We need to talk about Confirmation Bias - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Episode 58)
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If being "happy" is your goal, you're already lost. Happiness is the goal of children. Duty, honor, family, community, the passing on of wisdom and wealth, and raising the next generation of Adults... these are goals of adults. These are worth sacrificing "happiness" for, or better yet, these are what should make one happy.
Very well stated.
Damn bruh well said well f-ing said
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A MISERABLE PERSON HAS NOTHING TO OFFER ANYONE! But I do agree that PURPOSE should be the goal and the driving force of every adult which will include duty......integrity......self respect and respect for others........discipline.......patience...........service to others ( which includes family and community) and SETTING AN EXAMPLE for the next generation.....not just by words but by ACTIONS! The true purpose and reason for our very existence is to see our need for Jesus and accept Him as our personal Savior and enjoy a relationship with Him! Jesus gives those who walk with him a Joy that is always with us even on perceived bad days or hard times! Living for Jesus is the only way to have TRUE fulfillment! God put a void and a peculiar emptiness inside of all human beings that can only be filled by Him! What most people who do not have a relationship with Jesus are chasing IS NOT REALLY HAPPINESS......even though they are calling it that! What they are really trying to do is fill that void and emptiness inside! Happy feelings come and go depending on our circumstances or our mOOd......BUT THE JOY THAT JESUS GIVES NEVER LEAVES US NO MATTER WHAT OUR CIRCUMSTANCES ARE! Without Joy and all of the fruit of the Holy spirit it is hard to impossible for people to serve others! ( without selfish motives) How can an unhappy JOYLESS depleted hopeless person serve anybody or give to anybody when they are in desperate need themselves? *And yes I also agree that when a person has the right mature mindset then living life the right way will bring them fulfillment and happiness! 💯👍🎯
He said "Women should not be raising boys by themselves." She replied, "the man leaves." Most men don't leave. Usually the woman breaks up with the man. Then women reply with "yeah but that's only because (insert excuse here), (insert shaming the man here), (omit female ownership here).
Rarely do we hear people talk about the horrible mothers who were manipulative, neglectful, abused drugs, beat their children, brought several men in and out of the home and more. Instead, we hear about how the mother had to be Mom and Dad because the father was absent
Kevin Samuels platform exposed family business. The world saw the insanity black males have had to endure everyday for the past 10-15 yrs. Many black women felt betrayed. The world needed to see that. So many black women put on a false persona outside our community. Kevin's movement was necessary. RIP Kevin Samuels
"I can only speak for myself" translates into, "I refuse to damn the damnable things women do to men (that I know they do) to say your right, and there has to be change. That shit is sad.
You are EXACTLY right 😩😩😩
Exactly
It has become the norm. It's a predictable and typical response from women
Pretty much every woman he’s interviewed has said that too.
Facts
Observation: When women babble nonsense, they are trying to twist stated facts to fit their poor thought out narritive. It is quite sad.
Lol, I was just going to comment how she was twisting herself to think logical but her "what I know" is still there..
I'm so glad you see that too. And it appears to be in their DNA
I was wondering if I was the only one who picked up on the constant word salad she was spewing back and forth...
I thought I was the lost/crazy one.
The "you're guilty until proven otherwise" mentality in too many of our women is a huge problem
Men do not automatically trust women either. Trust is something earned not given. With that, be you a man or a woman, don’t bring that mental baggage into the new relationship. Men not recognizing both genders do the same thing is a huge problem.
@@nakiastars that's not true. We trust women way too much, like if y'all not human and don't cheat, lie etc. That's why we're less likely to take y'all back after y'all do us wrong, cause we genuinely be surprised cause we really believe y'all 😂😂
When I hear “ I feel “ I know some bs coming after
Agreed, or once they agreed with the argument you hear "but" that negates everything that preceded; so, disappointing!
If I had a dollar for everytime they say, “I feel like” and “It depends on the person” ,when they are asked a specific question about calling women out or holding themselves accountable for their bs, I’d be a millionaire
It would be refreshing to hear conversations about what people think instead of what people feel.
I’m waiting for this as well
But since most of those ladies seem not to think that much....
But since most of those ladies seem not think that much....
That's just it. Women don't think. They only feel.
It’s basically the same
Thing . People use the term i feel, it means I think , I believe , in my opinion etc . Communications are all subjective most times
Women hold onto the lie in order to avoid holding themselves accountable. Simple. They will lie, gaslight, abuse plausible deniability, manipulate people, spread rumors, throw anyone and everyone under the bus, be as vague as they need to be and stay on code for the sisterhood just to avoid the vulnerability that they perceive to be attached to accountability. To the sisterhood maintaining their image of “perfection” is everything. Which isn’t even limited to black women
Well said.
