj4wy ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a pretty pathetic individual . Whole life story has been debunked as lies. He was actually a petty thief targeting families and small businesses. Many of his crimes involved sexually assault. Was never a doctor , pilot, lawyer or professor

  • @AbdulraufTashkandi
    @AbdulraufTashkandi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't think I ever heard a touching story that is well laid out as the way he put it. Such a great man

  • @frankobrien6429
    @frankobrien6429 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    That man knows what it means to be a man. A man of faith, love of country, love and respect for family and his responsibilities as a husband and father. Who cares about his criminal activity, listen in at 24 min for the real lesson he learned in life.

  • @taylorhurst1499
    @taylorhurst1499 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    wow...... I wish i had more to say, but that man just left me speechless. I will take his words with me till the day I die.

  • @mannab2975
    @mannab2975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a beautiful speech, priceless rendition of his life experiences! Respect to his wife, sons and country....amazing!!

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว

      He is a con man and his entire story is fake.

  • @trollymoose1240
    @trollymoose1240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is definitly one of the only speeches I've been engaged in, great speaker.

  • @spencershakespeare8234
    @spencershakespeare8234 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was great to watch. I only planned on watching a few minutes of this but next thing I know it was over!

  • @mashlegend
    @mashlegend 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I watched this and the end of the speech incredibly amazing.. I don't know how smart his words WERE..!!!

  • @keharris7
    @keharris7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The last few minutes of his life story is perfection ❤

  • @dnd9768
    @dnd9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow. this is so touching and entertaining at the same time.

  • @ultimatrompeta
    @ultimatrompeta 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow. Where are the men in this world. Frank is genuine and a role model for many who are on the verge of divorcing and leaving their kids!

  • @markusdaxamouli5196
    @markusdaxamouli5196 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    after watching..he comes across genuine.
    it is an example of his ability to con YOU watching...remember he knows what hes doing and will play you like a fiddle. he gave up his right to be excussed by the nature of his crime...deception is a personal crime like no other as it gains access to your brain to make you ignore what you see.

    • @mungox1
      @mungox1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      of course he sounds genuine, that's what con men do

  • @97VobraOwner
    @97VobraOwner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just an amazing heart felt tribute to life family and second chances. What a wonderful story of resilience, loss, and love.

  • @xanderreade
    @xanderreade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    White collar was my favourite show, but I never had a clue it was based on this guy

  • @SmokeRingsPipeDreams
    @SmokeRingsPipeDreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Quite moving, .. I've always been glad that everything turned out ok for Frank.

  • @royalstephens3169
    @royalstephens3169 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you very much for sharing such a wonderful life's journey. You are a most incredible man.

  • @juliaphillips2518
    @juliaphillips2518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, so moving what he says at the end about what he has learned about life. ❤️

  • @Simbabeck
    @Simbabeck ปีที่แล้ว

    Deeply appreciate this! Thank you, sir.

  • @luisarturosanchez3575
    @luisarturosanchez3575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thanks for sharing, loved the movie. This man is a good man, no matter what he did in his youth.

  • @rohitroy5732
    @rohitroy5732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a smooth speech and what a beautiful message at the end of it!!

  • @buruj6122
    @buruj6122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man,
    Why all this speech was not boring?
    Every second worth the patience to listen❤️

  • @wolfforlife6718
    @wolfforlife6718 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the only video in youtube or any video that i didn't cut or forward till the end... its interesting, funny, inspire, motivate, heart touching, sad, fascinating, etc

  • @swalterstennis
    @swalterstennis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You watch the whole thing? I don’t know about you, but by the finish, I’m crying. Great man. Great story.

    • @FedScoop
      @FedScoop  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @AmitChristian
    @AmitChristian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I thought I was learning about all his larger-than-life and genius moves. But what I learnt was way more than that. Everyone must hear last 3-5 minutes of this talk. Honest. Poignant. And Straight to the Heart....

  • @mikeadams5432
    @mikeadams5432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    To hear this is truly amazing!

  • @jsmitz237
    @jsmitz237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No commercials here, love it !

  • @tyaajathailani
    @tyaajathailani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I saw the movie awhile ago but wow, his story in his words is amazing! His words at the end really touched my heart and brought me to tears. Despite his misadventures, he knew what is important in life and values those things. Wow!

    • @Jay-vr9ir
      @Jay-vr9ir ปีที่แล้ว

      His entire story is fake . Check it out he is a great liar , so save your tears .

  • @pablohippy
    @pablohippy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this. Amazingly funny and a few pretty poignant life lesson at the ends. Excellent

  • @darussianping61
    @darussianping61 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    wow what a great speech. what a life story and the ending brought a tear to my eye.

  • @MilciadesAndrion
    @MilciadesAndrion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is a great speech and very educational. It is important when he reflects that we live in a country that offers a second chance.

  • @freeruninja
    @freeruninja 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great story with a great message, I am so glad that I watched this.

  • @ayusharyan683
    @ayusharyan683 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He's a great man and will always be remembered.

  • @jasonmann9107
    @jasonmann9107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was 100 times better than the movie. Prett amazing gentleman.

  • @kammunsan8556
    @kammunsan8556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! What an incredible and inspirational life story both the bad
    and good ones on you tube. I can listen
    to him 24/7 many thanks for sharing 👍🙏