Dan's take is the normal one. Most people are comfortable punishing their own kids way more harshly than what they'd find acceptable from another adult.
Imagine being a teacher knowing all your power is imaginary and you can't actually force a kid's legs to walk them to the principal's office. That would be so uncomfortable and awkward just standing there like a dipshit while some little shit disrupts the entire class. Not that they should be able to, but it must be weird walking around knowing you have a false sense of authority that everyone just happens to respect.
@@yourwallet4219 it's not false because you cant physically make someone do something. If they dont listen then you contact the principal who contacts their parents.
@@smallbonesrs exactly, it is the parent's authority, not the teachers. Meanwhile the little shit is still acting up the entire time, until the parents arrive, assuming they are able to leave work. Are you just going to cancel class and wait for the disruptive kid's parents to arrive so you can continue?
@@yourwallet4219 Yeah it's dumb extremists like this that lead to absolute rertarded situations. If a child needs to be picked up to be sent to the principal because they are misbehaving than that's what should be done. Feeling intense fear or anger about any physical contact is absurd and inhuman. Boys who are disagreeable in particular respond better to physical stimuli like flicking than just being told what to do.
@@yourwallet4219 yeah if the kid refuses to leave and keeps being disruptive when parent can’t arrive then security/cops can move them out and the kid will probably be at least temporarily expelled.
Nah not at all, parents are wayyy to protective over their kids and thats how they become entitled assholes. If you dont like the rules at someones house dont go there. Your kid is not obligated to invade other peoples space and force them to adjust the rules within a household. There is obviously a line as Destiny described but when that line is met, just dont take your kid there?
@@dzed5579 Not at all, it depends on the circumstances exactly like Destiny said and u and Dan dont understand. There is a line, if that line is crossed dont take your kid there, its literally that easy. If they did something illegal then just press charges, that shit is obvious.
This situation never came up often with me because we always played outside, and I was an angel. But if my kid ever acted up at his friends' house, I'd expect the parents to call me and say what he did, and tell me to pick him up or that he's walking home if we live close. That's the ideal scenario imo. Anyone touching my kid for punishment would be fucking weird at least. I dont know if I'd call the police or anything crazy like that, but I'd be rightfully pissed. My kid's discipline is my responsibility.
I think you would probably say it differently if the kid was doing something dangerous to himself or others. For me it would depend on how much I trust the friend to be fair and open, but it's crazy how people would smack their kids yet if someone would flick their forehead for misbehaving they lose their shit.
@thelaw3536 I honestly don't know what it would have to be for me to be okay with it, but it would have to be so exceptional that it's pushing into less than likely territory. What Destiny is saying sounds like it could be as small a rule as "don't play on the family computer" or something. In which case, fuck that. I'd just want the respect of the family to tell me straight up and allow me to decide what to do about it. Families that would be willing to discipline another kid under their roof have to be mega conservatives. I knew a family sorta like this, and they were incredibly religious. This would explain Destiny's take, though, considering his family's religiousness.
The only people i think I'd be ok with spanking my kid is my sister, brother or my mom. Besides them, don't touch my kid. Just tell me. I promise you my kid(s) aren't going to just get away with shit.
The idea of putting your hands on someone else child is crazy to me. Destiny is just wrong here, or maybe it is a midwestern thing. If my kid came back from anyones house and I heard that they put their hands on my child that would be insane.
if someone else dared to hit my kid i would explode. 'oh, i guess you think it's wrong to hit children so you don't hit your own kid, but your kid was being bad so i decided to hit them' so yeah i would never ever let a child go to a house where i thought they could get hit. if they want to do the 'other authority' thing, the other parent should specify that they hit children to the parents of that child first. hitting is really different to something like getting told off or sent home.
