+Linda Laura You should have known :( it always end up like that. Don't worry gurl you are gonna find the good one. I have two male bestfriends they are gay like super gay
I'm a girl, and I have a male best friend. When he had a girlfriend, she didn't have a problem with me being his best friend. Then again, I had known her before they started dating, so I think that helped.
+Gary Jaycat this happens to me he had went out with four separate girls until his current gf. she doens't mind me none of the others were chill bout it they all made fusses
I actually went crazy over this because i have a creepy Charles who is obessessed with me. I won't say what he does bcuz it is UNSPEAKABLE. *INHALE* And my significant other hates him as well as i do.
'He's really indecisive'. 'Oh I don't think so.' 'Oh you probably don't know him that well.' If someone said that to me, I would punch them in the face. No one gets to tell me how well I know somebody
2:35 - Will should so make this short... *"What It's Like To Be A Handsome Man In 2015"*, he'd make it hilarious :) 3:36 - And for some reason... I really want to see more of the story of *"Creepy Charles"* XD Just a heads up, I will be doing a lof of shameless self promoting JUST for the next few days and I know I'm going to gain a lot of hate for this... But *"17 BuzzFeed Addict Confessions"* is a video I made about what I feel relates to many of us BuzzFeed viewers and I feel this is the best way to share it with BuzzFeed viewers. Thank you and hope you enjoy :)
sneha suresh Aww thanks for watching and liking the video Sneha, that's very much appreciated. Seems like there are more BuzzFeed addicts out there than I imagined XD
My boyfriend used to have a lot of female friends... But after we started dating, weird things happened to them, and they just started to die =\ One was ran over by a car, other stabbed herself in her back... A pitty, really.
hoo hoo It's not about trust well it kinda is. But mainly its because it hurts to see your bf with someone else same with boys if they saw someone hanging out with your gf ur obvi. gonna get jealous.
+touchdalight Not weird, you just know that chances are, it's not a genuine friendship. Genuine friendship do not consist of romantic/sexual attraction and 9/10, someone has these feelings. Many of these "friendships" stared with one or both parties being romantically attracted.
I remember when my ex first introduced to his childhood best friend who was a girl and at first I was jealous and thought she wanted to get with him but she ended up being one of the sweetest girls I ever met. 6 years later, he's gone but I'm still really good friends with her lol
I have a male BFF :D the trick of being accepted by the girlfriend is actually listening and talking to her more than your BFF when you're together. Also side with her etc. otherwise she'll feel left out and that's when she will start to get jealous. So INCLUDE her ( but also make sure you have time to hang out on your own!)
Hey YOU, before commenting that you have no friends or girl/boyfriend, learn to love yourself first! Learn to be your own best friend first and foremost, so that you don't have to feel bad not having or even losing someone, cause trust me, when you lose one, it HURTS! You gotta let go, move on and remember that the most important relationship is the the one you have with YOURSELF! You and only you are the constant in your life. You are beautiful and you are ENOUGH! Be your own BFF, be your own BAE, and let the people that enter your life as a result of that be the icing on the cake of your life, and not the cake itself! Best wishes and much love to you!
+WolfArtist666 Funny, but the man has a major point that almost 99% of us miss out. People barely scratch the surface when they say they know what loving yourself means.
Been 8 yrs with my man and i adore his female friends! They usually take my side but when im wrong they help me understand better my man and why i am wrong. Its great! You just have to get over petty emotions like jealousy that stand in the way of you making more and better connections with other people.
I've once had a best friend since I was 11 yeas old, who just secretly liked me since that time, and she never told me, hated every girlfriend of mine. After me and my ex splitted apart, she started dating a friend of her who always tried to steal her from me. My best friend and I became "together", and she told me that she just became a friend of my ex to become closer to me and steal me from her, she actually always hated my ex. Her plans were to convince me moving to another country seeking for a better college, live with her and leave my girlfriend behind. My girlfriend splitted with that guy twice, and I didn't last with my "best friend", so me and my ex came back together, we learnt a lot about relationships, and we have been together for three years, truly happy. My girlfriend is no longer a friend of that lad. Me and that friend are no oonger "best friends".