EXACTLY.... Well said !!!!
@ Laz 37 yep this is exactly why i wrote the book [ MGTOW QUOTES VOLUME-1 ]
Its a female nature survival tactic
Has anyone noticed that why a hard question is ask by him EVERY TIME they always forget the question 🤔. This shows proof that there listening to respond and not to hear 😂😂😂
The young lady started her response by laughing at the foul behavior of the woman with 2 husband's, so you know that she's going to begin to make excuses, and speak from emotions. The truth is black women typically don't want to be held accountable, we would rather just throw shade on black men. Period. Black Men make mistakes, black women make mistakes, but the narrative is that black women are victims of horrible black men. It just doesn't work like that.
Every black woman says this "I can only speak for myself" and "not my group of friends".
They all say this, so every woman in the world must be perfect right? Herd mentality and the lack of independent thought.
They are Cringe as fuck
Honestly do women really listen to themselves, she clearly said men cheat more, and when you said it’s 50-50 she said “that’s what I said” huh? That “need to be right” is really strong, it’s not hard to say “I was wrong”.
It’s frustrating that most of our sistas CAN’T/WILLINGLY choose not to answer a question straight up honestly.
Yup! The dude needs to have more control of the conversation.
You are realizing how deceitful they can be...especially about something that doesn't even apply to their personal situation.
That's generally women. It's not just bw
It’s the vast majority.
They rather look stupid than admit the obvious truth that holds them accountable.
These interviews are depressing. The intentional tap dance around holding women accountable for their choices and behavior is unbelievable. At least be balanced Jesus
Being a black man who has his head on right, yeah this ish make you feel like you must be crazy. It’s the gaslighting we are accused of.
Stop expecting accountability from women and white people. What will you do with it once you get it.
@@MrTsukudu marriage with one and business with the other logically.
This was a very important conversation for the responses. While many of us knew the playbook, it highlights something I heard Kevin Samuels say on The Lead Attorney. The context was about domestic abuse/ mutual combat and why there is no repercussion for women for false reporting. By the end, it was said "so it's a PR problem". Truthfully ae have allowed our PR to be destroyed. We cant ignore the perception globally, within the Diaspora as well as wifhin the community. "Men dont deserve fathers day", "Broke men dont deserve submissive wives", even the very idea of HV man is misrepresented because many woman think that getting with a HV man is life on easy mode, its travel, luxury all the time which is why a six figure trucker can be so easily dismissed. Even men who make 6 figures are misunderstood, because our community cant fathom that a tradesman can run a million dollar business and that is very common.
So these conversations can be taken in many directions, the truth all black men must see, we must take back our own image and appearance value. We have a massive hurdle with Simps, thugs, and feminists but it is our responsibility to project the image and put out the facts data and statistics to refute the bad PR.
Outstanding.
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Great analysis
Good luck with that task.
We are in an enemy nation. We are actually the Jews. Same ones they made it illegal to say they were Jews in Rome. Now you dont have a last name or culture "mysteriously" and the 12 tribes of Israel were just "lost"
The bad PR is centuries old now, and will not be stopped. We need to leave and rebuild on our own lands.
Who else noticed that as the heat from the questions were making her think and have to admit the bs women do, the more she began to check out of the conversation. Just look at her face throughout the conversation and you can tell the moment she became a robot for the sisterhood. This is just sad. SYSBM quietly and effectively.
21:10 is a system restart
It's troubling that inspite of the information regarding the statistics and destructive nature of the narratives that hurt black male images by black women, she still struggles with holding women accountable.
WHERE ARE THE GOOD BLACK WOMEN AT?!?!
10% just like the hvm it's rare.
Avoiding the manosphere.
@@rosalindbrinson STOP THE CAP
@@decarloharris9996 no offense, just speaking the truth. 🤷🏾♀️
Married
I'd love to do an experiment to test the strange properties of the sisterhood. There is a very clear herd mentality yet all members insist that they are inexplicably unique in how they think.
Imagine a venn diagram being drawn on the floor and asking a group of women to sort themselves. The diagram has two sets, one labeled "not like the rest" the other is labeled "average". There is a single intersection with no clear label defining why these sets intersect. Unfortunately you'd have to make a rule that no one is allowed to speak during the experiment otherwise it would probably end with them all trying to justify themselves with each other (they would have to be allowed to do this after the experiment or they might just go insane). To spice it up, another variable would be to make it so they can't change their position once they made a choice.
lol we gotta do this!!!!! the hard part will be getting them to follow rules. Not speaking and making an honest choice is like kryptonite to women. You gotta put a timer on the exercise to force them to decide without thinking about what the results mean (so they could cheat), and blindfold them so nobody uses non-verbal communication.
