Growing up Intersex in Kenya; My Journey Towards Self-Acceptance

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  • @sirben7
    @sirben7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This lady is brave. I like her. May she excel in whatever she plans.

  • @sakariamwiiyale7375
    @sakariamwiiyale7375 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    She's so beautiful and confident. It's difficult not to respect her.

    • @sammylikono6783
      @sammylikono6783 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes true , beautiful en excellent lady , she's blessed

  • @williampowers2109
    @williampowers2109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    She's extremely brave and highly intelligent beyond her age

  • @daniells71
    @daniells71 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    OMG so glad they didn't do surgery on Mercy. They would have caused her a lot of damage and probably life long pain.

  • @joemcfatter1170
    @joemcfatter1170 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Watched from Dallas TX USA. She is such a wonderful ambassador of knowledge, so needed in today's world. I am glad to find this channel also. Kenya continues to amaze me.

    • @agnettakamugisha4984
      @agnettakamugisha4984 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is AMAZING! Indeed she is strong and confident. She has a message to share with the world 💪🏽💃🏽❤️❤️

  • @stevemuema9206
    @stevemuema9206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This lady is so courageous and bold. She is knowledgeable and brave 🎉🎉

    • @nicholaslemiso9798
      @nicholaslemiso9798 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mercy you are a smart lady your argument and conversation is full of facts, move out of machakos and speak out, we were all born not only to live but to leave a legacy baby girl live long leave legacy, I admire you mrembo you're bold and bright

  • @bettysitati9912
    @bettysitati9912 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This is an extremely intelligent gal.....it takes the glory and grace to have reached this far

  • @kengathiru7180
    @kengathiru7180 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    My classmate let the star continue shinning as you create awareness to the world

    • @CANECHSHOW
      @CANECHSHOW 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Give me her contacts please

  • @StephenMuchiri-gz8bz
    @StephenMuchiri-gz8bz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Mercy is courageous person,the spice pannel very professional they didn't hurt Mercy.Well done.

  • @AjosElijah
    @AjosElijah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I hope similar conversations are given prime time coverage in major media houses in Kenya. We need it

  • @snjau7613
    @snjau7613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Eric and your team. You handled this subject like the professionals you are. Very enlightening.

  • @ThePOLLYPOL
    @ThePOLLYPOL 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Latif, the GOAT including the rest of the panelists, your professionalism is top notch in handling this sensitive topic

  • @Music-gm6yp
    @Music-gm6yp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She is so articulate..and honest...she will go far as a leader...not shying away.

  • @ginajackson9413
    @ginajackson9413 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    She is eloquent and has a good knowledge about her condition.

  • @gitahigichohi3984
    @gitahigichohi3984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Such a lovely and vibrant lady full of energy, and thanks to spice fm for giving her the platform to educate us about these rare occurrences

  • @christineomiya4823
    @christineomiya4823 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The strength, courage and bravery with Mercy is exceptional. Live life and conquer it.

  • @lidyanaredeemed9848
    @lidyanaredeemed9848 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She really handled her situation so brave. Beautiful and smart. May God continue to give her strength.🙏

  • @caleboloo6931
    @caleboloo6931 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A leader at machakos university
    She is brave

  • @sha-sha3160
    @sha-sha3160 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I admire this individual. This interview was very informative and inspiring

  • @eliciphanjuguna4605
    @eliciphanjuguna4605 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Courageous, very informed and authentic Mercy. A very enlightening conversation for a COUNSELLING Psychologist.

  • @evelynesira2295
    @evelynesira2295 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    my interpretation of the proverb is "Death is certain" means that inevitably we will die and while we know that it will happen it does not mean that we go to the grave and wait for death we keep busy living life etc

    •  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agreed, l interpreted that way too

  • @paulsavenue12
    @paulsavenue12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I want to commend Mercy. I am now understanding a new concept for the first time in my life. Thank you Mercy.

  • @alexiogova8628
    @alexiogova8628 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ummm my lovely one, I respect you for who you are and what you are. The way you are explaining this issue yoooo. ❤ I Love You very very much. From Zimbabwe. God be with you in whatever you do . I repeat I Love You and I respect.

