If you have money to casually pay for the 500 bucks plan for the year straight. Why can't you get bitches? There is something wrong with you in that case
Dating apps used to work back in the 2010s before they start putting chat restrictions and subscriptions. I’m glad I was able to take advantage of the free dating apps.
You’re lucky I was too young during that time. I first got on Tinder in 2019 and I was lucky to get one or two matches a week. Seems like whatever was going on back then was patched 😂
Same here. Used tinder around 2015, bumble 2019 and used to get several right swipes a week, a couple matches a week on average. Now? ZERO. Doubt I got uglier bc on the first couple days of creating the app my profile was shown more and had a dozen likes, then immediately dropped to ZERO the following days.
If there was ever a skit, it would be some of these scenarios Scenario 1 Man: HI! Aaah get away from you creep! I'm married! Man: HI Scenario 2 Woman: Hey Man: Wanna go out Woman: Umm...I can give you my Instagram? Man: Didn't you wanna exchange numbers? Woman: Not right now, sorry Man 2: Hey babe, is this guy bothering you? Scenario 3 Man: HI Woman: Hey Man: Wanna go out? Woman: Your place? Man: It's too early for that, I'm just trying get to know you Woman: So you don't want sex? Man: We just met! Woman: ...I'm good! You have a good day
@@Callieforniiaa I was talking to a woman for 2 weeks straight. We met up and had a dinner date. She wanted a 2nd date. The next morning I wake up and she blocked me from everything! Didn’t even get a explanation 🤣. That was the last straw for me.
@@dtincworldnews8922 I don't have a million because taxes fucking suck lol not because of expanses that would add up to less than $200 a year if I used those apps
Back on dating apps for about a month now after being in a relationship for the past 2 years and damn, people don’t know how to hold a conversation anymore.
Dude they don’t and it’s so enraging. I was in a 4+ yr relationship and going from a relationship back to the dating scene is like going from a mansion back to a fucking 500 sq ft run down house built in the 1930’s with tweakers rummaging the place.
I went to parties, live concerts, traveled the country, lived my life everyday for the past 20 years and I never met anyone.. things don’t just happen for everyone
Well did you approach women ? I mean, if you are a guy and go out with the expectation that women will run up to you and introduce themselves - then you will be disappointed .. I mean, learn to look for signs from women and then talk to them ..
@@brianmeen2158 I did.. daily.. I was a snowboarding instructor at a high end resort in a tourist town, I get along with girls better than I get along with guys, girls just don’t like me like that I’m nice and will do anything for literally anyone and I don’t think girls like that very much but I’m unwilling to change that aspect of myself, as long as you know your own self worth there’s no such thing as too nice. That and I don’t drink so I’ve never really went to bars Now I’m in my 30s, own a house and live alone so I pretty much have to spend all my time working
@@waterforgizmo3232 Don respond to that PoS. Whoever that is they just troll manosphere content day & night looking for guys to pick on. Like its weird this person is literally in every comment section i ever see. Like some woke chatbot or something, Men know what you are talking about. Women reject 100% of most men now. Its probably the most messed up time in human history & the fallout is coming. It cant go on like this forever. its not just dating in a nutshell either. Women took all the jobs & money & now they have all the power & dont know what to do with it.
Match group being sued? I sure hope it's because of their unfair and wrongful ban. I was recently banned on Hinge within 24 hours of purchasing a subscription.
I got off the apps. Ain't no way they gonna have me out here feeling insecure for some shallow reasoning. Also best way to meet people is events in your city/community 😌 Like art classes, trivia nights at bars, etc.
Amen and just focusing on yourself and getting a gym membership. Not having to go on a dating app and still having options is so much more rewarding lol
@@hawaiianrussian1047 focusing on yourself is key. When you've given yourself all that you need it'll be hard for someone to shake that foundation... with proper vetting of course. I'm not dating atm because I don't want someone in my space right now 😅 I'm not ready
You are right and wrong at the same time. Most these apps only really match you in the first week. After that your profile gets buried under other profiles.
That’s because they want you to buy their subscriptions, once I got tinder gold suddenly I was getting matches again, same when I upgraded on bumble. They do this on purpose so that you will buy the subscriptions.
I just decided to try a dating app for the first time, got on Facebook dating, met a nice girl who complimented me and we vibed for about a week. Then one morning I wake up and she unadded me from everything for no reason. Literally the night before she was saying she would call me the next day. It makes zero sense. I don't want to waste my time with this. I don't see how you could do this to someone. People are just forgetting how to be human anymore, its like social media has made people see other people as just entertainment for them, and as soon as they're done with you that's it. So yeah, I understand why so many people don't even bother anymore. I'm sure the same thing happens to women too. Its just a toxic environment, and the worst part is that it seems so hard to meet people in real life
I also used fb dating, and after one week with talking with a guy , we were supposed to meet the next day, he send me a photo with him showing he is preparing for the date and after that he ghosted me.. I texted him but no response. I just deleted everything and gave up on dating. I’m just focusing on my own life. I don’t want to experience this anymore.