+Naudia Villalba I totally agree. There is no reason for you significant other not to be your best friend, if they're not then you've got a problem and should rethink your relationship... having said that, you're not best friends with someone when you first start dating them, that makes no sense. and its clear in this video that they havnt been dating too long b/c the bff said "well I guess you don't know him that well yet"
+Naudia Villalba I agree with Lyra. You don't stop becoming best friends with your best friend just because you met someone romantically. I have known my best friend for 17 years now and my husband for about 4. Meeting my husband didn't erase a decade plus of friendship. And yes, my best friend is a guy. Luckily his wife isn't a jealous crazy person and we get along great. In fact, we are all heading up to the mountains in two weeks for a weekend vacation. I love that we all get along.
I have a guy best friend and we've been together since I was 12 so yeah. One time he got himself a girlfriend and then he broke up, I asked him why and he said 'because I can't curse my gf just like I curse you on daily basis' We can never ever be a partner or a lover, it's just that I can't deny, seeing him having his own life, getting a gf and stuff makes me feel sad, like I am all alone but then that's life is. I guess one day I have to let my best friend go T.T
you should be honest with yourself, honey. Believe me! say something, do something before it's too late. Don't be afraid of losing friendship. You already lost it the moment you had feeling for him. Go girl! Get your man! Don't let him go!
if i was in the situation and was the female bff,as someone who is really jealous and anxious in this kind of stuff,if i felt the gf was uncomfortable about me getting close i'd relate to her and just back off a bit,EVEN talk to her if she's uncomfortable,but still be friends with the dude
Elissa R yeah, but it also depends on the person. some gfs are fine with it, others arent, so the female best friend and the girlfriend should just talk it out about what they're okay with and what they aren't okay with
I don't think I could deal with a situation like this. I really don't believe in men/women having such a close relationship and I would be worried all the time.
Queen of Thorns its called jealousy and you get jealous cause you dont want anyone to take that person away from you it doesnt mean that you dont trust them and everyone gets jealous if you dont get jealous then that might mean that you dont really love your partner
Yea i tried to do that and she found out we had small problems in our relationship and then she lied and turned him on me and he ghosted me and now i think they're gonna get together
My best friend's last girlfriend and I became best friends too. They broke up and she recently married a different guy. When I was at her bridal shower, everyone kept asking how we knew each other, and she would say, "Ashley is my ex-boyfriend's best friend. He and I didn't work out, but she and I did." It got a laugh every time! :)
Having a BFF of the opposite gender is the best thing in the world. They give great relationship advice, fashion advice, etc. Also, it's a whole lot easier for guys to open up to girl best friends than to their guy friends.
I wouldnt be so jealous of my boyfriends girl best friend if she didn't sit on his lap, spank him, have sleepovers in his room and if he didn't remind me every week how when he was younger he wanted to marry her...
That's major red flags right there. That is inappropriate to have a sleepover with another girl whilst in a relationship...and sitting on his lap. Like what?
+Morgan Armstrong I'm sure there is a way to apply. if it means that much to you. try to get it. i mean these people don't seem like they're THAT professional at what they do. so i mean literally anyone should be able to be part of the show. well except people with mental health problems.
I know that the TV shows always portray the "omg, friends forever, if a girl/boy tries to come between us, goodbye'sville", but there is almost always that awkward stage of trying to learn to trust someone who you do not know.
Maybe this is different in the hetero community than the gay community but like gay women have girls and boys who are friends when they are dating. And gay guys have boys and girls who are friends while dating. So can someone tell me why it's different for hetero couples to have this issue ???
Are their friends straight? And also in this video it was because ally and will were really close almost to a point where Kelsey got annoyed that's why
dont know... i'm not the jealous type and very confident in my bf to talk to me if he feels jealous or 'threatened' by any of my male friends... or my male best-friend. i think it depends on what a person you and your bf are. it's always important to talk about issuses and in a calm way. and if your partner has issues talk about it honestly and before something happens like in this video
So simple he can cheat on u with her emotional and physically. Only to have the excuse first of we were friends and well Oops. This video is totally Me lol
I was the best friend until the gf went psycho and now I've lost a great friendship, and it pisses me off because all I ever did was be nice to them both. Seriously I would've rather banged anything over that boy, but he was still a good friend. Whatever.
At first I thought "oh how refreshing something supporting guys", but then it turned out he just wanted a threesome... Typical buzzfeed. On another note I have plenty of female friends that I'm close to but would never even think about dating any of them!
kim coleman the key to future harmonious successful relationships is learning from the past ones. Just a short suggestion for you in life. If something is happening that often in your life, maybe you need to sort out your priorities and try to do things differently. It's crazy to do the same thing over and over again, and then expect another result. as Semper Fidelis said, think twice about dating fuckboys! good luck with the rest
kim coleman I'm not saying you should blame yourself for the bad relationships, but generalization stays a generalization, even if it's just your opinion. Guys with female bffs don't develop an immediate behavior of cheating. It's actually sometimes the opposite. They get to understand women even better!
