Yea, it's called a warm approach. A cold approach is cold because the woman is pretty much unaware of your presence or has no interest in you. Warm approach is when the woman finds you in some way appealing and makes it known from her body language. That's what I thought
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 don't remember where i got my definition from. But yea, your reply makes sense. It brought to mind warm market and cold market pertaining to sales
1. Camera present 2. Short The women in the studio aren't being 100% honest because women don't like to look bad. They will always give the answer that makes them and other women look virtuous. When a woman betrays "the sisterhood" with truth they get piled on by other women.
a funny little psy-trick i like to use - get "her" to talk about a woman she DOESNT LIKE and frame questions as " what do you think SHE would-" you hand her " plausible deniability" and watch how fast the " ugly truth" comes out.
Yes, he was short, but combine with his aggressive approach and being average in looks, made him look like a joker. If he was handsome and approached very differently, then he'll have success
i seen his reels he has game and is funny so i would even say he closes more than he doesn’t. he’s that good. as a 5’6 short guy i can say humor will get you laid wayyy more than height alone. i’ve slept with girls who said they only date tall guys.
Cold approach only works if you’re subtle about it. Like you start a conversation with a girl who’s already standing next to you at a bar/store/gym/etc and make a comment about the surroundings
That is an example of *bad* cold approach. I am all for MOA, but if we're going to say cold approach is outdated, we should look at good practitioners - one idea is to do a collab with Todd Valentine and a few of his best students.
homie didn't have a reason to be there besides aggro-cold approaching. plus there's an camera pointing at the girls. its a fake or inauthentic setup and will likely lead to them icing him out.
These women are straight up gaslighting and lying on the panel to look virtuous. Reality is women rarely date any guys from cold approach, and would only even entertain a date if the guy approaching her is extremely tall, good looking, and has a lot of things going for him. There's a reason why only good looking/tall guys get success from cold approach, and most short/ugly guys end up giving up.
Michael said it best, for unfamiliar environments e.g. cold approach, the best looking guys absolutely dominate in terms of quality. Regular guys with some skill can pull average to below average looking girls in cold approach. But in familiar environments, regular guys can date 9's. I've experienced both of these personally. Seeing my regular friends approach and get blown out left right and centre, and seeing my very attractive male friend pull 8's and 9's most weeks when approaching in clubs or festivals.
Michael, you can acknowledge that Social circle is better overall without having to say that cold approach is horrible or almost never works. The way you frame your statements and the follow-up questions you ask, I can tell you are intentionally trying to lead them to saying cold approach sucks. Yes, Social circle is better overall. But you can still get great relationships of all types from cold approach. Your argument is the equivalent of saying "Because Bugattis exist, Ferraris are pieces of ****".
There is a way to do cold approach. But it's difficult nonetheless. EXAMPLE: a few years back, I went to a very popular bar in the Bay Area with an old buddy. We were both dressed well. Both of us are 6'2". I'm good looking, and he's got the chiseled "High School Quarterback" look and does really well with the ladies. The place was jumpin'. Across the way is sitting an Asian girl - slim, very leggy, very pretty. She's in a high chair, facing out towards the crowd, legs crossed, hands on her top knee, big smile. Very obvious that she wants attention. My buddy is very interested - me, not so much (not into Asian chicks.) So I'm wingman. I say to my pal "follow my lead." We approach the girl from her left, chatting away, and as soon as we get in front of her I stop, with a fake look on my face of mild trepidation and say "Miss - we need your help." She didn't expect that and looks surprised. I explained to her that my buddy and I were debating who was going to buy the next round of drinks, so we made a bet with each other - we would each tell a joke (without foul language and within at least a minimum boundary of taste) to a girl, and whoever got slapped first would win. She decided to play along. My buddy went first and told a very tame "little johnny" joke. I told that joke about the newly ordained priest - when I finished, by pal (who'd never heard it before) burst out laughing, and when the girl finally got it, she very playfully slapped me. I went off to buy drinks for me and my pal and he got the opening to chat her up. The moral of the story - if you cold approach, PICK A LIKELY TARGET, and come up with a unique and entertaining plan.
