Room by Room Declutter: SO many things we FORGOT we had!

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  • I declutter on a fairly regular basis now, it's become second nature...but once in awhile we need to make a pass through the whole house. Join us today as we declutter the kitchen, bathroom, Tom's clothes & laundry room...and see the things we're decluttering that we completely forgot we had!
    Decluttering random food in the Kitchen 0:51
    Dining Room & Living Room Non-Declutter 6:31
    Bathroom Declutter 7:01
    Decluttering Tom's Clothes 10:43
    Decluttering the Laundry Room 17:13
    Organizing the Baking Drawer 22:02
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  • @TheMinimalMom
    @TheMinimalMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    THANK YOU for watching, we are so grateful for you!!! Find links for the Pumpkin Bundt Cake, Pumpkin Dump Cake & Spinach, Sausage & Tortellini soup in the description! Some of may ABSOLUTE favorite recipes (and they're all SUPER EASY-- that's my style!!!! ;) Dawn ... see the time stamps below!
    Decluttering random food in the Kitchen 0:51
    Dining Room & Living Room Non-Declutter 6:31
    Bathroom Declutter 7:01
    Decluttering Tom's Clothes 10:43
    Decluttering the Laundry Room 17:13
    Organizing the Baking Drawer 22:02

    • @anweshagoswami16
      @anweshagoswami16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁰000⁰0000)o[

    • @Elemiriel
      @Elemiriel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dawn! You can make DELICIOUS vegan Pumpkin milkshakes! Frozen bananas, pumpkin, and maple syrup or sugar with pumpkin pie spice and it is AMAZING! A good "It's September 1st but still hot as heck" recipe!

    • @Tweeza57
      @Tweeza57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thoroughly wet a garment that has shortened and hang it on the line - it can end up a little longer than it’s original length

    • @Tweeza57
      @Tweeza57 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You would faint if you saw our pantry - I do 😳 - I enjoyed watching 😃

    • @CookiesAndCosmos
      @CookiesAndCosmos 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tweeza57 😂

  • @MizQuiz1
    @MizQuiz1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Haha... my husband and I call my fantasy self “Chickpea Rachel” because I buy chickpeas and never eat them 😂😂😂

    • @patticurry565
      @patticurry565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You just need a good recipe for hummus! Chickpeas are great on a salad too.

    • @nice_flowers_are
      @nice_flowers_are 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      This is so funny! I had the same jar of chickpeas for 4 years, thinking I would eventually use them! After we moved three times, I finally thought, "What am I doing!?" And threw them out!

    • @kristina4944
      @kristina4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      That makes me quinoa Kristina. 🤣😂

    • @kelseyd4196
      @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Haha! And I'm definitely couscous Kelsey! 😂

    • @Edu_Kate
      @Edu_Kate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had stocked up on chick peas (because I DID have a good hummus recipe) and lost track of the number already in my pantry. Beans, too. Then I went on the keto lifestyle. I didn't think food shelves were taking donations earlier this year (cash, sure) so I gave a health coach friend three grocery bags worth of foods no longer in my diet. She posted photos on FB of some of the dishes she made with them and gave me credit. (I didn't know the liquid can be whipped. She made something sweet with it.)

  • @amt2804
    @amt2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My husband came in as I started to watch this, and it was an answered prayer that he watched it with me!!!! I am thrilled that he saw this!!! Perfect one for him to see!! 🙏🏻❤️Jennifer

  • @Michelle-by9fp
    @Michelle-by9fp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    "Do we not serve the Lord anymore?" 🤣

  • @jamiesmith887
    @jamiesmith887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I had kept too small clothes for YEARS in shrink bags, hoping to wear them again. 1 - It made me sooooo sad when I saw the bags and KNEW that I still couldn't wear them and then 2 - After my bariatric surgery, when I could fit into them, they were way out of style, not my style anymore, or I just wanted to celebrate by buying me something fresh and new. ITS NOT WORTH HANGING ON TO EXTRA CLOTHES FOR "JUST IN CASE."

    • @kelseyd4196
      @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right on!!! 👍 Let's keep what looks fabulous right now!!!!

    • @michelleprice5945
      @michelleprice5945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think I needed that extra boost to finally get rid of the tote that's in the basement of size 6 clothes and I'm a size 10 now.

    • @sgia2154
      @sgia2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@michelleprice5945 I'm right with you Michelle. I needed to hear this too! I was keeping so many of my size 6 clothes in a bin in my closet hoping I'd lose the weight! I'm a size 10 too and just want to embrace that and move forward!!

