@@mirembewinfred5353look how he’s treated her her whole life!! I don’t care if you’re a parent you still have to earn respect, especially if you weren’t there!
@@SimplyDionne_Sometimes people are delusional. She is disrespectful. My father treated me the worst out of his six children and I never spoke to my father that way, behind his back or to his face. At the end of the day, I was a child and they were the adults when they conceived me and worked out co-parenting. Their issues were not my business. When my father’s health was failing, and he was in his decline, I got an opportunity to show him the love he never showed me and I forgave him for the relationship we should have had and didn’t. With these two, she wants him to be a father, but she talks down to him like he’s her child. How does that work? You can’t say you want a relationship with someone and then push them away with your actions - that’s contradictory behavior and Karamo should have called her out on her nasty attitude.
@@mirembewinfred5353Right!!! Look at the difference in the demeanors between the two daughters. Karamo needs to hold the rude daughter accountable for her callous attitude as well. She keeps talking about she’s grown, then act grown. At some point you need to be able to have an adult conversation in a mature way with another adult regardless of who that person is. It’s called emotional intelligence.
@@JudahCub1981the difference tho is how they were treated growing up the first daughter isn’t gonna tt the dad nice cuz she didn’t have that nuturing relationship like the senior daughter did
Wow.. his responses and behavior is ridiculous! She is such a beautiful strong person/mom! And her sister is incredible, such a sweet understanding optimistic soul🥰I'm glad she has her sister!
🤣🤣I swearrrr I was thinkin the same..she would have popped the shii out of him. I understand her pain and frustration but I get where he’s coming from everytime he tries he’s pushed away. In her eyes he hasn’t tried enough so there should def be a pt 2 to see if he holds his end by trying and see what happens. I don’t like how he was acting making it all about him but I know once I’ve tried soo many times and keep getting rejected esp after I been brought on National television then I would wash my hands for good bc what was the point? I pray these two can repair their relationship and it’s not going to be easy but I see how he treats his other daughter so I know it can be done.
You can fully listen to someone and still not be able to understand them She feels like she can be as difficult & disrespectful as she wants & because he’s the DAD he’s supposed to deal with it and jump through any hoop she puts up with She learning, THATS NOT GONNA WORK And it shouldn’t
@@Big617E you can’t leave your kids js bc they’re being disrespectful. Her problems run deep and she needs therapy for her daddy issues but that doesn’t mean dad deserves any sympathy 😹
As mush as she wants to believe that her mom didn’t brain wash her, she did. Her mom told her that her father gave her a hard time because she did not look like the other kids, showed her picture of a man who resemble her even though she knew that he took a DNA test and knew she was his. So clearly he did not give her a hard time for the reason she mentioned. Who knows how many times the mom denied him access when she was a kid.
I know so many dudes like this one. They don't understand the child should not have to chase the parent. It's your job to reach out and keep reaching out until they are able to reach back. we have had a lifetime wondering where you were. Stop being a selfish child.
I've read so many comments about the father and his wrongdoings. He's definitely not a picture-perfect father but he's not the only one to blame. The mother or someone else had to tell him that he's not the father. There were issues for another man to be deemed as the father also. The father needs counseling because he still feels that hurt from years ago. The daughter still needs to respect him even if she doesn't like him, know him or believe him. There's a lot going on and pointing the finger will never heal this hurt only listening, communication, love and respect will help this situation. IJS
He's stuck. He's been playing victim for 28 years. He don't know no other role. He don't know how to take accountability and/or responsibility behind his own actions. He's too busy blaming and accusing everyone. The fact he's holding her responsible. It's ridiculous. How is she supposed to be a daughter if you would never her father? 😢😢😢😡😡😡
I understand she is hurt but she needs to stfu and stop cutting him off… his other daughter respects him. If my daughter was manipulated to hating me I still wouldn’t allow the disrespect. The father was wrong for lack of trying but it doesn’t give her the right to keep cutting him off and yelling I mean what type of response does she expect… all I see is she doesn’t wanna be held accountable for her disrespect and wants him to remain humble while she carry on with the loudness
She never cut him off 😂 he lost all access to respect when he came out there pointing his finger in her face…. Nah he lost it when she was 2 and he already knew it was his child but tried to lie. Stop standing up for sorry excuses of men
@@Shania-od5pnyes she was cutting him off every time he was trying to talk!!! What show did YOU watch???? She was rude, loud and disrespectful and did not want to acknowledge her mom’s role in the mess. She has no idea what he tried to do when she was a CHILD. She only knows the STORIES her mother fed her, which doesn’t mean they were true stories.
@@TheRealEvvonne Why should she be nice when he's lying about his treatment of her and trying to give himself excuses about how he treats her? Fuck respecting parents if they can't love their children and respect their emotions.
Before the results even came I can tell that’s his daughter he is very condescending and cold she ain’t gon never be able to heal without letting him go regardless of the results his Stubbornness is extremely exhausting
Yall sound emotionally unintelligent...She is dealing with a lifetime of pain and abandonment. The sperm donor sat there and exacerbated all those feelings for her with his actions.
I agree! She was super annoying. Ppl want to look over and past the disrespect and just cater to the daughter just because she’s a daughter. 😐 Nah, respect goes both ways. If my child talked to me like that, I’m not going to sit back and figure out how to keep approaching him until he calmed down. Me personally, I would cuss his ass clean tf out and then you REALLY ain’t getting shyt from me 😂
@@kelseyblake1879Are you serious?? Emotionally unintelligent? Even me, being maybe twice her age, growing up hearing all kind of daddy names but the biological dad's name can't empathize with what I just saw. To this day I still live in pain and am still traumatized, but can't agree to this type of behavior from someone claiming to be a grown up and being a parent now. Everyone deals with pain differently, but the host and the audience weren't doing anything to correct her and just applauding her behaviour. Have you asked yourself why? Because the world needs to empathize with 'our situation' cause we're pitiful and went through so much already, so correcting us could cause more trauma and you don't want to add more to it right??!!
How could she? She hardly had any contact with him. He was the parent. It was up to him to stay close and be there for her. She has every right to be angry at him. There's nothing worse than being rejected by a parent. He knew he was the father. He let her have doubts about whether he was her father when he had proof that he was. The man is just proud and cold.