  • @franxisoyier425
    @franxisoyier425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love her courage. God has set aside her work for her. Mercy is special. May God bless her.

  • @josephwalkerz3797
    @josephwalkerz3797 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Philosophy has it that a "thing" is or is not. Such information gives me opportunity to make a critical thinking that beautiful soul like mercy have opened the philosophical thought to analyse life. The essence of being is so deep not being a man and woman, but soul and body, self motivation to achieve life dreams.

  • @immaculatenyakoe8469
    @immaculatenyakoe8469 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are a bright girl. Fearfully and wonderfully made of the image of God .Go girl

  • @catherinekarigaca1469
    @catherinekarigaca1469 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So brave, focused, articulate. May God give you strength and wisdom for journey ahead.

  • @verosymon7710
    @verosymon7710 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She is phenomenal, go girl, you are destined for greatness

  • @Paulkipkoech-f6i
    @Paulkipkoech-f6i 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A delicate discussion handled as it deserves by experienced hosts. Well done.

  • @geofreyochieng8346
    @geofreyochieng8346 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    This is quite informative and brave while at it. I concur that Intersex should not be bundled together with the other LGBTQ grouping because while the former is a misnoma of genetics, the latter is a matter of choice. What a wonderful soul (and at this young age) removing ignorance from many of us. May God bless you Monica

    • @petermugambi9122
      @petermugambi9122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong, if people can be born without the appropriate genitalia because of dysfunctional genetics (hardware), it follows that the same genetics can interfere with an individual sexuality mentally (software). All living things are afflicted with all manner of deformities but the sexual one is the most sensitive. Education is the only way to end the stigma of the LGBTQ people including the intersex, they're all creation of God, in his image.

    • @TinyVillageLife
      @TinyVillageLife 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You sound confused,seek clarity

  • @zipporahkyeni
    @zipporahkyeni 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    From working with her ,to this interview,i love her energy and how she makes everyone around her happy... congratulations gal for pulling through

  • @englishwithkinghenry
    @englishwithkinghenry 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This girl is a charmer. Plus I see more order in Kenya than in my country, Nigeria. Big ups Kenya.

  • @dorcaskilonzi4123
    @dorcaskilonzi4123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love the courage this individual has,God bless you

  • @dan5156
    @dan5156 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Doctor wamalwa is my uncle...keep going...he made me meet atleast two intersex and made me understand them...kudos

  • @louisjackai735
    @louisjackai735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is an awesome interview that opens new frontiers of knowledge. Mercy is an intelligent spokesperson for many we never hear of. Articulate and very admirable. She will go places.

  • @dedankimathi8306
    @dedankimathi8306 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    A beautiful person, a peaceful soul,an open heart,a sharp mind,an eloquent tongue..thats mercy.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This girl know who she is.

  • @edmondmuthee
    @edmondmuthee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wonderful human being. Very clear as well.

  • @nancynzilani222
    @nancynzilani222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My gal,,she is so strong,,brave,, courageous
    I just love her
    An awesome lady indeed

  • @francisdavid9098
    @francisdavid9098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love the way she sticks to her happiness

  • @MosesWachira-ul2rm
    @MosesWachira-ul2rm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Self Acceptance keeps her Goin

  • @mercyclerks
    @mercyclerks 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Her mind is beautiful ❤

  • @thekenyancomment254
    @thekenyancomment254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    she is an amazing soul to the core

  • @decentkaonde112
    @decentkaonde112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It has been wonderful listening to your testimony Mercy on issues of Intersex. I have learned something. May God bless you.

  • @georgekimani1245
    @georgekimani1245 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Informative indeed Mercy articulate , brave , focused and inspiring

  • @moskay1905
    @moskay1905 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so touched and I learnt a lot. Mercy. Your brave and may God keep you shinning in your life.