Honestly, for someone who has no experience with texting girls. I just treat hinge as some sort of training ground for when the time comes that I do manage to get with someone I like
I wonder how many dudes have ended it because of dating apps. I mean, I have had some “success,” but I have also been done bad. Being down bad from a dating app is really psychologically damaging I feel.
if you are the wrong size, wrong color, wrong height. it doesnt matter what kind of person you are. you will be rejected. thats how it works. dating apps are scams for most men except a small minority
You got that right. Dating Apps are extremely, if not incredibly rare for any man to get women over the internet these days. It is a true wonder that Dating Apps are still around despite the fact they have very high failure rate. Just saying.🕷
I deleted all of my dating apps about 2 months ago. I was obsessed with them and decided one day those are the wrong resources to try to meet the good type of people I want to meet. It's nothing but games and entertainment for women it seems.
Smart decision. Meet someone in person. I met my boyfriend in person at a beach and again at a county fair where I asked him out. It's a bit of a long-distance relationship (I live in New Hampshire, he lives in Pennsylvania) but the fact we met in person and meet up about once a month means we have the real life chemistry that just can't be replicated through social media (yes, dating apps are social media)
@@neihomai8 still haven't been on any of them. Done for good. I also realize I don't need anyone in my life to make me happy. I am actually happy with myself and I think that will draw someone to me naturally
Very informative video! I met up with multiple girls on dating apps, but they ended up just being one night stands and a lot of them were like jumping around from guy to guy. There are some people who have found fulfilling relationships from online dating apps, but when it comes to the top three that you listed there, majority of them use it for hook ups. So if you want a serious relationship, just have a good intuition don’t smash the first or second time you see them, and take things slow if you want a lasting relationship.
I was on Hinge from January 2022 to September 2022. Never again man. It was so pointless. Hinge 100% uses the same algorithm that Tinder does. In fact, I came out more jaded about finding love than before I went in.
This idea that dating apps are for hook ups have no evidence when it comes to straight women. There’s experiments including my own where it takes FAR more matches just to get a yes to requesting a hook up. Who knows how many would actually show up
Instead of mindlessly scrolling on dating apps, I was running 16 km today. Just do something productive instead that benefits your health, mentality & finances.
On dating apps, the typical ratio of men to women is around 3:1. So, if I walked into a lounge with 100 people on a Saturday night and saw that 75 of them were men, I’d probably decide to leave
You can get laid on tinder but you gotta lower your standards a bit, the funny thing is the last girl I met on there broke up with me most likely because she matched with some more attractive guy who will just pump and dump which in the end saved me from having to break up with her so yeah win win
I agree with the OP, i had some hookups with apps, 3 fat girls, 1 had a scar on her face, 2 were decent looking, one of them lasted 1yr. All of that in a 2 years span, could get more if don’t vetted single moms
The old ways are best. Develop actual hobbies, meet likeminded people, do good for your community, make friends. Stop trying to live through internet services, they do not have your best interests at heart. It is not in their interests to help you succeed, because then you don't need them anymore.
On Reddit I ran into people accusing me of being a horrible person because they were successful on dating apps while I wasn't. One said "dating apps don't work for YOU because you're an asshole"
Don’t listen to any of that, it’s all a fat load of crap. You could be the most genuine, kind man a woman could talk to on that app while being respectful and offering a genuine date with them, and they’ll still blow it up in your face and make it seem like their choices are good or well thought out when they’d rather pick the “chad that’s 6’4” to pump and dump them instead. It’s utterly all a false illusion to make us feel like shit while we’re doing our best to treat everybody with respect and dignity.
@@rainydayz6429 Oh who would say that on a dating app where your value depends on your face and body people will be rejecting you because you don’t meet their standards, i mean, it is kinda obvious, same happens with ugly and out of shape women, even if you are a 7/10 there is this idea that they will pull better, even out of their league because there is so many options. It is on both sides of the coin and it is reasonable, you do not know many things about the other person other than their looks, so halo effect takes place stronger than ever.
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Lol I had best results on tindferno despite putting my T20 college on the bio of hinge, but not on the tindferno acc… Funny bc I always hear femaIes gaslight men into saying they get no results on tindferno bc of the ratio, when the ratio is better on hinge
@@AM-cm2kj No he's right, being able to send a message first on Hinge to get them to laugh, or respond, is way easier than Tinder or bumble. Hinge is the one I get the most matches on
I always thought it was ridiculous when someone sets a minimum of 500 characters to send them a message. They are just going to judge the persons looks anyways, so I don’t know why they’re making them fill out an application form on their first message? 😂 I lucked out and met my wife on POF 5 years ago ❤
They absolutely suck now, but back in the day 2011-2017ish it was like going to the grocery store. I was putting up Steph Curry numbers. Everything was free! You didn't have to pay for basic things. POF was a gold mine!
The sad reality of dating apps is that you have to have ALL of them and treat it as a part time job.. You will meet people, but without a doubt its far harder than it used to be. When Tinder first came out I would have a date every second week without much effort.. Now its every 3 months, like sure I'm more picky now.. but I'm spending far too much time on these apps.
What’s strange is they changed somewhere down the line. Can confirm that around 2016 they were at their peak it was honestly decent for most dudes. Nowadays most guys have nothing but bad things to say.
