Classic Divorce Court: My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy

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    Erica says Dwight is trying to enlist in the military, so this is the time for them to decide if they should take their relationship to the next level, or move on. Erica loves Dwight. She feels like he is a very nice guy, a little too nice sometimes for her taste. Erica says Dwight cares more about what his family thinks than what she thinks. She also feels Dwight is too passive in their relationship and she is tired of always having to wear the pants. Dwight says whenever he tries to be more aggressive, Erica shoots him down! Dwight says he doesn’t want to ruffle feathers with his family, so he says what he needs to, in order to pacify them. .
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  • @cam4short
    @cam4short 4 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    The joint bank accounts, without being married, stressed me out so bad. 😭🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @genasisenterprises9956
      @genasisenterprises9956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Kam. Howell I was married for 6 months before we joined our money. 😂

    • @edithgoliatha3967
      @edithgoliatha3967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah... I would do that either.

    • @sexypeach1891
      @sexypeach1891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At least they don’t have kids yet

    • @Biznessbestie
      @Biznessbestie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I'm not interested in that

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My ex husband and I still share an account that we established before we got married. It's how he gives me money for our kids since we decided not to go through the court 🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @SiimplyAngie7088
    @SiimplyAngie7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Just bcuz a man quite and shy doesn’t mean he’s gay ppl STOP with the critique...worry about SELF❌❌

    • @dorisharrer4857
      @dorisharrer4857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏

    • @Sixdawg06
      @Sixdawg06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Also just because a man refuses a women doesn’t mean he’s gay either.

    • @alexdolye9717
      @alexdolye9717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't know a quiet or shy gay person, so I don't know where they got that from plus
      We are far stronger and resilient than the regular person because we endure more on a daily basis. Fucking imbeciles

    • @PanoramicView-o5p
      @PanoramicView-o5p ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah it hurts me if a man seems a certain way they think they're gay or if a man doesn't do something for a woman at a certain point they think the man is gay give me a break seriously anything everything means a man is gay and is really irritating that in today's society men can't catch a break it seems like nowadays men have to prove that they're not gay by being hard and tough and mean and all that stuff when this man right here is just an introvert and doesn't want conflict I don't really like sharing a lot of things that bother me but I try to learn how to you know step out of my comfort zone and do that because I have a boyfriend my boyfriend he's an extrovert he's you know always all out there being allowed and all that stuff me I'm looking at him like why are you doing that when I need to remember like that's just how he is and he accepts me for how quiet and shy I can be sometimes around crowds so this man right here he's just you know an introvert and doesn't want to share a lot of things this woman is trying to force him to do certain things that he's not comfortable with I think they shouldn't get married

  • @shelocsher2396
    @shelocsher2396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Poor man’s probably wanted to break up for years, but he’s staying to avoid confrontation 🥴😂

  • @ralstonk1579
    @ralstonk1579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +681

    I dislike how easily some people put his sexuality into question. He doesn’t come across as gay, he comes across as sheltered and conservative... maybe a little socially awkward too but I don’t see gay.

    • @MrJbee73
      @MrJbee73 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes I don't agree with the commenters I don't believe he is gay

    • @katkelly5572
      @katkelly5572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You needs glasses then

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree!

    • @coriesmith2633
      @coriesmith2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I didn’t get a gay vibe

    • @ItsACTION386
      @ItsACTION386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Right.why would he be gay and hide her? Wouldn’t he hide a man from his conservative family? He just really sheltered and knows shacking with her/ mooching off her is wrong

  • @dowardwashington9958
    @dowardwashington9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    I often feel like if a man denies you in front of his family he really doesn't love you.

    • @coffeladee3805
      @coffeladee3805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It shows he has more respect and love for his family than he does towards her. If she continues the relationship with him, he will NEVER stand up for her. Respect for family will always be his first priority.

    • @Opinions-galore24
      @Opinions-galore24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Coffeladee AMEN

    • @mr.marseille8429
      @mr.marseille8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has to be lovable for anyone to love her

    • @nayobegomez2619
      @nayobegomez2619 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was a very hard pill to swallow that he would not want to let his family know they were together. That definitely tells me he doesn't love her

  • @jccanteen
    @jccanteen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I’ve got to be honest... I love DC. But if you’re on this show questioning whether you should get married, the answer’s NO!

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jaye Cann HELL NO. To me, asking means, you know this, but want somebody else to be the villain. She right about him not being assertive, he should’ve just told her marriage is not a good idea for us.

