A man sees a career advancement or pay raises as a way to better provide for his family. A woman sees it as a renegotiate tool to shift what she perceives as the power dynamic in her sole favor.
@johnbalogna803 a certain type of woman yes. But there are also men who use their titles as some form of manipulation over women or to seem better than other men
I don't understand why people this days give much importantance to jobs which is indirectly you became a slave rather give importance to family which support you.
Working doesn't make you a slave. Even if things were free,we would have to do work to make the world spin. It's working for terrible people and businesses where the treatment is unfair.
One small plot hole: Julia says - about halfway through - "ALMOST before it was too late," which made me hopeful this story was going to have a HAPPY ending. One where she has an existential crisis, realizes her mistakes, & makes honest changes in her life. Instead, she just...runs away. smh
My wife has a similar offer for her work with a massive raise but also with more hours. Told her our little children would lose their mom and she agreed. She turned down the offer and now we are expecting our first grandchild
Being the one in charge at home is very different than being the boss at home. You should be kind and caring, and only be assertive when needed. It is a fine line that does get crossed from time to time. Whenever you do cross it admit you were wrong apologize and through actions make up for it.
When men earn money, it is always considered the families money. Women almost always consider the money they earn as their money. This comes from personal experience and from friends and acquaintances. I have known women putting their families into financial hardship to prove her money was hers, not the families.
Life remains the same,but it's the outcomes and circumstances that change as well as people,but life has always been the same. What she should've said is that money changes people because that's exactly what happened with her. And she acted like he didnt work and had money.
The monster is gone, the family can breathe again and thrive. She is free to strut around in her own ugly world of self-importance. Perhaps she will find an equally delusional ugly strutting little freak to settle down with, and they can sit in their opulence looking down on all those beneath them.
Why does the term, "strong and independent woman" have to be synonymous with, "selfish and entitled narcissist" in so many modern relationships? Let's be honest, how many of the these rich and successful people in society are genuinely happy because of their success? Clearly not this woman that's for sure. Giving up things that actually matter, for some minor influence in a corporate job that actually doesn't really matter at all, is sadly far too common these days.
Man earns more than the woman: Great, now I can provide for my family and treat my partner. Woman earns more than the man: Great, now I have more money to spend. My partner is a man, so he can pay for himself. I am now superior to my partner, I have little respect for him.
And they say men are insecure wen the wife earns more but wen they do this scenario plays out just like this trying to boss him around and belittle him until ultimately they cheat or he just can’t take it no more. It’s not that we can’t handle a woman that earns more it’s wat happens as an after effect of that some of you women become insufferable and neglectful.
You WERENT the breadwinner, he actually still earns. He supported you in every way possible and you did nothing but put him down.
Even in the end, when she lost everything and actually had a choice to prioritize and win her family back, she still tucks tail and bails.
Despite usual thought "power corrupts people", the truth is "power revels people".
True, this was the real Julia.
It does. Some people remain who they are and others take the opportunity to be who they really wanna be or who they were manipulated into being
And it's also funny that men who work long hours to make the big bucks are criticized while women get praise and excuses
A man sees a career advancement or pay raises as a way to better provide for his family. A woman sees it as a renegotiate tool to shift what she perceives as the power dynamic in her sole favor.
@johnbalogna803 a certain type of woman yes. But there are also men who use their titles as some form of manipulation over women or to seem better than other men
She couldnt help it, abandoning her family and disrespecting her husband makes her and many women feel powerful.
I don't understand why people this days give much importantance to jobs which is indirectly you became a slave rather give importance to family which support you.
True, nothing replaces a good family.
Working doesn't make you a slave. Even if things were free,we would have to do work to make the world spin. It's working for terrible people and businesses where the treatment is unfair.
Getting stupid by getting involved and having kids is slavery...Why men are going MGTOW...
She was probably cheating too
Not probably. She sure did
If (big IF) she wasn't already she would have been soon. It's inevitable with the loss of respect.
probably. some woemen have this fake inflated sense of ego when they start making money. as if they are doing something special.
That’s what happens when pride clouds your judgement.
Pride is one of the steps before a fall
"Pride" is the evil twin of "self respect".
Don't forget, she owes alimony and child support.
Well, if the daughter was already 16, that might not be true for her. The son, yes.
@@timothyhansen6581 Still under the age of 18, Child support can even go longer if they are in school
Wrong, she still owes child support until at least eight teen and can go even longer if they are still in some form of school
One small plot hole: Julia says - about halfway through - "ALMOST before it was too late," which made me hopeful this story was going to have a HAPPY ending. One where she has an existential crisis, realizes her mistakes, & makes honest changes in her life. Instead, she just...runs away. smh
My wife has a similar offer for her work with a massive raise but also with more hours. Told her our little children would lose their mom and she agreed. She turned down the offer and now we are expecting our first grandchild
Being the one in charge at home is very different than being the boss at home. You should be kind and caring, and only be assertive when needed. It is a fine line that does get crossed from time to time. Whenever you do cross it admit you were wrong apologize and through actions make up for it.
When men earn money, it is always considered the families money. Women almost always consider the money they earn as their money. This comes from personal experience and from friends and acquaintances. I have known women putting their families into financial hardship to prove her money was hers, not the families.
“If the shoe fits” => And THAT is how you destroy a marriage in one sentence.
And people who cant recognize things within themselves changing are those who dont know themselves
8:34. She just put the first knife into the heart of her own marriage.
This is more often the case when the woman out earns the man, it usually gets rebranded as him being "insecure."
Life remains the same,but it's the outcomes and circumstances that change as well as people,but life has always been the same. What she should've said is that money changes people because that's exactly what happened with her. And she acted like he didnt work and had money.
And a coward till the end lol
The monster is gone, the family can breathe again and thrive. She is free to strut around in her own ugly world of self-importance. Perhaps she will find an equally delusional ugly strutting little freak to settle down with, and they can sit in their opulence looking down on all those beneath them.
Why does the term, "strong and independent woman" have to be synonymous with, "selfish and entitled narcissist" in so many modern relationships? Let's be honest, how many of the these rich and successful people in society are genuinely happy because of their success? Clearly not this woman that's for sure. Giving up things that actually matter, for some minor influence in a corporate job that actually doesn't really matter at all, is sadly far too common these days.
Oh come on there is no 13th floor the world jumps to 14.😂😂😂
Man earns more than the woman: Great, now I can provide for my family and treat my partner.
Woman earns more than the man: Great, now I have more money to spend. My partner is a man, so he can pay for himself. I am now superior to my partner, I have little respect for him.
And they say men are insecure wen the wife earns more but wen they do this scenario plays out just like this trying to boss him around and belittle him until ultimately they cheat or he just can’t take it no more. It’s not that we can’t handle a woman that earns more it’s wat happens as an after effect of that some of you women become insufferable and neglectful.
What profits a man if he gains the whole world yet loses his soul?
A nice story about women earn money for their own. Man earn money to provid for a family.
And that's why women should not be put in high positions.
As s soon as she would open her mouth like that she would be out of the house
I think you need to earn more than 50% more than your partner before you start big timing.