This Week We All Cry Together... Dropouts
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You guys have been asking for it for months now and we finally got the ex-lovers but still best friends on the same episode! Of course we dive into the ins and outs of their relationship, but we also get a little deep this episode where we talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of putting ourselves and our lives on the internet. On top of that deep talk we also have all the fun and knee slapping moments you've come to expect from a Dropouts episode!
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Y'all are so real and wholesome, don't change yourself for anyone ❤
jakes appearance: ⛓🔪🖤🩸
his personality: 💗🎀🥰💕
He’s so me coded
Real
Looking like an anime character in the best way possible fr
This is so real he is so sweet
So real
zach seems like he is such a good friend. he’s so good at listening and adding to a conversation. he can have fun but also be emotionally present. it’s deeper than superficial interactions and i love to see it
totally agree, he deserves a friend like that for himself too
Nah he’s ex girlfriend said he would always insult her intelligence and it hurt her bad and he just kept going
@@BlackJoker-w5t Fun Fact: People can grow up. Try it sometime bud.
@@BlackJoker-w5tthe same ex girlfriend who is rumored to have cheated and abused him? Such a credible source
@@BlackJoker-w5t Isn’t she confirmed to have been manipulative and low key abusive??
I resonate with Jake a lot with unintentional self isolation while being extremely co dependent
LOL sounded like a nonce to me 😂
same with the crippling anxiety and stomach pains this is another reason I love watching jake, tara, and dropouts ect because they really engage and kinda normalize being talking openly about think like this
@@AyDeeAichDeeor jumbo shrimp. Among other things. Can’t wait to have yet another person self diagnose based on personality traits
Same it’s painful
Sounds toxic
I really wanna see more of Zach playing therapist, he's very emotionally intelligent
I think I know from (shorter, but probably similar) experience quite precisely why he's that way.
A lot of pain from personal relationships with people and having no one but yourself to reason through those experiences. Here's a few examples of my experience with people:
- My first relationship. A year straight of emotional manipulation and being made to feel like nothing I do is good enough. In that relationship I had to come up with new ways to or new words to impress and/or compliment this person with each time, otherwise I was "repeating myself", which meant I would be ignored by her.
If I didn't come up with a conversation, she would almost never talk to me, and when I did come up with one, if she didn't really care about talking about the subject, she'd reply with one or two words at best. This was probably 85% of the time.
- I've been in multiple relationships where my value was solely based on how useful or good at something I was. This has warped my sense of self for a long time, but on the other hand, it's made me pretty good at many things I might not otherwise be good at.
- I've been lied to (by a person I'm dating) about name, age, city of residence, intentions, "friends" that weren't exactly friends, hell even nationality for some reason.
- I've also had a person cheat on me after only a single day of us agreeing to be in a mutually exclusive relationship.
It's not a long list, and there's plenty more I could've written, but if you went through just these, you would come out quite different than you were before.
All of these experiences and having to try and figure out a reason why someone would do any of these to me have formed a pretty strong understanding of human behavior and emotions. I've also built a resilience to emotional pain. This part I think Zach might share, with more experience than I have, since I'm only 20.
I procrastinated by writing this (being responsible for my actions), I'll now do the thing I procrastinated on (taking accountability) just a personal note.
I want his therapist’s number😭
@@taashlamofr
He's all kinds of intelligent I think
Extremely! I wising expect anything less though. It’s so refreshing to see. EQ is so important and I feel like it’s hard to find in people, I had to learn EQ dealing with shit and now I feel I’m at a point where I am too. He’s just very intelligent in general by being inquisitive and very witty imo I knew he probably already was
When Tara was starting to cry and she said “talk about something else cause I’m gonna start crying”. Then immediately switch to prize picks. I was dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think she cries because she feels very deeply...That made me feel kind sad for her. because the negative comments are probably always going to affect her, so she should just stay away from reading them when she can ❤❤❤
@@cypherx666xsomebody should call the cops and let them know people are being meanys online to tara so we can put these monsters in prison where they belong
atleast she can express emotions ,being hatefull to kind people like tara or jake or anybody else is just so unnecessary I mean like just GET A LIFE
@@MecTerkif first off, if you see Jake’s videos, you can easily tell that Tara is a rich girl who gets upset if it’s not her way. Yes she puts on a performance to look better but let’s not avoid the truth. She clearly uses her looks to get what she wants. It works for her. Good for her. Let’s be honest with ourselves before glorifying someone who is not a good influence in the youth. Look at the vlog of Jake, her, and Johnny going to Mexico. She shows her true version of herself as Jake is the same in every video regardless of whose channel it is. You can enjoy her as a “character” online but I’m not going to praise someone who “plays a part” just for views. She can’t be her true self because it wouldn’t sell due to her being a selfish individual/attention wh0r3. Her idol is literally Paris Hilton. That says so much about her character😂😂
What 0:00
Why did I actually watch the AD after she cried so I could give her privacy??😭😭🤣
LMAO ME TOO I CANT
SAME😂😂😂
😂
the way jake just stared after zach called him deviously handsome
the dynamic between these 3 reminds me of challengers
edit: i typed this before they started talking about the movie and tara literally addressed it 💀💀
Timestamp?