    • @tomjones2157
      @tomjones2157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      When I lost weight I was super glad I kept the (lesser worn favorites) of my smaller clothes. I had no money to purchase new clothes so if I hadn't kept them I would have had to wear the larger clothes with a belt and felt horrible. None were out of style as I wear the same classics all the time, not trends.

    • @jayalexander6798
      @jayalexander6798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tom Jones same goes for me. All these clothes I purchased when I had way more money, so they are all very high quality. I couldn’t afford anything like that now with family and all. And all timeless, classy things. So I guess it works only if you can easily replace your things.

  • @ahoardersheart
    @ahoardersheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I always giggle when you say you have clutter because I cannot wait to Declutter your “Amount of Clutter!!” Lol It shows that you can always declutter a little more even if you are a minimalist!! Thank you for always keeping us inspired!!!

    • @ashleyngrim
      @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My mother-in-law always says to me how can you possibly have anything else to get rid of but like Dawn said there is ALWAYS stuff coming in and as time goes by things you once decided to keep is no longer important

    • @corrineainley
      @corrineainley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Loved this video...nice to see how you maintain the stuff and get to do it together...so great.

    • @Edu_Kate
      @Edu_Kate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashleyngrim
      My 88-year-old aunt is extremely organized and has a cleaning routine that begins on New Year's Day, her garage gets a thorough scrubbing twice a year. But her basement is like a library. She has so many books. I feel for my cousins who will have to empty her house someday.

    • @ashleyngrim
      @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Katie Hillenbrand my in-laws recently rented a dumpster to go through the attic during quarantine and just from the attic we filled the entire dumpster to overfill! My in-laws have 1.5 rooms dedicated to books its going to take a good while when we have to go through that home one day

    • @lisalivingmybestlife9707
      @lisalivingmybestlife9707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When library open back up many will take them as donation to put into circulation, or if not they will be placed in a sale section and that money will go towards new books for circulation!!!

  • @PlainANDplaid
    @PlainANDplaid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "My fantasy self is a cool guy!" ... same, Tom... same.

  • @Northfield7
    @Northfield7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Ah, sweet Tom. He needs a boost! You are such a supportive wife.

    • @Nan-59
      @Nan-59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree 💯

  • @carolmiller6713
    @carolmiller6713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Dawn: This food has expired, but it's still good. The taste just starts to change.
    Tom: Yeah, it starts to taste moldy. (Dawn doesn't hear/react) 😄

    • @daughterofmyabba
      @daughterofmyabba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know! Haha I laughed at that too 🤣

    • @tahna68
      @tahna68 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @gretaeder5996
      @gretaeder5996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s me and my husband🤣 so my family is big on that they’re ‘best by’ or ‘sell by’ dates, not “they’re going to instantly turn into poison after this arbitrary date!” We use our judgement. Sniff, smell, texture, etc. Dry and canned goods always last longer. Of course perishable and fresh foods will not. We also live in a northern rural farming state where you can have blizzards the majority of the year and we stock up our pantry for emergency purposes. My husband is from a 3rd world country where their power went out daily, so they always cooked how much they needed for the day and never stored or froze leftovers or had a huge pantry stock. If something is just 2 days old, or has passed it’s best-by date he immediately wants to throw it, and I’m like “noooo! It’s still good for at least a few more months!”😂

  • @kelseyd4196
    @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Could this video BE any more motivating to get your family/significant others on board?!?! Tom, you're a simplifying champ! What a wonderful way to honor your lovely bride! 🤵❤👰

  • @barbarakandel2790
    @barbarakandel2790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Tom: "My fantasy self was a cool dude." 🤣🤣🤣 Love this video! Adaline is amazing too!

  • @valmortimer3327
    @valmortimer3327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Decluttering for me is the chance to deep clean my house. It’s also a reflective moment too.
    It’s a privilege for those of us who are able to get rid of extra items we have, as so many people don’t have that option. For me minimalism and cleanliness go hand in hand, I can’t have one without the other. It’s kinda like purging and cleansing my soul, making way for new thoughts and feelings, while appreciating the things we’ve enjoyed and are now able to give away for the benefit of others!