Low t response. It’s simply hard to do it on a walk by. That’s not a good fit for him. If he was 6’3” it would be fine and with open body language. It’s just a skill.
This is the worst example to use to disprove the effectiveness of cold approach. Cold approach is more valid than ever now for a multitude of reasons. Wild caught is always better than shitting where you eat and scavenging your social circle bro's leftovers. But to each their own...
Cold approaching is never going out of style. Sure, there are better and worse ways of going about it. But meeting people or women in particular for relationship, dating, or casual sex purposes is going nowhere. The confidence among men to cold approach is more needed now than ever. Women know it and are flattered by it because they like the attention.
@@bluespiral4678 It is out of style. 95% of men will never cold approach today despite it being SOP 15 years ago. And this is the main factor as to why it is so effective. There are many other advantages to cold approach that can be proven by statistical percentages and here's one - We know that only 5% of men experience any sort of measurable success online. The fact is that less than 5% of single women are online (and less than .00001% are in your social circle or will ever be in your social circle). Let that sink in.
Yea like comments His cold approach was ass He might as well “hey ur cute hey ur cute hey ur cute” Cold approach us “Hey do u know where (club) is at ?! Oh cool ty, so is it a cool spot cause yall going some where else… lol Where yall headed? Maybe we’Ll go there. You know whats up na? xD haha” Like, u have to cold approach and not HIT ON THE GIRLS
It’s not just about his height, it’s also the quality of his voice. It’s a lil’ bit “high-pitched”, so it’s not really an inviting type of voice to begin with. Plus, it didn’t help that he tried to approach the chic in a very “thug ass” fashion while wearing outdated baggy clothes and bling. ✌🏼😂 Did he really expect to get a satisfying reaction from her? No, that’s not how you “pick up” chics. Learn How to Master the Game, Learn How to Smooth & Easy for the Ladies. It Helps. 💪🏼😏🥋
His approach was wrong he had to walk with them and shoot his shot. Its better to find a woman that's stationery then shoot your shot. When you approach women it shows confidence and women ❤ confident men. If its done right it works but i prefer choosing signals indicators of interest then I'll approach.
Let’s cut through the bs here - wahmen just don’t like men that much. You’re better off getting your money up and paying for play than spending your life trying to genuinely attract wahmen.
First of all, dude looks weird dressed up like a goof ball. Can’t believe he thinks he can pull those numbers. Saying weird stuff. No buddy, don’t bother thinking cold approach is dead. You got to become. I’ve always known Micheal cant really do well with meeting women one on one.
Just because you don't personally know any girls who have dated a guy from cold approach doesn't mean it doesn't happen or that any individual girl guaranteed wouldn't be open to it given the right circumstances. You're not going to find many girls who date guys from a cold approach because it's so rare. I'm specifically talking about Day game though. It is completely possible to go up to a girl during the day and just be normal and confident and it eventually leads to something. If you are at least somewhat above average attractiveness, act normal and confident and can hold a conversation, and can move things forward when necessary, you can get relationships of all types from cold approach. The way Michael normally frames it is in the context of cold approach at a bar or something. That's a situation that inherently has a lower chance of working out and the environment is against you.
What I gleaned from the "successful" cold approaches that the women conveyed through their anecdotes, is that it led to nothing more than casual hooksup for a few months. In that regard, what makes that any different than the top 20% getting all of the action on dating apps?
