The wife is a monster. She also has a lot to learn about genetics. I had blonde hair and blue eyes as a baby. As i grew up my hair became dark brown and my eyes turned green. Her actions were horrible and they had horrible consequences. Didn't even bother listening to the second half of the story. The fact she wouldn't tell the husband (for whom she allegedly gave away her child) who she had the affair with is monstrous, second only to her cheating and her paternity fraud. If she actually cared about her husband she would have been honest. Instead she lied, about many things. Edit: robbing a man of his child, whether it was his or not is unforgivable. It could have been his child. Also because she was married when she gave birth the husband would have legally been assumed to be the father. So there's no way she could have given the child up for adoption without his consent. The military is very strict about such matters.
It’s wild she was willing to give up her child to choose her husband. But she wasn’t willing to choose her husband over a weekend hookup. She could’ve just kept her baby and moved on. Priorities are all wrong.
@@MSTRKRFTrollor she initially lied so as not to add another hurdle to potentially reuniting with her husband, then felt too ashamed/emotionally shattered to face the stress of the revelation
At 20 minute mark I hear Garbage about women being prayed upon, I call B.S. his wife was more than willing, she proved that by lying for YEARS. Lydia got what she didn't deserve, Sarah definitely got what she did deserve.
It is possible for a couple who have brown eyes to have a blue-eyed child. Blue eyes are a recessive gene, which means that you need 2 to actually have blue eyes. if both parents have one blue-eye gene and one brown-eye gene, they will both have brown eyes, but each child of theirs will have 25% chance of having blue eyes. On the other hand, if 2 blue-eyed parents have a a brown-eyed child, you might start to ask questions... Oh, and I am surprised that they could tell the permanent eye colour of a new-born. All the really young babies that I have seen have had slate-coloured eyes. The proper eye-colour shows some weeks later (might be about 3 months, I have forgotten, I am afraid).
That military exercise in Europe was called Reforger. It's an acronym. I participated in a few of them. And served at Ft Hood as well for awhile. Maybe I knew of or met this guy.
No the lowest form of life is the spouse who cheats. Direct your anger at the person who made promises to you. There's nothing worse than that nonsense about military spouses somehow being preyed upon. They make choices like everyone else
Poor guy had to go thru allot as Sarah HOPEfully was a good person that valued her adoptive parents as if they were her actual ones as our neighbor growing up had 3 kids all of which were adopted and not all took it as well. The daughter is still super close to her Adoption Mom and does have some contact with her birth mother but not nearly as close. One boy moved far away after reaching adulthood and while cordial never kept close contact. The tragic one was the son who followed his biological fathers path becoming a drug addict and criminal and died in prison at a young age as he had a very rocky history with his adoptive parents and was crushed learning his real ones were not good people and it was that revelation that i believe led to his downfall. It clearly made me realize that finding your birth parents wasn't always a good idea. Even though i know my father as a successful intelligent person inside he isn't and while it saddens me not to have a father in my life I am happy i have had some good role models like Uncles and Grandfather who was more of a Father then my actual one ever was. So while knowing your biological parents can be a double edged Sword; the most important is the people you Choose to be in your life for they choose to Love you for who you are not just your DNA
I have to admit this is a better story then most. While I understand that MC wanted to get revenge on the AP, I think including photos of Sarah / Hope was a bit much. I would not want to pull the child / adoptive family into the situation just to get even.
I live near Fort Hood, I've lived here 30+ years, I've been to the only Home Depot in the area this guy would have gone to. They sure as shit have never had coffee available for anyone, let alone contractors.
I’m a definitely someone op knows and he’s probably best the dude up more than likely that’s why she wouldn’t tell him who it was. Some dastardly work right there.
I never thought I would ever hear about a SAM person. I have been called a liar, or I'm in someone else's head or lots of other accusations. I have a similar eidetic memory. Thank you.
As one of the characters said "the odds were astronomical" and I agree. Too much coincidence. And why would Fred be so interested in a baby that wasn't his at all? Didn't make sense.
You're obviously not a father. He spent 9 months waiting for his child to be born then , in the midst of extreme trauma, lost her. Then years later he finds out she didn't die. As a decent man, of course he was interested.
