Real Human Bean nah I’m sure it’s people in Asia 80% of statistics are wrong you know. That one could be aswell but it could also be part of the 20% and so could yours which I doubt.
That is so f up in so many levels. But it is happening, no one is denying it. Worldwide, mostly it is published in high poverty rate areas but I am sure it can happen in areas with good structure and income, but hidden from the public as they have the means to keep it quiet.
Unconsciously as children. Not like they actually want to lust after their parents. That's why the thoughts get censored. But your parents are the first example you have of a grown up man or woman. The first example of the other sex. The first time you actually saw another's genitals you probably saw your parent's genitals.
@@thedefenderofjustice8466 im going to get my degree and write a 5000 page essay on why i think cat girls should be created, i need to feel less alone in the world
Nonetheless he was a genius who sure did coke and smoked a good amount of cigars a day, but he set the foundations of psychology. He's like Plato, who had an awesome amount of good theories, but a good amount of stupid theories
@@folklorianwitxh I gotta defend my boi Freud. He's a legend. His discoveries will be relevant for eternity. Even the ones he got wrong... cause even within his errors there is truth. It's difficult to explain but trust me on this one, the guy was revolutionary
Freud was saying that competing with your father for your mother was more of an unconscious ego driven thing than a sexual thing, probably because men naturally compete over women even without realizing it.
@@Ihavemadeit999 actually sexuality doesnt directly connect to sex. It can be inner impulses instincts that drive you not really lust in any way but yeah
@@foscorsohil8940 my take on it is Sofia’s character in Modern Family and her son Manny, where the two have a super close bond to the point he still sleeps in bed with his mom when he has nightmares as a teen.
Everyone in the comments didn't really understand the video or maybe the video wasn't explained well. Nobody wants to bang their parents. The phallic stage is way under of the age of sexuality. It's unconscious which means we don't understand. We don't know we have these feelings. Because that is our ID but as we grow older we get ego and superego. "Oh he was a huge crack addict" doesn't mean that he wasn't a literal genius. I'm not saying drugs make you a genius. You can't disprove or prove his theories.
+Ben Pearson i wonder the same thing, I mean this whole History of Ideas playlist has interesting topics, mesmerizing animation and don't forget about the narrator :3
The guy who smoked cracked and spit facts and the other people who studied got jealous because his facts were hitting too close to home so they called him an idiot
@@suryavardhansinghshekhawat865 nahhh freud came up with good stuff but he also was on crack and he did project alot science bro scientists can be brilliand in one thing morons in another
Ghulam Murtaza Dahar pedophiles and sexual deviants in Hollywood controlling mass media put that idea out there I have no desire for a girl I’m having sex with to call me daddy nor for me to call any woman that’s not my mother mommy and any curiosity around that was due to what I saw on television and pornography which we already know is plagued with broken/damaged souls
I completely disagree. Oedipus did not grow up with his mother and his sexual attraction for her (if he ever had any) is completely different. If your mother's younger sister (your aunt) or your bio sister or some lady who is not even blood related to you (foster mother), raised you from childhood, you would still have the same view on them as well. It is not a sexual attraction, it is more of trying not to disappoint them. I forgot what the term was for that....
@@doubtkida3629people tend to notice less if a son is found arguing with his mom. Or if a son is found working together with his father to build something in the garage. It is the speculation.
Thats not the point, Oedipus misconception of his mother's identity gives him a child like ignorance. Just like how he doesn't know his wife is his mother, we at young ages don't fully grasp how wrong it is to be attracted to our mother. When he finds out much like when kids find out their disgusted by their former actions (subconsus thoughts for kids) and it stays with him for the rest of life. it's a metaphore. Everyone knew Oedipus in germany back then, so it was relatable. It was also symbolic of Germany killing it's father ( true Ancient greek philosophy) and banging it mom (creating a highly nationalised version of Ancient greek philosophy)
@@ulti_mages9200 It also depends on culture as well. Fathers from the place I grew up at, value their first born son the most. The first born sons are expected to learn their fathers’ trade and continue their legacy. Second sons are to find innovation. Daughters… well they help the mothers until they are married off… Other cultures like Chinese even go as far as to abandoning their daughters because each family can only have one child…
@@panda5996Yea, it is cultural thing. In my culture too, the first born son is supposed to be the successor. There is no need to kill your old man. However, sibling rivalry is common though. But i guess in your culture all the sons in the family have their own roles to play. I think Oedipus complex is for only son who is pampered by his mother since childhood. In this case, it is the parents fault for not raising their only son right.
