Showing my friends BO BURNHAM - CAN'T HANDLE THIS (KANYE RANT) - THIS GOT DEEP!
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I took a class about comedy in college, and one of the most interesting things we learned were the reasons people laugh. It's not just because something is funny. Sometimes laughter is a release of tension or a subconscious expression of our innate desire to fit in. I think a lot of the laughter Bo evokes with his comedy are the tension relieving laughs from blatantly and unapologetically calling out harsh truths and subverting expectations. He's a clever one, that Bo.
Thank you for pointing this out, because it really resonates with my experience. I am what you'd call a "nervous laugher" and I cannot control it. The more inappropriate the situation, the more I laugh. Highly troublesome trying to help an old lady get up after falling while loling uncontrollably. The first time I watched Inside I laughed at everything, because I didn't know how to integrate what was happening and I felt stressed. The subsequent 16 viewings I did not laugh, just cried. Laughter is not always ignorant and malicious, for me it's a stress response.
Bo didnt perform live for 5 years but he did produce comedy shows for other comedians and made a movie called 8th grade. And ive heard that now he will make music for sesame street!!
He was also one of the leads in a movie that got nominated for tons of Oscars (Promising Young Woman) and he's pretty good in it.
I would definitely recommend it if interested. 👍
Not quite with Seasame Street, it's just the movie that is coming out soon. I feel like his resumé for the position was How The World Works from INSIDE
He did a little bit of stand up actually , he did some sets about his dog , but for the most part he didn’t perform at all
I was gonna bring up Promising Young Woman and The Big Sick, too!
And also he starred in a movie called Promising young woman.
In an interview with him, Bo actually mentioned that pringles and burrito analogy weren’t made by him. It’s just what people saw. He simply made a joke about a relatable thing. Which leads to a debate about what’s more important, what author put in his art, or what we got out of it.
It also opened up an interesting conversation about whether artists sometimes "unconsciously" put meaning into their work without even realizing it. I.e., maybe the fact that Bo was thinking about these deeper struggles caused him to reference Pringles and burritos in a similar way.
I was profoundly shocked when I saw this interview you're referring to, just because the Chipotle metaphor seems to apply so extremely perfectly to Bo's situation anno this special
Yeah I definitely thought people were reaching with the implied metaphors. That would kind of defeat the overall significance of the song's structure, where the first part is meant to actually just be random silliness which gives the latter breakdown portion far more gravitas & also makes the line about shutting up and doing his job (right before he goes back into the silliness) make sense and carry more weight. He's going from "comedian/performer" to "real, honest person" and then quickly shuts himself away again before going back to "comedian/performer".
I honestly thought that was really obvious. I think people just want to feel like they're connecting to him by thinking that they "figured it out" or understood some perceived deeper meaning that other people didn't/couldn't, thereby making them feel closer to him or like they relate to him on a more meaningful level.
@@lex224ification It only seems that way because you're consciously connecting the dots to make it fit, which human beings are prone to do. You are only thinking of the ways it CAN fit or make sense rather than the ways it doesn't or the ways it could fit something else entirely.
He actually mentioned a sentence after this one that it maybe was the analogy discussed in the video, but subconsciously. I think it is has to be connected subconsciously since it has too many connected dots for it not being influenced by his subconscious, especially since he chose to sing this part right after the “breakdown” and not the Pringles or gym ones (or something else)
I would be embarrassed to say how many times I've watched Bo's "Can't handle this - Kanye Rant" video. The only thing better is watching someone experience it for the first time. I love how you guys set him up for success by explaining things that no one gets the first time around. Solid.
I can say without shame that I’ve watched THIS PARTICULAR SONG 100s to 1000s of times. Pretty much whenever I see people talking about it I say it’s my favorite BB song and point out that it’s basically the performance of an anxiety attack.
All that being said, don’t be embarrassed! This song is amazing
Im probably at 100s or times including reactions.
It still hits me intensely
@@well-dressed-bird hey, it makes sense that you’re anxious! Being a bird and all. All least you’re well dressed! Avoid windmills-I’ve heard they can be killer!
Not embarrassed at all I've watched this video hundreds of times if not thousands over the years and I still shed a tear everytime
I totally enjoy that too. I'm at about 20
Bo specifically said in an interview that fans added meaning to the burrito and pringles part, when actually he added those parts as a joke and set up for the actual rant. No deeper meaning.
That doesn’t mean it wasn’t subconscious.
@@Hey_Jamie okay? Doesn't change the fact that there was no intended meaning behind them. I just don't understand people's obsession of forcing the same meaning they got out of the song onto other people. If you wanna say you _think_ he wrote it with those "deeper meanings", that's fine. But when you start telling other people he specifically wrote it to have said meaning, you're spreading misinformation.
Anybody who makes something up in a TH-cam comment makes it true.
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Yes, if people took the time to watch some of the interviews, people might understand their reading way too much into it, are their unconscious meanings behind it, probably, that's pretty much true for every human, its called unintentional coincidence.
