Rima Kallingal | Here & Now (Part 1) @wonderwallmedia
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Producer & Interviewer : Vinu Janardanan
Camera : Aneesh Chandran, Akhil Sundaram
Edit & Graphics : Sudheesh MS
Coloring: Alby Nataraj
Music: Deepu Sasidharan
Camera Asst: Mathew Gypson Tom
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നമ്മൾ പോലും വിചാരിക്കാത്ത രീതിയിൽ ആഗ്രഹിക്കാത്ത രീതിയിൽ നമ്മൾ നമ്മളെ മാറ്റേണ്ടി വരുന്നു. ആ മാറ്റം ആരെയൊക്കെയോ സന്തോഷിപ്പിക്കും ആ സന്തോഷത്തിൽ നമുക്കൊരു സമാധാനം കിട്ടും എന്നൊക്കെ വിചാരിക്കും... പക്ഷെ അത് നമ്മൾ നമ്മളെ തന്നെ ശവപ്പെട്ടിയിലാക്കുന്ന പോലെ ആകും.. നമ്മൾ ജീവിച്ചിരുന്ന ആളായി ഒരു തിരിച്ചു വരവുണ്ടാകുബോൾ കിട്ടുന്ന ഒരു ആനന്ദം ഉണ്ട്. ആ ആനന്ദം, ആകാംഷ എല്ലാം ഈ സംസാരത്തിൽ ഉണ്ട്.. ഇംഗ്ലീഷിൽ സംസാരിക്കുന്നതു കൊണ്ടും നിലപാടുകൾ ഉള്ളതുകൊണ്ടും പെണ്ണായതുകൊണ്ടും ചിലർക്കിതൊന്നും ദഹിക്കില്ല. ഒരിക്കലെങ്കിലും നിങ്ങൾ നിങ്ങളെ കണ്ടെത്തു.. അപ്പോളറിയാം ഈ ഒരു ഇത്..Love you Rima♥
I really appreciate Vinu's interviews, the guests are respected and meaningful conversations are made
She seems to have gone through a really struggling phase emotionally...it's visible wen v compare her old and new interviews.
But kudos to her, for overcoming everything...and working towards betterment
I love how she articulates what she have inside. I can totally understand what she's saying as a woman.
Thank you Rima from the day 1, that you've used your platform voicing against the patriarchal conditioning which makes women hard to exist as themselves. I truly love you and your soul. And I really know how conscious and aware you are ❤🫂
Me too
🙌🏽
*she has inside
This was vey, very relatable as a woman.. especially the identity crisis associated with marriage
Actually i fear to let anyone into this marriage institution, especially girls. Because through marriage girls can’t grow as u said .. it is offering more and more restrictions to the womanhood ( especially for a girl who want to explore her own life) .And through ur interview it is becoming more clear …. Can relate the entire subject as am also a woman . A married woman .
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O Oops... here we go without men women can't last in this world for more than 3 days, get over it 😂
@@spetznazxt u are talking to a woman who is staying alone in a different country. And I love my man a lot ...
@@aparnap6903 All power to you..
In a way this system is created for society to go forward in a healthy way... but I agree, its not the best , specially for woman....
But if you are with the right partner, it can be pretty great... otherwise...if its obviously wrong partner, you will try and get out of it....
if its somewhere in the middle....avideyum ivideyum illannulla pole aavum life.... 😀
I think she is the only one to put this messy marriage institution to real true and solemn words..Indeed she is a true woman …. No masking❤
True Rima u r always have ur own way n space keep going.. honest talk 👍👍👍
I agree with Rima that Marriage is a veruppikal system in our society... People should get married when they feel they are with a right person... otherwise they should be able to carry on their life without any stigma
Loved it ❤. Vinu, you should do a video on how to talk and LISTEN for all interviewers or may be for all men 😊
If rima said like this. Then ashiq is not a feminist.
