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    • @stacyo.1080
      @stacyo.1080 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed!

  • @JeraiLatty
    @JeraiLatty 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Janelle really wanted herbert but couldn’t control him she knew she had control over quinton

    • @foxydiva1974
      @foxydiva1974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Facts!

    • @stacyo.1080
      @stacyo.1080 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes indeed. The way she threw Q to the curb shows she used him to the end.

  • @tornadosirenwednesday
    @tornadosirenwednesday 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    They should've kept this segment in the reunion instead of the useless arguments

    • @essedarden4690
      @essedarden4690 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Huh, this is on the reunion.

    • @Ellesivad
      @Ellesivad 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@essedarden4690this wasn’t aired was it?

  • @iriemo721
    @iriemo721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    He wasn’t feeling any of them. Everyone isn’t cut out for the player player life style. Herbert felt like he was the prize. Many men feel like him. Oh well…they miss out

    • @1love847
      @1love847 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Don't get the attraction with Herbert. Herbert isn't serious about finding anyone. Period.

    • @cw23600
      @cw23600 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      As a man should. We are a prize when we handle our business as men and bring a lot of substance to the table. That doesn’t mean that whoever we are dating isn’t a prize either tho.

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@cw23600no it doesn’t. But rarely do people feel Im a prize and my mate is a prize. It’s usually Im a prize and you should prove yourself , and I got choices, and you have to win me over. The latter is the wrong approach.

    • @cw23600
      @cw23600 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@iriemo721 I agree both parties should value each other and put forth the effort to see if there could be a potential relationship. People who act like that are a waste of time

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The woman is the prize. The man is a great catch. There’s a difference.

  • @marieeleonaregeffrard81
    @marieeleonaregeffrard81 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Herbert and Kat look real good together.

  • @StyledbyTaylorMorgan
    @StyledbyTaylorMorgan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Lee said “okay so what’s goin on with that” 😂😂😂😂 chile

  • @cassandratucker4112
    @cassandratucker4112 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I believe Herbert is another good man, whom these women did not hold his attention and I believe he just didn't want to put anyone down nor hurt feelings. I saw nothing player about him, or else he would have continued by showing fake interest.

  • @noirlily3413
    @noirlily3413 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Janelle was really "outside" with these men"

  • @sheabutterMama
    @sheabutterMama 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    This should have been included in the reunion, less Janelle foolishness!
    Herbert may be in denial about his true interests. At his big age and 6 months is his longest relationship?!

    • @Dlegacy828
      @Dlegacy828 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I thought he said his longest is about 2 years. But on average he dates for 6 months

    • @essedarden4690
      @essedarden4690 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This IS the reunion.

    • @sheabutterMama
      @sheabutterMama 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Dlegacy828 ok maybe I got it mixed up with Janelle's, they are a match both emotionally unavailable and noncommittal.

    • @sheabutterMama
      @sheabutterMama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@essedarden4690 My bad, I must have been 💨 🌬 😆.

  • @d-nise6364
    @d-nise6364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    “Herbert lyin….Herbert be in these streets” 😩😂

  • @meganrenee5581
    @meganrenee5581 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    He wanted to be chased. Tragic. Smh

    • @02tallbaby
      @02tallbaby 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm noticing most Texas men want to be chased is wild too witness cause the men in Florida and Louisiana take charge and I'm here for it

  • @masmodiba
    @masmodiba 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Waiiittt... Am I the only one who doesn't remember the lady in the pink?? 😭😭

    • @karimahlloydbey5156
      @karimahlloydbey5156 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      She was the first one voted out at the mixer

    • @denellaanthon
      @denellaanthon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ur not alone I thought she was frm last season n some hw entered I really don’t recall seeing her at all!

    • @MuvaLaNegra
      @MuvaLaNegra 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah...I thought I was the only one😂

    • @stephaniecharles1008
      @stephaniecharles1008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I didn't remember her either lol

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't remember her at alllllll

  • @1perfectlyblind9
    @1perfectlyblind9 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They was so mad that Herbert wasn't walking them down the aisle in 1 year.. like ESPECIALLY meeting ppl on tv.. he said he likes to take his time from day 1 to EVERYONE... these ladies just wanted the sugarcoating everyone else was willing to say to "win" instead of really going through the process. I didn't see the problem

  • @danielleb1223
    @danielleb1223 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Poor Quinton pie in the face

    • @myesainla
      @myesainla 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lol 😂

    • @kda8972
      @kda8972 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Janelle shamed Q. Hes not her strong connection

    • @kda8972
      @kda8972 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@myesainla about how Q was pressuring areaa herbert wasnt. She cudnt let Q breathe or connect with other ppl.

    • @myesainla
      @myesainla 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kda8972 it’s wild. The amount of people on her Instagram bigging her up means she won’t change!

