I agree with almost everything but she says once you realise you’re the universe? Once you realise you’re enlightened. That’s a completely different thing
I appreciate this video and agree with everything with a small tweak. Personally, I don't think the runner/chaser delineation is as clear cut as you say for some of us. Since your twin is you, it doesn't make sense for one person to consistently be chasing and the other to be consistently running. It makes more sense that you are both running and chasing at the same time but it manifests differently. I noticed that everytime I sense that my twin is pulling away, it's because he's responding to me pulling away (although I'm not always conscious of it in the moment) and vice versa.
I will read your book again. This video has me thinking. As I move along my spiritual journey, I notice changes in my spiritual growth and feelings towards my twin. I have not seen him since he left. He texts occasionally on birthdays, and maybe holidays. I have gone from thinking I would choose him, to not wanting him back, to having boundaries, etc., etc. Now I feel a depth and compassion for him. This compassion extends to other people who are having issues. I guess that's the word. ( Before I would think unless it's an emergency or death or illness, " Just deal with it. Everyone has problems"). It's strange to me that I no longer resonate with the idea of the twin I remember. It's like I feel neutral towards him. I continue my inner work.🤗💕🙏
Thank you for posting this. I have been struggling for the last year and half ever since I met this girl who I am deeply in love with. After listening to this I’m 95% sure she is my twin because of the immense energy and love I felt. It was instant. Like I was looking at myself in the female form. We met in April and it was an instant connection. Like we knew each other for years. Went on Two dates and then boom. Runner chaser, avoidance, karmic lessons, intense emotions and over reactiveness. I couldn’t function for the first few months nor could I sleep. I still can’t to be honest but it’s not as bad as when she first ran away. The separation hurts so bad and not a second goes by where she isn’t in my head. I keep finding myself in self doubt and trying to understand what is happening to me but you’ve given me some clarity with this explanation. I was getting so confused because of all the mis communications surrounding this topic. People claiming they were twin flames with their best friends and other people who were married so I could never really tell if she was my twin or not because of the crap circling around this topic. There is so much mis information and I feel people make shit up just to self justify their feelings and what they want to believe. Anyways, I’m still in separation and haven’t had any communication yet so curious how I can speed up union with her? If how I’m feeling is any indication of my connection with her then I know she is struggling and I just want to be with her to help her and be there for her during these tough times. I feel so emotional sometimes and get waves of deep turmoil and wounds. What do I have to do to make this happen? I’ve tried everything. Meditations, tarot card readings up the wagzoo. I spent thousands on psychos and each one of them tells me she is coming back and many say she is my twin. I believe it but I can seem to manifest union….
We are all on our own unique twin flame journey. The twin flame journey is about the relationship between your own inner masculine and feminine side. The twins are 2 different sides of you that is asking you to balance the two into ONE. Some can do the journey alone on the inside and others needs to do the journey both on the inside and in the physical with another body. The journey is to come into oneness with yourself. It all comes down to resonance. It is all the same thing what ever you call it karmic, soulmates, “false twin flame or twin flames. It is alle the same thing on different stages on your journey. It is separation consciousness to put special labels on your helpers on the journey to ascension. Would you ever argue that an appel is the right fruit compared to an orange? They are both fruit. And there are all kinds of varieties. Our own judgement creates duality and separation. Please follow your own guidance. You can look after others for inspiration on what they are going through on their your. There is no such thing as one truths or the “right” way on the journey. All roads leads to Rome there no such thing as the right path. Some are longer some are shorter. Some are more painful than others. You will experience exactly what you need to experience in order for you to come into oneness with yourself. Trust that your path is the right path for you and be your own judge and not anybody else be the judge of that. You are the only one knowing your truth and path. It is painful and beautiful at the same time. But unconsciously when we think that others know the right way for us we invite so much pain into the journey. Trust yourself, you are the only one knowing the “right “ way for you. At some point when you have come into union with yourself you don’t need the twin but you can choose them. Trust yourself and your unique path. You got this ❤
False, I take it you’re not on this journey. Especially if you intend to stroke your own & every else’s ego. There’s unique distinctive science to this journey.
Maybe Im fake and maybe i am the eternal truth or maybe i am everything in between. Does it really matter? We see what we are looking for. We all have free will to choose what we see in ourselves and others. We are asked to choose all the time.
Absolutely correct and the other souls you meet are also pertinent for lessons and activations. 4 1/2 my connections were illuminated when I met them. I am merging into Hieros Gamos I am waiting for them to anchor in permanent union, and then we will remeet the 3-D there. They’re coming in for a permanent 3-D union but originally it was hopeless when they were on the loveless timeline. I say that relationships are our greatest catalyst for growth!!
it’s completely valid to mention the romantic nature of the relationship. i do think it’s worth spending more time on what this actually means. for instance, it can feel romantic on one end but if the runner has a hard ego issue then they can run away prior to making things “official”. i think broadening upon the romantic nature of things would help people distinguish a karmic they’re perhaps projecting upon and a true twin flame.
I think when you meet the twin it's so overwhelmingly romantic at the gate at least that's how my experience was and the energy exchange is huge. Like nothing I've ever experienced before and I've had intense karmic relationships too. This is different
Interesting. With me, we worked together. My twin noticed me first. We were friends and I "fell in love" during heart center activation. Surprise! Then we began a relationship.
It is not only a hard ego, but a trauma from past lives which can block the memories what happened between you two in that specific life. I feel and sense the bond, while my supposed twin is somehow consciously unaware of that, feeling unease and fear (about very intense emotions and about intimacy) and sometimes she is literally ignoring me. The strangest thing is that when we talk she is very rarely looking when she speaks to me because no other woman looks away or is looking away when she speaks to me!
Twin flame energy is the most intense energy one will ever experience. No karmic can match that intensity and euphoria. Most people who are not TFs won’t understand because they haven’t experienced it. You can’t mistaken it.
I just want to add more sign which I think is the most important for those who don’t know it yet, you are 100% on your twinflame journey when you recognize that you are one with your twin and both of you are the pure energy of the universe: Love. We all are love. Meeting our twinflame get us remember the nature of who we trully are. Once you get there, you always know 100% he/she is the one. Nothing/no one can deny this crazy and beautiful connection. Remember yourself. You are love.
Hi Alexx, I'm sure you are a very busy person but I have a question that I have never seen addressed and I really hope you will answer. Is the TF journey/nightmare something that souls go through one time or does it happen in multiple incarnations? I have been on this "journey" for 48 years, and while I believe it has triggered my spiritual awakening and a lot of good has come from it, the thought of having to go through it again is very depressing. I have read your book and dozens of others and I still sometimes have a lot doubts but then I think about the events that have occurred in my life and I know SOMETHING is happening. Thank you!
Well as you are the universe, you will go through everything forever and never. You're asking regarding your personal Ego. No, your personal Ego will not go through any of this ever again. Also, "Reincarnating with your Twin Flame" and "Twin Flames and Past Lives" videos
So your video "The 1 sign" was what I found that really made me go oh **** this is a twin flame journey. I really stopped doubting, but after this video, now I'm like double **** I'm on this journey and there is no getting off the ride 😂😂
I definitely agree with all of this, and love your use of 'unconditional love' for everything in existence as one of the signs. This seems to really sink in when you deeply realize (not just 'agree with') that energy is all the same.. as youve referenced many times, its just way, way more intense when we interact with a Twin since they are the exact same source of energy. (I think the video you were trying to remember might be 'Sexual Energy and the Twin Flame'?) Looking forward to the video next week. Thanks as always for your continued dedication to providing clarity on the soul family Alexx! 😊
Hi Alexx! I know you already did a video on the 3 Core Karmic lessons and in your book you talk about it. But could you make an in-depth video about the Core Karmic lesson Self-Worth?