@@roronoauchiha69 @1:24 ?
@ZeglnaThecati have subed 😊
he isnt wrong tho
Jake brought out a raw version of Zach that we don’t normally see on camera, so thank you!! And the way the boys immediately reassured Tara when she began crying was so sweet. More of these honest and vulnerable conversations please!
P.S. the term you’re looking for is Lying by Omission
thats what i was looking for
Omg i was thinking about how they we're comforting her, you can see jake rubbing her arm to remind her that his there
this is another episode that feels much more serious and vulnerable and i really appreciate it, especially because i feel like i struggle with social anxiety. thank you all!
Tara “threatening” Jared to not mess up his new relationship with her best friend is hilarious lmao
Which best friend is this?
@@Merten5 A lot of people theorized that it’s Alyssa ljub because on her instagram stories she posted a pic of Jared’s hand petting Tara’s dog
I'm so thankful for this comment bc I was so confused... For a second I thought Jared was dating Alyssa or Tara?? 😅
@miinky21 same I was thinking it was Tara 😂 threw me off (nothing against Jared or Tara, more so I feel they all made it abundantly clear that they're all friends)
Nezza right that was what I was feeling too
29:42 I love the way Jake sticks his hands out to comfort Tara. It shows how much they truly care for one another.
Frrr I love there friendship sm
it was so sweet omg broo
Jake 16:23 "I'm very thankful for Johnnie and Tara" I love how close they are
Seeing Tara with her face in her hands in tears was so hard to see but I appreciate seeing her having a vulnerable moment.
Zach being Jake's therapist for 58 minutes. Zach is actually so good at talking Jake through his emotions and experiences. Like that's wild- Also we need an all Alyssa episode. We love Alyssa!!!
Its an hour of Tara taking the attention away from Jake lol
@@sheridan7475sorry did you not watch the video about the hate? You’re probably so kind in real life, so not why be like that online. You got this alr?
THE JARED BIT AT THE END WAS SO FUNNY AND WHEN ZACH WENT ‘HI IM JARED😊’ LMAOOOO
i just finished the video and i’m still laughing 😭💀
I just wanna shoot Zach a compliment for adjusting his energy to Jake's. As much as he says crazy things etc he does really read the room and know who can take it and dishes it out to them, but this episode he had lots of genuine moments which shows it's not a 'bit' he's stuck in. I'd love to see him explore this versatility of his more!
I love that this episode is still lighthearted but everyone opened up about something emotional and were listening to each other
It was so nice to hear someone else talk about the feeling of being overwhelmed just from receiving texts and unintentionally isolating away from people while simultaneously wanting to have friends. Jake perfectly articulated the internal struggle.
Jake talking about how he has never been deeply close with someone before Tara, and then Tara explaining how her and Jake can understand and be there for each other when haters are hating, really helps demystify how they were able to stay such good friends. Their relationship is so much deeper than possession and sex. I respect them so much
"So someone had to die to make Jarred" is the craziest question💀😂😭
Jake is so sweet and a humble person. I can totally understand why Tara didn’t want to lose him as a friend. ❤🎉
“As a friend” you’re only friends with ur ex if u still want them 😂 it’s clear Tara still likes jake after he broke up with her
@@thisuser2023that's literally not true at all they're just mature adults that didn't let a romantic relationship ruin a healthy platonic one
@@savvyr6612 NO. She won't leave him alone. She get's pissy when he talks to other girls. Yet she can sleep with who she wants.
@@Sailorkyun she doesn't care who he gets w she literally has said she helps him😭😭 u js miserable and only think ur always right
@@SailorkyunDo u even watch their vlog? if u watched their vlog u would know tara literally help him to get close with a girl. she help him how to get a girl. and jake already hook up with girl he is the first one that immediately go dating someone after their breakup. just bcs you're someone who is so insecure doesn't mean tara too, she is person who is confident and secure of herself. if she still like jake she won't help Jake to be close with other girls.