@@Arcadia61it’s inherited..you can have many traits from a parent that you have never met or been around much. Not saying she doesn’t have the right to feel the way she does.
FIRST CASE: yes, the dad needs to apologize just, if anything, to let daughter know that he's willing to take the blame as an adult and as her father. However, I have seen mothers and their side of the family reject the dads to the point where staying away is (in their opinion) the best course of action to avoid more drama and pain. My close friend was kept from his son for years because his maternal grandmother believed that his dad was a street thug and didnt want him around his own son. My friend fought to see his son for years until he finally gave up. Fast forward years later and they now have a good relationship... but the years lost will forever be lost. that dad wasnt unbearable... he was just as hurt.
Yes she was very disrespectful. Everybody is blaming him but it’s clear that he was denied access to her when she was a child so she grew up feeling rejected by him and became resentful. She made it hard for him to come around and his pride stop him from trying.
For what ? He knew that was his child even when they were talking they had already did the DNA test. He is supposed to fight for the relationship he is the father nothing and no one should keep you away from your child if you truly want a relationship.
@@sandramartez6472 he needs to actually apologize instead of blaming everyone else for why he didn't go see see his child. You can't forgive without an apology. He didn't get turned away he left cause he heard whispers even tho they already did the DNA test so he knew 100 % that she was his child. Nothing should stop you from seeing your child.
I can understand that she’s hurt. Lord knows I know what she’s been through. But she is mad disrespectful and nasty. How is someone supposed to be in touch with you? If all they get back from you is negativity and hate?
@@cookingwithlove5132and he needs therapy too. To think you dont have to fight for your child ? He's known for 28 years he has always known that was his child and still didn't push for a relationship when she was a child it's sad. And you all are pathetic for seeing her fault but not what caused her to be that way. YOU need therapy too
@@asijahsmith6849what do you want me to do with your angry response my opinion is mine seems like you need therapy too because I literally said she needs therapy with him and without him! Or do you chew pencils where you lack comprehension skills!
@@cookingwithlove5132 you clearly knew what to do with the response. And no one is angry cause I have an different opinion than you I'm angry? K and my point was you all can point out where she is wrong but not him. I think it's you who needs the pencil and some therapy as well
Yall keep saying she’s disrespectful, but what happened to “ do not anger your children” she’s coming from a place of hurt and him being the adult, he’s fighting back with disrespect instead of love and forgiveness. He’s the adult so he lead by example!
I grew up in foster care from the age of 11 saw my dad a handful of times. Last time I saw him was when I was 18 on graduation. Now I am 45. I am not hurt. I grew up quick. I do not need him in my life to have a good life. I make my happiness not him. My mom was not in picture since the age of 9 then got in connect with her after 18 and dealt with that crazyness for years. Last I seen her was 4 years ago.. To say that my life is better without them is postive and less of a negative.
Anyone calling the dad a bad dad has no idea. The 2nd daughter is enough to show he is a great dad but what the 2nd daughter does that the 1st one doesn't is respect the dad. The disrespect 1st daughter shows the dad is the same he received for years from her mothers side as he tried again and again to see her but rejected. At some point we men walk away and I understand it. The fact that he came when invited for the show, demonstrates his resilience, am not sure I would have come for the show! You are a great dad bro, let no one take it away from you!
So you don’t see how the girl is rude, not allowing the father to even finish talking. She is not a teenager first of all her attitude is a choice, at her age she should be able to communicate her pain without having to be disrespectful
@@lonagwegwebut at the end of the day, the ways she acts is a result of how’s she’s been treated her whole life. not feeling accepted and feeling like you’re never listened to, can make a person defensive, she was never rude she was just stating how she felt, and she may not have expressed her emotions the right way but that’s the only way she’s feels heard, and obviously her father still doesn’t listen.
I’m glad that someone sees it and I’m not the only one. I understand her being hurt and angry…and I didn’t like how the dad made it all about him but there’s def something that’s not being addressed.
@@victoriahollister6875 I mean honestly they both need to understand how each other feel it shouldn’t be all about how just one feels. It’s hard to say bc I feel like parts of the story is missing. Like you said she’s taking her anger out on him bc her moms side kept him away when she was younger but as she got older and he tried she still didn’t let him. She claims he didn’t try hard enough but you can only try soo much and be pushed away each time. He needs to stop making it me me me and say WE…how can we get past this anger and hurt? She just wants to be acknowledged and he wants to be understood.
That girl is disrespectful! What’s a man suppose to do if your household members are asking questions like what are he doing here and a man saying stay away from my daughter. Shid these men go through things too. And another thing these grown ppl need to stop being so rude then saying I need you… grow up
Idk. Maybe I’m tripping. But the daughter is very disrespectful and guarded and expects the father to just get beat up and bullied as a grown ass man. I understand her hurt, but how does she expect that man to reach out or connect with her if she gets disrespectful every time he even mutters a word. He barely got a chance to get a full sentence out his mouth before for she cut him off and being disrespectful. I understand as a woman, that as a man, he steps back so that he doesn’t end up disrespecting her in return. Doesn’t matter if your grown, I’m 41 and I NEVER even cuss around my parent let alone at them. The mother plays a big part also but usually in these cases, people forget how much the mom plays a role. She first said her mom told her Xyz and then turned around and said her mom doesn’t talk. Somebody lying 🤦🏾♀️ I fks with Karamo, but he should’ve checked her also. He should know that nothing can be worked on if both sides are not open to it. That’s goes for any kind of relationship, family, friends, and romantic! If he wasn’t a good father the other daughter would’ve stated that. I saw hurt but I also saw being stubborn, bratty and disrespectful. I was annoyed. But hey, that’s just me.
i’m confused.. the mom is saying to stay away, the grandma is asking why is he here, the daughter is saying she doesn’t want anything to do with him and doesn’t want him to be around his grandchild and doesn’t want a relationship with her dad… then get mad at him for not reaching out?? after he said he’s tried multiple times?? the dad also has a lot of pride and stubbornness to work on, but the daughter is extremely confusing n uses her pain as an excuse to react negatively towards her father. anger is not an excuse to act on it, there are ways to communicate your anger healthily. that’s the first step to building the relationship but it seems she still has a huge wall built up (which is understandable, but will end up nowhere if she doesn’t open up). they both wrong tbh
Being someone who never knew my father, I can say that hurted, traumatized or not, the daughter is very ungrateful and disrespectful. Claiming you're an adult and a parent, but raging like that is a pity. What's the reason for getting him on the show if you don't want to start a relationship? Or you only want things to go your way? Is it just to prove to the world what a failure he is, so you can feel satisfied, whereas you haven't taken any steps to release the pain only you feel inside??? Humiliate him will not solve anything!!!! She's still young, so I hope she'll come to her senses soon, before it's too late.
