“The same wall that is blocking sin and sex is the same wall that is blocking men and love.” YES. I wish I knew you 10 years ago!!! The church ⛪️ really held me back! I just didn’t date for SO long, convinced I was doing the right thing. Finding a man was so overspiritualized. I didn’t even know how to interact with men. Learning now! Making up for a lot of lost time!! Your videos are helping. Thank you!
I recently commented on a youtube video (red pill channel) talking about divorce. I commented that i had recommended my sister to get divorced because the husband is verbally and emotionally abusive with her and the child they had together. Men came at me and told me i was a home breaker. 😳😳😳
Thank you for being so real. You speak the truth. I have been through it. I was living/married to a man for 12 years. I was young. Now after alot of shifting my perspective and intense focus on my own growth and growing closer to god and nature, I believe now that I am with the man I am meant to be with. One step at a time and only in love. Thank you for your videos ❤️
I grew up with three older brothers, and a European Father. They STRESSED to me constantly that men will promise me diamonds, gold, the sun and the moon..just to get my “cookie”. And it’s the TRUTH.
I needed to hear this today. Asking for what I want is my area of weakness. A strong single mom and career woman. A shot caller all day, but still room for growth with dating. Just getting back out there again after a long hiatus, and yes, divorce was because he cheated. I left after he thought it was business as usual. I never looked back.
"He like me... I like him, we go together"!! 😅😅 I'm a witness to that twisted mentality! I thought like that for years. I'm just understanding that its not like that! Thank you for this video Sis!
I'm based in London and watch a lot of your videos, I have to say you make a lot of sense. As per technology being here to stay and Texting being a major way of communicating with potential dates,.....I think as someone serious about their relationship future, there should be a limit to what can be discussed through text and whatsapp. At some point you'd have to make time for telephone calls, you can actually get to know someone well by talking to them on the phone. Text messages should be used for quick 2-10 minutes conversations. My point of view....
You are spot on. I decided to end my relationship with my former girl friend b'se she never wanted us to talk over the phone other than txt msgs. In my own opinion, it lack of respect. You're Spot on!
I text too but not every day all day unless I'm in high school. I can't imagine a grown man that can't hold a conversation. Yes I'm old school and that's what my target will be a old school man and that's ok. I can't gauge how you feel through texting.
I was taught if your husband cheats and you find out...you have to immediately create DISTANCE between the 2 of you. You have to make a STATEMENT because of his actions
So true about Christian women and sex. Whenever I went into a situation stating that I ended up in the bed with regret. Instead of vetting a guy properly. Most Christian ladies are passive and not assertive. I didn't start dating again until I could uphold my boundaries.
I have said these same things to my female marriage friends. ABUSE IS ABUSE!!!! When God says MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE!!! He means in every area of life even dating. The word is real as long as you apply it RIGHT 😂😂❤️❤️
These women who stay in theses horrible marriages are to blame, if the men are cheating, lying, and have all theses flaws then get a divorce!! life is to short to be with someone that's is not treating you right.
Just coming across your videos now and watching a lot of them as I write my essay haha! Random point but I love how clear your voice is and how good the sound is, hate those videos that need you to properly focus to understand what the person is saying. Will be subscribing x
I am curious, you say women shouldn’t really “shoot their shot” because we are not designed that way. You are aware that women and men have different roles and desires that they are wired to desire. Should we mutually pay for and initiate dates or have the same roles because it’s 21st Century now?it would seem as though the Bible gives roles but should it be ignored because it is 21st Century?
Im at the part in the video where you're talking about bringing up waiting to have sex. What if i wear a purity ring and he asks about it on the first date? Should i just not wear it so it doesnt raise the question right off the bat and let the question come up when it does? Or should i wear it, let him ask about it, and tell him immediately?
I’d say don’t girl. Avoid that talk early on like she said. It’s too early. Trust you can cross that bridge later. A guy who is really into you will wait for sex but he’s got to like you first lol. That takes some time. You got this girl!!
Hey Rebecca! I'm a new GG and just ordered your book on kindle but I have to have a physical book so I can take notes. I havent checked yet but is there a workbook or journal for it yet? 😉... this is a book club/study book Sister!! Love!
Oh my, this was me. Young and clueless. Hot married from a lot of twisted unrealistic teachings from a Mom that I love but who was abused sexually and physically.
She basically saying there is no perfect mate that people seem to seek out and try to look for that flawless perfect dream fairytale person, especially women they usually have a longer list of check off boxes on the their list , the man they look for usually doesn't exist, and when they do finally let their guard down , it's usually a scrub that told them everything they wanted to hear , then they become crazy acting against all men in reality they choose the wrong man and in some cases their brother or father or some other male told them to leave that particular dude alone he ain't shit
I need help. I am a preachers kid and I have been with my bf for 11 months. I love him and we match in every aspect. The only thing is that he is a non-practicing catholic. He loves God and I value his view on God and Christianity (he hasn't hindered or negatively impact my faith in God). He is also sold on coming to a protestant church with me when we are married. The problem is that my parents are against it and think I should break up with him just because he was raised in a different sect. Should I live my life for my parents or should I go against them knowing how good a person he is and how he loves God? Once he said he was catholic it was like my parents shut down and looked very disappointed. All my life I did things to please them. I feel like I'll miss out on the love of my life if I let him go.
