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I was super insecure as a teenager and young man. I deleted all social media 6 years ago and put all that energy about caring what other people thought into caring about myself. To anyone worried about your social media presence, understand that your life outside of that is the most important thing and social media doesn't matter. Mashallah aanghel ❤
Love you posting more regularly again brother, your mind is amazing to me and the way you speak really seems to get through to me. Been watching for years i really appreciate what you talk about and the videos you make. Can you speak on being/feeling directionless in life? The video of you speaking about your method of DRSS was super helpful but for some reason for my brain it wasn’t enough… i cant pass that first step of deciding… i feel extremely ready to give my everything for something but i feel constantly drained lately, i sleep 7-8 hours and still end up napping for 1-3 hours during the day and its hard “fighting demons” on the daily to not slip back into bad habits, because i feel like i have no “purpose” - I’m in the best shape ever, clean diet, meditating, reading, working out daily but my income is really stopping me having hobbies i enjoy and i feel like im not really living my life im just existing and i don’t know how much longer i can take🙏
I got you brother 🤝🏽 short answer though the nap during the day should be cut out. And the electronics should be kept to a minimum if not completely eliminated for a time being so you can clear your mind and hone in on what you want to do.
The key isn’t to stop caring but to only care about things that actually matter caring about what others thinks drains your energy and whole time they don’t even care 🤣 and are too focused on thier own life
I think it was you that said one of the easiest ways to not care about what other people think is just remember we are all gunna die. Might of been years ago or maybe someone else but I still carry that with me
I’ve been starting filming videos and I have them in my camera roll with the exact dates. Whats crazy is that the things you talk about are the same things I talk about in my vids. Idk of humans are interconnected but it’s weird to see that people get the same insights around the same time even tough they are not connected
It was literally about accepting the subjective experience as the one you should focus on. Not trying to carry the entire world on your shoulders and navigate life with every perspective in mind. You care about perspectives just like I do. That why we care about what other people think. When you realize nobody cares the same bout you you make this transition you’re talking bout. Real shit bro
@@aanghelyou talk about that you chose the things you cared about. This goes deeep. This is where we have to help people. Like why and how do we choose what we care about. This is the emotion you talk about. We should be the leaders of our own emotions. Guiding our actions and thoughts in order that we align then with what we care (feel) about. This is also the counter to not caring through intense work. Yet this intense aggressive work should be in balance⚖️ with integrity, respect and calmness. Which is another big thing people need help with
Any recommendations if I get freeze when I try to pee in public restroom how can I stop worrying about it happens every time someone is there that if wasn't for that I will don't give a damn of what other people are doing!! As a man what do you think if I was your friend or you with this anxiety
thanks to you i am just little over a year clean from the bad site and playing with the devil but i have got another new issiue i cant except what kind of person i used to be i feel discaost about my past i even hate my self for what i used to do. can you help how i can overcome regreting and stop the shame.
"It’s only because of what happened to you that you’re even at this point you are at now" by this do you mean that he is in a better place now because of what he went through and came out strong? or are you referring to the regret, shame and guilt, and those feelings should be left behind because they are a result of the haram. If so, wouldn't that mean the haram itself was the individual themselves. How does one deal with the fact that they themselves were the sin. Alhamdulillah Allah blesses us with repentance. But how does one deal with the regret, guilt and shame, especially when they have been a walking regret/guilt for so long, literally since the age of 15, and even more so for the past almost 3 years since being blessed with freedom from that haram garbage. Now at age 28 and half, there's regret and guilt nonstop. I cannot even look at myself or others anymore without being disgusted to a level far worse than back in mid 2020 when I started to last longer without haram. Before 2020 I failed some many times, Even when I went months free it still hurt a lot but not on this level today. now that I am free for almost 3 years, I lost count, count never mattered and should not have, I feel completely devastated and have been walking like this since 2022. Only Allah heals. everyday there's chaos inside and I feel like I lost the ability to communicate with people, even though i was already terrible before. Ya man. I just want to know what you meant by this. Thnx, by the way, I subscribed to the3muslims channel before there was not even 10 subscribers. I feel like time is passing by and the memories of watching you all since day one makes me extremely nostalgic and melancholic in a way. Anyway, jazak Allah khyr
@@aanghel i agree with accept in logical way but emotional i have resistance to accept that , it’s not make sense i put my time and energy for him and after that they gone , harsh fact bro
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Insha Allah
DEUS VULT
I only want to put the energy of God in my body.
