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she cannot remove her feminism coloured glasses and see the world from a general point of view. so frustrating. your patience is on a whole other level Muhammad, alhamdulillah
It's not just that - she doesn't know where her beliefs come from. It's a huge problem - many people think that religion is dogmatic or that why do you need a book to tell you what to do - when they have been duped having been academically programmed or societally trained to think in a certain way is hardly different from dogma. The difference is, our dogma is divine, without fault, without bias and free from falsehood. Whereas their ideology is full of batil. Haq is Haq and Batil is Batil. May Allah Azzawajal give the sincere ones hidayah.
The reality is nobody is stopping her feminist view of 50/50 go ahead live like that but she is exposing her own INCONSISTANCY because when it comes to protection and money she suddenly change her story if she is really truthful then she must make the WHOLE RELATIONSHIP 50/50
Yes because you chose that type of RELATIONSHIP. This lady in the video must realize her ideal relationship that she seeks 50/50 she needs to apply to the ENTIRE relationship but she wants equality only when it benefits her. FACT is nobody is stopping her and she keeps comparing her own subjective experience to WOMEN IN GENERAL i have 3 sisters one is a HR millionaire travels the world, the other is a teacher and my other sister LEFT her studies to get married because she was obsessed with being a mother and caretaker since birth. ALL WOMEN are different and both is ok to be a HOME MAKER MOMMY is equally respected and Honorable as a woman who seeks a career ISLAM allows both. There will always be exceptions but in majority cases as HISTORY has made it self evident that women recognize their roles and is just as beautiful. POINT IS the creator says BOTH ARE EQUAL in their duties but this lady is obsessed with EQUALITY and she is conflating EQUALITY with EQUITY.
@@Adam-fc2lf yes another thing this lady in the video needs to understand in ISLAM you consult your wife in EVERYTHING her words will impact decisions 100% if not MOST CASES because women are wise but there has to be a decision maker in the end and the almighty has given it to the man. She also needs to understand the almighty sayd "THE BEST OF YOU ARE THE ONES BEST TO THEIR WIVES" so ofcourse the husband will be kind and sensitive in his decision making it doesnt mean his GOING TO RULE as a tyrant no he will rule with justice because of the promise he made in the marriage constract infront of the the Almighty and people as witnesses and ONTOP IT if the lady is still not satisfied or happy with the relationship then ISLAM even allows her divorce. SO theres no force here its all your choice
And that shows exactly why men are qawwamun over women. Women are naturally more emotional and that will 100% affect decision making. This is also why it's only the man who is given the right to divorce the spouse.
This guy needs to run from that relationship. I bet they walked away and she's probably still giving him an earful of how he should have been agreeing with her. InshaAllah he becomes Muslim and finds a Muslim wife with Islamic values.
The fact that he was listening intently and not saying a word says two things; he feels like muslim lanterns views is a breath of fresh air, and also he knows this woman is too masculine, they will never get along and ultimately he's not happy in this relationship. I can tell lol 😂
@@GrimeReaperMan Guy knows if he said a word since he's kinda agrees with brother Muhammad's point, he's gonna has to face a futile unwinable battle of words with his gf on their way going back to home.
So happy to find atleast a christian who is honest enough and don’t go around only hating every single person around just because he is a muslim , may god bless you 🤲🏻
As a husband, you take your wife’s inputs/suggestions into consideration, but still the man makes the final decision. Also, agreeing to your wife doesn’t make you equal, you’re just acknowledging the suggestion from your wife to be the best solution to the problem. Everything that happens in the family is because the man allows it. But that doesn’t mean the wife won’t have any input in any matter of problem. You can still talk things out, and try to solve a problem together, but a muslim family must acknowledge that the final decision is made by the husband.
yup...just like a General in the Army can take everyone's suggestion...and agree with someone's suggestion...doesn't mean he isn't the final decision maker.
The problem I've seen with the lady is that she's not listening. As brother Muhammad is answering her, she's busy thinking out the next thing she should say instead of listening first
you see it's not always about compromise. It's about negotiation, ok you want to do this but I don't want that at all, you want 10, I want 20, lets agree on 15. That's how it should be on the decisions. Yes, the man is the ultimate decision maker for the family, meaning the ultimate decision making power resides with him while making a MAJOR decision for the family, but when it's about minor decisions, when they're not do or die, it's better to negotiate and reach a common conclusion together.
@@biyashahzadi1727 you can't always compromise in some scenarios. If someone wants to move to th US and another one wants to stay in Europe, you can't compromise and say well let's just go to an Asian country then...It's either go to the US or stay. One person will compromise and the other will have it their way. Some decision are black or white. There's no grey area. There has to be a leader. The one putting their life on the line for the other has more authority.
may allah reward muhammad for this patience and grant him janat-al firdaws and may allah grant you all wives the exact opposite of what was shown in the video ❤ and may allah make you all the spouses that your spouse deserves and make you all pleasing to allah’s eyes
If you're not married yet, it's best to leave her. She'll give you a lot of headaches later. It's very difficult to lead a stubborn woman with a bigger ego than a man. You don't want to have these types of problems when you have kids later.
I used to be a feminist. I was born muslim and live in a majority muslim country, but I was not born into a religious family. For years of marriage, I didn't feel sakinah. As I learn more about deen and start to practice it, I now realize that my household is more peaceful if I can position myself as a muslimah. I try to obey my husband and educate my children according to Islamic teachings, and that makes me find happiness.
Wallah this is the way :) When we pick the best spouses for ourselves, we find peace when we trust and confide in them. We choose to marry them, so they are worthy of being obeyed for the sake of Allah.