That is NOT cold approach pick up at all. That approach is annoying and creepy. These two nerds Rollo and Mike are obviously clueless about what cold approach looks like. It is nothing like what that fool is doing as he annoys those women, he is doing everything completely wrong. WTF
His fits garbage he’s not walking with them he’s got weird energy this is all from watching the video with no audio We made I contact so talk to me is the worst line ever Over aggressive with a camera
When I was single most of the time I only cold approached. It’s a game of numbers. Some woman just aren’t with a cold approach . Familiar environment Pfftt I never liked to date my friends friends 😁
Why don’t you show someone who actually know what he is doing instead of that clown? Not to mention, even if they guy had game, groups of girls on their way to nightclubs its one of the lowest rate of success scenarios possible. Try to do this during the day on girls that are solo wandering on a beach or a place where people go to relax. For a guy with decent game, it would be far better and easier to pull off getting her to a bar nearby or a cafe on the spot
The guy gave off salesman vibes. Not a good look to start. If he would have been more warm and friendly and approached the whole group, he would have been way better off.
I lost a ton of respect for Sartain here. That's literally the worst way to approach possible. It's the equivalent of using a strawman. Come on Sartain, you can do better.
This isn't a good representation of cold approach at all. Guy was way too aggressive, got too close to the girls immediately, and just wasn't acting like a normal person in general. This is like what a person would do if you told them to imitate what they think a pickup artist does. Also, night time cold approach sucks. Daygame is waaaaay better. Also, there's certain areas of different cities that are not good for cold approach. Cold approach in Brickell at night is a horrible setup.
What a terrible example ... this doesn't prove a point. How about show someone doing a proper job at approaching, then you have a case for "cold approaching has a problem"
So a guy can’t be out just going to pick up something to eat and have a jersey and a hat/ beanie on, that’s not OK I guess huh? We gotta be dressed to the T 24/7 and have money falling out of our pockets or it’s just not good enough.
@@johaunallen8581 there’s a video of him interviewing an NFL player that stands at a confirmed height of 6’1”. Based on that video you can assert that he’s no taller than 5’9”. The guy is towering over Mike. Idk why he’d lie about something like that but it tells me that he’d lie about a lot of other things.
Cold approach is lame, and comes across as needy and desperate. You should be ATTRACTING women, NOT chasing after them. It's the woman's job is to chase the man.
No, you can and many have gotten success from cold approaches. It’s only desperate if you are seen approaching every girl around, and they notice it. But that would likely not happen if you’re smart and don’t over do one location. Approaching isn’t chasing, that’s intitiation. You have to give women a reason to chase you in the first place and that can start with cold approach.
If the guy is attractive, in good shape, tall... Women don't even consider it cold approaching... They feel flattered. 😂
Yea, it's called a warm approach. A cold approach is cold because the woman is pretty much unaware of your presence or has no interest in you. Warm approach is when the woman finds you in some way appealing and makes it known from her body language. That's what I thought
@@bluespiral4678Still cold approach. Warm is when you’re introduced by a friend.
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 don't remember where i got my definition from. But yea, your reply makes sense. It brought to mind warm market and cold market pertaining to sales
@@bluespiral4678I think the line between cold and warm approach is when the woman knows of you in som way shape or form
1. Camera present
2. Short
The women in the studio aren't being 100% honest because women don't like to look bad. They will always give the answer that makes them and other women look virtuous. When a woman betrays "the sisterhood" with truth they get piled on by other women.
Exactly. It also doesn't help the guy is approaching entitled club girls at night in Miami!
3.Pua bro is dressed 2 ghetto 😂 lol
His outfit is terrible.
His body language looks nervous.
a funny little psy-trick i like to use - get "her" to talk about a woman she DOESNT LIKE and frame questions as " what do you think SHE would-" you hand her " plausible deniability" and watch how fast the " ugly truth" comes out.
@@CommandoMaster
With a Jersey on 😂
To be fair, that is the worst cold approach I’ve ever seen. Guarantee you if Todd Valentine did an audit of his approach, he’d get like 1/10.
Todd Valentine? Ooof.
No lie.
Todd V is a 1/10 in approaching lol
Hey, at least he’s out there.
Cold approachcels
Yes, he was short, but combine with his aggressive approach and being average in looks, made him look like a joker. If he was handsome and approached very differently, then he'll have success
i seen his reels he has game and is funny so i would even say he closes more than he doesn’t. he’s that good. as a 5’6 short guy i can say humor will get you laid wayyy more than height alone. i’ve slept with girls who said they only date tall guys.