Just from my own personal first-hand experience, anecdotal evidence from seeing how people from my childhood turned out, and what I have read from parenting articles which cite studies(which I only now decided to look for and found while watching this video), it seems like "physical discipline" of any sort is actually barbaric and counter-productive, and can result in your children being taken away from you. I recall from 3-6yo and being spanked and not understanding why, I would always respond by lashing out, in my head it is to show them that they can't just beat me into submission(which I think was so hilarious child version of me thought I could win that fight). Anyways, after my parents being intervened by other adults, they stopped and I became a much better child when they started communicating with their words rather than marks on my ass. I went from hating my parents and thinking they are the enemy of everything good to having a good relationship where everyone was positive, constructive, and happy.
@@adrycough i was smacked once as a kid (very lightly) & i will never forget it decades later. i was just horrified & it took a long time to calm me down. my mum felt awful & it was the first & last time. yeah there's a ton of research & it just all shows physical punishment doesn't work to correct behaviour & can cause a ton of behavioural and mental health issues from childhood into adulthood.
I honestly believe Destiny would allow other people to hit his kid because even if he didnt like it he would never confront another adult person irl especially another man
I *would* agree with Destiny if he drew the line with physical attacks. But I'm from Sweden and it's been illegal to hit children here ever since the 70s. So the fact that they sit there and talk about when it's okay to hit children is *insane* to me. But yeah, if you're at someone elses place you follow their rules. Like if their family eats at the dinner table together, you eat there too, even if you're allowed to eat in your room or in the living room at home.
@@Yor_gamma_ix_baejust did. Because you said that. Just did it again. And again. Hmm. Seems like I can. Maybe you're mistaken. Let me check. Nope. Still works. One more time. Yep. You're wrong. Once more. Yeap
Yeah it's strange to hear this discussion from a place where it is illegal and vwry rare. I can gave sympathy for a spur of the moment slap if a child is massively acting out, but actually incorporating violence as a parenting strategy is insane to me.
the moment destiny started adding qualifiers was the moment he conceded. at that point, you're the one deciding what's ok and what's not, so its not really "their house, their rules" btw even if it was, thats insane, you don't lay hands on a child thats not yours without permission tbh I feel like in these situations, there's no shot the two parents wouldn't be talking about potential punishment either beforehand or the moment any misbehavior occurs anyway, this scenario isn't really realistic
Right? I feel like it's way more appropriate to just hit em with the ol' "wait til your parents hear about this" I feel like any time I heard that my stomach DROPPED dude, and my parents were pretty lenient and forgiving. I feel like worst case the punishment should just be banning the kid from coming back if it really gets out of hand, but yeah I think hitting somebody elses kid is just WILD idk seems like there's way more options than just letting adults default to "smack any kid that breaks rule"
I think social games are very confusing and important to learn and part of that is learning to be careful and respectful around other authorities. This will always be limited by societal expectations.
I completely agree. Destiny was way to general with his argument from the start saying he would never tell a parent what they can or cannot due to his kid when he is at their house. Then he proceeded to say punishment is a very complicated process and sets out a handbook on what's right and wrong.
He didn't concede. He's talking about whether he thinks it's right to tell someone they can't discipline your child if they do something wrong in their house. He would never say that, even if he thinks the ways they discipline children are insane. He'd just tell Nathan he can't go over to their house. He literally says this.
No, he's still abiding by "their house, their rules". His whole argument is that he wouldn't tell a parent how to discipline his kid when he's in their home. If he didn't like the discipline, he wouldn't tell the parent to stop, he'd just tell his kid not to go to that house so he isn't subject to their rules anymore.
It feels like that the problem here is that someone else punishing the kid, other than the parents other than institutions like the school or police. For me growing up my mother would be furious if anyone else hit me other than her not because i didn't deserve the punishment, because she is my parent and im HER son she is the only one that dictates and carries out my punishment.
No SHOT Destiny is okay with this what the fuck is he even on about. The ONLY appropriate response to someone elses kid in your house doing something bad enough that you want to spank them or put soap in their mouth is to send them home immediately, call thier parents and tell them what happened, then discipline your own kid however you see fit. For example, say your kid and his friend are drawing on the walls and you catch them... CLEARLY that's not okay. Clearly you need to punish your kid in some way. but it's not his friends fault, his friend is in your house, and your kid is probably encouraging that behaviour, and if it is, then that friend ISN'T EVER allowed over again. Regardless of that, you just send them home and inform the parents so they can deal with him while you deal with your kid.