Just like most businesses in this country nowadays, like oh people are suffering from something? We can totally make money off of this, shits getting really old
Plenty of Fish made me find the woman of my dreams. We have a two year old son together 😁. Now i can say in TODAY'S social environment, no dating apps dont work. They did back in 2007 -17
@@AM-cm2kj lmao what an incel we have here. look bruh just because don't know how to present yourself attractively doesn't mean only the top 0.1% get women on Tinder. I started to use it a month ago and it's really easy to get dates there.
Hopefully, you're not considering yourself ugly or undatable. You're a handsome young guy with your whole future ahead. I feel bad for young people now. In the old days, boys and girls as early middle school were going to movies on dates. We had a small town theatre and it was total craziness and kinda scary even for a teen boy to meet up with a girl and sit together. Of course everyone had friends in tow, but that was added background noise. Now with social media, young people don't seem to do anything in person. Even my 2 teen daughters go with groups of same sex friends to school dances and prom type activities. Kind of depressing to witness even as a parent.
If you’re single there’s nothing wrong with downloading a dating app but to sink so low to the point of paying for a subscription is just sad. Focusing in your self and getting a gym membership and taking better care of yourself goes so much farther.
the top 10% of dudes get 90% of the women, in the US. alot of guys out there are invisible, since they werent born with a prettyface or an ideal physique. makes sense now why dudes are joining the passport bro movt. I never looked back once i got into it, overseas women arent nearly as shallow as physical appearance as US girls are.
@@AM-cm2kjlol that is not how attraction works. "Rizz" comes a long way when it comes to seducing women. reality is women don't care much about looks.
Hinge is the best way to find a real relationship! Found my girl there and we are almost to together for a year! ❤️ and we are going to live together in 2 months!
Many people don't realize how dangerous dating apps really are. I'm gay, but from my own experience I can recommend that everyone not download or register on a single dating app. It's best to stay away from such things.
They work but there is a formula to them. Many people just abuse the apps instead of using them to your benefit. Me and my siblings found our loves on dating apps.
Doesn't help that depending on where you live, alternative ways to meet people are in short supply. Im in Tacoma for example and there isn't really much here. In my area i legit put in hours of work researching and trying new things in an attempt to broaden my horizons but everything you can do is so antisocial anymore in the sense that its something that you really have to go into it with people, but its not good for meeting new people from a dating perspective or otherwise. Eg bowling or going to a museum. Just demoralizing
For the most part they really are and the sad is it ain’t just an ego booster for men anymore. I’ve seen so much women actually brag about the amount of matches they get on tinder and I just look at them like 🤨🤨😂😂😂
Dating these days is an agreement between two (or more) people to share affection until you get bored. So, even if the apps succeeded in getting you a match, the meta for the dating game itself is really bad.
Tinder is a hook up app probably alway been, if you’re a guy you’re gonna have a hard time on bumble because if a girl likes you it’s gonna be pretty rare for her to send since she is the one who has the message first, so that’s why I stick with Hinge.
The whole "women have to message first or else the match disappears in 24 hrs" thing is really stupid and I've lost some great matches because of this as a result, but overall Bumble still has way better and has more quality women than Tinder.
I finally asked a girl in person she was giving all the signs and I got rejected, dating is just impossible for the average Joe because women have thousands to choose from
@@Cinnamon535same here and it's like: "Nah bro you need to ask her out ASAP otherwise she will lose interest!!!" or "You asked her out too soon bro!! Skill issue!! Learn how to talk to women!!!" FML
if yall get no play by simply going out into the real world ,spending money on a dating profile wont help. its not a video game, relationships arent pay to win😂
Dating is so f*cking hard. I think I missed the day when they taught this bullshit in school, because I don’t understand why everyone is dating and only I stand there scared and confused. I genuinely don’t understand how this all works. And I’ll probably die alone.
I met my boyfriend on Hinge 💜 he’s the sweetest man I’ve ever been with in my life and we’re almost to our one year anniversary Also, do not be under my comment being negative bc these apps didn’t work out for YOU. Keep your hatefulness to yourself 😂 it’s sad wishing downfall on somebody else’s relationship.
I been using apps for 6 years and had two girlfriends that lasted 1 year who I wasn't crazy about. My sister finds many men who she wants to marry then a week later breaks up with them. That's how it goes. Don't get married.
I was convinced by a coworker to download tinder after a rough breakup I had. I met two nut jobs on there, one was cheating on his girlfriend of 7 yrs with me I later found out but I also reconnected with my friend from high school I had a huge crush on. We have now been together 5 years and I’ve only loved him more. Idk maybe it’s just cause I already knew him lol but I personally recommend it.
It sucks that dating apps don't work because there's many people (like myself) who don't have any other options for meeting the opposite sex, and when we try any of the other options that are supposed to exist, they don't work either, so we end up being incels.
How would you guys suggest that someone like me, 16 almost 17 years old with bad social anxiety and insecurities, find a girlfriend? I want a long and healthy relationship with someone who I can hopefully marry. But I REALLY struggle to go outside and just meet girls
Is it just me or does the thumbnail spell out "HOE"
😂
It does
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Didn’t even notice this but this is actually hilarious ngl😂
It does
seeing a Bumble AD right before this is dystopian
I got the same ad 😂😂
Same
Me too. 🤣
Bruh same 😂
You too?