I truly understand the hurt but the disrespect is unbearable! Everyone keeps saying the dad is wrong wrong wrong but I can tell she's been going at him wrong! Then if she don't want him or need him, why keep bothering with him! My father and I don't have a great relationship, so instead of disrespecting him, I broke my relationship with him!! I believe she heard her family talking about him also! Instead of blaming just the father, the mom needs to be catching heat too!
Exactly. Also, he apologized and even tried to give her a hug but she rejected. Like what's your purpose... just vent your frustration and hurt to your dad? If that's the case say that.
Everyone is mad at him, but he said he went to New Orleans multiple times to see her, but the family told him to stay away. She's owed an apology from her mother and father. She wants to place blame on just one person.
You're saying ber not knowing if he's her dad or not isn't her fault. She didn't sleep with him, her mom did. So you're basically blaming her. And to top it off, there's a REASON why she's acting like that towards him. Her dad is clearly a narcissist.
@@TheRealEvvonne He couldn't even be proud she was in the military. And he knew she was his kid since she was 2 but never was loving or kind. its clear. Hes more in the wrong than the daughter.
I understand how he feels because if the family was giving you mixed emotions it was something that wasn't telling you ...a man don't have time to waste.....
He had time to waste when he was in the room making her tho. Doesn't matter what anyone else is saying if that's your child you fight for your child, he has known for 28 years that that was his child even when the family was saying stuff he knew 100% that was his child, if you had time to make a child you have time to fight for and raise the child. Y'all make every excuse for a deadbeat.
That's because in her relationship with him she is stuck that 5 year old longing for her dad. I'm pretty sure she doesn't act like a 5 year old serving in the military
@@krazychilelyes! She is stuck emotionally as a 5 year old and hasn’t been able to move past it and develop her emotional vocabulary as well as the father being a bit emotionally immature
They put that daughter and dad face up and I was like bruh they twins lol they got the exact same face hahahaha I knew before the show started omg the nose the eyes everything
The man came on national TV to try and fix it to me that is a first step. Momma and big Momma gave her a lopsided story as always, not minimimalizing her pain, but she said even if she found out she don't want nothing to do with him, and this man said in the beginning of the show he had to fight her family to see her??!! Sir apologize and leave it at that, let them come to you when they are ready.
She’s not mean, she’s hurt. Having a father constantly reject you will do a lot to your mental health and will effect how you feel towards him. I know from experience
She’s hurt. The father is mean and a sad excuse for a father. He has known for 28 years that he is her father and still rejected her. Disgusting behavior.
The daughter is mad disrespectful, you can’t just blame everything on your father he’s human as well. You expect him to be a perfect person if continuously disrespect him and making him feel less of a man
Yes I said the same I don’t agree with karma on this one she told him not to touch her. He respected her boundaries, but then y’all say he should wipe her tears like the other daughter she’s disrespectful and she needs to go to therapy too
He didnt need to be perfect he needed to be a father, he help bring he into the world he should have been there while she was a child no matter of what her mom side was saying that's what you go to court for and actually fight for your children, you are just like him make every excuse for him and just ride her off as disrespectful but don't ride him off as a deadbeat
She is hurt. And he is a trifling deadbeat that took his dislike of her family out on his daughter. A grown man did this to a chikd.....YOU are tripping!!
@@asijahsmith6849 the point is she is disrespectful regardless, yes he could have done better way better but she can also choose to do better with him now Period!
It's crazy to me that people are overlooking the fact that she waited 2 whole years before even telling that man that he had a child. The blame need to go to the mother as well.
I can't empathize with the first girl cause she's so disrespectful. She's so mean ! She's angry ? Okay but why is the dad there if she won't even receive him respectfully ? And I don't understand why Karamo did correct that girls behavior.
So you want him to be there but you don't want him to be. I think that people are allowed to have boundaries and shouldn't have to put up with disrespect regardless.
Speaking on the second scenario in this video, I have sooo many close friends like this passive girl and the main thing they all say when their men end up leaving them, is they should’ve spoke up more, or how they didn’t carry themselves with enough self respect (as in they should’ve left sooner and not keep dealing with disrespect). If I can have seminars to teach women how to speak up, I would, but it’s a combination of my education throughout my life and how I was raised by my family. I have no idea how to install a backbone into women but ya gotta do better fr.
That daughter is veryyyy disrespectful. Regardless of her dad not being there. She seems like a very unforgiving person. That’s not a good way to be. Not saying the father is any better. Because he has his ways and faults also. But I’m speaking on the daughter because Karamo got the dad right together. But they held no responsibility to the daughter. I don’t think she is all that innocent.
Wow I've seen this before but I didn't cch a lot of stuff.. like he literally is soooo petty wiping the sisters tears deliberately to make the other one jealous wtf what kind of "daft" does she like that
Oh please. I wouldn’t want a relationship with her either. Why is she even on the show??? You can tell she is just a nasty, rambunctious, and disrespectful person. Not just to him.
That "supposed father",is horrible, he doesnot deserves such beautiful (daughters )I am happy the rejected daughter showed him in public what rejection is like...hoping that in the future, their relationship will improved❤
I'm sorry I'm like him if you keep talking crazy to me when I'm trying then two years in a bucket,he could try try try but if she doesn't receive it then he will eventually stop trying
@@mirembewinfred5353can you not see why she has an attitude??????? He has known for 28 years that she was his daughter and still didn't fight for a relationship. Still treated her differently. You all are so okay with a deadbeat but draw the like at an attitude go to therapy.
I agree with you and she is very disrespectful. I had a similar situation. and i no way would put up with that type of resistance, and I did not put up with it
I don't feel bad for the potential daughter. She has a horrible attitude she is very negative & she get back what she puts out. If I were him I wouldn't try either.