I respect her for say whatever she feel and wat other females actually say
But some situations making us not a stable! We will just follow wat our forefathers did!! We really speakup just like her!! I admire her for that!! That guts are amazing after all this things happen in her life, she is still strong and bold, now she is just careful at some points and covers up with a smile or laugh!
Whoever went through that or saw such situations they can understand easily!!
Lets all put together and bring this positive change and implement
I love how she is clear on her though process. I love this interview.
Its really sad that there are women in the comments finding faults with her when she is taking steps to stand for women. She isnt talking about anything new. Most women go through an identitily crisis after marraige...nobody talks about it becoz they dont have the guts..thats all. Atleast shes doing something about it. Shes putting up a strong front and trying to laugh it off. So instead of commenting about how awkward her laugh is ..understand the pain behind it. I saw another woman's comment that she could do any other job... Really?? There might be some women who have no problem with doing any job. Rima is a very passionate artist.. obviously she would want to pursue her dreams. That doesnot stop just becoz she got married. Women in the comments throwing hate... understand this ..true queens fix each others crowns.
For which women she is taking steps? Did she do anything meaningful to the women in India? She only knows to cry and complain. If you have problem you only have to solve your problem. If you don`t have guts to solve your problem then you have to relay on such celebrities thoughts.
@@DK-ff6jg I only see her whining and cribbing and then a laugh.. no strong thoughts Of feminism nor empowerment!
@@monisharajan9520 You are right
She doesn't need a question. Just said it her way with a word of interviewer
ഗുഡ് പ്രസന്റേഷൻ ഗോ അഹെഡ് 👏👏👍
Rima, I relate to many things you say, and I feel your pain. You that you are primarily a dancer, and because of this, your movies off-late are spoiled by your expressions. Gosh, stop raising your eyebrows and faster saccades. It spoils every movie of yours. I love you in earlier movies.
Nice talk 👍
Watch at 1.25 speed
Thank you ..time saving tip☺️
Thanks
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I think the discussions on women's rights and our experiences must move beyond the kind of self-involved homilies. The stories we tell should be in search of the collective experience and not a celebration of personal fulfillment.
I totally second you . I here more about non creation of comfortable space and system before a woman enters her personal experience and learning . For anyone irrespective of gender challenges and fighting it out is what defines your learning curve and experience
Rima's parents didn't like the truth she said about fish fry.... One can only imagine what goes in their minds when they eat a fish fry again
Space Space Space Space
Interviewer is a very good listener, but I think he can sometimes enter the conversation when the subject is repeatedly struggling to express their thoughts (to how they see fit, otherwise it is just a lot of ummming and Ahhing). Also I feel this interview was mostly just complaining and giving justification for hurting parents. Hope to see more relevant and current discussions, other than fish fry incidents that happened eons ago. The feminist discussion in Kerala has progressed beyond that ages ago.
No true progress at all. Conversations are still built around one or the other imagined discrimination only, cos they never want to throw the silly victimhood status away. Poor women, they were fooled by so many lies.
Her laugh is really awkward at certain point i feel like a mask
She is trying to be diplomatic after every statement. If you believe in your perception you should just put it across strongly and seriously . Otherwise it will look like an ask - let it change if someone else will do it for me
Correct always
True.. it’s covering her sadness n disappointment I feel! It does get irritating. If she’s sad show it.. u don’t always have to cover it up with a laugh!
ഒറ്റ ചോദ്യം,
ആഷിഖ് അബു എന്ന വ്യക്തി റിമ കല്ലിങ്കലിൻ്റെ ഭർത്താവല്ല എങ്കിൽ ഇന്ന് ഇദ്ദേഹം സിനിമയിൽ ഒണ്ടാകുമായിരുന്നോ? നീലവെളിച്ചം എന്ന സിനിമയിലെ നായിക ഇദ്ദേഹമായിരിക്കുമോ?
I don't understand....is she saying she didn't get movies all this long just because she is married😮😮
I swear !
She is saying that's also a reason.. Many were like let her husband produce her movies..
