This was a great conversation 👏🏾. Especially the comment she made about us normalizing toxic behavior . I never understood why society uplifts that. I’ve always naturally been peaceful and around late teenage early twenties years I found myself trying to “fit in” by trying to portray that “crazy” image when in reality all it shows is a lack of emotional intelligence! I’m glad I did the work on myself to love me for who I am and not what the mass uplifts.
It makes money. It simple to understand it from that aspect because for "US" it has always been about that. The whole USA makes money off of black folks. Everything from the entertainment industry to prison makes money of of black backs. I was like you also in my late teens, early twenties. Then I literally stopped giving a fuck and became my own island only letting in people that were worth a damn to me. This also included the things that I watched and listened to. Im 40 now with a beautiful wife and a son and we still hold that to be true for our household. It is great what you have learned on your journey and hopefully people that looking at you and need that help can use you as a guide to being better.
The US corporation is based on capitalism and commerce and the sooner ppl realize that they might be able to stop buying(Pun intended) into all the propaganda that allows them to thrive at the peoples expense because a stable and functioning family/community doesnt need govt..
Do a panel with the females that were interviewed. I would love to see the different personalities mesh and come to a concensus because the host called them out
That will never work. Notice all of the shows with BW, they usually get on code and all repeat the same talking points. They are not independent thinkers.
Good one! Her comment about looking forward to getting off work so she can cry was surprising but it made sense. Women enjoy expressing a wide range of emotions whereas men enjoy expressing a wide range of logic. It's nature for us
@@maljalcol for instance, doing thought experiments, thinking critically, sometimes pondering silly scenarios, seeking information that challenges us mentally or forces us to expand our minds are all ways we express a wide range of logic. Ex: "Do you think LeBron would have been better if he went to college?" Or "What does the black community need to do in order to improve?" Questions like these can easily be 2 hour discussions among men.
Bruh. Now women like this are the one's I can get behind. Please continue to have interviews with her. This was a great interview and well received. Great job. If you do a panel of women who were previously interviewed, make sure that she is on it. Great job.
As educated as our women proclaim to be, why are they excessively marketed to, and why are they sooo susceptible to marketing. Black women will buy anything to make them feel accepted with some group; weaves, contacts, cars, degrees, or all out body augmentation, all to be to be accepted. Meanwhile, their debts grow, health risk grow, mental wellness depletes, and their long term value to qualified dudes is diminished. For our women, no matter how consistently negative the outcome, the immediate attention/gratification is more important than the end result. And they dare a man to point it out to them.
At this point we as black men have to just say f#ck it and continue on the path of greatness and let black women figure it out on their own. Black men have been telling black women since the late 80s about how we were more attracted to them with less and since then they put on more and more to the point of it becoming life threatening.
I always find her transparency refreshing. I never wanted a woman with kids but after interacting with her and watching her grow she made me think twice. GAP SQUAD AND YELLA. 🤟🤟
Yeah ion kno about that one the interview was dope and all but let’s not put them super Simp suits on that’s still another man’s house at the end of the day💯
Bro, that's why she is a single mother...most of these black women channels that's catering to black men emotions. Sis Goddess: baby momma, Melanie King: divorced, single parent, Rivah: divorced, Courtney Michelle: baby momma, etc. don't buy into the delusion that their selling. If their love life is in turmoil how can they give advice on marriage in the black community? Make it make sense, women giving dating advice is like telling a blind man👩🦯 to drive in traffic
Great discussion, her honesty and self awareness is refreshing. The topic of why women enjoy emotional pain has or can probably make great doctoral theses.
from one brutha to another....Thesis...great comment tho. hope you not offended with the correction. I would rather any black man correct me then outsiders including some of our own women who may do it with ridicule and contempt.
@@wnttalk @IAmCourtneyMichelle - Great conversation. I'm a mid-50s corporate guy who has been on my education & career grind since the early 1990s. Upon graduation, I immediately got my Passport but am not a Passport Bro. I'm a BM who travels. I was raised in a 2 parent household where monogamy in relationships & marriage was taught & shown to us as living examples by our father & mother. His example was the one I chose to follow because a sound moral compass, character, & integrity in regards to the BM, BW, husband, wife, children structure & dynamic is most important to me. It sounds foreign to some people when I speak on how I've moved over the years & what is unacceptable behavior for me of BM & BW in relationships & marriage. I have D discipline. A wom@n who doesn't have P discipline is a Red Flag & a deal breaker for me.
Black folks think slavery had such a big impact on why black relationships and black people, in general, are in disarray, but slavery pales in comparison to telling black women they can be independent and "don't need no man". Pandoras box has been opened
That's apart of slavery and its aftermath, because putting black women in positions of power over black men started on those plantation fields and continued after it.
The opening to her view on her as a man, is kind of telling. None of the physical attributes she described other than having a 6 pack, are actually guarenteed. And in actuality she would statistically be a regular dude. 5'8" average build and looks and nobody checking for them. Her standards for men are reflective of her views on her as a man. Shit is crazy.
Exactly! As soon as I heard her give those descriptions, I was mind blown. And if she was a man, she’d have a 6 pack, however, in her current form as a women, she walking around with all that chub? Why would she be putting in all that extra work as a man, but not doing so as a woman? Come on now…..
