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Should I Come Out to My Wife? | Hasanabi Reacts to Jubilee
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- Hasan reacts to a Jubilee episode of THE DILEMMA where a man is trying to figure out if he should come out to his wife, or continue to keep the secret.
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Hasan Piker is Political Commentator turned Twitch Streamer (#13) known for his Turkish heritage and leftist takes, often speaking on topics like Socialism, Communism, Capitalism, and Marxism (and occasionally 9/11). He loves reacting to political news, and occasionally goes on IRL adventures with his friends such as Ludwig, 100Thieves Sykkuno, Pokimane, Valkyrae, xQc, and many others. He likes to react to popular media content with his audience as well, such as Jubilee, JCS (Jim Can't Swim), Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, Danny Gonzalez, Channel 5, OfflineTV, trending twitter posts or TikToks, and other creative videos. He also co-hosts two podcasts, Leftovers, with Ethan Klein of H3H3 fame, and Fear &, with Will Neff. He allegedly sometimes plays games like GTA 5, Dark Souls, Elden Ring, and whatever excites him on the PS5, Switch, or the PC side of gaming.
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The fact that jubilee did not bring counselors or other mental health professionals in the group is just..... Wow great job 👍
Or someone who made it through a very similar situation. Instead of people that are like “I’m bi and coming out gave me anxiety”
EVERYTHING WILL BE COMMODIFIED
The point of dilemma is to gather a bunch of different individuals from different backgrounds to give advice, if anything, those people are ENCOURAGING him to seek a mental health professional or counseling (that’s literally what he ends up doing too) and that’s good. It’s more of a general public viewpoint. How do we know that none of those people are counselors or have experience in that field anyways?
This is such a tough situation but the reality is if he is going to lose everything from being himself -- then he didn't truly have anything, to begin with. I don't think it matters if he loses all of his family or friends -- that's on them, he needs to choose himself and be true to himself regardless of the outcome
Although he should probably make sure he has some sort of support system remaining. Its hard to start/re-start all alone.
I definitely agree that he should have some sort of support system before coming out. When I was a teenager and didn't know if I'd have any support, what people would think of me, what would happen if my parents kicked me out, if my friends were grossed out by me... that anxiety alone literally almost drove me to the edge. I think it can be kinda shitty to try and make someone come out before they themselves are ready and sell them that it's all rainbows and sunshine when in reality a lot of people literally k*ll themselves after coming out and the fall out from it. I think the dude in the SnapBack was based
@@jesseire666 I felt the exact same way as a teenager. That fear actually puts many lgbt teens into basically a constant state of fight or flight which leads to a diminished ability to deal with stressors later in life as well. It genuinely crazy that our society forced us to grow up in a state of almost perpetual anxiety. I’m so happy now when I see lgbt teens going to prom with their partners or actively sharing their relationships on social media and things like that. I know there are still so many lgbt kids living in fear but those kind of things give me hope and I’m so glad more teens don’t have to grow up the way we had to
No he could lose material things like possessions, his job, a support network.
I have personal experience with this, he needs a plan to exit given his area and community, and find a new job and friends elsewhere, at least remotely.
that's easy to say when you yourself are not in immediate danger of losing everything, what the no crowd was thinking is that if he loses so much in one day, he might kill himself, it's not uncommon. He needs a support system first although i would never justify what he did to his wife.
As a Nigerian, a no is the best option imo. Making a plan is what most ppl like me HAVE to do. If he’s financially and emotionally dependent on the church and he knows they’re homophobic, he shouldn’t hold his breath that he’s gonna be accepted and that’s reality. Find ppl like you, look for opportunities just in case things go south, make sure you’re in a secure enough place before coming out. I truly feel for this man and I hope he can finally come out and be himself in the near future
As a fellow Nigerian, I feel you!!
Nigerian Hasanabi-heads let’s gooo! 🇳🇬❤️
@@chilichinashop YESSIRRRR
why are you gay? You are gay
Nigerian hasanabi heads!!!
This was really frustrating to watch. The dude saying she’ll be compassionate because she’s Christian has never seen what happens to lgbt people in religious households before. That “compassion” flies out the window. Communities that religious don’t care about compassion, they care about conformity. How can you stand there knowing that his entire life is at stake and go “yeah come out without a plan and potentially become homeless, jobless, and suicidal without a support system”? You can’t “live your truth” if you’re not ALIVE.