6K for a dating app , if I ever get that down bad you have free reign to end me
It doesn't even work if you're unattractive and/or short.
If you have money to casually pay for the 500 bucks plan for the year straight. Why can't you get bitches? There is something wrong with you in that case
These apps be praying on my brothers downfalls
Thanks mate 👌🏻
I’m lonely as F !
but I’m definitely not paying nor using dating apps to get messed around and rejected by these Australian women
@@mattykay7852Dating apps is the same with gambling. You give up half your money to roll in more matches, only to get rejected by everyone.
they work!
Exactly
I agree with this comment
Dating apps used to work back in the 2010s before they start putting chat restrictions and subscriptions. I’m glad I was able to take advantage of the free dating apps.
You’re lucky I was too young during that time. I first got on Tinder in 2019 and I was lucky to get one or two matches a week. Seems like whatever was going on back then was patched 😂
@@redpiller1099 Yeah they were fun around 2012 not anymore
They never work. Sounds like you just got outclassed by other men
Competing against the 1% of men for 60% of the females is a fools game
Same here. Used tinder around 2015, bumble 2019 and used to get several right swipes a week, a couple matches a week on average. Now? ZERO. Doubt I got uglier bc on the first couple days of creating the app my profile was shown more and had a dozen likes, then immediately dropped to ZERO the following days.
Dating actually got harder, in my opinion. People are just weird.
If there was ever a skit, it would be some of these scenarios
Scenario 1
Man: HI!
Aaah get away from you creep! I'm married!
Man: HI
Scenario 2
Woman: Hey
Man: Wanna go out
Woman: Umm...I can give you my Instagram?
Man: Didn't you wanna exchange numbers?
Woman: Not right now, sorry
Man 2: Hey babe, is this guy bothering you?
Scenario 3
Man: HI
Woman: Hey
Man: Wanna go out?
Woman: Your place?
Man: It's too early for that, I'm just trying get to know you
Woman: So you don't want sex?
Man: We just met!
Woman: ...I'm good! You have a good day
Does this even surprise you? Can’t even talk or look at anyone nowadays without them giving you the ick look or saying you’re a creep.
@@renjiaow3742 I'm guessing in America mostly, but every other place might be different region wise.
Everyone I try to hang out with or hang out with is weird, flakes, switches up every 6 months.
@@Callieforniiaa I was talking to a woman for 2 weeks straight. We met up and had a dinner date. She wanted a 2nd date. The next morning I wake up and she blocked me from everything! Didn’t even get a explanation 🤣. That was the last straw for me.
If you spend 500$ a month to use tinder you need your credit card revoked
Or you just have an astronomical amount of money. If I had $1M I'd do it lol.
@@CQchaos7474 and that's why you don't have a million.😂
@@dtincworldnews8922 I don't have a million because taxes fucking suck lol not because of expanses that would add up to less than $200 a year if I used those apps
Ngl I been binging all of bro videos 😂😎 genuinely entertaining
Fr 😂
I like to hear bro yap even the videos with only 100 views 😂😂😂
Exactly and he never misses
One of my Friends sent his content to the chat and I been binging his content lately too 😂 Bro makes good shit
Bro underrated 😭
Back on dating apps for about a month now after being in a relationship for the past 2 years and damn, people don’t know how to hold a conversation anymore.
I feel what you sayin I'm in the same situation after a 2 year relationship
Dude they don’t and it’s so enraging. I was in a 4+ yr relationship and going from a relationship back to the dating scene is like going from a mansion back to a fucking 500 sq ft run down house built in the 1930’s with tweakers rummaging the place.
That's true I just got tried 😢😢😢 can't find love on dating apps
I went to parties, live concerts, traveled the country, lived my life everyday for the past 20 years and I never met anyone.. things don’t just happen for everyone
Well did you approach women ? I mean, if you are a guy and go out with the expectation that women will run up to you and introduce themselves - then you will be disappointed .. I mean, learn to look for signs from women and then talk to them ..
@@brianmeen2158 I did.. daily..
I was a snowboarding instructor at a high end resort in a tourist town, I get along with girls better than I get along with guys, girls just don’t like me like that
I’m nice and will do anything for literally anyone and I don’t think girls like that very much but I’m unwilling to change that aspect of myself, as long as you know your own self worth there’s no such thing as too nice.
That and I don’t drink so I’ve never really went to bars
Now I’m in my 30s, own a house and live alone so I pretty much have to spend all my time working
@@waterforgizmo3232you probably project no masculine presence. Women aren’t going to want to be with you if they don’t believe you can lead them.
@@waterforgizmo3232 Don respond to that PoS. Whoever that is they just troll manosphere content day & night looking for guys to pick on. Like its weird this person is literally in every comment section i ever see. Like some woke chatbot or something, Men know what you are talking about. Women reject 100% of most men now.
Its probably the most messed up time in human history & the fallout is coming. It cant go on like this forever. its not just dating in a nutshell either. Women took all the jobs & money & now they have all the power & dont know what to do with it.
