‘It Matters to Me What Happens to My People!’ Toler Takedown 💯Marriage Boot Camp: Hip Hop Edition

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  • Judge Toler erupts in disappointment with the Boot Campers over an altercation between Willie and De'Von, stemming from jealousy spreading in the house.
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    Five hip hop couples, including superstar Phaedra Parks, face the music when they are tested at Marriage Boot Camp by Dr. Ish & Judge Toler. When dark secrets are exposed, will their relationships survive?
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  • @valg9003
    @valg9003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    She was almost in tears talking about the first one she locked up.

  • @navia04
    @navia04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    "We are the COTTON"....that says it all right there....we must regain our sense of self and our rightful position on this planet back.

  • @teek71185
    @teek71185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    This is the scene that needs to be reposted & shared. But I can bet u that everyone reposted the fight a million times. We have to change our mindset. Judge Toler spoke with experience, that should change the narrative in our own life/mind.

    • @llondon169
      @llondon169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wish I could like ya comment a million times........speaks volumes and nothing but truth

    • @camillarodriguez341
      @camillarodriguez341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @tootler23
      @tootler23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There was a fight? I came here to watch Judge Lynn.

  • @SiimplyAngie7088
    @SiimplyAngie7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    JUDGE TOLER DROPPING THAT REAL KNOWLEDGE , SMART, CLASSY AND BEAUTIFUL IS SHE.....

  • @delicatedominance
    @delicatedominance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Judge Toler is EVERYTHING 😍

  • @andressvelezz
    @andressvelezz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Men the world need to hear this I felt that sh**

    • @chi2twn
      @chi2twn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some sisters need to hear it too. You know who you are.

  • @jamesbarber1103
    @jamesbarber1103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Her words brought tears to my eyes

  • @SortDChaos
    @SortDChaos ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She’s so deep, I felt that in my soul. I work is the system, and I can tell you, she told no lies!!!

  • @agapelove9041
    @agapelove9041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow!!! That’s right Judge Tell the truth!!!! There’s another way!!! Emotions can be very deceiving!!!!

  • @MsJuicyjuice14
    @MsJuicyjuice14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    But y’all don’t hear her forreal!

  • @whatwho9595
    @whatwho9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    FIRST time on reality TV where reality is spoken...not for clout

  • @mscotchery9861
    @mscotchery9861 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This why I call her my TV momma! I'd love to meet you one day! We love you and need more like you. You taught me a lot of what I was never told growing up!!! I take every word and let it stick to me!!!

  • @jonathancineus6424
    @jonathancineus6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’ve never seen her get emotional. This hit home. Although the show’s wrong for putting the couples in situation that would get them to fight to begin with.

  • @knotznchainz
    @knotznchainz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Okay Mrs Tolllllllleeeeeeerrrrrrr💞💞💞💞💞💞 whew felt like I got in trouble 😣🥺

  • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
    @SpiritualLifeCoach43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The realest teaching I have ever seen from her and it was so necessary. Thanks Judge Toler. Blessings!

  • @valerietalbertvt
    @valerietalbertvt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    School them Judge! School them!!!

  • @hesterwalker671
    @hesterwalker671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "THAT WAS POWERFUL, WHAT JUDGE LYNN TOLER SAID TO THE GROUP"!!💯💯💯💯

  • @SortDChaos
    @SortDChaos ปีที่แล้ว +18

    We need to teach our boys, that it’s ok to walk away from a situation!

    • @teniola9304
      @teniola9304 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THANK YOU ❤❤❤❤

  • @egyptscott4801
    @egyptscott4801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You better give it JUDGE TOLER..
    THAT'S RIGHT 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Ok.WhatsYourPoint_
    @Ok.WhatsYourPoint_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    dang i really missed out on this show. those two the judge and the therapist are saying some bone chilling truths...

  • @925mika
    @925mika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Brought me to tears...so powerful A love Judge Lynn Toler!!

  • @richlyredeemed48
    @richlyredeemed48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Judge Lynn really should have a show with a Dr. Phil type format. The world would be blessed by it

    • @AlexanderLee-jy4mz
      @AlexanderLee-jy4mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But she would do less roasting and give more advice like Oprah Winfrey.