1:30 The resemble eachother!! 7:57 Just because you lay down with somebody and it produced.A child does not make you A FATHER!! She's right.It takes way more than that !! 12:09 AS A DAD YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND YOU DIDNT. SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AND HURT
That’s sad that the Dad still didn’t received what they were saying and at the end you can see that especially after he tried giving her a hug after she already said she didn’t want a hug smh
I’m sooooooo over adult kids or kid kids disrespecting their parents idc this is never cool when did communities accept this ya weird no respect for elders never in my day
As much as I sympathize with this young lady , her dad has feelings to and sometimes one parent keeps information from their children and makes the other parent look like a villain .Her side of the family should of been there to answer questions also.
I understand. I want to know if she let her mom and grandparents know she wanted to see her dad. Some Father's shouldn't have to fight to see his kids. Everybody know some of these mothers are mean. Let's be real two sideways to every story.
Talk do understand that she told him she doesn’t want him in her life right now? He can’t force an adult to let him into the life and with the way she act and how disrespectful she is I understand why he doesn’t want to deal with her ….. she’s cleclearly selfish she’s talking about the fact that she was a child and he should’ve tried harder it yet she’s keeping her daughter away from him 🤔🤔🤔🤨 and telling him she doesn’t want him in his grandchild life
The father has too much pride and hurt as a man. Both parents are at fault but the disrespect I definitely couldn’t do to my parent! If he was in his other children’s lives I felt he would have been in hers but we never really heard why he didn’t go back to try. But you hug a stranger but you couldn’t hug your father because he wanted to! Both the daughter and father is stubborn with pride. You honor your mother and father!!
This is one of the shows where I wish he was not her dad. She is very rude and disrespectful. I don’t care respect is respect. Let’s put pain to the side.
Blaming the child for your inadequacies is on you, not the child, & for you to blame the child is disrespectful and dispicable.
That second sister is such a beautiful person! So emotionally mature and empathetic. I love seeing it
And that's why he responds well to her. This one acts like a bitter baby momma
The first dad was unbearable. He couldn't even apologize even if he tried. He was unmoved by his own daughter's tears. true narcissism
Please, women, let's stop being on oneside everytime ,look at how she talks to him. No noo no
@@mirembewinfred5353look how he’s treated her her whole life!! I don’t care if you’re a parent you still have to earn respect, especially if you weren’t there!
@@SimplyDionne_Sometimes people are delusional. She is disrespectful. My father treated me the worst out of his six children and I never spoke to my father that way, behind his back or to his face. At the end of the day, I was a child and they were the adults when they conceived me and worked out co-parenting. Their issues were not my business. When my father’s health was failing, and he was in his decline, I got an opportunity to show him the love he never showed me and I forgave him for the relationship we should have had and didn’t.
With these two, she wants him to be a father, but she talks down to him like he’s her child. How does that work? You can’t say you want a relationship with someone and then push them away with your actions - that’s contradictory behavior and Karamo should have called her out on her nasty attitude.
@@mirembewinfred5353Right!!! Look at the difference in the demeanors between the two daughters. Karamo needs to hold the rude daughter accountable for her callous attitude as well. She keeps talking about she’s grown, then act grown. At some point you need to be able to have an adult conversation in a mature way with another adult regardless of who that person is. It’s called emotional intelligence.
@@JudahCub1981the difference tho is how they were treated growing up the first daughter isn’t gonna tt the dad nice cuz she didn’t have that nuturing relationship like the senior daughter did
Wow.. his responses and behavior is ridiculous! She is such a beautiful strong person/mom! And her sister is incredible, such a sweet understanding optimistic soul🥰I'm glad she has her sister!
She disrespectful to
very rude an disrespectful
I'm so glad she has that sister ❤
@@petermorton301she's angry!! She even thought she wasn't his!!
Oh that first man giving MESSY QUEEN DOWNNNN. Like pls don’t piss me off. Tryna use SAT words to put glitter on bullshit. A mess.
If the dad reached over and wiped her tears, she would’ve bit him.
😂😂😂 this comment right here is exactly what i was thinking
True
THAT PART…. She was CLEAR in say’n she didn’t want a relationship with him
Exactly
🤣🤣I swearrrr I was thinkin the same..she would have popped the shii out of him. I understand her pain and frustration but I get where he’s coming from everytime he tries he’s pushed away. In her eyes he hasn’t tried enough so there should def be a pt 2 to see if he holds his end by trying and see what happens. I don’t like how he was acting making it all about him but I know once I’ve tried soo many times and keep getting rejected esp after I been brought on National television then I would wash my hands for good bc what was the point? I pray these two can repair their relationship and it’s not going to be easy but I see how he treats his other daughter so I know it can be done.
The Dad's problem was he NEVER listened to understand her he only listened to RESPOND! He lacked emotional maturity on EVERY level.
You can fully listen to someone and still not be able to understand them
She feels like she can be as difficult & disrespectful as she wants & because he’s the DAD he’s supposed to deal with it and jump through any hoop she puts up with
She learning, THATS NOT GONNA WORK
And it shouldn’t
@@Big617E you can’t leave your kids js bc they’re being disrespectful. Her problems run deep and she needs therapy for her daddy issues but that doesn’t mean dad deserves any sympathy 😹
@ lol 😂
She can go get help , i’ll be there when she gets better
I would never cry or show emotion in front of that first man. Something in his brain is very very off.
People like that man …. Some people shouldn’t be allowed to procreate
How did the mom not tell her that they did a DNA test seems like her mom also failed her.
No mom didn't want to make it worse. It would hurt her more if she knew about the test because of his mistreatment.
No her mom new he was a narcissisant SOB & would never change, so she was protecting her daughter from his crazy AZZ!
@@johnniemccalister5386the matter couldn’t get any worse. Both parents should’ve been straight up with the child. Don’t excuse that away.
As mush as she wants to believe that her mom didn’t brain wash her, she did. Her mom told her that her father gave her a hard time because she did not look like the other kids, showed her picture of a man who resemble her even though she knew that he took a DNA test and knew she was his. So clearly he did not give her a hard time for the reason she mentioned. Who knows how many times the mom denied him access when she was a kid.
Naaaarcistic
She says she wants him to make an effort but she doesn’t allow him to.
I know so many dudes like this one. They don't understand the child should not have to chase the parent. It's your job to reach out and keep reaching out until they are able to reach back. we have had a lifetime wondering where you were. Stop being a selfish child.