She clearly know now that she is addressing an intellectually less exposed crowd.
Is she asked respond in English...man is asking in malayalam
I have seen so many negative comments under this
Video ( short video posted as a reel).. People say she is a fool , that’s why she speaks like this ( eg: fish fry)..I feel ashamed and scared as I am living in a world in which people don’t even have a brain to understand what she says…
Priyanka chopra, kareena , katrina, deepika, nayanthara, jyothika, nazriya… they all are married and doing movies like before. If you didnt get movie it your problem only . It has nothing to do with marriage
Alia!!
how many movies nazriya did?
Now manju warrier is working because she is divorced
None of the above mentioned are living in Kerala except Nazriya.. and she returned to her job after very long, but still not active as before..
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Mam,Please try to speak Malayalam normally for all people, please remind this is Malayalam interview, your ejucated person, other wise it's good interview
Hai rima mam.... I am a big fan of u...... ❤️
She is addressing as if in India after marriages all women are sitting in the Kitchen. If you did`t get work then you can blame only film industry not the entire marriage system.
Why don´t you just get divorce if you think that marriage adds nothing positive and enriching to your life. Why you have to be part of something which you don`t agree? 🤔🤔🤔You have the freedom to get out of it. If you are so bold and strong you have to get out of it and be free.
What if she does nt want to be bold or strong? And for your kind information there are n number of women sitting in kitchen just bcos of marriage..
@@freebirdindia3911 There might be women sitting in the kitchen its their choice. But in today's world you have all the right and options to choose whether to sit in the kitchen or work according to your wish.
@@DK-ff6jg sorry to disagree.. There are many women sitting in kitchen without their consent.. It's not their choice... If u want to say everything is fine u can tell that just for the sake of telling.. Some progression in society doesnt mean everything is fine.. There are women who are suffering in kitchen still...
Conceptual clarity illa endhelamo parayanamenund pakshe onum clear alla
Conceptual.clarity at the same time.politically correct aayitulla oru sentence പറയാമോ.
@@rinip.s5264 about what?
Miya after marriage in film and not frustrated like you so don’t think everyone hate marriage system don’t put all women in that task
Most Christian families are much forward thinking..
@@rosemaggie4745 soooo trueeee cz they exposed to the world nd considers the daughter in laws as daughters
Great.. What all roles? She acted as exlover of father of actor of her age in her latest. . Was she doing that earlier..earlier means just one and a half years back..She is also put in a box but a different box.. That's all..
@@rosemaggie4745 rima didn't tell anything wrong about her family
@freebird@india I commented to the above msg about marriage system
Can’t she speak Malayalam? Isn’t this interview mainly meant for Malayalam audience?!
Life is different for everyone,your ideologies exposure lifestyle personal experience veche generalise cheyaruthe and dont tell everyone else to be you..i think this is why general public cant relate with most of the feminist even if they have a point.
Most women can relate to what she is saying .
True...just have to be open to things around you... everyone can relate to what she is saying...if it's not making sense to you later will be
@@m.l1466 women alone is not public dear,this is why i mentioned the public..!!!
R u a man? U sound like one😊.
If u r not interested in marriage, why u r still in marriage....if u don't believe...don't generalize....bcoz there are ppl who believes in marriage and society and family
you are not getting the point. its not about the marriage , its about how society perceives a married woman , and the do and don't s which comes with it. that's what she is trying to say
She is talking against the system only not against marriage
Meaningful conversation…. But she giggles too much…
Hiding pain
Ivel korch psycho aayedpole thonniyavar indo,i think she need a care and love from ashiq what she deserves
The other day I heard an interview where she said - “even if you see in Dalits” the men have an upper hand (paraphrased)- so aren’t you putting Dalits into a box and system as in your mind ???
I work in a space where I am probably less than 0.1% women against men and I work hard for my space and I am successful in my own way . My marriage and gender never affected me cos I don’t let anyone put me into a box . Why aren’t you able to control what’s personally happening in your so called marriage box? Why do u stop believing in it cos of external factors.?