That brother's eyes just got opened wide. They're definitely breaking up when they get home. May Allah guide the brother to Islam and may Allah bless you for your work.
The feminist got offended when she realized she doesn't have any rational arguments. BTW, what Brother Muhammad said about women losing attraction to men when they dont provide is a very real thing and very common. I have seen this happening in multiple marriages. Basically its comes to down to respect, most women will loose respect for the man who doesn't provide. Then they go why should i obey my husband, because she is the provider now she deserves authority. And once she also becomes the decision maker, she lose more respect for her husband. This breeds distrust and is a cancer for healthy relationship.
Exactly.. Less things to think about. I would rather be thinking about what to cook (sometimes I didn't even make that decision cos I'm that lazy, just asked husband what he want to eat), or what color of my dress today would be. Life is easier and less responsibility to take.. 😅😅😅
Her world view is quite different. She's not understanding the islamic perspective and is rather saying things just to prove herself right. May Allah guide people like this.
She forgot where marriage comes from? It’s religion. She is idealistic and sides with feminism if she follow her own book she see how harsh women have in bible. Woman has to submit to a man in everything that also includes if he is a criminal.
1) Jesus (AS) did not die, your New Testament Bible has its earliest records in 400 AD They are the same Person, he did not die 2) Muslim means to submit to God almighty, if you submit to God almighty then you are a Muslim 3) Angel Gabriel is the angel of the highest rank, Jibreel means Gabriel 4) The Quran challenges all of humanity to produce a single Surah like that of the Quran And we have prophecies, hence why we call Muhammad (PBUH) a prophet If the Quran was not true, why don’t people who oppose it attempt to produce a Surah like it? After all if it was possible you would not have to resort to other arguments, people would constantly be claiming that they had and we’d hear their names I’m going to mention to you three prophecies 1) Arabia REVERTING to a land of gardens and meadows More like 2 in one Recently, heavy rainfall has caused parts of Arabia to turn green, in regions which previously haven’t been lush with vegetation, something which has not happened in recorded human history Second, roughly 10,000 years ago Arabia was home to hippopotamuses and rivers, there is archaeological evidence for this You can search it up 2) Byzantines prophecy Within 3 to 9 years the Byzantines will return from near extinction To put into perspective, everybody at the time thought the Byzantines were going to fall and collapse However, this is a very high risk prophecy And low and behold, it occurred 3) The Bedoans prophecy One of the signs of the day of judgement is that barefoot destitute shepherds will compete in the construction of tall buildings within one generation With these individuals being the bedoans The gulf countries with these bedoan populations went from being shepherds to constructing skyscrapers in one generation Look at a map of before and after You can search up all these prophecies Have a good day
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I liked how she refuted her own argument when she mentioned the menstrual cycle (period) and proved that women and men are different psychologically and physically, so they must have different roles as Allah commanded us. This does not mean that men are better. On the contrary, the man is the head of the family, the woman is his right hand, and the two are complementary. To make the relationship successful, as simple as that
Every little business, shop and store has a person in charge, called the manager, but not the family. The family is left in a dilemma where two people are in charge. Confusion indeed.
The only interfaith marriage that is permissible (not promoted or obligatory) is a Muslim man and a Abrahamic Woman (Jewish or Christian) due to similarity in morality. However, given the rise of westernised immorality in Jewish and Christian communities in western countries, I believe the rule is not applicable
She is forgetting that the real follower of Jesus follows Islam by 1) staying away from Haram( not drinking/ eating pork/ intercourse) 2) Fasts 3) Gives charity for the sake of God. 4) Believes in all the prophets before Jesus....etc etc.
Talking to a feminist is like talking to a wall with a mouth. May Allah bless you for your patience and bless us all with this kind of patience because by Allah I don’t have that much sabr.
When she grows older she will realize just how wrong her ways are and by then too late. Most marriages with such a women will end in divorce. And funny enough that exactly how my non Muslim neighbors end up and the kids are crack pots. Edit *much love out there for the Muslim sisters whom hold stead fast to the deen without comprising, may Allah reward and grant you Barakah and abundance is good and wealth.
that why they become so jealous on Muslim Household on how happiest they are and try to bring their agenda on Muslim women.🤣when open their bible is like kryptonite for them
horrible to listen to, it was becoming unbearable. Feminism comes from women's arrogance, and arrogance is denying the truth and despising people. Debating for the sake of debating, falsely answering questions to win the debate is just pure arrogance, it was really annoying.
@@Jesus_isA_man_AllahisGod I think that in such a scenario both husband and wife should go down. It is true that men usually have more physical strength but still the wife can help the husband and both of them should try to avoid direct confrontation with the thief bcz doing so can be dangerous.
She's saying a man cannot eat raw ingredients. Like Muhammad said as a joke there's Uber Eats, implying if you have money you can buy food already prepared or even cook it yourself. He does not need to eat raw ingredients meanwhile what's she gonna cook, dust off the floor? If a husband is married to an argumentative wife that wants to be in charge but provides nothing in the relationship, does not do housework and is not even a muslim woman, he can simply divorce her, save 50% of income, eat at the finest restaurants and still have money left.
She needs to understand we do as الله commands us. ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ we have guidance for every aspect of our lives. It's not about competing or superiority.
A sister I know of married a christian who then converted to islam, after they had 2 sons the husband reverted back to christianity and brought the sister and their children to christianity.. this is why muslimah need to be careful
This lady has similar view/vibes to the Buddhist woman Ali talked to in a previous video. Both cases male partners just kept quiet yet the women will say they make choices together. May Allah guide them and protect us.