    • @alexlee6487
      @alexlee6487 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AlexanderLee-jy4mzalso Jo Frost

  • @AlwonDomz
    @AlwonDomz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The depressing thing is everything Mrs. Toler said is true, but pure common sense to other communities...

    • @barbaraknight4203
      @barbaraknight4203 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In order for the others communities to survive, they have to keep us there. We can change it, but we have to repent and come together and trust in TMH God of Abraham Issac and Jacob. Keep the Saturday Sabbath. That matters to The Lord. Our forefathers sinned against TMH and we must cry out to Him. He sent Yeshua the Christ/Jesus to redeem us! Wake up People! You have to relearn what the strangers taught Time is tight family . I love you Brotheran and Sisters ❤.

  • @denisemoore5874
    @denisemoore5874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So much love and respect for Judge Toler because she keeps it real. 👍👍❤❤

  • @queendyna2543
    @queendyna2543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She makes you wanna be in control of your emotions to avoid trouble very deep

  • @matildamorales655
    @matildamorales655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Word!!!👍🔥

  • @natashabrown5505
    @natashabrown5505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When she said over some words, I immediately thought of Will slapping Christ Rock. SMH

    • @dadevi
      @dadevi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What bothers me the most was how accepting some black people were of the violence. Things have devolved.

  • @be-kind-to-the-earth8364
    @be-kind-to-the-earth8364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well said Judge ... wow, what a powerful message. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @electrarain5602
    @electrarain5602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That was deep!

  • @chiquanababers1825
    @chiquanababers1825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rev. Judge Tolar you better preach and give knowledge!! I'm here for it in 2022

  • @Spider-Manfan555
    @Spider-Manfan555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How is this not at 1 million views.

  • @edwardsimmons3190
    @edwardsimmons3190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Let them know, and they need to know what going on right now

  • @alexlee6487
    @alexlee6487 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    0:03 “And we switched partners, and you guys cracked!”

  • @fuadalsaify7888
    @fuadalsaify7888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing wisdom
    Blown away Avery one with a conscience

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She always drops 💎 what’s blessing

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tell it Judge Toler!!

  • @wikipedia0
    @wikipedia0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt that in my soul.

  • @Tessitura9
    @Tessitura9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's sad that she even has to say this to full blown adults.

  • @truthspeaker1508
    @truthspeaker1508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge Toler for president!

  • @therealmereal2642
    @therealmereal2642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These were some strong words from a strong black sister black men get it together we sisters love you all

  • @tanishahenderson8721
    @tanishahenderson8721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    YES!!! 🖤🙏

  • @jayrock9604
    @jayrock9604 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same thing with me, 15 years after i came Home... it's still feels like my first day out .,...... They still judge me,,,,, don't allow me to progress,,,,,, I can't adapt with not being allowed in the norm of "life" ....... I refuse to go back to prison.,...... My choices are very limited just... For making wrong decisions in life ........ One wrong turn and nothing will be forgotten

  • @time2save517
    @time2save517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Facts!!!

  • @angelinelee6872
    @angelinelee6872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bravo!! Judge Lynn Bravo!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @teetee8118
    @teetee8118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach!!!!

  • @MrDeeboi1775
    @MrDeeboi1775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was powerful...

  • @SB-rk2hb
    @SB-rk2hb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was fire

  • @ronaldcassetana9400
    @ronaldcassetana9400 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's heavy stuff.

  • @user-gr9md7wt3v
    @user-gr9md7wt3v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Judge Toler is a walking legend. She needs a movie I could listen to her all day.. its crazy

  • @andypandy247
    @andypandy247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful

  • @alexlee6487
    @alexlee6487 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This moment reminds me of how Nanny Stella had it out with the parents in the King Family on Nanny 911.