U dont seem to understand what she says.
Do u?
I work at a workspace where I am the only woman, and I have been privileged to not feel the effects of marriage in my work life. But does that mean we should ignore someone else's struggle? She is talking about the movie industry and common people viewing her differently after marriage. As her chances to get work( unlike probably yours or mine) revolves around how society perceives married women as dependents and not having market value. Coming to your point on boxing dalits, she was telling about the issues she heard from another director who worked on the topic. She might have her biases, but I feel you are taking it out of context. Rima I felt was addressing the matter that whatever be the class (even if they are from the oppressed class) women are treated as inferiors in general.
@@monisharajan9520 u seem to judge based only on ur experiences. People including me have come through different situations .
But... But.... Rich upper caste woman also need to feel oppressed😢.
Why she is giggle too much unnecessary
What's wrong with you. Am sorry she didn't giggle the way you intended her to giggle.
Why give unnecessary hype to elite feminist speaking about first world things. Ever cared to showcase/ bring someone who are marginally oppressed? Third world countries require priority to Social justice and Economic Justice rather than gender justice.
Scheduled Tribes in Kerala face more injustice and systemic exclusion. Just think. Ever cared to give them the space?
true that, but can't looked down on feminism and I don't think that there's something called "elite feminism." Feminism is the spin off of how not only men but women themselves look at and treat women with inequality and injustice across all social strata. I would rather have a world without the feminist movement as there shouldn't have been any sort of inequality and injustice meted out to them in the first place.
So what you mean if scheduled tribes faces more problem women can't speak about their problems???
So if your neighbour who is a prominent person died yesterday and you died today, your family should not mourn your death but only your neighbour's right? Got it. Good riddance it will be.
Why don't you give an interview? She's talking about what's important to her. Maari irunnu kuttam parayan elupam aanu
It's true dat there are many important and serious matters that need to be talked about and prioritised , but y not gender justice? Gender justice is as important Nd relevant as any other issue... rather than questioning the importance of gender justice , i think, the right way is to talk about the other relevant issues too...
Let's talk about all the issues in the society simultaneously because every issue is relevant to whomever is going thru it
She is trying to be something and trying to say she is something, but It’s all about nothing. He is supperb (host)
She's an artist, a dancer, a producer, an activist.. what about u?
@@shadesofcalm3499 Mr kulasthree. What I meant is not as per you perceived. By the way, who are you? I have a name at least to mention.
@@bijojose86 my name is Anju Rajan. I'm an artist, writer, a psychologist and definitely not a kulasthree. Try and be empathetic to people's struggles. Oru sthree avarde struggle ne kurichu parayumbol atleast try and understand their view..and if you didn't ... Try not to bitch about them. She has done 30 movies and is an amazing dancer. Isn't it sad that she's trying to say something and none of you understood? Why is it you thought only the host is superb?
@@shadesofcalm3499 ok good. I don’t have time to reply one by one, but in short what I meant is, she made her situations or trying to say her situations demanded her to be an activist. I felt like the way. Women collective activists almost all of thems interviews I purposefully listen to understand their views. But so far what I felt is, all of them are trying to be a feminist or creating situations or incidences to their way which actually a normal thing. Eg. Rimas fish fry situation. She doesn’t have a proper situation may be, so she made that into it to fix her view. If you are genuinely an activist then my codos to you.
@@shadesofcalm3499 it is not a shame being called as kulastree.actually it has a positive connotation.kulastree is not a women who lives under a man rather a women with all capabilities .so wen someone call u dont consider it is an insult or they r trying to demean u.eppol prostitute sinu nalla vilayanu for example sunnyleone .comments under her videos show tat.but kulastreekal valare moshamanu.