Seek God for that answer. Let your prayer be "Lord, is this the man that you have for me? Please give me undeniable signs that I will recognize." Pray this daily and be willing to be still and wait for God's answer. I grew up Catholic on my dad's side and I can say that there are a lot of errors in their theology. It could definetly be an unequally yoked situation. Honestly its not about which sect you are in but its about whether or not you BOTH have been born again (Saved) if you need clarity on that please see Allen Parr's videos on what it means to be saved and also the Catholic faith. You have to be yoked with a man who has the same spiritual foundation as you becsuse at the end of the day, He will be the one leading you. And he will be leading you based on the foundation of his faith, not yours. Be sure that your belief system is in agreement because Catholics see things different. Pray to God, Listen to His voice, and do your research.
@L B - Women spend all of their lives around other women, and women constantly play a game of "projection". Then they attempt to bring that game into the dating world and don't realize men don't play that type of game. Lastly, women know that all they really have to offer to a man is her sexuality, so it's the only trump card in their hand. It's the only carrot to dangle over man, believing it will make them do whatever women tell them/want them to do. A game that women refuse to accept does not work.....And continues to show will not work.
$100-1$50 buck!? Only Burger Boys, Simps, Manginas, Captain Save'ems and Cucks are out here paying that much for dinner. $50 or less is all a man needs to be kicking out. Entrée needs to be less $15 or less, drinks need to be non alcoholic and comes with refills, to include tax, should never be over $45 with tip being an option that's has flexibility.
I appreciate your ministry; it’s exactly what I need in this space🙏🏾
Wow, Rebecca, you've changed so much! 😍👏🏽🔥
“The same wall that is blocking sin and sex is the same wall that is blocking men and love.” YES. I wish I knew you 10 years ago!!! The church ⛪️ really held me back! I just didn’t date for SO long, convinced I was doing the right thing. Finding a man was so overspiritualized. I didn’t even know how to interact with men. Learning now! Making up for a lot of lost time!! Your videos are helping. Thank you!
The language of men is action! Drop the 🎤! 🙏
This woman is brilliant
Wow! Great advice. Thank you!
I recently commented on a youtube video (red pill channel) talking about divorce. I commented that i had recommended my sister to get divorced because the husband is verbally and emotionally abusive with her and the child they had together. Men came at me and told me i was a home breaker. 😳😳😳
Thank you for being so real. You speak the truth. I have been through it. I was living/married to a man for 12 years. I was young. Now after alot of shifting my perspective and intense focus on my own growth and growing closer to god and nature, I believe now that I am with the man I am meant to be with. One step at a time and only in love. Thank you for your videos ❤️
I was living a fairytale too! Now I know better and dating better realistically. Thank You for Sharing
Totally enjoyed this conversation. U are so right.
I grew up with three older brothers, and a European Father. They STRESSED to me constantly that men will promise me diamonds, gold, the sun and the moon..just to get my “cookie”. And it’s the TRUTH.
47:00 Yes if you don’t feel love it’s POINTLESS!
I needed to hear this today. Asking for what I want is my area of weakness. A strong single mom and career woman. A shot caller all day, but still room for growth with dating. Just getting back out there again after a long hiatus, and yes, divorce was because he cheated. I left after he thought it was business as usual. I never looked back.
"He like me... I like him, we go together"!! 😅😅 I'm a witness to that twisted mentality! I thought like that for years. I'm just understanding that its not like that!
Thank you for this video Sis!
This was so spot on . Just discovered you recently . Appreciate you !
I'm based in London and watch a lot of your videos, I have to say you make a lot of sense. As per technology being here to stay and Texting being a major way of communicating with potential dates,.....I think as someone serious about their relationship future, there should be a limit to what can be discussed through text and whatsapp. At some point you'd have to make time for telephone calls, you can actually get to know someone well by talking to them on the phone. Text messages should be used for quick 2-10 minutes conversations. My point of view....
You are spot on. I decided to end my relationship with my former girl friend b'se she never wanted us to talk over the phone other than txt msgs. In my own opinion, it lack of respect. You're Spot on!
Agree. There were a few points in this video which I didn't agree with, but she's generally spot on.
I text too but not every day all day unless I'm in high school. I can't imagine a grown man that can't hold a conversation. Yes I'm old school and that's what my target will be a old school man and that's ok. I can't gauge how you feel through texting.
Exactly
I was dating a guy, that could not carry convo. And would often refer to himself in 3rd person 🙄.
@@nicolesmith7611 That is the worst!!!
I was taught if your husband cheats and you find out...you have to immediately create DISTANCE between the 2 of you. You have to make a STATEMENT because of his actions
So true about Christian women and sex. Whenever I went into a situation stating that I ended up in the bed with regret. Instead of vetting a guy properly. Most Christian ladies are passive and not assertive. I didn't start dating again until I could uphold my boundaries.