This is pure gold 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆😂😂 their brain would explode 🤯
Another rough one. It's like a lot of women have a really hard time acknowledging perspectives outside of their own and because of that can't help to find solutions.
they don't want solutions...they want PROBLEMS.
Solipsism. Something most western women suffer from.
Hats off to the interviewer, cause i cant sit calmly in discussions like this. My mother who married my stepdad and had my 3 younger sisters and little brother, i argued with them my whole life about stuff like this. Please help us.
The reason “we” hold on to this is that women are almost always going to look for ways to shirk accountability. And the “we” is a primarily matriarchal community.
The mental gymnastics that women go through not to hold themselves accountable is incredible
Bro I give you props because holding this girl to one point is extremely difficult… she will jump to Japan to come right back to to the same old narrative…. “ I can only speak for myself blah blah
I’m convinced it’s not “S.I.G.N. Language anymore. These women Believe what they’re saying; totally Dismissing facts and statistics to argue their point and when dismissing doesn’t work, they laugh it off or say, “well men do it too.” It blows my mind the way LOGIC does not exist to them… It’s culture and it’s exhausting.
It still is sign language, just more need to be right than anything else.
If black men need to do better then black women need to think better.
#BWthinkbetter
I'm glad you're having these conversations. Women need to see themselves on film as other women need to. So we can have these conversations
Why can't these women answer your question. Hold them accountable and make sure they answer your question rather than answering the question with another question. These women protect other women and given answers
This was another rocky road and I hear where the men are coming from with the denial of direct accountability to women. However 😀 you have to know it is difficult for anyone to see past their day to day experience until they experience something new, that is for men and women. It is very hard to hear that men don't cheat when everyone you knows has been cheated on, ijs. It hard to say domestic violence doesnt exist when everyone has had a friend that has been abused. This does not negate the fact that women have accountability issues, We do. I just think many people just need to SEE something different. We all are adapting to our circumstances whether self inflicted or not. #Grace
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Riiiight...
Black men have had “grace” with BW for centuries. Literally. F your grace. Men don’t deny facts for their anecdotal. That’s BW.
Why do women have accountability issues? Do you know the scientific reason why?
"Underfathered and over-mothered" Amen. I get into fights on some of the black focused subreddits, and you can instantly tell they are female dominated. Mostly in the way that facts and goals don't really matter, it's more about not-excluding even the most dysfunctional of us in our community.
You back with the heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I kind of wish I heard convo’s like these when I was in high school
The younger someone gets this info in their hands the better ✊🏾
I agree with you. Sadly, I was so blue-pilled in high school, I might not have listened to this. It’s hard to say. But I definitely needed to hear this.
The biggest issues I have with the Color Purple narrative is that 1.) The most hurt people will be the loudest so just because you haven't heard as many great stories, doesn't mean it wasn't the reality for man and 2.) Abused people tend to abuse people. R. Kelly was sexually abused by his big sister. I watched something on the Debarge family and they were sexually abused by their father who was sexually abused. The times were different. My mom got hit in the mouth by her mom with a cooking spoon for wearing makeup around 11 or 12 but that was normal to my grandmother when a girls was being "womanish" in her words.
All this to say that people tend to be products of their own circumstances. I came from a loving household. I literally got one whooping in Kindergarden because I stole gum out of a store. I was never punished out of anger so similarly I am very agreeable. So when some suggest that "by nature" men are just brutal creatures and don't examine the cultural norms of those times, humanize them by looking at their life experiences, it bothers me.
This is why I've never wasted time explaining issues to women. They won't get it.
FYI... In that Kendra G example.... She was bi sexual and she was mad her husband didn't want her to go on girls trips 👀
Wow
It was her second husban too and he was ayt guy as well.
@@bhillboy37 dahyam
A lot of Moms make it difficult for fathers that are in the home.
I would like to see a woman who is in the right mind set in there. To get a juxtaposition of opinion to the same questions. Your willing to be open enough to share your thoughts and offer opinions is inspiring. Thank you.
One thing that I have noticed about the Women that you have these conversations with, and I also see that in a couple of my friends, they use "I feel" instead of "I think".