Bottom line people have to understand is that Bo is an entertainer, an artist, an actor, people forget that its acting for the purpose of entertainment, Bo is IMHO a Master of his craft, but that comes from time, hard work, dedication being a visionary and spending 3 years for a 90 minute show.
Does he have anxiety attacks, sure, but I believe based on what Bo himself has talked about in different interviews that he has learned to work within the confines of his issues in other words, he has found a way to embrace his anxiety and use it to his advantage so in essence, he is in full control of the illness, not the other way around and their lays the difference. humans are amazing creatures we can overcome most anything if we put our minds to it, where some people are trapped by fear, others use it, they embrace it and control it. we all have that power.
So there's that... something to ponder on... I just think people are reading in to this a lot more than what's needed, I have heard many people say Bo is depressed and I don't think that's the case at all, does he get depressed from time to time, probably, but what human doesn't? it's not really a trait experienced by Bo alone.
To be Clear, I love Bo, He is an amazing artist and performer, I heard him say once in an interviews, his real passion is theatrical drama and with this he is a master at performing, just remember, it's an act that comes straight from the heart, it's emotional, it's smart, it's funny, it's musical, it's human, and he is true to his form, he is authentic and real and I also consider him to be and educator because he makes everyone think more deeply and as a result, people learn more about themselves in the process, and isn't that really what it's all about? so please try and keep things in a logical perspective, we all have emotions, but its important that we think logically and not emotionally. Because emotional problem solving has never once in all of human history ever solved anything because emotional thinking is irrational and chaotic, EGO needs to be kept in check.
@@elbruces The Make Happy interview is literally on TH-cam, it takes two seconds to look it up and see it's real.
Actually find it nuts that when he says “I should probably just shut up and do my job so here I go”, does the burrito bit again and people laugh
I agree. That was heart wrenching... My initial reaction was "they don't get it". But then as I thought about it, it's probably quite a few who got it, but the revert back to comedy gave them the release from the tension he built up from being serious. He's done it in other bits as well where he lures you into not knowing if you should laugh or cry. I tend to do both at once myself when that happens.
It's interesting because I always thought of it as encouragement from the audience because that's how I felt. So much relatable tension was built up and when he goes to the last half of it, the audience cheer was more like saying "yes, release that tension, let it out" rather than "haha it's funny again." It's cathartic. From what I've heard from people who were actually present for the tour too, people left cheering and crying at the same time. It's a sense of relief.
They didn't laugh, they cheered and clapped. Big difference. They are trying to show their support in the only way an audience really can
It makes this hit even harder if you watch "Are You Happy?" after this. It follows this in the special.
Ever seen the video of Megan Batoon dancing her choreo to it? It’s amazing. Bo commented on it that he was speechless
Strange, I heard Bo say in an interview that all the metaphors surrounding the Pringles & Burritos were just stuff the audience put on it, but that that part was actually just intended as a joke, without deeper meaning.
Yes. This is true
That’s what I’ve heard too
Yes it’s true, because the Kanye rant was about pointless things, as Bo stated, and then Kanye went into a serious rant. So Bo went the same route with his message, rant about pointless things and then at the end it became a bit more serious. Nothing hidden in his message here
it's true, he says it in this interview around 11 : 27 - th-cam.com/video/eOABIabgRCg/w-d-xo.html
Yeah this. I see so much misinformation go around about him due to the telephone effect. Like we know he was having panic attacks during this tour (I think he's said he had 9 of them on stage) and it's turned into "he was having a panic attack during this exact performance, he was having panic attacks every single show." Like, no. We don't know that. In fact he said he had two performances the night this was recorded, and he was having anxiety during/after the first one, but he felt much more loose and calm during the second showing, and most of what became the special came from that second showing.
The perfect reaction trio: surprise and emotions, lyrics analysis, production analysis. Please do more!!
Hard agree
Abso-friggin-lutely.
I'd love to see them do Inside together since there's so much to react to and analyze from both lyrical and technical standpoints.
Each time I rewatch this, the most powerful part is the 3 screams of pain at the end. Just heartbreaking, and more so when nobody seems to notice. 💔
If I'm not already tearing up when I get to that part, the 3rd scream definitely sends me over the edge every time.
I'm seeing a lot of comments wondering how people could laugh and cheer to "I should probably just shut up and do my job so here I go.." and I just wanted to clarify. I know my experience isn't everyone's, but I saw this on tour back in 2014 and experiencing the whole thing in its entirety is completely different from seeing this one clip (or even the recording). Personally I feel like the laugh/cheer was that of empathy -- kind of like a nervous laugh, or the same sort you give when someone makes a dark joke about a tragedy they experienced. The feeling behind it was less "Dance, monkey, dance!" and more encouraging, like a "you got this, we feel you, we're right here with you". Does that make sense? I left the show feeling incredibly concerned, confused, and guilty, and I loved every bit of it. He got his point across, and it was amazing.
I had the same experience. I was a comedy booker, worked in clubs for over a decade. So I have seen a lot of comedians. Seen them on and off stage and working through the process. I have been following Bo since he was doing videos in his bedroom and was still in high school.