I have not had a physical experience with him as of yet, but that does not mean he is not my twin flame. I feel because things were so wild and crazy, I chose to wait and be non-physical, at least on the day I was perceived he wanted to. This holding back response to him caused a split for us at least the first time and again the second. This was part of the mirroring going on between us. Please know I have integrity and I don’t care what emotions are at play and that means even when connecting with him. My past has taught me integrity 1st and emotion 2nd otherwise, I’ll never win in my mind. So with this being said, I wish I had been physical, because this has been so crazy, that it would have at least been comforting to have had that much with him. I hope you are not suggesting you have to have sex after you meet for it to be your twin flame… I understand you may not fully be on journey until this point, but I’m making this clarification and distinction. Thank you for your videos. Does what I’m saying makes sense to you? You might want to clarify that taking further action on sexuality or romantic feelings is not an indicator of whether someone is or is not your twin flame. The twins are have soul merger as it is even though sexuality in the earthly sense is important, we’re all in different places with our developmental stages and karmic reasons for making the choices we make. The higher selves are already merged in spirit though kundalini energy would further be activated by the physical/ sexual union. The video almost comes across that it is important for that to have taken place or it’s not your twin flame. Maybe you can make a comment and just clarify on your take. In this fast paced world I realised most everyone who has a twin flame may have already been sexual with them. This however, should not be a yes or a no to whether or not they are your twin flame. Yes, I understand that it will be the most romantic connection of all connections you could have. Regardless, of your stance on this, I have my own guidance, authority, but I do consider this platform an excellent source for sharing! Thank you for your clarifying and response. 😊 I just re-listened to the video again and you did comment you that may not have physicality in the beginning. I will tell you this has been five years now with runs- ins with my twin. So according to this video, I am still in the beginning phases OR your suggestion is it’s a different member of the soul family. No, I don’t think he is a different member of the soul family. I think part of our karma is tied up in my response to immediate sexuality. I think being black and white about this one isn’t really a sure bet to super impose over all experiences that others may be having with their so-called twin flame. This is my opinion and since, I have my own personal experience, I have to go with my own guidance, intuition and gut feeling on this one, as in referencing my own twin flame experiences. Since, I have direct telepathic communication with his higher self, clearance and backing from my guidance that he is my twin flame and continual on-going telepathic communication and yet more references and synchronistic events from the universe then, that’s what I’m going pardon way to. I think there could be a little better clarity with this video, as so not to super impose anything that is absolute when it comes to the timing of sexuality with a twin. I absolutely love your information and videos. It’s been supportive and helpful. I’m so deeply appreciative! ❤
I came in to consciousness based on many coinciding variables. Looking back now I feel I can’t be sure if this concept applies to me, even though I ticked the boxes. So I’ve given it a break lol. I definitely prefer to be holistic about it all now.
I was never in a relationship with my other self but we were sexually involved the very first time we were in each others presence alone. I don't think there was any other way around it, the sexual attraction is out of this world. I completely agree with you. There really isn't any holding back when you meet a part of yourself like that. lol
Great video! I highly recommend you read Alexx's book. That was and still is my anchor/something to hold on to to sail and navigate through my relationships.
What do you say to the very cohesive and articulate notion that the 'TF journey' shares pretty much the same 'stages' as a narcissist/empath dynamic? A year and a half it's been since I met her and my life/inner world has turned upside down. The magnetic meeting, the intense love, the age difference (I'm a male 'DF', 45, she 29. She a musician, as am I. Didn't know abou the TF thing until I began to research obsession when she rejected me and I thought I was losing my mind. It's all there although there was no 'bubble love' phase. She claims not only that she doesn't find me physically attractive ('too pretty' apparently), but that she doesn't even like me, and after hanging out playing music a bit I ended it as I just couldn't pretend 'just friends' anymore. A month passed and we randomly crossed paths in a town I was playing in. Her inconsistency in character made no sense but if I view her behaviour through the traits of NPD (covert), it all fits unerringly well. Can not all the signs and synchronicities be something dark, new age flim-flam darkness dressed as good spiritual? Many of these folk online seem nothing but deluded and deranged to me, though yourself and one or two others are articulate and seem broadly knowledgeable in timeless spiritual truths as to make the TF stuff credible. A slight ramble there but would take a novel to really clarify this maddening stuff.
As you continue on, you will see that the journey is reconciling trauma responses in the human condition. Narcissism is a trauma response. Borderline (empaths) are the inverse of narcissism as a result of trauma and neglect. We begin balancing that energetic imbalance the moment we engage our other incarnation. The soul is here doing 5D ascension that is simultaneously ascending the human "species". It's literally SELF help.
Have watched all your output on the subject, including the video you mention. The difference between narc/TF seems to be in the way (or not) it impacts you in the deepest levels. I had all but given up on pursuing music until meeting her, after which I was very creative with songwriting again (songs about her, for reasons at the time that I didn't understand). All my insecurities and senses of failure and inadequacy have risen with a vengeance, as well as a rekindling of my spiritual understandings, which had gone a bit dormant. Either way I suppose the upshot is the same - self-improvement, if only to occupy the mind enough to subdue her presence which seems always with me, as does the unfathomable love and understanding I seem to naturally have for her despite her shady behaviours and rejection of me for being 'too emotional', which was likely true due to the intense love. The synchronicities and mirror lives/similarities/ are off the scale (I tried to forget her and go on a date. As my date arrived a song came on with Her very unusual name in it. These sorts of things are now so often as to be unremarkable!). I suppose like most I just look for some certainty or reassurance about it all, but I realise that it's a bit of a 'lest ye see miracles ye shall not believe' situation. I watched your Q&A with you own 'TF' and you do see to share an energy, even appearance somehow. Many of the TF videos and adherents seem sort of spellbound and deluded, but who am I to judge, I suppose? Just seems a very natural caution is required with anything of such intensity. Thanks again 🙏🏻
You are right about it a) being a terrible thing to accuse someone of, and that b) many of the 'narcissistic' things I think she does, I catch myself and think yes, but I do that also! That this kind of love can't come from darkness is the only thing that still has me believe this is real.@@wearethesamenergy
Wild card question. I had a feeling of absordbing my twins energy ghost. And now it is permanently inside of my body instead of outside. I also feel as if the presence is my own and everything else. I know its my ego filtering the energy a certain way. But the interconnected energy is trippy sometimes. Is this a common feeling for twins?
Thank you🙏🏻 Thank you🙏🏻 Thank you🙏🏻 I really needed this confirmation. Every word you say is just spot on - the romantic feeling, the spiritual seeking, the unconditional love, the interconnectedness, the triggers… everything. Oh! How much I’ve tried to deny this romantic feeling, hoping to reject the journey.… only to come o to surrender ☯️🕉️
Isn't twin flame love limerance? Forgive me if I'm offensive. My intention is not to hurt anyone's feelings by questioning their beliefs (that is, they're in a twin flame journey). I myself spent three years believing I'm in a TF journey. But, now I've started questioning if this is limerence.
@@mgn1621 no it is not. I am a Kundalini and yoga teacher. I had an Awakening out of tantric workshop with Sally kempthorne years ago and my twin flame I hadn't met yet you can have Kundalini Awakening all the time
@@noahalexander26 a kundalini awakening isn’t exclusive to TF’s, I never said that. , but if you are in a TF connection, then you would have experienced a kundalini awakening.
Hi, I am about to meet my twin flame physically in 3D next week after our first separation. He is coming in to my town. I am currently in this obsessive stage. I am so nervous about our first little physical reunion in 3D. Could you please provide some advice on what to do? I know I have a lot of healing I need to do and have been trying to focus on myself. It has been so hard. I am so nervous about our first reunion after the first separation. Any advice is appreciated! Thank you!
You've must read my mind, I was thinking about contacting you about my situation with this certain person, part of me believes that I'm on this journey, but at the same time I don't! Make sense? Part of Me believes that she's the twin, but I also believes that she could either be a karmic or karmic soulmate.. Can you and the Twin have this romantic connection once you're in reunion or does it happen before the first no contact?
How can there be a separation if there was no beginning? You're saying you were friends and just stopped talking and then got together and it became romantic?
Greetings, could you give us your insight on the twin flame waves. There have been a few videos I’ve seen. From the information I’ve received from these videos do resonate. Each wave seems to be tackling different areas of the Journey. For example I’m about of the “3rd wave” 2019- 2024. That wave makes so much sense considering the age & all the symptoms I’ve experienced as opposed to the 1st & 2nd wave. My twin & I have been in moderate contact. Visiting each other. Yes, the awakening & kundalini awakening is still the same process. The push & pull, the Journey to self. Etc… seems like the 3rd wave is more about anchoring the energies the first & second wave had to break through.
I think I have met my twin but I now think we will never be together. There are so many things in the way…. He lives in another country, there is a large age gap, he is religious, I am not. However we both have admiration for each other and that’s enough for now .
Same story here, she wants to be friends, but I can‘t do it, because it‘s too painful for me and it would be too one-sided, because I would always want more then her. So I went no contact
The only thing that would put me in my ego, is the romantic part, it has not yet happened, but it’s because it’s very circumstantial in some cases. If it happened as soon as we met we would have both gotten into trouble. But, I loved her the moment I laid eyes on her. I also think, if we are hyper focused on other soul family members under the impression that they are a twin flame it can delay a realization.
I still have doubts that I’m on a TF journey because 3.5 years after separation, my Twin hasn’t even so much as acknowledged my existence. Each time I see your videos, the feeling that he is my Twin gets reinforced, especially when I think about the enormous self-growth I’ve gone through. Thank you, Alexx, because, to those of us on the actual journey, EVERYTHING you talk about rings true. I do have one question…is all of this true for both twins or just the chaser energy twin? Oh, and, yes, I highly recommend Alexx’s book for anyone (not just TFs). Each time I pick it up, I learn something or realize something new because I’ve had an experience that puts things into context. It’s a guide for all human interactions and relationships…it should be a best-seller!
It happens for both Twins, but the interconnectedness feeling and unconditional love more goes in and out for the Runner. Even after their ED and/or Union with Self, they have a way harder time of staying within the energy. 💜💜
@@wearethesamenergy And what if a "runner" has a memory blockage (from a previous life) in the heart chakra about intimacy and love toward others and his divine "chaser" counterpart?