She is uncomfortable because he’s forcing her to think, she wants to push back, he’s challenging her thought process, and she refuses hold black women accountable for their actions …. same ol BS
Some men leave, some men are pushed away. I don’t think the second half gets recognized
What are you even saying?? Those aren’t even “real” men. They aren’t “strong” enough to “handle” That kind of woman. (Sarcasm)
2:15
Why do we always get all these non answers from women. “Oh it’s different” “everybody is different” “it depends on the person”
Don't bring it to "youself" we are talking about in general, with stats and studies!!!! WHY DO THEY DO this!!!!
Women make the general personal...and the personal general
Why deal with facts, data and statistics when feelings and vibes will do
I say this all the time Kendra always cool when the women are bs but when men call with what she thinks is bs she gives them a extreme hard time
Why do they think marriage is about happiness. It's about family, legacy, commitment, If you want a family then having a family should make you happy. Building and growing those small humans is a joyful mission.
Can u make your participants stay on topic. Please
And it's annoying really
PLEASE! 😂
@@JCsteel10 and they speak in word salad. Makes no sense. She's so young though. Ignorance is bliss
They are black women. They have an innate ability to never be on topic.
It’s more like their super power. Accountability would be there kryptonite
Please have more educated people. Keep up the good work
Boo Boo here can’t even answer simple questions
Happiness is what you feel at the end of the week when you realize you did all the things you were supposed to do. Anyone who thinks vacations and expensive dinners makes you happy is a child.
One thing I’ve noticed since Kevin samuels blew up is women LOVEEEEE the exception and the rare. You tell them something’s 99.9% the case and they’ll always go “well you can’t forget about that 0.01%”. Lol smh
I would say it's Common and Loud at the same time. There's no one over the other.
Allot of women intentionally choose bad bcus the other girls want him or he fits the fantasy and they think they could change him. If they can't change they try to compromise with having their baby to try and trigger him to commit or to trap him so she at least has some form of attachment to him even if he rejects her. Making it Common
As far as Loud goes yes bcus of these movies *Tyler Cough Perry Cough" they at a young age start having their world corrupt on what Men actually are and can be. But then you have those other cases of the Woman got corrupted by a Female Family Member(s) (typically older and potentially very out there in the open) who destroy her chances of getting a man bcus they can't get past their hurt and they dump that Trauma onto another woman unintentionally and arguably more INTENTIONALLY. Prime example I can give is Jada Smith admitted on TV like a Dumbass her Grandma taught her at like 9 how to "Pleasure Herself" so she would know that's HER that did that bcus she didn't want Jada to think that A Man is who can do that or that a Man is the ONLY one who can do that. Which is why I've said for year's "Before a Man does anything to a Woman another Woman got to her First".
But then you have the other unique case of Women regardless of their background have never had any bad situations with a Man but bcus they're friends have or the Women they look up to have SHE AS THE WOMAN ADOPTS FAKE TRAUMA AS A MEANS TO FIT IN AND BE RELATABLE! This particular thing I've experienced first hand multiple times from girls I grew up with or knew for extended periods of time.
Women will defend women no matter when it comes to shaming. Women cheat they are out. Men cheat will stay to death.
They get taught in school that a man who wants to have order an structure is considered abuse
People want to believe the lie because it typically requires them to do less work.
I personally know 4 married women who have cheated on their husband's.
I know in the back of his mind he was just counting the grains of falling sand 🤦🏽♂️⏳cause ain’t no damn way I got the patience to chase ANY woman around these word salad pitfilled figure 8’s of thought which they’d call a mindful straightforward genuine conversation 😭🤣🤣 just throw the whole woman away and start fresh cause jeez
Black women, we see and hear yall not shaming other women's bad behaviors. That is to say behaviors that are not conducive to creating family units. And eventually more thriving black communities. We will not forget.
Listening to her talk...God hab Mercy!
THE SISTERHOOD IS STRONG. They will never turn on it
SHE WAS REASONABLE.
lmao okay
She spent the whole time dodging the questions and putting it back on men.
Every time she says "I feel like" he should say OBJECTION......Speculation!
@Mr. Obi, I see you brought all the smoke sir, lol. Great conversation once again, her little monologue at the end was dope, but the time frame she wants to give ( 5-10 years), needs to be faster. Younger women like her who's open to seeing things from a different perspective ( the man's perspective) will aid greatly in that. Us men also need to keep doing the work, level up, hold ourselves and our brothers accountable. Keep up the good work Allen.
She's definitely bought in to the BS! Not a critical thinker at all 🤦🏿
I like how in that small 10:50-11:12 she without knowingly admitted to question of being common or loud and essentially changed her answer to loud.
Men cannot expect or should not expect to be held with the same standard
Keep doing your thing brother! I'm still gonna do a reaction but I'm waiting for you to miss something - you just firing on all cylinders saying everything I would say lol
She’s, at least, willing to have the conversation, and that’s important.