It was definitely something that had me want to check on him. My late hubs was a comedian/comedy writer and took his own life. I wish I could say that worry about seeing performers having panic attacks on stage or right after is unusual but it isn't. Bo us doing the world a huge service by being able to articulate his struggles.
the tragic thing about this performance is that bo's audience was silent when he was speaking about his true struggles (which they should, because it wasn't funny) but they then immediately erupted into claps and cheers when bo said "i should just shut up and do my job". as if they aren't aware that they're proving bo right. that people don't care as long as you make it funny and theatrical
I think in that moment it was more theatre etiquette, cheering in the pauses n stuff like that Is encouraged in theatre, but I get your point completely and even still you’re right
Yeah that was the point. He knew that would happen. He literally ends the show with “Thank you, good night. I hope you’re happy.”
He’s not hoping the audience has happy lives. He’s saying “I hope you’re happy with yourselves.”
Very ominous.
@@Hey_Jamie I’m glad you agree I knew I was right but I was doubting my point a lil bit so yeah I’m glad you agree
Pretty sure that was part of his show choreography. Fella plays a crowd just as aptly as he plays his equipment.
You're not cool for couch diagnosing a performance years after the fact. He sang this for multiple audiences. You have zero clue what you're talking about.
I like having your friends react to things with you. It’s cool hearing each of you discuss everything with each other. You should definitely do more with them!!
The audience goes crazy with applause because all things considered, it was a MAGNIFICENT performance.
19:20 Hearing this song for the first time, and every time since has made me cry...and it is ALWAYS at the point when you can literally hear his soul cry out in terror. It is heart-wrenching to hear 😥😪
19:42 "Inside" was his return to performing for us personally, but he did write and direct the movie "Eighth Grade" in between "Make Happy" and "Inside"
Brad has gone full Stan for Bo. Its cool man, he’s my man crush as well. He’s so talented, it half pisses you off, half leaves you starry eyed and weary.
I feel this song so much because I can relate to him so hard since my mental health is steadily declining and totally relating to putting out content that I know people would enjoy, but I also want to put some bits of who I really am out there too.
Feels like a comic book crossover seeing you three together.
that last scream at the end completely encapsulates how I feel on a daily basis
No, no, no. What he actually said was that people overanalyze this song. The pringles cans and burritos are just random silly things to rant about... kinda what Kanye often does.
He does appreciate that people look for meaning though, even though if it was not intentional. Sometimes art just creates itself.
Ha. I thought that. Tbh I actually prefer the deeper metaphor but when he said “Bo said it’s a metaphor” I was like oooooh boy….
@@psychwolf7590 yes exactly. nothing wrong in finding all kinds of meaning in song lyrics. just not what Bo had in mind in this case.
I do apologize. Everyone in my comments on the other video said he said it so I went and believed them. WELCOME TO THE INTERNET 😂
@@BradSteele The thing is that with the line about "you can tell them anything" a lot of people feel like it was intended that way even though he says it wasn't. Another thing he has said before is that everything he tells people publicly is a lie. It's all various amount of lies.
So some people will comment saying that it's the intended meaning because they honestly think it's the intended meaning a Bo just doesn't want people to *only* look at it that way.
It's complicated. But in general, YT comments are great for picking up on *ways* it could be interpreted, but not on the *intended* meaning. Bo, as a matter of course, refuses to provide intended meaning. That's the *actual* truth. There is some kind of meaning he had in mind, but he routinely tells contradictory accounts of what different bits mean, because he hates the idea that he is the only one that decides the meaning, and he wants people to find the meaning that is most useful to them. :)
So you were wrong, and you were also right. And now you're right, and are also wrong. *shrug*
You reactions are great because you're willing to look at things.
Your friend's perspective on it relating it to parenting was something that had never occurred to me, and also a meaning that Bo couldn't have intended, because Bo doesn't have kids so he doesn't have the experience to draw from. But it's a totally valid way to relate to what was said, and that's what Bo wants to preserve in general.
He's said before that it's all just jokes and funny, yet in the song he almost explicitly calls it a metaphor for his anxiety. In "Inside" the scenes in which he is the most "real" and "raw" and "emotional" are also the ones that are most explicitly staged: the breakdown where he rushes the camera meant that he had to set up the camera in the back ahead of time to get that specific shot, the screwing up of takes is something that he chose to include in editing the special, the part where he says he isn't well and cries is lit in a way that is specifically designed to capture that scene. So it's all staged. But it also must express some kind of truth behind the lies about what sort of things he's experienced.
"An artist uses lies to tell the truth."
It is so fun to see you 3 react together! I've started to watch your stuff quite recently, and didn't know you knew each other :)
I've watched Jacob's reactions and cannot wait to watch Dennis'
Bo had always suffered from anxiety and panic attacks and depression. It got so bad during the "Make Happy" tour (the last one he did before filming the "Inside" special for Netflix) that he actually broke down several times during and after some performances. He took a five year break from touring and performing live in order to try and get better, which he did, but he wasn't just sitting in his room during that time. He produced and directed several things, a couple of specials for other comedians including one for Chris Rock and directed an indie movie. He spent a year then, just when Covid hit and everyone was quarantined, working on "Inside".