    • @kelseyd4196
      @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true, Val! I find that it feels really good to wipe down a counter or a shelf after you've cleared it of the clutter!! It's like the icing on the cake for you eyes! 😃

    • @Edu_Kate
      @Edu_Kate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I "decluttered" my garden today. I just bought a reciprocating saw so was able to scoot around the fence line and cut the terribly overgrown volunteer trees. I pulled out phlox and unidentified plants that migrated from my neighbor's fence garden and unearthed a few plants I hadn't seen in years! Now I have a mess on my lawn, but I will have fun raking the debris for composting and cutting the trees to manageable lengths.
      My neighbors will wonder what came over me. 😁

    • @vicky__p
      @vicky__p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're so right. What a privilege to have the problem of too much stuff! So much more relaxing to free oneself of it.

  • @cathydiamond6573
    @cathydiamond6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tom seems like a lovely person. So calm and easy going.

  • @aprilbogle8259
    @aprilbogle8259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tom’s humble honesty is so REAL and refreshing. Inspires us to face our reality and find the same joy and freedoms that come. Not being afraid to face our weaknesses that weigh us down as we live in denial... God is using you to help others like us take this wonderful yet hard step!

  • @kelseyd4196
    @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    When you click "LIKE" before you play the video... cuz you already know!!! 💗

    • @felicitashilmer1368
      @felicitashilmer1368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      LOL, me too!!

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      THANK YOU!!! We greatly appreciate it!!

    • @denisevessels9353
      @denisevessels9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely true🥰

    • @paigeprouty4145
      @paigeprouty4145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol me too!!!

    • @Texasmom
      @Texasmom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s me too. Before I even watch I know I’ll like it.

  • @brendamaldonado3390
    @brendamaldonado3390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    awww your husband is so cute, honest and real. He admits being bummed about old clothes not fitting. I think that is so refreshing!

  • @ritashustitzky2934
    @ritashustitzky2934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I like how cooperative your husband is about going through his clothes. When my husband was alive I could not get him to do that. The results were a nightmare for me after he passed. The resale shops were happy.

  • @pameehanson3866
    @pameehanson3866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Clothes was the hardest for me to downsize and let go of. It took about 3 years of slowing letting go until i have everything that fits into my closet or drawers for all seasons. I came to realize i never wear a dress, heels, or anything fancy. So i no longer own a dress, skirt, heels or dressy clothing or purses. My "dress up" would be black jeans and a nice top. My church is very relaxed and i realize rather be at church than dress for church... Thanks for sharing this inspires me to let go of more.

    • @malturner4513
      @malturner4513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have gradually given away dresses, skirts and occasion shoes too, Sometimes I see someone looking great in something like that, but I want to always be in footwear I can walk in for a distance, I have 2 dresses, one for weddings and one I have for sentimental reasons, the latter was expensive, and is small for me now, but it is a beautiful liberty tana lawn long dress from the 70s. It has been used by friends and colleagues often for parties,. I also have a real kimono with all the accessories, which I will pass on to my great niece. That has also been loaned out many times. It is great to see a video like this where things are under control

  • @zbrlvr
    @zbrlvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Laughed out loud at Tom's comment "wait, do we not serve the Lord anymore?" 😂😂😂

    • @britt5753
      @britt5753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel like I need to intervene so poor Tom doesn't wear cotton to work out anymore, because that's a human rights violation. Keep the dry fit and its ilk! Yes, it smells like death if you don't wash it properly, but here's a trick: don't wear it twice in a row, and put a scoop of Oxyclean in each workout wear cycle. Only wash it with other workout clothes, and then dry on a very light cycle. Once you get this mastered, you'll never go back. *I do ultras and marathons, go to the gym AND have hyperhidrosis, so I know of what I speak in the sweat/laundry department. You're welcome. 😆

  • @3oak6cat11
    @3oak6cat11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My home has woods in front and back of it. When I purge my pantry I leave nuts, old stale cereal etc out for the birds, squirrels etc. even the raccoons partake. I hope no one is throwing out food, the animals eat too. 😁💕

  • @nancydickerson7920
    @nancydickerson7920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Watching you two go through more organizing and decluttering lifts my spirits. My previous bad mental programming condemned me for making mistakes, for not using up, wearing out, or making do with things that didn't really suit me anymore. In times of lack, that was survival. In this time, it has overwhelmed me and led to so much guilt and self-loathing. It's ridiculous that it took me until my 60's to realize that I was a normal human, that there were lots of us, and that God wasn't going to strike me dead for "poor stewardship." And that my standards were unrealistic.