I have a male best friend and I am a girl. I've always thought he was gay so I was never really interested in having a relationship with him, even if he says he's not. 🤷🏻♀️ There's one of our (female) friends who is obsessed with him since they met. Now, this girl has been my best friend in some periods of time, one of my closest friends or just in my friend group, that's because we're going to be spending another 2 years out of 8 together, for school. She never really liked me that much, but I never tried to be a horrible friend, even if she sometimes was. Sometimes she was also a great helper and I agree to what she says, we have a lot of interests in common, we also kind of hang out. Recently she has been a pretty good friend, almost a best friend and I was planning on making a surprise for her when literally a WEEK ago I found out she was talking sh about me. I wondered "why would she do this to me? Now?". Here's how I found out: Me, her, the guy she likes (my bff) and my two girl best friends like to facetime. (One of the girl bbfs is a girl I met at a dance class and so I was the one introducing her to them, while the other one was my childhood best friend who basically everyone knew.) So, me, the dance class bbf, the girl and the guy were facetiming one time and suddenly the girl hung up. We were pretty confused but then the guy told us what she texted him. They're really intimate, or at least she is (she once told him her pub1c hair was starting to grow 😬) anyways, she sent him a message saying she didn't want to facetime with me. I was... surprised but then I remembered and it struck me: she was JEALOUS of me! What?? This girl thought for 6 YEARS OF HER LIFE that I wanted to marry her crush? Aka my best friend? No, I would never do that. It's weird because I always tried to get them to be together but he would reject her everytime. Then the other friend who was in the call said that she probably didn't like her too, but that it was fine because she hated and never tried to be liked by the girl. Wow. What a weird world we live in.. right?
Uh sorry no, Bernie’s Boys cost us the election and helped put the Lying Carnival Barker in our WH. I fear Bernie will go for a double f*ck in Nov 2020. Way too far left to win the presidency.
@@chasbodaniels1744 Hi, I'm not actually American, so this question is coming from ignorance - but what is considered 'far left' about Bernie Sanders? I don't know much about American politics but I haven't heard anything that sounds anything other than centre left.
I am not the jealous type and i don't care if my boyfriend has female friends or best friend. But I think one of the reasons I'm not dating is because I'm scared my boyfriends will freak out about me having guy friends.
My ex left me for his "BFF" lol.
"Don't worry, she's just a friend.."
Lmao
nawww that sucks but in every rom com ever you were the evil mean girlfriend😂😂(not saying you were!)
+Linda Laura You should have known :( it always end up like that. Don't worry gurl you are gonna find the good one. I have two male bestfriends they are gay like super gay
+Gabby Gosh maybe i was
JoanieTiVi I knew it all the time! and it sucks because i ended up being the idiot.
+Linda Laura "dont worry, hes just a friend" happens too. alot.
I'm a girl, and I have a male best friend. When he had a girlfriend, she didn't have a problem with me being his best friend. Then again, I had known her before they started dating, so I think that helped.
It always helps when you know the best friend before dating the guy
maybe she did have a problem and you never knew
cice0143 Still, if she did have a problem with it, I wouldn't have stopped hanging out with my friend.
+Gary Jaycat this happens to me he had went out with four separate girls until his current gf. she doens't mind me none of the others were chill bout it they all made fusses
I'm exactly the same!
Only the jealous types can relate to this video, I'm the jealous type ... LOL
(^-^)/
I never knew you guys watched buzzfeed!
I only know you guys cause of lisbug
Jealousy is nothing but confused and misunderstood love
lol yeah
"I'm single"
"Oh I'm so sorry"
"Why"
"Because your ovaries are drying up"
Kelsey a savage
"I dont really want kids" You missed that part.
Isn't she like buzzfeed's most single person? lol
@@Lucien-si5yx They are acting, lol
lifeispink626 obviously but the casting choice is pretty funny. She has a bf now anyway.
Chances are if you don't have a creepy Charles in your life, you are the creepy Charles
I actually went crazy over this because i have a creepy Charles who is obessessed with me. I won't say what he does bcuz it is UNSPEAKABLE. *INHALE*
And my significant other hates him as well as i do.