He shot it entirely himself, wrote all of the material and songs, performed them, recorded and edited everything himself. It's a pre-recorded performance piece which he did alone in his guest house. He used some audience applause and laughter tracks to make it seem more like a live performance but none of it was shot in front of a live audience.
Wait a sec! Y'all are friends?! Nice crossover!
The third yell makes me tear up every time. It wasn't just like the first two. I have loved Bo and his creativity since her first started I kinda grew up with him. I just feel like he needed someone. Had I been at that show I would of been telling his security to do wellness checks on him because he was not ok.
Like your thoughts and everything but there is something to letting someone experience something for the first time? Like I feel like you guys were kind of giving it away and that gut wrenching realization I feel like is the best part? It's fine but something to consider. The emotional weight of the song is what makes people come back to it over and over again. Watched Jacobs and his comments were pretty harsh but he straight up googled the pedal in the middle of it and missed a LOT of the emotional parts of the song. Fair because I don't think he knew a lot about Bo Burnham but idk. Still a good reaction but I just wanted to mention this as something to think about generally.
I feel the same way. While I was interested in Brad’s additional thoughts (I’ve been loving Brad’s reactions so far), I was also interested to see Dennis’ fresh reaction, so it was frustrating that Brad and Jacob jumped right in after the pause and didn’t give the floor to Dennis first.
I can appreciate the excitement to share thoughts on such an amazing song with a friend. I also think, for this video, stepping back, giving away nothing more than a knowing look at the camera, and then asking Dennis “So, what do you think?” should have been priority numero uno.
I appreciate that Bo Burnham went through some mental health issues after this; especially his struggle with panic attacks and I don't doubt that he's being honest. But people always talk about him being off for 5 years like he was hiding in a cave! Bo wrote and directed a movie in that time! He also wrote and book, did interview, went on comedy podcasts... He's sustaining a successful relationship and lives in a big beautiful House! I don't doubt that's he's a true artist but clearly he's not as fragile as people think.
Yea it's only his stage fright that gives him so much anxiety he gets panic attacks, and during the 5 years he has been working on overcoming it
@@sunxel3264 I just think it’s odd that people gravitate to this part of his story so much; he’s a suffering artist sure but the prt we should all really relate to is being trapped inside. If we’re impressed by Bo it should be because of his work ethic and creativity during that time, or his commentary on our failing society. But in terms of his anxiety clearly he’s always had a handle on it; hence the impressive material he made regardless over those 5 years!
Amazing reference to That funny feeling haha
I've said this other places, but if you haven't noticed, he sings "I don't think that I can handle this right now", but then emphasizes what's going on "now". Then his ending lines are, "I'll handle THIS right, handle this RIGHT, handle this right NOW", and leaving for five years to handle it...and I'm so happy he did handle it and gave us a masterpiece once again INSIDE.
Love love love this meeting of you 3 and your combined enjoyment and excitement and discovery of new layers of this song. Also wanted to point out something with the lighting. First all of the lighting choices are amazing but also super intentional. And wanted to say specifically toward the end when he gets backlit by that single almost yellow spotlight. As he goes back into the “funny” part of the song saying you can tell them anything if you just make it rhyme - he gets backlit which makes him just a black silhouette. Which to me is him removing himself as a person and signifies the feeling he gets that he has to just be and do what the audience wants. I think it represents the parts of his himself that he feels he has to edit himself or give the audience something that isn’t completely what he’d like to show. And then at the very end the lights go crazy flashing and darting everywhere as he repeats I don’t think I can handle this right now and let’s put multiple primal screams. To show the chaos that creates in his mind and his struggle. This is why he spends like 3 years in between each special. He creates and scripts every bit of his specials down to every minute detail. And we love him for that!
Something not a lot of people realize, because they haven't seen the Netflix special, is he didn't technically end it with "Can't Handle This". He ended his live show with it, but he ended the special itself with a song called "Are You Happy?" It's a very short song, it doesn't even have an official upload on youtube either, but I think it's still worth checking out. Not for a video necessarily because it's quite a short song, but just in general.
17:35 I don't know but when they all head bopping synchronusly Caught me off guard 😂
I always love watching Bo Burnham's songs and specials because he is very talented but it also makes me sad inside to know how he was feeling at the time.
I'm pretty sure he said he had a panic attack WHILE this was being filmed in the moment of performing this.
I dont think the burrito part is a metaphor. I think it's just a burrito, intentionally mundane and not a real life problem so that it juxtaposes against the much heavier parts of the song for great dramatic effect.