I'm not sure I agree with everything Freud stands for but I think there might be some truth to what he says. It's almost universal that moms will have stronger bonds with their sons than daughters. For dads, they tend to have a stronger relationship with their daughters. Maybe humans are just driven to the opposite sex in any way possible? It doesn't have to be as extreme as Freud says (sleeping with your own mom is gross and a very extreme scenario) but it can be in smaller subtle ways. You find the opposite sex attrative because of biology or socialization and that gives boys a chivlarous, almost protective attitude towards thier moms while girls look at thier dads as protectors and providers - qualities most women also look for in a potential husband. People do say men choose wives who are like thier mom unconsioucly and the inverse scenario for women is choosing husbands like thier dad. I definitley think this is true to a degree. In the end of the day, Freud was too extreme in his thinking but he was 100% on to SOMETHING.
There is a gene which code a trait which is why a person finds close relative sexualy unattractive... But feud thoery is for children who didn't even attain thier puberty!! And thier phycosexuality is in development phase!!! Sexuality and min is a important factor for human species its deemed to be complex... And so we all somewhat have suffered from this complex which we cant remembered but helped to develope adult physcosexuality in comolete manner... As we desire Love and affection from our sexual partner modeled after our opposite gender parent. The gene activates during puberty only 🥲😪
@@panda5996 This is a complete BS. Mothers should have a stronger bond with their daughters and detach from their sons earlier. It has always been like that with humanity and still can be seen within some tribes. The father is a non present figure his job is to provide and protect while the mother does the raising. When both reach a certain age the boys are taken by the father to learn "man role duties" while the daughters keep with the mothers helping raising the other children since they will need this knowledge when they become mothers themselves. What happened in modern societies is that there was less cooperate and the woman was left alone with the children, they felt self hate for their role as women and started to project on their own daughters while idolizing their sons who were now hitting the puberty but only in touch with their mothers, the emotional incest started. All humans first love is their primary caregiver, usually the mother, but women are sexually attracted to men while men can protect their fantasies on women. Women bonding more with their sons is not normal.
Freud clearly never read Oedipus. Oedipus doesn't have an Oedipus complex; he did everything he could to prevent killing his dad and sleeping with his mom.
+Mike Hermida I think it's just a name he chose, not like he really thought Oedipus had Oedipus complex. Besides, the.. "psychological" nature of what happened to Oedipus is completely different from what happened with Elektra.
It's not about Oedipus not liking it, it's about him being unconsciously attracted to his mother. That's the basis of the theory, that kids unconsciously find their parents and their traits attractive.
Te4mUp I don't see how race has anything to do with anything but just so I'm pure blood Ethiopian. I understand how "racist" could be used by you as an insult but being a "white male" isn't inherently bad in my opinion. Have a Merry Christmas by the way!
Freud seems to have been more concerned with marketing his idea rather than justifying it. If it weren't for the intentional sensationalism, his "theory" would have been long forgotten.
Well, like I said, the reason people still talk about him is because many of his ideas were sensational, like men wanting to sleep with their mothers, which is bs. Also he was among the first to establish the practice of psychoanalysis. Mostly he was first on the scene of introducing the practice of psychology, despite being wrong on too many accounts. Most of his ideas are not academically credible today. This is not a secret. His importance today is perhaps due to his impact on modern culture instead of academia. www.google.ca/amp/io9.gizmodo.com/why-freud-still-matters-when-he-was-wrong-about-almost-1055800815/amp
wastelandsoldier1 that’s was to keep bloodlines pure. But the normal person would marry some one outside of the family. Most people don’t want to fuck their family memebers
Nope a prepubertal boy hardly know what is sexual activities or dream of it... He is just attracted to feminine figure of his mother and wants her all the love and affection.
I don't believe in the Oedipus Complex, Freud may have felt this way and wanted everybody to feel the same because he was ashamed. I honestly didn't want to kill my mom and have sex with my dad when i was little. At least that's my opinion
+shannon kif According to Freud, you may be able to say that, but the truth is that you don't remember it. It's all subconscious...But, then again...If it's subconscious, how do we prove it?
I never had a close relationship with anyone in my family. Dependency is a more apt description. That in of itself is dysfunctional. And i passed that on to my kids who are closer to their mother as the emotionally healthy parent.
Not what I wanted or planned to come across this morning, but it is so important for humans to understand and face these things so we can someday rise above the base urges that drive much of our motivations;without us being aware most of the time, and become something better stronger than just... our "feelings".
I agree with Freud, basically I think that your mom, being the first lady in your life greatly effects your development, and you associate femininity automatically with your mother subconsciously. so when you see an attractive lady, chances are she has some features of your mother, mainly hair color and other maternal features.
I guess if they're good parents, goodness can be seen as attractive by the child, but viewing them sexually without having an aversion to that idea of the parent, is bizarre.