I’m slightly confused at the pushback, he asked her what type of man she would be, I don’t know if it speaks to how she views men in her every day life. I’m curious to know if you were a woman how you would view yourself, would you view yourself as an average looking woman with a average body 5.5 or 5.4 dark skin ? I’m extremely curious to know what you would say if the rules are reverse ?
@@loulousworld92 Slightly tall 5'6-5'10"(tall genes 6'3") light skinned, probably above average looking. Have no idea, on body size, probably average to in-shape. But my point is that it is realistic observations or guesses. Her thoughts are shear fiction, most people are average. If you're average as a female, you will be average as a male. Difference is as an average dude things aren't as easy as compared to an average woman (dating, unreal expectations and so on.. )
15:30 "Attention"? The women who have on less clothing with get the wrong type of attention from men. The lady with the "pants & shirt" will attract quality. A man looking for kept women (for marriage) don't want the female who condition her mind to broadcast her body for clicks and likes.
I'll just post what I posted on the other video. Personally I don't think she is a chameleon or an actress. She isn't an April Mason, whose frustration with black women is that they are too aggressive and proud to be deceptive, manipulative and charming. She seems to be a person that is fighting her old nature in front of the many eyeballs of the internet. Growth is rarely a straight forward and linear line, it's messy and that's why It should take place in a quiet place. Struggles with old thought patterns don't up and vanish. The pain and sensitivity of being watched and critiqued as you understand your flaws and fight yourself isn't to be taken lightly. So, she WILL say things that are NOT correct or wise. She is a babe learning to talk properly, some of what she says WILL be gibberish, but she needs to say it to get correction and grow.
I never understood how a woman wants something they don’t offer. They all want a man with a six pack and they don’t or can’t offer one? That’s like a man saying he wants a woman with good long hair, no perm or weave needed. We get black listed asking for a fit woman
I think I missed the checklist on what kind of man I wanted to be. Her "male version of" her leans towards that "90 percent of women wants the top 10 percent of men" saying.
I just started listening but I thought what Michelle said at 3:45 was interesting. If she was a man she’d be power hungry. I think she’s saying that from the perspective of a woman. Dr. Warren Farrell often talks about men who loved to teach leaving teaching jobs to be a principal. They actually hated the paperwork filled job but did because of a growing family. In an old Dave Chappelle special he said, “If a man can f*** a woman in a cardboard box he wouldn’t buy a house.” Essentially what we’ve seen with women putting career first is that boys/men in general don’t focus on career, men usually make moves to fill a need. There are men who are just career driven and if you listen to Dr. Jordan Peterson talk about disagreeableness he usually ties that into the career driven men and says those are actually a small amount of men…the power driven. Essentially in books like “The Boy Crisis”, Dr. Farrell tries to figure out how to get boys from seeing themselves as the sacrificial lamb for women/the community and find other motivations. Most men don’t have that as much as women talk about the patriarchy, that’s literally a small percentage of men making those boss moves.
Black Men may LIKE the ‘Jessica Rabbit’s a MILLION times, yet #LilKim in ‘No Time’ video or #LaurynHill (both w/SHORT Natural un-dyed locs) makes US swoon forever. Women know it, but ignore the love we profess for that visage.
What she said about the Vice President and SCOTUS should not be overlooked. The bruthas at the barbershop didn't miss all of the sistas championing these two women and who they're married to... ijs
EXACTLY!!! We did not need to throw the baby out with the bathwater. There were some things that we needed to work on in the Black Community but, we were stronger then. That shit isn't debated.
Wow. I love her honesty and openness. I respect that. I think you're really onto something with this conversation. I hope there's a deeper follow up on this conversation's topics. More of this please. Powerful video.😎👍
People need to use their minds more and better. How can the Intellectual or Educated Class facilitate that? I think we need to do a better job of influencing the masses FOR OUR OWN SAKES if nothing else (since we live here with the masses). That's why I respect this channel, I think you're stepping up to do that. What else can we do? God Bless.
Courtney is thinking what her ideal male version of herself would be, not what her actual self would be. Just looking at her she definitely wouldn't have a six pack and thats not a knock just an observation, but he should have framed his question excluding ideals. Isnt funny how women get asked a serious question and go straight to fantasy answers.
Yeah. Unfortunately in these thought experiments, we usually gravitate towards the ideal. When we infuse the randomness of life that is when you get a flawed human, and that is all of us. If you are dealt a bad hand, your 6 pack and percing loose value. If you come up in an abusive environment, it messes your mental, etc. Those are the bounds that box in a real man. Now look out to the world as that man and then interpret his view. It's more difficult but more realistic.
Chaos delivers strong emotions. Peace doesn’t. It’s the difference between a vending machine and a slot machine. The reason people go back to slot machines even though they don’t pay off is the anticipation, excitement the energy from the possibility of the jackpot. The only emotions that a vending machine (peace) can give you is disappointment when you put in the money and nothing comes out.
If I were a black man; Id be the same as I am as a black woman: raised in a family with legacy & wealth, maintain an on-going relationship with my Creator, value life long education, and continually apply what I learn to my Spiritual & Earthly contracts and accounts for balance.
Honest question: if you were to meet that man version of you that you described, would you date or marry him considering he has your strengths but also all your faults?
Absolutely 💯 But Western Black Women or Women in general keep trying to make Monogamy be natural to Us.When it's not.It has never been.Never in the History of Planet Earth 🌏 or even even in other Galaxies.