I'm obsessed in watching Muhammad Ali's dawah videos they just have a certain feeling when you do...May Allah SWT accept it from him and all of us Ameeen 🤲
because he Focus on Discussion and Not Shouting Match while other Dawah people it Up against Shouting Match which it kinda tiresome to watch for long time
@@jessesbella because they are arguing with disbelievers that are insulting our religion, if you can't handle the heat then stay out of the kitchen simple as that.
we’re allowed to feel a certain way about someone but we don’t need to express it outwardly. I don’t agree with this woman & I am Muslim myself. Allah may not be happy with her but I’m sure he isn’t happy with your comment either. Just something to think about. Remember that the angels pray for you whatever you pray for others.
we’re allowed to feel a certain way about someone but we don’t need to express it outwardly. I don’t agree with this woman & I am Muslim myself. Allah may not be happy with her but I’m sure he isn’t happy with your comment either. Just something to think about. Remember that the angels pray for you whatever you pray for others.
She's a tough one to deal with. I won't be surprised if this guy puts on his backpack and makes a trip to find a more sane female to be with. Muhammed's patience was once again tested to new heights.
Alhamdullilah for Islam! There's no confusion if one truly follows the teachings of Islam. My husband is the head, provider, and director of our family. He does not take a penny from my salary; whatever I make is a hundred percent mine.
I think it’s important to highlight that women and men can share opinions, collaborate and influence each other in the decision-making process. But the man will have final decision making authority if there’s a disagreement and the man will be held more accountable for the decision. Even between two people (romantic or not) there should be one who is the leader with the authority, responsibility and accountability for decisions. Islam does not say the man should be a dictator and should not consult with his wife or others. In most of the conversations regarding this issue of ‘authority’, the emphasis of collaboration and seeking advice from others gets lost.
i‘m a muslim woman and have muslim parents where my mom is the leader. To he honest.. it causes much trouble and fights.. My mom cant control herself when she gets emotional, so it always ends up with a big mess. If my Dad would control all the things, and tell my mom to just lay back and chill, it would be a million time better. I found a husband who is happy to take the leadership and m happy to have a husband where i can just be a girl and not think abt anything😭🙏🏻❣️ Literally i‘m okay with everything he says because we have the same interests and same world view (both muslim) so we always get along with eachother❤❤❤
Sometimes I just listen and get amazed by how our brother Muhammad delivers the facts to people. You’ll have no choice other than to get speechless. May Allah keep our brother safe, increase his knowledge, solve his problems and put him in the highest ranks in Jannah. ALLAHU AKBAR!
بارك الله فيكم... اللهم اغفر لوالدينا و ارحمهما و اجمعنا معهما في الفردوس الأعلى مع الأنبياء و الشهداء و الصالحين و جميع موتى المسلمين.. اللهم احقن دماء المسلمين و انصرهم على من عاداهم.. رب إني مسني الضر و أنت أرحم الراحمين... لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين..... ...... ....... ...... ...... ...... .......
This woman, clearly, isn't there to learn, she keeps parroting the same things after it being explained to her. She is so dense, it's unbelievable, that I have to think she's being willfully ignorant.
if i were you, i will close the booth an going back to home and sleep. Im so grateful, my wife still trust me to make decission even im broke Alhamdulillah
She herself doesn’t pay anything. Her husband pays 100% and she loves the arrangement, she pays nothing, does nothing, but also has the last say in all decisions
I can’t finish this, she isn’t listening to what he’s saying. She’s too busy trying to prove him wrong. She didn’t come with an open mind, she came to say what she thinks is correct and he’s wrong.
Feminist always making their own personal experiences as its the general people’s view, and they didn’t even know what they’re believed in Alhamdulillah for Islam
If she wanted to go she could of walked down the street to get some ice cream or something and let brother muhammed speak to the guy who was actually listening to what muhammed was saying
Every word that comes out of Muhammed Ali's mouth makes me happy. May Allah reward you for all your efforts, whether it's because you studied and gained knowledge or because you spread the knowledge or whatever. As some muslims say, "I love you for the sake of Allah". Allahuakbar.
The problem in this discussion is that she equates decision making and protector as a role of greater importance than the role of a wife. Islam does not distinguish between roles in such a way. That kind of mindset his how you get the idea of superiority of status and value. We say men and women have their roles and they are equal in value. Islam only recognises superiority in the sight of Allah based on piety.
Exactly just like how some feminists fight for the role of imam because they think it’s a more important role when it’s not really. The whole congregation is still rewarded, you don’t have to be imam. Allahs guidance is the best. Alhamdulilah Allah already decided all these things for us or we’d would’ve all argued endlessly for eternity or foolishness
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This one needed a LOT of patience may Allah reward you
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Feminism is a drug in today's world that they give to young women to keep them vulnerable!
May Allah guide them.
I know the guy in his head was like " damn he spittin facts rn" 😂
He said it LOL!
صح 😂
Lol exactly, he was focused on Ali's explanation and nodding
the guy was shocked about the verse in the bible and knew that muslim lantern was just putting facts.
He's like I deffo need to break up with this feminist 😂
she cannot remove her feminism coloured glasses and see the world from a general point of view. so frustrating. your patience is on a whole other level Muhammad, alhamdulillah
It's not just that - she doesn't know where her beliefs come from. It's a huge problem - many people think that religion is dogmatic or that why do you need a book to tell you what to do - when they have been duped having been academically programmed or societally trained to think in a certain way is hardly different from dogma. The difference is, our dogma is divine, without fault, without bias and free from falsehood. Whereas their ideology is full of batil. Haq is Haq and Batil is Batil. May Allah Azzawajal give the sincere ones hidayah.