The burrito and Pringles can are definitely metaphors. “I want to please you, but I want to stay true to myself” is him having to walk a tightrope (the diameter of a Pringles can is too small). “I don’t think I can handle this right now” is him feeling overwhelmed by the fame, success, pressure, etc (burrito overfilling).
you clearly haven't seen english classes :P
I love him so much. I feel his struggle, I’m not in any spotlight but I deal with social anxiety and panic attacks. He’s truly a multitalented genius and I say that sincerely. That said you can clearly hear it in his voice when he’s yelling and it really hit me
Wow this is the first guy I seen notice how he was blacked out for that part. That he could of been anybody.
U dont need a good voice for auto tune. I need to be able to sing. But learning to sing is a skill everyone can learn. A voice is what u got.
Courageous truth wrapped into an amazing performance. Like everyone in the audience, I also applauded at the end to recognize his incredible performance, but I think more to celebrate and honor his courage for speaking his truth. The applause was everyone's heart going out to him.
I'm so glad you guys are watching Bo together! I just love him. Thanks for introducing Dennis to him! If it's possible I would love to see all of you watch Inside together
Your friend in the black shirt looked in complete shock and awe after Bo said “trying to give you what I can not give myself”. The look is glued to his face for a few minutes @14:00
All of the analogies about the happiness burrito and pringles were brought up to Bo in an interview, and he said he didn’t intend to have any deeper meaning than just some stupid problems. But he also said jokingly that it could be his subconscious writing.
It must of been subconscious
@@mounthope2567 well when you juxtapose the mundane meaningless problems to the real stuff he gets into, then it leaves the real stuff with so much more power. When you look too far into it, then the intended emotional stuff becomes less impactful. But I guess when it comes to art, everything is subjective, and the artists intention/meaning behind it kind of goes out the window when opening it to millions of people :).
can we just appreciate the intro for a sec? its great :)
Yess, you get the fun of reliving the wonder through other peoples eyes ^_^ love it!
It's okay that the audience applauded and even laughed. They were there for a comedy act and to be entertained. Bo knows this. And while he's stating his personal problems and, yes, he's blaming the audience for his issues, in part or completely, he knows that they just want a good show. That's what they paid for. And that's his job, to provide them with a good show.
But, and here's the double-edged sword: it's an act. Bo has always stressed that what he does on stage is an act. So, the big question then becomes, if it's all an act, why include his mental health issues? Because that's just Bo? Well, okay, let's accept that but then it borders on exploiting his mental health issues for his performance. Think of it this way. He struggles with performing but no one is twisting his arm to do it. Ever. He's made enough money that he can easily just stay the hell away from public performances and still be as creative as ever. He's proven that during his five-year hiatus. Even his "inside" special, which has been his most successful venture thus far, he did it all without facing a single live audience member.
So, doing live performances is now optional for him. Perhaps he didn't feel that way back when he did "Make Happy". He certainly felt trapped by the audience. They don't know half of what he goes through each performance and they really don't care or understand. Then again, it's not their job to do either. They're patrons who've paid to watch a show and be entertained. They don't have to know the performer's personal issues. And it really shouldn't dictate whether or not the audience appreciates it more or less by just knowing about it. By incorporating it into his show, however, he's making it an integral part of the performance. But then he stresses that it's all an act up there. So mentioning his anxiety is what then? A means of exploiting it for sympathy or attention beyond what he would get with his jokes and music?
Still, he hopes that they're happy... with his suffering, with his baring of his soul and problems and with his performance. It's an odd way to bow out of performing live but that's what he chose to do.
This should get at least a million views.
Okay. hey man, i like your videos! I'm looking forward to more, especially if you have more reactions with these other guys and Inside! that would be awesome. however, i have one critique which is i think kind of important, for me personally, which is that you tended to pause and then tease/spoil what was about to happen. As a viewer, it's a little frustrating because I'm watching for the reaction, which is less fresh if you are hyping up or hinting at what's coming next. Video was otherwise great! Keep up the great work, and I'll be on the lookout for more!