  • @kseke25
    @kseke25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    He’s a player. He wants to leave things up in the air bc he wants the upper hand. He’s purposely not communicating. He’s the non-communal type, and that’s okay. I just don’t know why they just can’t be honest about it.

  • @dmccray6755
    @dmccray6755 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Herbert has game!

  • @royaltii_
    @royaltii_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Toooo funny whoever said. "He lying...Herbert been in them streets"
    😂🤣🤣🤣 Herbert has finessed the game of the wooo woo woo for sure just no go w the follow thru.

  • @AndromedonThanks
    @AndromedonThanks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    He clearly wasn’t inspired by these women

  • @naphisa340
    @naphisa340 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Herbert is tooooooooooooooo slow in the world of dating. He needs to learn how to vet woman quicker by asking the proper questions early on to narrow down women. He definitely wanted Kat though.

    • @marcusrodriguez8352
      @marcusrodriguez8352 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      He doesn't have to... A person is free to choose the standards, boundaries, and process of how they want to date.

    • @tornadosirenwednesday
      @tornadosirenwednesday 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Right. On a show like this you're supposed to be dating with intention‼‼

    • @briannaturner7662
      @briannaturner7662 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marcusrodriguez8352 well he needs to go somewhere this is acceptable this is a dating show where people are not taking it at the slow pace he likes. Has no business on a platform such as this moving so slow. That’s only fair to others and himself as well

    • @marcusrodriguez8352
      @marcusrodriguez8352 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tornadosirenwednesday chill it is not that serious. Everybody who goes on a dating show is a different levels and standards in their life. And move and operate at a different pace. Let's not cannibalize a man just because he didn't realize his slower pace would have been such an issue. And had there been a woman on the show who really liked a slower pace who he had a connection with. This would have been an entirely different story and outcome.

    • @bklynmichelle6932
      @bklynmichelle6932 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      W

  • @cristina-dk4vo
    @cristina-dk4vo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Janelle didnt want anyone else to have q bc she saw herbert backed up off her

  • @veem5598
    @veem5598 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Poor Q, first Red, then Herbert.. I wonder if they still together

    • @sheabutterMama
      @sheabutterMama 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😅

    • @TheMiss600
      @TheMiss600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No they're not

  • @evelyn21435
    @evelyn21435 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “Good god, say it” 😂

  • @crystallovesgod7052
    @crystallovesgod7052 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I know Herbert personally and he’s truly a stand up guy. He’s someone you want on your team.

    • @tuere1000
      @tuere1000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Well give him my number😂

    • @thisgirlisfancy
      @thisgirlisfancy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He seems like it actually. He was gentleman the entire process.

    • @sheabutterMama
      @sheabutterMama 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Nobody said he wasn't a stand up guy, but he's still not ready to love (for more than 6 months 😆 ). He's either suppressing something or just not emotionally available.

    • @KatGlo
      @KatGlo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      So why aren’t you dating him?

    • @proctorjunior14
      @proctorjunior14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@KatGlothe same reason you have 100 good men chasing you that you don’t want as a partner.

  • @icecreamladydream
    @icecreamladydream 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Nice guy but to me he isnt one Id be sitting up there drooling over and running behind. Chile please. Bye 👋

    • @WenNRome
      @WenNRome 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lmaoooo

    • @briannaturner7662
      @briannaturner7662 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly cause he ain’t even cute either …. AT ALL. Can’t tell him that he thinks he looks good and every woman wants him. Boy bye! Take that delusion elsewhere

  • @simplybri00
    @simplybri00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The little brother really has a heart of gold I know it was hard to step in and tell the truth

  • @blackbarb875
    @blackbarb875 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    How embarrassing for Q!! Herbert brought some questionable energy out of her.

  • @imonlineshopper
    @imonlineshopper 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Herbert is a red flag 🚩… men like him are scary… the slow burn is one thing; being DELIBERATELY non communicative is awful; as is wanting to be chased. Thank God none of the women chased him

    • @valerie9034
      @valerie9034 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Y’all do realize that there are only a certain number of women on the show? He may not be that attracted to them. His forever lady May very well not be on the show if there are billions of women elsewhere.

  • @Spider-Manfan555
    @Spider-Manfan555 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jacquelinehowell8172
    @jacquelinehowell8172 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    His Queen just was not there! He is a one woman man, I believe. Because he is so non-chalant, if the chemistry isn't there, its not happening because he moves slow...Period! My type of guy! Furthermore, you can't rush men like that, especially if you are trying too hard to get him! I like his slowness!

  • @kimaleycreese28
    @kimaleycreese28 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Herbert is a player. Glad the ladies saw it for what it was.

  • @pr3ttylady812
    @pr3ttylady812 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Herbert is not attractive

    • @stylesbycryssie
      @stylesbycryssie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      At all. Idk what they was looking at

    • @pr3ttylady812
      @pr3ttylady812 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@stylesbycryssie Right.

