Mom refuses to give up on daughter put on life support after car crash

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  • Peggy Means' only daughter was in a coma with virtually no chance of ever coming out of it, doctors told her. And yet, Means refused to let them pull the plug. Steve Hartman has the incredible story in "On the Road."
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  • @AnnaAtl
    @AnnaAtl 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +121

    That’s a MOTHER right there.❤

  • @earlineprice9374
    @earlineprice9374 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +105

    It's so wrong that her husband left her and moved on with his life and also so sad that her friends stop coming to see her. You don't need people like that in your life.

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      The world doesnt stop for you nor anyone. So why should an individual put a pause on their life simply because you lack coping skills?
      Husband got tired of being with a woman who had obviously already given up on their marriage since the only focus was the disabled daughter. Friends arent required to go with you to visit YOUR family. In some situations, hospitals will only allow visits from immediate relatives.

    • @wendysnyder6443
      @wendysnyder6443 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You certainly do not!!! So much for loyalty! 🙄 It’s like the Bible says: “The love of the greater number has cooled off.” So sad, yet still very true unfortunately. 😢

    • @swallowedinthesea11
      @swallowedinthesea11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@selectiveapathy Is you mad?

    • @DebbieJune
      @DebbieJune 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@selectiveapathyfeelings are not like a faucet you can’t just shut them off and if you’re able to do that then there were never feelings there in the first place. None of my Mom’s friends came to see her or even ask how she was and I don’t speak to any of them anymore. They sure loved my Mom when she was healthy and well and could do favors for them. This is why I have no use for people today it’s just ice cold to have an attitude like that towards people who through no fault of their own have found themselves in this situation😡

    • @ABSG7
      @ABSG7 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Nothing greater than a mother’s love. A good mother, that is.

  • @reallovechannel1309
    @reallovechannel1309 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +94

    Mom had a feeling not to give up. She felt it !!!
    I wish we all did that for each other!!!

  • @kadeishapinnock-blagrove4449
    @kadeishapinnock-blagrove4449 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    The genuine love of a mother is unmatched by any other human. God bless them both ❤

  • @SighDown
    @SighDown 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +97

    I did the same for my mother after the whole family had given up on her after a bad car accident. The doctors had told us she was brain dead and I told them that wasn’t true, and six weeks later, she woke up out of her coma.

    • @CruzCruz-nw7fi
      @CruzCruz-nw7fi 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Guess the brain heals

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Somehow still bound to a wheelchair huh? Yeah that sounds like a depressing life you set her up for. Im sure your mother sees herself more as a burden than really being “thankful” the plug wasnt pulled.

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@CruzCruz-nw7fi tell that to people who suffered traumatic brain injuries… see how well they can live their lives with newly “healed” brain.

    • @collettemcpherson2807
      @collettemcpherson2807 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@selectiveapathyare you God to determine she is better dead than alive

    • @vintage6346
      @vintage6346 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@collettemcpherson2807
      Ten yers ago, I survived a car accident as a paraplegic and missing one leg. I'm so glad I survived. I'd been in the cult called Jehovah's Witnesses all my life. But five years ago, I woke up from that horrible mind-control. Better late than never.

  • @Lisa_5591
    @Lisa_5591 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    I love this beautiful story!❤

  • @juliebailey9254
    @juliebailey9254 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Happy Mother's Day

  • @stevi6236
    @stevi6236 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    The power of love…amazing Mom! There are angels among us…..this Mom is definitely an angel❤️blessings to these wonderful women❣️

  • @Darci3333
    @Darci3333 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Now thats a true Mothers love❤❤❤❤❤

  • @judil3294
    @judil3294 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Similar thing happened to a friend. Docs said no hope and that he was brain dead. Family had him moved back to US hospital near home. With years of hard work and a couple brain surgeries, he learned everything all over, finished college, sings with choirs, gives talks both motivational and for the church. Never underestimate God and a mother's love.

  • @itazuranakisu
    @itazuranakisu 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    It must I’ve been heartbreaking for the mom each time she went to the hospital but she kept going and kept believing. She was allowing her daughter to make the decision to live or not (body shutting down or not). If she had pulled the plug I feel like she would’ve spent a long time wondering “if I held on for one more day” or “did I do the right thing”.