@@RNB_lovr yeah its like in an exam the Average mark students in a class get is 70%, doesn't mean you are absolutely gonna get 70%, that's just the main standard Did it make sense-
yeah, an argument can also be made that we subconsciously want every one of opposite sex in the world under our command, but how could that mean anything?
I'm not saying everyone has these sexual thoughts about their parents, I think it's more like a vague, extremely indirect and unconscious feeling that we grow out of. We didnt know any social constructs or how things work or should work when we wree kids. We are saying now that it's awful (ik it is) when we understand better. It sounds logical to me. But if anyone wants to discuss and talk let's talk
It sounds like Freud was trying to suggest that the child is driving the sexual intent subconsciously which is a great observation but needs a lot of clarification to be responsible today. Honestly, both theories are great but Westmarck’s effect makes ethical and biological sense and is the winning theory for meeee. Thank you reading❤❤❤❤
I don’t think I have a mother complex, I just want to be comforted by someone older than me. Someone with more experience in life, someone who knows about my and how to live it. It’s comforting to me.
A Gacha Guy. No problem. Continue your journey of self-exploration, especially through psychoanalysis. Sometimes all that is needed to spark your transformation is an epiphany :)
It does sound like Freud started these ideas off after giving therapy to people who reported childhood abuse, which would explain like 70% of it in my opinion. :(
How would you describe the kind of parent-child relationship in “My Oedipus Complex” Support your response with textual evidence from the story. You must explain/prove how these quotes/examples relate to your response. can any one help me in this question
Sean Romero I've seen guys with the problem.. it's something else.. definitely not lust.. but something related to strange psychology. All the cases I've seen where men had this syndrome, this lust-slave thung would be happening with wives.. but the mother thing is caused by the mother herself.. every case had an evil mother.. evil
With a narcissistic mother, it could definitely cause problems for the guy. My narc ex had a very narcissistic mother. She smothered him with her conditional love. She saw him as an extension of herself. He began to compare me to her, but I'm in no way like her fortunately. She couldn't stand me because I was taking her son away from her in her eyes. She just began criticizing me whenever I was around her. She is an evil woman.
It’s unconscious lmao, no one except in Alabama is going to just straight up lust after their genetic parents. It’s more of being loved by your dad and getting jealous when he shares that love with someone else, say your mom.
That’s it? No, the Oedipal mother weakens her children so they never leave her. There’s tension is her relationship with the father, so she gets her needs met by the kids. She does everything for them so long as they never leave. They become grown-up infants. It’s really sad.
Edward Finley Newton, AFAIK, didn't alter data or even collect them. He derived data mainly from the works of Tycho Brahe and Johann Kepler. Even then, making up data might be more justified in mathematical areas like physics where things are mathematically proven to work in certain ways. i mean, come on! who didn't cheat in physics and chemistry lab exams? Needless to say, whether he made shit up or not, his theories were pretty darn accurate and he was a great genius
Freud only used "mother" and "father" as symbolic placeholders for intimacy and authority; a point lost on this video and most of the time people discuss the Oedipus Complex. This video does it better: th-cam.com/video/2pu5aKvdvXc/w-d-xo.html
Oedip complex isnt only sexual nature, it is active response to fathers violent aggressive terror to child as neurotic sadistic need for control and make fear and anxiu.to others. Child use mother as sanctuary harbour where find tender response for narcissistic oceanic feelings and expectation and make narcisstic balance. Oedipus complex is relative thing..adler, fromm, jung have different approach.
me when i was little : can't even remember my father's younger face cause i was too buisy dreaming about space anime and halo creatures and a red bicycle turns out I'm a pansexual mess 🤣
I had this towards all other aunties aged betwenn 25-40 . but I did not face this problem with my mother or sister honestly then what is my problem am I having Oedipus or AM i honest.??
Freud's theory was not so shallow, and focused on very deep emotions from childhoos. He is slandered much, nowadays. The woke crowd don't like biological facts, only sociological theories. 😂
I believe that theory which says .. we are not attracted sexually to those whom we grow up with.. eg mother,father, sister, brother and so on .. but again exceptions are for every thing and everyone .. some do develop sexual feelings for the blood related's .
when i called my bf Norman Bates whenever he would act like I was the 3rd wheel to him and his moms choosing each other over me, he would go crazy because he resembled that remark
Sure we have to give credit to Freud bla bla bla whatever. But, who in their right mind was a child that lusted for a parent? And why is that concept still being taught today?! Drives me up the wall
The origin of calling ur bf daddy
HAAAAAA no.
A boy called me "sweet mama" once! XD
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The fuck kinda porn are you watching?
How exactly?