@@mpmansell Again, it wasn't his child at all. I was a father. I raised a daughter that recently earned her Doctorate @ UofIllini. I also raised what I thought was my son but found out 30 years later that I was a cuckold and wants nothing to do with me. Only his biological father. So don't admonish about my attitude of not being the father.
How dumb are you to think I am not aware it wasn't his child? It is that ridiculous attitude I was admonishing you over and your utterly insensitive lack of understanding of the emotions behind losing a child; in this case basically twice.
@@mpmansell I mean the cheater knowing the other guy was married. That way he didn't just burn an innocent man who thought he got free box and didn't have a child.
Cheating spouse complains to betrayed ex for keeping her affair child that she gave away identity ? Even after she continued to give the AP’s name. Smh
Continued to refuse to give the AP’s name? But have the audacity to complain to the betrayed ex for taking long to give her the daughter’s identity. Smh
U know what? Do good. His ex. Moment she finds out about his life and that he found out about who the dad is. Then kid wanting know who her bio parent our wrll her mother is that's okay but no. Private Adoption is private. U can't force that info. Otherwise that theirs no point in private Adoptions. Simple
Good story. The betrayed moved on and with no more hatred he gave his ex wife what she's wanted since the baby was born. For sure she deserved to be divorced but, I can see myself granting her that wish. She didn't choose her husband over the baby. She choose Not Getting Divorced over being a single Mom because she knew what Weber truly was. Her AP, well Karma a bitch and twice worse for cowards.
Husband Got Nuclear Revenge.... Uh? how where where nuke revenge at? He divorced her moved on and so did she. No great revenge just a string of running around to find the name of ex's baby and baby daddy. That he did Nothing with where his Ex was concerned till his Ex's kid accidentally became his niece and he did the stand up thing and reunited his Ex with the daughter she gave up for adoption. The baby daddy is the only one who saw any revenge from the MC and that was standard revenge at best.
Not likely. Hubby was military on a major base. The baby was born in an army medical center. While could have perhaps claimed father unknown there would have been insurance/payment issues. She was a dependent with medical coverage under him.
21:56 I get it. People like that are disgusting, but she and people like her are not victims. They can't prey upon these people unless they want to be preyed upon. Otherwise, it's a CRIME.
@mpmansell Read the first part. He's definitely a perpetrator, but she is no victim. She is an adult, and if memory serves, they're supposed to mature faster than we do. Okay, then understand you made your choices just as he made his. He can want whatever he wants until the moment he hits the tombstone, unless these women let him in, it is a crime to force it. Me throwing out the "oh, you're upset, distraught, vulnerable, and lonely, well if you were with me instead of him..." talk is just game. An extremely disgusting and deplorable game, but game nonetheless. Now, where is the blame shifting?
A good read The cheated husband turned to be the hero!
The one who gets cheated on is always the good guy or girl!😊
The wife is a monster. She also has a lot to learn about genetics. I had blonde hair and blue eyes as a baby. As i grew up my hair became dark brown and my eyes turned green.
Her actions were horrible and they had horrible consequences. Didn't even bother listening to the second half of the story. The fact she wouldn't tell the husband (for whom she allegedly gave away her child) who she had the affair with is monstrous, second only to her cheating and her paternity fraud.
If she actually cared about her husband she would have been honest. Instead she lied, about many things.
Edit: robbing a man of his child, whether it was his or not is unforgivable. It could have been his child.
Also because she was married when she gave birth the husband would have legally been assumed to be the father. So there's no way she could have given the child up for adoption without his consent. The military is very strict about such matters.
It’s wild she was willing to give up her child to choose her husband. But she wasn’t willing to choose her husband over a weekend hookup. She could’ve just kept her baby and moved on. Priorities are all wrong.
Chesater's priorities are always wrong. That's why they cheat
and after all the years, she still loved the cheater more thna her husband, that's why she didn't tell him who she cheated with.
She didnt choose husband. She chose reputation and not getting caught.. Thats why she lied to the grandparents even after caught.
@@thecursed01or loved her husband enough not to let him throw away his career if he sought revenge.