Bizarre take from D man. Probably wouldnt feel that way if he was the one actually having to deal with sending his son to other peopels houses. I assume when Nathan visits he doesnt gave any friends in Miami. I dont think that functionally/practically Destiny has a ton of experience parenting in the normal sense of the word.
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Destiny: Other parents should be able to choose however and whenever they punish my kid in there house. Dan: What if it's a punishment that in your subjective opinion is too extreme? Destiny: Well of course not in that case.
My dad would tell parents that he’s treating your kids like his kids if they come over and that included whooping and told other parents they could whoop me if I acted out too
I guess there is something to be said about the sort of mentality Destiny is trying to foster with parenting like this. If the child gets spanked and doesn't like that outcome, the parent is not going to bail them out of this situation so the responsibility is on them to either adjust their behavior for that particular household or choose not to go over to their house. I can see this mentality carrying through life in a positive way. I think many people would draw the line right before physical punishments though because it is cruel and really has baggage carried with it.
@@thelaw3536very hard to draw the line. A sporadic slap when a kid massively misbehaves might be acceptable, but if you actively incorporate spanking into your parenting, that should be a cause for concern.
I had a friend who would regularly get their mouth washed when I was in 1st grade, at the time, I had thought the parents were retarded for thinking soap would clean his vocabulary and recall trying to explain how it would only make him more upset and act out more(which it did). I don't remember their response to me, but they probably found it hilarious(just from knowing them today), but I think they did eventually switch over to giving him melatonin(please don't take this as advice, talk to a doctor) and would talk down to him like he was a little baby who needed "to go night-night", which seemed to actually work quite well at correcting his behavior, not sure if it was the sleepiness, the humiliation/embarrassment factor, or if he just grew out of it on his own.
@JINX1441 "soap cleans my hands, it can't wash words? Mom tried that, and I was still able to say it. Made me mad, probably gonna make him mad :/" It's kid brain shit, not critical analysis. Soap wash hands not words.
Destiny's take is utterly insane. I am an anti-natalist so its not like I am ever gonna have kids. But spanking a kid is wrong in all circumstances. Especially if you are a psycho PoS that is doing it to someone else's kid. If that kid f'cks up, send them back to their parents and tell them how they misbehaved.
@@Deathstro Am I supposed to believe that deathstro gets all the bitches? Ur probably right tho, this dude giving off mad weeb vibes, those mfers be ugly crying to themselves about nobody loving them
Destiny's take worded properly "other parents rule their house as long as they use rules I already basically agree with and don't go to far by using their common sense, which we all know everyone agrees on."
No, you just weren't listening. He's talking about whether it's right to tell someone they can't discipline your child in their house. If he didn't agree with someone's punishments, he would just forbid Nathan from going to their house.
@@TheRedHaze3funnily enough, here in Germany, hitting kids is illegal, even for parents. So this whole debate doesn't really apply when the law already sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't.
@@anonanon2614 That's true even in America. You think if someone broke a kid's nose they'd be able to get away with it by claiming they were just disciplining the kid?
@@synchronium24 Yeah, that's my point. "...the law already sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't." Spanking is legal in America, breaking a kid's nose is not. Which means the law sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't.
Spanking your own kids is already pushing it, but spanking other people's kids? That sounds like means for retaliation. I get that some authority figures get away with that in other parts of the world but still...also any mention of pulling down pants is purely meme territory. Thanks for the memes, based Dan.
Hopefully I would know if my kids friends parents hit there kid, and they knew I don't spank my kids and they physically disciplined my kids I would e furious
we REALLY need to clarify a lot of factors here, but I think it should be obvious that a SLAP across the FACE is fucked. If a parent spanked my kid, then I could see myself reacting the way destiny is describing. But no parent should be snacking their kid on the face lol what
Both are wrong due to omitting facts. If a parent punishes the child and the child still goes elsewhere and other people who are not family have to punish your kid. Then your giving punishment wrong. I remember getting spanked once in my life and that is all it took. The rest were just verbal reminders from my parents hey if you get out of line i will spank you.
