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Story about the graduation and the step sister: OP's dad is an idiot. High scholl graduation is a once in a lifetime event. Purposefully missing it for some other random event is not something you can make up for.
*Story 1:* I agree. If someone's in the way, you should ask politely *"Would you mind getting out of the way? There isn't much width for everyone here."* I don't get what made this hiker so entitled to the trail that he felt he could physically shove OP's son out of the way. That sort of behaviour is *not* okay.
Does that guy not know that there are some parents who would literally start breaking bones if he did that to their kids? It isn’t just entitlement, it’s utter stupidity.
@@GreatOldOne9866 Abso-fucking-lutely! Even an otherwise gentle person could go insane if it means protecting their child. Like *"What the fuck are you doing?!"* 🤬
Story 1: Wow, i have to applaud the OP for having the restraint for not getting physical with this jerk. There was absolutely no reason to push this kid out of the way like that. I'm just so glad that there was no physical altercation here. Hopefully the OPs kid still liked the snail. Story 2: Okay i think the only parasite here is the girlfriend. Its one thing to have arguments, as i think thats common in pretty much all relationships, but the way the gf is acting, along with her choices of words, would honestly make me re-consider both moving in with her full-time and the relationship in general. I think this is more then enough grounds to leave her. Also, the OP makes more then she does, so how exactly is he financially dependant on her? That just makes no sense at all. Story 3: No way is the OP a jerk here... the mother is here. Its bad enough that the brother isn't paying his share and the wife helped rack up a ton of debt here, but why does all of this fall onto the OP and her family here? That is majorly unfair here and the OP isn't breaking any agreements here... especially since they knew the OP was getting a new house. Why should the OP be paying anything when they aren't living there? Hopefully the OP goes low contact with them over this. Those people just suck. Story 4: The stepdad is a big jerk here. Don't lie to your mom.... moms will ALWAYS find out when you lie to them sooner rather then later, its just a fact. I do think that the OP could give the half-siblings a bit of a chance here, especially considering how little they are, they are innocent in all of this, but its also something that can't be forced. Also, it is a bit fair and reasonable for the OP to view them as only half-siblings, because that is what they are.... no need to sugar coat it. Harvey isn't her dad and that's been made very clear as well. Overall, Harvey is a jerk here and OP is not selfish at all. Story 5: No way is the OP a jerk here... i dont get why the dad is favoring the step-daughter over his own son here, but something tells me that something isn't being told here. I'm guessing the stepmom has a hand in a lot of this for him to favor her like this. Also, taking away money from the OP's birthday fund is a jerk move. I can totally see why the OP is mad here and wants to cut contact with the dad and stepmom. Also, i throw mud at the wife too..... why would you tell someone to skip out on their own graduation?? That's really stupid. Story 6: OP is not a jerk at all here, the sister and the rest of the family are. How can you possibly expect that many people to live in a small place like that? It really sounds like the sister wouldve completely over-run that house as well. I can see the sister being in a tight spot, but that doesn't fall on the OP's shoulders. Also, screw the extended family here... if they have such a problem with all of this, then they should have no issues with housing her.
I understand self the deal 2 people is blocking the trail in some way the dad in the wrong OP couldve say son move out the way for other people can pass by how the hiker handle it is wrong couldve say excuse me polite way no one own the trail both handle in wrong way that's my opinion I went hiking at Alaska & there's trail I make sure I don't block other side same for my family when we was at the cruise
Hike/snail. ESH. Just because OP loves their kid and thinks they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, everyone else does not, nor are they required to. While the guy didn't need to push the kid, OP sucks for not moving idk his or her kid out of the way immediately upon realizing someone else was coming up the trail. They knew they were in a narrow section, so should have cleared the path right away, not let their kid bother a total stranger. Some people hike for exercise and track time and steps and want to get their heart rate to and maintain it at a certain level. Stopping to talk to your kid about a snail isn't in their plan. If they don't seem to want to deal with your kid, move your kid aside. Explain to them afterward that some people want to keep moving as they're exercising or don't like kids or however you want to explain it.
Tough talk considering that this might have happened in America. Good way to get yourself filled with lead injections. Honestly people talk so tough without considering the fact that hey the guy probably got a gun and do you honestly think the guys chocolate lab which mind you those are big dogs would just sit there and watch you hurt its owner. Honestly y'all have low IQ. It's a trail take your son or nephew and move about the way because not everybody is wanting to entertain the damn kid.