    • @sevenheaven3992
      @sevenheaven3992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They are just asking advice. It's just like when people go to marriage counseling before marriage and people who go after marriage to save the marriage. I guess it's like they love each other, nobody is perfect and they have issues that they know they want to fix. Then it's this other side of me that agrees with you. It depends on the couple. People don't understand how serious marriage should be. It should be a bond against all other things. Also I haven't even watched this episode completely yet.

    • @landinashley
      @landinashley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People go to pre marital counseling all the time.

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      In my opinion, I think that it's a good idea to have an outside party weigh in, especially because they're so young. His family has made him question everything he says, does and thinks! Can't raise young men this way!

  • @MsKizzy23
    @MsKizzy23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    She’s not the one. He loves her but he’s not in love with her.

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      3165dwayne I believe it’s just they are not compatible. There is nothing really conservative about her, and there never will be. They will learn a lot about themselves by being together, but I don’t think their relationship will last.

    • @RondaDM
      @RondaDM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @kizzy kizzy - did u see the smile in his eyes when the judge said "don't do it"?? The young woman was frowning lol... he was not sure about marriage and I think the Armed-Service's is his way of escape. And nothing's wrong with him he's just a quiet, modest individual, the truth is they're just not each other's "type".

    • @alamgirkabir1833
      @alamgirkabir1833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @kizzy kizzy, you explained exactly.

  • @GabeRozier
    @GabeRozier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Nine times outta ten, the pedestrian has the right of way if they’re at the crosswalk ma’am 😐

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      GabeRozier They were NOT at a crosswalk. They were coming out of a grocery store. A pedestrian only has the right away if they are in the crosswalk or in the path of a vehicle. They can’t just walk out in front of you, and expect you to stop, which was her case. I have had the same thing happen to me, and I didn’t stop either.

    • @Kierraburch25
      @Kierraburch25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@charlesanderson1422 exactly

    • @sashawd9722
      @sashawd9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@charlesanderson1422 Pedestrians always have the right of way. There is no right or wrong about it. She is immature and needs to lose her license. Seriously she needs to lose her license.

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sashawd9722 don’t ever try that in California. If you are not in a cross walk, or a stated crossing point, you are jaywalking and you no longer have the right of way. That’s why jaywalking is illegal.

    • @tarshiabaker4987
      @tarshiabaker4987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not if it obstruct on coming traffic what if you were behind her car and ppl just walk out in front and slam on breaks then boom accident because a arrogant person expect you to stop

  • @sttaylor1008
    @sttaylor1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I watched this and not once did I think he was gay. I believe he just don't like confrontations and unnecessary drama. Hence him not getting out of the car, him not telling his family about her (that's him hearing their opinions) and him not standing up to his family about the purchase of the car.
    *Ppl need to get out more and realize there's a plethora of different personalities.* Which their sexuality shouldn't be questioned because of them. He's has some developing to do....& understand the concept of being grown!

    • @sevenheaven3992
      @sevenheaven3992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Tell it girl!! Nothing saids gay at all. I bet he just had really strict parents

    • @mikam2991
      @mikam2991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree

    • @chickenpastazann8618
      @chickenpastazann8618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did not tell his family red flag

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    You need to marry the person who is already who you want, not the person who needs to change.

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lauren Kindred Amen. Simple. This guy is looking for excuses, if marriage is a goal, you don’t waste time waiting for someone to change, you find the person who meets your needs. The military will be a shock to him, because what he doesn’t realize is he is NOT what the Army wants, and he will have to change, and the Drill Sargents will CHANGE him, or send his ass home. If she is not quite the person he wants, let her go, and find someone more to his liking.

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lauren Kindred BEST ANSWER!

    • @dowardwashington9958
      @dowardwashington9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very true. It's futile to buy a Honda and expect it to become a Mercedes.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @3165dwayne true. But she thinks she can make a mountain out of that ant hill. Once he gets bulked up and Bullwinkled he wouldn't want her any more. Moreover she wouldn't want him either because she wouldn't have a fixer-upper anymore.

    • @reneewheaton6253
      @reneewheaton6253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asabifatosin1150
      Yes, Yes and Yessssss!!!!! Best answer so far. He lets his family run him and he knew that she wasn’t up to par and on their level, so that’s why he wouldn’t take her around them. No the military is definitely not for him, he’ll be crying for this girl to come rescue him after he gets in the service.

  • @paulkerrick9541
    @paulkerrick9541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I think judge Toller's advice to these couples is so spot on that I wish she could advise every couple getting married before they jump the broom. She's a treasure.