  • @nmikali3848
    @nmikali3848 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Wow what a story of love and tenacity, perserverance❤

  • @metoo6599
    @metoo6599 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Welcome back Jennifer ❤ you are blessed ❤

  • @ladybug2681
    @ladybug2681 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    God has blessed you both 😊

  • @thegatesofdawn...1386
    @thegatesofdawn...1386 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Bless her heart! 🙏 Good mom.
    Happy mother's day.

  • @bartinadikgale1832
    @bartinadikgale1832 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Wooow what a mother.God bless her.The boys are enjoying their mom now and her mom too.She also feel loved and special

  • @elizabethbrauer1118
    @elizabethbrauer1118 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Amazing love + patience = a daughter brought back from the brink!! God bless this mom. ❣

  • @shoshannafachima1306
    @shoshannafachima1306 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This proves that one should never ever give up.❤❤

  • @alexg5457
    @alexg5457 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Is anybody else brought to tears by this segment or am I just a softy?

  • @markbrookes6557
    @markbrookes6557 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Wasn't quite expecting the overwhelming feeling I got from this! Beautiful!!!

  • @silviatrevino3138
    @silviatrevino3138 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    May God bless her and her family ❤🙏

  • @clinicaleducators5160
    @clinicaleducators5160 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    A mother’s unconditional love. ❤️

  • @amandahumphreyshultz9010
    @amandahumphreyshultz9010 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I've seen this before my next door neighbors son was in a coma and he woke up thank God that she kept him on life support because he is still here thank God for moms

  • @luannestrickland4199
    @luannestrickland4199 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What a true mom! So glad they have each other!❤

  • @CatholicForever1
    @CatholicForever1 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I wonder how many people who could have recovered were taken off life support because they were given a grim prognosis. I think that in a few years we will find out that a lot of patients could have made if if they were given enough time and a lot of care

    • @ontoyoualways9183
      @ontoyoualways9183 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If this were me, I wouldn't rather not live this kind of life. For me, the kind thing to do is to let me go

    • @thanos34362
      @thanos34362 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ontoyoualways9183 same here, she will basically need 24-hour care which the burden will now transfer to her kids once the mom pass away. That is unless they out her in a nursing home

  • @FredRios-vw1ee
    @FredRios-vw1ee 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Goes withou saying...may God bless her mom...what incredible duo❤

  • @BananaSoldier1234
    @BananaSoldier1234 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The definition of stick to your gut. What a beautiful story

  • @TheOneinthewoods
    @TheOneinthewoods 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Happy mothers day jennifer ❤

  • @JackieScoggins
    @JackieScoggins 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hello from Chattanooga Tennessee. That's the best mother's day is your children ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

  • @montythepoodlepup9634
    @montythepoodlepup9634 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Onwards and upwards beautiful family, am in awe,! Best wishes from UK 🇬🇧 😊

  • @gracie2298
    @gracie2298 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You most Certainly hear when you are in a coma! 60 days, three hospitals later I was home after being t-boned by Tyler Wilson. I wish him Karma everyday, cause my poor body was left side crushed. He lied about having permission to drive his friend’s pick-up. He put his cooler in the back of my car & was sitting in my backseat when state cop pulled up. He stole items too. A conversation with a hospital employee a few weeks later brought what a neighbor said back to me while in a coma. I unfortunately moved here, healthcare is a joke. My life will never be the same, however seeing this puts it in perspective!

  • @tobydandelion
    @tobydandelion 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why do doctors hate keeping people on life support so bad? What's the harm with waiting? Horrifying to think how often we'd have stories like this if docs didn't push for pulling the plug/feeding tube so early so often.

  • @shannonmora9244
    @shannonmora9244 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nothing like a Mother’s love for her children ❤️❤️ so very very happy for your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻 God Bless you all!!

  • @peanut8272
    @peanut8272 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    LORD please bless this family... Give this beautiful woman total Restoration in the face of mankind.... Show the world once again that Nothing is impossible with U. Hallelujah.

  • @af3790
    @af3790 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing story yet she was able to see her mom❤

  • @karladuncan4026
    @karladuncan4026 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    God bless her and you all! ❤

  • @calvingaston7934
    @calvingaston7934 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That’s a MOTHERS LOVE!