He’s handsome enough. Doing a walk by is VERY HARD to succeed with…
Cold approach only works if you’re subtle about it. Like you start a conversation with a girl who’s already standing next to you at a bar/store/gym/etc and make a comment about the surroundings
Literally, happened with me at a bar last week
Yup situational opener is king.
I'm disgusted with in the first 20 seconds. That's embarrassing and seems needy. Not fun or exciting at all.
He looked and acted like a 80s white boy who just listened to hip hop/rap for the first time
Haters confirmed.
It’s just not wise to do walk by’s.
That is an example of *bad* cold approach. I am all for MOA, but if we're going to say cold approach is outdated, we should look at good practitioners - one idea is to do a collab with Todd Valentine and a few of his best students.
Pick up will never dye. Any place, Anywhere, Anytime is what real players know
Game doesn’t exist, vvomen pick up the men they find physically attractive.
homie didn't have a reason to be there besides aggro-cold approaching. plus there's an camera pointing at the girls. its a fake or inauthentic setup and will likely lead to them icing him out.
@@bagofrocks494 I think most people completely forget that the girls literally have a camera pointed at their faces like “wtf is this dude up to?”
@@adapt-or-die-trying yup. "why you walking away"? because you're filming
These women are straight up gaslighting and lying on the panel to look virtuous. Reality is women rarely date any guys from cold approach, and would only even entertain a date if the guy approaching her is extremely tall, good looking, and has a lot of things going for him. There's a reason why only good looking/tall guys get success from cold approach, and most short/ugly guys end up giving up.
Michael said it best, for unfamiliar environments e.g. cold approach, the best looking guys absolutely dominate in terms of quality. Regular guys with some skill can pull average to below average looking girls in cold approach. But in familiar environments, regular guys can date 9's. I've experienced both of these personally. Seeing my regular friends approach and get blown out left right and centre, and seeing my very attractive male friend pull 8's and 9's most weeks when approaching in clubs or festivals.
Approach is the reason why we are here. Mom and Daddy dont born together
I just can’t listen to women talk about this because they are just not capable of even knowing what they want.
Michael, you can acknowledge that Social circle is better overall without having to say that cold approach is horrible or almost never works.
The way you frame your statements and the follow-up questions you ask, I can tell you are intentionally trying to lead them to saying cold approach sucks.
Yes, Social circle is better overall. But you can still get great relationships of all types from cold approach. Your argument is the equivalent of saying "Because Bugattis exist, Ferraris are pieces of ****".
I only cold approach and I have a lot of success. I never used dating apps, clubs etc. I only talk to women in the street, coffee shops, gym etc.
Good man
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Some of these girls are capping. If the guy is attractive and knows it, they all like the cold approach.
There is a way to do cold approach. But it's difficult nonetheless.
EXAMPLE: a few years back, I went to a very popular bar in the Bay Area with an old buddy. We were both dressed well. Both of us are 6'2". I'm good looking, and he's got the chiseled "High School Quarterback" look and does really well with the ladies. The place was jumpin'. Across the way is sitting an Asian girl - slim, very leggy, very pretty. She's in a high chair, facing out towards the crowd, legs crossed, hands on her top knee, big smile. Very obvious that she wants attention. My buddy is very interested - me, not so much (not into Asian chicks.) So I'm wingman. I say to my pal "follow my lead." We approach the girl from her left, chatting away, and as soon as we get in front of her I stop, with a fake look on my face of mild trepidation and say "Miss - we need your help." She didn't expect that and looks surprised. I explained to her that my buddy and I were debating who was going to buy the next round of drinks, so we made a bet with each other - we would each tell a joke (without foul language and within at least a minimum boundary of taste) to a girl, and whoever got slapped first would win. She decided to play along. My buddy went first and told a very tame "little johnny" joke. I told that joke about the newly ordained priest - when I finished, by pal (who'd never heard it before) burst out laughing, and when the girl finally got it, she very playfully slapped me. I went off to buy drinks for me and my pal and he got the opening to chat her up.