Exactly my comment but more well thought out and eloquent
How is everyone on jubilee consistently giving the worst advice lmfao. This guy should definitely seek a support system outside of his community before coming out. If he comes out now, it appears that he will have nothing: no job, no relationship, no family, likely no friends. He lives in a rural, seemingly conservative area, so everyone will know fairly soon after he comes out, and he'll likely be excommunicated.
Everyone in the yes column is so oblivious to real world consequences its insane. "Just come out everything will be okay" that's so easy for you to say wealthy urbanite lmfao.
I'm glad he chose "not now" at the end. He clearly understands his situation more than every lib on jubilee.
i mean. literally half the panel said no, so it's not "EVERYONE on jubilee" that's disagreeing with you?
Exactly. Ofc he should come out, but before he should have a plan and support system in place. Not much different than teenagers with homophobic/conservative parents.
Everyone on that panel sounded like they were reading from a script. They don't even sound human I'm baffled.
Your wife grew up in the church, so she will be patient and kind and understanding. Bro WTF kind of advice is that?
@@Jordan-kq3qw I hadn't watched the video yet and wondered what kind of advice you were giving for a sec 😂 From these comments I don't think I need to either.
That’s so freaking sad. I was married to a man and realized I was gay. It was the most painful decision I’ve ever had to make to leave him. I have a great support system but the pain I experience knowing I hurt someone in the process of being “true to myself” is insane. It’s not an easy choice to make. Though I think it’s ultimately the right choice. If he needs to take his time, then he should take his time. But he needs to work towards living truthfully to himself someday.
Damn he was so bad he made you gay😭😭😭💀
You realized while being in it. Not as bad. He knew beforehand and thats what made it so sinister
@@Rozegolden i dont think its really sinister. when youre in a situation where your entire life revolves around the church you are gonna compromise yourself to fit in. he himself probably had a lot of internalized self hatred and he said himself that he thought he could change, he probably spent a significant portion of his life trying to figure out how to do so, pretend to be straight and maybe eventually youll be straight so he went ahead and married a woman. cause if he didn't fit in, who knows how people in his community would treat him. it's not like he had the resources to go and marry a man or even have an accepting friend, from what he was saying
Idk, I feel like it’s selfish for him to get himself prepared but his spouse his no way to brace for the impact. It’s almost kind of selfish. Especially since he know this before he got married to her
@@21donuts Not sinister, still fucked up. Intentions don't really matter when the end result is still potentially extreme harm.
Okay so the prompt was “should he come out *now*” if he has no support system, there’s nothing wrong with telling him to wait.
i think its super irresponsible to tell him to come out immediately and live his truth when he risks losing everything he has. The best option is to plan for the worst case scenario so if it happens you're prepared imo
The more you prepare for yourself, the more the wife is going to be living a lie. The people who chose NO are just selfish in my opinion. Nobody said he had to lose his job/life over this, all he has to do is tell the wife the reason why they are breaking up.
@@ow_su He mentioned his wife is homophobic. He tells his wife, she tells everyone, he loses everything. Pretty easy order of events to follow. That’s why he *has* to wait.
@@ow_su bruh are you aware that he lives in a religious rural community. Ofc he needs to plan for that a bit
What about how the wife feels? she literally has no time to prepare and it’s completely out of the loop. That’s fucked up
@@taylormade9748 thats what im saying, literally nobody is talking aboutbhow the wife is going to be hit of the blue random with this info, and just has to deal with it. Its not like he realized while in the relationship, he knew BEFORE.
Not sure if this guy was indeed Mormon but as a gay trans kid raised Mormon, the thought of him coming out that day without a plan terrifies me. The psychological abuse the church puts you through after you’re out, and the incredibly dangerous situations you can find yourself in are absolutely not something to be taken lightly. Both when I was outted as bi and when I came out as trans I was sent to inpatient psychiatric treatment (the second time for 2 months shut out from the outside world). I was suicidal all my teen years. It wasn’t until I ran away from home after my 17th birthday that I actually for the first time in years felt like my life was worth living. Having the support of the lgbtq+ community was the only reason I’m still alive today. That support is absolutely vital. Obviously everyone should come out and live their true life, but so many people don’t realize how important it is to have a safety net first. Coming out before you’re prepared to can be detrimental.