Micki March uh oh...
#me Help Im obsessed. 😂🙈
Um..
Even if you are a girl you can still be a creepy Charles XD
Who else lost it at "creepy Charles" 😂😂😂
ME OMFG
I DID😂😂
jup!
Creepy Charles is my spirit animal.
+Rebecca Bourgeois same😂😂😂
I want an update on creepy charles
Omg yes!
Even creepier ive never seen him in anyothers videos lel
mmmm Charles
Lol
+Neon Stegasaurous He's in jail right now. You'll see him again in a few years.
"Cause your ovaries are probably drying up."
This video clearly explained why I PREFER TO BE SINGLE.
"Prefer"
And me "WHY I'M FORCED TO BE SINGLE."
'He's really indecisive'.
'Oh I don't think so.'
'Oh you probably don't know him that well.'
If someone said that to me, I would punch them in the face. No one gets to tell me how well I know somebody
I'll punch you back harder in self defense :)
um...ok?
haha that is exactly what I wanted to tell my crush's gf =)))) I didn't, of course.
still, if they're dating they probably know each other really well. at least well enough to know if your boyfriend is indecisive or not.
Anjali Jayanty BF
I'm a simple woman, I see Will, I click thumbs up.
+Devil in Her Heart for me its kinda the same, but i like the video because of kelsey.
+bert bever uhum. besides the fact that im a man ofcourse..
I like will too
i hate your username so much, like you don't even know
+Lizeth GonzaleZ What, why? It's a Beatles song title. What is there to hate about it?
2:35 - Will should so make this short... *"What It's Like To Be A Handsome Man In 2015"*, he'd make it hilarious :)
3:36 - And for some reason... I really want to see more of the story of *"Creepy Charles"* XD
Just a heads up, I will be doing a lof of shameless self promoting JUST for the next few days and I know I'm going to gain a lot of hate for this... But *"17 BuzzFeed Addict Confessions"* is a video I made about what I feel relates to many of us BuzzFeed viewers and I feel this is the best way to share it with BuzzFeed viewers. Thank you and hope you enjoy :)
:)
7k views on this video that u posted.. Wayyyy to go :)
Oh n btw...I saw it n liked it too :)
sneha suresh Aww thanks for watching and liking the video Sneha, that's very much appreciated. Seems like there are more BuzzFeed addicts out there than I imagined XD
Why r u every where
+Graphic Design Guy .................................
My boyfriend used to have a lot of female friends...
But after we started dating, weird things happened to them, and they just started to die =\
One was ran over by a car, other stabbed herself in her back...
A pitty, really.
😂😂😂😂
Hahahahagahahaha
Hahaha
FBI OPEN UP
That's weird _[nervous]_
honestly if you can't trust your significant other then why are u even in a relationship lmfao
hoo hoo It's not about trust well it kinda is. But mainly its because it hurts to see your bf with someone else same with boys if they saw someone hanging out with your gf ur obvi. gonna get jealous.
For me, it's that I don't trust the *other* person to not do anything, not my SO
This should be the to comment tbh
hoo hoo Uhh there should be no girl best friends if you're dating okay, that's how cheating happens.
insecurity and heteronormative ideas is what causes issues tbh.
"You're really aggressive to women. You're like a frat boy!" XD amazing
KELSEY IS MY SPIRIT ANIMAL
+Firstname Surname damn man!
+Firstname Surname Ahhh nothing like waking up to fresh racism
Yasss
+Voke Akati-Udi YAAAASSSS
-4 saat -2 saat Live Viewers: +Ady Garcia
tbh i would feel uncomfortable if my girlfriend had a really close boy best friend, idk its weird
+touchdalight We should date 😜
+aliceparker oh snap
+touchdalight Not weird, you just know that chances are, it's not a genuine friendship. Genuine friendship do not consist of romantic/sexual attraction and 9/10, someone has these feelings. Many of these "friendships" stared with one or both parties being romantically attracted.
+aliceparker that just sounds desperate
Agreed
I don't even have friends or a boyfriend I'm forever alone 😥😥😥😭😭
At least i have netflix and TH-cam
You have Netflix??
Wanna Netflix and chill then? We can solve that boyfriend problem😘
TH-cam will never leave you
Don't worry there's always TH-cam and Netflix.