Great convo. After she described the male version of herself as a physical specimen, Superman, I wish he asked her what she would do if she was was just an average looking man.
I think she was right about women not being interested in hearing progressive talk. When I look in comment sections there's a scant few women speaking up about their thoughts. When I look at reaction channels women only talk about things that don't undermine their message they don't look for truth only validation
Women love chaos bc they love that emotion roller-coaster. What's joy without pain? Why they take it as far as they do: seeking toxic partners, starting fights just to fight, etc.. idk. I think the guys who seek crazy women have a mother with similar tendencies. They saw crazy as kid and subconsciously related it to love. When he becomes an adult man he has to take responsibility to disassociate the two. The same for women.
@I Am Courtney Michelle in the last portion spoke about how white women burnt bras and black women followed them and that WW have a way of doing things but still needing their men. I think it is not always taken into consideration how large the US white population is. At 270 mill of the 330 mill population even if the amount of WW that take the feminist route match the entire BW population in total numbers which on some rough math is 22 mill, even not accounting for age distribution they still have a possibility 113 mill willing to "cooperate" with their men. At 76% of the population they can afford to lose 20% to feminism. AA losing 20% will be a much bigger hit.
By her own admission that monogamy isn’t natural for men if that man is handling his business it should be considered a woman’s responsibility to keep her man/husband satisfied sexually. Especially when it comes to marriage since that’s literally a form of male submission. Marriage puts all of that mans sex in that one woman’s control and one mess up can give that woman the power to ruin that man. Also women look for and prioritize misery in order to maintain their self victimization and the power that comes with that. Also looking for peace would require women to do the work and live up to the standards that come with that peace.
i don't entirely agree that a woman should be held solely responsible because in marriage there is faithfulness and fidelity and truthfulness so just because a wife isn't giving you sex doesn't mean you should go out and if you choose then let her know
@@legion1630 Agreed. To be clear, the husband is 100% responsible for staying loyal as well. But the reason I say that the wife is solely responsible is because her giving consent is required for her husband to be able to have sex and as a husband he’s not able to have sex with anyone else. So if the wife is saying no then what option does said husband have? To stay in a sexless relationship/marriage and just put up with being sexually frustrated? Again, to be clear I do agree with you when you say that the husband shouldn’t cheat and should leave. With that said, in a marriage leaving comes with a hefty price attached to it and women know this fully well. Which is why they often exploit the power they have over sex as a means of controlling their husbands. It is because of this power and the trust that we as men have to put in to our wives not to abuse it that I say women are responsible for keeping their husbands sexually satisfied so long as he’s handling his business
I love this woman. I wish I was everything she wants because I love her energy. At least the opportunity! For real though I am not there; so I will cheer her on.
I think women don't care to listen because it sounds too much like, "women should stay in their place", but in a nice way. The feminist in them is going to go against their own best interest to spite you.
Very astute observation about the image of our culture and how black women got caught up in the white woman’s fight for liberation (not needing a man).
@@urbanlady1. the problem is it was TELLING...it was very superficial and shallow and that's the problem how women pick men and get prego by a bum instead of a builder
@20:00 Because women relate more to not being happy. rarely do you hear music or individuals talking about how happy they are in a relationship/marriage. Negativity sells.
I'm gonna start reading books and observing the window, plus seeing the environment & landscapes more. They're great 🖼. Coz, how is the woman gonna get the validation when I'm not looking at her? I'm gonna be going more & more old school.
I’ve heard this from Courtney before and it’s always when she’s one on one with a man. I’m not saying she’s chameleon but, I am saying it’s hard to believe after seeing those hours long conversations on Lapeef, with other women on the panel. Where there’s a lot of long-winded round about answers and the need to be right shines like the North Star. Just my opinion
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle First am honored 🙏🏾 you read my post, let alone replying to it. To answer your question. No, you shouldn't be quiet. All am saying is had you possessed all these feminine qualities in your prime you'd be in a far much better place presently. Married to a HVM with multiple kids living the good life. That's all. Btw, I think you're drop dead gorgeous, a rare beauty. Otherwise, keep up the good work.
@Marie Baker you nor incels will EVER shut me up… however I do you respect your comment… And it does show… How some black men treat some black women that’s in their corner… I don’t focus on them… And I suggest you don’t either…be blessed tho 🦎
I feel woman go through break up like a period. When they get with someone they prepare them self for that break up period because they know it’s coming.
I don't think she's a chameleon but she is clever at taking what is handed to her. She understands that being a villain is profitable so if she can agitate before men and women all the better. Ms. Michelle knows how to hit the right buttons. She is not a product of feminist but more a creation of capitalism. She is a branding wiz and she using her portion of this multibillion dollar TH-cam/Instagram industry to her advantages. I can't hater her for giving the people what they want but I hope she is not confusing her presentation with passing knowledge or being educational or worst thinking that she is liberating minds! Nah, based on the first interview this isn't even edutainment, it pure Entertainment, that all, no more no less, or maybe its a sales pitch to direct more people to this circular argument that you can see on a lot of channels. Branding is all the rage and she is excellent at promoting her brand, she will even take a critique and spin it to her financial advantage. Again, no hate, I respect the player. My Humble Opinion.