  • @gerriprowell9238
    @gerriprowell9238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge dropped some solid facts

  • @MissB2483
    @MissB2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She should've said "Ladies don't let your mouth write a check your man's ass can't cash!" PERIOD. Because Shanda got that whole thing started cuz she couldn't keep her mouth shut when Willie was trying to handle it. They all played a part but she DEFINITELY got that started!

    • @valg9003
      @valg9003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nakanakes
      @nakanakes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well that’s your interpretation based on what was shown, you as well as anyone watching knows what actually happened because we weren’t there, edits are a hell of a thing? Let’s not put stock into “reality tv” however what the judge said was all facts, based on everyday life

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She did

  • @sexyscorpio8087
    @sexyscorpio8087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WORDS MATTER!!! GOT TO KEEP YOUR. KOOL!!!

  • @lulimau8478
    @lulimau8478 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes that’s It!! Preach!

  • @The_Traveling_Man
    @The_Traveling_Man 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk

  • @TheAkusaa
    @TheAkusaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach!!

  • @fuadalsaify7888
    @fuadalsaify7888 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing lady

  • @maddoxthecreator
    @maddoxthecreator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She was preaching!

  • @nicolelouisjeune7387
    @nicolelouisjeune7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the realist word I've heard in a long time.

  • @noumutijima1717
    @noumutijima1717 ปีที่แล้ว

    Word

  • @CC-5134
    @CC-5134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach

  • @bosslifethebusiness
    @bosslifethebusiness ปีที่แล้ว

    Deep

  • @HouseofFellowship
    @HouseofFellowship ปีที่แล้ว

    she is speaking the true !!

  • @larosejames2086
    @larosejames2086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE JUDGE TOLER

  • @leggocrewtv2052
    @leggocrewtv2052 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most powerful black centered content I have ever seen. Proud of us..

  • @Monaex98
    @Monaex98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Daaayyyuuummm!

  • @joshantehoward6609
    @joshantehoward6609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg she so real love her

  • @TaySaidSo
    @TaySaidSo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Speak judge ...love me some her!

  • @gwentillman06
    @gwentillman06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NOW THAT'S SOME REAL TALK FOR THAT ASSSSS💯

  • @nathanielstokes479
    @nathanielstokes479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What station does this come on?

  • @diedreacampbell98
    @diedreacampbell98 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woow

  • @0nean0nlytv
    @0nean0nlytv ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro what episode pls

  • @deeperthanaverageaxson6785
    @deeperthanaverageaxson6785 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did u hear what she said she said he wanted to go to jail

  • @diffrentbreed6685
    @diffrentbreed6685 ปีที่แล้ว

    What season is this???

  • @virgatronbooks
    @virgatronbooks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Auntie Don’t Playyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • @AllegedlyaBlood-tb2bi
    @AllegedlyaBlood-tb2bi ปีที่แล้ว

    She can send people who disrespect her to jail (contempt of court) we can’t.

  • @aleenabelladavis860
    @aleenabelladavis860 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is a trillion percent right! 😢

  • @Kyosuke700
    @Kyosuke700 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    and what she is saying is the truth i mean how many people do you know who have gotten into fights and so on then end up in jail all because of what some one said not because of some one making threats but because of what SOME ONE SAID

  • @dashanmurphy8666
    @dashanmurphy8666 ปีที่แล้ว

    That one comment that that brother said about not controlling your emotions determined what's going to happen, I think this bullshit!! As a black man in this world today, I think who you submit to or who you bow down to,if you're not in control of that particular situation, yourself control doesn't matter!

  • @goronezgo3
    @goronezgo3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These mfs still won't listen emotional intelligence in our community is at a all time low

  • @kevaunthesunflower
    @kevaunthesunflower 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:23

  • @35oz19g
    @35oz19g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Matters to HER people,
    not ALL people 🤔

    • @quashawnmurphy1456
      @quashawnmurphy1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. Black men make up the majority of the system. Her message was well-received and straight to the point; don't be _that guy._ 🙄

    • @35oz19g
      @35oz19g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@quashawnmurphy1456
      You are WRONG according to BOP 58% of inmates are white males.
      You cant bully me bruh.
      A judge has a responsibilty and took an oath to ALL people, not HER people.
      Dont be that guy...