Agree. I feel like the one guy hearing it for the first time had it ruined. Just listen to it, stop pausing. Ugh
the song at the end of make happy is also really good as well, you should always hit that every time you watch this rant
That "funny feeling" comment
The end of the song was a very transparent admission of his narcisstism which is HIGHLY compromised of a performative manifestation. He RESENTS the audience who LARGELY MISUNDERSTAND HIS NATURE, he feels superior to them so why does he feel so compelled to please them? It's for the love of the narcisstic fuel he's sucking from the awestruck crowd, giving him copious amounts of his DRUG OF CHOICE: NARCISSTIC FUEL, what he calls 'attention'. but it also challenges him, to please the audience while being authentic. The audience elicits fear when they threaten his sense of control so he must nullify it through his performance. They don't understand the half of it implies that the audience is totally blind to his literal BASKING in the glow of the Louis 14th-esque admiration of his audience. He's cynical realistic, yet understanding that it's not necessary for, that the audience cannot see the hidden forces within him that drive him to see the world differently, without emotional empathy WHILE possessing a vast knowledge of the human condition (that as a high IQ highly aware, unreservedly articulate greater narcisst, a truly rare breed, but I don't know of another one off the top than Taylor swift, another aware greater performing narcissist, do not be fooled, anyways, he pursued this knowledge through extensive research, casual constant observation bc the narcissm is awake as the narcisst is, it's aware even when he's inebriated though as it's always on standby alert for threats to control, the greater narcissist knows what he is and generally why he does it. He knows he cannot truly love as his brain was wired for fuel, not the emotional wounding that comes from possessing the shackles of interpersonal empathy. No, don't feel sorry for Mr burnam. He's working y'all like putty fresh out of a sun baked car, got you thinking that he feels sadness about being different or misunderstood. He PREFERS it that way. He freakin loves bragging about his narcisstic condition lol. I'm not saying all this to shit on Bo, he's theatrically brilliant and a genuinely uniquely multi talented artist. However, I certainly wouldn't want to be involved with him on ANY intimate level considering how subtly condescending he is to his audience but he's lapping it up as he can "punch" you in the face but has the "it's comedy" defense. I'm not bitching about it whatsoever, I love it when narcissists, particularly the more interesting, much less ordinary, greater narcissists. But just like Bo craves that performance "attention" (narcisstic fuel in general, on-stage, between the sheets, at a meet n greet, every interaction), I crave narcissts even though I know they'll only hurt me in the end. So I will admire from a safe distance (not implying anything particular about bo here, no stalker, haha) ,but yes I just find this whole relatively transparent facade, that still exists through the manifestation of carefully calibrated humor he can reflexively spout out and conceive of, a fascinating dynamic to see at work with other "audience" members and how they interpret Bo. He knows y'all better than y'all know yourselves and, like any IMPACTFUL artist, emotionally manipulates the audience through aspects of his performance while still expressing profound self awareness yet there's a paradoxical disconnect with the audience. He relishes this advantage of awareness, it adds to his grandiosity (not undeserved btw, guy's truly genius, but he KNOWS he's the fucking shit, I promise you he's not insecure at all outside of narcisstic wounding which is swiftly addressed all while cloaking the whole truth; he cannot love, he fears the ability of others to wound him and will take measures to prevent this like evoking the audience's empathy for HIS self image/perception.
Bo was very young when he blew up on TH-cam in the early days. Here he was this average kid who suddenly was a major star and he had no idea how to handle it. The thing is that we have seen this before with comedians, Robin Williams is a great example, he was an amazing comedian and performer, but he hid his true feelings behind his jokes. Nobody saw the pain that he was struggling with which is why it was so surprising to hear what happened to him. I feel Bo is the same way but Bo decided to incorporate it into his comedy and became more of a George Carlin of his generation. Pointing out the stuff that most people don't or won't talk about. I look forward to see what he gives us next because I don't think he is done yet.
The way King Family guy says "it hits you from both sides" talking about the gym comments and the burrito and it's like that Frozen meme - 'I'm gonna tell him!' 'Don't you dare!'. Bo will find new sides you didn't even know you had and he will punch all of them.
HAND in pringle CAN, CAN’t HANDle this right now.
Coincidence?
Maybe, yeah
As others have pointed out, Pringles/burrito metaphor thing is 100% a fan-theory and wrong. Not that those folks won’t still argue that it had to still ACTUALLY be a metaphor and he just doesn’t realize it. th-cam.com/video/eOABIabgRCg/w-d-xo.html
What I heard is that he denied the burrito metaphor. He said it was just a bit of comedy with no deeper meaning. However, this is Bo we're talking about. Nothing is ever incidental. You can imagine that his initial jaunts into comedy were merely inquisitive. Nobody expects it to blow up and nobody is ever prepared for that sort of fame. It must have been flabbergasting, and for a mind as empathetic as his, a mind that sees everything from every angle, incomprehensibly overwhelming. "Wouldn't have got the lettuce if I knew it wouldn't fit, wouldn't have got the cheese..."
If he knew what he knows now, would we ever have gotten to glimpse this extraordinary man and his insight?
Bo Burnham, is a Real one.
by Real, I mean, Real and True to his words. He is a Real Human. being Honest.
That's why we just love him.
Alot of artists have realized that most people dont listen to what they are actually saying, OutKasts song hey ya has the line in it "y'all dont wanna hear me, you just wanna dance." They completely missed that it was a sad song about a break up because it had an upbeat tempo.
Why does every reaction TH-camr break the "opening up" section in two. The two parts belong together, but I get that streamers that don't know the song pause half way through the reveal, but you shouldn't have. Letting the entirety of that part play out hits so, so much harder...
I loved you guys reaction to this video. I didnt scroll down and read the comments but I wonder if anyone else thought of Robin Williams when they watched this. A lot of comedians love and are good at making people laugh because they don't want anyone to feel the way they feel inside. Bo's Netflix special "Inside" I thought was genius. It draws you in and gives you a completely different perspective and feeling towards mental illness. And for those of us that struggle with mental illness applaud because we are right there with him. Finally someone put it all together to show regular people and help them understand while making it entertaining. Bo Burnham is a brilliant and talented man.
Her already had panic attacks during this tour.
During this very performance if I understand things correctly.