    • @larrymarshall8900
      @larrymarshall8900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He has a lazy eye no disrespect but he ain't no prize at all.

    • @catrinacarter2144
      @catrinacarter2144 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree but who am I…. Definitely not attractive

    • @je39981
      @je39981 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Be nice lol. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

  • @OhYessirrr
    @OhYessirrr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Lol! All the people knew what was wassup wit HerbyHerb. I would think a man his age would have grown out of this simpleton young casual dater archetype. It gets embarrassing seeing so many lost, surface level BM on these shows. Quite disheartening. I need these guys to get right emotionally spiritually mentally, whether its daddy issues trauma insecure attachment, whatever, get in touch with your ability to connect with a person and pursue true intimacy. The “forever a bachelor” life, wasting peoples time, is unfulfilling.

  • @KpTheG
    @KpTheG 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Herbert reminds me of Jaheim for some reason 😅

  • @christaarmstead1975
    @christaarmstead1975 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg he reminds me of alot of men now of days communication just off

  • @WenNRome
    @WenNRome 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    He’s lazy when it comes to finding love and that’s not attractive…what did you think this show was going to be like?? Tired of his excuses and we know u been in the streets pooh

  • @orcaunoo
    @orcaunoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    i don’t see it with herbert unfortunately

  • @nessawithsmiles
    @nessawithsmiles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why was this cut out?? Instead y’all wanted to show us Janelle’s bitten Louboutins.

  • @keepingitreal3180
    @keepingitreal3180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    And he call himself a ✝️..smh

  • @Radiance230
    @Radiance230 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He just wasn’t into any of these women. He just dated around to get through the process.

  • @sylviarosario6503
    @sylviarosario6503 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Herbert probably wasn’t feeling all the fake hair and weaves as he clearly had his own real hair.🤷🏾‍♀️🤔. Next.😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Simplegirl5251
      @Simplegirl5251 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      WhatEver!!! Please, Sis.🤔🙄

    • @BeGood4Eva
      @BeGood4Eva 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh Bullshlt. If he wasn't feeling the weaves, he could have immediately excused himself when he first saw all of the women. Stop making excuses for these indecisive, game playing, time wasting men. Mammying doesn't get you anywhere.

    • @yolandafranklin5950
      @yolandafranklin5950 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound foolish

    • @TWForeeever
      @TWForeeever 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      This is an odd comment…

  • @TWForeeever
    @TWForeeever 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dating just isn’t for him lmao

  • @adp921
    @adp921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What is it.. do you want a relationship or nah

  • @danieces.7262
    @danieces.7262 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ol girl's "Herbert lyin' .... Herbert been in these streets,' reminds me of my cousin...who NOBODY messes with. Her attitude is just so negative and nasty it's intolerable. The fact she's been married 3.5 times amazes everyone. Yikes!

  • @mmmitchell2010
    @mmmitchell2010 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He plays games like most men in there 40s

  • @zass9506
    @zass9506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Is it me or is Katherina looking different 🤔

    • @elekmoss
      @elekmoss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I think it’s the foundation she used.

    • @zass9506
      @zass9506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@elekmoss It's really throwing me off. That foundation has altered her features tremendously!

    • @elekmoss
      @elekmoss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zass9506 Foundation had Porsha Williams looking off in a RHOA Aftershow episode too.

    • @zass9506
      @zass9506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elekmoss really? I don't watch that show but okay. Thanks for the comparison.

  • @ToniDaniels1275
    @ToniDaniels1275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ladies in 2023-lets not give non-chalant men a chance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We dealt with that for years😑He even knows he is non-chalant!!!!!!!!!!!!! ugh no!!! Once you see it do better. When you have to question anyone in 2023-Thats a turn off already!!! it really wont move from that point on!

  • @iriemo721
    @iriemo721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Lees voice sounds like sandpaper

    • @whayes8084
      @whayes8084 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She’s perfect.

  • @lexyred6289
    @lexyred6289 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I know guys like him who like older women is cause older women will treat them like the prize and pay for everything. they think they are the prize and should be pursued. tragic really

  • @sugalovely1238
    @sugalovely1238 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not sure if Herbert just wasn't interested in the women on the show, or isn't interested in women period...

  • @nessawithsmiles
    @nessawithsmiles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who is the lady in pink??

  • @1perfectlyblind9
    @1perfectlyblind9 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yall going in on Herbert like EVERYBODY on the show didn't come with EVERY relationship and/or marriage in the past as a failed venture... yall focused on 6 months but perhaps more folk need to know when to walk away. He didn't even delve into details (which someone should have asked!) I feel like for all cast members a lot of the right questions either weren't asked or weren't televised

  • @monique150
    @monique150 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He’s 🌽

    • @essedarden4690
      @essedarden4690 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He seems shady.

  • @marshallebradley2662
    @marshallebradley2662 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such bad skin.