Your channel is Jessica and Alexandra
Seems like 1 person
I totally expected Kesley to be the femal BFF with tons of guy friends
laramenke me too. she looks like the bff type
Only guy friends = red flag
I remember when my ex first introduced to his childhood best friend who was a girl and at first I was jealous and thought she wanted to get with him but she ended up being one of the sweetest girls I ever met. 6 years later, he's gone but I'm still really good friends with her lol
That one girl always sounds like she's drunk ... or maybe she just is always drunk ....
Ikr
+Warriorcrazy how do you know?
+stvsueoka1 Please stop. She had jaw surgery after an accident. That's why she sounds like that.
+Camila bido she has a a youtube channel and she talks about it
+max huntsman what is it?
I first thought, the titel was "When your Best Friend has a female Best Friend Forever" :D
I did too :)
*in Homer Simpsons voice* "So niaeve"
+Gabby Gosh naïve*
You're welcome.
Gabriel Banegas hey we have the same name...thats how my full first name is spelled!!
I first thought that you said title
Women bond best over their dislike for men.
+Eve Edena Especially white men
+Kappastorm
Racist.
+Kappastorm especially Asian men
+christian Derue especially latin men
+Cooki33 lord definitely arab men
1:24 Two bottles
1:26 One bottle "We are out of wine!"
1:28 Suddenly two bottles again
LIKE THAT'S NORMAL !
Omg I just noticed how is that even possible? 😂
1:24 it's actually 3 bottles haha
The girl best friend and the guy are wearing matching outfits..
So what
@@richardrichardson5570
They're mega bff's
Yikes they are! Good eye girl haha
"I am not a fortune teller, I don't know what's gonna happen" ah ha ha ha
I have a male BFF :D the trick of being accepted by the girlfriend is actually listening and talking to her more than your BFF when you're together. Also side with her etc. otherwise she'll feel left out and that's when she will start to get jealous. So INCLUDE her ( but also make sure you have time to hang out on your own!)
Man, I would marry Kelsey so hard.
"He needed a toothbrush!"
"He kept them in a ziplock bag called treasures!"
dude. my boyfriend is bisexual. AND we are long distance. that's some real trust exercises
hoo hoo I respect this, in an LDR too but he's straight. But like I respect this a lot. Takes a lot of trust
How does him being bi make him more capable of cheating though
Sexual orientation doesn’t effect capability of that.
Am I the only one actually understanding this? I'm bi too and I know its a lot to put up with
There is no such thing as Bi honestly, you can't be doing both, you either straight, gay or lesbian...
Hey YOU, before commenting that you have no friends or girl/boyfriend, learn to love yourself first! Learn to be your own best friend first and foremost, so that you don't have to feel bad not having or even losing someone, cause trust me, when you lose one, it HURTS! You gotta let go, move on and remember that the most important relationship is the the one you have with YOURSELF! You and only you are the constant in your life. You are beautiful and you are ENOUGH!
Be your own BFF, be your own BAE, and let the people that enter your life as a result of that be the icing on the cake of your life, and not the cake itself! Best wishes and much love to you!
+WolfArtist666 Funny, but the man has a major point that almost 99% of us miss out.
People barely scratch the surface when they say they know what loving yourself means.
What if your best female friend is also your girlfriend?
+George Mayer That's the best possible situation.
+George Mayer You got lucky.
You're only lucky, when you either marry each other or end the relationship mutually and stay best friends.
+George Mayer luckiest species in planet earth
THAT IS WHAT WE CALL GOALS LADIES AND GENTLEMAN
Been 8 yrs with my man and i adore his female friends! They usually take my side but when im wrong they help me understand better my man and why i am wrong. Its great! You just have to get over petty emotions like jealousy that stand in the way of you making more and better connections with other people.
Yeah, what if his female friend's secretly give him a blow. Would you be okay?
funkyfiss u go girl! "D i am a female best friend and i always help my bro with his girl ^~^
I've once had a best friend since I was 11 yeas old, who just secretly liked me since that time, and she never told me, hated every girlfriend of mine. After me and my ex splitted apart, she started dating a friend of her who always tried to steal her from me. My best friend and I became "together", and she told me that she just became a friend of my ex to become closer to me and steal me from her, she actually always hated my ex. Her plans were to convince me moving to another country seeking for a better college, live with her and leave my girlfriend behind. My girlfriend splitted with that guy twice, and I didn't last with my "best friend", so me and my ex came back together, we learnt a lot about relationships, and we have been together for three years, truly happy. My girlfriend is no longer a friend of that lad. Me and that friend are no oonger "best friends".