@@elmagnifico1 Agreed, he says he's a Christian, too. 🤣🤣🤣 Honestly, Alpha male channels, Blackmanosphere, Blackwomenshpere, etc. are all pure marketing strategies for the black community to give to their patron accounts. But, some to most of our community do fall for these "business strategies" so my advice: watch it for entertainment value...it's downright hilarious 😂
When Courtney explains a topic or a situation, she uses two male voices/personalities: a middle aged hood guy 🧑🏾🦲 and an old sugar daddy 👴🏽 - personally that scares the shit out of me and pretty much explains a lot lol
That’s a good observation; usually those voices come out of her right before she says something that is problematic. People tend to excuse things they find funny.
I think she just expresses herself and as she should everyone should be able to have debates and challenge each other as long as it’s done diplomatically
I believe the competitive spirit is actually feminine. From a biblical standpoint, Adam was given a task and he most likely would have simply stuck to it. Eve was the one who wanted to compete with God for knowledge by eating the apple in order to "know" what God knows 🙏🏾🦋
Women should listen to women who are successful in life.. not money wise, but in chemistry, teamwork, cooperation, friendliness.... Ya listening to these hurt, broken, angry women.. and almost taking info from them and ya arent going to get anywhere!! 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Its one thing to have black girl power, use it for evil and still get ahead, but this power that black women "so called" have they use it for evil yet continually lose. At some point you would have to tell yourself, hey stop doing that, no?
Your pauses to the questions show you how men think. Men are logical which is the major reason why they take long to make decisions. It even get worse if they are not traditional meaning they don't fast like their ancestral home does; they don't follow their cultures calendar nor want to know their husbands culture tradition and source of spirituality.
She only described physical attributes. She didn't call him faithful, intelligent, loyal, considerate, honest, etc. I think about these things! But I like Courtney
I also subscribe to lapeef and she comes across alot better in your context than she does over there I still think she doesn't sound very confident with what she's saying which makes her feel disingenuous (fake) to me she does make good points tho
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This was a great conversation 👏🏾. Especially the comment she made about us normalizing toxic behavior . I never understood why society uplifts that. I’ve always naturally been peaceful and around late teenage early twenties years I found myself trying to “fit in” by trying to portray that “crazy” image when in reality all it shows is a lack of emotional intelligence! I’m glad I did the work on myself to love me for who I am and not what the mass uplifts.
It makes money. It simple to understand it from that aspect because for "US" it has always been about that. The whole USA makes money off of black folks. Everything from the entertainment industry to prison makes money of of black backs. I was like you also in my late teens, early twenties. Then I literally stopped giving a fuck and became my own island only letting in people that were worth a damn to me. This also included the things that I watched and listened to. Im 40 now with a beautiful wife and a son and we still hold that to be true for our household. It is great what you have learned on your journey and hopefully people that looking at you and need that help can use you as a guide to being better.
The US corporation is based on capitalism and commerce and the sooner ppl realize that they might be able to stop buying(Pun intended) into all the propaganda that allows them to thrive at the peoples expense because a stable and functioning family/community doesnt need govt..
It’s weird. It’s like they turned toxicity into something quirky and cool. Like a sexual attraction
Do a panel with the females that were interviewed. I would love to see the different personalities mesh and come to a concensus because the host called them out
That’s a great idea!
Go check out fresh and fit to see how a panel of women with different personalities handles being called out
I like this
One on one is the way to go. A group of women will try to over-talk, shift blame, and take cues from each other.
That will never work. Notice all of the shows with BW, they usually get on code and all repeat the same talking points. They are not independent thinkers.
Good one! Her comment about looking forward to getting off work so she can cry was surprising but it made sense. Women enjoy expressing a wide range of emotions whereas men enjoy expressing a wide range of logic. It's nature for us
What is a “wide range of logic”?
@@maljalcol for instance, doing thought experiments, thinking critically, sometimes pondering silly scenarios, seeking information that challenges us mentally or forces us to expand our minds are all ways we express a wide range of logic.
Ex: "Do you think LeBron would have been better if he went to college?" Or "What does the black community need to do in order to improve?" Questions like these can easily be 2 hour discussions among men.
@@maljalcol like reading books ,walking paths or doing missions on ps4 games
Bruh. Now women like this are the one's I can get behind. Please continue to have interviews with her. This was a great interview and well received. Great job. If you do a panel of women who were previously interviewed, make sure that she is on it. Great job.
She's fake. So go-ahead 😂😂😂😂
As educated as our women proclaim to be, why are they excessively marketed to, and why are they sooo susceptible to marketing.
Black women will buy anything to make them feel accepted with some group; weaves, contacts, cars, degrees, or all out body augmentation, all to be to be accepted. Meanwhile, their debts grow, health risk grow, mental wellness depletes, and their long term value to qualified dudes is diminished.
For our women, no matter how consistently negative the outcome, the immediate attention/gratification is more important than the end result. And they dare a man to point it out to them.
At this point we as black men have to just say f#ck it and continue on the path of greatness and let black women figure it out on their own. Black men have been telling black women since the late 80s about how we were more attracted to them with less and since then they put on more and more to the point of it becoming life threatening.
I liking Courtney again she really is trying to help the culture
they just talk it bruh they dont actually live it
Don't let those words fool you lmao
@@MacTonight-i9v ...and l won't
allow your scepticism to fool me!