Ee chiri kurachu boring annennu eniku mathramano thonniyathu.Ethu joluku venamenkilum pokallo if you itching to do something.ethu jolikum thaya manyatha undu
You are thinking that you are living in an another world just because you are an actress. This is what your problem is and making you a unhappy person. You are thinking about only yourself and you only love yourself.
One should make themselves happy first
@@rosemaggie4745 That she can never be, because she thinks artists have super power 😂😂😂 To be happy she has to come out of her dream world.
That's exactly not she is talking about. Thanks for taking it the way opposite. Shows how how twisted our minds are have read her wrong.
Why is she always desperate for something and not able to find happiness in her life?
Always expressing being unsatisfied, bothered, and unfulfilled.
This is the problem with people working in the film industry. You can never find happiness.
She admits she was devastated when work was denied, taken away. Work she was passionate about. Not for a month, but for years. Doesn't she have the right to express what she was going through in such a space?. Why can't people respect other person's emotions?.
@@saranyasivan6293 Who has taken away her work. She has to find her work nobody will go and give her the work at her home. For example: If you want a job you have to sit and apply for a job in each and every companies based on your skill sets. Nobody will come to your home and give you a work.
Exactly , always complaining
What an extreme victim mentality she has?
If she didn't get opportunities coming to her feet, she should have gone out and searched for it.
In every interview she is crying saying the same thing that opportunities were taken away from her.
People who are passionate create their own opportunities and don't have any shame in asking others for work.
I so agree with you.. all the while I have never heard her interviews before and assumed she might be fighting for great causes .
Now it sounds like blame game
E koch malayali alle atho hindhi artst ano english anallo full vilambunnath malayalam ariyatha koch ano
Pretentious...
First of all i think she still living in that 'fish fry ' moment which was encouraged and enjoyed by most of the pseudo feminist
Secondly she is frustrated with 'marriage box ' 😢
Number 1 fruad couples they made stinking money from poor people of kerala
Fact💯
Truth
Speaking English is not a problem, but she sounds like she doesn't know malayalam
Illa. മലയാളവും.പറയുന്നുണ്ടല്ലോ .
ഇംഗ്ലീഷിൽ സംസാരിക്കുന്നത് തെറ്റാണ് എന്നല്ല, പക്ഷെ UKയിലും USലുമൊക്കെ settled ആയ ആളുകളെ എനിക്കറിയാം. അവർ പോലും പച്ചമലയാളം സംസാരിക്കുമ്പോൾ കേരളത്തിൽ താമസിക്കുന്ന ഒരു മലയാളി തീരെ മലയാളം അറിയാത്ത ഒരാളെ പോലെ ഒരു മലയാളം ചാനലിൽ വന്നിരുന്ന് 90% ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് 10% മലയാളം എന്ന കണക്കിൽ സംസാരിക്കുന്നത് വളരെ അരോചകമായി തോന്നുന്നു. ഏഷ്യയിൽ തന്നെ ഏറ്റവും ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് പ്രവീണ്യമുള്ള ആളുകളിൽ ഒരാളാണ് ശശി തരൂർ. അദ്ദേഹം ഒരു മലയാളം ചാനലിൽ അഭിമുഖത്തിന് വന്നാൽ കഴിവതും ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് വാക്കുകൾ ഉപയോഗിക്കാതെയാണ് സംസാരിക്കുക. ഒരു ഭാഷയെ എങ്ങനെ ബഹുമാനിക്കണം എന്ന് അദേഹത്തിനറിയാം. ഈ ലെവൽ മംഗ്ലീഷ് സംസാരം ഈ രണ്ട് ഭാഷകളോടും കാണിക്കുന്ന അനാദരവാണ്.
Itu ningaludee frustration anu.ayal engine samsarikkanam ennu ayalde ishtamanu
@@shahana1070
നിങ്ങളിപ്പോൾ കാണിച്ചത് നിങ്ങളുടെ frustrationനുമാണ്. അയാളുടെ സംസാരം കേട്ടിട്ട് ഞാൻ എന്ത് പറയണം എന്നത് എന്റെ ഇഷ്ടവുമാണ്. വളരെ നന്നായി സംസാരിച്ചു എന്ന് കുറേപേർ പറഞ്ഞേല്ലോ, അതുപോലെ വളരെ അരോചകമായി തോന്നിയെങ്കിൽ അത് പറയാനുള്ള സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യം എനിക്കുമുണ്ട്.