I’m mormon as well and as soon as he describes his situation I was like “he’s Mormon”
This one hits close to home, I feel like I would have said no right now but yes later. I came out at 33 only after obtaining financial independence and my own home, I was not prepared to be at the mercy of my religious Serbian family and transphobic environment without a safety net. I've been told I did the right thing, but I honestly wish I had faith to come out sooner.
I think you did the right thing
They say 30s are the new 20s 😏😁 Im so happy for you, you definitely made the right choice!
"No" is definitely the best option here. He's in a very hateful situation, and that could (worst case scenario) end with him dead or homeless. He absolutely needs to find and build a support system so that when things do go south, he has things there to fall back on. An impulsive coming out in his situation would be genuinely the worst thing he could do. Yes, his wife deserves to know the truth, but he deserves to be safe first and foremost.
Lyeing to his wife for all this time is bad enough. He needs to tell her. Fuck his life. He made the choice to lie about his sexuality in the first place. I get the reality of his religious community. Its still not an excuse to deceive your wife.
Thinking that "just coming out" will save this man from suicide is the most naïve lib take I've ever heard. He obviously needs to work on a contingency plan and to find some kind of support system outside of his community first.
EDIT: Asking someone to put themself in harms way so they can live their "truth" is so fucking out-of-touch. What if that truth is unemployment, homelessness and immediate excommunication? This is not just about a random persons feelings - this is also about their material conditions and physical safety.
Chat pointed it out, but I think Hasan misunderstood the prompt (at first, he gets it later). It says *come out right now*, not *come out*. As a (still closeted) queer person, I definitely resonate more with the "no" side. He needs to make sure to build relationships, a plan, etc etc. Ensure the best survival possibility!
Yep, I feel like every queer person who from a conservative area understands how important ensuring your safety is before coming out. And how even after that there will still be times where you'll want to hide your sexuality for you own safety/comfort.
yeah that really confused me at first too, i feel like they could've worded it clearer. Bc if the question is come-out-EVER then obviously yes, but if it's come-out-RIGHT-NOW then considering his situation, obviously no.
I think mentally preparing yourself for everything before doing something is sometimes more beneficial. If he takes counselling to figure himself out first and mentally prepares himself for everything, he will be able to get himself away from any situation that could put him in harm's way. I hope all goes well on this journey for him.
“HE SHOULD SPREAD A RUMOR THAT HIS WIFE IS THE GAY ONE” IS THE CRAZIEST AND YET MOST GENIUS APPROACH TO SOLVING THIS SITUATION
SMH he already took so much from her
Wow Jubilee is really reaching deep into the "wtf am I watching" box
my wife came to me in 2017 to tell me 1. she was gay, but 2. she loved me and our life together. after months of conversation we decided to start dating women together. today we are an incredibly tight throuple and things have never been better. my wife does regularly sleep with mem. she has made it clear that no other man would ever even have a chance. she sees me as something other than a man, and that works for me. im absolutely in love with our third too. shes lived with us since lockdown started.
This was so wholesome, thanks for sharing! Happy to know things can work out
She is bisexual
True love evolves as you grow. It's good to put happy stories out like this so people see more poly things than sister wives on TV. Keep telling people your love story :)
That’s sweet, glad y’all are happy
waht
It seems so scary but coming out is the right thing to do. I agree on preparation and timing being very important too, for mental health especially. My friends example is a good example of awful timing. They got married and he came out on their honeymoon in a different country.
im into hasan's 'jubilee always finds a person who loves god' discourse
On god
Whether he chooses to come out or not come out down the line, one things for sure is that he has to definitely start preparing for a separation with his wife…like soon. I just don’t think it’s fair to his wife (and himself) to continue straggling along like that...
I mean, I'm a fairly butch dude. I still drop everything and sing ALL the words to Chicago
you skipped the ad break monologue, subbed.
As a former mormon, I also immediately assumed they were mormon.
How can you tell?
He definitely needed a plan. It's ridiculous to think some people should just come out. He's not a kid in a movie. He's a real person, fully married in front of a religious community that he's put years into. Like be real.