The moral of the story - if you cold approach, PICK A LIKELY TARGET, and come up with a unique and entertaining plan.
You’re awesome dude. High skills confirmed.
Height voice anger issues.....
That is not cold contact that is accosting someone. The girls are justified in assuming he is going to grab their purse or haul them into a van.
Low t response.
It’s simply hard to do it on a walk by. That’s not a good fit for him.
If he was 6’3” it would be fine and with open body language.
It’s just a skill.
This is the worst example to use to disprove the effectiveness of cold approach. Cold approach is more valid than ever now for a multitude of reasons. Wild caught is always better than shitting where you eat and scavenging your social circle bro's leftovers. But to each their own...
"scavenging" being the operative phrase. Unless you have a way of systemically adding to your social circle, then this is what you're left with.
Cold approaching is never going out of style. Sure, there are better and worse ways of going about it. But meeting people or women in particular for relationship, dating, or casual sex purposes is going nowhere. The confidence among men to cold approach is more needed now than ever. Women know it and are flattered by it because they like the attention.
@@bluespiral4678 It is out of style. 95% of men will never cold approach today despite it being SOP 15 years ago. And this is the main factor as to why it is so effective. There are many other advantages to cold approach that can be proven by statistical percentages and here's one - We know that only 5% of men experience any sort of measurable success online. The fact is that less than 5% of single women are online (and less than .00001% are in your social circle or will ever be in your social circle). Let that sink in.
Yea like comments
His cold approach was ass
He might as well “hey ur cute hey ur cute hey ur cute”
Cold approach us
“Hey do u know where (club) is at ?!
Oh cool ty, so is it a cool spot cause yall going some where else… lol
Where yall headed? Maybe we’Ll go there. You know whats up na? xD haha”
Like, u have to cold approach and not HIT ON THE GIRLS
There’s no problem with cold approach Michael 😂
It’s not just about his height, it’s also the quality of his voice. It’s a lil’ bit “high-pitched”, so it’s not really an inviting type of voice to begin with. Plus, it didn’t help that he tried to approach the chic in a very “thug ass” fashion while wearing outdated baggy clothes and bling. ✌🏼😂
Did he really expect to get a satisfying reaction from her? No, that’s not how you “pick up” chics. Learn How to Master the Game, Learn How to Smooth & Easy for the Ladies. It Helps. 💪🏼😏🥋
His approach was wrong he had to walk with them and shoot his shot. Its better to find a woman that's stationery then shoot your shot. When you approach women it shows confidence and women ❤ confident men. If its done right it works but i prefer choosing signals indicators of interest then I'll approach.
He had a jersey on and approach was too aggressive no respect to her personal space
lol. It’s not a respect issue that ridiculous…
It’s simply poor skill. It’s not his vibe to do this in that moment. So simple.
Let’s cut through the bs here - wahmen just don’t like men that much. You’re better off getting your money up and paying for play than spending your life trying to genuinely attract wahmen.
Weak game confirmed over all.
The vibe of this show is so much better than fresh and trick. It's the dating information without the hatred. I like it.
You are hatred. You are unequal.
Both shows rock and both shows make many women happy.
It’s different ways of the same thing.
First of all, dude looks weird dressed up like a goof ball. Can’t believe he thinks he can pull those numbers. Saying weird stuff. No buddy, don’t bother thinking cold approach is dead. You got to become. I’ve always known Micheal cant really do well with meeting women one on one.
Even I know how to dress better.
dudes dressed like he's going to " 90's night" someplace. surprised he didn't bust out the " flamingo move" everyone used to do back then.
Just because you don't personally know any girls who have dated a guy from cold approach doesn't mean it doesn't happen or that any individual girl guaranteed wouldn't be open to it given the right circumstances.
You're not going to find many girls who date guys from a cold approach because it's so rare. I'm specifically talking about Day game though. It is completely possible to go up to a girl during the day and just be normal and confident and it eventually leads to something. If you are at least somewhat above average attractiveness, act normal and confident and can hold a conversation, and can move things forward when necessary, you can get relationships of all types from cold approach.
