Be 100 Percent Responsible | Elder Lynn G. Robbins

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  • @rn6045
    @rn6045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I been less active for the 3 years since my mission (served a great mission but fell off when I came home) depression warped my sense of reality and satan got a hold of me for a while. Now I'm making my way back, I set up a meeting with bishop this week, being obedient to the commandments, been clean from drugs for the last 2 months, but my goodness, the natural man is so strong! I get so overwhelmed and very bad anxiety but I know I cant be sad about it, this pain from sin I feel is the consequence of forgetting Him. I felt close to the edge and was about to take my own life but Im not going down without a "wrestle".
    I own this pain, I own the loved ones I lost on the way, I own the bad reputation I've gained. I want this so bad and no matter what my friends, family and mission peers may say about me. I will not give up until I'm reunited with God in that Holy Temple again!! Pray for me brothers and sisters. If your struggling let me know and we'll do this together. God bless you all and dont be deceived by the devil. Theres a reason why he's called "cunning".

    • @Joshuacowley
      @Joshuacowley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hope you're doing well brother, it can be very difficult, but rely on Christ and you can do this.

    • @peggybogar3059
      @peggybogar3059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I hope you seek the help you need to continue on the path of repentance which our prophet says we have need of doing daily, Hang in there.

    • @trinamakaafi3092
      @trinamakaafi3092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Forestgump12able I am going to remember that forest, a self reflection question I shall ask myself came to mind after reading your response to RN...here it goes...'Am I a satan enabler in the comments and actions I do? Did that conversation help do the bidding of the devil?' Thank you for assisting RN and me....New selfreflecting questions to add to my routine....

    • @trinamakaafi3092
      @trinamakaafi3092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      RN...how are you doing now? I will say a prayer for you and me and all who need and seek the Lord's way...

    • @yellowyosh470
      @yellowyosh470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I will pray for you! Don't give up. I used to be addicted to something's that I never thought I could get off of. I testify to you of the power of the atonement of Jesus Christ. He can change your heart and heal you as you turn to him and pray. He is more powerful then Satan. Don't worry about what other people think you are worth or you are capable of. Remember who Jesus Christ and God KNOW who you are and what your capable of. Don't give up, don't stop trying! Accepting responsibility for where you are is important, and so is accepting and remembering in who you have trusted! Jesus Christ. I pray you will choose to turn to the Lord for help in overcoming your challenges. Give up all your son's to know him and I promise you your life can hold much Joy! ❤️ Take care brother!

  • @TheMedcoder
    @TheMedcoder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Absolutely life changing for me. Even after listening to this talk 3 times and taking notes, I feel I am only beginning to grasp the eternal ramifications to this message. Bless you, Br. Robbins!❤

    • @zissler1
      @zissler1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      definitely have to listen a few times to get it.

    • @mikefowler480
      @mikefowler480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here. I’m on the 3rd time

  • @LuLuLyman
    @LuLuLyman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This should be a TED talk, it deserves that kind of recognition.
    Just Briiliant.

  • @hennore
    @hennore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Elder Robbins is arguably my favorite speaker, and I selfishly want him called as an Apostle so he can speak every General Conference 🙏🏾

    • @mindaerror2543
      @mindaerror2543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, his talks have probably been more impactful to me than any other general authority outside of the top 15. I would love for him to be called as an apostle so we could hear his wisdom all the time! 😇‼️

  • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
    @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I keep coming back to this sermon

  • @OtherMike5000
    @OtherMike5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is a flawless roadmap for forgiveness and healing. Thank you so much for posting this!

  • @danielledavis6204
    @danielledavis6204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for this incredible talk!

  • @AlejandroMadrid-tn1gp
    @AlejandroMadrid-tn1gp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I keep listening to this talk over and over. And I am grateful for that.

  • @EMonzon
    @EMonzon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This man is peculiarly brilliant

  • @AnthonyWariner
    @AnthonyWariner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A very profound yet clear talk. It speaks to me direclty.

  • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
    @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Probably one of the best sermon I have heard. So good. So good.

  • @justinvharper1320
    @justinvharper1320 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I absolutely love this talk and I’m so happy that it popped up on my feed. It is wonderful. I’ve listened to it a ton because it’s just that good.