I apologise for mistyping.
I thought by BF in title it ment best friend
me too XD
Shouldn't your S.O be your best friend? My fiance definitely is
+Naudia Villalba I totally agree. There is no reason for you significant other not to be your best friend, if they're not then you've got a problem and should rethink your relationship... having said that, you're not best friends with someone when you first start dating them, that makes no sense. and its clear in this video that they havnt been dating too long b/c the bff said "well I guess you don't know him that well yet"
+Naudia Villalba You can have more than 1 best friend.
+Naudia Villalba I agree with Lyra. You don't stop becoming best friends with your best friend just because you met someone romantically. I have known my best friend for 17 years now and my husband for about 4. Meeting my husband didn't erase a decade plus of friendship. And yes, my best friend is a guy. Luckily his wife isn't a jealous crazy person and we get along great. In fact, we are all heading up to the mountains in two weeks for a weekend vacation. I love that we all get along.
My boyfriend is mine too, but you can have more than one.
"you probably don't know him well enough yet" spot on
My ex broke up with me because he was in love with his girl bff. So much for love..😫.
Nonsense laughter oh noo.. sure you'll find someone better
Nonsense laughter that sucks - my boy BFF broke up with his girlfriend who was also my bff.. why?? He left her for me 💀
@@yaretzipacheco4318 but did you go with him?
TY yes lmao , she was all sad for like a week but she got over it and was happy for us :)
東Asilia you can’t help who you love
Creepy Charles made me laugh so hard XD XD
I have a guy best friend and we've been together since I was 12 so yeah. One time he got himself a girlfriend and then he broke up, I asked him why and he said 'because I can't curse my gf just like I curse you on daily basis'
We can never ever be a partner or a lover, it's just that I can't deny, seeing him having his own life, getting a gf and stuff makes me feel sad, like I am all alone but then that's life is. I guess one day I have to let my best friend go T.T
That is love right there
+Ahmed Alothman noooooo ahahhahahaha. We have our own life it's just that our friendship is too precious! Ugh it's so hard to explain somehow
You are in love?
I'm sure you can still be best friends after he finds a girlfriends and it won't change much :)
you should be honest with yourself, honey. Believe me! say something, do something before it's too late. Don't be afraid of losing friendship. You already lost it the moment you had feeling for him. Go girl! Get your man! Don't let him go!
I'm the jealous type, so I related to this so much omg--
But Charles just wants love too 😢😂
CONGRATS ON 5 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS, BUZZFEEDYELLOW! 💛☺️
i think if the guy has a gf, the female best friend should 'back off' a little, try not to be that close?
if i was in the situation and was the female bff,as someone who is really jealous and anxious in this kind of stuff,if i felt the gf was uncomfortable about me getting close i'd relate to her and just back off a bit,EVEN talk to her if she's uncomfortable,but still be friends with the dude
that is so true
Elissa R yeah, but it also depends on the person. some gfs are fine with it, others arent, so the female best friend and the girlfriend should just talk it out about what they're okay with and what they aren't okay with
Yeah
Bros before hoes.
my best friend is male
i dont think his boyfriend minds that his bff is female
LMFAO! He's gay! Why would he mind having a best friend that's female, he's sure nothing will happen, you're kinda missing the point of this video...
@Flora Fauna I was lit that day.
@@Fhd_nf Also there's this thing called being bi?
@@merivesi7021 I was lit that day.
I shipp it.
+Lovisa Andersson Threeway?
+SK SAKIB OT3?
+Choco Tammy OT4 if we include Creepy Charles
Kelsey in more and more videos make my day
:)
+Its Mads is she in more because the others arent working as much on videos?
I don't think I could deal with a situation like this. I really don't believe in men/women having such a close relationship and I would be worried all the time.
That moment when you best friend is also your boyfriends best friend so it's a win win.
Bianca Gomez hello hermione
"He kept them in a ziplock bag marked treasures" 🤣🤣🤣
I literally love Kelsey. hahaha
THE PART ABOUT CHARLES KILLED ME 😂
You shouldn't be jealous because he's with you for a reason.
Creepy charles in the end is a total mood😂🔥
I would not be okay if my boyfriend had a female best friend that he's that close with
Shows that you have an issue with trust
Holly Molly Hear hear! listen I don't care what people call it..."insecurity", "Trust issues" etc. But I don't like it...😒
Candy Cele Why exactly do you not like it? The only logical explanation is that you believe that your boyfriend will cheat on you.