Back in the day teachers did spank kids. No one should spank kids. That was insane. Destiny's take is also insane. Is destiny advocating for teachers spanking kids again. Wtf was that point. You shouldn't spank kids. Period. Its lazy and ignorant parenting.
I feel Destiny is absolutely right on this one? I can't imagine having to deal with a parent saying I'm not allowed to yell at their kids. Of course there's a limitation but I think wacks on the hands are okay and if there are warnings for the children thats absolutely fine. If I say "if you continue I will spank you" and they continue then wtf? duh?
stop conflating yelling and hitting. You DO NOT HIT KIDS. Its illegal in many countries and for good fucking reason. You do not lay your hands on a child. That"s lazy and bad parenting. clear cut. Yell at my kid all you want, as long as it never borders on verbal abuse. But DO NOT lay your hands on a child. If they continue then you send them outside, you call me to come pick them up. You do not fucking smack my kid. You act like an adult and call me to come pick them up and discipline them, or have good enough parenting skills to be able to diffuse the situation verbally. If you feel incapable of diffusing this situation without resorting to violence then instead of insisting on being allowed to use violence have some introspection. Be an Adult. Kids hit kids. Adult kids hit adults. Adult kids hit kids. If a kid is over at your house why would calling their parents not be step 1 after this occurs "If I say "if you continue I will spank you" and they continue then wtf? ". Is your first step after this interaction to hit someone else kid before calling their fucking parents? Are you insane. Why are you threatening to spank my child in the first place? This Destiny take is wild AF, and really makes me question his parenting in a way i never have before. What the other guy said, never have kids unless you willing to improve.
Dan will always make the most extreme example to prove a point. "I'm pro choice" ''OH so if someone stabbed your pregnant wife in the stomach you wouldn't care huh? cause your pro choice?" Like. what the fuck is he thinking when he comes up with this shit?
Nathan has been 11 for like 4 years
So true
Dan's take is the normal one.
Most people are comfortable punishing their own kids way more harshly than what they'd find acceptable from another adult.
Imagine being a teacher knowing all your power is imaginary and you can't actually force a kid's legs to walk them to the principal's office. That would be so uncomfortable and awkward just standing there like a dipshit while some little shit disrupts the entire class. Not that they should be able to, but it must be weird walking around knowing you have a false sense of authority that everyone just happens to respect.
@@yourwallet4219 it's not false because you cant physically make someone do something. If they dont listen then you contact the principal who contacts their parents.
@@smallbonesrs exactly, it is the parent's authority, not the teachers. Meanwhile the little shit is still acting up the entire time, until the parents arrive, assuming they are able to leave work. Are you just going to cancel class and wait for the disruptive kid's parents to arrive so you can continue?
@@yourwallet4219
Yeah it's dumb extremists like this that lead to absolute rertarded situations. If a child needs to be picked up to be sent to the principal because they are misbehaving than that's what should be done. Feeling intense fear or anger about any physical contact is absurd and inhuman. Boys who are disagreeable in particular respond better to physical stimuli like flicking than just being told what to do.
@@yourwallet4219 yeah if the kid refuses to leave and keeps being disruptive when parent can’t arrive then security/cops can move them out and the kid will probably be at least temporarily expelled.
No one should be disciplining a guest... If they can't behave you call up the parents to take them back home.
Dan being correct as always
Nah not at all, parents are wayyy to protective over their kids and thats how they become entitled assholes. If you dont like the rules at someones house dont go there. Your kid is not obligated to invade other peoples space and force them to adjust the rules within a household. There is obviously a line as Destiny described but when that line is met, just dont take your kid there?
@dodo299 you're not allowed to touch another parent's kids 100%. Dan is correct here
@@dzed5579 Not at all, it depends on the circumstances exactly like Destiny said and u and Dan dont understand. There is a line, if that line is crossed dont take your kid there, its literally that easy. If they did something illegal then just press charges, that shit is obvious.
@@dodo299 any physical punishment would qualify as assault and you would get in trouble
@@dzed5579 Bro can you just read what I said or what? Is it not obvious?
