Twin Flame or Obsession?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Is it a Twin Flame or is it simply obsession? There are a lot of similarities between how we feel in separation from a Twin Flame or a Karmic, so how do we know which one it is? In this video, I talk about the main difference between a Karmic and Twin Flame, and how to know for yourself if you're dealing with a Karmic relationship or a Twin Flame.
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I haven't spoken to anyone about twin flames. The masculine chose the karmic over our tf connection and me. That's what pushed me to finish twin flame boot camp without my twin. I'm been ok with that, he used his freewill. I got closer to God and now I'm spiritual and religious. I never stopped loving him. It's been 5 years and now he slowly working his way back to me. I surrender it all to God, handled it into his care. Because I have faith and trust in God before this twin flame connection. So whatever happens, happens it's in God's hands.
That's exactly what Divine Timing is 🙂
Are you in union now?
Really appreciative but when twinflames first go through awakening or their twinflame connection recognition they go through that crazy obsessive stage because they ae unable to figure out what is going on with themselves, twinflame journey is really hard you need to love yourself as twinflame df Im in the surrender stage and I'm done with my chasing but he is still on my mind 24/7!
100% agree.. I been in separation for over a year and not a day goes by where I don't think of her on top of seeing angel numbers. And I've had doubts until watching this video because I am focusing on bettering myself. I've stop hanging around alot of ppl I use to, and I jus like being alone more(being alone used to be depressing before i had an awakening when she left me). I've became extremely self aware of my traumas. My biggest fear has been "what if I'm wrong about this tf thing" 😢 but my heart tells me it is.. but either way I know the end result is about detaching, to truly love them unconditionally
I agree with this! I first connected with my flame irl about 10 years ago and we had multiple separations. But it wasn’t until my DNOTS and first awakening at the end of 2022 that I was actively being obsessive and stalking his social media. It’s because up until that point, I thought he was just ‘the one that got away’. I was hunting for the answers as to why I was feeling the way I was!
I said I’m tired of chasing. I am going to focus on my schooling and becoming a better me. I think about him often but I had to release. I did that at a snap.
Focus on your own healing and self love. If spirit brings him/her then it’s meant to be. Keep doing you.
Perfect advise ❤
It's hard being on a spiritual journey with treatment resistant harm OCD. I've never had any obsessive physical behavior like stalking, but I always get stuck in mental compulsions over this. My soul knows, but my brain wiring wants to convince me that it's just limerance or the start of an abusive cycle, or that I'm making it up because of my diagnosis. But I used to be an uptight person who never believed in anything. I was someone who identified as aromantic. Now I believe in chakras, souls, and "God". And Ive actually fallen in love. This stuff is next level.
Wow, thank you for bringing Harm OCD into my vernacular! I can completely understand how the cycle works. After my full Ego Degradation, I started getting Musical OCD, and it's incredibly disruptive to my life. I'm so happy for you that you've begun your spiritual journey in any form. All my best and highest vibrations to you 🙏
Can you explain this musical
OCD I am
Healing healed from ocd to
Love your content! I do wonder, however, if there can be a bit more nuance in the contrast between the two? After separating from my (potentially) TF, I've had THE greatest spiritual growth of my life. I feel an immense sense of gratitude, for I feel I have "unlocked" the secrets for living a full, purposeful life, and can be Aware of the egoic chains of suffering. I KNOW I'll be ok whatever happens. I've learned to love myself unconditionally and feel connected to all things. However, If I'm being honest, there have been times during this separation where I've relapsed to some egoic behavior that you mention in this video: I've felt VERY frustrated with this situation trying to understand why we can't be together, I've also posted a thing or two to social media hoping that she sees it. I don't think my egoic behaviors completely vanished overnight after separating from my TF. They have definitely eroded substantially. But it's been a process. It didn't happen "at the snap of a finger".... so which one is it?