Freud had some very strange ideas.
He was what is known as a "projector."
Maybe because of he was addicted to cocaine 😅
just 1 each hundred ^) *sometimes banana is just food@LOL*
This guy was probably hit in the head so hard.
Freud didn’t understand that Oedipus was a tragedy, I repeat A TRAGEDY!
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Real Human Bean nah I’m sure it’s people in Asia 80% of statistics are wrong you know. That one could be aswell but it could also be part of the 20% and so could yours which I doubt.
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@@-xnnybimb-9398 Your reading comprehension is abysmal.
Real Human Bean still looking for who the fuck asked annoying boomer
That is so f up in so many levels. But it is happening, no one is denying it. Worldwide, mostly it is published in high poverty rate areas but I am sure it can happen in areas with good structure and income, but hidden from the public as they have the means to keep it quiet.
I remember when I was around six I would get jealous whenever my dad kissed my mom. Thank god ive grown out of that.
thats what you think
That's a perfect example!
Glory to Jesus😭
Why are you saying this in public?
@@esthermokami8093 Because it's relevant to the topic at hand.
Do people actually look at their parents in a lustful way. The thought makes me sick.
You know this theory was made by a literal crack addict, right?
xXx_sauceme daddy_xXx that doesn't mean some people aren't lustful towards parents and other family members
it's not exactly pleasant for people who think it either...
Unconsciously as children. Not like they actually want to lust after their parents. That's why the thoughts get censored. But your parents are the first example you have of a grown up man or woman. The first example of the other sex. The first time you actually saw another's genitals you probably saw your parent's genitals.
@@thedefenderofjustice8466 im going to get my degree and write a 5000 page essay on why i think cat girls should be created, i need to feel less alone in the world
Nonetheless he was a genius who sure did coke and smoked a good amount of cigars a day, but he set the foundations of psychology. He's like Plato, who had an awesome amount of good theories, but a good amount of stupid theories
he tortured his patients tho and he's sexist af
Psychology is all pseudoscience
@@folklorianwitxh I gotta defend my boi Freud. He's a legend. His discoveries will be relevant for eternity. Even the ones he got wrong... cause even within his errors there is truth. It's difficult to explain but trust me on this one, the guy was revolutionary
I'd like to point out that there was an insanely large amount of inbreeding throughout human history and that we couldn't have 7 billion if we didn't.
Actually he was widely discredited 🤔
Oedipus: the guy who gouged his eyes and committed suicide when he figured out he slept with his mom....
@Yuu 02 What the fu-
@Yuu 02 Wait what?
@Yuu 02 Nigga??
@Yuu 02 Every day. We stray further from God.
@Yuu 02 oh my fucking
Freud was saying that competing with your father for your mother was more of an unconscious ego driven thing than a sexual thing, probably because men naturally compete over women even without realizing it.
And also bc its the birth giver and he respects her .So nasty that people connect that to some sexual thing
@@Ihavemadeit999 actually sexuality doesnt directly connect to sex. It can be inner impulses instincts that drive you not really lust in any way but yeah
It was completely sexual. It involved penises.
sounds like an immortal technique song
@@_Iscream Fyi penises are also used to pee
This sounds like a serious problem for Sofia vegara's kid
MrMonsterHunter 808 one of the best comments I hv come across in a long time. Witty till the bone
Miley Cyrus and his dad too
Can you explain the joke/reference?
@@foscorsohil8940 my take on it is Sofia’s character in Modern Family and her son Manny, where the two have a super close bond to the point he still sleeps in bed with his mom when he has nightmares as a teen.
You mean Gloria, right?
Everyone in the comments didn't really understand the video or maybe the video wasn't explained well. Nobody wants to bang their parents. The phallic stage is way under of the age of sexuality. It's unconscious which means we don't understand. We don't know we have these feelings. Because that is our ID but as we grow older we get ego and superego. "Oh he was a huge crack addict" doesn't mean that he wasn't a literal genius. I'm not saying drugs make you a genius. You can't disprove or prove his theories.
Liberty Gaming, Actually, by the age of 3 I was sexually attracted to my mother and her sister. So yeah sometimes people do wanna bang their parents.
Arthur King I could've went my whole entire life not reading your comment and be fine
Keta Francis lmao sorry, if it helps I don't feel the same way anymore
Arthur King lool
@@arthurking4408 Phew!!!🤔😏😉😉
Freud actually creeps into the part of mind even mind itself can't.
how is this channel not massive?
+Ben Pearson utube is american centric
+Ben Pearson i wonder the same thing, I mean this whole History of Ideas playlist has interesting topics, mesmerizing animation and don't forget about the narrator :3
Discourse on virtue and they pass by in droves, whistle and dance the shimmy, and you've got an audience. - diogenes
It's on a diet
Hmmm... Do we trust the thoughts of a man who did large amounts of cocaine on the job, or the guy that actually studied things?