@@waterforgizmo3232damn you seem like a decent dude if that’s the case WE’RE FUCKED
It's ironic that I just got a bumble ad while watching this video
Same
Install an adblocker wtf, man.
@@NikosM112 on mobile
Me too.
Me too
I have done use dating apps, it was waste time and energy.
hell yeah!! (as I redownload tinder)
@@Mark-se4drit’ll be better this time I’m sure
i agree but I found a mini e-book on amazon which gave me good insights. It was called- Dating apps master the game
It sure is.
Match Group being sued, bumble's stocks down by 40 percent, the downfall of dating apps has begun.
Who is suing match
@@JJ-vp3bd Google match lawsuit
Match group being sued? I sure hope it's because of their unfair and wrongful ban. I was recently banned on Hinge within 24 hours of purchasing a subscription.
I got off the apps. Ain't no way they gonna have me out here feeling insecure for some shallow reasoning.
Also best way to meet people is events in your city/community 😌 Like art classes, trivia nights at bars, etc.
Bars only work for women
Amen and just focusing on yourself and getting a gym membership. Not having to go on a dating app and still having options is so much more rewarding lol
@@deehlgrm9379idk about that bro I’ve had women approach me at bars as well lol
@@hawaiianrussian1047 focusing on yourself is key. When you've given yourself all that you need it'll be hard for someone to shake that foundation... with proper vetting of course. I'm not dating atm because I don't want someone in my space right now 😅 I'm not ready
@@christophervaldivia2222 honestly...I haven't been to a museum in a minute. Thanks for the suggestion!
Love hasn’t brought all people here it’s called bad decisions,one night stands,etc
Amen brother
Preach
This young brother has a lot to learn if that wasn't actually a joke.
Speak for yourself. Your parents disappointed you.
@@mandatrev2992 bro you mad at the truth
You are right and wrong at the same time. Most these apps only really match you in the first week. After that your profile gets buried under other profiles.
That’s because they want you to buy their subscriptions, once I got tinder gold suddenly I was getting matches again, same when I upgraded on bumble. They do this on purpose so that you will buy the subscriptions.
I just decided to try a dating app for the first time, got on Facebook dating, met a nice girl who complimented me and we vibed for about a week. Then one morning I wake up and she unadded me from everything for no reason. Literally the night before she was saying she would call me the next day. It makes zero sense. I don't want to waste my time with this. I don't see how you could do this to someone. People are just forgetting how to be human anymore, its like social media has made people see other people as just entertainment for them, and as soon as they're done with you that's it. So yeah, I understand why so many people don't even bother anymore. I'm sure the same thing happens to women too. Its just a toxic environment, and the worst part is that it seems so hard to meet people in real life
I can relate to this online experience as well as meeting people in real life being harder.
I also used fb dating, and after one week with talking with a guy , we were supposed to meet the next day, he send me a photo with him showing he is preparing for the date and after that he ghosted me.. I texted him but no response. I just deleted everything and gave up on dating. I’m just focusing on my own life. I don’t want to experience this anymore.
You should upload more often, your commentary content is solid.
Frr
the algo needs this fr
Honestly, for someone who has no experience with texting girls. I just treat hinge as some sort of training ground for when the time comes that I do manage to get with someone I like
I wonder how many dudes have ended it because of dating apps. I mean, I have had some “success,” but I have also been done bad. Being down bad from a dating app is really psychologically damaging I feel.
if you are the wrong size, wrong color, wrong height. it doesnt matter what kind of person you are. you will be rejected. thats how it works. dating apps are scams for most men except a small minority
i feel like its extremely rare for dating apps to work how they're meant to
You got that right. Dating Apps are extremely, if not incredibly rare for any man to get women over the internet these days. It is a true wonder that Dating Apps are still around despite the fact they have very high failure rate. Just saying.🕷
@@darthgraggus2690 i've never even used a dating app but i've heard so many stories about em
@@darthgraggus2690 It’s sad isn’t it? In an anti social society these companies are making so much money off mens loneliness.
It's because people abuse them. Online dating is an ART.
@@darthgraggus2690 Maybe you dont know how to use them... just saying
I deleted all of my dating apps about 2 months ago. I was obsessed with them and decided one day those are the wrong resources to try to meet the good type of people I want to meet. It's nothing but games and entertainment for women it seems.
Smart decision. Meet someone in person. I met my boyfriend in person at a beach and again at a county fair where I asked him out. It's a bit of a long-distance relationship (I live in New Hampshire, he lives in Pennsylvania) but the fact we met in person and meet up about once a month means we have the real life chemistry that just can't be replicated through social media (yes, dating apps are social media)
how are you with dating now? can you give us an update? i am worried apps are just a waste of time too
@@neihomai8 still haven't been on any of them. Done for good. I also realize I don't need anyone in my life to make me happy. I am actually happy with myself and I think that will draw someone to me naturally
Women on Tinder : I don't answer to people saying "Hi how are you"
Women on Bumble : "Sup"
If you're spending 6 bands on dating sites you're a SIMP.
lol yea with that kind of money you should be able to attract some kind of women without apps. or just pay for play for much cheaper.
Beta male too lol
Or a Plankton
son: dad how did you meet mom
dad: tinder
I wouldn't count on it.
More like
Son: Why have I never met my dad?