Yes, the Ego can never really be demolished, can it? We have to live on this 3D plane and deal with the trappings of the mind. There's a difference between nonstop obsessing and having that be your only M.O. versus "relapsing" into Egoic behavior. You're doing great! 🙏
Love, love, love your videos; short and so subject focused, explained through live examples.
What helps me a lot during my healing process is Eckhart Tolle's book 'The Power of Now', that I am wrapping up :)
Such a profound understanding on how to turn down your ego and live and briethe through your heart and your soul! 🤗🦋
Thank you so much Alex! 🤗🙏🦋❤️
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Also, is it a "normal" reaction to feel like being punched in the stomach seeing your twin on social media during separation? I mean should I feel happy to see him anyway as we are "divinely united"?
This is only funny to me because I got a hold of myself at some point finally🤣
I don’t know why I connect to u...but I am so proud of u!! Awesome video!!❤
I dont have to stalk...lol i can feel his energy. Im sad when i can't.
I have found myself crying uncontrollably like I could not remember in my adult life and the word "I am alone. I am alone." came through a few times in this last week. I thought it was a memory of when I was a kid and the emotions needed to be healed.
I understand the concept of me being the creator and the universe. It has some nuances when you think about the oversoul, higher-self, soul family, etc.
And not sure why you says the twin flame is literally me how it is different than saying any other human beings and animals are literally me if I am everything and the whole universe.
What "I" means is what the standard person normally calls "I" (ego). It is the "bigger" I. I can see different levels of "I" that include one another. That said, when do I know I learned what I need to learn? Is it not pointless that I need to learn it here in 3D inside the illusion? And if I am everything who if guiding this process and the machine that render reality? It is still me... Why do you need a twin flame to learn that? For a few years I have really been feeling that reality is not real... Why am I not done yet. Is the so call "singularity" that moment? And what happens after that?
I would very much suggest reading my book.
Thank you for this. There are days when I think this person might not be my twin because my ego seems to be “getting over” his physical being. However, (and I can’t really explain this) I still have massive love for him ALWAYS and I feel loving energy from him as well… But I’m making peace with the fact that
a 3-D relationship isn’t right for us at the moment. Is this normal?
In so focused on my own healing I went off social media
I find myself way less interested. Which is a good thing!
High-impact videos: concentrated content, packed into a short amount of space. LOVE 💕 it!
me too.
I'm the runner but for good reason. Yet here I am. Please don't think the runner don't feel anything. It's so so so hard to deal with. However I don't think the chaser is really feeling what I'm feeling even though they're chasing. It's just too much energy so I'd rather focus on my career cause I got things to do to change the world. He was never supposed to show up but yet here he is😮💨. We weren't supposed to cross paths and now it can't be undone. So I run.
I think in someways running is the most natural thing in the world. You can sense you are entering into something that is going to profiundly change you forever, and once you finally commit to it there is no turning back. Scary stuff!
Yess, I made the cut, I can’t believe this is a real thing, I’m starting to believe now
Imagine finding out about I'm in limerence state that in twinflame connection for years
What if i keep on telling my spirit guides that why do i keep on thinking about him, if he's really not my twinflame let me forget him, is this obsession or on tf journey?
👋 again.. 😊😊😊
i just loved to listen this topic.😊❤❤❤
Thank you so much for the clarification, indeed I am in a twinflame journey.
Just love the clarity you give, thank you 🙏💕💗❤
Since I met him I love myself ,I do what I like ,and when I see him talking with a girl ,I'm not jealous ,but the problem ,he is a teacher at school and I don't know how to talk to him about it ,I'm just tired of always thinking of him the whole day
Thank you for explaining this. ❤️☮️🔥
Knowing that this past person wasn’t my twin flame but maybe a karmic or just a random who just happen to have some things in common with me and that my twin flame is still out there made it easier for me to stop the obsession. For a while I kept telling myself that she was my twin not considering if it’s me just placing a title on her because I was just in love.