Just like mine. Smh
I've read so many comments about the father and his wrongdoings. He's definitely not a picture-perfect father but he's not the only one to blame. The mother or someone else had to tell him that he's not the father. There were issues for another man to be deemed as the father also. The father needs counseling because he still feels that hurt from years ago. The daughter still needs to respect him even if she doesn't like him, know him or believe him. There's a lot going on and pointing the finger will never heal this hurt only listening, communication, love and respect will help this situation. IJS
He's stuck. He's been playing victim for 28 years. He don't know no other role. He don't know how to take accountability and/or responsibility behind his own actions. He's too busy blaming and accusing everyone.
The fact he's holding her responsible. It's ridiculous. How is she supposed to be a daughter if you would never her father? 😢😢😢😡😡😡
I wish we had a Karamo show in south africa.. our black familes are messed up... Love you karamo big fan from south africa
I hope my child’s father is a wonderful man and stays a wonderful man. I can’t deal with these types of men
The man LITERALLY was tryinggg
@@therealtisha2066no he wasn’t he was being an immature a$$ the entire time
@@therealtisha2066 who was trying ?
@@Mzleedivinewhere is the mothers accountability.? You don't tell someone they have a two year old and then expect them to be gitty.
She doesn't want to blame her mom for nothing.
Facts. It's her mom's fault. She wants to blame him. This happens way toooo much
@@victoriahollister6875yep
You
Don’t know that!! You don’t know the conversation she might have had with her mom
This girl is so confrontational like omg! 🙄
I understand she is hurt but she needs to stfu and stop cutting him off… his other daughter respects him. If my daughter was manipulated to hating me I still wouldn’t allow the disrespect. The father was wrong for lack of trying but it doesn’t give her the right to keep cutting him off and yelling I mean what type of response does she expect… all I see is she doesn’t wanna be held accountable for her disrespect and wants him to remain humble while she carry on with the loudness
She never cut him off 😂 he lost all access to respect when he came out there pointing his finger in her face…. Nah he lost it when she was 2 and he already knew it was his child but tried to lie. Stop standing up for sorry excuses of men
@@Shania-od5pnyes she was cutting him off every time he was trying to talk!!! What show did YOU watch???? She was rude, loud and disrespectful and did not want to acknowledge her mom’s role in the mess. She has no idea what he tried to do when she was a CHILD. She only knows the STORIES her mother fed her, which doesn’t mean they were true stories.
@@TheRealEvvonne Why should she be nice when he's lying about his treatment of her and trying to give himself excuses about how he treats her? Fuck respecting parents if they can't love their children and respect their emotions.
u need to stfu tf she doesn't owe that man any respect until she receives respect
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Before the results even came I can tell that’s his daughter he is very condescending and cold she ain’t gon never be able to heal without letting him go regardless of the results his Stubbornness is extremely exhausting
Exactly...
1st girl is getting what she wants... Like he said you cant give love to someone who dont want it.
Yes she was annoying and rude! I thought the military taught manners and respect. Smh
Yall sound emotionally unintelligent...She is dealing with a lifetime of pain and abandonment. The sperm donor sat there and exacerbated all those feelings for her with his actions.
I agree! She was super annoying. Ppl want to look over and past the disrespect and just cater to the daughter just because she’s a daughter. 😐 Nah, respect goes both ways. If my child talked to me like that, I’m not going to sit back and figure out how to keep approaching him until he calmed down. Me personally, I would cuss his ass clean tf out and then you REALLY ain’t getting shyt from me 😂
@@TheRealEvvonnefor real.. very rude
@@kelseyblake1879Are you serious?? Emotionally unintelligent? Even me, being maybe twice her age, growing up hearing all kind of daddy names but the biological dad's name can't empathize with what I just saw. To this day I still live in pain and am still traumatized, but can't agree to this type of behavior from someone claiming to be a grown up and being a parent now. Everyone deals with pain differently, but the host and the audience weren't doing anything to correct her and just applauding her behaviour. Have you asked yourself why? Because the world needs to empathize with 'our situation' cause we're pitiful and went through so much already, so correcting us could cause more trauma and you don't want to add more to it right??!!
He held that finger up like Monica held her arm up in love and basketball 😂😂😂
She got her attitude from her dad
How could she? She hardly had any contact with him. He was the parent. It was up to him to stay close and be there for her. She has every right to be angry at him. There's nothing worse than being rejected by a parent. He knew he was the father. He let her have doubts about whether he was her father when he had proof that he was. The man is just proud and cold.
@@Arcadia61it’s inherited..you can have many traits from a parent that you have never met or been around much. Not saying she doesn’t have the right to feel the way she does.
@@Arcadia61you must be extremely young to think that you need to be around someone to inherit their attributes 😳
FIRST CASE: yes, the dad needs to apologize just, if anything, to let daughter know that he's willing to take the blame as an adult and as her father. However, I have seen mothers and their side of the family reject the dads to the point where staying away is (in their opinion) the best course of action to avoid more drama and pain. My close friend was kept from his son for years because his maternal grandmother believed that his dad was a street thug and didnt want him around his own son. My friend fought to see his son for years until he finally gave up. Fast forward years later and they now have a good relationship... but the years lost will forever be lost. that dad wasnt unbearable... he was just as hurt.
Karamo always takes the child’s side no matter how disrespectful they are.
She’s hurt! Plus the father has known for years yet he still treated her differently
Yes she was very disrespectful. Everybody is blaming him but it’s clear that he was denied access to her when she was a child so she grew up feeling rejected by him and became resentful. She made it hard for him to come around and his pride stop him from trying.
Thats true. He should also try to listen to the parents sometimes. I really hate that
@@chisomuzik8644 Exactly 👍🏽
She disrespectful to
Yep
Asf
She's disrespectful with an air of entitlement, she's an adult, that's where she should operate in, it's sad either way😢
She was working my nerves talking so much like stfu
She cannot hug him because the whole time he new
The 1st young lady needs to put some of the blame on her mom, stepfather, and grandfather!
For what ? He knew that was his child even when they were talking they had already did the DNA test. He is supposed to fight for the relationship he is the father nothing and no one should keep you away from your child if you truly want a relationship.