  • @anthonyyabuyabuyabu5177
    @anthonyyabuyabuyabu5177 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh men you make me cry

  • @sherriejohnson688
    @sherriejohnson688 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was so moved by this mother's incredible resilience. As a mother, I recently wrote a book about my two children and their near-death experiences at different times. Doctors had me bring in end-of-life for my children. I could not, did not give up. I believe I have shared this mother's many emotions of despair, worry, extreme sadness, helplessness, and fear. The hours, days, & weeks by a child's bedside allows ample time for thoughts & prayer. Near Death by Fire and Ice is a quick read, full of miracles & hope.

  • @WinstonOnBoard
    @WinstonOnBoard 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Mother’s Day. Great mother and best friend

  • @gatorbling
    @gatorbling 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There is no love like a mother love for her daughter! God bless her and your family!!😍🙏🏾

  • @jarettc.2500
    @jarettc.2500 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢 this is so damn beautiful a story of a great mothers undying love n support for her offspring 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nlp6082
    @nlp6082 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! This is such a wonderful story ❤‼️

  • @dishish
    @dishish 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is amazing...and also upsetting as I remember how adamant the doctor was to remove my brother from life support before even 24 hours had passed.

  • @beth6288
    @beth6288 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Absolutely beautiful 💞✌

  • @jennychurchill2716
    @jennychurchill2716 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Incredible .Hope she continues to improve!

  • @murraycutler9594
    @murraycutler9594 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a wonderful mom. I hope her daughter continues to improve.

  • @lovewillwinnn
    @lovewillwinnn 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    “In sickness and in health”. Well he was a wrong choice anyway. 👋

  • @gaijinguineapig
    @gaijinguineapig 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Steve, I'm gonna need you to give me at least one episode where I don't cry, or feel the need to cry like a baby. Just one! Jokes aside, this is the best series period. My heart is full.

  • @myraselby9947
    @myraselby9947 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pretty lady, she's truly blessed. Continued prayers

  • @PracticalPerry
    @PracticalPerry 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless this mother, her daughter and their family. juSt woW.

  • @Bowser14456
    @Bowser14456 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My mom had a friend like this. Was in a bad car accident and afterwards couldn't move, talk or anything. She just passed away a couple months ago.

  • @paulazemeckis7835
    @paulazemeckis7835 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish my mother was like this one!

  • @carmelwilliams5594
    @carmelwilliams5594 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There's is no manual written to tell a Mother how to Love there Child or Children 👍🏻👍🏻❤❤

  • @juliebowers550
    @juliebowers550 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God Bless❤

  • @loloca
    @loloca 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A true Mothers love ❤️!!!!!

  • @sandrakirk4781
    @sandrakirk4781 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You give the thanks and glory to God because God gets the glory for not allowing her to be taken from you. He brought her back to you. I could not have my life without the Lord in it. God is good all the time and all the time God is good and he works miracles. If you just give yourself over to him I’m so happy for you and for your daughter. God bless you both.🙏

  • @HS2ND
    @HS2ND 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really wonderful.

  • @yeorges
    @yeorges 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    god bless this family

  • @localshroomlover
    @localshroomlover 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my god it would have been so heartbreaking to stay in a coma, worrying about when your life is going to end from the plug. And even worse, her busband left her... 😢... Im so glad she had a beautiful soul of a mom.

  • @veronicalombardi2443
    @veronicalombardi2443 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WOW !

  • @Loveroffood41
    @Loveroffood41 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Its amazing how the brain can heal.

  • @googlenutzer3998
    @googlenutzer3998 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She did what every Mama would do!

  • @nancydavis4618
    @nancydavis4618 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Who is going to pay the hospital bill?

  • @Droogs
    @Droogs 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️Never give up on Love❤️

  • @marytalmi6641
    @marytalmi6641 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Incredible

  • @kellyoyen3421
    @kellyoyen3421 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How has she been doing?

  • @linneymlabrador
    @linneymlabrador 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mother knows best

  • @karronlaneNOLA
    @karronlaneNOLA 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yes!!!!

  • @kaisaan5
    @kaisaan5 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There's NOTHING like a mother's love nothing

  • @sophiaduarte745
    @sophiaduarte745 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She has a Good Mom.❤

  • @sandyjuntunen4088
    @sandyjuntunen4088 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There's no telling how many have died bc doctors give up! My dad would have died 3 times before his time if we had listened to Dr's!

  • @christopherroy9440
    @christopherroy9440 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yay! Never give up!