This situation never came up often with me because we always played outside, and I was an angel. But if my kid ever acted up at his friends' house, I'd expect the parents to call me and say what he did, and tell me to pick him up or that he's walking home if we live close. That's the ideal scenario imo. Anyone touching my kid for punishment would be fucking weird at least. I dont know if I'd call the police or anything crazy like that, but I'd be rightfully pissed. My kid's discipline is my responsibility.
I think you would probably say it differently if the kid was doing something dangerous to himself or others. For me it would depend on how much I trust the friend to be fair and open, but it's crazy how people would smack their kids yet if someone would flick their forehead for misbehaving they lose their shit.
Exactly. If a kid can't behave as a guest then they shouldn't be a guest and be taken home.
@thelaw3536 I honestly don't know what it would have to be for me to be okay with it, but it would have to be so exceptional that it's pushing into less than likely territory. What Destiny is saying sounds like it could be as small a rule as "don't play on the family computer" or something. In which case, fuck that. I'd just want the respect of the family to tell me straight up and allow me to decide what to do about it.
Families that would be willing to discipline another kid under their roof have to be mega conservatives. I knew a family sorta like this, and they were incredibly religious. This would explain Destiny's take, though, considering his family's religiousness.
Yea, but white people don't discipline their kids, so we can't trust you.
The only people i think I'd be ok with spanking my kid is my sister, brother or my mom. Besides them, don't touch my kid. Just tell me. I promise you my kid(s) aren't going to just get away with shit.
The idea of putting your hands on someone else child is crazy to me. Destiny is just wrong here, or maybe it is a midwestern thing. If my kid came back from anyones house and I heard that they put their hands on my child that would be insane.
maybe it’s a conservative cultural thing but in mexico if you went over to someone’s house you’re subject to their rules
@@adg9042 subject to their rules to not subject to their fist. Is it a cultural thing to only enforce rules through violence?
@@communistwookie1243 yea lol, rules were enforced through violence
@@adg9042 okay I don't want my children anywhere near that.
@@communistwookie1243 that’s fine tbh, i get it but if you don’t it’s no big deal
if someone else dared to hit my kid i would explode. 'oh, i guess you think it's wrong to hit children so you don't hit your own kid, but your kid was being bad so i decided to hit them'
so yeah i would never ever let a child go to a house where i thought they could get hit. if they want to do the 'other authority' thing, the other parent should specify that they hit children to the parents of that child first. hitting is really different to something like getting told off or sent home.
I like your example of you exploding. Super chill. I respect it.
Just from my own personal first-hand experience, anecdotal evidence from seeing how people from my childhood turned out, and what I have read from parenting articles which cite studies(which I only now decided to look for and found while watching this video), it seems like "physical discipline" of any sort is actually barbaric and counter-productive, and can result in your children being taken away from you.
I recall from 3-6yo and being spanked and not understanding why, I would always respond by lashing out, in my head it is to show them that they can't just beat me into submission(which I think was so hilarious child version of me thought I could win that fight). Anyways, after my parents being intervened by other adults, they stopped and I became a much better child when they started communicating with their words rather than marks on my ass. I went from hating my parents and thinking they are the enemy of everything good to having a good relationship where everyone was positive, constructive, and happy.
@@adrycough i was smacked once as a kid (very lightly) & i will never forget it decades later. i was just horrified & it took a long time to calm me down. my mum felt awful & it was the first & last time.
yeah there's a ton of research & it just all shows physical punishment doesn't work to correct behaviour & can cause a ton of behavioural and mental health issues from childhood into adulthood.
I honestly believe Destiny would allow other people to hit his kid because even if he didnt like it he would never confront another adult person irl especially another man
@@amagicallaurawild
I *would* agree with Destiny if he drew the line with physical attacks.
But I'm from Sweden and it's been illegal to hit children here ever since the 70s. So the fact that they sit there and talk about when it's okay to hit children is *insane* to me.
But yeah, if you're at someone elses place you follow their rules. Like if their family eats at the dinner table together, you eat there too, even if you're allowed to eat in your room or in the living room at home.