The reality is nobody is stopping her feminist view of 50/50 go ahead live like that but she is exposing her own INCONSISTANCY because when it comes to protection and money she suddenly change her story if she is really truthful then she must make the WHOLE RELATIONSHIP 50/50
Same😅
@@NeoScevenger If both husband and wife are working then they should split the household expenses too. This is good and I see nothing wrong in it.
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xd not should, but could
I’m a woman and I love the fact that a man is in charge of my protection.
That's the beauty of Islam, the divine gender roles fulfil the needs and desires of both genders.
Alhamdulilah
Dont even need to be religious to understand that, change my mind...
Yes because you chose that type of RELATIONSHIP. This lady in the video must realize her ideal relationship that she seeks 50/50 she needs to apply to the ENTIRE relationship but she wants equality only when it benefits her. FACT is nobody is stopping her and she keeps comparing her own subjective experience to WOMEN IN GENERAL i have 3 sisters one is a HR millionaire travels the world, the other is a teacher and my other sister LEFT her studies to get married because she was obsessed with being a mother and caretaker since birth. ALL WOMEN are different and both is ok to be a HOME MAKER MOMMY is equally respected and Honorable as a woman who seeks a career ISLAM allows both. There will always be exceptions but in majority cases as HISTORY has made it self evident that women recognize their roles and is just as beautiful. POINT IS the creator says BOTH ARE EQUAL in their duties but this lady is obsessed with EQUALITY and she is conflating EQUALITY with EQUITY.
@@Adam-fc2lf yes another thing this lady in the video needs to understand in ISLAM you consult your wife in EVERYTHING her words will impact decisions 100% if not MOST CASES because women are wise but there has to be a decision maker in the end and the almighty has given it to the man. She also needs to understand the almighty sayd "THE BEST OF YOU ARE THE ONES BEST TO THEIR WIVES" so ofcourse the husband will be kind and sensitive in his decision making it doesnt mean his GOING TO RULE as a tyrant no he will rule with justice because of the promise he made in the marriage constract infront of the the Almighty and people as witnesses and ONTOP IT if the lady is still not satisfied or happy with the relationship then ISLAM even allows her divorce. SO theres no force here its all your choice
Why does she keep bringing up her own specific personal experiences as if they apply to everyone
☕️☕️☕️
Narcissistic ideology
that is every woman literally every women no matter where you go
And yet insist she never had a personal experience lmao
And that shows exactly why men are qawwamun over women. Women are naturally more emotional and that will 100% affect decision making. This is also why it's only the man who is given the right to divorce the spouse.
She is just arguing for the sake of arguing. May Allah guide her.
yeah most people are like that they just don't want to be wrong
@@proboxer8916especially women
@@SAT1337...agreed, it's their bread & butter to be this way.
Aameen
Aameen!
The feminists are always in a hurry to get home when they are getting dragged in an argument😂
exactly 🤣🤣
Especially when they lose the debate 😂
"Let's just agree to disagree." is also just a common get out device. 😂
The boyfriend is deffo thinking he needs to break up with this feminist 😂
yeah what a paradox 💀
"if you wanted to move to Spain would you move if I didn't want to"
Guy "Yeah"
😭🤣😂
That's the moment he answered like that, because our brother Ali opened his eyes and then she closed that door very quickly 😄
Bro was about to sleep on the couch if he didnt change his answer
@@invadr97why would he it is his apartment which he pay the rent of
@@sayan1667 I laughed on it..the fact that lady seems to be so close minded.
The boyfriend is deffo thinking he needs to break up with this feminist 😂
shes going in circles tryna prove her point
Right? I hope she watch this video to reflect herself on how silly she is.
I dont want to be her husband. 😅😅
@@awesome600 same bro 😅
The boyfriend is deffo thinking he needs to break up with this feminist 😂
Gender wars are so tiring, we're a complement to each other, not competitors
Alhamdullilah for Islam
I swear if a gender war or religion war happens in your comment-
I am surely not a good muslim but AlhamduliLlah I'm not not a feminist because they are so unhappy.
is crazy
Feminism is ♋
@@Emanuela561 There is nothing wrong in being a Feminist
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xd Theres everything wrong with the feminist paradigm
@@yuckk.k What is wrong? Enlighten me
«…and the male is not like the female.»
(Quran 3:36)
Their society is so corrupted that even something as simple as that is "controversial".
And the female is not like the male.
Thats a biological fact and science.
Everywhere it says except Feminists.😊
This guy needs to run from that relationship. I bet they walked away and she's probably still giving him an earful of how he should have been agreeing with her. InshaAllah he becomes Muslim and finds a Muslim wife with Islamic values.
Man like him who calm, listening and not arrogant has higher chance become muslim,.InsyaAllah
The boyfriend is deffo thinking he needs to break up with this feminist 😂
& May Allah guide her and make her a righteous wife
True. I think this discussion opened his eyes to what kind of woman his partner is and reevaluate his life choices 😅
as soon as her bible contradicted her belief "they really need to go home"
lmao
like sheikh uthman said their bible is like kryptonite for them🤣
What is the time stamp for that ?
That's why they changed it to fit in their narrative
@@BlackJack-lg3vx 22:20
@@malofficialyt4268thats true😂
Some people are just unconsciously combative. She made me so anxious. May Allah make us self-aware to correct the bad in our personality.
Ameen
آمين
ameen
Ameen. Sister change ur pfp.