    • @quashawnmurphy1456
      @quashawnmurphy1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@35oz19g Bully? I disagreed with what you said; I'm nobody's bully. I can stand in my wrong and apparently, I'm wrong. Now, what? You're right, she did take an oath but she's talking to a room of Black men and women. She's Black and put away more Black men so obviously she's passionate about OUR struggles. So again, now what?

    • @35oz19g
      @35oz19g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@quashawnmurphy1456
      My point is race shouldnt matter. People who see others for their skin color are racist. End of story.
      I never brought race into it. She did. And so did you.
      If the "Struggle" you speak of is a problem then what do you call a woman who directly sends HER people to jail for money? 🤔
      Those fake tears dont matter to me she can cry as much as she needs to. Must be hard living with all that shame and guilt for what she has helped a system do to "HER PEOPLE"

    • @quashawnmurphy1456
      @quashawnmurphy1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@35oz19g I was speaking of the plight of Black people. Touché.

  • @theundertaker8359
    @theundertaker8359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ms.lynnn is the truth

  • @aleenabelladavis860
    @aleenabelladavis860 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No disrespect to my own race, or any other race, but black people are the absolute best at everything! 😊❤

  • @NoMoreNamesAvailabl1
    @NoMoreNamesAvailabl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jude Toler and Phaedra really look like sisters

  • @jimmycrackorn9751
    @jimmycrackorn9751 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree 100% with what she is saying, but just switching gears for second... l heard one of cast members on a different episode ask the Judge how does her marriage to her husband last as long as it has? I vividly recall the Judge replying “because he knew when to be quiet”. I don’t know about the other men that may have heard that, but to me, it was extremely regardless, disrespectful, and belittling to her husband.
    What makes this so embarrassing, and shameful is that it was said on national TV. Ladies and gentleman , especially black people, represent your significant other’s well, with pride, and dignity no matter if you’re on TV or in public, because believe it or not everyone is observing, and judging.

    • @nurseforyou1
      @nurseforyou1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I heard her speak of her husband before. My own opinion is that she didn't mean it in a derogatory way. What she was saying is her husband is a man who doesn't waste a lot of words and that even when she's chaotic and argumentative he doesn't engage in that behavior with her. She calls him one of the strongest individuals she ever met. She said if he was hanging her over a cliff she would trust that he has her best interest in heart. She knows he's solid.

    • @user-gr9md7wt3v
      @user-gr9md7wt3v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It takes two to argue I think that's the sum of what she probably meant

  • @chocaliiitgod7564
    @chocaliiitgod7564 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She Noooooo joke

  • @QueenofWheels
    @QueenofWheels 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She could have still given the guy another chance. Sound like she sent him to jail cause he pissed her off. That makes me lose respect for her. Why would a black person want to be a criminal court judge.

    • @justafanfave228
      @justafanfave228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, he deserved what he got. He clearly has issues. He wanted to go to jail so she granted his wish. His actions placed him there. He has no one to blame but himself. We need more black judges. Maybe then some of us will see that we can actually do something in our lives that places us as law enforcers rather than the person the law is being enforced on.

    • @QueenofWheels
      @QueenofWheels 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justafanfave228, I was not taking a poll. No judge should b allowed to throw the book at somebody because they got pissed. It is childish. We don't need people that look like us also being unfair.

    • @justafanfave228
      @justafanfave228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@QueenofWheels she never said she threw the book at him. She gave him an option to avoid jail time but his stupid ego got the best of him. Pretty sure she couldn’t throw the book at him because it was an assault charge 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @QueenofWheels
      @QueenofWheels 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justafanfave228 dude, leave me alone. My comment was a year ago. I really don't give two shits about you, her, or the dude she put in jail.

    • @justafanfave228
      @justafanfave228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@QueenofWheels You clearly care since you keep responding. People who do not care would not be doing that. Get over yourself! Fyi, I never asked you to care about me.

  • @SayWhat336
    @SayWhat336 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Black men acting like the single black moms who raised them. Aint nothing new