Even Karmics can play an enormous role in showing us the path to love and self-actualization. Seems to me that loving others is showing us how to love ourselves. So it is all good(I think) !
Thank you making this ❤
Excellently full of insights
I desperately needed this😂 Thank youu so much❤
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Your wisdom and communication on this topic is unmatched!! Thank you so much for posting these discussions.
I'm glad it resonated!
I am so glad you came across my feed! 🙏🏽. Really appreciate these short and insightful videos. ❤
I'm glad they're resonating!
Thank you Alex, this is an excellent and accurate explanation. An amazing summary. I love your videos ❤
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I find this video really confusing. Because, to me, the TF journey is a process. You don't awaken all at once. You don't love yourself completely and unconditionally immediately. It takes time. Sure it's sped up but the time it's going to take has got to be different for everyone, I would think. Just given the amount of variety in timeline I've seen from the TF stories I've heard/read about. All to say that, a lot of the things you say are egoic and indications of obsessing over a karmic (e.g., wanting to make the twin jealous, getting your hair done to look hot) are things I did when I was in deep horrible egoic pain in the beginning after the first separation. But these are behaviours I fairly quickly 'grew out of' once I realized what this was all about. Also in the beginning, I felt incredibly frustrated that I couldn't get him out of my head and didn't know why. In time, I came to accept this as you describe in the video. But it wasn't immediate. It took time and growth. Not a tonne of time in the grand scheme of things, but there have definitely been phases. I am much more at peace now having accepted what is happening and realizing the grander scheme of things. But there were phases early on in the ego degradation that sound just like what you describe as being egoic obsession over a karmic. Again, I find this confusing. Why do you believe these things could not also be true of the beginnings of TF journey?
Isn't each individuals journey different? In the end, you realized it was not about the superficial (which is kind of a default response) and you ultimately realized the depth and importance of the situation, yes?
I'm starting to notice this reoccurring trend. The days I have these incredible intense moments of knowing it's done, they seem to always be followed by a dream that is just as intense in the opposite. Any idea what that is saying?
Know this occurrence well. 5D Higher Self battling 3D Ego 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Gotcha. My goodness though. Exhausting 🥵
I'm glad I rewatched this... going through a rough patch...
It happens to every Ego, just try to validate yourself and take care of yourself right now.
😘Awesome thanks 👌
Thank you
Thank you ❤
Not sure where you fit in in my soul family but I am so grateful and feel blessed.
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Hi, thank you for your videos.
I’m trying to understand if me and my ex girlfriend are twin flames.
One thing that happened to me is that after our break up (she went with another guy) I was initially incapable of accepting it. I was depressed, crying, not eating, not living, couldn’t sleep etc. Then after a bit I started meditating and I had a shift of mentality and energy, and instead of focusing on her leaving me I started accepting what happened and being grateful for what happened and for helping me to become a better person, and I started to feel a great connection with her and love towards her, and then I happened to run into a few synchronicities with her name and into the concept of twin flames, and I was shocked for how well it applied to our relationship. Some days after this I made the mistake of contacting my ex girlfriend to talk and now I relapsed in being depressed, crying, not eating, and not accepting what happened.
What does this mean?
If you want personal guidance, I suggest booking a consultation with me 🙏 Twin Flames and Karmics can look a lot alike and I would need to hear your whole story
@@wearethesamenergy thank you. Unfortunately I don’t have the money at the current time
I may contact you in the future.
Thank you for your free videos, keep up the good work
What I don't get is why do I feel so strongly about her and other women the feelings are more normal. Why did this one person hit me different? Why wouldn't I "obsess" over women more often if that's my nature? I work with lots of women some very attractive and nice and I work with the public so I see attractive and nice women every day and many as repeat customers. So why did this one person get my attention if it's just an obsession? Which proves to me it's not an obsession.
That's the entire purpose of the Soul Family. Could be Karmic, could be Soulmate, could be Twin. But not everyone is a Soul Family member, so that's why you're not obsessed with everyone you meet.