There are days I feel ungrateful, and when I hear most of these western women speak, !! I thank Allah I live in Africa,and thanks him for our women.😂
We have many problems, but this is not one of them haha
i live in america 🤦🏽♂️ everyday i want to move back to africa bro😭make dua for us
@@g_4144 you will surely come back brother inshallah, Allah is most gracious!
Facts brother, women in the west are gone cases now it's so sad
Why do you say so?
And to the brother that's with her, run. . She would never ever be easy to live with
The fact that he was listening intently and not saying a word says two things; he feels like muslim lanterns views is a breath of fresh air, and also he knows this woman is too masculine, they will never get along and ultimately he's not happy in this relationship. I can tell lol 😂
@@GrimeReaperManbro was nodding and feeling it, may Allah guide him! he was even sincere with the bible
@@GrimeReaperMan Guy knows if he said a word since he's kinda agrees with brother Muhammad's point, he's gonna has to face a futile unwinable battle of words with his gf on their way going back to home.
I'm a christian but I really admire this guy
He has great manners mashaAllah ☝️
May Allah guide you to Islam. Ameen.
im a muslim and I find him incredible Allahumabarik (may God add goodness)
Because he reminds you of prophet Eesa my brother.
So happy to find atleast a christian who is honest enough and don’t go around only hating every single person around just because he is a muslim , may god bless you 🤲🏻
I feel sorry for that man, bro run as fast as you can, she is not a keeper
🤣🤣🤣 100% true man
she said she compromised 50/50, but when it's 50/50, she run in circle to get 100/0
he's got a taste for vanilla ice cream lol...
As a husband, you take your wife’s inputs/suggestions into consideration, but still the man makes the final decision. Also, agreeing to your wife doesn’t make you equal, you’re just acknowledging the suggestion from your wife to be the best solution to the problem. Everything that happens in the family is because the man allows it. But that doesn’t mean the wife won’t have any input in any matter of problem. You can still talk things out, and try to solve a problem together, but a muslim family must acknowledge that the final decision is made by the husband.
yup...just like a General in the Army can take everyone's suggestion...and agree with someone's suggestion...doesn't mean he isn't the final decision maker.
Yes I agree with this, and the family will run smoothly this way. Esp if husband and wife put Allah(SWT) first. May Allah(SWT) make it easy on us
yes. And men are not better than women and women are not better than men but they are not equal. Different genders, different roles.
@arisamone @@naylisyazwina6836 agreed with you both. i’m not sure what was so hard for her to understand about this concept
I remember, during the treaty of Hudaybiyyah, the Prophet took advice from his wife Sayyidah Salmah
The problem I've seen with the lady is that she's not listening. As brother Muhammad is answering her, she's busy thinking out the next thing she should say instead of listening first
M.A video is mainly for the viewers who wanna learn about Islam, not specifically for the guests in his video. The message is sent out.
"I'm open minded" but I will never see it any other way.
nice quote, I'll print it on my t-shirt
Fact!
She’s looking for something that fits with her demands!!!!
Notice how she always wanted to disagree
if you do not instill values in your child, the society will, someone else will.
~Muhammad ali
He asked her "if there is a conflict, who would make the decision"
Her : " we will find a compromise"
Him : "are you going to compromise?"
Her : "No"
This is why I've seen many non Muslim western man agreeing on Islam on women 😂
you see it's not always about compromise. It's about negotiation, ok you want to do this but I don't want that at all, you want 10, I want 20, lets agree on 15. That's how it should be on the decisions. Yes, the man is the ultimate decision maker for the family, meaning the ultimate decision making power resides with him while making a MAJOR decision for the family, but when it's about minor decisions, when they're not do or die, it's better to negotiate and reach a common conclusion together.
@@biyashahzadi1727 you can't always compromise in some scenarios. If someone wants to move to th US and another one wants to stay in Europe, you can't compromise and say well let's just go to an Asian country then...It's either go to the US or stay. One person will compromise and the other will have it their way. Some decision are black or white. There's no grey area. There has to be a leader. The one putting their life on the line for the other has more authority.
fact she found him disrespectful rather than accept the truth says a lot
She gave me headache ya Allah protect us Ameen ❤
I was thinking the same thing. May الله guide them.
This shows how much Mohammad Ali is patient. May Allah reward him
may allah reward muhammad for this patience and grant him janat-al firdaws and may allah grant you all wives the exact opposite of what was shown in the video ❤
and may allah make you all the spouses that your spouse deserves and make you all pleasing to allah’s eyes
@@ibrahim_-_-_ Ameen
@@johnadams7480 Ameen
It’s hard to watch someone hear something so logical and almost agree with it just to come up with another question/excuse to try to get around it😭
The man was like "Yeah that makes sense" then she starts arguing with him hahaha
@@sugoi9680 fr😂
If you're not married yet, it's best to leave her.
She'll give you a lot of headaches later.
It's very difficult to lead a stubborn woman with a bigger ego than a man.
You don't want to have these types of problems when you have kids later.
Agree
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True
1 million %
Wait until danger comes and feminism will be out of the window.
Feminism is already nonexistent in Ukraine and gaza
😂😂😂
When in dating and a guy ask half the bill, then feminisim disappear and said this guy is too cheap :D
@@tin_k_ootoo cheap or too expensive?😂
I remember that meme when war in ukraine are started
I used to be a feminist. I was born muslim and live in a majority muslim country, but I was not born into a religious family.
For years of marriage, I didn't feel sakinah. As I learn more about deen and start to practice it, I now realize that my household is more peaceful if I can position myself as a muslimah. I try to obey my husband and educate my children according to Islamic teachings, and that makes me find happiness.
May Allah bless you, sister.