Queen of Thorns its called jealousy and you get jealous cause you dont want anyone to take that person away from you it doesnt mean that you dont trust them and everyone gets jealous if you dont get jealous then that might mean that you dont really love your partner
"I don't want any female friends". Same
If my boyfriend's bff was a girl I'd probably get to know her and become friends with her too so it wouldn't bother me
Yea i tried to do that and she found out we had small problems in our relationship and then she lied and turned him on me and he ghosted me and now i think they're gonna get together
"Maybe you just don't know him that well" I would actually slap her if another girl said that to me
okay guys its offical this is my new fav couple on buzzfeed videos
0:49 When your mom saw you holding a knife.
My best friend's last girlfriend and I became best friends too. They broke up and she recently married a different guy. When I was at her bridal shower, everyone kept asking how we knew each other, and she would say, "Ashley is my ex-boyfriend's best friend. He and I didn't work out, but she and I did." It got a laugh every time! :)
Having a BFF of the opposite gender is the best thing in the world. They give great relationship advice, fashion advice, etc. Also, it's a whole lot easier for guys to open up to girl best friends than to their guy friends.
Idk men, I feel like we would punch each other in the face for no reason
I wouldnt be so jealous of my boyfriends girl best friend if she didn't sit on his lap, spank him, have sleepovers in his room and if he didn't remind me every week how when he was younger he wanted to marry her...
That's major red flags right there. That is inappropriate to have a sleepover with another girl whilst in a relationship...and sitting on his lap. Like what?
Woah, run while you still can!!!
Um sleep overs I can see but the test of that is not ok
yikes
PLEASE continue this story this was great lol
"There's actually two bottles on the table..."
Literally made me LOL
damn everyone in the comments is so insecure about their relationships 🙊
I'm secure.My boyfriend isn't gonna run out of my head.😉
You're prob getti g cheated as we speak. How naive
Pretty sure Creepy Charles's transition lenses are 3D glasses.
ZoyBeans Lmao so true 😂
Since when is protecting your eyes creepy anyway?
Am I the only one who really wants a job at buzzfeed?
+Morgan Armstrong I'm sure there is a way to apply. if it means that much to you. try to get it. i mean these people don't seem like they're THAT professional at what they do. so i mean literally anyone should be able to be part of the show. well except people with mental health problems.
The way creepy Charles sniffs Kelsey’s hair 😂😂😂
"It is not a nickname. It's a way of life" - best line in all of BuzzFeed
the way the guy sniffs the hair
I know that the TV shows always portray the "omg, friends forever, if a girl/boy tries to come between us, goodbye'sville", but there is almost always that awkward stage of trying to learn to trust someone who you do not know.
I love Charles. He seems caring and funny haha
My best friend is a boy and this is how we speak....and my boyfriend is usually just chilling solo when I'm around my bff.
Same it's so freaking annoying😂
Yep
uhm, what if I am the best friend of both and yet they don't seem to fuction normal?
+Games Ethan jealous of each other maybe?
I don't understand why.
That's just me, my best friend and his girlfriend all the time, I'm laughing way too hard😂😂😂😂
the most annoying situation ever... lol
This hurts on a personal level
The Charles part caught me
A triangle friendship never works at some point.
This is my most favorite As/Is video. The other ones are great, but this one superb. Thanks a lot
Maybe this is different in the hetero community than the gay community but like gay women have girls and boys who are friends when they are dating. And gay guys have boys and girls who are friends while dating. So can someone tell me why it's different for hetero couples to have this issue ???
Are their friends straight? And also in this video it was because ally and will were really close almost to a point where Kelsey got annoyed that's why
dont know... i'm not the jealous type and very confident in my bf to talk to me if he feels jealous or 'threatened' by any of my male friends... or my male best-friend. i think it depends on what a person you and your bf are. it's always important to talk about issuses and in a calm way. and if your partner has issues talk about it honestly and before something happens like in this video
So simple he can cheat on u with her emotional and physically. Only to have the excuse first of we were friends and well Oops. This video is totally Me lol
Cause heteros are crazy like that
"he kept them in a zip lock bag and marked them Treasures"
I was the best friend until the gf went psycho and now I've lost a great friendship, and it pisses me off because all I ever did was be nice to them both. Seriously I would've rather banged anything over that boy, but he was still a good friend. Whatever.
MehMeister yeh i hear u i have a similar situation
Sorry to hear that.