Gorunding, sunbathing, sea swimming, Camping, show deep breath meditation.
Kinda retarded thing to say "energy of God"@@Trustee-of-The-Most-High
Your decision to take the path of knowledge instead of destruction, how grateful I am for you to share 🙏🏽
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I am proud of having such a muslim brother like you my brother🖤
Alhumdulillah
Such a peaceful soul. Aiming to be more like this brother. Keep it up
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you have inner peace and its beautiful to see🙏.
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My guy BACK to dropping them💎 💯
#DGAF!
Haha yessir 🤲🏽
Love how you bringing back the old og vids bro
Always bro
True wisdom once again. It came at the right moment for me. Jazak Allahu khayran brother
Wa iyaakum habibi
That thumbnail 🔥🔥😍
One of the most genuine guys on here that I know of.
Allah bless you brother mine. 🤝
Habibi may Allah make me the way you see me.
And may Allah bless you.
@@aanghel Ameen, Even better than that and more. InshaAllah
I was super insecure as a teenager and young man. I deleted all social media 6 years ago and put all that energy about caring what other people thought into caring about myself. To anyone worried about your social media presence, understand that your life outside of that is the most important thing and social media doesn't matter. Mashallah aanghel ❤
Allahuma barik bro exactly. Real life starts when we put the phone down.
Message came at the right time💯
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Grateful to have found your channel years ago brother!
Totally agree 💯
Aye 🤲🏽
UNDERRATED channel fr deserve more
Godwilling my bro
Mindblowing, you made my reflect a lot brother...
Alhumdulillah
I love seeing your videos so much...
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I was thinking about this today and then saw this video! Great advice! Thank you!
Thankyou for directions you given to us😇
Helpful. Thank you.
May Allah bless you my guy
You aswell my brother
The only thing that matters is having faith in yourself, and in allah. Blessed to have stumbled upon your channel
100% habibi
Love you posting more regularly again brother, your mind is amazing to me and the way you speak really seems to get through to me. Been watching for years i really appreciate what you talk about and the videos you make.
Can you speak on being/feeling directionless in life? The video of you speaking about your method of DRSS was super helpful but for some reason for my brain it wasn’t enough… i cant pass that first step of deciding… i feel extremely ready to give my everything for something but i feel constantly drained lately, i sleep 7-8 hours and still end up napping for 1-3 hours during the day and its hard “fighting demons” on the daily to not slip back into bad habits, because i feel like i have no “purpose” - I’m in the best shape ever, clean diet, meditating, reading, working out daily but my income is really stopping me having hobbies i enjoy and i feel like im not really living my life im just existing and i don’t know how much longer i can take🙏
I got you brother 🤝🏽 short answer though the nap during the day should be cut out. And the electronics should be kept to a minimum if not completely eliminated for a time being so you can clear your mind and hone in on what you want to do.