Mom: Tinder
Too depressed, jaded and demoralised. I know downloading one of these apps again is going destroy my self esteem.
Very informative video! I met up with multiple girls on dating apps, but they ended up just being one night stands and a lot of them were like jumping around from guy to guy. There are some people who have found fulfilling relationships from online dating apps, but when it comes to the top three that you listed there, majority of them use it for hook ups. So if you want a serious relationship, just have a good intuition don’t smash the first or second time you see them, and take things slow if you want a lasting relationship.
Bro you're a gem, such an authentic and honest, genuin and hilarious creator. Keep it up i appreciate you!
Much love
Bro! When you said next Joey Swole victim I started dying 😭😭
I was on Hinge from January 2022 to September 2022. Never again man. It was so pointless. Hinge 100% uses the same algorithm that Tinder does. In fact, I came out more jaded about finding love than before I went in.
I just discovered your channel not even an hour ago, and I can already tell that you're gonna be someone watch nonstop
This idea that dating apps are for hook ups have no evidence when it comes to straight women. There’s experiments including my own where it takes FAR more matches just to get a yes to requesting a hook up. Who knows how many would actually show up
I havent ever been on dating apps, been together 21 years.
Did dating apps exist 21 years ago?
@Camrynns all they had was aol chatrooms 😂
When people weren’t paranoid or on edge 24/7.
Instead of mindlessly scrolling on dating apps, I was running 16 km today.
Just do something productive instead that benefits your health, mentality & finances.
On dating apps, the typical ratio of men to women is around 3:1. So, if I walked into a lounge with 100 people on a Saturday night and saw that 75 of them were men, I’d probably decide to leave
500 dollars per month is sickening
Been a fan for a month. I'm here till the end of time
You can get laid on tinder but you gotta lower your standards a bit, the funny thing is the last girl I met on there broke up with me most likely because she matched with some more attractive guy who will just pump and dump which in the end saved me from having to break up with her so yeah win win
I've deleted tinder 3 times
You sure about that? Even if someone likes you you’ll never match with them most likely. Tinder is a complete waste of time.
@@renjiaow3742 I dunno maybe I just got lucky with that one sort of, but yeah tinders a complete waste of time for the most part
I agree with the OP, i had some hookups with apps, 3 fat girls, 1 had a scar on her face, 2 were decent looking, one of them lasted 1yr. All of that in a 2 years span, could get more if don’t vetted single moms
Dating apps kinda work just depends on you and the person you’re interacting
100% dude
Facts , literally met my fiancé on one
facts and it only works for a few people....
If you can get to one. That's the key. The apps do their part to prevent it and our own habits between genders of getting lost doesn't help.
@@isaiahfrancis7371You're a chad.
I have given up on dating apps… my experience is that people there are not serious about anything genuine anymore
The old ways are best. Develop actual hobbies, meet likeminded people, do good for your community, make friends. Stop trying to live through internet services, they do not have your best interests at heart. It is not in their interests to help you succeed, because then you don't need them anymore.
These dating apps are designed to keep you single. How else are they gonna make money off lonely folks?
man i love this man's videos
It’s funny that I never get ads for dating apps but watching your videos I got one
Love from Germany
So underrated bro, I love your content
Man.. getting two dates cancelled this week by two different guys.. it’s really affecting my mood. I feel stupid, hopeless and unlovable
On Reddit I ran into people accusing me of being a horrible person because they were successful on dating apps while I wasn't.
One said "dating apps don't work for YOU because you're an asshole"
"Asshole" = person that doesn't have good enough genetics
Don’t listen to any of that, it’s all a fat load of crap. You could be the most genuine, kind man a woman could talk to on that app while being respectful and offering a genuine date with them, and they’ll still blow it up in your face and make it seem like their choices are good or well thought out when they’d rather pick the “chad that’s 6’4” to pump and dump them instead. It’s utterly all a false illusion to make us feel like shit while we’re doing our best to treat everybody with respect and dignity.
@@rainydayz6429 Oh who would say that on a dating app where your value depends on your face and body people will be rejecting you because you don’t meet their standards, i mean, it is kinda obvious, same happens with ugly and out of shape women, even if you are a 7/10 there is this idea that they will pull better, even out of their league because there is so many options. It is on both sides of the coin and it is reasonable, you do not know many things about the other person other than their looks, so halo effect takes place stronger than ever.
Ignore the noise.
Personally, the best advice I was ever given to meet people, including women is find a hobby that you like and meet people organically that way
It’s so cool to hear the opinion of a young dude (20 y/o) on these modern topics with me being 40+ bravo 👏🏾 channel.
def one of the best content out there. man u should definitely upload more ur style in commentary and jokes are great
but im sorry i get lost like every 3 minutes in that hearline it's honestly outrageous just let it go man or smtg abt it💀🙏🏾💯
I found your TH-cam today and I watched some of your videos and so far you have had the best opinions and facts. You’re also super funny. Please keep up the content
I’ve never been on a dating app. I refuse to get into that stuff.