@@asijahsmith6849 he did try to see her and got turn away, she needs to forgive her dad.
@@sandramartez6472 he needs to actually apologize instead of blaming everyone else for why he didn't go see see his child. You can't forgive without an apology. He didn't get turned away he left cause he heard whispers even tho they already did the DNA test so he knew 100 % that she was his child. Nothing should stop you from seeing your child.
@@sandramartez6472 he should have thought for her by requesting court appointed visits.
@@asijahsmith6849women will be bitter Baby mothers and other women will still blame the man…sad!
I can understand that she’s hurt. Lord knows I know what she’s been through. But she is mad disrespectful and nasty. How is someone supposed to be in touch with you? If all they get back from you is negativity and hate?
He gave her the hate. He’s responsible to heal it.
Exactly you can’t expect love and not receive it. She needs therapy with him and without him
@@cookingwithlove5132and he needs therapy too. To think you dont have to fight for your child ? He's known for 28 years he has always known that was his child and still didn't push for a relationship when she was a child it's sad. And you all are pathetic for seeing her fault but not what caused her to be that way. YOU need therapy too
@@asijahsmith6849what do you want me to do with your angry response my opinion is mine seems like you need therapy too because I literally said she needs therapy with him and without him! Or do you chew pencils where you lack comprehension skills!
@@cookingwithlove5132 you clearly knew what to do with the response. And no one is angry cause I have an different opinion than you I'm angry? K and my point was you all can point out where she is wrong but not him. I think it's you who needs the pencil and some therapy as well
Yall keep saying she’s disrespectful, but what happened to “ do not anger your children” she’s coming from a place of hurt and him being the adult, he’s fighting back with disrespect instead of love and forgiveness. He’s the adult so he lead by example!
I grew up in foster care from the age of 11 saw my dad a handful of times. Last time I saw him was when I was 18 on graduation. Now I am 45. I am not hurt. I grew up quick. I do not need him in my life to have a good life. I make my happiness not him. My mom was not in picture since the age of 9 then got in connect with her after 18 and dealt with that crazyness for years. Last I seen her was 4 years ago.. To say that my life is better without them is postive and less of a negative.
True facts well said don't blame nobody for your happiness
Anyone calling the dad a bad dad has no idea. The 2nd daughter is enough to show he is a great dad but what the 2nd daughter does that the 1st one doesn't is respect the dad. The disrespect 1st daughter shows the dad is the same he received for years from her mothers side as he tried again and again to see her but rejected. At some point we men walk away and I understand it. The fact that he came when invited for the show, demonstrates his resilience, am not sure I would have come for the show! You are a great dad bro, let no one take it away from you!
That’s EXACTLY WHYY THEY HAVE COURTS
YOUR A GOOFY JUST LIKE HE IS
That first guy 😤😢 I won’t let him in my life at all
NOPE 👎🏾🙅🏾♀️
That's dumb..
So you don’t see how the girl is rude, not allowing the father to even finish talking. She is not a teenager first of all her attitude is a choice, at her age she should be able to communicate her pain without having to be disrespectful
@@lonagwegwebut at the end of the day, the ways she acts is a result of how’s she’s been treated her whole life. not feeling accepted and feeling like you’re never listened to, can make a person defensive, she was never rude she was just stating how she felt, and she may not have expressed her emotions the right way but that’s the only way she’s feels heard, and obviously her father still doesn’t listen.
With him knowing all this time I can’t see why people are saying she’s disrespectful because she was not. He was
There’s something else to this story…. Outside of the fact that he’s ALWAYS known.
I’m glad that someone sees it and I’m not the only one. I understand her being hurt and angry…and I didn’t like how the dad made it all about him but there’s def something that’s not being addressed.
@JessRare it needs to be about him. The momma and Grand parents kept his child away from him. Now the daughter is mad at the wrong person
@@victoriahollister6875 I mean honestly they both need to understand how each other feel it shouldn’t be all about how just one feels. It’s hard to say bc I feel like parts of the story is missing. Like you said she’s taking her anger out on him bc her moms side kept him away when she was younger but as she got older and he tried she still didn’t let him. She claims he didn’t try hard enough but you can only try soo much and be pushed away each time. He needs to stop making it me me me and say WE…how can we get past this anger and hurt? She just wants to be acknowledged and he wants to be understood.
@@victoriahollister6875 Totally agree
@@victoriahollister6875she’s mad at the right person because he knew 28 years ago. He’s narcissistic, it’s all about me.
That girl is disrespectful! What’s a man suppose to do if your household members are asking questions like what are he doing here and a man saying stay away from my daughter. Shid these men go through things too. And another thing these grown ppl need to stop being so rude then saying I need you… grow up
Im only 20 minutes in and when his daughter walked out, I feel like the two girls look alike, they just different skin tones...
Back to watching. 😊
Not the sister coordinated with Karamo nd appropriately helping him mediate!! 👏🏽👏🏽 the universe
He not sorry so he can’t apologize
She’s not ready to be receptive to him and he’s on defense at some point the walls are going to have to be lowered if they want a relationship
Karamo you need a 1-800 I needed to tell this dad something 😢
Idk. Maybe I’m tripping. But the daughter is very disrespectful and guarded and expects the father to just get beat up and bullied as a grown ass man. I understand her hurt, but how does she expect that man to reach out or connect with her if she gets disrespectful every time he even mutters a word. He barely got a chance to get a full sentence out his mouth before for she cut him off and being disrespectful. I understand as a woman, that as a man, he steps back so that he doesn’t end up disrespecting her in return. Doesn’t matter if your grown, I’m 41 and I NEVER even cuss around my parent let alone at them. The mother plays a big part also but usually in these cases, people forget how much the mom plays a role. She first said her mom told her Xyz and then turned around and said her mom doesn’t talk. Somebody lying 🤦🏾♀️ I fks with Karamo, but he should’ve checked her also. He should know that nothing can be worked on if both sides are not open to it. That’s goes for any kind of relationship, family, friends, and romantic! If he wasn’t a good father the other daughter would’ve stated that. I saw hurt but I also saw being stubborn, bratty and disrespectful. I was annoyed. But hey, that’s just me.
i’m confused.. the mom is saying to stay away, the grandma is asking why is he here, the daughter is saying she doesn’t want anything to do with him and doesn’t want him to be around his grandchild and doesn’t want a relationship with her dad… then get mad at him for not reaching out?? after he said he’s tried multiple times?? the dad also has a lot of pride and stubbornness to work on, but the daughter is extremely confusing n uses her pain as an excuse to react negatively towards her father. anger is not an excuse to act on it, there are ways to communicate your anger healthily. that’s the first step to building the relationship but it seems she still has a huge wall built up (which is understandable, but will end up nowhere if she doesn’t open up). they both wrong tbh
The first girl is soooo disrespectful! I hope she finds healing.