Mannnnn this Man is a Damn interrogator with his questions on a Jedi level. Serious amazing ability to follow up on answers
This woman is dropping some 💎 💎's. Much Love 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Shoutout to the people in the chat that can read between the lines .
I always find her transparency refreshing. I never wanted a woman with kids but after interacting with her and watching her grow she made me think twice. GAP SQUAD AND YELLA. 🤟🤟
Still a no for me..but Courtney kept it real during this interview.
Yeah ion kno about that one the interview was dope and all but let’s not put them super Simp suits on that’s still another man’s house at the end of the day💯
Love her answers, especially the generational description of the father's removal from leadership within the homes.
The type of black man she would be is tall, dark, 6 pack, and get all the women. I give up.
Bro, that's why she is a single mother...most of these black women channels that's catering to black men emotions. Sis Goddess: baby momma, Melanie King: divorced, single parent, Rivah: divorced, Courtney Michelle: baby momma, etc. don't buy into the delusion that their selling. If their love life is in turmoil how can they give advice on marriage in the black community? Make it make sense, women giving dating advice is like telling a blind man👩🦯 to drive in traffic
Lol You see this kind of Shit Man? Lol SMDH!
Amazing conversation . Great questioning and better responses
I always enjoy listening to this woman's thoughts.
I always love that first question, it really gives you insight on how women view men!
Courtney dropped some serious gems on this one. Spot on!
Great discussion, her honesty and self awareness is refreshing. The topic of why women enjoy emotional pain has or can probably make great doctoral theses.
I said the same thing bro🙌🏾🙌🏾
from one brutha to another....Thesis...great comment tho. hope you not offended with the correction. I would rather any black man correct me then outsiders including some of our own women who may do it with ridicule and contempt.
@@jaydub8596 Absolutely bro! I feel the same way about correction✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
@@wnttalk @IAmCourtneyMichelle - Great conversation. I'm a mid-50s corporate guy who has been on my education & career grind since the early 1990s. Upon graduation, I immediately got my Passport but am not a Passport Bro. I'm a BM who travels. I was raised in a 2 parent household where monogamy in relationships & marriage was taught & shown to us as living examples by our father & mother. His example was the one I chose to follow because a sound moral compass, character, & integrity in regards to the BM, BW, husband, wife, children structure & dynamic is most important to me. It sounds foreign to some people when I speak on how I've moved over the years & what is unacceptable behavior for me of BM & BW in relationships & marriage. I have D discipline. A wom@n who doesn't have P discipline is a Red Flag & a deal breaker for me.
Black folks think slavery had such a big impact on why black relationships and black people, in general, are in disarray, but slavery pales in comparison to telling black women they can be independent and "don't need no man". Pandoras box has been opened
Yup it’s the same ol narrative but nobody forces you to sleep with the men that YOU CHOOSE.
Sad thing is no other race behaves like that..white women don't think that..Asian women don't think that..African women don't think that
That's apart of slavery and its aftermath, because putting black women in positions of power over black men started on those plantation fields and continued after it.
The opening to her view on her as a man, is kind of telling. None of the physical attributes she described other than having a 6 pack, are actually guarenteed. And in actuality she would statistically be a regular dude. 5'8" average build and looks and nobody checking for them. Her standards for men are reflective of her views on her as a man. Shit is crazy.
Exactly what i said, that was the most unrealistic description of a man I’ve heard ever.
Exactly! As soon as I heard her give those descriptions, I was mind blown. And if she was a man, she’d have a 6 pack, however, in her current form as a women, she walking around with all that chub? Why would she be putting in all that extra work as a man, but not doing so as a woman? Come on now…..
I’m slightly confused at the pushback, he asked her what type of man she would be, I don’t know if it speaks to how she views men in her every day life.
I’m curious to know if you were a woman how you would view yourself, would you view yourself as an average looking woman with a average body 5.5 or 5.4 dark skin ?
I’m extremely curious to know what you would say if the rules are reverse ?
@@loulousworld92 Slightly tall 5'6-5'10"(tall genes 6'3") light skinned, probably above average looking. Have no idea, on body size, probably average to in-shape. But my point is that it is realistic observations or guesses. Her thoughts are shear fiction, most people are average. If you're average as a female, you will be average as a male. Difference is as an average dude things aren't as easy as compared to an average woman (dating, unreal expectations and so on.. )
To be fair, he asked her what kind of male superhero she would be.
15:30 "Attention"? The women who have on less clothing with get the wrong type of attention from men. The lady with the "pants & shirt" will attract quality. A man looking for kept women (for marriage) don't want the female who condition her mind to broadcast her body for clicks and likes.
Thoughtful conversation. Enjoyed it.
As usual a solid set of questions as usual and most of the answers I can get with.
I'll just post what I posted on the other video. Personally I don't think she is a chameleon or an actress. She isn't an April Mason, whose frustration with black women is that they are too aggressive and proud to be deceptive, manipulative and charming.
She seems to be a person that is fighting her old nature in front of the many eyeballs of the internet. Growth is rarely a straight forward and linear line, it's messy and that's why It should take place in a quiet place. Struggles with old thought patterns don't up and vanish. The pain and sensitivity of being watched and critiqued as you understand your flaws and fight yourself isn't to be taken lightly. So, she WILL say things that are NOT correct or wise. She is a babe learning to talk properly, some of what she says WILL be gibberish, but she needs to say it to get correction and grow.