The guy who smoked cracked and spit facts and the other people who studied got jealous because his facts were hitting too close to home so they called him an idiot
@@suryavardhansinghshekhawat865 nahhh freud came up with good stuff but he also was on crack and he did project alot science bro scientists can be brilliand in one thing morons in another
@@suryavardhansinghshekhawat865 defense mechanisms such as denial and repression
No understand the logic behind two famous dialogues:
1. "Who is your Daddy?"
2. " Who is your Mummy?"
That's an interview... and has nothing to do with the video to begin with.
Ghulam Murtaza Dahar pedophiles and sexual deviants in Hollywood controlling mass media put that idea out there I have no desire for a girl I’m having sex with to call me daddy nor for me to call any woman that’s not my mother mommy and any curiosity around that was due to what I saw on television and pornography which we already know is plagued with broken/damaged souls
I completely disagree. Oedipus did not grow up with his mother and his sexual attraction for her (if he ever had any) is completely different.
If your mother's younger sister (your aunt) or your bio sister or some lady who is not even blood related to you (foster mother), raised you from childhood, you would still have the same view on them as well. It is not a sexual attraction, it is more of trying not to disappoint them. I forgot what the term was for that....
But why this only with opposite gender parent
@@doubtkida3629people tend to notice less if a son is found arguing with his mom. Or if a son is found working together with his father to build something in the garage. It is the speculation.
Thats not the point, Oedipus misconception of his mother's identity gives him a child like ignorance. Just like how he doesn't know his wife is his mother, we at young ages don't fully grasp how wrong it is to be attracted to our mother. When he finds out much like when kids find out their disgusted by their former actions (subconsus thoughts for kids) and it stays with him for the rest of life. it's a metaphore. Everyone knew Oedipus in germany back then, so it was relatable. It was also symbolic of Germany killing it's father ( true Ancient greek philosophy) and banging it mom (creating a highly nationalised version of Ancient greek philosophy)
@@ulti_mages9200
It also depends on culture as well. Fathers from the place I grew up at, value their first born son the most. The first born sons are expected to learn their fathers’ trade and continue their legacy. Second sons are to find innovation. Daughters… well they help the mothers until they are married off…
Other cultures like Chinese even go as far as to abandoning their daughters because each family can only have one child…
@@panda5996Yea, it is cultural thing. In my culture too, the first born son is supposed to be the successor. There is no need to kill your old man. However, sibling rivalry is common though. But i guess in your culture all the sons in the family have their own roles to play.
I think Oedipus complex is for only son who is pampered by his mother since childhood. In this case, it is the parents fault for not raising their only son right.
I'm not sure I agree with everything Freud stands for but I think there might be some truth to what he says. It's almost universal that moms will have stronger bonds with their sons than daughters. For dads, they tend to have a stronger relationship with their daughters. Maybe humans are just driven to the opposite sex in any way possible? It doesn't have to be as extreme as Freud says (sleeping with your own mom is gross and a very extreme scenario) but it can be in smaller subtle ways. You find the opposite sex attrative because of biology or socialization and that gives boys a chivlarous, almost protective attitude towards thier moms while girls look at thier dads as protectors and providers - qualities most women also look for in a potential husband. People do say men choose wives who are like thier mom unconsioucly and the inverse scenario for women is choosing husbands like thier dad. I definitley think this is true to a degree.
In the end of the day, Freud was too extreme in his thinking but he was 100% on to SOMETHING.
There is a gene which code a trait which is why a person finds close relative sexualy unattractive... But feud thoery is for children who didn't even attain thier puberty!! And thier phycosexuality is in development phase!!! Sexuality and min is a important factor for human species its deemed to be complex... And so we all somewhat have suffered from this complex which we cant remembered but helped to develope adult physcosexuality in comolete manner... As we desire Love and affection from our sexual partner modeled after our opposite gender parent. The gene activates during puberty only 🥲😪
Wrong oedipus did not grow up with his bio mom.
I agree
@@panda5996 This is a complete BS. Mothers should have a stronger bond with their daughters and detach from their sons earlier. It has always been like that with humanity and still can be seen within some tribes.
The father is a non present figure his job is to provide and protect while the mother does the raising. When both reach a certain age the boys are taken by the father to learn "man role duties" while the daughters keep with the mothers helping raising the other children since they will need this knowledge when they become mothers themselves.
What happened in modern societies is that there was less cooperate and the woman was left alone with the children, they felt self hate for their role as women and started to project on their own daughters while idolizing their sons who were now hitting the puberty but only in touch with their mothers, the emotional incest started.
