Her Boyfriend's Brother Betrayed Her
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of hearing from Shante Gray as she bravely shares her journey with us. At the young age of 14, Shante experienced a profound violation of trust and safety on behalf someone close to her then-boyfriend. This traumatic experience left a lasting impact on Shante's life.
Join us as Shante vulnerably shares the complex challenges of encountering her abuser later in life and the ways in which this painful experience has shaped her as a mother. Determined to protect her own children, Shante has become a fierce advocate for education and open communication about personal safety. Her story is a powerful testament to the resilience of survivors and the importance of supporting one another in the healing journey. Shante's voice offers solidarity to fellow survivors and sheds light on the critical need for consent education and resources for young people.
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Gonna be brave and reach out
@@Wanderluster888u can do it dear
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Really wish your parents pressed charges. Its not too late to expose their names. I hope the other victims come out too..
I’m so happy she told everyone immediately
But, her mamma didn’t do nothing about it!🤦🏽♀️
It's not a coincidence that you met your abuser years later again. The trauma was meant to come up so that you could heal....
That was an opportunity for revenge actually.
You sound crazy!
Shante mother should had gone to the police to me 🚓
He set u up. Your bf and your abuser set you up.. and idk but it may have been money involved because you said they fell out. Dirty men do stuff like that when they don't respect women. Been in a similar situation.
I believe $ was involved too.💵😠
Probably not they were in highschool
@@UniquelyHerzhigh school teens are especially mean & vindictive.
@@helierhefortuneteller I mean money most likely wasn’t involved, this was all free will 😪
@@UniquelyHerz yes, I've seen so many movies, read books, & witnessed with my own eyes .😢
Thank you for being brave enough to share your story❣️♥️🫶✨️
I love you your a beautiful young lady and deserve all you heart desires ❤❤❤❤❤
Omg....when I was in the 9th grade, even the 11th, i was so naive about dating/ boys
Me too!
Same
We all were unfortunately. It wasn't until my mid-late 20s that I started to get clued up.
No means NO! To all the commenters throwing shade about her dating and s*x life, that's got nothing to do with anything. NO means NO, violence and abuse are NOT ever OK.
The message they're trying to put out is, dating & intercourse at an early age leads to SA, wrong!
True
These comments are crazy! It's over but they are critizing her about dating young and nothing about the rapist but I shouldn't be shocked..it's common to blame the girl☹️
@@tonitwitty9529 So sad but so true.
Wow shante is so courageous to find her path to heal and live a happy life sadly not all survivors manage to do this i have so much respect for her
Extremely Sorry for your ordeal Shante. I'm a father I can't think in a million years allowing my daughter at 14 to be in a sexual relationship as if she is mature enough.... even advising her to walk around with condoms.... 🤔 Extremely poor parenting from your father, who is the head of the house and your Mother who should have been the next line of defense for you as well... i assume she was aware you were sexually active at 14 but didn't pull you up on it either, wrong move Mum. A child is a precious gift protect them to your death.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thanks for speaking the truth!
They didn't contact the police 🚓 she could have had std, or internal injury. She should have at least went to the hospital.😢 🏥
Right 🤯🤯🤯
If your parents thought you were just a baby and they didn't want you, their baby having a baby, then why would they encourage you having sex at all. Seventh/ eight grade is too young to be dating anyway. Your innocence was not stolen if you were already sexually active. He just took advantage of you and your boyfriend might have set you up. Just saying.
I agree 7th/8th grade is young to be sexually active not because it's wrong but it shifts one's attention away from studies, hobbies, friendships, college, etc. to focus on a boy. I disagree 100% that her innocence was not taken because she was already having sex before the assault. You are comparing apples and oranges. The rape was sexual abuse and it stole her trust in people, especially men. Her innocence was taken.
Exactly, I’m shocked at how her mamma handle this🤦🏽♀️
@@shastajustice3753
She was way too young to be having sex then her mamma hooks her up with condoms!🤦🏽♀️😮
Y’all are sick. Of course her innocence was stolen. She means the innocence of never having s*x taken from you and never thinking someone could take that as their right
Who are the hell are you to throw judgement?
Very beautiful girl what a dreadful experience
That couldve happened to me
I was kind of entertaining grown man n he was trying to get my to ride to his brothers house with he and his brothers
I said what would my brothers think of me doing something so stupid....i said no im staying where the hell i am
I didnt trust those suckas
Your story had me in tears because what you went through I know that pain, It took a long time to say its not your fault. Thank you for sharing your story
I really take a lot what this great women had said i got my childhood taken and it hard as a blk women to overcome that she really changed my life because u can heal and overcome the past and i thank u so much becuase im young and i thought their no hope u gave me hope thank u
There's always hope sweetie, you are so worth it! 💛 Healing is paramount and can be done.
