As someone who wasn’t protected as a child because my family was my abuser the grandfathers approach damn near brought me to tears his mom should have protected op but I’m glad his grandfather did
“Mom forgave everyone” no, Mom is a home wrecker and she’s LUCKY that THEY forgave HER. Shouldn’t have cheated. Everyone else does not deserve OP. How dare they expect to get back into his life after treating him HORRIBLY? Also the grandpa’s “Nah bitch you fucked this family up a long time ago” haha DESERVED. (The story gets very contrived and I’m fully willing to believe it’s false, but I’m also willing to believe the beginning might be real and OP’s projecting towards the end, or that all of it is somehow real. Who knows.)
Bunch of friends reddit, so alt I don't think the technical details will matter a lot, so I'll get right down to business. 4 years ago, dad found out my mom had a life long affair (more than one, but that's another story). He knew about a couple of affairs she had in the past and forgave her, hanging in there for the kids, moving on, yada yada But that time (4 years ago), he found out me and my two siblings might not be his kids, considering time of affair. This was the first time we all heard of mom's, well, everything really. There was a whole DNA thing and it turned out my siblings were my dad's, and I was not. Cool right. So dad leaves mom, divorces her, moves out, takes both my siblings with him. Not me tho I stay behind with mom, who hits a new low finding herself alone, and we both become pretty much outcasts as far as most of the family is concerned. My older brother was particularly mean to me. We were really tight before, and the shit he did to me, I swear, had I been bigger at the time, I would have punched him hard, more than once. I don't wanna get into details because I can't since I could be recognized, but stuff happened and I got DNA again and as it turns the fuck out, DNA #1 was messed up and and I am my dad's kid. Now, I don't need legal advice on this. Grandpa is the man, always had my back, we got a lawyer and are looking to settle. But dad wants back in my life. Brother is calling and wanting to meet up and talk shit. I don't fucking want to. I want these people out of my life. Mom already forgave everyone, she is going on a "date" with my dad and I feel sick, but not my business right I wish them both good fucking luck, but I want none of it. Only nobody leaves me be. I keep hearing that they're family, and I ought to hear them out and give them a chance or I'll regret it later, and that the only reason I wont talk to them is cause I'm a teen and stupid or some other shitty explanation. So, give me some perspective here, please. Do I sound unreasonable when I say, thanks, but fuck no, thanks? tldr dad thought I wasn't his kid, left, turns out I am his kid, so he wants to be pals again, and I want him gone
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As someone who wasn’t protected as a child because my family was my abuser the grandfathers approach damn near brought me to tears his mom should have protected op but I’m glad his grandfather did
“Mom forgave everyone” no, Mom is a home wrecker and she’s LUCKY that THEY forgave HER. Shouldn’t have cheated. Everyone else does not deserve OP. How dare they expect to get back into his life after treating him HORRIBLY?
Also the grandpa’s “Nah bitch you fucked this family up a long time ago” haha DESERVED.
(The story gets very contrived and I’m fully willing to believe it’s false, but I’m also willing to believe the beginning might be real and OP’s projecting towards the end, or that all of it is somehow real. Who knows.)
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Bunch of friends reddit, so alt
I don't think the technical details will matter a lot, so I'll get right down to business.
4 years ago, dad found out my mom had a life long affair (more than one, but that's another story). He knew about a couple of affairs she had in the past and forgave her, hanging in there for the kids, moving on, yada yada
But that time (4 years ago), he found out me and my two siblings might not be his kids, considering time of affair.
This was the first time we all heard of mom's, well, everything really.
There was a whole DNA thing and it turned out my siblings were my dad's, and I was not.
Cool right. So dad leaves mom, divorces her, moves out, takes both my siblings with him. Not me tho
I stay behind with mom, who hits a new low finding herself alone, and we both become pretty much outcasts as far as most of the family is concerned. My older brother was particularly mean to me. We were really tight before, and the shit he did to me, I swear, had I been bigger at the time, I would have punched him hard, more than once.
I don't wanna get into details because I can't since I could be recognized, but stuff happened and I got DNA again and as it turns the fuck out, DNA #1 was messed up and and I am my dad's kid.
Now, I don't need legal advice on this. Grandpa is the man, always had my back, we got a lawyer and are looking to settle.
But dad wants back in my life. Brother is calling and wanting to meet up and talk shit.
I don't fucking want to.
I want these people out of my life.
Mom already forgave everyone, she is going on a "date" with my dad and I feel sick, but not my business right
I wish them both good fucking luck, but I want none of it. Only nobody leaves me be. I keep hearing that they're family, and I ought to hear them out and give them a chance or I'll regret it later, and that the only reason I wont talk to them is cause I'm a teen and stupid or some other shitty explanation.
So, give me some perspective here, please. Do I sound unreasonable when I say, thanks, but fuck no, thanks?
tldr dad thought I wasn't his kid, left, turns out I am his kid, so he wants to be pals again, and I want him gone