  • @pourquoipas971
    @pourquoipas971 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well that is why it is important to talk deeply when you are healthy… i would not like to be ressucitated in that terrible condition .. my 35 yo daughter idem…

  • @joycebryant3261
    @joycebryant3261 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God is good!❤❤❤😊

  • @kimgiannotti7693
    @kimgiannotti7693 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My girlfriends daughter has been in coma 8 years

  • @aliciaguidry466
    @aliciaguidry466 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praise God Praise God and praise God amen God bless them both in His love God bless

  • @warrior4ever731
    @warrior4ever731 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They can HEAR IN THE COMA

  • @chasych7575
    @chasych7575 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @audraarndt1824
    @audraarndt1824 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤😢😢

  • @patriciacatino3891
    @patriciacatino3891 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A miracle from God🙏

  • @mickaelavalentina6279
    @mickaelavalentina6279 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A mothers love ❤

  • @CruzCruz-nw7fi
    @CruzCruz-nw7fi 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful amazing ❤

  • @kimgiannotti7693
    @kimgiannotti7693 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She comes in from Florida once a month

  • @karenrich9092
    @karenrich9092 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is truly a wonderful mother's day story. And as always, Steve Hartman brings me to tears. He must have stock in Kleenex or something.

  • @nicolehutchinson5453
    @nicolehutchinson5453 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry to say Jennifer can hear while she's in a coma
    As long as her spirit is still in her body!

  • @stephaniemartin8744
    @stephaniemartin8744 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤🙏🏽

  • @jamesjimmy1953
    @jamesjimmy1953 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Who's cutting onions???

  • @angellabeckford2747
    @angellabeckford2747 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful story, i am one person who doesn't believe in pulling the plug on anyone. We are not God.

  • @iamthirdyt
    @iamthirdyt 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How did she pay for it?

  • @zoeilobowdery8778
    @zoeilobowdery8778 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had septisemia as a result of chemo drugs rotting my bowel and stomach as I had leukaemia I was in a coma doctors said nothing could be done my mum said I will make it and I did🇬🇧🇫🇴

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Who is raising her kids?

    • @weebunny
      @weebunny 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe their dad? Or maybe they're grown now. Just speculating.

  • @allisonlew4508
    @allisonlew4508 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whatever Jennifer's wishes were - her wishes should gave been followed.

  • @jeanfarrell8017
    @jeanfarrell8017 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow

  • @kennethlui2268
    @kennethlui2268 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great love conquers it.

  • @beatrixvandermerwe2860
    @beatrixvandermerwe2860 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And the daughter quality of life???

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would hope my family would disconnect me!

    • @jennifer7648
      @jennifer7648 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I kind of feel the same. Like what kind of a life can a person have when they have lost their ability to do things for themselves? You have no freedom or privacy!

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She was off life support, still living, just in a coma. If you’re surviving on your own, you want your family to, what, smother you? What is your view on the value of life?

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@jennifer7648she was off life support, just in a coma. You would be advocating for being put to death? Makes one wonder how you value life, doesn’t it?

  • @johnd.5601
    @johnd.5601 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    As a person who had his life saved. My advice would be to pull the plug. That is what I wish someone would have told the doctors for me. There is no chance to recover from anything in America! It is impossible. She is wearing a mask just like I do. I look OK on the outside, and I can walk and take care of myself.
    The real problems exist in working and living in a paranoid world and an extremely aggressive work ethic in America! Taxes are outrageously aggressive and extremely difficult to keep up with. Being single means you pay the maximum amount in gut wrenching Taxes and almost always owe more, even claiming 0! I can't get a loan because of bad credit, but I have 0 debt. Please, if any family members have to go through this, pull the plug. Don't make someone wear one of these awful masks because it sucks not being able to recover or even recognize yourself.

    • @DavidMiller-kf1ss
      @DavidMiller-kf1ss 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Hugs!❤

    • @mandybradley3079
      @mandybradley3079 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You being real and honest says what a wonderful person you are. Life is difficult for everyone. It’s just too difficult to move forward sometimes.
      If I didn’t have my faith I would be depressed.

    • @pegs1659
      @pegs1659 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I have to agree with you. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I have told my children that after 2 weeks on LS let me go.

  • @lizmrjas5352
    @lizmrjas5352 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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