Zach in genuinely such a good interviewer hes so good at guiding the conversations and asking like actual real good questions
Dude jake always says the exact same things im feeling all the time. Its so nice to not feel alone, i like when this dude in on the podcast.
Maybe you are autistic, I am
same
jake got a little therapy session during this episode, that’s so relatable though. i lost bonds with a lot of my friends because i don’t message them first, i do think about them and miss them but texting is so exhausting sometimes
Relatable. Although my best of friends, True friends, I really think don’t need to text to keep up the relationship
Jake is such a golden retriever personification
Reallll
id say whatevers the black equivalent of that dog breed yes
@@jay-uu9vjhe's a black Labrador then
Black cat for myself 😂
is it just me or is Zach becoming more and more wholesome every video
Zach is a devious human being that R.Kelly comment was unbelievable 😂😂
Explain it to me
@@roronoauchiha69There was a video of r Kelly peeing on a child in a hotel.
@@roronoauchiha69R.Kelly pissed on a Minor in his sex video or something like that
@@roronoauchiha69 no
@@roronoauchiha69search up the R.Kelly cases 😭🙏🏽
Jake expressing his issues with avoidance or apprehension toward getting to know people is just so relatable. Also feeling like the only way you can get close to someone is when they're a daily part of your life, forgetting to text people back or getting overwhelmed with responding.. Didn't realize how much I can relate to Jake until now lol
Zach mocking the shippers at 0:56 is so accurate 😭
W zach as always
Tara assimilating the lingo too
bc their fanbase is indeed like children
Yeah... bc they don't do anything to instigate the shipping, and this is coming from someone who just found these ppl a few months ago
U guys stop liking lowkey hate zach now 😓😓😓
When they were talking about anxiety Tara was like dead silent for 5 minutes and even the camera wasn’t on her. 25:43 is when she gets a bit upset. Seeing her cover her face and cry was so upsetting to me too, also after the advert they did you can see Jake kinda trying to comfort her it’s so cute (friendship cute)
Nicotine & excess amounts of caffeine can actually cause anxiety symptoms or make them worse. Not a doctor but I’ve done some research & reduced both significantly & have noticed a notable difference! Hope this message finds you Jake or anyone needing it!
But thinking that something helps you does lessen the anxiety by making you believe you have less anxiety now that you have taken your "Medicine" which jakes call his nicotine
❤
@@roronoauchiha69what?...
Same i have autism and figured out my morning coffe made me extremely anxious. It was night and day I went from 70% anxiety to 30% in a week
@@agosesco7134i have autism too and drink sodas twice a day, im extremely anxious. You're telling me there's a solution???
This episode made me understand why Zach is Tara's go to when she's upset, he pretends to complain about it but he seems like a genuine friend
That title is diabolical 😭😭😭
Edit: *was*
Old Title: Tara Yummy Cries Over Jake Webber
No it's a gay title lol
Another clickbait?
Figured, I just like their content. Not the click bait titles.
Well she does cry, just not like that 😭
Not really she literally cries @@pedrohofstatter1322
I just witnessed Zach show who he truly is. barely any silliness, just his pure attention, respect and understanding to Jake. This was so heartwarming and refreshing to see! You can tell this is a person he respects a lot. LOVED THIS EPISODE ❤
This is one of the best episodes, Jake gained a new fan. He's chill, relatable, and nice. Even if you're not actively/physically doing nice things, (wishing happy birthdays, etc) he's nice at heart, that's the most important thing. I respect that a lot.
Zach the therapist love this guy he truly cares about the quality of conversation and listens to
Are we gonna ignore the “ Shout out R. Kelly” 😭😭💀💀
When?
Love how jake was just poking or rubbing her to comfort her when she was crying 🫶🏻
i loved the emotional vulnerability in this episode. social media is so harsh nowadays filled with trolls and people who think they can just hide behind screens. you guys are the strong ones for putting yourself out there, sending love ❤️
9:30 (haven’t finished watching it yet) the way he knew he wanted something for tara on him forever before even being tg is so cute. (they need to get back tg.)
the way tara talks for the first time after crying and jake immediately comforts her and zach puts the spotlight on alyssa instead of tara makes me think there’s still kindness left in the world.
Jake seems super social and extroverted so it was interesting learning he struggles with it…..
He has diagnosed autism, I assume he is good at masking
First off, FINALLY JAKE IS HERE.