  • @corinnebeenfield8227
    @corinnebeenfield8227 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I heard this about a year ago, and I am so grateful for how it has shaped how I am teaching my teenagers! This is massive for us, because I’m divorced from their dad and he is an example of a victim mindset. I don’t want that for my kids. Teaching them 100% responsibility gives me hope that they won’t pick up that victim-mindset crutch. Love love love this lesson!!

  • @EnoughAndToSpare
    @EnoughAndToSpare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brilliant!!!! Imagine if our public leaders (servants) took 100% responsibility. So much brokenness in society would be mitigated.

  • @denisesorenson4000
    @denisesorenson4000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is amazing!! He was so straight and to the point!! I needed this "I have been living that list" !!

  • @asmith7094
    @asmith7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This principle of responsibility is what is missing from society (among other things)

  • @vanessabarthelmes2249
    @vanessabarthelmes2249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gold nugget after gold nugget. Thank you so much for writing this!!

  • @notablepianolessons2322
    @notablepianolessons2322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love this talk-Guidance that I have been praying for.

  • @JustTrying87
    @JustTrying87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am ashamed that i have been doing nearly everything on that list. I am glad that i came across this excellent talk by Elder Robbins. I need to do a lot of repenting.

  • @noahclark7603
    @noahclark7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    11:00 anti-responsibility list

  • @lauralio2055
    @lauralio2055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this talk. I really needed to hear this.

  • @reaganorton1710
    @reaganorton1710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I absolutely love this seminar! It has had me take a look at my life and my actions and I am definitely sharing. Thanks for showing me this James!

  • @oldpowerlifter
    @oldpowerlifter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have a list of talks that have changed my perspective, or bring into focus important principles. This is on that list.....brilliant!

    • @pavanikotala9243
      @pavanikotala9243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I know the list?

    • @asmith7094
      @asmith7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Care to share the list?

    • @Boundless500
      @Boundless500 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oooo! I've got a list too. But my ultimate TOP one is Loren Daltons "You are receiving revelation" Ensign college 2018...covers EVERYTHING we need to know/do in this life.

  • @deanngoodwin7053
    @deanngoodwin7053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This talk is truly beneficial in identifying the adversary’s subtle influences. Perhaps another thing to think about is how we inadvertently practice depending on other people through perpetually trying to win their affection or even trying to gain supposed “needed” recognition to bolster our own self esteem. When we realize, that before birth, we lived with the greatest love from heavenly parents it seems only natural we crave the same here on earth. If we remember the Savior seeks to succor us with outstretched arms; little by little we come to know of His great power to heal us from the enticements of worldly pursuits. If ever we taste, in the flesh, this great love spoken of by Lehi in his vision of the tree of life, we’ll come to not only savor it but diligently seek it above all other pursuits.

  • @flordeundia808
    @flordeundia808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love it, that is the way we grow, taking responsability,and applying the scriptures in daily life not just learning it and let it in our brain like just knowledge .

  • @mikenorton7262
    @mikenorton7262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great talk that makes me think more profoundly.
    One thing I would state differently: 12:41 "...why do so many [OF US] frequently turn to it." We ALL use these 'tools of escape'. No one is immune, and THAT is taking responsibility.
    Now, we should take responsibility for what we can do to change our experience. Our failures are ours, and so are our successes! Just think how many of us (me included!) dismiss their actions that bring happiness as well as cause unhappiness. Both must be true if we are 100% responsible. If using "the list' robs our free agency and gives it to Satan (for failures AND successes), when we accept our involvement, we have gratitude to God's, and retain our agency.
    Also, I'm not sure that Anger is a 'negative' emotion. It IS an emotion, and when we use it to excuse negative behaviors, it has a negative impact, but it is not always negative in and of itself (even Christ was angry at times).

    • @primalj_2a433
      @primalj_2a433 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have had so many problems with people saying don't get angry being angry is wrong. It just seems like you're not allowed to be angry or sad or have any kind of emotion. If that makes sense

    • @CameronVanTassell
      @CameronVanTassell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most people lose control when angry. Perhaps there are some that can be in perfect control in such a situation. I haven't met them. Christ in his perfect state could avoid such an outcome. So in theory I can agree with you. In practice, not so much.

  • @stylerpeete4193
    @stylerpeete4193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I feel like I’m in kindergarten again after hearing this amazing talk! The Count of Monte Cristo is one of my very favorite movies and he used the story absolutely perfect. It gave me a whole new perspective on everything! This talk was 99% perfect, I kept hoping that at the end of his talk he would mention that the Count and his family let all their hard feelings go and decided to follow Christ.