So I’m having a really hard time with this right now. I recently got a promotion and started working in a different assignment at work. I met a female co-worker and there appeared to be an instant connection. Initially, I dismissed it as one-sided after finding out she was married with four kids, so I tried to ignore her. I won’t bore you with all the details, but she keeps giving me signals of interest, even though she knows I’m also married. I started searching out videos as to why a married woman would do this, and stumbled upon the twin flame concept, and it all seems to make sense. I can’t stop thinking about her and it’s driving me crazy. I should point out that I’m 20 years older than her, and I’m usually pretty good about reading whether someone likes me or not. When in doubt, I assume they’re just being nice, but this seemed different from the beginning. I keep thinking to myself that I’m just obsessing over nothing, and that I’m misreading her signals.But something deep down tells me that she is my twin flame, and it scares me because I’m in a committed relationship. Can you just tell me I’m obsessing please so I can move on? 😂
@@OGSHEP Sometimes there are connections we make with people. The person I referenced 6 months ago felt like an intellectual and spiritual connection. Now I've met someone else totally unexpected from work and it feels like a physical and emotional connection. We literally have nothing in common. She's like a biker chick who's been married and divorced twice with 4 kids and I'm a nerdy dorky college grad who has never been married but we have this emotional connection. Despite being a biker chick she's so sweet and sensitive and I'm also very kind and sensitive under my suit and tie and pocket protector.
You are definitely spot on!! I am definitely in a twin flame relationship! Thank you for this clarification and validation!! You are THE BEST!!! Wish I could meet you in person!!!
If you incarnate on earth with a mind that has a very huge ego attached to your soul means you were sent here on a major mission and you are truly blessed , the key is to use that obssesion and focus on getting your twin flame back. It's very siimple , for 10 to 15 minutes a day or more is required is to posses your twin flame inwardly and be one with her and know that you are possesing her and making love to her. What this will do is tame down both of your egos to bring the manifestaion into exsistance. and its real and is happening now. The key is know this is truth and its really happening. This will bring the manifestation super fast or teleport your twin flame from heaven to earth , either or but it will happen.
Even if you met your twin flame and there was emotional connection etc, do you think your unfortune 3D circumstances and issues (I had a lot of serious issues, which every one of them can be a dealbreaker for any girl) can destroy this connection forever? She accepted it a lot, but finally it was probably enough for her. However there was no drama or toxicity, but she was mind blowing mirror for me and she mirrored everything I tried to hide. We had awesome connection, a tons of mind blowing signs and synchronicities, a lot of telepathy. However we always told each other we are "right persons, extremely wroing timing". Just in general - do you think twin flames can met in really bad times? I don't want to be delusional, but it would nice to know if this is separation stage or if she is gone forever.
The connection can never be broken, but that's not to say that TFs can't choose to go their separate ways. It depends on your situation. You may like my video "Twin Flame Mirroring (in the 5D)"
@@wearethesamenergy So even if we are real twin flames and even if I do all "inner work", she could still choose to never come back to me? Her 3D could be "stronger" than 5D? It's sad, because I totally embarrased myself, she has really negative image of myself and she is really attractive person with many options. However she always said that me and her 1st ex was the ones she really felt something magical (in opposite to many guys)
Yes, we can all make choices of who we want to be with or not be with. Being Twins doesn't guarantee a 3D relationship. A lot of twins choose to be with a Soulmate instead of their Twin because it's easier on the 3D plane. I think you may want to watch my video "Twin Flame Separation (An important message)." It talks about this. But I'll do a video on it at some point 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Ok so I am doomed. It was one and only connection. I am not able to be attracted to anyone else and she is the only one who really felt and accepted me.
Feeling "doomed" is just the Ego.