  • @AnnahRuto
    @AnnahRuto 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Great courage mercy be blessed

  • @freshialangat3233
    @freshialangat3233 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A lot of advocacy is needed because we might have many people being stigmatised. Mercy keeps soaring higher and higher. Inclusion is key

  • @allanogol5008
    @allanogol5008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    She is so pretty

  • @nava_surveys
    @nava_surveys 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Monicah Mercy knows what she is saying. Great conversation. Andũ maĩle ũnenaa ũu na ndaĩya na kweleanwa.

  • @lissadmin4634
    @lissadmin4634 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    One of the best interviews for Spice!! A great scoop from a very eloquent Community Leader. Well done

  • @masternganga
    @masternganga 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great idea. Opening an office to assist intersex address their legal documentation. Awesome suggestion.

  • @cathrineosaso6573
    @cathrineosaso6573 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This lady is going places. You are brave and bold. May God bless you.

  • @zipporahmoturi3415
    @zipporahmoturi3415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very courageous lady
    May God guide you

  • @devstackdemystified
    @devstackdemystified 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Where are the likes for her mother, more than a mother!

    • @simbatv4067
      @simbatv4067 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What special? People have their kids without legs, arms or conjoined twins! What are you talking about here

  • @almoses15
    @almoses15 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Strong 💪 confident, self assuring person. Dint leave it to the world to validate her existence. She took it upon her and built her life. Amazing attitude. Keep going the world has all the space for you. Much respect 🙏

  • @virginiadyke91
    @virginiadyke91 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best interview ever❤ Mercy keep bringing the awareness in cause majority are suffering Weldone guy's this is what been missing in our community

  • @pmun9435
    @pmun9435 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Mercy. You are our Kenyan child and a child of the universe. Live your life free, happy and healthy. Good and mature interview Spice👍🏾

  • @samwelesamwele8267
    @samwelesamwele8267 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very strong character,people should lean to except and accommodate intersex it’s a natural phenomena

  • @carolinemuendi3394
    @carolinemuendi3394 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The courage is on another level
    Kip on gal
    Love u for free

  • @wangui6330
    @wangui6330 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is very bold and I respect her. Much love ❤️. It's all about self love and confidence ❤️

  • @amaramarseille6738
    @amaramarseille6738 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am facinated by the informations I got in this video. This girl is just wonderfull and the journalists are just fantastic ! They make me feel like visiting Kenya ! :D

  • @mailukivunzyo6619
    @mailukivunzyo6619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mercy, you are brave, beautiful, and confident. Proud of you. Keeping walking.

  • @moksolpha8159
    @moksolpha8159 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best interview i have listened to recently. Well articulated, great questions and a brilliant young person who understands what she wants and genuinely wants to help others in a similar situation. Proud of you Monicah and hands down lots of respect for your mother who has brought up a confident young woman ready to take on the world

  • @mercyayub8324
    @mercyayub8324 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this gal she is a leader,,,,,you educate us.

  • @wyndhl8309
    @wyndhl8309 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mercy for president!❤

  • @AcaciaBell-b7t
    @AcaciaBell-b7t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She is very cute, smile nayo, i salute the mom

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    We need more sensitization on this especially so that Kenyans can be more supportive to intersex people. It must be so challenging to be intersex. Monica is a very talented and smart person!

    • @mush337
      @mush337 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The reason for LGBTQ was to hide such people but since we think LGBTQ is about men who are marrying each other which is rare,most of them are intersex

  • @kennethokumu6375
    @kennethokumu6375 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That youngster has done well on this interview excellent one of the best interviews at spice FM - great awareness of the condition as an intersex person kudos 👏🏿

  • @sherlynemomi8584
    @sherlynemomi8584 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a beautiful and informative interview, So proud of you Mercy, good works Spice FM!

  • @joycekanema870
    @joycekanema870 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A very enlightening conversation. Many of us know little or nothing about this condition.
    Respect to this young lady , Mercy Mutheu. Great energy and awesome attitude from you. 👌👏👏👏

  • @jonahbelyon660
    @jonahbelyon660 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This is hard conversations to have but this lady/man is brave indeed..