    • @samuelufamily5900
      @samuelufamily5900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @primalj_2a433
      @primalj_2a433 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah him not finishing the story makes it sound like the rest of his life was miserable.

    • @lindahenry9052
      @lindahenry9052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don’t see it that way. He left us the opportunity (intentionally, I believe) to take responsibility for ourselves and our desire for a full understanding and go to read and study for ourselves. To read more deeply, research more fully, and ponder more thoroughly the story of the Count, the stories of Laman, Lemuel, Nephi, Korihor, Nahor, and the gospel plan of our Redeemer, “to receive more light”. This is our call, and we are so blessed through this and the referenced talks and resources. I am excited about these opportunities for me and for y’all too. Let’s stand together as “champions” and brothers and sisters, and go get that “more light” that he promised us in the opening.

    • @julietchristensen3957
      @julietchristensen3957 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think the book ended that way, did it? I did have to read an abridged version of it in high school, but I don't remember the ending being that way.

    • @柏心妮
      @柏心妮 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      His talk was about the original source. The book did have a sad ending; the film was all Hollywood.

  • @googlefan11
    @googlefan11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alot of good information here. I haven't studied the Book of Mormon but may want to have a look now.

  • @edenshum6426
    @edenshum6426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    @Jeffhennore... I have said the EXACT SAME THING! I wish he was called as an apostle because his sermons are amazing and make so much sense!!

    • @stylerpeete4193
      @stylerpeete4193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is awesome! There is no doubt. He will be called to apostleship if God sees that it is to be so.

  • @dorothyhagberg7934
    @dorothyhagberg7934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very inspiring and amazing. I could watch this over and over very life changing. God bless

  • @AnaliliB
    @AnaliliB ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Elder Robbins! 🙏💖

  • @carmentorres8058
    @carmentorres8058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💞Amazing awakening of how I must be more responsible and more understanding of my character...to be more honest and true to myself, my covenants and to follow properly Heavenly Father's commandments, laws and rules...total obedience which will allow us to be more like Him.💞

  • @leonoraortegacuento4617
    @leonoraortegacuento4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was totally relieved to this talk

  • @maxnutty9733
    @maxnutty9733 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found this and really needed this today. Great message to all!

    • @byuspeeches
      @byuspeeches  ปีที่แล้ว

      We are glad it impacted you, Max!

  • @samuelufamily5900
    @samuelufamily5900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this talk
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ruthchukwu9083
    @ruthchukwu9083 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW,Glory to God

  • @asmith7094
    @asmith7094 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful ideas

  • @Akerelephebe
    @Akerelephebe ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love this .. I'm inspired the word give me confident and hope God bless you

  • @birdstrum1555
    @birdstrum1555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the reference to the Counte of Monte Cristo! Especially since Dantes ended up causing hurt to innocent people in his quest for revenge and those innocents forgave him.

  • @lizknight128
    @lizknight128 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. Amazing insights!! Thank you.

  • @judicaelmantsoumou-ld3ml
    @judicaelmantsoumou-ld3ml 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    these little words got tapped gladly,so let him our heanly father bless us all saints.

  • @AlejandroMadrid-tn1gp
    @AlejandroMadrid-tn1gp ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this.

  • @jessandjessica452
    @jessandjessica452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! ❤

  • @luisahumada6081
    @luisahumada6081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    25:00 remarkable story, but what happens when just one of the spouses does this every time? or if the other just receive the apology and put him/her in the victims' role? A person could do these things one or a hundred times maybe, but sooner or later a "material's fatigue" with affect the weakest link of the relation...

  • @matheusndeutapo483
    @matheusndeutapo483 ปีที่แล้ว

    All I needed to heed to

  • @MehdiManavi
    @MehdiManavi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do you defend yourself from harm from people who have wicked intentions?

    • @matthewzundel7634
      @matthewzundel7634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, I think you have to be careful here. There is a difference between taking responsibility for your actions, and thinking you're responsible for others actions. Especially those that impact you. Elder Holland once advised that you don't spend one second in a relationship with someone who belittles or demeans your self worth.

  • @davidswanson5669
    @davidswanson5669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How timely.

  • @andyllake4905
    @andyllake4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    「上記のギフトのいずれかを選択できます」、

  • @dericksuapaia
    @dericksuapaia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    💯