@@MSTRKRFTrollor she initially lied so as not to add another hurdle to potentially reuniting with her husband, then felt too ashamed/emotionally shattered to face the stress of the revelation
At 20 minute mark I hear Garbage about women being prayed upon, I call B.S. his wife was more than willing, she proved that by lying for YEARS. Lydia got what she didn't deserve, Sarah definitely got what she did deserve.
This is a hard lifting story I love how we took a negative and turned it into a positive brilliant
It is possible for a couple who have brown eyes to have a blue-eyed child. Blue eyes are a recessive gene, which means that you need 2 to actually have blue eyes. if both parents have one blue-eye gene and one brown-eye gene, they will both have brown eyes, but each child of theirs will have 25% chance of having blue eyes. On the other hand, if 2 blue-eyed parents have a a brown-eyed child, you might start to ask questions...
Oh, and I am surprised that they could tell the permanent eye colour of a new-born. All the really young babies that I have seen have had slate-coloured eyes. The proper eye-colour shows some weeks later (might be about 3 months, I have forgotten, I am afraid).
Aunt lucy is the MVP of this story. You could say i love lucy eh ha ha ha
Oh Ricky !!!!😂
Cute ☺️
That military exercise in Europe was called Reforger. It's an acronym. I participated in a few of them. And served at Ft Hood as well for awhile. Maybe I knew of or met this guy.
No the lowest form of life is the spouse who cheats. Direct your anger at the person who made promises to you. There's nothing worse than that nonsense about military spouses somehow being preyed upon. They make choices like everyone else
As do the predators who prey on them. The cheating spouse is the worst, but a guy who deliberately targets women like that is not much better.
This was a good story, but the sudden ending surprised me.
Poor guy had to go thru allot as Sarah HOPEfully was a good person that valued her adoptive parents as if they were her actual ones as our neighbor growing up had 3 kids all of which were adopted and not all took it as well. The daughter is still super close to her Adoption Mom and does have some contact with her birth mother but not nearly as close. One boy moved far away after reaching adulthood and while cordial never kept close contact. The tragic one was the son who followed his biological fathers path becoming a drug addict and criminal and died in prison at a young age as he had a very rocky history with his adoptive parents and was crushed learning his real ones were not good people and it was that revelation that i believe led to his downfall. It clearly made me realize that finding your birth parents wasn't always a good idea. Even though i know my father as a successful intelligent person inside he isn't and while it saddens me not to have a father in my life I am happy i have had some good role models like Uncles and Grandfather who was more of a Father then my actual one ever was. So while knowing your biological parents can be a double edged Sword; the most important is the people you Choose to be in your life for they choose to Love you for who you are not just your DNA
Wow, the odds,but absolutely one of the best stories
I have to tap out after 10 minutes. Story has strained belief past breaking. Good luck to those who remain!
do i know him "i won't tell" so it is someone he knows.
I think she thought he might know him since they did it in her husband's "back yard" at Fort Hood.
That was a good one, liked the Twist an the Happy Ending.
Lovely ending
Why would he want to help his cheating ex-wife? For me its a no way in hell.
I have to admit this is a better story then most. While I understand that MC wanted to get revenge on the AP, I think including photos of Sarah / Hope was a bit much. I would not want to pull the child / adoptive family into the situation just to get even.
I live near Fort Hood, I've lived here 30+ years, I've been to the only Home Depot in the area this guy would have gone to. They sure as shit have never had coffee available for anyone, let alone contractors.
Lowe's has a food stall... i think they have coffee their.
Part of me wants to suspect wife for the accident but I know that would be absurd
See some times you can't get over it but at least you can get along with each other 😅
Cheaters never learn.
The wife left quite easily. She did not want the marriage.
That was a good one
good story karma works in strange ways
I’m a definitely someone op knows and he’s probably best the dude up more than likely that’s why she wouldn’t tell him who it was. Some dastardly work right there.
I never thought I would ever hear about a SAM person. I have been called a liar, or I'm in someone else's head or lots of other accusations. I have a similar eidetic memory. Thank you.
the wife reacted positivly to his advances other wifes did not
Beautiful story with lots of sad tales. But too much random contacts between characters with positive outcomes
If you use tap water they know what town you came from
What the heck to end a story like that
Story never got boring, was a great read...