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this is by far the most accurate assessment I've seen on her. I completely concur.
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle Salute to you sister and keep growing
This is beautiful, thanks for taking the time out to write this 💕
@@bitchdontplaywitme4798 Thank you for even commenting… I appreciate you
I love Courtney more after listening to the both interviews.
Wow! This was powerful! Keep up the hard work!
I never understood how a woman wants something they don’t offer. They all want a man with a six pack and they don’t or can’t offer one? That’s like a man saying he wants a woman with good long hair, no perm or weave needed. We get black listed asking for a fit woman
That's The down side of Women.
I think I missed the checklist on what kind of man I wanted to be. Her "male version of" her leans towards that "90 percent of women wants the top 10 percent of men" saying.
She described a SUPERHERO 🤣🤣🤣
I just started listening but I thought what Michelle said at 3:45 was interesting. If she was a man she’d be power hungry. I think she’s saying that from the perspective of a woman. Dr. Warren Farrell often talks about men who loved to teach leaving teaching jobs to be a principal. They actually hated the paperwork filled job but did because of a growing family. In an old Dave Chappelle special he said, “If a man can f*** a woman in a cardboard box he wouldn’t buy a house.” Essentially what we’ve seen with women putting career first is that boys/men in general don’t focus on career, men usually make moves to fill a need. There are men who are just career driven and if you listen to Dr. Jordan Peterson talk about disagreeableness he usually ties that into the career driven men and says those are actually a small amount of men…the power driven. Essentially in books like “The Boy Crisis”, Dr. Farrell tries to figure out how to get boys from seeing themselves as the sacrificial lamb for women/the community and find other motivations. Most men don’t have that as much as women talk about the patriarchy, that’s literally a small percentage of men making those boss moves.
Black Men may LIKE the ‘Jessica Rabbit’s a MILLION times, yet #LilKim in ‘No Time’ video or #LaurynHill (both w/SHORT Natural un-dyed locs) makes US swoon forever. Women know it, but ignore the love we profess for that visage.
What she said about the Vice President and SCOTUS should not be overlooked. The bruthas at the barbershop didn't miss all of the sistas championing these two women and who they're married to... ijs
History has shown what works best. Elders molding the young. Men and women. Family is the only way to fix this.
EXACTLY!!! We did not need to throw the baby out with the bathwater. There were some things that we needed to work on in the Black Community but, we were stronger then. That shit isn't debated.
Wow. I love her honesty and openness. I respect that. I think you're really onto something with this conversation. I hope there's a deeper follow up on this conversation's topics. More of this please. Powerful video.😎👍
People need to use their minds more and better. How can the Intellectual or Educated Class facilitate that? I think we need to do a better job of influencing the masses FOR OUR OWN SAKES if nothing else (since we live here with the masses). That's why I respect this channel, I think you're stepping up to do that. What else can we do? God Bless.
@@lsporter88 do you think the masses of Black people aren’t educated?
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle Many aren't , and I don't mean going to University, but having a well developed Mind like you have. But that can change.
I think the question should be is " why are these women in pain"?
Self inflicted wounds
@ 35:08 ...man I would love a penny for her raw thoughts in this moment! That's what you call a loud silence.
Courtney is thinking what her ideal male version of herself would be, not what her actual self would be. Just looking at her she definitely wouldn't have a six pack and thats not a knock just an observation, but he should have framed his question excluding ideals. Isnt funny how women get asked a serious question and go straight to fantasy answers.
Yeah. Unfortunately in these thought experiments, we usually gravitate towards the ideal. When we infuse the randomness of life that is when you get a flawed human, and that is all of us. If you are dealt a bad hand, your 6 pack and percing loose value. If you come up in an abusive environment, it messes your mental, etc. Those are the bounds that box in a real man. Now look out to the world as that man and then interpret his view. It's more difficult but more realistic.
Don’t no real man on his grind want the crazy shit..
Chaos delivers strong emotions. Peace doesn’t. It’s the difference between a vending machine and a slot machine. The reason people go back to slot machines even though they don’t pay off is the anticipation, excitement the energy from the possibility of the jackpot. The only emotions that a vending machine (peace) can give you is disappointment when you put in the money and nothing comes out.
If I were a black man; Id be the same as I am as a black woman: raised in a family with legacy & wealth, maintain an on-going relationship with my Creator, value life long education, and continually apply what I learn to my Spiritual & Earthly contracts and accounts for balance.
Honest question: if you were to meet that man version of you that you described, would you date or marry him considering he has your strengths but also all your faults?
I was legally married for 32 yrs, so absolutely, and Im still open for serious commitments - just not legal marriage.
I beg to differ
Thank God for Kevin Samuels.
Monogamy will never be natural to men…it’s just the most practical….for some.
Absolutely 💯 But Western Black Women or Women in general keep trying to make Monogamy be natural to Us.When it's not.It has never been.Never in the History of Planet Earth 🌏 or even even in other Galaxies.
This was honest, brutal at times and gave me renewed hope for the culture.
You ask the best questions sir…!!!
Great convo. After she described the male version of herself as a physical specimen, Superman, I wish he asked her what she would do if she was was just an average looking man.
I wish we had MORE women like Courtney
Chameleons?