Mashallah, may Allah bless you both and keep you together in this life and afterlife
MaShaAllah
Wallah this is the way :) When we pick the best spouses for ourselves, we find peace when we trust and confide in them. We choose to marry them, so they are worthy of being obeyed for the sake of Allah.
May Allah SWT bless you sister
That brother's eyes just got opened wide. They're definitely breaking up when they get home. May Allah guide the brother to Islam and may Allah bless you for your work.
Black brother stood there just thinking "damn he spitting facts"
Eh
The feminist got offended when she realized she doesn't have any rational arguments. BTW, what Brother Muhammad said about women losing attraction to men when they dont provide is a very real thing and very common. I have seen this happening in multiple marriages. Basically its comes to down to respect, most women will loose respect for the man who doesn't provide. Then they go why should i obey my husband, because she is the provider now she deserves authority. And once she also becomes the decision maker, she lose more respect for her husband. This breeds distrust and is a cancer for healthy relationship.
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FACTS.
the children will have that view.then society become crumble ...
I thank Allah that men are in charge of making important decisions. I feel more at peace when I give up those responsibilities. Alhamdulillah
Me too sister. 🙌🏼
Same, esp when you trust that man because he puts Allah(SWT) first😊
I feel safe this way only
Exactly.. Less things to think about. I would rather be thinking about what to cook (sometimes I didn't even make that decision cos I'm that lazy, just asked husband what he want to eat), or what color of my dress today would be. Life is easier and less responsibility to take.. 😅😅😅
Same here sister...😄😄
That poor man looks like he’s in a prison…he looks scared to answer even…leave this woman ASAP
They want equal rights, until it comes to protection.
And finances
God gave men muscles not women.
@@MH-bf4uu that's why they are not equal
Or providing 😂
Equality is flawed. Why would anyone treat dissimilar things as if they were the same?
@@Adam-fc2lf Right
@@Adam-fc2lf But I believe that a person must be judged on the basis of character, education and financial status and not on the basis of gender
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xd What's the context?
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xd Judging a person based on financial status and education is extremely superficial.
@@Umar-qy3bdWhy do you say so?
Her world view is quite different. She's not understanding the islamic perspective and is rather saying things just to prove herself right. May Allah guide people like this.
I say that she doesn't understand general perspective either. She keep going back to her experience and asking about exceptional circumstances
It’s not the Islamic perspective she doesn’t understand, it’s reality.
She forgot where marriage comes from? It’s religion. She is idealistic and sides with feminism if she follow her own book she see how harsh women have in bible. Woman has to submit to a man in everything that also includes if he is a criminal.
1) Jesus (AS) did not die, your New Testament Bible has its earliest records in 400 AD
They are the same
Person, he did not die
2) Muslim means to submit to God almighty, if you submit to God almighty then you are a Muslim
3) Angel Gabriel is the angel of the highest rank, Jibreel means Gabriel
4) The Quran challenges all of humanity to produce a single Surah like that of the Quran
And we have prophecies, hence why we call Muhammad (PBUH) a prophet
If the Quran was not true, why don’t people who oppose it attempt to produce a Surah like it?
After all if it was possible you would not have to resort to other arguments, people would constantly be claiming that they had and we’d hear their names
I’m going to mention to you three prophecies
1) Arabia REVERTING to a land of gardens and meadows
More like 2 in one
Recently, heavy rainfall has caused parts of Arabia to turn green, in regions which previously haven’t been lush with vegetation, something which has not happened in recorded human history
Second, roughly 10,000 years ago Arabia was home to hippopotamuses and rivers, there is archaeological evidence for this
You can search it up
2) Byzantines prophecy
Within 3 to 9 years the Byzantines will return from near extinction
To put into perspective, everybody at the time thought the Byzantines were going to fall and collapse
However, this is a very high risk prophecy
And low and behold, it occurred
3) The Bedoans prophecy
One of the signs of the day of judgement is that barefoot destitute shepherds will compete in the construction of tall buildings within one generation
With these individuals being the bedoans
The gulf countries with these bedoan populations went from being shepherds to constructing skyscrapers in one generation
Look at a map of before and after
You can search up all these prophecies
Have a good day
Poor guy doesn’t realize she’s in a terrible state of mind for marriage
Islam is the only faith that can give you peace of mind, body and soul. Islam is intellectually satisfying, spiritually fulfilling and practically applicable.
No
I studied Islam for 2 years and I did not like it
I realised thar this religion called Islam is not suitable for me
There were Muslims who tried to convert me but thank God that I was able to see through their deception.
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xd I don’t like that sky is blue. It doesn’t mean that it’s not blue. Islam is truth whether you like it or not.
Brothers and sisters the Muslim Lantern dropped another dawah video.❤ lets gooo🎉
Letss goo
Feminism has really and truly done a number on these women.. they don't believe their own eyes.. or their own innate feelings
..and then at 40 they complain and cry "oh all the good men are gone"...
To get a good man, u 1st have to be a good woman
She says she "would" I guarantee you she has never been 50 50 in any relationship before.
Purely theoretical
Words are just words until it really happens to the women, they want out of the relationship
This woman just didn’t want to accept anything he had to say and her man was in total agreement with Muhammad.
That man probably benifitted a lot more than that woman
@@dose143 I agree and I think he will go home and look into it
I liked how she refuted her own argument when she mentioned the menstrual cycle (period) and proved that women and men are different psychologically and physically, so they must have different roles as Allah commanded us. This does not mean that men are better. On the contrary, the man is the head of the family, the woman is his right hand, and the two are complementary. To make the relationship successful, as simple as that
I see The Muslim Lantern video i click
Very simple
Every little business, shop and store has a person in charge, called the manager, but not the family. The family is left in a dilemma where two people are in charge. Confusion indeed.