Thank you for the Girl Talk, very current and real.
I have said these same things to my female marriage friends. ABUSE IS ABUSE!!!! When God says MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE!!! He means in every area of life even dating. The word is real as long as you apply it RIGHT 😂😂❤️❤️
Preach
These women who stay in theses horrible marriages are to blame, if the men are cheating, lying, and have all theses flaws then get a divorce!! life is to short to be with someone that's is not treating you right.
Mrs Pope!! I am your biggest fan/follower. I do believe in the ride or die relationship where youre best friends!!!! I love all of this reality
Just coming across your videos now and watching a lot of them as I write my essay haha! Random point but I love how clear your voice is and how good the sound is, hate those videos that need you to properly focus to understand what the person is saying. Will be subscribing x
Omg! She described me to T....my eyes are now open
Always good discussions.
Great points.....
liking your name👌
Ok let’s be real though any guy that wants to take you out on a date wants to sleep with you. Period.
This is so so true about me. I don't know how to date 😐
Excellent! Video Mrs pope.
Nice discussion!!!
I am curious, you say women shouldn’t really “shoot their shot” because we are not designed that way. You are aware that women and men have different roles and desires that they are wired to desire. Should we mutually pay for and initiate dates or have the same roles because it’s 21st Century now?it would seem as though the Bible gives roles but should it be ignored because it is 21st Century?
Thank you for your words
Love that color lipstick. Looks great on you 😍
Im at the part in the video where you're talking about bringing up waiting to have sex. What if i wear a purity ring and he asks about it on the first date? Should i just not wear it so it doesnt raise the question right off the bat and let the question come up when it does? Or should i wear it, let him ask about it, and tell him immediately?
I’d say don’t girl. Avoid that talk early on like she said. It’s too early. Trust you can cross that bridge later. A guy who is really into you will wait for sex but he’s got to like you first lol. That takes some time. You got this girl!!
Is this an audio book yet? Can it go on Audible please? I prefer audio books please 🤗 thanks 😊
Mrs. Pope what do you consider cheating?
Hey Rebecca! I'm a new GG and just ordered your book on kindle but I have to have a physical book so I can take notes. I havent checked yet but is there a workbook or journal for it yet? 😉... this is a book club/study book Sister!! Love!
Oh my, this was me. Young and clueless. Hot married from a lot of twisted unrealistic teachings from a Mom that I love but who was abused sexually and physically.
Mrs. Pope loving somebody with all flaws. What type of flaws are you referring to?
She basically saying there is no perfect mate that people seem to seek out and try to look for that flawless perfect dream fairytale person, especially women they usually have a longer list of check off boxes on the their list , the man they look for usually doesn't exist, and when they do finally let their guard down , it's usually a scrub that told them everything they wanted to hear , then they become crazy acting against all men in reality they choose the wrong man and in some cases their brother or father or some other male told them to leave that particular dude alone he ain't shit
I need help. I am a preachers kid and I have been with my bf for 11 months. I love him and we match in every aspect. The only thing is that he is a non-practicing catholic. He loves God and I value his view on God and Christianity (he hasn't hindered or negatively impact my faith in God). He is also sold on coming to a protestant church with me when we are married. The problem is that my parents are against it and think I should break up with him just because he was raised in a different sect.
Should I live my life for my parents or should I go against them knowing how good a person he is and how he loves God? Once he said he was catholic it was like my parents shut down and looked very disappointed. All my life I did things to please them. I feel like I'll miss out on the love of my life if I let him go.
You obviously should stay with him!
Seek God for that answer. Let your prayer be "Lord, is this the man that you have for me? Please give me undeniable signs that I will recognize." Pray this daily and be willing to be still and wait for God's answer. I grew up Catholic on my dad's side and I can say that there are a lot of errors in their theology. It could definetly be an unequally yoked situation. Honestly its not about which sect you are in but its about whether or not you BOTH have been born again (Saved) if you need clarity on that please see Allen Parr's videos on what it means to be saved and also the Catholic faith. You have to be yoked with a man who has the same spiritual foundation as you becsuse at the end of the day, He will be the one leading you. And he will be leading you based on the foundation of his faith, not yours. Be sure that your belief system is in agreement because Catholics see things different. Pray to God, Listen to His voice, and do your research.
23:00 THAT WAS REAL!!! That is a HUGE turn off omg
@L B -
Women spend all of their lives around other women, and women constantly play a game of "projection". Then they attempt to bring that game into the dating world and don't realize men don't play that type of game.
Lastly, women know that all they really have to offer to a man is her sexuality, so it's the only trump card in their hand. It's the only carrot to dangle over man, believing it will make them do whatever women tell them/want them to do. A game that women refuse to accept does not work.....And continues to show will not work.
🙏🏽😇
$100-1$50 buck!? Only Burger Boys, Simps, Manginas, Captain Save'ems and Cucks are out here paying that much for dinner. $50 or less is all a man needs to be kicking out. Entrée needs to be less $15 or less, drinks need to be non alcoholic and comes with refills, to include tax, should never be over $45 with tip being an option that's has flexibility.