@@22ccb walking contradiction
hell no
Hell no
I think she was right about women not being interested in hearing progressive talk. When I look in comment sections there's a scant few women speaking up about their thoughts. When I look at reaction channels women only talk about things that don't undermine their message they don't look for truth only validation
Women love chaos bc they love that emotion roller-coaster. What's joy without pain? Why they take it as far as they do: seeking toxic partners, starting fights just to fight, etc.. idk. I think the guys who seek crazy women have a mother with similar tendencies. They saw crazy as kid and subconsciously related it to love. When he becomes an adult man he has to take responsibility to disassociate the two. The same for women.
@I Am Courtney Michelle in the last portion spoke about how white women burnt bras and black women followed them and that WW have a way of doing things but still needing their men. I think it is not always taken into consideration how large the US white population is. At 270 mill of the 330 mill population even if the amount of WW that take the feminist route match the entire BW population in total numbers which on some rough math is 22 mill, even not accounting for age distribution they still have a possibility 113 mill willing to "cooperate" with their men. At 76% of the population they can afford to lose 20% to feminism. AA losing 20% will be a much bigger hit.
By her own admission that monogamy isn’t natural for men if that man is handling his business it should be considered a woman’s responsibility to keep her man/husband satisfied sexually. Especially when it comes to marriage since that’s literally a form of male submission. Marriage puts all of that mans sex in that one woman’s control and one mess up can give that woman the power to ruin that man.
Also women look for and prioritize misery in order to maintain their self victimization and the power that comes with that. Also looking for peace would require women to do the work and live up to the standards that come with that peace.
i don't entirely agree that a woman should be held solely responsible because in marriage there is faithfulness and fidelity and truthfulness so just because a wife isn't giving you sex doesn't mean you should go out and if you choose then let her know
IMO, I don’t believe infidelity is about satisfaction or lack thereof. It’s about variety.
@@legion1630 Agreed. To be clear, the husband is 100% responsible for staying loyal as well. But the reason I say that the wife is solely responsible is because her giving consent is required for her husband to be able to have sex and as a husband he’s not able to have sex with anyone else. So if the wife is saying no then what option does said husband have? To stay in a sexless relationship/marriage and just put up with being sexually frustrated? Again, to be clear I do agree with you when you say that the husband shouldn’t cheat and should leave. With that said, in a marriage leaving comes with a hefty price attached to it and women know this fully well. Which is why they often exploit the power they have over sex as a means of controlling their husbands. It is because of this power and the trust that we as men have to put in to our wives not to abuse it that I say women are responsible for keeping their husbands sexually satisfied so long as he’s handling his business
I told a black woman years ago I cannot listen to singers like Mary J bilge because It’s too much sadness and she didn’t look happy to hear that.
Mary J is a mean ass bia in person that’s why black women love her and that’s why they’re single like her!
I love this woman. I wish I was everything she wants because I love her energy. At least the opportunity! For real though I am not there; so I will cheer her on.
For those that love CRAZY and TOXICITY, I hope that you find it. I'll keep what my wife and I have built for over 21 years. That's stupid to me.
Why do women never know any real challenges or problems in life a man has?
Probably cuz they're not men
They simply just don't care.Majority of Them that is.
Ur discussion skills are phenomenal
I think women don't care to listen because it sounds too much like, "women should stay in their place", but in a nice way. The feminist in them is going to go against their own best interest to spite you.
She has great insight
Very astute observation about the image of our culture and how black women got caught up in the white woman’s fight for liberation (not needing a man).
Her description of a man is so UNREALISTIC. But, she’s a woman so I understand, still unrealistic nonetheless
@@urbanlady1. either way it’s ridiculous
So if you were asked to create the woman you would be .. would you describe Lizzo or Beyoncé 🤔
@@urbanlady1. the problem is it was TELLING...it was very superficial and shallow and that's the problem how women pick men and get prego by a bum instead of a builder
Her description as a superhero yeah it really is Fantastic though but the whole scenario is fantasy
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle i like lizzo🤷🏾♂️
Women are attracted to power, women watch other women with power to emulate them
@20:00 Because women relate more to not being happy. rarely do you hear music or individuals talking about how happy they are in a relationship/marriage. Negativity sells.
Courtney Tryin but yeah CHAMELEONAIRE is accurate
You see me Rolling … They HATIN 🎶🎶
Definitely a chameleon💯
This was a fairly long clip and I was upset when it ended.
This woman is so smart and refreshing.. I nominate her to be the leader of The Black Female Delegation.
Sensitive people paired with logical people is a rough pairing. Especially if there is no concession.
I agree, I also think that she is discounting/holding herself back by not walking in her fullness by trying to stay in the "traditional" gender roles.
Listen to Rapsody she is definitely the opposite of modern women rappers
Greetings from North Carolina!
I'm gonna start reading books and observing the window, plus seeing the environment & landscapes more. They're great 🖼. Coz, how is the woman gonna get the validation when I'm not looking at her? I'm gonna be going more & more old school.
Great Follow Up 🆙 and she is on of the realest in this space
😂
I respect her honesty but accountability is the answer to everything
I’ve heard this from Courtney before and it’s always when she’s one on one with a man. I’m not saying she’s chameleon but, I am saying it’s hard to believe after seeing those hours long conversations on Lapeef, with other women on the panel. Where there’s a lot of long-winded round about answers and the need to be right shines like the North Star. Just my opinion
Yaaas my girl Court
Preach it.