All humans first love is their primary caregiver, usually the mother, but women are sexually attracted to men while men can protect their fantasies on women.
Women bonding more with their sons is not normal.
@@lunalu552 uhh… all i said was oedipus did not grow up with his bio mom.
Sigmund Freud trying to prove his mommy kink wasn’t just him
I love how the comments sections about Freud's videos are always full of critics who have probably never touched one of his books.
i love all freud theory, cool.
...Hahaha @ Marcos Garcia. I
concur, sir. Probably never touched their mother's...either...sorry I couldn't resist that. It felt fitting...
@@libradoureta4469 Some are quite strange but I really like the brain teasing.
Not true! When I was young, I used to run my hands along the spine on the books in a library and I'm sure I've touched a lot of books then.
@@plokijum good 4 u
The illustrations are beautiful :)
Who’s here after R.Kelly talked about marrying his mom?
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nobody cares about why you came to this video
A Person racist
He be black tho
Liam Gallagher Okay and
Freud clearly never read Oedipus. Oedipus doesn't have an Oedipus complex; he did everything he could to prevent killing his dad and sleeping with his mom.
He him self , did nothing to be exact
+Mike Hermida I think it's just a name he chose, not like he really thought Oedipus had Oedipus complex. Besides, the.. "psychological" nature of what happened to Oedipus is completely different from what happened with Elektra.
Manuel Lujan Exactly. It's just an expression. He just named the complex after Oedipus because of the simple rivalry part.
You've clearly never read Freud as he says that he tries to identify with the father to prevent castration anxiety
It's not about Oedipus not liking it, it's about him being unconsciously attracted to his mother. That's the basis of the theory, that kids unconsciously find their parents and their traits attractive.
really well drawn
ThePhrenegade Um no?
Te4mUp dang man I'm just saying it's well drawn no need for hate fam
Te4mUp Alright man there's no need for hostility.
Trump 2016 Racist white male
Te4mUp I don't see how race has anything to do with anything but just so I'm pure blood Ethiopian. I understand how "racist" could be used by you as an insult but being a "white male" isn't inherently bad in my opinion. Have a Merry Christmas by the way!
Freud seems to have been more concerned with marketing his idea rather than justifying it. If it weren't for the intentional sensationalism, his "theory" would have been long forgotten.
Alexei Fando If Freud is no good then why does everyone still talk about him?
Well, like I said, the reason people still talk about him is because many of his ideas were sensational, like men wanting to sleep with their mothers, which is bs. Also he was among the first to establish the practice of psychoanalysis. Mostly he was first on the scene of introducing the practice of psychology, despite being wrong on too many accounts. Most of his ideas are not academically credible today. This is not a secret. His importance today is perhaps due to his impact on modern culture instead of academia. www.google.ca/amp/io9.gizmodo.com/why-freud-still-matters-when-he-was-wrong-about-almost-1055800815/amp
wastelandsoldier1 that’s was to keep bloodlines pure. But the normal person would marry some one outside of the family. Most people don’t want to fuck their family memebers
@@alexeifando747 Only a few men desired their mothers sexually, but that's due to clingy upbringings.
Nope a prepubertal boy hardly know what is sexual activities or dream of it... He is just attracted to feminine figure of his mother and wants her all the love and affection.
I don't believe in the Oedipus Complex, Freud may have felt this way and wanted everybody to feel the same because he was ashamed. I honestly didn't want to kill my mom and have sex with my dad when i was little. At least that's my opinion
+shannon kif Maybe the Oedipus complex doesn't affect everyone?
+shannon kif According to Freud, you may be able to say that, but the truth is that you don't remember it. It's all subconscious...But, then again...If it's subconscious, how do we prove it?
its not about belive or not, its science
No scientific proof behind his hypothesis, so disregard it
Freud was a crackhead who was only right about a couple things.
Really now cause when my dad kissed my mom I always felt happy for them and the of incest is Alien to me
I never had a close relationship with anyone in my family. Dependency is a more apt description. That in of itself is dysfunctional. And i passed that on to my kids who are closer to their mother as the emotionally healthy parent.
BINGO! It doesn't have to be sexual for the basic tenets of the theory to work.
Not what I wanted or planned to come across this morning, but it is so important for humans to understand and face these things so we can someday rise above the base urges that drive much of our motivations;without us being aware most of the time, and become something better stronger than just... our "feelings".
I agree with Freud, basically I think that your mom, being the first lady in your life greatly effects your development, and you associate femininity automatically with your mother subconsciously. so when you see an attractive lady, chances are she has some features of your mother, mainly hair color and other maternal features.