  • @gem246
    @gem246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Great host

  • @DelvinChepkirui-n6o
    @DelvinChepkirui-n6o หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love her courage and boldness about her nature

  • @AgnesMwangi-ch9ol
    @AgnesMwangi-ch9ol 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl, you are beautiful and very confident. I wish you well, God bless you.

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a brave gal, sometimes it's not good to judge people from their looks, our society needs to be enlightened about intersex and transgender people.

    • @mush337
      @mush337 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are the same people we call homosexual

  • @Cate.979
    @Cate.979 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Healing is knowing who you are,thanks Mercy for being an advocate ❤

  • @MultiHabah
    @MultiHabah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Amazing Mercy

  • @ednathangu7463
    @ednathangu7463 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderful conversation. There is beauty in diversity

  • @jlmchannel5579
    @jlmchannel5579 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Keep it up Mercy.

  • @jeddidahtoi
    @jeddidahtoi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your courage darling..go go go

  • @abigaelletuati7114
    @abigaelletuati7114 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hats off to the mum. God bless her soul

  • @VikCevick
    @VikCevick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow at least have gotten my type, I'm an intersex too with same characters,yenyewe its not easy bt we just struggle to meet our end meet

  • @jothamwasike4227
    @jothamwasike4227 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mercy, this is great! Iam proud of you. Keep it up girl.

  • @godwinogunjal791
    @godwinogunjal791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your courage will help many others be confident and overcome the stigma. Big Up Mercy!

  • @juliegaitho2092
    @juliegaitho2092 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is very informative.

  • @maxinemwendia7982
    @maxinemwendia7982 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderful conversation

  • @angelinekinoti8790
    @angelinekinoti8790 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She's beautiful, courageous and confident ❤

  • @yolandasparks4913
    @yolandasparks4913 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She rocks !!!❤

  • @okumuleonard6400
    @okumuleonard6400 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's an inspiration fr❤.

  • @sambazapodcast
    @sambazapodcast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a very hot topic to talk about and we appreciate the fact that miss Mercy was able to come out to the show and discuss it. It takes a special individual to be able to accept things and communicate to people in a rather very taboo topic in our society.Thank you for highlighting this information and I appreciate the spice FM crew for doing this.All the relevant questions were asked.in my opinion.

  • @oriwojuniorofficial
    @oriwojuniorofficial 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i like how she approached her situation. but if you listen carefully the love from home was sufficient so parents take note have your kids back even if you don't know what they are going through.

  • @mapepe2011
    @mapepe2011 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bold conversation.
    The situation room asking all the questions that i would be afraid to ask myself

  • @PushpaAchantaFlower
    @PushpaAchantaFlower 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Touched & inspired. Tx, strength & besto dear Monicah. I hv been working with intersex folx in India fm 2017. (I’m a NQ, gender fluid Ace, writer & LGBTQIAP+ counsellor & co-founder of 2 queer grps.) Let us queer peeps be us. Rainbow salaams 🌈🍉💙

  • @sabrinarosedallas5703
    @sabrinarosedallas5703 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a wonderful conversation. Thank you!

  • @njambikiburio7836
    @njambikiburio7836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for shedding light on a very sensitive topic.

  • @corinebartholomew3211
    @corinebartholomew3211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My hats off to you God bless and keep you continue to hold your head high.

  • @damariskenzie2976
    @damariskenzie2976 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Acceptance of who you are is a victory

  • @simulubwamable1134
    @simulubwamable1134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She looks beautiful at the same time looks handsome.
    God's special creature ❤️

    • @africanawang2674
      @africanawang2674 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I don't see the handsomeness. She's fully feminine and beautiful

    •  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mercy is a female with a large clit. I don't understand where the intersex is coming from. Sarah Baartman had the same features too. There is also a Kenyan lady with no vagina and identifies as a lady. Mercy's case has something to do with foetal development and hormones

  • @lynettecarine5575
    @lynettecarine5575 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a niece who is an Intersex shes 16 yrs. She grew up as a girl dressed, her mum did everything as a girl wearing dresses plaiting hair. When he turned 15 he started growing beards voice changed, no periods.