I have met my TF. But we both are married to someone else. Do you think it is possible for a married Indian lady to be romantic with some other man, even though he happens to be her TF? I would say impossible, considering the social stigma we both would have to bear. Her nature is so much like me. I have intense feelings for her. Not sure if she feels the same for me. As per @5:34, are we not on a TF journey? I have experienced spiritual awakening.
There is social stigma everywhere; it's not just in India. That's the Ego, and that's exactly what the TF journey is about: overcoming the Ego no matter what.
@wearethesamenergy - But isn't that supposed to be an extra marital affair? Which married lady would overcome her ego to accept another man as her TF. She might accept within herself, but not openly.
Do you think that saying what the other person is thinking is a sign of being twin flames? It has happened to me several times that she makes a joke I had just thought of but didn’t say, which surprises me a lot. On the other hand, I find it hard to start a relationship with her due to ideological or political differences.
The most fun thing is - hey, we are one and we are all the same, but let me teach you, because I’m the expert more superior than you are, as huge as I’ve already published the book.
This is perfect. And for some reason with TH-cam I guess I have two accountso I've been commenting under two different names LOL . I'm the person who said I've been in long-term separation and I felt like I was in Union or still am I supposed and then he emailed me and it sent my ego into a mad dash frenzy and I RAN then I think I even argued with you on other videos saying egoic shit because I was so freaked out by his 3D return but Alexx it's like all of a sudden last night it's like I get it and you have helped me so much in this journey. I cannot quite articulate what it is that I'm'getting' but I feel it if that makes sense. I must say I must have a stubborn ego cuz it's takenbme 7 years to finally go "ohhhhhh'😊
This is a great video as always. Love you're channel, Alexx. You have played a huge part in helping me navigate my TF journey. I have a question that maybe you can address in a video sometime. So you say that a TF connection is romantic partner only. Isn't that really only in the beginning at the level of the mind? Because romance really is an egoic construct. When you transcend the ego and duality and remember unity consciousness...the Universe manifested in physical form, then isn't it possible that your TF can actually be whatever you want them to be in your life?
Love this question, and it ties all my videos together. Romance is both Ego and biological, absolutely. It's about how the Ego filters the energy ("Sexual Attraction and the Twin Flame"). When the Ego is no longer in control and you remember you are the universe, you reach Union (many videos on that). At that point, the Ego is no longer attached to the 3D physical manifestation of the Twin and you get to choose whether you want them in your life ("Twin Flame Separation: an Important Message"). However, Twins cannot be friends (will have a video on this next year), and the Twin coming back into your life after Union turns the Ego back on (will talk about this in my Patreon next year). The connection energy can never be broken ("Breaking the Twin Flame Bond"). If you're in Union and you no longer want the Twin in the 3D, you will just go on your way, by yourself (in the 3D).
@@wearethesamenergyI I'm so looking forward to the video that you're going to do on the ego getting turned back on when the twin comes back in the 3d. This is what happened to me and I totally freaked out and I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this because as it sits of us far I've decided not to re-engage in the 3D with him
Can you feel like they’re your twin and them not acknowledging it while running away… she avoided even talking about the aspects and nature of our relationship/ what happened, how it was so much what we’d seemed to be searching for yet… fear kept us apart. I’d never even believed in the twin flame union or had knowledge, but as she pushed me away the last time it was the Dark Night of the Soul I went through. Uncomfortable, uncontrollable, unhinged, just felt lost like I’d never felt without her, yet she pushed me away seems denying the connection or not wanting it, but she’s dating someone else, seems happy, all I can do is wish her well now
In a twin flame journey when you are In a long separation, that’s been ongoing a 1 year and a half. Is it common to feel a lack of connectedness and not feel the energy to heal and grow the longer time passes being in separation. I fuss I am feeling hopeless I don’t know. I miss all the hope and growth energy that was brought out of me when I was with them. All the connections and lessons I realized I had to learn. I been feeling a lack of connection from everything/ everyone. Why is that? Does that mean this wasn’t twin flame journey or that I am taking steps backwards?
this even got me and I’m merging Hieros Gamos. I’m upset with the narrative as we know 99% of it is written by the Karmic template and I’m with the karmic consciouses your operating in the lower centers haven’t even been activated to have expanded consciousness yet they think they’re navigating a secret partnership and convince me they’re operating in the fifth dimensional conscious. I feel even people who write the narrative and truth often say twins don’t unite in union. Because 99% of people are experiencing a comic or a soulmate The first meeting the Heart activation was out of this world, and it is like Cupid’s love serum hit me the magnetism and chemistry was undefinable. I’m calling Kosmic Love. There’s been no physical romance as they pushed me away. They had not been activated yet. We also have a large age gap, and they watched straight into their karmic so they could have their descend down ascend up. I think you need to define this for your viewers what do you mean by romantic? I think people think oh I should be romantically involved as soon as I meet this twin. Mel brand said 5 twin flame, pair that did not come together for romance. I do know someone who has a very unusual story and she’s in union with hers energetically but I think she got activated randomly in a foreign country and they don’t even know each in the 3-D. a new thing that’s happening is a lot of people say they’re in energetic union and they have no idea who their twin is on the earth or how to find them. Someone said kundalini activated by twin dream and still never met them in person. my twin connected to me three years before I physically met them. IN monad it is pure utter romance unconditional love. Those romantic dreams are there continuously. The twin flame activations were constant for every time we made eye contact and they took me to volcanic levels. My friend have other illuminated connections as I had six total that activated me to higher planes of consciousness I only momentarily ascended for usually like a month. With a twin once you meet them, it will keep happening and it won’t stop. That both twins when they meet will have an instant heart activation. And three of my catalysts there were heart activations involved, on the painful physical side as in not the unconditional love bliss.
It’s very apparent the ones clearly, not on this Journey. Even in the collectives narrative. I don’t think people understand that the ones on this Journey initially don’t even want to be on this Journey. Atleast not until you surrender. I hear so much baiting from this topic. Sometimes I just shake my head. If you know you just truly know. Obsession & ego will have you completely gloating about this Journey. It will have you combative with apparent evidence that you’re in fact not on this Journey.
@@AngelTorres-p4p I completely resonate like I still don't want to be on a twin flame journey and I still don't want him to be my twin and I think those of us who resist it and don't want it ironically are on it and those that think every single person is their twin flame I don't know I just feel sorry for them
Hi Alexx If you have children outside Twin Flame connection, does this mean you wont have children with a twin in your union because the purpose of the connect is not to learn new karmic lessons? Please clarify in a follow up video to the one you titled ‘Why Twin Flames don’t have children together’ Sending high vibes and gratitude.🙏🏾
could you elaborate more on your video re: role reversal for the twins? iirc someone asked if it's possible for the chaser to get so hurt by the runner's actions that they all together stop chasing, even begin actively avoiding. the words & behaviors of the person who i think is my twin were so deeply painful when he initiated separation, and there's been no contact in over 6 months. i had to do emdr therapy over it and am still coming to terms with the devastation and the ways in which this experience has traumatized me. for context, i've known this person since high school. we reconnected in college in '21, but it was never in-person. we've maintained a friendship since then, but communication was limited to 1, maybe 2 phone calls a year per this person's avoidant tendencies. we saw each other in-person for the first time in 7 years this january, on 2 separate occassions. this is when i believe the journey started. we have not seen eachother in person in 11 months, and have not spoken in 6, after he said he no longer wanted to be my friend. i am distressed at the thought of this being a twin flame connection, because i feel like there is no escape from the emotional components of this relationship. i resonate with these signs and have experienced the connection symptoms, but am so terrified of how much power he has to hurt me. can twin flames have emotionally abusive tendencies? how do i protect myself in the midst of this fear and harm that has been done? i want to heal and grow, but if i avoid my twin, wouldn't i just be avoiding my own healing journey? i feel trapped.
I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all of this. I would suggest watching my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family" if you haven't already, and also "Twin Flame versus Karmic." There can be severe Karmics who feel exactly like a Twin but cause way more damage to the psyche.
Why am I thinking of DM so much stronger today and yesterday. The thoughts had started to lessen for quite a while now, but the last two days incredibly strong 😢
i have 2 questions...1. If my TF has avoidant tendencies, does that eventually heal? my gut says yes. 2. How does astrological compatibility play into twins...Is that even relevant?
@@wearethesamenergy thank you for responding. I am getting your book. By the way please tell me where you get your beautiful blouses...I am enjoying your videos and want to encourage you to keep going. You are doing great. I no longer listen to tarot readings and am focusing on myself...Thank you again.
That book is the straight TRUTH. Read in a day. The romanticism of the "twin flame" concept is represented in every metaphorical storyline. Isis/Osiris to Jesus/Mary Magdalene. A split atom is as brother/sister. When it reunites it's the alchemical marriage becoming husband/wife.