Story #3- Sadly this happens about 90% of the time when dealing with family! You didn’t have a good understanding of what your brothers part financially was before letting them move in! Your big error, should have and agreement with all four adults on paper BEFORE they come in the door. Your mom wants you to continue with payments even though she was the one wanting them to move in! I bet SIL saw this as free place to live, babysitting and her getting to spend more money!! Your brother is weak to not insist on paying half of the low rent, but you knew that - the reason he moved in! He should have insisted the wife get a job to help and pay off her bills! You and husband did the exact right thing, you would have never gotten your parents to understand what was going on!! You mom is now in the hot seat and will have to make him pay the house payment !! Good for you and your husband for making the right choice!
I'm sorry to say but to be honest Op in tne graduation one, I think your father doesn't care about you I think this is his do-over family and you just need to cut your losses and move on. This is honestly heartbreaking to hear. And to be honest I think he's only taking care of you because he would look bad if he just abandoned you.
Story 5: OP is not the jerk at all, like wtf. The dad wants to miss OP's graduation for something that probably will happen again. Graduation only happens once so why don't go to that. You also spend your life at school up to that point so their is no reason why the dad can't go. I feel bad of OP because this not the first time this has happened.
#5: I was all set to say, "It's graduation. Get over it." But even outside of the father-daughter thing, which I thought was silly you mentioned, they were still so.... many... other examples...
Story 5: as a high school graduate, I can confirm you HAVE to be at the Ceremony in order to graduate. Also like another comment said, graduating HS is a once in a lifetime experience.
I don't know about where you live, but here in the US attending the commencement ceremony is not a requirement for graduating and receiving your high school diploma
Not a requirement for my high school nor my friends' high schools in various states in the United States, even if you don't graduate early you have a choice to walk or not
OP NTA, I am thousands of miles away from you and my heart is breaking for you. Your so called dad is just an organ donor and nothing more. I honestly hope you can live with Grandparents because your organ donor is pure scum. I pray 🙏🏻 that you find your path and do everything in your power in honour of your Mom and Grandparents. I think you should share this with your organ donor and open his eyes to exactly how awful he and his 2nd wife and family has treated you. Please keep on the straight and narrow and make a fortune so when he wants to borrow, you can say I don’t give to strangers.
Story 5: The dad and the step-mom are jerks. If you have a favorite child, you are not a good parent. Ironic that the step-mom said that her daughter shouldn't be denied a dad, but the way they neglected the OP, they're denying him parents. Block their numbers and never speak to them again.
And if I was a hiker dude and you try to hit me because I moved your son out the way to go pass I would have use my second amendment right congratulations you made your son into a statistic.
Story 4. Wait, why are you on harvy's back. If the op felt funny she could have said something to her mother. The only thing he did wrong was getting in their dam business
Story 3: It looks like there was some communication issues, OP assumed that the brother would pay half the rent and brother/ parents assumed he would not pay anything. I see both parties sharing the blame for the outcome, it is nice to help family but communicate clearly what are the expectations before agreeing to help. If OP communicated to the parents that they will move out, why are the parents upset after the fact? Ultimately, it looks like this family has a communication problem that runs deeper than this story.
I have a girl best friend. (Im a guy) In class, im sitting right behind her when she keeps talking to this guy named ian. Ive been friends with my best friend since year 1. (7 years old) now im 11 and shes 11 too. She started talking to him since the start of this year and im starting to feel left out since she has been talking to him more than me at this point. I was like nah its fine.. I never told her i have trust issues but if i did it would probally make it awkward. I dont know what to do and i dont wanna leave her as a best friend since shes the only best friend that never 3rd parties me. Now its kinda looking like it.. I never make anyone feel left out.Again, i do not know what to do as im afraid she will talk to him more than me. Sometimes she just ignores me (not in a offensive way) while chatting with her other friend. Any solutions? Am i the jerk for thinking that im uncomfortable that she is talking to other guys? This is really taking a mental tole on me. It is like lighting up a fire but when its extremely dim, lighting it up again. It got to the point where the guy gave her and i my phone number for a project. This is taking such a mental tole on me that i have negative thoughts like, “Am i not good enough for her?”“Am i worthless to her?”. I sometimes have su1c1dal thoughts.(not all thr time, just when i feel left out.)