24:45 that question and answer shows where we are in general. She admits we believe the lie due to entertainment!
I like when the interviewer posed the question “Who cheats more- men or women?” I love when most women do mental gymnastics to say men do the most cheating. Common sense would tell you clearly this is not the truth.
Black woman am sorry to say this, Black men do not DO NOT NEED OR WANT BLACK WOMAN TO PROTECT US! And THANK YOU!!
"I can only speak for myself.....I think everyone will get cheated on at least once!" Anytime women are interviewed where people will be watching, they spend most of the time trying to find the right way to say things to not make themselves look bad, or they constantly backtracking something they said when called out on it. I would love to hear a conversation between a group of women on hidden camera so we can actually here them speak the truth for once! 🤷🏾♂🤷🏾♂
And if Men want to insist that they are the head and should be "in charge" then they should also be ready to be held accountable, even more accountable than women, in so many situations
Instead of cheating, why not just end that relationship and go for who ever you want...why is it so hard?
Its cheaper to keep her
She is all over the place. You tried my guy. She is not on the save wave as you. "Some" "some" "some" damn!!!!!
"You have to acknowledge this happened"
Yeah, at 1%
"Yeah, but feelings and other useless points"
It always turns to a it depends on what if when it's time for women to hold themselves accountable
? About men YES NO
? About women well… it depends on the person!
Dancing around the question
It’s a sad state of reality. But let’s not give up hope in each other. There’s hope as long as we draw breath. But we have to embrace truth and accountability to further grow our community beyond 13.6% of America.
Man, this lady was painful to watch and listen to as she was all over the place it seemed to me and she seldom completed a complete thought or sentence.
We gotta stop starting sentences with ‘I feel like’ that’s the beginning of a dumb statement right there.
A great man once spoke ‘accountability is like kryptonite’ to women. It’s hard to have a real substantive convo when a party refuses to accept accountability.
Lack of a mother or father is horrible because there is no balance. If kid(s) are raised by one parent something is always missing internally. Especially if they haven't seen their parents problem solve together.
I would disagree, as the statistics show single fathers raise children who escape the school to prison pipeline and become contributing members of society.
Yeah but what the statistics don't show is some of these fathers raise their daughters to be masculine women as well.
She listens to Charlemagne.
Who doesn’t know what he’s talking about most of the time
this real life scenario is crazy
I think that when your world/societal views, when your core opinions, when your outlook on life is driven by social media, you’re way behind the curve. She asked how he gauges his stats on paternity fraud by saying “which platform are you looking at?” when there are actual, deliberate and focused studies on these topics. This is one reason why we continue to fail.
This man has a lot of patience
21:18 “were we ever really on it?” ……..ARE YOU FREAKING SERIOUS?!?!?!?!!!!! That’s half their problem they DON’T KNOW THEIR OWN HISTORY! Then she goes on to disagree as if she has a leg to stand on. Arguing the “color purple” narrative totally disrespecting our ancestors. My god this is arrested development at its best. She seriously thinks black men and women were never close at one point. This is sad!
Too many words, she's avoiding the truth and dancing around it. Less than 5 mins in convo..
ayyye s/o to the roomates!
If you are married, your husband can't just leave you high and dry. He would have to pay child support and he would have to pay alimony if he is the higher earner. This whole "strong independent black woman" thing is a losing argument
shes protecting the lie instinctually and dont even notice. theres your answer
I believe I felt more of what she was saying more than I understood what she was saying.
Women sure knows how to beat around the bush. It’s like they talk in codes for women only 🤦🏾♂️
She completely glossed over the fact he said fatherless children become FUTURE she did not want to hear any of that kind of talk about the new thug hero in my opinion
Men and Women are NOT the same. Men and Women are DIFFERENT. We think differently, we behave differently etc etc etc.
Can we just agree on this??
Damn this guy is good!! Lol
Yaw peep how when he asked, who do you believe cheats more?... She rambled and said "from what I've seen guys cheat more."
Then he goes, "So is that what you believe?.." Jammed her ass up wit dat one lol. Because the reality is they know what they do. I've been blessed with a few female associates/situationships/friends and maaaan listen... it ain't even close lol.
Dialoguing is so important. TH-cam has taken up the slack of higher education plus engaging various ages and various levels of education into the discussions.
The reason black women don’t say anything to their sons about bringing another woman around even though he has a girlfriend already is because She knows a man that can get women is better than the man who can’t. Just like the same reason most women chase men that can get plenty of women. He’s supposed to be able to explore options. It shows he’s top tier.
That was difficult to listen to..
She is all over the place.