  • @FavDogBisquit
    @FavDogBisquit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Should have just been Best friends

    • @rickyhughes3788
      @rickyhughes3788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True hard to find

    • @dowardwashington9958
      @dowardwashington9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, I often feel like sometimes 2 people know each other to well.

  • @ashtonb2494
    @ashtonb2494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    He’s such a cool dude. We served together 💪🏽

    • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
      @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Whatever happened to him? Do you know if he ever found the one?

    • @Mentagasm
      @Mentagasm ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah i wanna know what happened to him and them as a couple

    • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
      @user-iv1yi6cz7o ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did they get married?

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    She emasculates him by trying to force him to be outspoken and aggressive. His version of being assertive isn't to her expectation.

    • @sashawd9722
      @sashawd9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Maybe she got that way because he refused to man up and be assertive.

    • @JeNn0mic0n
      @JeNn0mic0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sashawd9722 Or she got that way because she was raised by a bunch of loud, angry women and wants him to be that way too 🤔

  • @SiimplyAngie7088
    @SiimplyAngie7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Girl....stop playing house ...all this joint banking STOP IT even married couples don’t bank together STOP PLAYING HOUSE ❌❌

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lots of people have joint accounts say for bill payments and also hold their own account its a briiant idea

  • @janea814
    @janea814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    I don’t think he’s gay I think he’s a introvert. It’s a vibe. He seems to shrink even in front of Judge Toler. He doesn’t like to share anything, info, money etc. He has a introverted personality. I think it’s due to his family being overbearing probably even his whole life. He’s grown and he lets his family push him to do things yet he wants his gf to listen but doesn’t even stand up for his gf nor himself.

    • @shenix4823
      @shenix4823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Janea Facts. I can’t find a lie 🧐🔭🔬

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @3165dwayne 👍🏾

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People are so used to the gangsta type of men, that they call ''gay'' every man that doesn't fit that category. I get no fruity vibe from him. Only an introvert one.

    • @sashawd9722
      @sashawd9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. I think that she is bad for his peace and he isnt domineering enough for her.

  • @nekolee9175
    @nekolee9175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Did anyone notice that he barely spoke she did majority of the talking the whole episode

  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    They don’t match at all 🧐

  • @HeraThea
    @HeraThea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    So... he hid her from his family
    He hid his money from her
    He couldnt give a good statement of love
    The most he spoke about was why he joined the military.
    And she is really convinced he loves her unconditionally?
    Hes just using her for the BAH

    • @ck.5218
      @ck.5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Meagan Dulaney
      Umm what’s BAH?

    • @loduo45
      @loduo45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meagan Dulaney Lol

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How is he using her for that BHA when she’s the one who wants to marry now?

    • @StripesHistoryHub
      @StripesHistoryHub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If he was in the Army I would agree. Looks like he joined the Army after they were together for a while.

    • @queenteireigns6212
      @queenteireigns6212 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Whether he stays with her or not he needs to learn to stand up to his family for himself. Seem's like his family is always dictating something in his life, they're forcing him to do things not in his best interest.

  • @miztinkerbellno2
    @miztinkerbellno2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He is very timid...and very immature. He just needs some time to grow and find himself.

  • @urluvizmyluv1999
    @urluvizmyluv1999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He's either assertive or he isn't. The army isn't going to change that. I served with many timid and soft spoken ppl

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They gone chew him up and spit him out!

    • @riseagain9677
      @riseagain9677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not really, it can force someone to change

  • @Bubbles-fw2ps
    @Bubbles-fw2ps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I don’t think a stint in the army will change his personality! He is who he is ,and she is going to have to accept him with understanding ! Good luck young man, and thanks for your upcoming service . May God guide , and protect you.

    • @yannicat123
      @yannicat123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bubbles a stint in any branch of the military will change ANY man. This woman is so beautiful but she is silly and immature. He is a bit passive but he’s only 21. He just needs to stand up and be more assertive.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trust me the army will change,well let me change that because this army is not what my army was.

    • @xstarsxromenguyen9854
      @xstarsxromenguyen9854 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      People grow and change like seasons. I don’t understand people like you that don’t see the obvious.

    • @xstarsxromenguyen9854
      @xstarsxromenguyen9854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karl Gabriel people within the army years before your time could say the same.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xstarsxromenguyen9854 very true.

  • @HTAnderson76
    @HTAnderson76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Wait, she's 21 years old and they've been in a relationship for 7 YEARS? So they've been together since High School, HOW was she a secret from his family?