@@DanPieu super
Onnu podo
@@MarriageDiaries. അഭിപ്രായ സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യത്തെ കുറിച്ച് ഘോര ഘോരം പ്രസംഗിക്കുന്ന കൊച്ചമ്മമാരോട് മറ്റൊരാൾ അഭിപ്രായം രേഖപ്പെടുത്തിയാൽ
ഉത്തരം മുട്ടിയ ലവൾ : ഒന്ന് പോടോ ( അഭിപ്രായ സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യം ഇവളുമാരുടെ മാത്രം കുത്തകയോ ?)
Hollywood interviews inspired aayittulla, valare dishonest aaya oru interview. Enthinum ethinum victim aavan nokkunna ivarkk deserve cheyyunnathinekkalum importance aanu cyberspace kodukkunnath.
She's not a great actor, nor a great producer. She's living in a cloudnine where she's a victim, artists, winner, survivor.
She's nothing
She is a good actress and great artist.she never said she is a victim. She is a fighter.
Which is solely your observation, which does not define her actual existence as a human. It's not like you have been with her all her life to make such a statement. You and me, we have just SEEN a part of these public figures' lives. Can't make any solid statements based off of that alone.
Also, a human being can be all that you stated and still exist as a whole human, so no she can't be categorised as "nothing". Oraalu lifeil victim maatram allengil winner maatram aavunnillallo. Ellaam ullathu thanne aanu life. Nammal kaanunnathu athinte oru bhaagam maatram aarikkum, baakki ullathu ellaam avaru full aayittu ellaarodum communicate cheytholanam ennu evidem ezhuthi vechittilla just because she is a public figure.
agree with u Rahul. another fakey one is mammu mohandas., both thinks they are bold and beautiful, but there are so many unheard bold ones in our society who never have enough financial leverage. Mammu talks about expensive cars in between her sickness to the ordinary kerala ladies. all are quite fake, asking their own concience gives the answer, i am fakey fake too. Rima Kallingal has very good acting talent, Mammu mohandas has no acting talent, but gorgeous . Both copies from western interviews.
@@vineetha6942 I am amazed at the way you women deal with criticism against other women.
Just swap the gender and you will have a totally different perspective. How about herself and other women in WCC have a take on Dileep and Vijay Babu?
Do they have any first hand information regarding their personal lives? No. Same applies for me.
Rima and WCC are a self-declared victim community. They wait for occassions to self-victimise and gain attention. That's what do and will be doing their whole lives.
On the other hand, female actors like Manju Warrier, Nimisha Sajayan, Dharshana,... who are immensely talented than Rima need not play the victim game. Because they stand strong on their talent.
@@m.l1466 I presume you have good listening skills. Because there were more than one instance in this interview itself where she blames the industry and society for not getting enough work. She is not getting work or paid well because she's not that a great actor or she's not pulling the crowd. A movie won't be sold in her name. Sorry to say that your idol is just crying for attention. Nothing more. Don't be like her
Nervous! Dramatic! Uncomfortable! Traumatized! Incoherent!
Girl you need some healing
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@@thetribe7603 if she's "struggling" to speak in malayalam, let her fully speak in Englishil ... ariyillayirikkum alle... its ok! it's not everyone's cup of tea, so to escape that, mix it with malayalam so that foolish of the listeners can be further fooled!
Faking Priyanka and Kareena
All the best wishes for whatever you all are doing through WCC .You all deserve credit for helping women around you 😘🥰❤️❤️🩹
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This poor, not so intelligent,
lady is confused.
I pity the interviewer who tries to look attentive to this
play acting.