Kameron bro your personality is golden videos always got me crackin up 😂😂😂
So I’ve been watching this guys videos and why is he a walking FACT🗣️🔥🔥
Your videos are so goated bro I can’t wait to see the 1 million by your name‼️‼️
TH-cam recommended you to me for no reasons, and i watched almost all your videos. And i must admit, you're good. Aaaaaaand subbed. You deserve more!!!
Love has always found a way to avoid me. To me love is a social construct
Ur everywhere
The fact I was hit with a Bumble ad before this, is the icing on the cake😭😭😭😭
Hinge is actually the best one. I’ve had some nice matches on there when I would use those apps in college
Lol I had best results on tindferno despite putting my T20 college on the bio of hinge, but not on the tindferno acc…
Funny bc I always hear femaIes gaslight men into saying they get no results on tindferno bc of the ratio, when the ratio is better on hinge
You're just a chad.
@@AM-cm2kj No he's right, being able to send a message first on Hinge to get them to laugh, or respond, is way easier than Tinder or bumble. Hinge is the one I get the most matches on
Nice matches but did they lead to anything?!
@@sinking1902 Hinge led to some hook ups, a couple dates and one relationship.
I always thought it was ridiculous when someone sets a minimum of 500 characters to send them a message. They are just going to judge the persons looks anyways, so I don’t know why they’re making them fill out an application form on their first message? 😂 I lucked out and met my wife on POF 5 years ago ❤
They absolutely suck now, but back in the day 2011-2017ish it was like going to the grocery store. I was putting up Steph Curry numbers. Everything was free! You didn't have to pay for basic things. POF was a gold mine!
The sad reality of dating apps is that you have to have ALL of them and treat it as a part time job.. You will meet people, but without a doubt its far harder than it used to be. When Tinder first came out I would have a date every second week without much effort.. Now its every 3 months, like sure I'm more picky now.. but I'm spending far too much time on these apps.
BRO DROPPED ANOTHER BANGER
What’s strange is they changed somewhere down the line. Can confirm that around 2016 they were at their peak it was honestly decent for most dudes. Nowadays most guys have nothing but bad things to say.
Just like most businesses in this country nowadays, like oh people are suffering from something? We can totally make money off of this, shits getting really old
He finally dropped it woooooo, ngl these dating apps just want ya money fax. I rather spend my bread on a double cheese, large fries
Plenty of Fish made me find the woman of my dreams. We have a two year old son together 😁. Now i can say in TODAY'S social environment, no dating apps dont work. They did back in 2007 -17
they hating in the comments but the ratio to successful relationships to nothing from dating apps is significantly different
Yeah, because you choose chad. It's easy to stay loyal to chad.
@@AM-cm2kj lmao what an incel we have here. look bruh just because don't know how to present yourself attractively doesn't mean only the top 0.1% get women on Tinder. I started to use it a month ago and it's really easy to get dates there.
Hopefully, you're not considering yourself ugly or undatable. You're a handsome young guy with your whole future ahead.
I feel bad for young people now. In the old days, boys and girls as early middle school were going to movies on dates. We had a small town theatre and it was total craziness and kinda scary even for a teen boy to meet up with a girl and sit together. Of course everyone had friends in tow, but that was added background noise. Now with social media, young people don't seem to do anything in person. Even my 2 teen daughters go with groups of same sex friends to school dances and prom type activities. Kind of depressing to witness even as a parent.
I wish single people 'good luck' in spending all of their money, energy, emotions, etc. on lousy dating apps/websites.
If you’re single there’s nothing wrong with downloading a dating app but to sink so low to the point of paying for a subscription is just sad. Focusing in your self and getting a gym membership and taking better care of yourself goes so much farther.
True, but for some people, it's still over. Genetics triumphs all.
the top 10% of dudes get 90% of the women, in the US. alot of guys out there are invisible, since they werent born with a prettyface or an ideal physique. makes sense now why dudes are joining the passport bro movt. I never looked back once i got into it, overseas women arent nearly as shallow as physical appearance as US girls are.
@@AM-cm2kjlol that is not how attraction works. "Rizz" comes a long way when it comes to seducing women. reality is women don't care much about looks.
Does it get you romantic partners?
@@jmac356 yes? Lol
I paid $500 on tinder per month and it was the same people who liked me before 😔💔
$500?! wtf
You’re crazy bro…
lol i felt bad about paying $40/month for premium. No way i could spend $500
Bro what?
Not even Batman could beat that info outta me
go outside, meet women, win that restrain order!
Saw an article on a guy going on 200 dates in 1 year. My god. With so much choice on these apps, it’s hard to find genuine connections.
Love is pretty lit but there's many people brought onto this earth NOT because of love unlike what you said at 0:18.
Romance is dead and it is our fault.
Hinge is the best way to find a real relationship! Found my girl there and we are almost to together for a year! ❤️ and we are going to live together in 2 months!
Not really but good for you
I definitely agree with you on Hinge being the better App out of the 3
Don't do it save yourself while you can
@@ykonratev bro it doesn’t hurt to try and I didn’t pay for the app…I was on it for free and I met her so it’s possible it’s called patience…
Hinge is not the best way to find a real relationship. You were one of the few that got a relationship out of it. Thats all.
Legend posted less go
Many people don't realize how dangerous dating apps really are. I'm gay, but from my own experience I can recommend that everyone not download or register on a single dating app. It's best to stay away from such things.