Hello Alexx, I do not know if you mentionned it or not in your videos, I only came across your channel. Do you know if TF are necessarily of the opposite sex (man/woman) ? Thank you for the channel, I love it that it is not full of egoic BS (yes I am judging 😅) and actually the real thing
Hey Alexx, It has been a couple of days that I have finally acknowledged completely that I am indeed on a TF journey which actually makes me feel whole and which is why I believe him to be my twin. I accepted this after fightimg with self for 2 years. The weird dynamic was - we met just once for 'catch up' , before that we met in a work setting but the pull was undeniable. I usually do not understand your explaination of the stage ' Muse' as it was not how I remember the dynamic( could be but I do not label it as one, or uttering anything out of the blue) because as I said, we met in a stressful work situation.... If there is any way to connect with you. I would love to discuss. If not, I thank you because your video about TF connection or Limerance helped me when I was researching and many more including ' the one sign'..
I have a doubt with unconditional love, if not here maybe you can cover in the upcoming video. So I dont know where I am in this journey, but I do feel a sense of love to everything and everyone. I am (mostly) able to love people.. my question is, at times they do something which hurts me or makes me uncomfortable and i feel so and then i wonder if i do have unconditional love...?
Twin flames are very very rare it’s crazy how half the planet swears they are with a twin 😩😩 no your twin flame isn’t a crackhead drug addict 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
But why i was already awaken? And he is too? Like we know about manifestation but the love for helping increase.. the unconditional love is Real tbh , i am experiencing this with him but i was already awaken , instantly i was attracted to him with other people is later on Now!! The one i had a awakening was very weird it was sex but it wasn’t romantic and i had a tower moment with him and had my awakening with I think with Twinflame the romance awakens YOU now i think i know the difference between a tower moment realization by someone awakening you or a Romantic parther trough the romance and love awakens you… bc i know the first was a catatalys and we never ended up together we barely saw each other and he was never Available to me. He even lied to keep me around and lead me on! He calls me his Ultilmate lover but he never choose me. With my Twin Soul i guess or Twinflame , i was actually feeling like i was extremely attracted to him and full of love , i was hiding from me , now this i the trippy part This men is 23 i am 31 ( he looks like me physically and ENERGETICALLY HE IS ME) i see myself and is him , we are SO DIFFERENT IN THE SAME WAY! i see myself trough him, i feel self conscious, we can fight and five minutes later we’re talking normal , we don’t hate each other… he as my same attitude but im more childlike he is more older in spirit but he is childlike too and i am more older in physical is weird to explain… Is so self conscious that the sex can be uncomfortable tbh bc is so much it weird me out. ( both ears ringing so confirming) we have the same face color hair he even as my same body type! As a men he as my same eye shape and jawline , people say we look alike. He is patient and im more desperate… hi avoidant im anxious. He is reserved im revealing. But we both empathic , and we dream about helping people! I think a clear sign of a TF is if you both share like something nice like helping others or something that is a service for humanity… isn’t a superficial thing ( might be too , depends on the Pair of twings nothing is Limited ) but yes. It creeps me out , i even get mad at him like earlier he send me a song i got triggered I didn’t even say anything. cuz he be really on my nerves Fr.
Peace & Blessings! Although I’m not resisting your explanation of why two could not be twin flames if having not met or physically/romantically connected, can you explain in more depth why? ✨
Sadly I don’t think the person I think is my twin and have been my twin for a year is in fact not my twin. We’ve only been talking for a week and a half but I swear I thought I felt some of the major symptoms after we cut communication. The obsession of thoughts about her , the dreams but at the same time it just seems way to short of a time span of us talking to really be a twin 😩
Hmm.. we didn't have anything, there is attraction, he was in a relationship, broke it up, now I am going to see what follows but it feels like I am in a paralel reality/different timeline where he does and says to me similar things like my father and is and acts like my father... Weird
They are saying that the nature of the connection in 3D must be a romantic one, not a guaranteed 3D relationship. It's one soul, but in order for the awakening process to occur it requires romantic interactions.
I don't think you can or should project your own experiences and interpretation of things onto everyone else. Everyone's journey is different, first and foremost. I won't deny I had romantic feelings for my "Twin" but this is NOT a relationship, and many true TF pairs will NOT all be single and readily available to be together romantically when they meet. I think your concept and definitions of all the soul connections are getting over blown and overly complicated. You add too much pop psychology to all this, wirh the focus on everyone else's ego, while apparently not looking at your own ego and how you are coming across with all this. Yes, it was someone I met in my career space, and yes I am the married one. Yes I had my "dark night of the Soul" (ego degradation), my Awakening, I have been working on myself for my own sake, and not for him, etc. And yes I have had a whole plethora of all the other "symptoms," including my psychic abilities expanding. I resonated with some aspects from your earlier content, but over the past few months this has just gotten worse and gone down hill. You cannot project only your assumptions and lens of experiences onto everyone else and say it right and true for everyone. This isn't coming from my "feelings" but a place of objectivity. You were right in saying you would get blowback on this one, and I think you should to make you stop and think about what you are doing....basically becoming another talking head on here about this topic, which you have some less experience with as you jumped on the whole monetization aspect and writing a book within less that two years of discovering you were on this path, supposedly. Many others of us met our TFs many years ago, and learned of this connection in unique, Divine timing as we were meant ro...and most of us aren't doing podcasts or writing books on this to monetize it. The egocentric tone here is almost just as bad as Kurt Johnson, but at least he is focusing more of his research and content on the actual spiritual and metaphysical nature of the connection (connection, not relationship), where you are utilizing way too much psychology here, trying to cram the Twin Flame phenomenon/connection purely and solely into an earthly, romantic relationship template, when this whole thing is beyond earth and is otherworldly. I have to question, who is it here that really isn't a Twin Flame counterpart? I am so suapext of these supposed "Twin Flame Couples" where suddenly the DM is coming out of the shadows doing videos with their DF. It's just way less common, and it's always the people monetizing this through a platform or whatever else. And that's a spring board for more cult like activity. Okay, I am now out on your content at rhis point. And yes, I know that doesn't hurt your feelings....but that's not my aim. Again, it's to get you to think. For your own business venture's sake, I hope you continue to do well with your platforms and book sales. But I'm not buying into this any further. All the best, J-
Oh wow, I am here for this! Just recently went thru this....THE PULL IS INSANE 🔥🔥☺️❤❤🫨🤯😵💫🤯😵💫❤❤😫😮💨😭😢🥺😏😌🥹 & It Is Unconditional Love❤ Also, gave you a follow & will get your book.
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So true by so far, 🌈
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I agree with almost everything but she says once you realise you’re the universe?
Once you realise you’re enlightened.
That’s a completely different thing
I appreciate this video and agree with everything with a small tweak. Personally, I don't think the runner/chaser delineation is as clear cut as you say for some of us. Since your twin is you, it doesn't make sense for one person to consistently be chasing and the other to be consistently running. It makes more sense that you are both running and chasing at the same time but it manifests differently. I noticed that everytime I sense that my twin is pulling away, it's because he's responding to me pulling away (although I'm not always conscious of it in the moment) and vice versa.
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I will read your book again. This video has me thinking. As I move along my spiritual journey, I notice changes in my spiritual growth and feelings towards my twin. I have not seen him since he left. He texts occasionally on birthdays, and maybe holidays. I have gone from thinking I would choose him, to not wanting him back, to having boundaries, etc., etc. Now I feel a depth and compassion for him. This compassion extends to other people who are having issues. I guess that's the word. ( Before I would think unless it's an emergency or death or illness, " Just deal with it. Everyone has problems"). It's strange to me that I no longer resonate with the idea of the twin I remember. It's like I feel neutral towards him. I continue my inner work.🤗💕🙏
Starts at 2:15 everything is her own chan nel hype
Thank you for posting this. I have been struggling for the last year and half ever since I met this girl who I am deeply in love with. After listening to this I’m 95% sure she is my twin because of the immense energy and love I felt. It was instant. Like I was looking at myself in the female form.
We met in April and it was an instant connection. Like we knew each other for years. Went on Two dates and then boom. Runner chaser, avoidance, karmic lessons, intense emotions and over reactiveness. I couldn’t function for the first few months nor could I sleep. I still can’t to be honest but it’s not as bad as when she first ran away.
The separation hurts so bad and not a second goes by where she isn’t in my head. I keep finding myself in self doubt and trying to understand what is happening to me but you’ve given me some clarity with this explanation.
I was getting so confused because of all the mis communications surrounding this topic. People claiming they were twin flames with their best friends and other people who were married so I could never really tell if she was my twin or not because of the crap circling around this topic. There is so much mis information and I feel people make shit up just to self justify their feelings and what they want to believe.
Anyways, I’m still in separation and haven’t had any communication yet so curious how I can speed up union with her? If how I’m feeling is any indication of my connection with her then I know she is struggling and I just want to be with her to help her and be there for her during these tough times. I feel so emotional sometimes and get waves of deep turmoil and wounds. What do I have to do to make this happen?
I’ve tried everything. Meditations, tarot card readings up the wagzoo. I spent thousands on psychos and each one of them tells me she is coming back and many say she is my twin. I believe it but I can seem to manifest union….
We are all on our own unique twin flame journey. The twin flame journey is about the relationship between your own inner masculine and feminine side. The twins are 2 different sides of you that is asking you to balance the two into ONE. Some can do the journey alone on the inside and others needs to do the journey both on the inside and in the physical with another body. The journey is to come into oneness with yourself.