Being someone who never knew my father, I can say that hurted, traumatized or not, the daughter is very ungrateful and disrespectful. Claiming you're an adult and a parent, but raging like that is a pity. What's the reason for getting him on the show if you don't want to start a relationship? Or you only want things to go your way? Is it just to prove to the world what a failure he is, so you can feel satisfied, whereas you haven't taken any steps to release the pain only you feel inside??? Humiliate him will not solve anything!!!! She's still young, so I hope she'll come to her senses soon, before it's too late.
So no one is going to hold her Mom accountable she was the one to set this mess in motion smh .These shows only attack the men
Hush girl Hush girl listen listen
He got some nerve he knew she was his child from the age of 2 yrs old. And he still is full of crap
I truly understand the hurt but the disrespect is unbearable! Everyone keeps saying the dad is wrong wrong wrong but I can tell she's been going at him wrong! Then if she don't want him or need him, why keep bothering with him! My father and I don't have a great relationship, so instead of disrespecting him, I broke my relationship with him!! I believe she heard her family talking about him also! Instead of blaming just the father, the mom needs to be catching heat too!
Exactly!! I thought it was just me! 💯🙌🏾
exactly she told lies and did shit too. tired of these women talking, lying and then not answering for it.
Exactly. Also, he apologized and even tried to give her a hug but she rejected. Like what's your purpose... just vent your frustration and hurt to your dad? If that's the case say that.
Everyone is mad at him, but he said he went to New Orleans multiple times to see her, but the family told him to stay away. She's owed an apology from her mother and father. She wants to place blame on just one person.
The problem with the first Dad is he don't like her mama whatever her mother did to him he is taking it out on her
HER MOM WAS THE PROBLEM
This girl is rude and disrespectful on so many levels. Not even knowing if that is her dad or not.
It's always one ur not in her shoes so stfu!!
Her father hurt her to her core. And then to realize he’s known for 28 years that he is her father but still chose to reject has to be devastating.
You're saying ber not knowing if he's her dad or not isn't her fault. She didn't sleep with him, her mom did. So you're basically blaming her.
And to top it off, there's a REASON why she's acting like that towards him. Her dad is clearly a narcissist.
@@xxitsyagirljasminexx1438ok well she needs to direct some of that anger towards her trifling mother! It takes TWO! It was not all his fault.
@@TheRealEvvonne He couldn't even be proud she was in the military. And he knew she was his kid since she was 2 but never was loving or kind. its clear. Hes more in the wrong than the daughter.
The daughter is wrong and disrespectful.... The daughter is brain washed and disrespectful
I been watching these episodes about DNA test results, unlocking your phones and teens girls out of control
I understand how he feels because if the family was giving you mixed emotions it was something that wasn't telling you ...a man don't have time to waste.....
He had time to waste when he was in the room making her tho. Doesn't matter what anyone else is saying if that's your child you fight for your child, he has known for 28 years that that was his child even when the family was saying stuff he knew 100% that was his child, if you had time to make a child you have time to fight for and raise the child. Y'all make every excuse for a deadbeat.
In the first case the young lady said she is 30 years old, but she behaves like a 5 year old in my opinion.
That's because in her relationship with him she is stuck that 5 year old longing for her dad. I'm pretty sure she doesn't act like a 5 year old serving in the military
@@krazychilelexactly
I assume you've been raised by both of your parents. If you've never longed for the love of a parent, you would never understand.
@@krazychilelyes! She is stuck emotionally as a 5 year old and hasn’t been able to move past it and develop her emotional vocabulary as well as the father being a bit emotionally immature
The dad is right she has no respect
The level of disrespect is amazing. The mother is the Saint in this situation? This is the daughter MOST LIKE HIM.
They put that daughter and dad face up and I was like bruh they twins lol they got the exact same face hahahaha I knew before the show started omg the nose the eyes everything
The man came on national TV to try and fix it to me that is a first step. Momma and big Momma gave her a lopsided story as always, not minimimalizing her pain, but she said even if she found out she don't want nothing to do with him, and this man said in the beginning of the show he had to fight her family to see her??!! Sir apologize and leave it at that, let them come to you when they are ready.
I agree.. these women are jumping on this man when it's the girls momma side
This girl is mean to her dad. Some people are just mean. This girl is mean. Very Very mean.
He didn’t know her birthday… is he a dad fr?
She’s not mean, she’s hurt. Having a father constantly reject you will do a lot to your mental health and will effect how you feel towards him. I know from experience
She’s hurt. The father is mean and a sad excuse for a father. He has known for 28 years that he is her father and still rejected her. Disgusting behavior.
@@iyannaking03girl I’m sure you know someone in your family that is bad with dates. Both male and female. Does that make them bad people?
Thank you for being a woman that actually tells the truth. Too many are delusional these days.
I’m finna email the show 😂💯
The daughter is mad disrespectful, you can’t just blame everything on your father he’s human as well. You expect him to be a perfect person if continuously disrespect him and making him feel less of a man
Taking care of the human u bring into this world is not perfect it is your duty. Period.
Yes I said the same I don’t agree with karma on this one she told him not to touch her. He respected her boundaries, but then y’all say he should wipe her tears like the other daughter she’s disrespectful and she needs to go to therapy too
He didnt need to be perfect he needed to be a father, he help bring he into the world he should have been there while she was a child no matter of what her mom side was saying that's what you go to court for and actually fight for your children, you are just like him make every excuse for him and just ride her off as disrespectful but don't ride him off as a deadbeat
She is hurt. And he is a trifling deadbeat that took his dislike of her family out on his daughter. A grown man did this to a chikd.....YOU are tripping!!
@@asijahsmith6849 the point is she is disrespectful regardless, yes he could have done better way better but she can also choose to do better with him now Period!