Thats the last, broken up scream roght before the end, apparently he went back stage and cried for hours as soon as the lights went out.
Hes breaking down roght befor their eyes and everyone is just cheering and clapping right after he literally told them that this was exactly what was happening and how they would react.
Its one of the most heart breaking performance ever.
There's no way anyone will actually see this, but this is brilliant... that said... im gonna tell ya to listen to "Hey Ya" by Outkast... please have the lyrics around...
After watching this finale, I can't even eat pringles without dying a little bit.
The whole "steadily declining mental health..." lines i think always gives people chills because that's such a hard thing to say out loud but Bo does it in a theater full of people.
and maybe the breakdown was to make fun of kanye, he doesn’t want to admit that…but hen instead it ended up triggering himself….actors playing a scene can be very affected….the brain doesn’t know it’s not real.
It's so cold how he screaming "I can't handle this!" In front of thousands of people and they're silent but he goes back to the borito and they cheer.. it's sickening implications that they paid for the monkey to dance but don't give a fuck if it's hurting.
i like to believe pringles signify happiness. he can get some but not all. he wants to have a daughter to be able to experience pure happiness again, even if its just through her. I know he's said there isn't metaphorical meaning in the pringles or burritos, so im probably projecting. thoughts?
Brad, Thanks for playing Bo Burnham - Can't Handle This, is great and amazing.
something really interesting i've seen someone talk about is in the burrito bit, bo uses the term 'burrito expert' and that could be seen as a sort of double entendre.
he's talking about the guy making the burrito, obviously, but it could also be talking about the people in his life and the people he looked up to. he's singing about how a this someone who has lived longer or lived the experience of fame, should have warned him how hard it is to balance stardom and being a human being because that's supposed to be their job. he even sounds bitter saying it because it must be so lonely and isolating, and no one even thought to tell him the affects of it.
fun little interpretation i thought about while watching this, loved the reactions
For anyone who doesn’t know, Bo does not take credit for the burrito analogy. The idea that the burrito is his capacity for Handling the stresses of his life and he can’t contain them. There is also an analogy that the Pringles are his happiness and he is unable to obtain it by himself. He also does not take credit for this. The song I believe is more of a showcase of his terrified anxious state even while singing about burritos and pringles.
There’s a guy who works at Chipotle and served Bo and he’s watching this like 👁 👄 👁
One thing that always sort of bothers me is that during that final section, after his breakdown when he goes back to "doing his job" it's like the audience immediately forgets what was just said and cheers and laughs at him bringing up the burrito.
I love love love Dennis' reactions! And his comparison to his parenting struggles, it's a perfect way to take art and feel it in your own life. And his point about not even being able to see the person talking anymore and it doesn't matter... Such a good catch!! Can't wait to see more on his channel 👌
This is the first time I've seen anybody comment on the apparent double meaning to "I hope you're happy."
Lettuce and cheese are often slang for money; peppers are the bite back. Too much won't fit in your life.
I like how the guy on the left has a kids headphone, while they other 2 guys have professional headphones. 😂
I don't think the guy on the left was far off the mark with comparing performing to parenthood. All good parents put on a brave face for their kids and might even behave better in the presence of their kids because they know they are role models and have to be the stable ones. Most kids don't get to know who their parents really are until the kid becomes an adult.
WHAT THE FUCK I DIDN'T EXPECT TO SEE JACOB RESITUTO IN THIS VIDEO I DID LIKE A DOUBLE TAKE LOL
I love the reaction from your friend who hasn't seen this before, especially when compared to your reaction! I love people watching Bo's stuff for the first time.
Feels ridiculous that a song which is 50% pringles and burritos makes me cry but here I am.
I hope someday to find a comment on a reaction from someone who saw this show live. His feelings are just so palpable watching this recording it is hard to imagine they wouldn't have been even stronger in the room.
I think all the stuff at the end was showing his own mental state also, the screams and everything, of course, but also the way the lights are going all over the place chaotically and the way the camera angles cut frantically, as well (everything before that camera wise was more static but at that last moment, they're all over the place)
The third scream at the end was unplanned. His show is so scripted that hearing this unplanned 3rd scream, his crew knew something was wrong.
He actually cam out saying he had a huge panic attack while singing that song which is why at the end he just mic drops and walks off. He came back to bow because he felt he needed to.
Came here for a Bo Burnham reaction, stayed for that acapella! Fantastic man!
Bo makes me cry more than laugh. Since his first TH-cam videos
You do realize that by stopping right as Bo was starting his lament you destroyed a huge part of the impact on your friend since you took him out of the moment with your commentary?
I don’t kno if you take request but perspective of god, very bo burnham esk as in funny but very real
For copyright blockage, down the opacity of the video and flip it, as well as the opacity of the words you put over it, so we can actually see it a bit clearer
Oh wow, I just noticed when he's giving the facts and says "I should just shut up and do my job..." that this is all factual and he uses the same lighting color (blue) as in Left Brain / Right Brain.
it pains me to this day that nearly all of the reactions i’ve watched to this video haven’t realized that he sampled runaway by kanye and that’s the keys in the back
Early: "I can't fit my HAND inside of a Pringle's CAN."