It all comes down to resonance. It is all the same thing what ever you call it karmic, soulmates, “false twin flame or twin flames. It is alle the same thing on different stages on your journey. It is separation consciousness to put special labels on your helpers on the journey to ascension. Would you ever argue that an appel is the right fruit compared to an orange? They are both fruit. And there are all kinds of varieties. Our own judgement creates duality and separation.
Please follow your own guidance. You can look after others for inspiration on what they are going through on their your. There is no such thing as one truths or the “right” way on the journey. All roads leads to Rome there no such thing as the right path.
Some are longer some are shorter. Some are more painful than others. You will experience exactly what you need to experience in order for you to come into oneness with yourself.
Trust that your path is the right path for you and be your own judge and not anybody else be the judge of that. You are the only one knowing your truth and path. It is painful and beautiful at the same time. But unconsciously when we think that others know the right way for us we invite so much pain into the journey. Trust yourself, you are the only one knowing the “right “ way for you. At some point when you have come into union with yourself you don’t need the twin but you can choose them. Trust yourself and your unique path. You got this ❤
Thankyou
False, I take it you’re not on this journey. Especially if you intend to stroke your own & every else’s ego. There’s unique distinctive science to this journey.
Maybe Im fake and maybe i am the eternal truth or maybe i am everything in between. Does it really matter? We see what we are looking for. We all have free will to choose what we see in ourselves and others. We are asked to choose all the time.
Absolutely correct and the other souls you meet are also pertinent for lessons and activations. 4 1/2 my connections were illuminated when I met them.
I am merging into Hieros Gamos I am waiting for them to anchor in permanent union, and then we will remeet the 3-D there. They’re coming in for a permanent 3-D union but originally it was hopeless when they were on the loveless timeline.
I say that relationships are our greatest catalyst for growth!!
it’s completely valid to mention the romantic nature of the relationship. i do think it’s worth spending more time on what this actually means. for instance, it can feel romantic on one end but if the runner has a hard ego issue then they can run away prior to making things “official”. i think broadening upon the romantic nature of things would help people distinguish a karmic they’re perhaps projecting upon and a true twin flame.
I think when you meet the twin it's so overwhelmingly romantic at the gate at least that's how my experience was and the energy exchange is huge. Like nothing I've ever experienced before and I've had intense karmic relationships too. This is different
Interesting. With me, we worked together. My twin noticed me first. We were friends and I "fell in love" during heart center activation. Surprise! Then we began a relationship.
It is not only a hard ego, but a trauma from past lives which can block the memories what happened between you two in that specific life. I feel and sense the bond, while my supposed twin is somehow consciously unaware of that, feeling unease and fear (about very intense emotions and about intimacy) and sometimes she is literally ignoring me. The strangest thing is that when we talk she is very rarely looking when she speaks to me because no other woman looks away or is looking away when she speaks to me!
@@Flufero23 according to Alex and I agree, twins are never friends
Just got The Soul Family book … can’t wait to read … you are a genius
Thank you for your support!
Twin flame energy is the most intense energy one will ever experience. No karmic can match that intensity and euphoria.
Most people who are not TFs won’t understand because they haven’t experienced it. You can’t mistaken it.
Beautifully said
I'm glad it resonated!
I just want to add more sign which I think is the most important for those who don’t know it yet, you are 100% on your twinflame journey when you recognize that you are one with your twin and both of you are the pure energy of the universe: Love. We all are love. Meeting our twinflame get us remember the nature of who we trully are. Once you get there, you always know 100% he/she is the one. Nothing/no one can deny this crazy and beautiful connection. Remember yourself. You are love.
Yes, I talk about this in "The Purpose of Twin Flames" and "The One Sign You Have Met Your Twin Flame"
Hi Alexx, I'm sure you are a very busy person but I have a question that I have never seen addressed and I really hope you will answer. Is the TF journey/nightmare something that souls go through one time or does it happen in multiple incarnations? I have been on this "journey" for 48 years, and while I believe it has triggered my spiritual awakening and a lot of good has come from it, the thought of having to go through it again is very depressing. I have read your book and dozens of others and I still sometimes have a lot doubts but then I think about the events that have occurred in my life and I know SOMETHING is happening. Thank you!
Well as you are the universe, you will go through everything forever and never. You're asking regarding your personal Ego. No, your personal Ego will not go through any of this ever again. Also, "Reincarnating with your Twin Flame" and "Twin Flames and Past Lives" videos
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you for answering my question, I will watch those videos.
Enjoyed your book. Has been very clarifying. Thank you.
Thank you for reading it!
So your video "The 1 sign" was what I found that really made me go oh **** this is a twin flame journey. I really stopped doubting, but after this video, now I'm like double **** I'm on this journey and there is no getting off the ride 😂😂
Such deep knowledge you have on this. Thank you for sharing. Your delivery is beautiful, simple, & so easy to integrate. 🙏
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I definitely agree with all of this, and love your use of 'unconditional love' for everything in existence as one of the signs. This seems to really sink in when you deeply realize (not just 'agree with') that energy is all the same.. as youve referenced many times, its just way, way more intense when we interact with a Twin since they are the exact same source of energy. (I think the video you were trying to remember might be 'Sexual Energy and the Twin Flame'?) Looking forward to the video next week. Thanks as always for your continued dedication to providing clarity on the soul family Alexx! 😊
YES! Exactly.
Yes, time to read your book again!!
Must prepare mentally first ❤
And as always, thank you ❤
Hi Alexx! I know you already did a video on the 3 Core Karmic lessons and in your book you talk about it. But could you make an in-depth video about the Core Karmic lesson Self-Worth?
Yes, it's on my list!
Yes please!!! ✨️🙏❤
Explained very well. You answered my unconscious questions
I have not had a physical experience with him as of yet, but that does not mean he is not my twin flame. I feel because things were so wild and crazy, I chose to wait and be non-physical, at least on the day I was perceived he wanted to. This holding back response to him caused a split for us at least the first time and again the second. This was part of the mirroring going on between us. Please know I have integrity and I don’t care what emotions are at play and that means even when connecting with him. My past has taught me integrity 1st and emotion 2nd otherwise, I’ll never win in my mind. So with this being said, I wish I had been physical, because this has been so crazy, that it would have at least been comforting to have had that much with him. I hope you are not suggesting you have to have sex after you meet for it to be your twin flame… I understand you may not fully be on journey until this point, but I’m making this clarification and distinction. Thank you for your videos. Does what I’m saying makes sense to you? You might want to clarify that taking further action on sexuality or romantic feelings is not an indicator of whether someone is or is not your twin flame. The twins are have soul merger as it is even though sexuality in the earthly sense is important, we’re all in different places with our developmental stages and karmic reasons for making the choices we make. The higher selves are already merged in spirit though kundalini energy would further be activated by the physical/ sexual union. The video almost comes across that it is important for that to have taken place or it’s not your twin flame. Maybe you can make a comment and just clarify on your take. In this fast paced world I realised most everyone who has a twin flame may have already been sexual with them. This however, should not be a yes or a no to whether or not they are your twin flame. Yes, I understand that it will be the most romantic connection of all connections you could have. Regardless, of your stance on this, I have my own guidance, authority, but I do consider this platform an excellent source for sharing! Thank you for your clarifying and response. 😊
I just re-listened to the video again and you did comment you that may not have physicality in the beginning. I will tell you this has been five years now with runs- ins with my twin. So according to this video, I am still in the beginning phases OR your suggestion is it’s a different member of the soul family. No, I don’t think he is a different member of the soul family. I think part of our karma is tied up in my response to immediate sexuality. I think being black and white about this one isn’t really a sure bet to super impose over all experiences that others may be having with their so-called twin flame. This is my opinion and since, I have my own personal experience, I have to go with my own guidance, intuition and gut feeling on this one, as in referencing my own twin flame experiences. Since, I have direct telepathic communication with his higher self, clearance and backing from my guidance that he is my twin flame and continual on-going telepathic communication and yet more references and synchronistic events from the universe then, that’s what I’m going pardon way to. I think there could be a little better clarity with this video, as so not to super impose anything that is absolute when it comes to the timing of sexuality with a twin. I absolutely love your information and videos. It’s been supportive and helpful. I’m so deeply appreciative! ❤
I came in to consciousness based on many coinciding variables. Looking back now I feel I can’t be sure if this concept applies to me, even though I ticked the boxes. So I’ve given it a break lol. I definitely prefer to be holistic about it all now.
I was never in a relationship with my other self but we were sexually involved the very first time we were in each others presence alone. I don't think there was any other way around it, the sexual attraction is out of this world. I completely agree with you. There really isn't any holding back when you meet a part of yourself like that. lol
Great video! I highly recommend you read Alexx's book. That was and still is my anchor/something to hold on to to sail and navigate through my relationships.
Thank you for your support!
Hello, Alexx! Thank you for this invaluable information)
Very interested in your take on the term false twin flame…
False Flames are too dense of a topic to make a video on, so I wrote an entire section about them in my book
Thank you so much❤
God bless you ❤
If this person is really my TF I have had enough of playing this game.