She keep saying, she is grown. She need to be respectful. Honor thy parents.
Don't provoke your children. She She born like that.
It's crazy to me that people are overlooking the fact that she waited 2 whole years before even telling that man that he had a child. The blame need to go to the mother as well.
the first dad reminds me so much of my dad, who I haven't spoken to in 5yrs !
He is NOT giving her a pass for treating him that way
I can't empathize with the first girl cause she's so disrespectful. She's so mean ! She's angry ? Okay but why is the dad there if she won't even receive him respectfully ? And I don't understand why Karamo did correct that girls behavior.
CWow, I sm so happy that I am not the only person who can not apologize.
So you want him to be there but you don't want him to be. I think that people are allowed to have boundaries and shouldn't have to put up with disrespect regardless.
Speaking on the second scenario in this video, I have sooo many close friends like this passive girl and the main thing they all say when their men end up leaving them, is they should’ve spoke up more, or how they didn’t carry themselves with enough self respect (as in they should’ve left sooner and not keep dealing with disrespect). If I can have seminars to teach women how to speak up, I would, but it’s a combination of my education throughout my life and how I was raised by my family. I have no idea how to install a backbone into women but ya gotta do better fr.
That daughter is veryyyy disrespectful. Regardless of her dad not being there. She seems like a very unforgiving person. That’s not a good way to be. Not saying the father is any better. Because he has his ways and faults also. But I’m speaking on the daughter because Karamo got the dad right together. But they held no responsibility to the daughter. I don’t think she is all that innocent.
Please
Girl shut up
Wow I've seen this before but I didn't cch a lot of stuff.. like he literally is soooo petty wiping the sisters tears deliberately to make the other one jealous wtf what kind of "daft" does she like that
Understand her pain and hurt...but the mom played a huge part in this also as well as the granddad who told him to stay away...
The first dad is such an ass. Even with the other sister ......notice how she was very selective with her wording. I believe the problem is him.
Oh please. I wouldn’t want a relationship with her either. Why is she even on the show??? You can tell she is just a nasty, rambunctious, and disrespectful person. Not just to him.
That "supposed father",is horrible, he doesnot deserves such beautiful (daughters )I am happy the rejected daughter showed him in public what rejection is like...hoping that in the future, their relationship will improved❤
I'm sorry I'm like him if you keep talking crazy to me when I'm trying then two years in a bucket,he could try try try but if she doesn't receive it then he will eventually stop trying
I dont Blame the dad why keep trying if she doesn’t care. He clearly raised his other kids correctly 🤷🏽♂️
I think she looks like her dad. The dad needs to get rid of the pride because his daughter is hurting. He is a 🤡. I don't like him.
But her attitude is killing us ,even if she gets the truth there's no relationship
@@mirembewinfred5353can you not see why she has an attitude??????? He has known for 28 years that she was his daughter and still didn't fight for a relationship. Still treated her differently. You all are so okay with a deadbeat but draw the like at an attitude go to therapy.
@@asijahsmith6849folks act like you’re supposed to forgive “fathers” at the drop of a dime.
Karamo it’s 2024 what are saying, kids stop parents from being there all the time lol bro come on. The girl doesn’t want to let him in simple.
I agree with you and she is very disrespectful. I had a similar situation. and i no way would put up with that type of resistance, and I did not put up with it
The first man is so weird and sassy put his finger in a grown woman face even if it is your daughter or not you don’t really know her. That’s absurd.
I don't feel bad for the potential daughter. She has a horrible attitude she is very negative & she get back what she puts out. If I were him I wouldn't try either.
If my child raised their two finger at me all bets are off.
True, why is she on the show it's sad how the children and when grown have to suffer because of what their parents did
1:30 The resemble eachother!! 7:57 Just because you lay down with somebody and it produced.A child does not make you A FATHER!! She's right.It takes way more than that !! 12:09 AS A DAD YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND YOU DIDNT. SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AND HURT
Yall better stop telling people stay out your life if you don’t mean it. Some people will really stop trying even if it’s not right.
I bet the first dad is mad all over again since she didn't want his hug. He really needs some counseling himself. She is his twin.
That’s sad that the Dad still didn’t received what they were saying and at the end you can see that especially after he tried giving her a hug after she already said she didn’t want a hug smh
I understand that the daughter is angry, but the way she talks is disrespectful, and I can understand why the dad pulls away.
He literally came out there waving his hand in her face , like she said she’s a grown woman . He set the tone for the conversation .
I’m sooooooo over adult kids or kid kids disrespecting their parents idc this is never cool when did communities accept this ya weird no respect for elders never in my day
Back in the days , we never disrespect our parents. This generation is too much.
The daughter shuns her father in every way. She's not receptive to him .
As much as I sympathize with this young lady , her dad has feelings to and sometimes one parent keeps information from their children and makes the other parent look like a villain .Her side of the family should of been there to answer questions also.
Lavonne is her own problem! Her issues are because her mother and grandmother taught her to hate her father.
Doesn’t look that way to me. Yes her mother & grandmother were problematic but he has a responsibility. All he does is focus on himself.
So now it's his fault, because her mother did some stupid s please man
I understand. I want to know if she let her mom and grandparents know she wanted to see her dad. Some Father's shouldn't have to fight to see his kids. Everybody know some of these mothers are mean. Let's be real two sideways to every story.
You think this man would allow anyone deny him? Plus there is a thing called court.
Talk do understand that she told him she doesn’t want him in her life right now? He can’t force an adult to let him into the life and with the way she act and how disrespectful she is I understand why he doesn’t want to deal with her ….. she’s cleclearly selfish she’s talking about the fact that she was a child and he should’ve tried harder it yet she’s keeping her daughter away from him 🤔🤔🤔🤨 and telling him she doesn’t want him in his grandchild life
Wow, he's a real piece of work. 😢
The father has too much pride and hurt as a man. Both parents are at fault but the disrespect I definitely couldn’t do to my parent! If he was in his other children’s lives I felt he would have been in hers but we never really heard why he didn’t go back to try. But you hug a stranger but you couldn’t hug your father because he wanted to! Both the daughter and father is stubborn with pride. You honor your mother and father!!
This is one of the shows where I wish he was not her dad. She is very rude and disrespectful. I don’t care respect is respect. Let’s put pain to the side.