I’d like to know, if there is a series of relationship romantic or not that one must go through that prepares us for the twin, and what are these relationships called. I have some pretty deep feelings for someone else RN, and I feel like I’m meant to have a relationship with her before I am union with my twin. Why is this happening and what is it referred to? Is it a test?
"Twin Flames: Look at the Macro"
@@wearethesamenergy video title?
My situation about my girl/Supposedly twin flame is weird like I always been spiritually concious but I started to watch my ego make up scenarios and random thoughts that aren't mine and watch them and more stuff that's too king to long too type but I wasn't really doing that before I met her.I just wonder if she's a karmic or not plus I had a crow visit me yesterday and today but I don't understand the meaning of it.
You made my day🔥
It took me 3yrs of obsessing over him and him not speaking to me and blocking me on social media for me to finally see him and he made me feel like i never existed to him for me to finally let go and stop bothering him and move on with my life.
Have you watched my video "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation?"
@@wearethesamenergy no I haven't watched it
The way you categorize things and are so accurate about differences is amazing.And you touch the soul🩷🪷
This some deep stuff
And very cool!
We are separated now ! But most of the time I can feel what he is feeling and thinking! A lots at dreams too he is coming to me telling me things that in real life he’s closed! Is this a sign that he is my TF??
Can be a sign that your clair senses are strong. We experience all Soul Family in both 3D and 5D, so doesn't necessarily mean it's a TF. I put out a video called "5 Reasons Why You Dream About Karmics" and it talks about this too
@@wearethesamenergy thank you 🙏
Anyway I think is a special connection bc we are both Aries ♈️☹️
Sorry, I can' t get past your " horns " in this video..🤘
I have a question: have heard from another tf coach that upon meeting you tf your spiritual gifts, visions, and dreams get activated. What is your opinion on that? Is that a „requirement” in a tf connection?
Everyone has every clair sense. It's about whether you allow them to filter in.
I am so grateful i found your channel ❤️
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Very helpful video thank you 🙏 😊
I'm glad it resonated!
Yea idk… I’ve definitely posted stuff on social media because I know he’s watching it. You say that’s obsessing. But I feel everything else TF, even the 5D experiences. So, something isn’t adding up.
No, I say if the the main things you're doing are based in Ego and you're not doing anything for your own personal growth, then it's a Karmic
Does physical abuse happen in between twin flames? I ask this question because recently I looked back things and questioned if we were real twin flames or not. For the 13 months this is the first time that I start to see him as a karmic. If we were not, why did we(or at least from my side of story) seem to have the real twin flame journey and I also did tons of self-healing work during seperation(just like you mentioned in the "one sign"video)? I feel confused, frustrated, also some kind of relieved at the same time like never before. Thank you for making these videos, I love your contents and they are greatly helping me on my own spiritual path, love from China
NO! Never physical abuse! That's a Karmic. And Karmics can create so much healing during separation as well (you can watch my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family"). I'm sorry you had to go through all of that, but I'm so glad for you that you're willing to view them as a Karmic and not keep yourself trapped in the wheel of TF.
What is the divine masculine? Why is the divine masculine the runner? Does the divine masculine have to be a man or can it be a woman? I was the first one who wanted to run, then I went through the dark night of the soul, then I became the chaser and she became the runner. I’ve been obsessed over women before but I never felt this much pain in my body and emotions, it felt like the worst break up and we never dated, we work together. I need to change jobs because the pain is too much, I hate seeing her, which is weird, I enjoy working more when she’s not there. When I first heard of twin flames, I didn’t believe in it, now I wish I never went through it. Your videos are good because they’re not too long and they’re to the point.
I would suggest watching my videos "Twin Flame vs Karmic," "DF and DM Aren't Real," "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation," "The Purpose of Twin Flames," and "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family."