  • @jenniferjahns4006
    @jenniferjahns4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    It finally hit me in the shot of you holding the silicon baking cups, KATIE COURIC is who you remind me of!!! Been killing me for almost a year.

    • @kap319
      @kap319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She also reminds me of Emma Stone, but I can definitely see Katie Couric now that you mention her.

    • @kelseyd4196
      @kelseyd4196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're so right, Jennifer! They do have very similar eyes! Can't believe I never realized it before!

  • @danabrown2391
    @danabrown2391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Loved this one! Tom is SO adorable! I laughed when he muttered he thought you were going to hang some things in the closet!

  • @debraschroyer1878
    @debraschroyer1878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love you 2!!!! Tom did a great job with his clothes!!! Way to go Tom!!!!!!👍.

  • @micheletopolosek8408
    @micheletopolosek8408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yep! Same here! Totally #teamTom I get overwhelmed; then rage purge... never had a regretful decluttering session.

  • @cassandrathill4165
    @cassandrathill4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I did notice something Tom said about wearing cheap clothing more regularly than other items. I’ve noticed with myself that I tend to wear my really crappy clothes way more often than my nicer clothes just because I don’t want to ruin them, isn’t that crazy. I have perfectly nice lounge/casual clothes but I wear my worn out beat up clothes more frequently. Does anyone else do this?

    • @leo95630
      @leo95630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes!!

    • @NLY1WAY4U
      @NLY1WAY4U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, so true! Need to be comfy!

    • @Edu_Kate
      @Edu_Kate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course!
      I'm currently using a couple oversized, lightweight, holey nightgowns because I'm cheap.
      I'll replace them when the material gets too thin.

    • @sinkintostillness
      @sinkintostillness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      All the time! Holey, baggy pants and t shirts. I feel comfy but it's a look I wouldn't wear outside. I'm on the lookout now for comfy clothes that also look good so I don't feel like a complete scruff when I'm at home.

    • @trixie1556
      @trixie1556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES! Its mind-boggling!

  • @dlarsen325
    @dlarsen325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Would Tom consider doing a video on how to get a man to come along with a minimal journey without offending them? I'm struggling with my hubby :)

    • @allisonmiller3148
      @allisonmiller3148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Deborah L yes!!! Please do this!!

    • @slowslug3247
      @slowslug3247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We just moved to a rental to sell our house. My husband had like 10 truck loads of stuff that I begged him to get rid of for years. When he was close to the end he said he never wants to hoard again and he had a look of defeat. He said it stressed him out thinking of going through everything so that’s why he never did. We will move again in six months and I’m glad!

    • @amsteensberg1653
      @amsteensberg1653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good idea! Can we have the masculine version of this?

    • @pamclifford912
      @pamclifford912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, please. Also, I loved that Tom wanted to keep the sweater/jacket because he liked it. Yes! But the reality that it shrunk up?? Very frustrating, but sometimes a reality. Thank you for keeping it for a time though, and then ultimately realizing we will never shrink to match it. Thank you!!

    • @alexandriamihalcik9202
      @alexandriamihalcik9202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes, that would be amazing. We need Tom to talk to the husbands.

  • @lgray0234
    @lgray0234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I say this all the time but you two are too darn cute together. Tom cracks me up! We all need you Dawn in our lives to help throw our junk away. 😊

  • @tamarap387
    @tamarap387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite of your videos are the ones that include hubby! You two are fun to watch together!

  • @ashleyngrim
    @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Its funny to me that decluttering has become so addicting and my question to myself when I hold up something has changed from "Do I need/use this?" to "Can I make do without this?" I LOVE having so little to manage! I have declutteted atleast 50% of my stuff but I was kinda minimal before I became a Minimalist... now I am just way more intentional!!

    • @lizzabbott
      @lizzabbott 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooooh .... great question to ask !! Thank you ! “Can I make do without this ?” .... as opposed to .... “Do I need / use this ?” Very helpful idea !

    • @emmelia-6068
      @emmelia-6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashley I agree. Now I ask "can I make do without this?" and ALSO "If I didn't have this item, would I go to the store and buy it today?" That helped me get through (and donate) many many sentimental items. Decluttering and "minimizing" is actually really fun now. Our house just feels so much better.