You can’t hit children .
@@Yor_gamma_ix_baejust did. Because you said that. Just did it again. And again. Hmm. Seems like I can. Maybe you're mistaken. Let me check. Nope. Still works. One more time. Yep. You're wrong. Once more. Yeap
Yeah it's strange to hear this discussion from a place where it is illegal and vwry rare. I can gave sympathy for a spur of the moment slap if a child is massively acting out, but actually incorporating violence as a parenting strategy is insane to me.
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Me too brother I wish he wasn't spending time with his family (and playing rust all night when they are sleeping 😢)
Follow up Dan was on for an hour on Friday
I miss him to laugh at him but too many ppl unironically think he was some extremely based guy
the moment destiny started adding qualifiers was the moment he conceded. at that point, you're the one deciding what's ok and what's not, so its not really "their house, their rules"
btw even if it was, thats insane, you don't lay hands on a child thats not yours without permission
tbh I feel like in these situations, there's no shot the two parents wouldn't be talking about potential punishment either beforehand or the moment any misbehavior occurs anyway, this scenario isn't really realistic
Right? I feel like it's way more appropriate to just hit em with the ol' "wait til your parents hear about this" I feel like any time I heard that my stomach DROPPED dude, and my parents were pretty lenient and forgiving. I feel like worst case the punishment should just be banning the kid from coming back if it really gets out of hand, but yeah I think hitting somebody elses kid is just WILD idk seems like there's way more options than just letting adults default to "smack any kid that breaks rule"
I think social games are very confusing and important to learn and part of that is learning to be careful and respectful around other authorities. This will always be limited by societal expectations.
I completely agree. Destiny was way to general with his argument from the start saying he would never tell a parent what they can or cannot due to his kid when he is at their house. Then he proceeded to say punishment is a very complicated process and sets out a handbook on what's right and wrong.
He didn't concede.
He's talking about whether he thinks it's right to tell someone they can't discipline your child if they do something wrong in their house.
He would never say that, even if he thinks the ways they discipline children are insane. He'd just tell Nathan he can't go over to their house. He literally says this.
No, he's still abiding by "their house, their rules". His whole argument is that he wouldn't tell a parent how to discipline his kid when he's in their home. If he didn't like the discipline, he wouldn't tell the parent to stop, he'd just tell his kid not to go to that house so he isn't subject to their rules anymore.
This is the world Destiny wants
Dan is right, no one parents ever beat me. There was always an implication that you don't touch other peoples kids.
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I'm sick of people acting like complex things like this are just sooooo simple.
Dan the Prophet. Correct once again 👑
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16:07 poison is the line POG
Don't put hands on your kids. Don't put hands on other ppls kids. Don't put hands on kids. It so simple.
It feels like that the problem here is that someone else punishing the kid, other than the parents other than institutions like the school or police. For me growing up my mother would be furious if anyone else hit me other than her not because i didn't deserve the punishment, because she is my parent and im HER son she is the only one that dictates and carries out my punishment.
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No SHOT Destiny is okay with this what the fuck is he even on about.
The ONLY appropriate response to someone elses kid in your house doing something bad enough that you want to spank them or put soap in their mouth is to send them home immediately, call thier parents and tell them what happened, then discipline your own kid however you see fit.
For example, say your kid and his friend are drawing on the walls and you catch them... CLEARLY that's not okay. Clearly you need to punish your kid in some way. but it's not his friends fault, his friend is in your house, and your kid is probably encouraging that behaviour, and if it is, then that friend ISN'T EVER allowed over again. Regardless of that, you just send them home and inform the parents so they can deal with him while you deal with your kid.
First sane take. These people are adult children still wanting to hit children.
Dan is right. When the belt comes out, the pants come down.
Bizarre take from D man. Probably wouldnt feel that way if he was the one actually having to deal with sending his son to other peopels houses. I assume when Nathan visits he doesnt gave any friends in Miami.
I dont think that functionally/practically Destiny has a ton of experience parenting in the normal sense of the word.