As one of the characters said "the odds were astronomical" and I agree. Too much coincidence. And why would Fred be so interested in a baby that wasn't his at all? Didn't make sense.
You're obviously not a father. He spent 9 months waiting for his child to be born then , in the midst of extreme trauma, lost her. Then years later he finds out she didn't die. As a decent man, of course he was interested.
@@mpmansell Again, it wasn't his child at all. I was a father. I raised a daughter that recently earned her Doctorate @ UofIllini. I also raised what I thought was my son but found out 30 years later that I was a cuckold and wants nothing to do with me. Only his biological father. So don't admonish about my attitude of not being the father.
How dumb are you to think I am not aware it wasn't his child? It is that ridiculous attitude I was admonishing you over and your utterly insensitive lack of understanding of the emotions behind losing a child; in this case basically twice.
@@FultonHolmesDang, I want to
Hear your story! Lol
I’m adopted and I still to this day wonder about my birth parents.
Well here's hoping the other guy actually knew you were married before you destroyed his relationship.
cause he did, didn't she live in a military house and wasn't in the military
He knew he was married (else why would the exposure ruin his marriage) and she was living on base and not military. He knew
@@mpmansell I mean the cheater knowing the other guy was married. That way he didn't just burn an innocent man who thought he got free box and didn't have a child.
😐....that was an abrupt ending...
Despite everything it's good they got to reconnect, but i wouldn't of given up my child..
Doesn't make sense.
Don't they have funeral for near-term stillborn?
❤ Very good story! Loved the pacifier as a gift! Nice touch!
Cheating spouse complains to betrayed ex for keeping her affair child that she gave away identity ? Even after she continued to give the AP’s name. Smh
Continued to refuse to give the AP’s name? But have the audacity to complain to the betrayed ex for taking long to give her the daughter’s identity. Smh
U know what? Do good. His ex. Moment she finds out about his life and that he found out about who the dad is.
Then kid wanting know who her bio parent our wrll her mother is that's okay but no. Private Adoption is private. U can't force that info. Otherwise that theirs no point in private Adoptions. Simple
Good story. The betrayed moved on and with no more hatred he gave his ex wife what she's wanted since the baby was born. For sure she deserved to be divorced but, I can see myself granting her that wish.
She didn't choose her husband over the baby. She choose Not Getting Divorced over being a single Mom because she knew what Weber truly was.
Her AP, well Karma a bitch and twice worse for cowards.
3:58 not sure this is factual since neither of the golf course near Fort Lewis have a 19th hole Bar/cafe.
Fred got that sigma energy going on.
If you knew the child wasn't your child then why visit her for pictures I would have just divorced her don't get revenge just walk away
Husband Got Nuclear Revenge.... Uh? how where where nuke revenge at? He divorced her moved on and so did she. No great revenge just a string of running around to find the name of ex's baby and baby daddy. That he did Nothing with where his Ex was concerned till his Ex's kid accidentally became his niece and he did the stand up thing and reunited his Ex with the daughter she gave up for adoption. The baby daddy is the only one who saw any revenge from the MC and that was standard revenge at best.
Not likely. Hubby was military on a major base. The baby was born in an army medical center. While could have perhaps claimed father unknown there would have been insurance/payment issues. She was a dependent with medical coverage under him.
I know of several cases where a non military hospital was used and also know of dependents with personal medical insurance
Bullshit!! They don't address him as Major Sadler.
why the poofsters reading the story?
21:56 I get it. People like that are disgusting, but she and people like her are not victims. They can't prey upon these people unless they want to be preyed upon. Otherwise, it's a CRIME.
Wrong. You are either naive, or trying to shift blame
@mpmansell Read the first part. He's definitely a perpetrator, but she is no victim. She is an adult, and if memory serves, they're supposed to mature faster than we do. Okay, then understand you made your choices just as he made his. He can want whatever he wants until the moment he hits the tombstone, unless these women let him in, it is a crime to force it. Me throwing out the "oh, you're upset, distraught, vulnerable, and lonely, well if you were with me instead of him..." talk is just game. An extremely disgusting and deplorable game, but game nonetheless. Now, where is the blame shifting?
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