    • @ItsACTION386
      @ItsACTION386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You can hide a relationship from strict parents especially if they said no gf/bf

    • @jamiex6072
      @jamiex6072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I think they 7 years is slightly exaggerated. They met 7 years ago it sounds. She explained she met him when she was in 9th grade, he was in the eleventh grade. They were friends and on the same sports team. They have know one another for 7 years.

    • @kikiwilliams4747
      @kikiwilliams4747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamiex6072 even your explanation proved how this still could be possible. Especially if they started dating within the same week of meeting in high school. 🤷🏾

    • @suciojay1604
      @suciojay1604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      None of those teen years count at all. I wish kids would stop using pre-20 as experience. How much actual relationship experience are you garnering as a teen, going back and forth from parent’s houses? This is dumb kid nonsense.

    • @jackiekreuzer4008
      @jackiekreuzer4008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think them living together was the secret, not the relationship.. He told his parents he was living with friends ..

  • @christineowori750
    @christineowori750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This feels like.... "I'm going to _make_ him The One"

  • @Cschuster05
    @Cschuster05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I thought pedestrians always had the right of way unless they jumped out in front of you or walking across the highway or something

    • @Joel-uv5tg
      @Joel-uv5tg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In a normal country, yes.... in the US, you have jaywalking because the car is more important because it used to be the marker of the white, middle-class, man

    • @fayeraye
      @fayeraye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is correct! Pedestrians have the right of way REGARDLESS!

    • @ritalinkidsonritalin
      @ritalinkidsonritalin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fayeraye I have both a CDL and a taxi license in NYC. And while getting both licenses the teachers always taught me that pedestrians and cyclists always have the right of way because they have the least amount of protection regardless if they are in the wrong or not.
      I was taught to take into account their reckless behavior and navigate around it for their protection. That and to save time from waiting for cops in case of accidents and other legal related aggravations.

    • @ricaivory6571
      @ricaivory6571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They don't but most people stop bcuz they don't wanna kill nobody by accident, however, walking pedestrians don't give a damn and will just walk out into traffic thinking you just suppose to slam on the breaks and stop. Just bcuz you don't hit one Person, doesn't mean you won't hit another slamming on them breaks outta nowhere.

  • @swenett1308
    @swenett1308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If a man isn't willing to stand up for you when you're being attacked by his family then don't stay one more minute with him. He'll find a woman he loves and his family won't dare attack her. Experience; the greatest teacher. My ex husband would even put me down in front of his mom, he used to cheat on me and she supported him, and instead of her telling him that's not right, she would have that smirky smile on her face and hide his unfaithfulness. When I brought it up she just changed the subject because she liked what he did. Girl let him be and find someone who is ready to show you off to his family.

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. Happy you got away from that psycho family. Sounds like mil was jealous of you.

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    they do not look like a couple

    • @REALandRAWW
      @REALandRAWW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is so ignorant.

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He's not in love with her.

  • @AddisonHaileLegobuilds
    @AddisonHaileLegobuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Why do they need a joint bank account? He can keep his money , she can keep her money and keep dividing the bills

    • @mearly7047
      @mearly7047 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He does keep his money and hers

  • @fayeraye
    @fayeraye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s her talking a bout almost hitting a pedestrian and baby for me… first of all, the pedestrian ALWAYS has the right of way, so… 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @ricaivory6571
      @ricaivory6571 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No they don't, but any smart person would just let somebody cross.

    • @fayeraye
      @fayeraye 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rica Ivory truuuuueee

  • @mboyd692
    @mboyd692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DL. 7 years and Bruh mane ain’t telling his family about you? He doesn’t want you BOO. Move on!

  • @Sabrewood13
    @Sabrewood13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I get why she was mad about the bank accounts cause ain’t no way he should be taking out from it if he’s not putting into it the hell

    • @shanb4520
      @shanb4520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wouldn’t have an account with someone I’m not married too

    • @JeNn0mic0n
      @JeNn0mic0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shanb4520 Exactly! These women out here are crazy thinking they’re ENTITLED to another man’s money before they even tie the knot. Even afterwards, I’d never share my bank acct with anyone. Get your own and we’ll meet in the middle regarding the bills. Don’t need a bank acct to do simple math.

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Seven minutes in- No sir ree-DO NOT GET MARRIED NOW! You two need a break. She’s not ready for sure. Argue with a mom crossing the walkway with a baby in a stroller? You got out the car? Don’t do it young man. Don’t make unnecessary mistakes. You two neither sound nor look like a match.