  • @jamischlafer7804
    @jamischlafer7804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I don't know if this helps anyone else, but a friend of mine told me a long time ago "if someone else will use this more than i will, it's time to pass it along.". it helped immensely for those things that are still very nice, but just not loved or favored. plus i love the "giving" nature of the thought itself. it always feels good to give. love your videos!

    • @ashleyngrim
      @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So very true... if i use it only once a month or less and someone else would use it more regularly i donate it

    • @gigics1612
      @gigics1612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashley Grim But... when that “once a month” rolls around, and you need that less frequented (but still used) item, what do you do? I mean, when you need something, you need it handy! Seems to me that just because some items are not used often as others, that does not mean they are not needed.

    • @ashleyngrim
      @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gigi S. It depends on what it is but typically items I am referring to are something that I could still get the job done without it but maybe something else that I own could get it done just maybe not as quickly... like a hand mixer... yes they are convient but a utensil and some extra time will get the job done as well!

  • @ednarose86
    @ednarose86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "I just can't leave. Do you think you have too many socks?"................The number of times I've thought this about my husband is countless. LOL! He has an entire sock drawer and yet it seems like every week he says "Can you do laundry? I need socks." Insert confused face. He keeps socks that he doesn't like wearing as backups but when it's time for backups he doesn't use them. LOL

  • @patsavinda1703
    @patsavinda1703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m only at the 8 minute mark and decided if my husband and I did videos together for TH-cam I would get everything done around the house 😂🤔

  • @kbkb3358
    @kbkb3358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your comment about keeping the cheap things is so true! Just before your video I was thinking that! I just did a major purge in my kitchen and got rid of some really nice things. An example is nice casserole dishes etc- but the truth is I only use my glass baking dishes. Then I got rid of my blue willow items 😭😱because the reality is.... I really like them but I never use them.
    I have gotten rid of a lot over the years esp when we moved from the USA to Australia. But wow! I forgot that sometimes it is very hard to get rid of things that are nice and you like but you don't use. It was very difficult to drop the items off but now I am equally as thankful to have the mental space and the reality that what I have is what we like and use.
    Thank you for your videos Dawn! I honestly think your methods and thoughts far(!) surpass any other "leading minimalist". I am VERY thankful for your videos. My daughter also loves to sit with me and watch them.
    Writing all of this in a comment doesn't fully convey how thankful I am.
    Take Care,
    Katie

  • @saraperrault2119
    @saraperrault2119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just have to say one thing about your medicine cabinet: I am so impressed at how you handled it being messy. I have a (bad) habit of yelling at my family for how stuff is put back. You were just very matter of fact, instead of scolding and letting it bug you.

  • @mikecandice9543
    @mikecandice9543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the fact that you are so honest on how life really is and don't sugar coat things. Decluttering is not just a one time job cause things always creep back into the house.

    • @emmelia-6068
      @emmelia-6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! both Dawn and Dana are so transparent and lovely and real. They've been a Godsend to this house and this tired lady. :-)

  • @gabriellemartin4271
    @gabriellemartin4271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “The kids pitch stuff in there like a garbage can.” Story of my life.

  • @heathercheatham2598
    @heathercheatham2598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Such a good reminder we aren’t just done after the initial declutter!

  • @stephanie.treanor
    @stephanie.treanor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tom’s comments were cracking me up! I was feeling the overwhelm tonight with stuff, so thank you for this video!

  • @reneemertens5316
    @reneemertens5316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Tom! It's so great how you are a fun, kind and helpful husband! It is nice to see you tag team with your wife. You BOTH keep motivating me.~R

  • @designdoctor247
    @designdoctor247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your laughter helps stressful give aways go soooo much easier. 😃

  • @emilasmith4279
    @emilasmith4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just went on a rage in my kitchen last two days and finished tonight. I have one tiny skinny cabinet with 3 shelves for food and 2 shelves in a small upper cabinet above the counters. AND I have all this extra food for covid sitting everwhere. I kept thinking where can I store this stuff. So I rage cleaned a sm microwave cabinet that I inherited from my mom’s house with a bunch of her stuff still in there untouched. (Like all her dish towels and potholders, her silverware and gadget drawer stuff and a bunch of who knows what.) Haven’t touched any if it in two years since her passing. Out it all came, cleaned, and new shelf liner. ALL of the food is now in a new home complete with inventory list on inside of door. I have a completely clear countertop now. I smiled when I finished it earlier and thought Dawn would be so proud! Plus look at those bags of stuff to donate! 🌸🌸🌸. Hugs from Ohio!