I have personal experience with this, I became an atheist while in a very conservative and closed/tight knit religious community. If your job will be in jeopardy, a divorce possible, all social contact dropped you need an exit strategy. He lives in a rural area to boot. He needs to make friends online, meet other exiters online to help him through this, and to prepare to have a job ready in a new location and to have an easier divorce which will be neccesary no doubt. That's all going to take some time, it's a crappy situation but that's how it is. If your life is shitty good decisions will often not make it much better instantly, sad to say.
theres some reddit post abt a guy who found out his wife was gay after being with her for 30 years or something. dude was absolutely devastated from it. just rip off the band-aid man. she'll be more devastated if she finds out a decade later.
I saw that one and even the children are devastated 💔
Oh my god, THANK YOU! Finally a channel that edits out the add break shilling.
As a gay man, this is so common I see gay and bi men suffer women and NBs too. Our society has to move forward. I chatted with a guy back in Alaska who struggles with this, but he has kids, a house, and a hyper homophobic wife and NO outlets. It hurts, he's not him and his shadow swallowed him. He won't bargain and he's not alone.
Just from the beginning his mama pain is hurting my soul. He should have never been forced to lie. I wish the best for him
It’s hard to sympathize. As a victim of his environment he should’ve had never victimized someone else for selfish gain. Yes, marrying someone in the hopes that it will change who you truly are is selfish. Do you know the psychological damage that his wife will go through when she finds out? It will be even worse if there are children involved. Life doesn’t just revolve around you because you are a victim, and you don’t have the right to hurt others because others hurt you.
The aaron rogers immunization bit had me in the floor omfg
He has to tell her, there’s no other choice. Not only are you harming yourself, you’re harming your wife by hiding it.
Should I Confess to the Murder I Did? - Jubilee
The question he needs to most ask himself is if he feels he can go his entire life without having sex with another man. Because if he ends up having an affair and his wife finds out it is going to hurt her far worse than just being honest with her now. And the other major question is does he feel that his wife loves him more than she feels bound 100% to their religion. Because if she truly does love him then she may surprise him by being more understanding than he assumes she will be. She’s going to be hurt no matter what but I’ve seen some very conservative Christian folks accept and love their gay family members because their love for that person ends up trumping their beliefs on the issue.
Don't just come out instantly but like prepare a parachute for when you do. I didn't come out till I'd moved out so that way my parents couldn't threaten me with homelessness or stimy my progress. (I'm a trans woman)
16:45 well then why is she a lgbtqphobe?? I don't understand this statement about religious people and them also being homophobic
The name Jubilee is making so much more sense know. That's such a dog-whistly Christian name.
Surprised it never crossed my mind as a possibility before. 😂
you have the best intro and outro of the clips channels.
the way he says "okay... sURE." 😭😭😭😭😭😭 hes fuckin right
Plot twist - it’s Steven Crowder
Video says No stream??
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Yeah , same I was looking forward to that
@@HasanReactionsfanTwo It's working now!! Thank you :)
The answer is still "Yes" it's just that he needs a support system emotionally, financially and physically like IDK NOT UNTRAINED RANDOS, JUBILEE!
We should really think about the reason why someone would neglect the real them just to fit in, seems like the church is having the opposite effect of good in some places
skipped the fucking ad break lol. goated
Man that’s pretty sad. He should of course be honest with himself and his wife
Honestly this guy kind of sucks for dragging that poor woman into a marriage when he knew he was gay before hand
Not he doesn’t. Lying and deceiving is perfectly moral when your life and livelihood is under threat otherwise. Maybe instead of blaming him, blame the religious community he grew up in that cultivated the need to hide his identity this way.
@@PerfectDark0 so it's perfectly moral to waste that Woman's time when she could have had a life with someone who actually loved her romantically and wasn't using her to see if he could be someone else, who knows how many years of her life he could have wasted
@@ProphesyOfTruth Absolutely. That’s 100% fine. Again blame the religious community for that. Or actually blame the woman, as the husband mentioned, for being so homophobic that he couldn’t be honest with her without facing serious repercussions. She’s likely as brainwashed as the fucked community they live in.
@@PerfectDark0 No it’s not “moral” lmao. You don’t NEED to get married. You can acknowledge the horrible environment he’s in while also acknowledging he did a terrible thing. I don’t blame him entirely though because it seems like he somewhat believed that getting married to a woman would make him straight.