Is the inconsciently that do this, and not the subconsciously
I guess if they're good parents, goodness can be seen as attractive by the child, but viewing them sexually without having an aversion to that idea of the parent, is bizarre.
So parents set the standard for attraction
@@FeathersOnFire probably
@@RNB_lovr yeah its like in an exam the Average mark students in a class get is 70%, doesn't mean you are absolutely gonna get 70%, that's just the main standard
Did it make sense-
I never went through this because my dad left us and I’ve never been so happy about it😌✌🏻
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That's not a good thing, its called having daddy issues
funny!
so you have daddy issues? 👀
A feeling of family-arity as in "I feel like I have known you all my life" often precedes "falling in love" or "love at first sight." I wonder.....?
yeah, an argument can also be made that we subconsciously want every one of opposite sex in the world under our command, but how could that mean anything?
I'm not saying everyone has these sexual thoughts about their parents, I think it's more like a vague,
extremely indirect and unconscious feeling that we grow out of. We didnt know any social constructs or how things work or should work when we wree kids. We are saying now that it's awful (ik it is) when we understand better. It sounds logical to me. But if anyone wants to discuss and talk let's talk
Sangwoo real quiet after this video
STOP
Chris Chan
I was just waiting for it, and here it is
It sounds like Freud was trying to suggest that the child is driving the sexual intent subconsciously which is a great observation but needs a lot of clarification to be responsible today. Honestly, both theories are great but Westmarck’s effect makes ethical and biological sense and is the winning theory for meeee. Thank you reading❤❤❤❤
Now you know why someone came up with the family game "Twisters".
0:00 baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more
I don’t think I have a mother complex, I just want to be comforted by someone older than me. Someone with more experience in life, someone who knows about my and how to live it. It’s comforting to me.
You may want to think again since your desire is based on comforting emotions as opposed to a logical conclusion.
Killin Villains Well crap... Thanks for helping me understand though.
A Gacha Guy. No problem. Continue your journey of self-exploration, especially through psychoanalysis. Sometimes all that is needed to spark your transformation is an epiphany :)
Killin Villains I’ll definitely continue exploring! :D Good luck on you’re journey as well!
A Gacha Guy. Thanks!
It does sound like Freud started these ideas off after giving therapy to people who reported childhood abuse, which would explain like 70% of it in my opinion. :(
he did; he attributed childhood abuse to most neurological disorders very early on in his work
lmao is that Danny devito at 1:19
Baby dont hurt me
How would you describe the kind of parent-child relationship in “My Oedipus Complex” Support your response with textual evidence from the story. You must explain/prove how these quotes/examples relate to your response.
can any one help me in this question
Westermarck is right
Sean Romero I've seen guys with the problem.. it's something else.. definitely not lust.. but something related to strange psychology. All the cases I've seen where men had this syndrome, this lust-slave thung would be happening with wives.. but the mother thing is caused by the mother herself.. every case had an evil mother.. evil
Tell that to everyone with mommy/daddy issues
With a narcissistic mother, it could definitely cause problems for the guy. My narc ex had a very narcissistic mother. She smothered him with her conditional love. She saw him as an extension of herself. He began to compare me to her, but I'm in no way like her fortunately. She couldn't stand me because I was taking her son away from her in her eyes. She just began criticizing me whenever I was around her. She is an evil woman.
I’ve never been in love with my dad🙄. He was the strict parent growing up, I was hella a little scared lol. Proves that this is not true for everyone
It’s unconscious lmao, no one except in Alabama is going to just straight up lust after their genetic parents. It’s more of being loved by your dad and getting jealous when he shares that love with someone else, say your mom.
It's an unconscious thing that happens when you are a small child, it doesn't mean you are lustful toward your parent in a sexual way
I don’t care what he talks about, I could listen to Aiden Turner all day
Here after learning more about Jim Morrison. What a badass
This was one of the answers on my psychology test so I’m just making sure I wasn’t wrong lol
That’s it? No, the Oedipal mother weakens her children so they never leave her. There’s tension is her relationship with the father, so she gets her needs met by the kids. She does everything for them so long as they never leave. They become grown-up infants. It’s really sad.
Could have not said any more succinctly 👏.
alabama complex
Couldn't have said it more succinctly. 😂❤❤❤
I think Freud was just trying to justify a little neural tangling he had in his own brain
court et concis, avec des mots simples . ça devrait être plus diffusé :)
Freud's logic is clouded by his dark past. He's not so reliable.
Real name Fraud. Commonly known as Frued.
he started a wave of new ideas... so fraud or not we live better today because of it
Evidence and time shows humanity to be one coin with two sides.