The way Michael normally frames it is in the context of cold approach at a bar or something. That's a situation that inherently has a lower chance of working out and the environment is against you.
What I gleaned from the "successful" cold approaches that the women conveyed through their anecdotes, is that it led to nothing more than casual hooksup for a few months. In that regard, what makes that any different than the top 20% getting all of the action on dating apps?
this guy had terrible approach and vibe though. majority of 'game' is awful, which should have the expected outcome of a cold shoulder.
That is NOT cold approach pick up at all. That approach is annoying and creepy. These two nerds Rollo and Mike are obviously clueless about what cold approach looks like. It is nothing like what that fool is doing as he annoys those women, he is doing everything completely wrong. WTF
His aura and energy are unattractive - eventually the odds are that he will hit on a chick who digs him but its not through skills.
Attracting vvomen is NOT a skill.
His fits garbage he’s not walking with them he’s got weird energy this is all from watching the video with no audio
We made I contact so talk to me is the worst line ever
Over aggressive with a camera
Rollo wouldn’t be able to get a single number on the streets😂
She for the streeeeeeeets
When I was single most of the time I only cold approached. It’s a game of numbers. Some woman just aren’t with a cold approach . Familiar environment Pfftt I never liked to date my friends friends 😁
The guy on the street was dressed like a dork, hat backwards, and sounded a douch with his approach.
He’s wearing a jersey and camo pants, if better presented he would be received better, also he had no game, there are ways to make it work
Why don’t you show someone who actually know what he is doing instead of that clown? Not to mention, even if they guy had game, groups of girls on their way to nightclubs its one of the lowest rate of success scenarios possible. Try to do this during the day on girls that are solo wandering on a beach or a place where people go to relax. For a guy with decent game, it would be far better and easier to pull off getting her to a bar nearby or a cafe on the spot
The guy gave off salesman vibes. Not a good look to start. If he would have been more warm and friendly and approached the whole group, he would have been way better off.
Use words correctly.
Weak sales man vibes.
I lost a ton of respect for Sartain here. That's literally the worst way to approach possible. It's the equivalent of using a strawman. Come on Sartain, you can do better.
This isn't a good representation of cold approach at all. Guy was way too aggressive, got too close to the girls immediately, and just wasn't acting like a normal person in general.
This is like what a person would do if you told them to imitate what they think a pickup artist does.
Also, night time cold approach sucks. Daygame is waaaaay better.
Also, there's certain areas of different cities that are not good for cold approach. Cold approach in Brickell at night is a horrible setup.
What a terrible example ... this doesn't prove a point. How about show someone doing a proper job at approaching, then you have a case for "cold approaching has a problem"
So a guy can’t be out just going to pick up something to eat and have a jersey and a hat/ beanie on, that’s not OK I guess huh? We gotta be dressed to the T 24/7 and have money falling out of our pockets or it’s just not good enough.
For me died in 2000
This guy sucks😂
Michael Sartain is definitely no taller than 5’9”
He 6 foot
@@johaunallen8581 there’s a video of him interviewing an NFL player that stands at a confirmed height of 6’1”. Based on that video you can assert that he’s no taller than 5’9”. The guy is towering over Mike. Idk why he’d lie about something like that but it tells me that he’d lie about a lot of other things.
@@johaunallen8581 5'11" out of his mouth.
Cold approach is lame, and comes across as needy and desperate. You should be ATTRACTING women, NOT chasing after them. It's the woman's job is to chase the man.
No, you can and many have gotten success from cold approaches. It’s only desperate if you are seen approaching every girl around, and they notice it. But that would likely not happen if you’re smart and don’t over do one location. Approaching isn’t chasing, that’s intitiation. You have to give women a reason to chase you in the first place and that can start with cold approach.
I’m only one man haha 😆
9:26 shes 22 and looks 32
Too short, shit game, cold approach will always work