Her mindset is making her more attractive, damn 😍😍😍
Love her! She exudes femininity, friendliness and serenity
I was thinking same.
Very true. Sad thing she's like 15 years late with her conversion.
@@mfalmekali so I should be silent ?
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle First am honored 🙏🏾 you read my post, let alone replying to it.
To answer your question. No, you shouldn't be quiet. All am saying is had you possessed all these feminine qualities in your prime you'd be in a far much better place presently. Married to a HVM with multiple kids living the good life. That's all.
Btw, I think you're drop dead gorgeous, a rare beauty.
Otherwise, keep up the good work.
@Marie Baker you nor incels will EVER shut me up… however I do you respect your comment… And it does show… How some black men treat some black women that’s in their corner… I don’t focus on them… And I suggest you don’t either…be blessed tho 🦎
Older women should be coaching the young.
Older woman did coach the young. They been raising the kids for the past 2-3 generations
I feel woman go through break up like a period. When they get with someone they prepare them self for that break up period because they know it’s coming.
I don't think she's a chameleon but she is clever at taking what is handed to her. She understands that being a villain is profitable so if she can agitate before men and women all the better. Ms. Michelle knows how to hit the right buttons. She is not a product of feminist but more a creation of capitalism. She is a branding wiz and she using her portion of this multibillion dollar TH-cam/Instagram industry to her advantages. I can't hater her for giving the people what they want but I hope she is not confusing her presentation with passing knowledge or being educational or worst thinking that she is liberating minds! Nah, based on the first interview this isn't even edutainment, it pure Entertainment, that all, no more no less, or maybe its a sales pitch to direct more people to this circular argument that you can see on a lot of channels.
Branding is all the rage and she is excellent at promoting her brand, she will even take a critique and spin it to her financial advantage. Again, no hate, I respect the player. My Humble Opinion.
All that verbage is just a definition of being a phony chameleon. Peace.
The fact that Kevin samuels does the same thing while leveraging the so called black community as his “honorable cause” is even funnier.
😂(joker laugh)
@@elmagnifico1 Agreed, he says he's a Christian, too. 🤣🤣🤣 Honestly, Alpha male channels, Blackmanosphere, Blackwomenshpere, etc. are all pure marketing strategies for the black community to give to their patron accounts. But, some to most of our community do fall for these "business strategies" so my advice: watch it for entertainment value...it's downright hilarious 😂
When Courtney explains a topic or a situation, she uses two male voices/personalities: a middle aged hood guy 🧑🏾🦲 and an old sugar daddy 👴🏽 - personally that scares the shit out of me and pretty much explains a lot lol
😂😂 don’t be scurred
@@IAmCourtneyMichelle smh lol
That’s a good observation; usually those voices come out of her right before she says something that is problematic. People tend to excuse things they find funny.
Ameera
go Courtney
#teamcourtny!
She came around. I watched her on this other show. She was a little bit combative. A necessary conversation to be had.
I'm betting it was the Lapeef channel huh?
There you go. Yup.
She’s still the same.
I think she just expresses herself and as she should everyone should be able to have debates and challenge each other as long as it’s done diplomatically
Weird conversation usually I like the question this guy asks, how did he not focus in on the Superhero stuff like is she insane?
I believe the competitive spirit is actually feminine. From a biblical standpoint, Adam was given a task and he most likely would have simply stuck to it. Eve was the one who wanted to compete with God for knowledge by eating the apple in order to "know" what God knows 🙏🏾🦋
This woman is beautiful. She's not bad to look at either.
Women should listen to women who are successful in life.. not money wise, but in chemistry, teamwork, cooperation, friendliness....
Ya listening to these hurt, broken, angry women.. and almost taking info from them and ya arent going to get anywhere!! 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Spirit fingers teaching is strong lol. Bad teaching for success and to be special made them all the same lol
well said! 💯
Its one thing to have black girl power, use it for evil and still get ahead, but this power that black women "so called" have they use it for evil yet continually lose. At some point you would have to tell yourself, hey stop doing that, no?
I am Courtney's amazing at conversation, attractive, relatable, agreeable. Hope she gets out of the single life.
This lady is a true gem!!!!!!!!!
She seems cool asf
Women have the hardest time understanding the difference between like and lust.
Your pauses to the questions show you how men think. Men are logical which is the major reason why they take long to make decisions. It even get worse if they are not traditional meaning they don't fast like their ancestral home does; they don't follow their cultures calendar nor want to know their husbands culture tradition and source of spirituality.
Quarrelling in marriage only comes when the mind of both sex are not learning and sharing especially trending business ideals in a very busy world.
Courtney it really is hard to block em all😂😂😂😂😏😎
She use to get on my last nerve. But her new found honest is refreshing and appealing.
When you forget to trace your tradition as a black woman or man, knowledge will elude you or you will learn the wrong subject and be hooked to money.
She only described physical attributes. She didn't call him faithful, intelligent, loyal, considerate, honest, etc. I think about these things! But I like Courtney
She's mad cute. anyway I enjoy her better like this, than the kind of energy that is drawn out of her on lapeef
I also subscribe to lapeef and she comes across alot better in your context than she does over there I still think she doesn't sound very confident with what she's saying which makes her feel disingenuous (fake) to me she does make good points tho
The Sista was great 🙏🏿
Hello Courtney