Second off, all the jokes aside, Zach is so perfect for his role on dropouts, he asks so many questions it feels like he’s doing someone’s therapy, he gets into detail and listens very well while being selfless. He could be my therapist
Jakes excited "really" at the end was so cute 😭
AND HIS “bye guys!” 😭😭😭
Zach is so aware and thoughtful of peoples emotions. It’s so nice to see someone care so much and be truly interested. He has such a caring soul.
Jake talking about being avoidant and him with relationships is so relatable and real
THE RANGE OF EMOTIONS FOR THIS POD WAS INCREDIBLE!!! vulnerable, emotionally intelligent, funny. I loved it. One of my favs.
I like how Tara has started saying brother now like Zack
lol its so funny
as a viewer even i started saying brother because of him considering how much time tara spends w him it make sm sense haha
@@urrockstargf111 I have been saying brother as well 💀
i relate so much to jake's experiences with not having any close friends growing up and having a hard time maintaining friendships in adulthood, you're not alone jake and everyone who relates, we're gonna make it!!! much love to everyone who struggles with the same thing
Zach going "Hi, I'm Jared. 🤓" LMAO DIABOLICAL
this podcast was definitely one of my favorites. i love how open and vulnerable everyone was. it felt safe
Tara genuinely seems like such a sweet, loving person
She definitely is, one of the kindest people you see online.
she cut off Alyssa from talking like 10 thousand times
@@lilahysteria this is exactly why she is crying. you are making hate out of thin air. nobody likes it
@@simply.xx12 she did cut off people a lot of times in this episode
@@roronoauchiha69she talked about that once in an interview. She has adhd and it’s just normal to do so
I really found myself in tears this was such a emotional episode and it shows the Rollercoaster of emotional we do have and the part when jake was opening up about his anxiety that's the realness of the world kinda a realization that your not alone I suffer with crippling anxiety and its so hard and it make me feel less alone knowing that I am not in this boat by myself and tara crying shows that behind the laughs there's tear and that one second u take to make up a hurtful comment to someone u think it doesn't get recognized but that's not true just because someone may not respond that doesn't mean it sits in there mind all day and more emotions build up until it gets full then u break down so this episode really shows how much emotions go around the world so thank yous for being real ❤
I aspire to have jakes energy in life. he's like this ball of light like I can't explain its amazing
31:00 Timestamping this as a victim of cyber and social bullying. Really needed to hear this tonight.
I can picture Zach doing well on SNL. I’m thankful Jake shares about his life experience with difficulty connecting and trusting others. I hope to befriend someone who understands that. Nice podcast, dropouts.
okay alyssa is actually so beautiful. and she’s so soft spoken and i would loveeeee if she got to talk more🥺
i never thought i’d relate to jake so much
I loved how vulnerable this episode got, I really hope you guys don’t let the hate get to you because you guys are doing amazing.
zach is actually so emotionally intelligent, respect to him
I agreed with everything Jake said. As someone who has struggled with anxiety and depression for a long time and have almost lost the battle a couple times. Some people just don't understand, everyone is human.
Props to Jake for being so vulnerable abt a lot of things, we love ya always
i never comment on videos cause u find it so awkward but this is actually the best podcast i’ve watched on yt. js the way they describe their thoughts is amazing. i love them.
Love love love when Zach has serious meaningful conversations
has anyone noticed that tara has been hanging around zach so much that she has started using some of his vocab, eg; “brother”
Tara keeping the truth from someone is called lying by omission and yes it is indeed lying.
Lol lying is saying something that is not true
@@roronoauchiha69You’re loud and wrong. Lying by omission is an actual form of lying. It’s not that hard to look things up.
Agreed
@@jazzyscott yeah adding things to the word lying to make some other thing a lie too because that's your agenda can be an official thing which I can find on google, still won't change the meaning of just the word "lying"
@@roronoauchiha69but it's still true, lying by omission is still lying, example: I killed your brother and you asked me if I did it, I said I didn't because I asked someone to do it. That's lying by omission.
Hey, idk if Jake is going to see any of these comments but I hope he knows how much a lot of his fans are here to support him and love him. I also wanted to say that I know he drinks a lot of caffeine and uses nic, both of these things actually can make anxiety worst. I wanted to say this because I also struggle with anxiety and I had to stop doing both because my doctor recommended it and it has really helped. Jake if you see this, I love you, don't ever be afraid to share how you feel with us.
I have been waiting sooooo long for Tara and Jake to be on the same pod!!!!
Jake and Tara are too perfect for one another and Zach and Jared are so sweet. Did anyone else notice the subtle way Jake tried comforting her when she cried? I wish they’d get back together 😭
This episode was a lot more emotional than I thought it was gonna be……. but I’m here for it.