They work but there is a formula to them. Many people just abuse the apps instead of using them to your benefit. Me and my siblings found our loves on dating apps.
What’s the formula?
Doesn't help that depending on where you live, alternative ways to meet people are in short supply. Im in Tacoma for example and there isn't really much here.
In my area i legit put in hours of work researching and trying new things in an attempt to broaden my horizons but everything you can do is so antisocial anymore in the sense that its something that you really have to go into it with people, but its not good for meeting new people from a dating perspective or otherwise. Eg bowling or going to a museum.
Just demoralizing
Damn…I love this man…I just binged his videos without knowing because it’s entrancing lmao
Only chad wins on those apps
Chad only
I'm so sorry for you litter bro. learn to play the game lol
Skill issue
@@yourlocalcheetodustdealer2946 Genetics issue
@@AM-cm2kj that too
6:12 bro this section reminds of me of the black mirror episode named “nosedive.” This world is getting very dystopian…
Already is man, suicide rates will skyrocket in the next 30 years for sure.
i always thought online dating was just an ego booster or a one night hookup but not thatpeople actually took them serious
If you’re a narcissist then yes
@@sweetcutecoolgirl Your name is sweetcutecoolgirl and you are calling me a narcissist. Kinda hypocritical don't ya think?
@@L.scardi9138you’re quite telling on yourself she said *IF*
For the most part they really are and the sad is it ain’t just an ego booster for men anymore. I’ve seen so much women actually brag about the amount of matches they get on tinder and I just look at them like 🤨🤨😂😂😂
@jessie6600 You are good-looking and/or tall.
edging me w/ the pride opening at the start of the video is crazy
Yo content is goated fr, keep it up
With all that being said, I really enjoy your videos ❤
Dating these days is an agreement between two (or more) people to share affection until you get bored. So, even if the apps succeeded in getting you a match, the meta for the dating game itself is really bad.
Tinder is a hook up app probably alway been, if you’re a guy you’re gonna have a hard time on bumble because if a girl likes you it’s gonna be pretty rare for her to send since she is the one who has the message first, so that’s why I stick with Hinge.
Bumble is god awful I swear, honestly if you’re a dude you should be on dating apps, seeing a female in person and shooting your shot always better
Yeah the one time you’re lucky enough for them to actually remember they have to message first they just hit you with hey
The whole "women have to message first or else the match disappears in 24 hrs" thing is really stupid and I've lost some great matches because of this as a result, but overall Bumble still has way better and has more quality women than Tinder.
I finally asked a girl in person she was giving all the signs and I got rejected, dating is just impossible for the average Joe because women have thousands to choose from
Noooo. No it doesn’t
@@Cinnamon535same here and it's like: "Nah bro you need to ask her out ASAP otherwise she will lose interest!!!"
or "You asked her out too soon bro!! Skill issue!! Learn how to talk to women!!!"
FML
if yall get no play by simply going out into the real world ,spending money on a dating profile wont help. its not a video game, relationships arent pay to win😂
That is not true these ladies now days what the 000000
How do you get play then, if not dating profiles?
@@jmac356 go outside😂
@@averagejojo7019 Ok. I'm outside right now. NOW WHERE ARE ALL THOSE HOT GIRLS?
Actually, there are more human beings on this Earth because of "accidents" with people you don't love than you might think.
Dating is so f*cking hard. I think I missed the day when they taught this bullshit in school, because I don’t understand why everyone is dating and only I stand there scared and confused. I genuinely don’t understand how this all works. And I’ll probably die alone.
bruv you've inspired me to make content! love the content!
I met my boyfriend on Hinge 💜 he’s the sweetest man I’ve ever been with in my life and we’re almost to our one year anniversary
Also, do not be under my comment being negative bc these apps didn’t work out for YOU. Keep your hatefulness to yourself 😂 it’s sad wishing downfall on somebody else’s relationship.
Yeah right, I bet you’re a hinge informant
Wait till you get to your 5th
translation: he's chad.
I been using apps for 6 years and had two girlfriends that lasted 1 year who I wasn't crazy about.
My sister finds many men who she wants to marry then a week later breaks up with them. That's how it goes. Don't get married.
I was convinced by a coworker to download tinder after a rough breakup I had. I met two nut jobs on there, one was cheating on his girlfriend of 7 yrs with me I later found out but I also reconnected with my friend from high school I had a huge crush on. We have now been together 5 years and I’ve only loved him more. Idk maybe it’s just cause I already knew him lol but I personally recommend it.
Such a great video Kam! 🔥
Nice, "Himitsu" sounds right about the track for ruminating :D
It sucks that dating apps don't work because there's many people (like myself) who don't have any other options for meeting the opposite sex, and when we try any of the other options that are supposed to exist, they don't work either, so we end up being incels.
How would you guys suggest that someone like me, 16 almost 17 years old with bad social anxiety and insecurities, find a girlfriend? I want a long and healthy relationship with someone who I can hopefully marry. But I REALLY struggle to go outside and just meet girls
Go to the gym and talk to people at your school.
High school is the best place to find a long lasting relantionship because its one of the few places were man and woman are forced to be together.