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Asabi Fatosin You missed a good portion of the video, the lady walked out in front of her.

  • @suciojay1604
    @suciojay1604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If your whole relationship history occurs when you are less than 20 years old, it doesn’t count. Stop using all these teen years as if your garnering some real experience.

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. She is way to serious with this relationship at 21. She needs to have fun and he needs to grow up

  • @alishashadows9599
    @alishashadows9599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He's gonna put his parents first girl.

  • @mobutter2879
    @mobutter2879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Her posture SCREAMS insecure.. She’s way too beautiful for such foolishness! I agree with him about paying, but keeping his money separate.

    • @qt4everandever63
      @qt4everandever63 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hair and makeup does not equal beautiful. You all need to wake up.

    • @qt4everandever63
      @qt4everandever63 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sharmainearroyo7113 Wearing tons of fake hair and pasting makeup on your face does make one beautiful. She is not beautiful. She has a nice smile.... but I can assure she looks nothing like that when all the fake enhancements are peeled away and her posture is hideous for a young girl.....

    • @qt4everandever63
      @qt4everandever63 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sharmainearroyo7113 Ha, ha, ha whatever. Are people still saying hater?! Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I suggest you get your eyes and your brain checked.

  • @st.michaelanthony3195
    @st.michaelanthony3195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    They are not emotionally mature to be married.😂😂😂😂

  • @Arron413
    @Arron413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    They look like an odd couple.

    • @andreadesalvo3000
      @andreadesalvo3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree!!! To me she looks older than 21 Besides why get married what is the rush. She is with him for 7 years since their school days. Maybe it is time to move on from each other. Maybe he is not ready to marry or may not want to. The two of you are way to young to commit to each other at this time. Maybe this not the right time to marry. Not ready!!

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Why have a joint account when you're not even married?

  • @JosieF3G
    @JosieF3G 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Pedestrians ALWAYS have the right of way!!! Right?? She tried to escalate a bad situation by wanting to step out of the car in a confrontational manner! It was good at that juncture that she had a level headed calm partner, who was effective in neutralizing her emotional reaction.

    • @allyb3510
      @allyb3510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whats worse is the pedestrian was a mother. I would wager this crazy lady was the start of the moms attitude. acting foolish in a death machine around children. Smdh

    • @ItsACTION386
      @ItsACTION386 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right and she started the issue which caused the mother to even punch her window.something is wrong with her.

    • @Brittjb612
      @Brittjb612 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's the point of the white walking symbol and red hand symbol then?

  • @dowardwashington9958
    @dowardwashington9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Being more assertive/ manly is a state of mind. You can't have a man in a glass case. Meaning you can't silence a man on some issues & expect him to be strong and manly in other things.

  • @kera3923
    @kera3923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The judge spoke nothing but facts and the truth!

  • @jasminelu_2957
    @jasminelu_2957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww hes so sweet and soft spoken, When he goes to the military he will come back with a glow up!

  • @chitownmytownofficialonean6067
    @chitownmytownofficialonean6067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Man please the army won't change shit, my brother is a marine and I see all kinds of things in him that you would think the marine lifestyle would have straightened out but didn't so stop expecting the army and marines to do the impossible.

  • @kiawilliams5541
    @kiawilliams5541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    @5:40 Pedestrians always have the right of way!!!

    • @fayeraye
      @fayeraye 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @bajanzelly
    @bajanzelly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hold up! A girl between the ages of 14-15 had a boy 4 years older living with her. At 15 & a half they are combining money? Something is very wrong with this story.

  • @NA-mh3uf
    @NA-mh3uf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hmmm maybe because she was only 14 when he met her , and he was 18....... possibly why he kept it a secret.

  • @godschild5189
    @godschild5189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He doesn't need to go to the military because it will break him down mentally. You must already have a certain mindset to survive in ty Military l. He needs to learn a trade or go to college and become an accountant.

  • @wonderfullymade1086
    @wonderfullymade1086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think hes scared of her, and hes trying to get away from her lol

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You're A GROWN man! Sis, you already stayed too long.

    • @joneldaniel4084
      @joneldaniel4084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They're really young. They're learning how to be adults and come into their own adulthood.

    • @cadillacdeville5828
      @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joneldaniel4084 they are not really young....not young enough to be an excuse

    • @joneldaniel4084
      @joneldaniel4084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cadillacdeville5828 What excuses did they make? Obviously her getting upset about the pedestrians with the baby was stupid. Him getting a car he knew he couldn't afford but getting it anyway because he felt pressured by his family to get it so that they would co-sign on it was not the best move to make. What other excuse for not knowing exactly what to do as a young adult making adult decisions is there except for the fact that because you're young, you don't have much experience?