@@aanghel thank you so much, i’m going to take action on everything you said🫡 i really appreciate your response
♥️ much love brother
Alhamdulillah you’re back akhi👌
Alhumdulillah 🤲🏽
choose what you care about
The key isn’t to stop caring but to only care about things that actually matter caring about what others thinks drains your energy and whole time they don’t even care 🤣 and are too focused on thier own life
Exactly
I think it was you that said one of the easiest ways to not care about what other people think is just remember we are all gunna die. Might of been years ago or maybe someone else but I still carry that with me
Yeahh that’s powerful to remember as well
30? Mashallah you look 22 akhi
Allahuma barik and Jazakallah khair my bro
I’ve been starting filming videos and I have them in my camera roll with the exact dates. Whats crazy is that the things you talk about are the same things I talk about in my vids. Idk of humans are interconnected but it’s weird to see that people get the same insights around the same time even tough they are not connected
I wouldn’t doubt it bro
It was literally about accepting the subjective experience as the one you should focus on. Not trying to carry the entire world on your shoulders and navigate life with every perspective in mind. You care about perspectives just like I do. That why we care about what other people think. When you realize nobody cares the same bout you you make this transition you’re talking bout. Real shit bro
@@aanghelyou talk about that you chose the things you cared about. This goes deeep. This is where we have to help people. Like why and how do we choose what we care about. This is the emotion you talk about. We should be the leaders of our own emotions. Guiding our actions and thoughts in order that we align then with what we care (feel) about. This is also the counter to not caring through intense work. Yet this intense aggressive work should be in balance⚖️ with integrity, respect and calmness. Which is another big thing people need help with
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I’m still working on that man , I’m 20
Any recommendations if I get freeze when I try to pee in public restroom how can I stop worrying about it happens every time someone is there that if wasn't for that I will don't give a damn of what other people are doing!! As a man what do you think if I was your friend or you with this anxiety
It’s just not being at ease. As weird as it sounds just try to relax in those situations. Breathe deeply and you’ll be able to go
How do you find happiness?
I will make a video on this from my experience bro Godwilling
Stop caring about what people think and start thinking about what god thinks about the actions you do
100%
thanks to you i am just little over a year clean from the bad site and playing with the devil but i have got another new issiue i cant except what kind of person i used to be i feel discaost about my past i even hate my self for what i used to do.
can you help how i can overcome regreting and stop the shame.
I’ll make a video on this bro but you have to let go of it. It’s only because of what happened to you that you’re even at this point you are at now
"It’s only because of what happened to you that you’re even at this point you are at now" by this do you mean that he is in a better place now because of what he went through and came out strong? or are you referring to the regret, shame and guilt, and those feelings should be left behind because they are a result of the haram. If so, wouldn't that mean the haram itself was the individual themselves. How does one deal with the fact that they themselves were the sin. Alhamdulillah Allah blesses us with repentance. But how does one deal with the regret, guilt and shame, especially when they have been a walking regret/guilt for so long, literally since the age of 15, and even more so for the past almost 3 years since being blessed with freedom from that haram garbage. Now at age 28 and half, there's regret and guilt nonstop. I cannot even look at myself or others anymore without being disgusted to a level far worse than back in mid 2020 when I started to last longer without haram. Before 2020 I failed some many times, Even when I went months free it still hurt a lot but not on this level today. now that I am free for almost 3 years, I lost count, count never mattered and should not have, I feel completely devastated and have been walking like this since 2022. Only Allah heals. everyday there's chaos inside and I feel like I lost the ability to communicate with people, even though i was already terrible before. Ya man. I just want to know what you meant by this. Thnx, by the way, I subscribed to the3muslims channel before there was not even 10 subscribers. I feel like time is passing by and the memories of watching you all since day one makes me extremely nostalgic and melancholic in a way. Anyway, jazak Allah khyr
Are you from Jersey my brother?
No Puerto Rico
Ramadan is coming bro
As deep as a puddle..
I fear from care to close people because i fear from loss him , how can i manage that ?
I mean everything ends eventually so once you can accept that you’ll open back up
@@aanghel i agree with accept in logical way but emotional i have resistance to accept that , it’s not make sense i put my time and energy for him and after that they gone , harsh fact bro
Do you work a 9-5 bro?
No not anymore my brother
DEUS VULT my guy posted once again :)
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I need one last video on nofap to never relapse please brother 🙏
Stay tuned bro I got something just for this coming this Sunday
@@aanghel thanks brother and I request u to give us islamic/Quran solution about nofap
Man about the clothes, they don’t really matter 😂😂 just wear all black outfit it’s that simpel
That’s what I do most times. So easy
@@aanghel exactly you look goed on them
Promo SM ☹️