@@viys3261 Actually, in these environments you do *need* to be married. It’s an expectation and external forces like family, friends, neighbors will constantly push that expectation onto you. Y’all are really missing the forest for the trees.
step 1 would be to start job hunting for a job that you can be confident wont fire you for coming out. once you do that, even if it doesnt work with your spouse, you still have an income
NOT THE POOL BOY 💀
Jubilee is really on their content demon arc
Hasan pretending to be an Australian Mormon as if to say they don't exist is really funny to me as an Australian who lives near a church of latter day saints
Tough situation, normally I’d feel horrible for the wife as finding out the person you love most isn’t attracted to you would hurt a lot but hearing that she’s against lgbtq people this feels like some sort of karma, a big fuck you from the universe for her ignorance 🤣🤣 don’t give af if your marriage is failing if you don’t believe all people should be able to love who they love (as consenting adults ofc)
i dont understand, when in the video did they state that the wife is against lgbtq people?
@@a1sauce948
In the video, the dude said that she doesn’t support the lgbt. I think the first or second question. Obviously due to religious reasons since he hated himself for being gay and thought he could fix it by marrying the gay away
I wonder how jubilee gets these guys to come up here and out themselves for a video. The ad probably like “looking for a DL to come shoot this videos for money”
I REALLY WANNA WATCH CHICAGO AGAIN NOOOOOO LMAOOOOOOOO
Simple answer is yes, he knows it and we all know it.
Gonna be living your whole life a lie and surely the partner that you married would come to see it eventually and be understanding.
Its gonna be tough but better than living unhappily to the point its eating away at you and going on Jubilee for advice.
You already know the answer
No side is WAY better, his safety is at risk, he needs to become more independent from the church because right now his whole life is dependent on it. He should most likely get a divorce because they would most likely still support him than If he just came out as gay. Then after that move in with his family, maybe look for work outside of his area and try and seek an apartment with flatmates outside of his area. After he has a back up income and a backup home then he can come out. He should deal with the risks before coming out, if he’s there he’s situation is BAD so coming out straight away or at all before taking steps to soften the blow can be fatal. You can tell a lot of the people on the “yes” box either had a supporting family to the point that they didn’t feel danger coming out or their straight.
Hasan, do you realize just. How. Dangerous this is, fuck!!
He should have never married her then. He’s selfish
YOU CANT RUN FROM THE CANDY MAN!!
Subtle hints: Yo that pool guy is kinda hot x,D
If his finances and emotional support depend on his wife, the church, and the family then he should wait until he's able to get on his feet a bit before coming out. Who knows? Maybe the wife snaps and throws him out because of this (really hoping that's not the case). He would need a secure plan before coming out so that he can care for himself and find groups that are really there for him.
As a queer person, hasan was on point with his takes - I agreed with him the whole time. Especially about the musical theatre part 😂
Crazy Ludwig came on here to debate if he should come out to qt
I think if he opens up, and the relationship doesn't work out, then at least he can move on with his life. HOWEVER, if his wife ever daydreamed of being with two men at once, then well, she could potentially be ecstatic. owo
2:56 THATS WHAT IM SAYYYIN
Next episode - Should I tell my gay husband, that I'm actually straight ?
PS: regarding Jacob - as a good atheist, I know God hates him anyways and he will be send to hell for eternity - not ...
PPS: I know, that doesn't help ...
i agree with some of the comments saying he should find a support system before he does it, and go out of his way to find a therapy. therapy is a lot more accessible nowadays with online services and phone calls, so it he wouldn't have to depend on the ones in his area if thats what is stopping him. & honestly he should just ask for a divorce and say he fell out of love and period. idk why this is such a debate, he's not entitled to disclose all of this information to anyone if his safety is threatened. while the wife deserves not be in a relationship with someone that doesn't love her in that way, but he should be able to live his life too. when he has his foundation ready, THEN he can decide to come out. and i just want to say that god inherently isn't homophobic, its the people who are apart of the religion that made it that way. god is a personal relationship, not a group effort from the church. what matters to him should be between HIMSELF, and god. (i'm atheist btw). he should have a plan for the worst case scenario. that guy who said his "wife would be patient and loving" about it is so stupidly naive too.
i just cant feel bad for this guy at all because he knew he is gay yet he kept lying and pretending how he loves her then married her and kept on lying and lying, this isnt even about him being gay its about being a liar, you dont go and marry someone while having a big big secret she doesnt know about, he put himself and others in a very bad situation so why should anyone feel bad for his mistakes? also how he dare calling his wife as his best friend what best friend is that to whom you dont tell such an important secret about yourself, you would assume that your best friend knows your secret of being gay and being afraid to admit it because of the religious surrounding, why didnt he just move away move city start a new life away from religion and family nobody was stopping him, this is just a guy who made many wrong choices and ended up in a spiral downwards, and if he somehow attracted to his wife or in love then he aint gay, he bi at best
The guy is focusing on what he will lose. It's the sunk cost fallacy. Eventually, the truth will come out and it will all be destroyed anyway. The reality is coming out as soon as possible will keep him from wasting any more of his life.