Later: "I don't think that I CAN HAND-le this right now."
Early: “I wouldn’t have got all of that shit if I knew that HALF OF IT wouldn’t fit.”
Later: “You don’t know the HALF OF IT right now.”
Brilliant on its own.
But, then, it gets even more brilliant:
“You can tell them anything if you just
make it funny, make it rhyme.
And if they still don’t understand you then you
run it one more time.
I don't think that I CAN HAND-le this right now.
I don't think that I CAN HAND-le this right now.
I don't think that I CAN HAND-le this right now."
This man needs some Aesop Rock.
So when’s that KingFam reaction to all Bos stuff going up ,still waiting lol
I’m sure other will add that the Burrito analogy is the opposite of what you said Brad. The common fan theory is what you said, but Bo shot that down in an interview.
However, I’m going to point out two things: 1. When he shot it down, he was promoting his movie years later. Bringing up old wounds (especially ones where he’s telling the audience he hates them and he begrudges being famous) while promoting a movie may not have been the best thing to do at the time. 2. Bo is extremely meticulous and intentional in everything he does; it’s hard to believe that a metaphor as strong as the Burrito one would simply bypass him. This song is a piece of art and artists don’t make a habit of going around explaining every meaning behind their work because if they did, it would take away the chance for people to give it their own interpretations and projections.
It’s refreshing to hear that you do actually read the comments and absorb the information you receive and also, it seems, so your own due diligence to find context or resources. Kudos on you.
Love your channel, also love that you're a Titans fan. Titan up!
Just remember, this wasn't the LAST bit he did before his hiatus.
"Are You Happy?", the last song of this special, is what really hits hard knowing what happened to him afterwards.
"On a scale of one to zero, are you happy? / 'Cause you're on your own from here so are you happy? / I'm open to suggestions; are you happy? / But what the fuck kinda question is 'Are you happy'?"
It was his last live moment though. Are You Happy was prerecorded. But I get your point, it’d be better for reactors to include the end of the special.
@@smurfrise True, very true.
He said in an interview also that he rewatched the special and could not point out when he was having a panic attack
Great video man! Loved that you all got together and reacted to this to get some in video discussion and lifting the perspective from the music and non music side of the performance.
And I loved “that funny feeling” comment.
Keep up the amazing work!
I always notice how the moment the lights go down everyone stops cheering or making any noise, yet the moment he goes back to the lettuce thing, everyone starts cheering. Which only further emphasizes the truth of what he's saying: no one wants to hear him be serious. They're just waiting for him to get back to the funny stuff.
i think that might be a somewhat cynical take on it…i see it like this. if you were in that audience and you were watching this performance for the first time, how would you feel? based on how i felt when i first watched the special i assume i would be overstimulated, impressed, shocked, and feeling a ton of things at once. when u have that many things going on as an audience member during a comedy show, how can u express the emotions you’re feeling, or convey “i am extremely invested in this performance”? the options are cry, cheer, boo, or laugh, basically. laughter can also be a shocked reaction when your body doesnt know what to do, and i think a lot of time when bo gets laughs in places that just should NOT have laughs, its the audience subconsciously going “i know i need to react to show approval right now but im not sure how to express that emotion,” and then it comes out as a laugh.
it must be BEYOND dehumanizing and strange from bo’s (and an outside viewer’s) point of view, but i think it makes sense when u consider the audience trying and failing to find the proper way to react. like WHAT is there to to as an audience member to show bo how much you think his work is great in realtime, besides cheer? but the fact that they go quiet when he goes quiet, and are ready to listen…i think rather, that means they’re genuinely listening and want to hear what he has to say when hes serious.
@@crstph oh thats true, but i cant help but realize how it must feel to Bo to only get positive reactions(laughter, cherring) when hes silly and not when hes being serious. 😢
Re: the pringles/burrito metaphor and the panic attacks, a good interview that answers both in the first 15 minutes or so can be found by googling In Conversation: Bo Burnham Live on "Good One". In the interview, he says he's had 12 panic attacks in his life and 11 of them were on stage. It was a 42 show run, so that means he had panic attacks during a quarter of the shows on the tour.
Now, that's absolutely terrifying and way more than should ever be happening, but it means that 75% of the shows on this tour, he wasn't having panic attacks. So I think the "having a panic attack every night" part of the backstory has been.. a little exaggerated. True, but exaggerated. I really doubt he would've been able to finish the tour if it had really been every night.
About the having a panic attack during the performance, there were two shows in New York that night and the taping is a blend of performances from both. He was having the panic attack during the first one, went backstage and had the breakdown, and then felt better and calmer for the second show. Because of that, most of the performances in the special are from the second performance. One song that was from the first show (because he apparently skipped it completely in the second) was KYS (unalive yourself). His voice does sound a little shakier than his normal singing voice in that song on the special, I think.
Well said gentle men. I get panic attacks and they can be so debilitating.