  • @Knitterbug
    @Knitterbug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You guys seriously just make me so happy! I’ve been on this journey for about 7 months and my clothing has gotten to the point that we are getting rid of TWO dressers and putting folded items in our nightstands and we fill up only about a quarter of our walk-in closet now! We have been moving furniture into our garage as we realize that we just don’t need/use it anymore. We are military, so I am super curious how much easier our next move will be since we have gotten rid of over half of our belongings! Keep that motivation coming.

    • @cherylwilsenach3082
      @cherylwilsenach3082 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you for serving your country and being prepared to be moved around. Cheryl. (London, England.)

  • @kathryndipietro8974
    @kathryndipietro8974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tom is such a sweetheart. When they're going through his clothing and he says, "some things just make me sad", I get teary-eyed no matter how many times I watch this video 😥 It's okay, Tom! You deserve to feel good about yourself, so it's okay to get rid of that old clothing! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @lindsey361
    @lindsey361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the way you're husband is on board. Bless you all xx

  • @carolyneastman6095
    @carolyneastman6095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “Comes puking out”....LOL!

  • @leilasmama01
    @leilasmama01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You two are the cutest couple! Hope I can find a “Tom” someday ! ☺️

  • @suzum5689
    @suzum5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man! That was satisfying watching your hubby getting rid of soooo much clothing!

  • @GilliMarieMoody
    @GilliMarieMoody ปีที่แล้ว

    Tom’s “I just can’t do it Dawn!” Lol. Love it. “My fantasy self is a cool😎dude!” Be honest; be yourself. Cheers.

  • @dulceliizbeth
    @dulceliizbeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When Tom held up the sweater he liked but was too short, he looked like a bigo kiddo. I laughed so hard!! My husband is also really tall and has the same issue all the time. He has to wear large t-shirts even though he would be a medium just so they won't be so short.

    • @gineenkucherak3349
      @gineenkucherak3349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe try and shop for men’s tall items? They do exist but not always in the styles the guys want. Lol just like me and petites!;)

  • @DesertDreamer
    @DesertDreamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Who else thinks Tom looks good just as he is 😁

    • @lesliejane6725
      @lesliejane6725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      YES! Thinking the same thing. He's a good looking guy, how on earth is he possibly feeling down about it? And THANK YOU Tom for speaking the truth about Dri-fit tops. Seriously, they stink before I even break a sweat 😆. I'll work out in cotton any day. (If I were to, you know, actually work out that is...😉)

    • @marilynking4003
      @marilynking4003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coffee Addict - not that he doesn't look good but for his heath, he needs to lost a few pounds.

    • @sarabethmattis6099
      @sarabethmattis6099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      About the same build as my millennial husband. Idk how small Tom used to be, but my husband was underweight when we met.

    • @valeriethomas8797
      @valeriethomas8797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is perfect just the way he is.

    • @kidkenosha2790
      @kidkenosha2790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just keeps getting better, the pair of them. Their interaction, just like w/the children are always so kind and loving. That is sooo the kind of wife I want to be!

  • @crystalpowell8619
    @crystalpowell8619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for showing the emotions we feel when we purge. Watching Tom made me see that we all go through those feelings.

  • @colleenjones757
    @colleenjones757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love watching your videos. It makes my day when I see one. You all are the best thing happening on TH-cam. I like it that you don’t exploit your children.

  • @MixitupMarci
    @MixitupMarci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Then we are gonna go to the bathroom!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it!

  • @nancycosgrove4716
    @nancycosgrove4716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Isn’t it amazing how things just “creep back in”?

  • @valeriesalazar2743
    @valeriesalazar2743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Getting over that fact that I've paid good money for things has helped me donate so many things I've held onto for YEARS. Thanks for constantly repeating that. It has been life changing.

  • @melissasmith5465
    @melissasmith5465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Started watching this then suddenly I felt the need to declutter the kitchen. Finished and took a deep breath seeing a beautiful decluttered kitchen, and realised I hadn’t finished watching the video. Thank you so much for helping me transform my home and life.

  • @debramackinnon8094
    @debramackinnon8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was saying that this morning. I just want a fresh start in this closet.

  • @paigeprouty4145
    @paigeprouty4145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So needed a video by you today lol

  • @alfienykabutler5919
    @alfienykabutler5919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tom's honesty is sooooo refreshing.