What do you say to the very cohesive and articulate notion that the 'TF journey' shares pretty much the same 'stages' as a narcissist/empath dynamic?
A year and a half it's been since I met her and my life/inner world has turned upside down. The magnetic meeting, the intense love, the age difference (I'm a male 'DF', 45, she 29. She a musician, as am I. Didn't know abou the TF thing until I began to research obsession when she rejected me and I thought I was losing my mind. It's all there although there was no 'bubble love' phase.
She claims not only that she doesn't find me physically attractive ('too pretty' apparently), but that she doesn't even like me, and after hanging out playing music a bit I ended it as I just couldn't pretend 'just friends' anymore. A month passed and we randomly crossed paths in a town I was playing in. Her inconsistency in character made no sense but if I view her behaviour through the traits of NPD (covert), it all fits unerringly well. Can not all the signs and synchronicities be something dark, new age flim-flam darkness dressed as good spiritual? Many of these folk online seem nothing but deluded and deranged to me, though yourself and one or two others are articulate and seem broadly knowledgeable in timeless spiritual truths as to make the TF stuff credible.
A slight ramble there but would take a novel to really clarify this maddening stuff.
As you continue on, you will see that the journey is reconciling trauma responses in the human condition. Narcissism is a trauma response. Borderline (empaths) are the inverse of narcissism as a result of trauma and neglect. We begin balancing that energetic imbalance the moment we engage our other incarnation.
The soul is here doing 5D ascension that is simultaneously ascending the human "species". It's literally SELF help.
"Narcissist or Twin Flame" video
Have watched all your output on the subject, including the video you mention.
The difference between narc/TF seems to be in the way (or not) it impacts you in the deepest levels. I had all but given up on pursuing music until meeting her, after which I was very creative with songwriting again (songs about her, for reasons at the time that I didn't understand). All my insecurities and senses of failure and inadequacy have risen with a vengeance, as well as a rekindling of my spiritual understandings, which had gone a bit dormant. Either way I suppose the upshot is the same - self-improvement, if only to occupy the mind enough to subdue her presence which seems always with me, as does the unfathomable love and understanding I seem to naturally have for her despite her shady behaviours and rejection of me for being 'too emotional', which was likely true due to the intense love. The synchronicities and mirror lives/similarities/ are off the scale (I tried to forget her and go on a date. As my date arrived a song came on with Her very unusual name in it. These sorts of things are now so often as to be unremarkable!).
I suppose like most I just look for some certainty or reassurance about it all, but I realise that it's a bit of a 'lest ye see miracles ye shall not believe' situation.
I watched your Q&A with you own 'TF' and you do see to share an energy, even appearance somehow. Many of the TF videos and adherents seem sort of spellbound and deluded, but who am I to judge, I suppose? Just seems a very natural caution is required with anything of such intensity.
Thanks again 🙏🏻
You are right about it a) being a terrible thing to accuse someone of, and that b) many of the 'narcissistic' things I think she does, I catch myself and think yes, but I do that also! That this kind of love can't come from darkness is the only thing that still has me believe this is real.@@wearethesamenergy
Wild card question. I had a feeling of absordbing my twins energy ghost. And now it is permanently inside of my body instead of outside. I also feel as if the presence is my own and everything else. I know its my ego filtering the energy a certain way. But the interconnected energy is trippy sometimes. Is this a common feeling for twins?
I can't let him go ma'am, please ma'am, i feel so obsessed 😭
I decided with my mind of course 😂i am gonna cut the connection,but It felt more and more .and your video popped
Married to my twin.
Can you talk more about the physicality you mentioned @ 4:27. Does that mean physical/intimate contact with tf?
Yes. She is referring to actually being physical
Thank you🙏🏻 Thank you🙏🏻 Thank you🙏🏻 I really needed this confirmation. Every word you say is just spot on - the romantic feeling, the spiritual seeking, the unconditional love, the interconnectedness, the triggers… everything.
Oh! How much I’ve tried to deny this romantic feeling, hoping to reject the journey.… only to come o to surrender ☯️🕉️
Not everyone understands what u said.
One who experienced all these signs only understand. I can understand❤
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💯‼️Nailed my experience.
Nice thanks 😊❤
Isn't twin flame love limerance? Forgive me if I'm offensive. My intention is not to hurt anyone's feelings by questioning their beliefs (that is, they're in a twin flame journey). I myself spent three years believing I'm in a TF journey. But, now I've started questioning if this is limerence.
If you question if you are, you probably aren’t. You will know 100%.
Did you experience a kundalini awakening?
Limerence is simply obsession ("What is Limerence?" video, also "Twin Flame or Obsession?" video). You can have obsession with anyone.
No mention of experiencing a kundalini awakening?? That is a key sign you have met your TF.
@@mgn1621 no it is not. I am a Kundalini and yoga teacher. I had an Awakening out of tantric workshop with Sally kempthorne years ago and my twin flame I hadn't met yet you can have Kundalini Awakening all the time
@@noahalexander26 a kundalini awakening isn’t exclusive to TF’s, I never said that. , but if you are in a TF connection, then you would have experienced a kundalini awakening.
Wow you meet your biggest mental destroyer.... Best of luck
Alexx, could you do a video on exactly what "push" energy is? Thanks.
On my list!
@@wearethesamenergy Thanks.🙏 ❤️
Hi, I am about to meet my twin flame physically in 3D next week after our first separation. He is coming in to my town. I am currently in this obsessive stage. I am so nervous about our first little physical reunion in 3D. Could you please provide some advice on what to do? I know I have a lot of healing I need to do and have been trying to focus on myself. It has been so hard. I am so nervous about our first reunion after the first separation. Any advice is appreciated! Thank you!
You've must read my mind, I was thinking about contacting you about my situation with this certain person, part of me believes that I'm on this journey, but at the same time I don't! Make sense? Part of Me believes that she's the twin, but I also believes that she could either be a karmic or karmic soulmate.. Can you and the Twin have this romantic connection once you're in reunion or does it happen before the first no contact?
How can there be a separation if there was no beginning? You're saying you were friends and just stopped talking and then got together and it became romantic?
Do twin flames get intimate ( kiss ) like if one person is in relationship but other tf is not what does it mean
Greetings, could you give us your insight on the twin flame waves. There have been a few videos I’ve seen.
From the information I’ve received from these videos do resonate. Each wave seems to be tackling different areas of the Journey.
For example I’m about of the “3rd wave” 2019- 2024. That wave makes so much sense considering the age & all the symptoms I’ve experienced as opposed to the 1st & 2nd wave. My twin & I have been in moderate contact. Visiting each other.
Yes, the awakening & kundalini awakening is still the same process. The push & pull, the Journey to self. Etc… seems like the 3rd wave is more about anchoring the energies the first & second wave had to break through.
I don't speak on "Twin Flame waves." My video "The Purpose of Twin Flames" will give you more info on how I speak about them
Is it possible not to be romantically involved bc you’re married?
What do you mean by romantic journey with the person
I think I have met my twin but I now think we will never be together. There are so many things in the way…. He lives in another country, there is a large age gap, he is religious, I am not. However we both have admiration for each other and that’s enough for now .
Same story here, she wants to be friends, but I can‘t do it, because it‘s too painful for me and it would be too one-sided, because I would always want more then her. So I went no contact
The only thing that would put me in my ego, is the romantic part, it has not yet happened, but it’s because it’s very circumstantial in some cases. If it happened as soon as we met we would have both gotten into trouble. But, I loved her the moment I laid eyes on her. I also think, if we are hyper focused on other soul family members under the impression that they are a twin flame it can delay a realization.
I still have doubts that I’m on a TF journey because 3.5 years after separation, my Twin hasn’t even so much as acknowledged my existence. Each time I see your videos, the feeling that he is my Twin gets reinforced, especially when I think about the enormous self-growth I’ve gone through. Thank you, Alexx, because, to those of us on the actual journey, EVERYTHING you talk about rings true. I do have one question…is all of this true for both twins or just the chaser energy twin?
Oh, and, yes, I highly recommend Alexx’s book for anyone (not just TFs). Each time I pick it up, I learn something or realize something new because I’ve had an experience that puts things into context. It’s a guide for all human interactions and relationships…it should be a best-seller!
It happens for both Twins, but the interconnectedness feeling and unconditional love more goes in and out for the Runner. Even after their ED and/or Union with Self, they have a way harder time of staying within the energy. 💜💜
@@wearethesamenergy And what if a "runner" has a memory blockage (from a previous life) in the heart chakra about intimacy and love toward others and his divine "chaser" counterpart?
I have met my TF. But we both are married to someone else. Do you think it is possible for a married Indian lady to be romantic with some other man, even though he happens to be her TF? I would say impossible, considering the social stigma we both would have to bear. Her nature is so much like me. I have intense feelings for her. Not sure if she feels the same for me. As per @5:34, are we not on a TF journey? I have experienced spiritual awakening.
There is social stigma everywhere; it's not just in India. That's the Ego, and that's exactly what the TF journey is about: overcoming the Ego no matter what.