Is it any wonder why his books were burned?
His books shouldn't have been burned but he does sound crazy
I used to respect Freud until I learned he altered his data to fit his perceived narratives. Newton is also accused of this, too.
Edward Finley
Newton, AFAIK, didn't alter data or even collect them. He derived data mainly from the works of Tycho Brahe and Johann Kepler. Even then, making up data might be more justified in mathematical areas like physics where things are mathematically proven to work in certain ways. i mean, come on! who didn't cheat in physics and chemistry lab exams?
Needless to say, whether he made shit up or not, his theories were pretty darn accurate and he was a great genius
Freud only used "mother" and "father" as symbolic placeholders for intimacy and authority; a point lost on this video and most of the time people discuss the Oedipus Complex. This video does it better: th-cam.com/video/2pu5aKvdvXc/w-d-xo.html
Awesome sketch
“Five years ago you posted under a video about the oedipus complex, quote, “if she’s bad she’s bad”, end quote. What do you have to say for yourself?”
What about the children who grew up without a father or mother or both?
Imagine making groundbreaking mental gymnastics just to justify you’re own kinks
I think this is just a thought experiment and is only limited to fictions.
*In real life, who is insane enough to do this?*
If you visit Pornhub in 2019 you can clearly see that Sigmund was right. every other video is MOM or SISTER tabboo
Oedip complex isnt only sexual nature, it is active response to fathers violent aggressive terror to child as neurotic sadistic need for control and make fear and anxiu.to others.
Child use mother as sanctuary harbour where find tender response for narcissistic oceanic feelings and expectation and make narcisstic balance.
Oedipus complex is relative thing..adler, fromm, jung have different approach.
0:53 nice
Freud probably was just weird lmao
me when i was little : can't even remember my father's younger face cause i was too buisy dreaming about space anime and halo creatures and a red bicycle
turns out I'm a pansexual mess 🤣
Turns out your just bisexual but you want to be new and hip
@@mortemssoul6342 whats wrong with that ?
I had this towards all other aunties aged betwenn 25-40 .
but I did not face this problem with my mother or sister honestly
then what is my problem am I having Oedipus or AM i honest.??
Imo its the fact that parents are the first figures we can make an analisys on so wr take them in that context as role modles for our thing.
I'm watching this video just to figure out how to pronounce oedipal
I'm here because of the R Kelly documentary. 🤔
I like women that are completely unlike my mom + dad
Think about that for a minute
Maybe you have "Penis Envy".
Freud's theory was not so shallow, and focused on very deep emotions from childhoos. He is slandered much, nowadays. The woke crowd don't like biological facts, only sociological theories. 😂
Karen, Freudism is a sociological theories. Freudomarxism = woke. Stop kiss ur mother for god
This theory is insane and demented
Don’t blame the theory. It’s just an amoral hypothesis of things and concepts which may be real.
You should check out the definition of the word complex. Because this problem is waaaay too complex to explain to people in 1:41
Freud casually calling himself out
Nobody:
Sigmun freud: "Yo mamma".
Comment section is not it. Sigmund is right but ithis is very very very very slim
This shit is just fucking sick.
Didn’t know 😭 this is very interesting
Sick, disgusting Daddy diddler
Jokes on you, my parents are divorced
*cries*
:( it's ok buddy
@@annaschneider225 lol don’t worry they divorced when I was really little so I don’t remember it
@@whatamidoingwithmylife3229 Yea but it's still sad
*cries*
(Same tho. I was twelve)
I have my doubts about both theories
Chris chan….
I believe that theory which says .. we are not attracted sexually to those whom we grow up with.. eg mother,father, sister, brother and so on ..
but again exceptions are for every thing and everyone .. some do develop sexual feelings for the blood related's .
Norman Bates brought me, here. B)
when i called my bf Norman Bates whenever he would act like I was the 3rd wheel to him and his moms choosing each other over me, he would go crazy because he resembled that remark
Well tell that to Alabama
Watch the film “Womb” it’ll fuck you up
Sickman Freud
Sure we have to give credit to Freud bla bla bla whatever. But, who in their right mind was a child that lusted for a parent? And why is that concept still being taught today?! Drives me up the wall
This for some reason reminds me of the song "my mum was a woman" by Sidney carter
Wow the amount of people who dont believe in his theory beacause he do "cocaine",is insane.
I think his theory is wrong, period.
This guy's voice is hot
1:30 Well, nature is not doing a great job right now, does it?
R. I. P. Oedipus and Electra.
Hey, my momma says I got an Oedipus complex.
naw this only applies to people that live in trailer parks way south!
MOMMY MOMMY GIVE ME MILKIES
Aidan Turner in the circle at 0:11?