Breathing a huge sigh of relief now. Thanks. 😊
Hey... i met a woman 6 months ago and we had a deep emotional connection but we went different ways 3 months after school because of ego reasons, we met there. There was no physical touching or anything else, but the attractivness was huge. Deep inside my core, i wish her only the best and want her to become the best version of herself. But i also went obsessed over her asking myself what shes doing and watched her instagram stories because i lost her in 3D. My life is shifting completly since i met her. Its literally a shift from 0 to 100. I started occupying with manifestation, meditation, watching videos about Twinflames 3rd eye opening and more stuff... i never ever did this before and its all since i met her. Im asking myself if this was my TF or just karmic? I know deep down that theres a strong bond between us but sometimes there are days i feel unsure about what shes thinking or feeling. We had many conversations after this 3 months of school through social media which all didnt end well but i always had the feeling that she said things because she wanted me to grow too. Im definitly in a big state of "awakening" which is very clear to me now. The obsession went from really crazy to "i can relax now" but i still cant drop it completly for now but it gets better from day to day. Shes like a mirror to me, mirroring all my weak points and suddenly i started working on myself to get the best version of myself. I cant stop thinking about her. What kind of connection is this? Thx for reading :)
Most likely Karmic if you've never had a relationship with her. Karmics can do all of these things as well. They're hard to differentiate from one another.
Darling just love your self and do the mirror exercise
Can I become friends with my twin flame ? I’m just too afraid ot is going to get too intimate.
I will specifically answer this in the Twin Flame Q&A coming out the second week of April
What about the spiritual awakening that happens straight after separation???
I have a few videos on Ego Degradation you can watch. I'll also have a video out in January specifically about Ego Degradation with each member of the Soul Family. You can have it with any member of the Soul Family.
Gosh...I am so confused! I have mixed feelings about all of this. What if my spiritual awakening has happened because I have come across all these videos on twin flame's signs and start to have the self love afterwards? So I am basically start self believe that I should've have the spiritual awakening 🤔🙄😒🙃
It doesn't matter what your Ego Degradation comes from. It doesn't matter what you label people as regarding the Soul Family. It just matters that you're growing, expanding, and learning. Don't let the Ego freak you out
@@wearethesamenergy It seems to me that the ego will pull out all the stops sometimes to fend off its degradation and prepare for its eventual transmutation
Thank you so much! Love what you share! 💖 I have a question: Do you think that a sign that he/she is your TW is that when you stop chasing, your twin is going to come back, and if they don't (come back) means that they are not your TW? Thank you from Spain! 🤗
Hi over there in Spain! 💜 I do not think that is a sign; it's a very Egoic way of looking at things, since you cannot control another Ego's growth. 🙏🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you sooo much 🤩🙏
watched it twice to capture every detail as this is exactly what i need to figure out right now
sent back email - yes please! did you get it? thank you
Look at you sharing all this wisdom. I needed this message today. Dropped a ton of baggage these past two weeks.
Keep being amazing! Hope the book is coming along still. Tons of encouragement to keep at it.
Here’s to your continued success!
-The Universe
What a Journey/Process and all of that Lonelyness, betrayal, missing, Drama, Jealoussy, Egodeath, Fear, Humble, Angers, Symptoms Stress etc just for a End who revealed i m the Universe all are One and all People are God, all People the same my Twin and Duality is a Illussion everything is a Illussion everything is equal...way to much hell for this result...that a spiritual Person knows anyway technically from the beginning. Nothing exists really nothing has a meaning nothing makes a difference. Nothing is better oder not as everything else. Truly sad...and dissapointing and useless at the End. Soo much pain for this Conciousness in the End what every Philosoph and Master can say you from the beginning. Who is the Beauty and a meaningful Goal of all of that? How can i feel Joy when i know that? Where is a real Paradise for the Twins or Humanity with this Enlightment? How can this insane Game makes me feel home or happy oder fun or in Peace? Is that the reward for this long cruel Journey? That all ends in God and Nirvana or whatever where all the same and equal and pointless?
how i can find you on Instagram, my beautiful girl friend?
I'm not on IG 🙂