@wearethesamenergy - But isn't that supposed to be an extra marital affair? Which married lady would overcome her ego to accept another man as her TF. She might accept within herself, but not openly.
Do you think that saying what the other person is thinking is a sign of being twin flames? It has happened to me several times that she makes a joke I had just thought of but didn’t say, which surprises me a lot. On the other hand, I find it hard to start a relationship with her due to ideological or political differences.
This is the clair senses. I have videos on them on my intuition playlist
Is there a bookstore in London where I can purchase your book paperback edition?
This link will tell you everywhere you can purchase my book in your country, both digitally and in paperback: books2read.com/thesoulfamily
@wearethesamenergy Thank you. I found it in Blackwells. I needed a brick-and-mortar store.
That I don't know; it depends where the distributor sent them
Why would twin flame not message then all of a sudden message… Do a few responses … then ghost again …
The most fun thing is - hey, we are one and we are all the same, but let me teach you, because I’m the expert more superior than you are, as huge as I’ve already published the book.
This is perfect. And for some reason with TH-cam I guess I have two accountso I've been commenting under two different names LOL . I'm the person who said I've been in long-term separation and I felt like I was in Union or still am I supposed and then he emailed me and it sent my ego into a mad dash frenzy and I RAN then I think I even argued with you on other videos saying egoic shit because I was so freaked out by his 3D return but Alexx it's like all of a sudden last night it's like I get it and you have helped me so much in this journey. I cannot quite articulate what it is that I'm'getting' but I feel it if that makes sense. I must say I must have a stubborn ego cuz it's takenbme 7 years to finally go "ohhhhhh'😊
This is a great video as always. Love you're channel, Alexx. You have played a huge part in helping me navigate my TF journey. I have a question that maybe you can address in a video sometime. So you say that a TF connection is romantic partner only. Isn't that really only in the beginning at the level of the mind? Because romance really is an egoic construct. When you transcend the ego and duality and remember unity consciousness...the Universe manifested in physical form, then isn't it possible that your TF can actually be whatever you want them to be in your life?
Love this question, and it ties all my videos together. Romance is both Ego and biological, absolutely. It's about how the Ego filters the energy ("Sexual Attraction and the Twin Flame"). When the Ego is no longer in control and you remember you are the universe, you reach Union (many videos on that). At that point, the Ego is no longer attached to the 3D physical manifestation of the Twin and you get to choose whether you want them in your life ("Twin Flame Separation: an Important Message"). However, Twins cannot be friends (will have a video on this next year), and the Twin coming back into your life after Union turns the Ego back on (will talk about this in my Patreon next year). The connection energy can never be broken ("Breaking the Twin Flame Bond"). If you're in Union and you no longer want the Twin in the 3D, you will just go on your way, by yourself (in the 3D).
Thank you. It's not what I want to hear, but it makes sense. I would not wish this journey on anyone. 😂
I hear ya! 🙏
@@wearethesamenergyI I'm so looking forward to the video that you're going to do on the ego getting turned back on when the twin comes back in the 3d. This is what happened to me and I totally freaked out and I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this because as it sits of us far I've decided not to re-engage in the 3D with him
Can you feel like they’re your twin and them not acknowledging it while running away… she avoided even talking about the aspects and nature of our relationship/ what happened, how it was so much what we’d seemed to be searching for yet… fear kept us apart. I’d never even believed in the twin flame union or had knowledge, but as she pushed me away the last time it was the Dark Night of the Soul I went through. Uncomfortable, uncontrollable, unhinged, just felt lost like I’d never felt without her, yet she pushed me away seems denying the connection or not wanting it, but she’s dating someone else, seems happy, all I can do is wish her well now
"Ego Degradation and the Soul Family" video
My ego is dissolving and evolving a lot and learning… and of course this is romantic only … no shit !! :) I told my TF I loved her …
In my experience ego has gotten in the way of romance. Almost immediate ego reaction when met in person.
Ego tends to get in the way of everything
Romantic only , I still surprise this things are real..
In a twin flame journey when you are In a long separation, that’s been ongoing a 1 year and a half. Is it common to feel a lack of connectedness and not feel the energy to heal and grow the longer time passes being in separation. I fuss I am feeling hopeless I don’t know. I miss all the hope and growth energy that was brought out of me when I was with them. All the connections and lessons I realized I had to learn. I been feeling a lack of connection from everything/ everyone. Why is that? Does that mean this wasn’t twin flame journey or that I am taking steps backwards?
Have you watched my Ego Degradation videos?
@ I have watched them, yes. Sounds like I am due to watch them again. 🙏🏻
this even got me and I’m merging Hieros Gamos.
I’m upset with the narrative as we know 99% of it is written by the Karmic template and I’m with the karmic consciouses your operating in the lower centers haven’t even been activated to have expanded consciousness yet they think they’re navigating a secret partnership and convince me they’re operating in the fifth dimensional conscious.
I feel even people who write the narrative and truth often say twins don’t unite in union.
Because 99% of people are experiencing a comic or a soulmate
The first meeting the Heart activation was out of this world, and it is like Cupid’s love serum hit me the magnetism and chemistry was undefinable. I’m calling Kosmic Love.
There’s been no physical romance as they pushed me away. They had not been activated yet. We also have a large age gap, and they watched straight into their karmic so they could have their descend down ascend up.
I think you need to define this for your viewers what do you mean by romantic?
I think people think oh I should be romantically involved as soon as I meet this twin.
Mel brand said 5 twin flame, pair that did not come together for romance.
I do know someone who has a very unusual story and she’s in union with hers energetically but I think she got activated randomly in a foreign country and they don’t even know each in the 3-D.
a new thing that’s happening is a lot of people say they’re in energetic union and they have no idea who their twin is on the earth or how to find them.
Someone said kundalini activated by twin dream and still never met them in person.
my twin connected to me three years before I physically met them.
IN monad it is pure utter romance unconditional love.
Those romantic dreams are there continuously.
The twin flame activations were constant for every time we made eye contact and they took me to volcanic levels.
My friend have other illuminated connections as I had six total that activated me to higher planes of consciousness I only momentarily ascended for usually like a month.
With a twin once you meet them, it will keep happening and it won’t stop.
That both twins when they meet will have an instant heart activation.
And three of my catalysts there were heart activations involved, on the painful physical side as in not the unconditional love bliss.
It’s very apparent the ones clearly, not on this Journey. Even in the collectives narrative. I don’t think people understand that the ones on this Journey initially don’t even want to be on this Journey. Atleast not until you surrender.
I hear so much baiting from this topic. Sometimes I just shake my head. If you know you just truly know. Obsession & ego will have you completely gloating about this Journey. It will have you combative with apparent evidence that you’re in fact not on this Journey.
@@AngelTorres-p4p I completely resonate like I still don't want to be on a twin flame journey and I still don't want him to be my twin and I think those of us who resist it and don't want it ironically are on it and those that think every single person is their twin flame I don't know I just feel sorry for them
Hi Alexx
If you have children outside Twin Flame connection, does this mean you wont have children with a twin in your union because the purpose of the connect is not to learn new karmic lessons?
Please clarify in a follow up video to the one you titled ‘Why Twin Flames don’t have children together’
Sending high vibes and gratitude.🙏🏾
The purpose is not to CREATE new lessons. I suggest watching "Children in the Soul Family"
could you elaborate more on your video re: role reversal for the twins? iirc someone asked if it's possible for the chaser to get so hurt by the runner's actions that they all together stop chasing, even begin actively avoiding.
the words & behaviors of the person who i think is my twin were so deeply painful when he initiated separation, and there's been no contact in over 6 months. i had to do emdr therapy over it and am still coming to terms with the devastation and the ways in which this experience has traumatized me.
for context, i've known this person since high school. we reconnected in college in '21, but it was never in-person. we've maintained a friendship since then, but communication was limited to 1, maybe 2 phone calls a year per this person's avoidant tendencies. we saw each other in-person for the first time in 7 years this january, on 2 separate occassions. this is when i believe the journey started.
we have not seen eachother in person in 11 months, and have not spoken in 6, after he said he no longer wanted to be my friend. i am distressed at the thought of this being a twin flame connection, because i feel like there is no escape from the emotional components of this relationship.
i resonate with these signs and have experienced the connection symptoms, but am so terrified of how much power he has to hurt me. can twin flames have emotionally abusive tendencies? how do i protect myself in the midst of this fear and harm that has been done?
i want to heal and grow, but if i avoid my twin, wouldn't i just be avoiding my own healing journey? i feel trapped.
I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all of this. I would suggest watching my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family" if you haven't already, and also "Twin Flame versus Karmic." There can be severe Karmics who feel exactly like a Twin but cause way more damage to the psyche.
thank you ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻❤
Why am I thinking of DM so much stronger today and yesterday. The thoughts had started to lessen for quite a while now, but the last two days incredibly strong 😢
The planets! They are absolutely insane right now
@@wearethesamenergyYep, Mars and Mercury retrograde!
@@wearethesamenergyagree! I’m curious does our counterpart think heavily of us during retrograde too, or no because of mirroring and push energy?