That man who is with her, he better run for his life, and find someone else. Otherwise, she will make his life miserable.
When a muslim can't marry a non believer it doesn't matter what she said
yeah like who started the topic bruh
The only interfaith marriage that is permissible (not promoted or obligatory) is a Muslim man and a Abrahamic Woman (Jewish or Christian) due to similarity in morality.
However, given the rise of westernised immorality in Jewish and Christian communities in western countries, I believe the rule is not applicable
yh only people of the book. And they believe in that the men is the decision maker
She is forgetting that the real follower of Jesus follows Islam by
1) staying away from Haram( not drinking/ eating pork/ intercourse)
2) Fasts
3) Gives charity for the sake of God.
4) Believes in all the prophets before Jesus....etc etc.
"Bu Bu but... Muh feminism"
Patience is the most valuable attribute of Islam.
Talking to a feminist is like talking to a wall with a mouth. May Allah bless you for your patience and bless us all with this kind of patience because by Allah I don’t have that much sabr.
When she grows older she will realize just how wrong her ways are and by then too late. Most marriages with such a women will end in divorce. And funny enough that exactly how my non Muslim neighbors end up and the kids are crack pots.
Edit *much love out there for the Muslim sisters whom hold stead fast to the deen without comprising, may Allah reward and grant you Barakah and abundance is good and wealth.
that why they become so jealous on Muslim Household on how happiest they are and try to bring their agenda on Muslim women.🤣when open their bible is like kryptonite for them
horrible to listen to, it was becoming unbearable. Feminism comes from women's arrogance, and arrogance is denying the truth and despising people. Debating for the sake of debating, falsely answering questions to win the debate is just pure arrogance, it was really annoying.
Well said 😊
@@MouhamadiIbrahim The idea of gender roles sucks
@@SammyaChandraMisra-ni7xdare you serious? So if a thief brakes in the house, who’s going down stairs to fight?
@@Jesus_isA_man_AllahisGod You have thrown a tricky question but I will try to give a simple answer
@@Jesus_isA_man_AllahisGod I think that in such a scenario both husband and wife should go down. It is true that men usually have more physical strength but still the wife can help the husband and both of them should try to avoid direct confrontation with the thief bcz doing so can be dangerous.
This woman would be insufferable and she would fight just to make a stand. No man should compromise by staying with her.
جزآك الله خيرا
She's saying a man cannot eat raw ingredients. Like Muhammad said as a joke there's Uber Eats, implying if you have money you can buy food already prepared or even cook it yourself. He does not need to eat raw ingredients meanwhile what's she gonna cook, dust off the floor? If a husband is married to an argumentative wife that wants to be in charge but provides nothing in the relationship, does not do housework and is not even a muslim woman, he can simply divorce her, save 50% of income, eat at the finest restaurants and still have money left.
She needs to understand we do as الله commands us. ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ we have guidance for every aspect of our lives. It's not about competing or superiority.
And get a gf or 304s. Much more economically and sexually viable from a secular, liberal POV
A sister I know of married a christian who then converted to islam, after they had 2 sons the husband reverted back to christianity and brought the sister and their children to christianity.. this is why muslimah need to be careful
TF!?
This lady has similar view/vibes to the Buddhist woman Ali talked to in a previous video. Both cases male partners just kept quiet yet the women will say they make choices together. May Allah guide them and protect us.
those men are just dayouth
@@sole008 they don’t know how to do their role. Their society is built like this
@@Symantec-u1g
Yep, it's intentional. The powers that be emasculate the men so they won't fight back against tyranny.
What is the other video with the Buddhist couple called? I wanna look it up and see for myself jzkAllahu khairun!
@maazabbasi9174 its "English Lady Questions Muslim On Women's Rights"
I'm obsessed in watching Muhammad Ali's dawah videos they just have a certain feeling when you do...May Allah SWT accept it from him and all of us Ameeen 🤲
Fr,hes very calm and to the point
because he Focus on Discussion and Not Shouting Match while other Dawah people it Up against Shouting Match which it kinda tiresome to watch for long time
@@noticing33 Exactly 💯
@@irpanfauzi1160 And them loud voices I just cannot hear that when I should be listening a good dialogue btn mature people
@@jessesbella because they are arguing with disbelievers that are insulting our religion, if you can't handle the heat then stay out of the kitchen simple as that.
I feel bad for whomever is married to this woman! 🤣🤣🤣
Idk about "Married"
Shes pump and dump and i think the guy knows too
Sad fact: women with this mentality all over the current world sum up to more than 95%. That's women on your left and right.
we’re allowed to feel a certain way about someone but we don’t need to express it outwardly. I don’t agree with this woman & I am Muslim myself. Allah may not be happy with her but I’m sure he isn’t happy with your comment either. Just something to think about.
Remember that the angels pray for you whatever you pray for others.
Inconsistent, insincere and intolerable. I would hate to have to spend even a day with that woman.
Like everything would gonna be a problem
we’re allowed to feel a certain way about someone but we don’t need to express it outwardly. I don’t agree with this woman & I am Muslim myself. Allah may not be happy with her but I’m sure he isn’t happy with your comment either. Just something to think about.
Remember that the angels pray for you whatever you pray for others.
Islam tells you to be a man. Besides my father, no one else has ever said this to me. Alhamdulillah
No way I found you here❤❤
MA patience is on next level. She was being so rude as the conversation was going on .
Let’s make sincere dua for this brother to be guided!