My cousin always said she was okay with someone else spanking her kid. Until she saw a family member slap the back of her kids head and she lost it
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yeah, we're just gonna go ahead and throw that in the Dan W column
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Destiny: Other parents should be able to choose however and whenever they punish my kid in there house.
Dan: What if it's a punishment that in your subjective opinion is too extreme?
Destiny: Well of course not in that case.
My dad would tell parents that he’s treating your kids like his kids if they come over and that included whooping and told other parents they could whoop me if I acted out too
This is another one of those cases where the parties should agree on a policy ahead of time.
Destiny's parenting take is _unhinged_
lav era
That kid must be so short it’s insane bro
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I guess there is something to be said about the sort of mentality Destiny is trying to foster with parenting like this. If the child gets spanked and doesn't like that outcome, the parent is not going to bail them out of this situation so the responsibility is on them to either adjust their behavior for that particular household or choose not to go over to their house. I can see this mentality carrying through life in a positive way. I think many people would draw the line right before physical punishments though because it is cruel and really has baggage carried with it.
Not all physical punishments are cruel though I've seen them used in cruel ways.
@@thelaw3536very hard to draw the line. A sporadic slap when a kid massively misbehaves might be acceptable, but if you actively incorporate spanking into your parenting, that should be a cause for concern.
Is this during the methastiny arc? Gosh holy shit 😂😂😂 homie sounds like he geekin’
...Was this channel in any way inspired by The Northernlion clip channel?
Where’s Dan been? busy with business?
Humans gonna human
My best guess is that his streaming hours conflict with Dan's nappy-poo time. He is getting to that age now, y'know?
Apparently I was raised the exact same way destiny was, I also agreed with just about everything he said 😂 looks like nobody else did
This is a classic
Why would he say it like that though😂
I had a friend who would regularly get their mouth washed when I was in 1st grade, at the time, I had thought the parents were retarded for thinking soap would clean his vocabulary and recall trying to explain how it would only make him more upset and act out more(which it did). I don't remember their response to me, but they probably found it hilarious(just from knowing them today), but I think they did eventually switch over to giving him melatonin(please don't take this as advice, talk to a doctor) and would talk down to him like he was a little baby who needed "to go night-night", which seemed to actually work quite well at correcting his behavior, not sure if it was the sleepiness, the humiliation/embarrassment factor, or if he just grew out of it on his own.
In first grade you were critically analysing your friend's parents?
@JINX1441 "soap cleans my hands, it can't wash words? Mom tried that, and I was still able to say it. Made me mad, probably gonna make him mad :/"
It's kid brain shit, not critical analysis. Soap wash hands not words.
I remember doing it. i was a judgemental little shit. I
compared the parents of every kid to my own if i went over to their house. @@JINX1441
@@Clamflesh this exactly
7:44 is how far I got before I could feel Destiny’s degenerate takes rotting my brain
Destiny's take is utterly insane.
I am an anti-natalist so its not like I am ever gonna have kids. But spanking a kid is wrong in all circumstances. Especially if you are a psycho PoS that is doing it to someone else's kid. If that kid f'cks up, send them back to their parents and tell them how they misbehaved.
Spanking kids is a tried and true parenting strategy. There is a clear line between spankings and beatings, and most parents understand that.
Antinatalism is just anti submission with extra steps
youre also not anti-natalist youre a guy on the internet with no play lmao.
@@Deathstro Am I supposed to believe that deathstro gets all the bitches? Ur probably right tho, this dude giving off mad weeb vibes, those mfers be ugly crying to themselves about nobody loving them
anti-natalist = Opinion disregarded
What’s the end song?
This vid is like a Destiny's worst takes compilation.
Who's this dan? Whats his YT?
youtube.com/@hasanabi?si=EHBT6pQvkJJO6Mmd
Destiny's take worded properly "other parents rule their house as long as they use rules I already basically agree with and don't go to far by using their common sense, which we all know everyone agrees on."
No, you just weren't listening.
He's talking about whether it's right to tell someone they can't discipline your child in their house. If he didn't agree with someone's punishments, he would just forbid Nathan from going to their house.