Tara, please never stop yapping. That's what characterizes you and it's amazing.
i like that they posted this on jakes birthday :,)
28:46 Zach giving Alyssa a smol but thoughtful gift was also so STINKIN cute
Wow. What a beautiful cast of individuals. Please never ever stop creating content and never stop being yourselves bc regardless of mistakes and wrong doings, it’s so clear that each of yall have such pure intentions and are full love.
I feel so similar w Jake %100 the inability to keep friendships 🥺 my heart
that made me feel not alone. i thought something was wrong with me lol
Same @@ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx
I needed this episode, it's sad to understand I'm my biggest hater... I want to try and stop using the internet so much and bring my old hobbies back, I think it's okay to be myself again and stop being such a people pleaser. Thank you guys, specially Tara ❤
i really relate to what jake was saying about friendships and closeness. it’s always a battle honestly, and a constant reminder of deserving something cherish-able
I love how real this episode is! Life shouldn’t be about constantly bringing people down just because people find it funny or out of boredom. It’s all about making people feel loved and appreciated! They all have such a good friendship and are truly just showing their true selves. At the end of the day we are all human and struggle with emotions so let’s just bring people up! 🤍 love you guys! I hope you all have an amazing day!
I like how relaxed Tara is here I’m presuming because of Jake, it’s such a calm energy and I love it
can we appreciate the great support system they have as friends! Thats awesome!
I absolutely loved this episode. Zach is such an insightful young man. I haven't watched a lot of the podcast. I mainly see shorts of the podcast, so I had this picture of him in my mind that was of this goofy kid. Watching him interact and commentate during this episode I have a new respect for him. He seriously is a breath of fresh air in this generation.
Best episode yet!!! Way to open up and be real Jake!!!! We need more young ppl to show to world it’s ok to feel it’s ok to be not ok. Thank you
As a naturally very loud and easily excited person Tara’s personality makes me feel so seen
i relate to Jake soo much with avoidant attachment. It’s not difficult for me to make friends but it’s so hard for me to get close with people despite how much i love being around them. It’s like I can’t get myself to initiate it but it scares me when they initiate it. The way the mind works is so beyond me tbh. Thank you Jake for being open about that so others could relate❤
This video is so sweet, i've been watching jake and taras videos since jake was roomates with sam and colby and now that they both are really up there with fame unfortunately now they are experiencing the switch up part when everyone starts hating them for no reason, i see it happen with so many people who get big and it's so upsetting! People need to learn to think for themselves instead of going along with one jealous person who feels the need to criticize others because of their own problems.
I didn't know it was physically possible to be in love with a podcast, but here we are
The haters aren't worth it. Zach always makes me laugh and is personally my favorite creator. Tara is a beautiful and positive soul. Jared is the nicest guy to everyone. Overall, I could never think of a better group for a podcast. And I don't really know jake too well, but he seems like a very down to earth guy and is very relatable. Also, the relationship between all 4 of yall is extremely healthy, and most people could not pull it off. You get all my respect.
Zack was the only one to catch the energy switch on Jared when Tara said I don’t love you unconditionally. 😮💨
The honest talk about mental health in this episode is refreshing
"This was sick on mute" is wild 😂😂😂
I really enjoyed how genuine everyone was this episode talking about mental health and the other side of being in the spot light. You are all beautiful people. ❤
Honestly, this podcast is a highlight of my week. It's fun to watch people laugh and make each other laugh.
I love how serious this episode is and how open they are.❤
Tara PREEAACCHH. I basically make it my job to spread extra kindness, even just a smile to a stranger. Cannot understand spreading unnecessary and hurtful negativity. There's more than enough of it out there.
It's nice and refreshing to have a serious podcast with Zach and Jared. Love the fun pods, but these serious ones are nice as well. ❤
happy birthday to jake today!!! 🍰
I love how everyone is able to openly communicate and express themselves. And giving us something real to relate to. I’ve never been able to put into words the way Jake explained his anxiety and keeping up with people. I felt everything he said🫶🏼
Jake spider home in the house😍
this needs to be top comment 😭
Love all their personalities especially together. Just putting good vibes out there. Love Tara she's so charming, smart and enchanting to watch. Love Zach he's really funny, caring and clever. Love Jared he's good guy, warm and friendly like a teddy bear. Love Alyssa very sweet, good girl and awesome!. Love Jake he's dope, unique and relatable!!.
i love jake with red hair he looks gorgeous
Omg sameee