@Mollysmessage333 It depends on what part of their natal chart it hits
@@wearethesamenergy I had a look on his, for yesterday and the moon is conjunct his mercury. My asteroid name is also transiting
i have 2 questions...1. If my TF has avoidant tendencies, does that eventually heal? my gut says yes. 2. How does astrological compatibility play into twins...Is that even relevant?
1. Yes, and 2. "Twin Flame Q&A" Part II or Part III, I can't remember exactly which one talks about the astrology. So does my book.
@@wearethesamenergy thank you for responding. I am getting your book. By the way please tell me where you get your beautiful blouses...I am enjoying your videos and want to encourage you to keep going. You are doing great. I no longer listen to tarot readings and am focusing on myself...Thank you again.
Most of my collared shirts are from Reformation. This sweater was by Raey, but they just went out of business, sadly
@@wearethesamenergy thank you
That book is the straight TRUTH. Read in a day. The romanticism of the "twin flame" concept is represented in every metaphorical storyline. Isis/Osiris to Jesus/Mary Magdalene. A split atom is as brother/sister. When it reunites it's the alchemical marriage becoming husband/wife.
What do you mean by physicality? Having sex?
Hello Alexx, I do not know if you mentionned it or not in your videos, I only came across your channel. Do you know if TF are necessarily of the opposite sex (man/woman) ?
Thank you for the channel, I love it that it is not full of egoic BS (yes I am judging 😅) and actually the real thing
I will have an entire video dedicated to this early next year! 🙏
@ that’s a real treat thank you. I am looking forward to it ♥️
Hey Alexx,
It has been a couple of days that I have finally acknowledged completely that I am indeed on a TF journey which actually makes me feel whole and which is why I believe him to be my twin. I accepted this after fightimg with self for 2 years. The weird dynamic was - we met just once for 'catch up' , before that we met in a work setting but the pull was undeniable. I usually do not understand your explaination of the stage ' Muse' as it was not how I remember the dynamic( could be but I do not label it as one, or uttering anything out of the blue) because as I said, we met in a stressful work situation.... If there is any way to connect with you. I would love to discuss. If not, I thank you because your video about TF connection or Limerance helped me when I was researching and many more including ' the one sign'..
I'm sorry, I no longer do one-to-one consultations, but you can join our Patreon which is specifically geared towards Twin Flames
I have a doubt with unconditional love, if not here maybe you can cover in the upcoming video. So I dont know where I am in this journey, but I do feel a sense of love to everything and everyone. I am (mostly) able to love people.. my question is, at times they do something which hurts me or makes me uncomfortable and i feel so and then i wonder if i do have unconditional love...?
Hopefully next week's video will help
Does the meeting with a karmic send you to a massive spiritual awakening , including having psychic ‘’powers”?😮
"Ego Degradation and the Soul Family" video, "Karmics and Red Flags," and a few on my Intuition playlist
@ so it is a yes?😕
Twin flames are very very rare it’s crazy how half the planet swears they are with a twin 😩😩 no your twin flame isn’t a crackhead drug addict 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Mine is. Lol
😂
But why i was already awaken? And he is too? Like we know about manifestation but the love for helping increase.. the unconditional love is Real tbh , i am experiencing this with him but i was already awaken , instantly i was attracted to him with other people is later on Now!!
The one i had a awakening was very weird it was sex but it wasn’t romantic and i had a tower moment with him and had my awakening with I think with Twinflame the romance awakens YOU now i think i know the difference between a tower moment realization by someone awakening you or a Romantic parther trough the romance and love awakens you… bc i know the first was a catatalys and we never ended up together we barely saw each other and he was never Available to me.
He even lied to keep me around and lead me on! He calls me his Ultilmate lover but he never choose me. With my Twin Soul i guess or Twinflame , i was actually feeling like i was extremely attracted to him and full of love , i was hiding from me , now this i the trippy part
This men is 23 i am 31 ( he looks like me physically and ENERGETICALLY HE IS ME) i see myself and is him , we are SO DIFFERENT IN THE SAME WAY! i see myself trough him, i feel self conscious, we can fight and five minutes later we’re talking normal , we don’t hate each other… he as my same attitude but im more childlike he is more older in spirit but he is childlike too and i am more older in physical is weird to explain… Is so self conscious that the sex can be uncomfortable tbh bc is so much it weird me out. ( both ears ringing so confirming) we have the same face color hair he even as my same body type! As a men he as my same eye shape and jawline , people say we look alike. He is patient and im more desperate… hi avoidant im anxious. He is reserved im revealing. But we both empathic , and we dream about helping people!
I think a clear sign of a TF is if you both share like something nice like helping others or something that is a service for humanity… isn’t a superficial thing ( might be too , depends on the Pair of twings nothing is Limited ) but yes. It creeps me out , i even get mad at him like earlier he send me a song i got triggered I didn’t even say anything. cuz he be really on my nerves Fr.
Like it,wants to speake with somebody,little information.
I’m from belgium so its its a bit far.
Thx
Peace & Blessings!
Although I’m not resisting your explanation of why two could not be twin flames if having not met or physically/romantically connected, can you explain in more depth why? ✨
My book explains it in very deep detail
@@wearethesamenergy just purchased. Thank you✨
Thank you for your support!
Are you in Union with your twin flame?
Yes
Sadly I don’t think the person I think is my twin and have been my twin for a year is in fact not my twin. We’ve only been talking for a week and a half but I swear I thought I felt some of the major symptoms after we cut communication. The obsession of thoughts about her , the dreams but at the same time it just seems way to short of a time span of us talking to really be a twin 😩
Hmm.. we didn't have anything, there is attraction, he was in a relationship, broke it up, now I am going to see what follows but it feels like I am in a paralel reality/different timeline where he does and says to me similar things like my father and is and acts like my father... Weird
Ooh, see the lessons there? Look towards your father, he was the first to show you them.
@wearethesamenergy hello, thank you :-) I know right? I just don't know if this sounds like a twin flame..
The fact people think this could be anything beyond romantic only absolutely blows my mind 😂
They are saying that the nature of the connection in 3D must be a romantic one, not a guaranteed 3D relationship. It's one soul, but in order for the awakening process to occur it requires romantic interactions.
Thank you @alchemicalsoul
@@RainInTheDrought yup I agree
@@alchemicalsoul agreed
@@RainInTheDrought yes,?
You meet ego Death
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I don't think you can or should project your own experiences and interpretation of things onto everyone else.
Everyone's journey is different, first and foremost.
I won't deny I had romantic feelings for my "Twin" but this is NOT a relationship, and many true TF pairs will NOT all be single and readily available to be together romantically when they meet.
I think your concept and definitions of all the soul connections are getting over blown and overly complicated.
You add too much pop psychology to all this, wirh the focus on everyone else's ego, while apparently not looking at your own ego and how you are coming across with all this.
Yes, it was someone I met in my career space, and yes I am the married one.
Yes I had my "dark night of the Soul" (ego degradation), my Awakening, I have been working on myself for my own sake, and not for him, etc.
And yes I have had a whole plethora of all the other "symptoms," including my psychic abilities expanding.
I resonated with some aspects from your earlier content, but over the past few months this has just gotten worse and gone down hill.
You cannot project only your assumptions and lens of experiences onto everyone else and say it right and true for everyone.
This isn't coming from my "feelings" but a place of objectivity.
You were right in saying you would get blowback on this one, and I think you should to make you stop and think about what you are doing....basically becoming another talking head on here about this topic, which you have some less experience with as you jumped on the whole monetization aspect and writing a book within less that two years of discovering you were on this path, supposedly.
Many others of us met our TFs many years ago, and learned of this connection in unique, Divine timing as we were meant ro...and most of us aren't doing podcasts or writing books on this to monetize it.
The egocentric tone here is almost just as bad as Kurt Johnson, but at least he is focusing more of his research and content on the actual spiritual and metaphysical nature of the connection (connection, not relationship), where you are utilizing way too much psychology here, trying to cram the Twin Flame phenomenon/connection purely and solely into an earthly, romantic relationship template, when this whole thing is beyond earth and is otherworldly.
I have to question, who is it here that really isn't a Twin Flame counterpart? I am so suapext of these supposed "Twin Flame Couples" where suddenly the DM is coming out of the shadows doing videos with their DF. It's just way less common, and it's always the people monetizing this through a platform or whatever else. And that's a spring board for more cult like activity.
Okay, I am now out on your content at rhis point. And yes, I know that doesn't hurt your feelings....but that's not my aim. Again, it's to get you to think.
For your own business venture's sake, I hope you continue to do well with your platforms and book sales. But I'm not buying into this any further.
All the best,
J-
Talk a lot and yet you didn't say anything
Twin Flames are not real. The fact you think they are just proves you haven't looked deeply at the topic and where it actually came from
Oh wow, I am here for this! Just recently went thru this....THE PULL IS INSANE 🔥🔥☺️❤❤🫨🤯😵💫🤯😵💫❤❤😫😮💨😭😢🥺😏😌🥹
& It Is Unconditional Love❤
Also, gave you a follow & will get your book.
Thank you for your support, and I'm glad the video resonated!
You're welcome😊