  • @christina.nercessian
    @christina.nercessian 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s so cute how Tom uses Dawn’s decluttering vocabulary 😄 like “in this season of life” or “I don’t really see these clothes as options anymore”

  • @emilyfrank7333
    @emilyfrank7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was laughing so hard I was crying while tom was decluttering clothes. Particularly the overflowing/puking shelf.

  • @lesliecarson684
    @lesliecarson684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ohh Tom, we’ve all been there. My hubby is a “one” belt man as well. Just literally sent two more off to goodwill. Those were the “old body” ones. Good for you to be the one to initiate the clothes downsize. I feel like I need to do it again. Did the pantry yesterday because of another TH-cam channel pantry reveal. I started decluttering because of you two. It always feels super revitalizing!! Thanks for the little push to get more out of the house.

  • @hopesings4544
    @hopesings4544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tom was funny and his comments made me laugh out loud 😁

  • @estherklaveren7521
    @estherklaveren7521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How nice that you and Tom can share this.

  • @carrienishikawa1465
    @carrienishikawa1465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just such a great video and making me feel like I can do it too! It is so helpful to see and hear the thought process too! I realize I rely on your videos everyday for a great tip or inspiration, just to keep hanging in there. Not with life, but getting better and enjoying life! Thanks.

  • @shannontrent3702
    @shannontrent3702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been binge watching your videos this week since I found you. Love you, love you and Tom together, and just grateful you found your niche to share with us! You are giving me the confidence to start minimizing all the "stuff" in our house.

  • @lykri3350
    @lykri3350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dawn you are blessed to have people in your life that ride along with your minimal life choices. That makes things easy and fun. I have no one to have to make this easy and fun for me.

  • @anaalves3658
    @anaalves3658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the video, I love your honesty about how stuff creeps in and how despite your best efforts stuff gets messy. My husband has 3 pairs of jeans and 3 pairs of shorts and it seems to serve him fine, he needs to replace one pair of shorts, he will do the one in one out rule for sure. I just need to get him to sort out his box of random cables/technology stuff and some of his office paperwork needs to be properly organized. I agree with the comment about not having storage in rooms, if you have it you just end up filling it up with random stuff. I can't wait to see the porch.

  • @karenricketson2496
    @karenricketson2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have a vase of fresh flowers on your island! 💝 them! Looks so nice & homie not stark & sterile. 💝🎉

  • @jeanmcintyre4662
    @jeanmcintyre4662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Some day my hubby is going to say, " Let's declutter....... " 😁😉 Thank you for sharing. It's encouraging.

  • @debbiebrown872
    @debbiebrown872 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Somehow it’s helpful watching someone else get rid of stuff and hearing why they should or shouldn’t keep things haha. Thank you guys! You do a great job of being interesting and entertaining while helping us let go of stuff and understand the psychology behind it.

  • @MyMontana52
    @MyMontana52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your bathroom shelves so much better. Much neater. I love that Tom got rid of a bunch of clothes, belts, etc. He is really on board with your minimalism. I know I’m thankful that my husband keeps things thinned down and isn’t a slob or hoarder. He is an excellent organizer. It sure helps. .

  • @meoxmix8233
    @meoxmix8233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was probably my favorite video you’ve done! So real!! Watching Tom was like watching my husband and his decision making and decision fatigue

  • @minahbirdie9178
    @minahbirdie9178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video! Loved seeing you both work on those areas together and just getting to see how you talk to each other.

  • @incognitoriaanonymousita
    @incognitoriaanonymousita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these videos. I don't know why it is so fun to watch someone else tidying up. It is sweet that you and husband work together. Awesome!

  • @suzy1676
    @suzy1676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your family with us! It helps to see the way y'all manage your "household inventory". It's especially important during these more isolated times.

  • @brittanystites3173
    @brittanystites3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE the support you both show each other and talked through what was causing wanting to keep the items. 💗 so inspired to do this with my hubby!

  • @elizabethmcneill6126
    @elizabethmcneill6126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are my favorite kinds of videos from you, Dawn! So much of the time, I have blinders when it comes to my own stuff but I WANT to simplify! It is so helpful to see you declutter and then think "oh wait, I have some things like that I can get rid of!"

  • @milaedwin-kent5091
    @milaedwin-kent5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how Dawn laughs! : ) Thank you for this motivating video!