  • @NaeThaGoddesz44
    @NaeThaGoddesz44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She loves him but he's still figuring it out.. the answer is no. She's a lil pushy and he's passive.. that's why they're this far.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm late but here. I was at the movie theater 😉

  • @rosej5029
    @rosej5029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s ironic she’s saying he’s too passive because he’s not telling his family about their long term relationship when she’s being passive by waiting and hoping the military will grow him a spine instead of gtf out of a relationship with a man/boy who’d rather lie to his family for years then tell them you’re his woman!

  • @tonystokes1119
    @tonystokes1119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She give the best advice ever. I love this show..

  • @darrellwilliams9850
    @darrellwilliams9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If you’re grown you speak up for yourself and don’t let nobody force you into nothing

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Plus sis has fibroids that she needs to handle; get your health together. Let him go. If he comes back...revisit your relationship. Both of you need to date some other people...

    • @jamiex6072
      @jamiex6072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree they've been together since high school or just after. They need to separate and she what else is out there

  • @rosej5029
    @rosej5029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DC could also be entitled “Women Who Settle for S**t and the Men Who Let Them”

  • @deetheefoodie
    @deetheefoodie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoy ur 20s!!!! I don’t recommend young ppl to get married till late 20s early 30s. Get to know yourself before you get in a serious relationship!
    They both need mentors!

  • @jaelynstellamusic6562
    @jaelynstellamusic6562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Deployment????? Ok. Basic training... military experience will not help. If anything make him worse lol. He’ll be a cheating man😂😂😂

  • @arshae21
    @arshae21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She needs an assertive man to calm her down. He can't do that. That's not him.

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like she tells him how to feel. I don't think he is in love with her.

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thetes just nothing about him hes no backbone and zero petsonality

  • @sicklymaad
    @sicklymaad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I disagree with the crossing the road thing. Pedestrians need to be held accountable too. Can't just be walking in the street when there's a car approaching.

    • @alexlostit
      @alexlostit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Kayode either way would u rather kill them than to stop for a few seconds?

    • @raygentravis3269
      @raygentravis3269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Actually if it's a crosswalk pedestrians always have a right the away. Unless their the signs that post otherwise. If not pedestrians have the right away.

    • @alexlostit
      @alexlostit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rene S true I can understand that , i just look at it like the Judge because even tho we aren’t crazy enough to run in front of a car some people are and with a lot of things in life u have to be the bigger person so that your life can be easier 😁

    • @sicklymaad
      @sicklymaad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alexlostit that wont be in issue if everyone follows the rules.

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Raygen Travis right of way...

  • @59thanks61
    @59thanks61 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The pedestrian always has the right of way.

  • @GegeP1804
    @GegeP1804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One thing I’ve notice, SOME women won’t stop to let people cross or long enough at a stop sign. Men seems to be better at letting people cross. I am a woman myself and 8 time out 10, when a car runs pass me at a stop sign while trying to cross I see a woman driver.

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. Even older women

  • @kattiethomas4687
    @kattiethomas4687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She thinks that she is all that;Run young man run.

  • @SlashTheWeasel
    @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Only 7 minutes in. He says she moves too fast but he moved in with her after only 3 months then not tell his family for two years!
    I agree with Judge Lynn about letting the pediastians (misspelled) go first. Not worth car accident of any sort and just better to let people go even though I do believe that ALL need to follow the rules including walkers. I see too many pop out from behind cars and stuff downtown when its busy traffic. But I do have problem with whomever it is that damaged her car. The pediastetion had no right to damage property so I do agree with the young lady about being angry on that and him just sitting there not doing anything. He could have done something even if it only for him to say "let's wait till the police to get here to file report" and pull her back to her car.
    Now I'll watch the rest.

    • @brittanyb47
      @brittanyb47 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes legally the pedestrian always has the right of way because the driver is supposed to have discernment, be cautious, vigilant, and paying attention to the road at all times while behind the wheel. Some people dont know how to properly drive and dont know the rules. Even when they pop up the driver has to stop. It just takes a second. That girl sounded crazy and seem like the type to hit and run somebody over with her primitive/ignorant mentality while being a "driver" I guess she doesn't care about loosing her license and going to jail. Those are the type of drivers pedestrians are afraid of😡😪😤😭

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brittanyb47 Then explain walk/stop lights for pedestrians. I've seen too many just walk out when they have the stop hand when cars have the green light to go.