I salute your patience brother
May Allah guide us all and keep us firm upon the truth
She's a tough one to deal with. I won't be surprised if this guy puts on his backpack and makes a trip to find a more sane female to be with. Muhammed's patience was once again tested to new heights.
His explanation is so clear omg... I do have some thoughts like her in the past and this answer me a lot.. truly..
تبارك الرحمان في مدة التي أشاهد فيها الفيديو المشاهدات ترتفع اللهم أرنا الحق حقا وارزقنا اتباعه وأرنا الباطل باطلا وارزقنا اجتنابه🤲🏻🌸
Alhamdullilah for Islam! There's no confusion if one truly follows the teachings of Islam. My husband is the head, provider, and director of our family. He does not take a penny from my salary; whatever I make is a hundred percent mine.
I think it’s important to highlight that women and men can share opinions, collaborate and influence each other in the decision-making process. But the man will have final decision making authority if there’s a disagreement and the man will be held more accountable for the decision.
Even between two people (romantic or not) there should be one who is the leader with the authority, responsibility and accountability for decisions.
Islam does not say the man should be a dictator and should not consult with his wife or others.
In most of the conversations regarding this issue of ‘authority’, the emphasis of collaboration and seeking advice from others gets lost.
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i‘m a muslim woman and have muslim parents where my mom is the leader. To he honest.. it causes much trouble and fights..
My mom cant control herself when she gets emotional, so it always ends up with a big mess.
If my Dad would control all the things, and tell my mom to just lay back and chill, it would be a million time better.
I found a husband who is happy to take the leadership and m happy to have a husband where i can just be a girl and not think abt anything😭🙏🏻❣️
Literally i‘m okay with everything he says because we have the same interests and same world view (both muslim) so we always get along with eachother❤❤❤
That’s amazing sister may Allah bless you and your family!
Sir Muhammed Ali is very patient... I salute him...
Cuz I know I cannot be that patient... I had walk away in the minute 8 since this debate going...
brother Muhammed i love you for the sake of Allah ❤️
I'm so amazed everytime i listen to akhi Muhammad i'm like a child
This is like free marriage counseling given to random feminists on the streets. 😂😂 Barak Allahu feek akhi
I would've just lost my temper 5 minutes into the discussion. Brother is a better man than me 😂
women don’t have to be like men to be strong, we have to be like glue; holding our families together no matter the circumstances 💞
SUCH PATIENCE AND SUCH EXPERTISE IN DEBATING
Allahomma barek lak wa 3amalak
huh? is this a Debate? i think more of Discussion Really
bro your patience is on another level
Sometimes I just listen and get amazed by how our brother Muhammad delivers the facts to people. You’ll have no choice other than to get speechless. May Allah keep our brother safe, increase his knowledge, solve his problems and put him in the highest ranks in Jannah.
ALLAHU AKBAR!
May Allah bless muhhamed Ali ❤
بارك الله فيكم...
اللهم اغفر لوالدينا و ارحمهما و اجمعنا معهما في الفردوس الأعلى مع الأنبياء و الشهداء و الصالحين و جميع موتى المسلمين..
اللهم احقن دماء المسلمين و انصرهم على من عاداهم..
رب إني مسني الضر و أنت أرحم الراحمين...
لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين.....
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This woman, clearly, isn't there to learn, she keeps parroting the same things after it being explained to her. She is so dense, it's unbelievable, that I have to think she's being willfully ignorant.
@allbboss I had to fast forward through most of the video, her lack of ability to think critically, was hurting my head.
if i were you, i will close the booth an going back to home and sleep. Im so grateful, my wife still trust me to make decission even im broke Alhamdulillah
These woman lives in her sweet bubble of thought. But in reality no woman would like to 50/50 pay their foods/home/electricity.
She herself doesn’t pay anything. Her husband pays 100% and she loves the arrangement, she pays nothing, does nothing, but also has the last say in all decisions
That guy with her is crying for help LOL
I can’t finish this, she isn’t listening to what he’s saying. She’s too busy trying to prove him wrong. She didn’t come with an open mind, she came to say what she thinks is correct and he’s wrong.
May Allah bless you brother Muhammad Ali
Feminist always making their own personal experiences as its the general people’s view, and they didn’t even know what they’re believed in
Alhamdulillah for Islam
If she wanted to go she could of walked down the street to get some ice cream or something and let brother muhammed speak to the guy who was actually listening to what muhammed was saying
With great power comes great responsibility.
Converse is also true.
very beautiful talk from you brother Muhammed
Just because a woman is looking after my childeren, it’s no less important than me providing and making decisions.
And just because you are providing it’s no less important than she looking for both your children
The man seems more understanding than and more closer to our Islamic beliefs.
She's stuck in her feelings
Habibi, new Muslim Lantern video just dropped!
she got her degree from the university of tiktok.
Every word that comes out of Muhammed Ali's mouth makes me happy.
May Allah reward you for all your efforts, whether it's because you studied and gained knowledge or because you spread the knowledge or whatever. As some muslims say, "I love you for the sake of Allah".
Allahuakbar.
The problem in this discussion is that she equates decision making and protector as a role of greater importance than the role of a wife. Islam does not distinguish between roles in such a way. That kind of mindset his how you get the idea of superiority of status and value. We say men and women have their roles and they are equal in value. Islam only recognises superiority in the sight of Allah based on piety.
Exactly just like how some feminists fight for the role of imam because they think it’s a more important role when it’s not really. The whole congregation is still rewarded, you don’t have to be imam.
Allahs guidance is the best. Alhamdulilah Allah already decided all these things for us or we’d would’ve all argued endlessly for eternity or foolishness