  • @trixie1556
    @trixie1556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s very helpful to see a man’s progress in minimizing. My hubby likes to save things too. I like how you give him the space that he needs yet he seems to want to let go of things more readily each time. It def does get easier the more you do it. Thanks for your sweet channel.🥰

  • @amma7244
    @amma7244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When the lovely Tom says....so here’s the thing 😁 you two are so fun together!

  • @laurabalzekas4163
    @laurabalzekas4163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think when I buy something expensive it just stresses me because what if I ruin it or break it and don't get my money's worth...and so I end up not using it as much, saving for special occasions. I much prefer buying on super discount or thrifting and then I feel comfortable using it a lot and also if it doesn't last as long as I wanted, or isn't as useful as I was envisioning, then it is much easier to either resell for cheap or donate.

    • @ashleyngrim
      @ashleyngrim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I so agree. I but my t-shirts on Amazon for 5 bucks each and when I ruin one I just shrug and toss it

  • @rebeccafay-read6713
    @rebeccafay-read6713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have quite big feet so my boyfriend and I can share socks. I slowly decluttered our worn-out socks and replaced them with one brand in two colours (black ankle socks and white trainer socks). It makes washing, pairing and putting away sooo much easier! And also if we are packing to go away, it's quicker too. And no odd socks!

  • @sandraphillips2969
    @sandraphillips2969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a cute couple! : ) : ) I love that Tom is on board with keeping your home uncluttered. It takes a village!

  • @cindyhicks8009
    @cindyhicks8009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I LOVE these decluttering videos! Please keep them coming.! I need to re-declutter before things get out of hand again. SO inspiring! Thank you both!👏👏👏

  • @KarlieJJohnson
    @KarlieJJohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    He can wear the dri fit shirts around the house and around town, doesn't have to be a workout shirt. If he likes how they look, wear em just not when sweaty and stinky 👍

    • @91splamy
      @91splamy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      K J. Yeah my husband likes to wear them regardless of whether he’s working out or not

    • @meh5069
      @meh5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree! My husband wears dry fit hats regularly as well, not just for workouts.

  • @andreeaprorokova
    @andreeaprorokova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cute couple and soooo inspiring!!!

  • @kidkenosha2790
    @kidkenosha2790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not sure if someone noted it before (there are over 900 comments. Yay!)
    Tom's comment of, "I don't even see these things as options, they are just something I have to 'dig' through." That comment was profound for me.
    ((*Thank you. Sincerely, for inviting us into your home. You have been so inspirational and I want to say life saving(?); Diana too! Her prayers and Words of encouragement always give me a double heaping of Blessings. Gifts that keep on giving.*))
    Keep up the good works!

  • @clairemack2750
    @clairemack2750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a F16yo, M7yo, and M5yo, and I FEEL you on the "I'm just so grateful for the help". But sometimes, finding that can of XYZ that I KNOW I bought in a weird or crazy place just makes want to cry! Like...HELP ME, don't "help" me.

  • @pihla01
    @pihla01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such a motivating video!!! I'm going through a serious decluttering phase right now and I'm watching your videos DAILY to stay motivated and keep going! :)

  • @sherylgifford9387
    @sherylgifford9387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love using turntables in pantry shelves . . . you do lose a bit of space, but twirling it around now and then keeps things in sight!

  • @chelseamosher5917
    @chelseamosher5917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We've been watching you all for over 3 years now. My 5 year old doesn't know her father, but every time she sees Tom, she knows he's a daddy. Tonight we've been binge watching your videos because she wants to watch Tom 🤍

  • @patriciabaines5832
    @patriciabaines5832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love it when you two do projects together. 🙏🏻

  • @jwallerify
    @jwallerify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was dying laughing at Tom wanting to keep the workout clothes!! 😂 I felt like this video could be of me and my husband!

  • @nolagranolabar
    @nolagranolabar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a newer viewer and I love all your videos. I must say, this was such a fun episode with your husband being involved in the decluttering. It’s great to see both your perspectives.

  • @brittany7768
    @brittany7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t believe you guys are still finding things you didn’t know you had! Your house seems so simplified that I wouldn’t have thought was possible!

  • @beckynchrisplsek3558
    @beckynchrisplsek3558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love how real you guys are! Can totally imagine my husband and I having some of those conversations ❤

  • @whatzupLizzy
    @whatzupLizzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the show, agree about getting rid of stuff that just does not fit any more. And organizing the kitchen keeps things so much nicer!

  • @suzum5689
    @suzum5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "It was just something to dig through,". Excellent thought. I'm going to remember that!