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @th1smomentisfate Then explain walk/stop lights for pedestrians. I've seen too many just walk out when they have the stop hand when cars have the green light to go.

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @th1smomentisfate Here is site I just quickly looked up to help say what is or isn't legel. casperlaw.com/blog-what-are-my-rights-as-a-pedestrian/
      Too many times I have seen people not use crosswalks, obey traffic signals and yeild to traffic. They just walk out in front of cars without caring looking for cars especially if they are not in crosswalk and/or looking at their cell phones. Usually I see the first. I take every precaution as driver and as pedistrian cause that is one expensive mistake. Its something I take cause I see it too much.

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brittanyb47 Here is site I just quickly looked up to help say what is or isn't legel. casperlaw.com/blog-what-are-my-rights-as-a-pedestrian/
      Too many times I have seen people not use crosswalks, obey traffic signals and yeild to traffic. They just walk out in front of cars without caring looking for cars especially if they are not in crosswalk and/or looking at their cell phones. Usually I see the first. I take every precaution as driver and as pedistrian cause that is one expensive mistake. Its something I take cause I see it too much and I think needs to be respected by both drivers and pedestrians.

  • @ashadesuza4237
    @ashadesuza4237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sis...Im sorry...please leave this gentleman alone..He is not that into you..it couldnt be more clear even before the 5 minutes..Also...that car situation would have been the last straw for me for sure!

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. He using her. When he comes from the military he will dump her

  • @bellaf7774
    @bellaf7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “They shoot for no reason, boom bang pop” lmao judge Toler

  • @ThesteelLion
    @ThesteelLion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Okay here's my opinion on this of course a few of you might call me wrong but that's fine about 6 years ago I met someone who kept me hidden from her family for over two years anyone who has to keep you hidden from their family isn't worth your time but the caveat is my ex-girlfriend had a daughter she told me that she had to keep me hidden keep her daughter I don't know if that's the truth or not but still I maintain that anyone that has to hide you isn't worth your time I'm sorry for the rambling but this is a subject that bothers me

    • @MrsPenPal
      @MrsPenPal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eric Peters I fully agree.

  • @cowboylemonheadmedia
    @cowboylemonheadmedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So what actually wrong with this guy??? I mean yes he’s passive but so? I don’t see him as weak, just reserved. He’ll probably end up being a General or politician one day.

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cowboy Lemonhead 😂😂😂😂 in the history of mankind there has never been a passive General. A politician is possible.

    • @cowboylemonheadmedia
      @cowboylemonheadmedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charlesanderson1422 I hear you. Maybe I'm not wording it right. Maybe passive wasn't the right word.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He needs to be with a smaller,shorter choir girl type. He seems very uninvolved. I like both tall and short slim women. But I'm 6'2". I've never understood why 5'0" like 6' women or why 5' 11" women would want to be with a 4'11" guy.

  • @stephenbrown5768
    @stephenbrown5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A stint in the military better make him more assertive!

    • @crystalhero
      @crystalhero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes it will but in that time she's gonna go else were and find someone that has time too spend with her

    • @arshae21
      @arshae21 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It won't.

    • @arshae21
      @arshae21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Gee Whiz the military teaches you to be obedient. I don't know why ppl think that. It's an adult babysitting service.

    • @JeNn0mic0n
      @JeNn0mic0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arshae21 I hope you’re not an American citizen.

  • @diamondmiles2760
    @diamondmiles2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    . He is a little shy looking but you can tell when certain things were said/mentioned and he twisted his lips up he was a little aggravated so he’s just very passive aggressive. My ex was like that, a guy stepped on my foot in the line at the fair and didn’t say excuse me so I asked why he didn’t say something and he told me I was in the way even though I was in line with him. That’s just how those men are🤷🏽‍♀️ everything doesn’t need a response or a reaction. He doesn’t seem gay at all just very very nonchalant. Which can be bad eventually but he has her to even it out since she is extra asf .

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. He is also sneaky and stingy. He didn't want the joint account but took money out that he didn't contribute

    • @JeNn0mic0n
      @JeNn0mic0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@misslc7864 He took her half out for the bills and combined it with his own to pay it altogether. Why is that so difficult to understand?

  • @adrianajimenez4342
    @adrianajimenez4342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yeah, don't marry him!!!!

    • @JeNn0mic0n
      @JeNn0mic0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, he deserves better 🙃

  • @queenteireigns6212
    @queenteireigns6212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please stand tall folks.