@@TheRedHaze3funnily enough, here in Germany, hitting kids is illegal, even for parents. So this whole debate doesn't really apply when the law already sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't.
@@anonanon2614 That's true even in America.
You think if someone broke a kid's nose they'd be able to get away with it by claiming they were just disciplining the kid?
@@TheRedHaze3 Breaking a kid's nose=/=spanking. Spanking is legal in America.
@@synchronium24 Yeah, that's my point.
"...the law already sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't."
Spanking is legal in America, breaking a kid's nose is not. Which means the law sets a standard for what's allowed and what isn't.
Spanking your own kids is already pushing it, but spanking other people's kids?
That sounds like means for retaliation.
I get that some authority figures get away with that in other parts of the world but still...also any mention of pulling down pants is purely meme territory. Thanks for the memes, based Dan.
Hopefully I would know if my kids friends parents hit there kid, and they knew I don't spank my kids and they physically disciplined my kids I would e furious
we REALLY need to clarify a lot of factors here, but I think it should be obvious that a SLAP across the FACE is fucked.
If a parent spanked my kid, then I could see myself reacting the way destiny is describing. But no parent should be snacking their kid on the face lol what
Maybe Destiny feels this way because he's used to not being that involved with his kid and having to let others do the parenting lol
Destiny bein a weasel for 20 min, dan dan the right man
Both are wrong due to omitting facts. If a parent punishes the child and the child still goes elsewhere and other people who are not family have to punish your kid. Then your giving punishment wrong. I remember getting spanked once in my life and that is all it took. The rest were just verbal reminders from my parents hey if you get out of line i will spank you.
Why is Destiny always right?
Dan is too high IQ
Back in the day teachers did spank kids. No one should spank kids. That was insane. Destiny's take is also insane. Is destiny advocating for teachers spanking kids again. Wtf was that point. You shouldn't spank kids. Period. Its lazy and ignorant parenting.
Worst Destiny take. Hasan was right all along
I feel Destiny is absolutely right on this one?
I can't imagine having to deal with a parent saying I'm not allowed to yell at their kids. Of course there's a limitation but I think wacks on the hands are okay and if there are warnings for the children thats absolutely fine.
If I say "if you continue I will spank you" and they continue then wtf? duh?
Never have children
stop conflating yelling and hitting. You DO NOT HIT KIDS. Its illegal in many countries and for good fucking reason. You do not lay your hands on a child. That"s lazy and bad parenting. clear cut. Yell at my kid all you want, as long as it never borders on verbal abuse. But DO NOT lay your hands on a child. If they continue then you send them outside, you call me to come pick them up. You do not fucking smack my kid. You act like an adult and call me to come pick them up and discipline them, or have good enough parenting skills to be able to diffuse the situation verbally. If you feel incapable of diffusing this situation without resorting to violence then instead of insisting on being allowed to use violence have some introspection. Be an Adult. Kids hit kids. Adult kids hit adults. Adult kids hit kids. If a kid is over at your house why would calling their parents not be step 1 after this occurs "If I say "if you continue I will spank you" and they continue then wtf? ". Is your first step after this interaction to hit someone else kid before calling their fucking parents? Are you insane. Why are you threatening to spank my child in the first place? This Destiny take is wild AF, and really makes me question his parenting in a way i never have before. What the other guy said, never have kids unless you willing to improve.
"promosm" 🙄
First!
Dan will always make the most extreme example to prove a point.
"I'm pro choice"
''OH so if someone stabbed your pregnant wife in the stomach you wouldn't care huh? cause your pro choice?"
Like. what the fuck is he thinking when he comes up with this shit?
where the fuck is dan?
funny that destiny here supports "fuck around and find out" but not when a prankster harasses someone
Should I be able to stab someone in the gut for the prankster stuff?
@@kakyoin9688 with the exact same circumstances? yes
@@johngamer-bp3pcI don’t think so personally, but the prankster did fuck around and found out. He shouldn’t have done some dumb shit
you understand the difference of force used when pulling a gun on somebody, and spanking a kid right?
@@eedac yeah, they also have a lot in common