Looks like he picked the no side. It's a no, but do it later.
I'm sure the scenario in the video is fake, but this shit really happens, and people really live in such conservative areas, they might have to hide who they are until they get out of the community.
hey tbh ur my fav has channel
This is one of those things that people who have never experienced will never truly understand. Being gay is his entire humanity, but his wife is probably his entire life. Or at least it feels that way. Humans aren't logical.
With that being said, she's going to figure it out eventually. So will everyone else. They probably already suspect it but won't point fingers because of how taboo it is in his community.
God this is hard. But yeah ultimately he's either gonna lose everything or kill himself. At least in the former case he's still alive.
I hope it's Ben Shapiro
how do you gay pill a morman?!!!
JUBILEE IS LIB CHRISTIAN PROPAGANDA IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW
he needs to leave her
i mean you can live being sexually frustrated, its not like he hates his wife. Theyre best friends, and being that old and prob been working at a church for many years... would be hard to get a job. And in top of that loosing all your friends and family... not like i know what its like to be gay and not be able to say it but seems not worth it
You don't get to say that you're an honest person while lying to your wofe about being straight which you knew you were not even before the marriage lul is this guy ok? It's literally micro cheating because you are with a certain person but you like someone else. It's emotional cheating at least
I had a similar experience. I was married to a man then realised I was gay because I am also a man
kinda sus 💀
HAS...........jubilee is pretty charitable to you...
That video made me feel like shit damn, i hate it
guaranteeed 100% that every single person he wants to come out to already knows...you can hear the way he speaks, the inflection in his voice, he has the stereotypical feminine gay vocalization, vocal fry etc.
My dude, you're literally socialism as a commodity. What are you talking about?
Everyone's forgetting the one scenario
What if
He comes out to his wife
But she pulls out a strap on and goes "I know"
Lmao
if you're in the US then yes you should come out.
What I wanna know is if they have kids together?
Yes. Next.
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He’s pretty selfish for marrying his wife when he knew he was gay, I feel more sympathy for the wife.
You clearly have no understanding of how deeply entrenched homophobia is in peoples minds, but from your ignorant perspective I see why you would feel that way.
Remember that he thought the marriage would make him heterosexual. He comes from a very conservative homophobic religious community and he internalized a lot of that. I can definitely relate to that kind of self hatred. I used to pray to god every night for a year to make me heterosexual and I convinced myself it was working for a year.
@@noahleach7690 and you clearly have no idea that this shit man had the chance at any point to leave his family and that fucking community and go find a community who accept him the way he is, its his own fault for staying there and his fault for lying and marrying a woman just because his family and community expect that lol, you be acting as if he a child, he an adult grown man move city find people who accept you if you know that your family and friends cant accept who you are, he was selfish period, like yes when he was younger he was forced to be religious which is toxic and sucks but as soon as he turned adult and capable to work on his own he has no excuses as to why didnt he leave and start his own life even if it would be difficult at first
Jesus the yes side is so oblivious and ignorant. Yeah, just try to figure out through 🥺 “baby steps” 🥺 how to pull yourself out of homelessness once you become homeless instead of taking a few weeks to make sure you’ve got a support system to fall back on and avoid that whole ordeal all together. Don’t worry, I’m sure god will help you when everyone in your whole life is shunning you and driving you alone and broke, don’t bother helping yourself
You sound South African
Audio on this video is an L
The people who say "No" are downright selfish.
If you have children especially no act like a man you made the bed you slept in it
Come out, and offer to make it an open/poly relationship
bro theyre christian they would consider that a mortal sin ☠
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everyone. ty society
Fiiiiiirst
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Hasan u r 🥵…. 😊
jubilee sucks bruh they need to tell those no people that they are saying yes
He's not gay, he's bisexual right?
Gay, he never liked women.
He just loves his wife in the same way you love your friends. If he was bi this wouldn’t really be that much a big deal