  • @marciaduncan9040
    @marciaduncan9040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He did not deny her. I understand his reasoning coming from a conservative family myself. Sometimes the drama isn't worth it just for you to do what you like. They are not your diary so they don't need to know everything. It's not their place to snoop and them asking shows that they want some form of control or information that doesn't affect them in any way. She can't be insecure about that. Give it time and then see when he's ready. If he takes too long then yes, might wanna watch that.

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They're too young. Sharp. Well spoken. But too young. Giving them time, and even dating others, will help them!

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you. They both need time to explore life and other options. They should not be in any hurry to Wed❗❗❗

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sharoneh8929 exactly!!

  • @sullivancountydays
    @sullivancountydays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Freebies ladies stop. Don't move him in. No kids, nothing. You waste so much time and energy. Here she has all the hassle no marriage.

  • @SiimplyAngie7088
    @SiimplyAngie7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sir runnnnn as fast as you can shes a winer.....and you really dont act like your into her

  • @allimarieRISING
    @allimarieRISING 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's wrong. Pedestrians always have the right of way.

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 ปีที่แล้ว

    This woman mad proud to admit she purposely tried to back into 2 women and a child. I wouldn't introduce her to my family either ......

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First of all pedestrians always have the right of way. But he ain’t ready girl move on cause he’s going to waste 7 more years of your good years

  • @bradmason8334
    @bradmason8334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Move on young man, plenty of world to see in the military.

  • @edithgoliatha3967
    @edithgoliatha3967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah... They are both still young.... She needs to mature emotionally and so does he.... Although he's a little older than her he need to stand for what he believes he's doing not run to his parents for major decisions...

  • @aw8119
    @aw8119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is nothing wrong with just being friends.

  • @Antoneymalcolm
    @Antoneymalcolm หลายเดือนก่อน

    First, she tells him manhood is not something anyone can bestow upon him, he has to achieve it for himself, then she contradicts herself by saying the army will man him up. my question is which is it.

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    he's a good kid, and she's a little young in the mind, but they both seem like responsible humans. Waaaaay too young to marry, they both lack the emotional maturity to handle adult problems! Just wait!

  • @nzurimoja1845
    @nzurimoja1845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not the grand momma wig 🤣🤣🤣😩

  • @heywardpowell8452
    @heywardpowell8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What begins as a LIE must CONTINUE AS A LIE...or END N THRUTH.😕
    I WOULDNT RECOMMEND MY DAUGHTER B ENVOLVED WIT A BOY LIKE HIM.😣

  • @a.a.7594
    @a.a.7594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This ain't it sis .

  • @renitalake3580
    @renitalake3580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Does anyone ever go to ppls facebook pages during DC to see if it stuck? 👋🏾 #Guilty

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No because we have lives....

    • @hangtyme765
      @hangtyme765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @FalaqX -- LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! You wrong for that one!!!!!!!!!

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FalaqX That's a lie!! I see you commenting on every video multiple times

  • @superblessed2956
    @superblessed2956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They're incredibly immature and she is controlling with a bad attitude.

  • @davebrown5559
    @davebrown5559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Run bro

  • @raygentravis3269
    @raygentravis3269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Why do people think he's gay because he's passive? He could be metrosexual.

    • @antaresscorpicus692
      @antaresscorpicus692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Raygen travis; that's mostly BW who believe if your quite and self controlled you must be gay.

    • @ShaVaughn
      @ShaVaughn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s sooo annoying.

    • @Inr_Peace
      @Inr_Peace 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he's gay too. He's giving off those vibes. Imo

    • @MackeyDeez
      @MackeyDeez 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If he's smart then he needs to cancel any plans on joing the Army. Because I promise you another man will have her ass up and face down.

    • @jmarierealty
      @jmarierealty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chad MDZ 🤣

  • @mavisfrancis1425
    @mavisfrancis1425 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just like I thought, she walked out with a attitude and ignored him. It is her way or the high way.

  • @chocolatphoenixproperties9247
    @chocolatphoenixproperties9247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SHe should have him move out, he doesn’t want to marry her.. he is leaving for the military that is the perfect opportunity..

  • @justacarguy90
    @justacarguy90 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's gonna cheat soon as he deploys🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @user-il8ku2xc9z
    @user-il8ku2xc9z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He might come back more aggressive then he so desires.

  • @sassibrit
    @sassibrit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't just ACT grown, BE grown!

  • @tgadegagarrencha8304
    @tgadegagarrencha8304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Erica is beautiful!!!!!! However, I can't believe she's twenty one....