Sending you love and light!✨
You were way too young to be having a boyfriend & having sex, but no one deserves to be r***d though. Your parents should've pressed charges.😒
Hi there! Thanks so much for sharing your story. You told it so well. It was very powerful to see you not only overcome your abuse, but triumph over it. You radiate such goodness and strength. 🙂
I agree that your mom should have reported it to Law Enforcement. Because she didn't, I would just like to encourage you to report what your boyfriend's friend did to you, to Law Enforcement. If your boyfriend was involved in your assault, I would encourage you to report him as well. People who commit such heinous crimes as they did, should be held accountable. Reporting them would and should also prevent them from harming anyone else ever again, especially a child/minor.
I know some people think that if sexual abuse happened awhile ago, the Statue of Limitations to report it is over. But 14 States as of a few years ago, did away with this Statue of Limitations, so now anyone who was sexually assaulted as a child/minor from these States can report their sexual abuse and receive justice, no matter how long ago the abuse took place. I'm sure since a few years ago, even more States have joined in this needed and Noble cause. Hopefully the State where all your abuse took place has joined this cause 🙂
Once again thanks so much for sharing your story! And for teaching your children so well. I agree that we should teach them early on. God bless you and your precious children always! 🙏 ❤️
That was not 🎷 sax, that was violence. So sorry this happened to you.💛🌺
Sorry to hear what happened to u
Wow I used to live out there too as a teenager
you are so pretty God bless you
Her abuser, is still probably doing this in current times. 🤢
Thanks for sharing your story 😢😢😢sending love and virtual hugs ❤❤❤you are so strong 💪🏿 dear Queen❤❤❤
When are some gonna see that a boyfriend knew what was going down and that somehow he probably benefited by the discretion. Some think the anatomy is their prize and all they want to offer . It don't work like that .
God bless you sweet Sister n Christ ❤
I'm so sorry ❤you deserved better than that bullshit girl, but you're such an strong and brave woman for surpass and share that
Your mother was probably afraid that your abuser would retaliate, these men will kill u rather than let u testify, it happens all the time
Makes sense he ended up being a loser pizza delivery man.
But it makes them a broke person lol
At least he was working ever think of that???🤷🏽♀️
@@UniquelyHerz not really maybe it’s a 2nd job for some people, nothing wrong with that, especially how delivery people are getting robbed n shot these days in some areas. 🤦🏽♀️
Why are yall taking up for a low life , make it make sense 😒 & nah that’s his full time Gig 😂
@@GloriousGloria0He’s a predator…HE DOES NOT DESERVE TO HAVE A GOOD JOB.
THANKYOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY......CHRIST BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOURS
sara kruzan wrote a beautiful book. sometimes healing means putting it down on paper.
I'm really sorry , I'm happy you're teaching your daughter the right thing. I wish every mother will start to teach their daughters too.❤😢
Omg the comments. Y’all would be shocked at what age some of your mothers/grandmothers lost theirs.
I wonder now as a adult did she ask her mother why didn't she notify the police. Im glad she spoke to her children early and teaching them no means no.
🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
Lord I hope she not teaching her kids it’s ok to have sex at a young age like her parents
The assault wasn't your fault however you was already fast and having s3x by the age of 13-14. Your parents did a horrible job condoning your behavior by telling you to use condoms instead of steering you away from that type of life. Honestly you really put yourself in that situation because you had no business meeting with that boy. Your innocence was already taken the minute you decided to have s3x at a very young age which was a choice. I blame the parents.
Yes, she was way too young. My Dad wasn't having it. He was strict & I'm thankful for that. I didn't date until I was almost 22, lol.🙄
13 is way too young, she looked younger than that, showing her childhood pictures.
Don’t ya’ll DARE victim blame!!
Her parents really sucked and failed her
@@ajwriter5699. Nobody blaming we just respectfully disagree with her and her mammas advice, got it??🤦🏽♀️
Sorry about your experience but WTH are you doing having sex at that young age?? Then your mamma goes n gets you condoms??!!🤦🏽♀️
Talk about a bad example for you she just gave you the green light to have more n more sex, that’s mind boggling, if you have daughters would you give them that kind of advice??
Hope not.🤦🏽♀️
What does that have to do with a young boy ra*ing her?
Ladies have this happen even when at an older age
Did you listen to her video if so what you said makes no DAMN SENSE OF NOTHING
una de las mujeres más fuertes del mundo, y
So sorry I have been through this as a survivor or rape molestation 6 time
It’s messed up what happen to you but the fact that the parents gave you permission to date at 14 is wild um no
She got raped by a young man but you mad at the parents for letting her do what she supposed to be doing at that age….