This is one of the videos for me when you watch what feels like 3 years ago and then you realize it was only made a year ago.
he kept them in a Ziploc bag marked treasures cracked me up
If your gf isn’t your best friend, then Bruh something’s not right
This
@@russianbismark8233 ...is not true
At first I thought "oh how refreshing something supporting guys", but then it turned out he just wanted a threesome... Typical buzzfeed. On another note I have plenty of female friends that I'm close to but would never even think about dating any of them!
Creepy Charles, my new favorite internet character 😆
'in a bag marked treasures' made me giggle too much.
i never trusted guys with a female bff. and i had always right. and they cheat on me. :)
sorry to hear that... but that is more about the person... i would never cheat i think and have never so far. and i have 2 female bffs...
Agree with you! All my ex's always cheated on me with there friends so i don't trust any guy that's obsessed with having friends that are girls.
If blaming your boyfriend having a female bff makes you slightly more at ease with your pain, then do it. But don't make bitter generalizations.
kim coleman the key to future harmonious successful relationships is learning from the past ones. Just a short suggestion for you in life. If something is happening that often in your life, maybe you need to sort out your priorities and try to do things differently. It's crazy to do the same thing over and over again, and then expect another result. as Semper Fidelis said, think twice about dating fuckboys! good luck with the rest
kim coleman I'm not saying you should blame yourself for the bad relationships, but generalization stays a generalization, even if it's just your opinion. Guys with female bffs don't develop an immediate behavior of cheating. It's actually sometimes the opposite. They get to understand women even better!
Majority of my new bf's friends are girls so I will eventually feel this video on every level possible
I'll join you on the club on that one
I have a male best friend and I am a girl. I've always thought he was gay so I was never really interested in having a relationship with him, even if he says he's not. 🤷🏻♀️ There's one of our (female) friends who is obsessed with him since they met. Now, this girl has been my best friend in some periods of time, one of my closest friends or just in my friend group, that's because we're going to be spending another 2 years out of 8 together, for school. She never really liked me that much, but I never tried to be a horrible friend, even if she sometimes was. Sometimes she was also a great helper and I agree to what she says, we have a lot of interests in common, we also kind of hang out. Recently she has been a pretty good friend, almost a best friend and I was planning on making a surprise for her when literally a WEEK ago I found out she was talking sh about me. I wondered "why would she do this to me? Now?". Here's how I found out: Me, her, the guy she likes (my bff) and my two girl best friends like to facetime. (One of the girl bbfs is a girl I met at a dance class and so I was the one introducing her to them, while the other one was my childhood best friend who basically everyone knew.) So, me, the dance class bbf, the girl and the guy were facetiming one time and suddenly the girl hung up. We were pretty confused but then the guy told us what she texted him. They're really intimate, or at least she is (she once told him her pub1c hair was starting to grow 😬) anyways, she sent him a message saying she didn't want to facetime with me. I was... surprised but then I remembered and it struck me: she was JEALOUS of me! What?? This girl thought for 6 YEARS OF HER LIFE that I wanted to marry her crush? Aka my best friend? No, I would never do that. It's weird because I always tried to get them to be together but he would reject her everytime. Then the other friend who was in the call said that she probably didn't like her too, but that it was fine because she hated and never tried to be liked by the girl. Wow. What a weird world we live in.. right?
Lol idk why but I cracked up when he said "2015"😂😹
this is a good way to trick them into being friends. you are scapegoating yourself but it forces them to come on common ground.
I was in this situation not too long ago as the female BFF. Just as awkward for me as it was for her. 😅
You Don't Really Have Female Friends
I Don't Want Any Female Friends
My Life
Yes, Bernie Sanders was a viable candidate and Clinton had no business making it to the general election.
TonyMishima92 Agreeded
Uh sorry no, Bernie’s Boys cost us the election and helped put the Lying Carnival Barker in our WH. I fear Bernie will go for a double f*ck in Nov 2020. Way too far left to win the presidency.
@@chasbodaniels1744 Hi, I'm not actually American, so this question is coming from ignorance - but what is considered 'far left' about Bernie Sanders? I don't know much about American politics but I haven't heard anything that sounds anything other than centre left.
This video brought back some old memories...
" Transition lenses year round" lmao
I am not the jealous type and i don't care if my boyfriend has female friends or best friend. But I think one of the reasons I'm not dating is because I'm scared my boyfriends will freak out about me having guy friends.