Last story, OP NTA. Why is it we hear so many stories about people wanting to move in with family or friends but expect them to get rid off their pets.🤦♀️😤
Story 3: Parents definitely AH for trying to throw OP under the bus, OP partly AH, could have at least talked to the brother if he's willing to cover half... Due to this particular circumstance I feel sorry for the brother, because he gets it hard twice...
Nah dad out of pocket with that hiker. If that hiker had a gun on him he would have had a full rights to pull it out and say say that again mf. Also to be honest the dad is being a little entitled to hear you don't own the trail anymore than the hiker does. Move your kid out the way and don't take up the entire space.
Last story: So...the sister can't afford to rent a place for her and her three children (that she chose to have) because she doesn't earn enough as a waitress. But she won't learn a better paying trade because trade work is blue collar trash. So if she makes less than blue collar trash, what does that make her and her job exactly? FYI, I hate it when people look down on tradies. Without sparkies, plumbers, chippies, grease monkeys, brickies, garbos, and other tradies (who I can't remember is a job right now for some reason - it's been a long day and I'm tired, sue me), we wouldn't have all the shit that "professional" people rely on and take advantage of. How are the POS systems going to run without sparkies to make the things, wire the building so you have electricity for the computers and POS equipment and lights, electricity to keep the fridge and freezer in the kitchen running? You gonna wash your hands, the dishes, the fresh vegetables in hand sani? How you gonna flush the toilets? Get water? You hate plumbers and you need them to set all that up. With those in mind, are you going to build the restaurant? Because you need chippies and brickies for that, not to mention tilers, painters, insulators, sparkies, plumbers...you'll need grease monkeys to keep your car running so you can drive to the place you in work that was built by "blue collar trash". I hate people that shit on tradies, tradies keep our civilisation running, respect them
Story #4 I don't think I will ever understand why people feel indifferent or even hostile to half-siblings. I mean, they are the children of one of the parents I'd assume they love, and many adopted children don't have this kind of issue. Don't get me wrong. I don't think the step-father should encourage the OP to lie to their mom, but I do find it weird that they are indifferent.
Story 4: I have 2 half brothers from my Birthmother and my younger half brother was adopted with me while our older half brother was adopted by a different family so I don’t know where he is and I honestly don’t care does that make me a jerk?
story 4 why did the mother think she was gonna get remarried and OP was just gonna be all happy and lovely with the new babies OP didn't even say they hated them also why was she eavesdropping on OP in the first place
Story 1: To the OP, all I have to say is “Way to go, Papa Wolf.” Seriously, who shoves a toddler out of the way? The jerk could have gone to prison for assaulting a minor and we all know what prison inmates do to people whose crimes involve children. Story 2: How exactly is the OP a parasite? And how exactly are they financially dependent on their girlfriend when they make twice as much as her? The girlfriend’s logic doesn’t make any sense. Does she not want the OP to literally spend any money? Like at all? Including food and medicine? That impossible! And if it is possible, she’s going to have to demonstrate. I’m starting to think this is a ploy to make the OP not want to move in with her. The OP is basically walking on eggshells with this hypocrite.
story 1: guy on the trail is lucky he wasn't knocked out by the dad. Story 4: your she is the jerk. I understand that you shouldn't lie to your mom, but her having another husband was her trying to fill a void for you in a different father figure. Step dad could have said it differently, but the 16 year old should have more honest conversations with her mom to help with these type of transition. Story 5: you are in the right.
The attitude of the dad is a good way to make his son a statistic. A fatherless statistic. Because they don't want to see we don't even know if that hiker had a gun or not.
@@AnimeGamer501st Agreed, When I am with my kid I carry so that would be about the same for the other guy. Obviously not a parent because if you were you would know that feeling of even hearing someone hurt a child, the anger feeling where you would risk that part of your life for that child either way.
@@sumonick2005 the guy said the hiker pushed the kid out the way for all we know he's simply just nudged him out the way either way keep your kid out of the middle of a freaking trail. Not everyone wants to entertain them.
Ok someone please tell wy would i wanna have relatinships these days you cant trust anyone the only thing a relationship is good for these days is money benefits no love no just being together ure only together for one Material reason and if one thing goes wrong its over i rather stay alone then waste my time with that
I like kids. I think they're f*cking adorable. But I'm also pedophobic. If they get too close my lizard brain activates and tells me they're going to tear my throat out. It's a phobia. I can't control it. If I could, I would have had a very profitable career in Japan teaching English to babies. (I literally got approached on the street with offers ALL THE TIME.) But I have worked my *ss off to make sure that kids around me are completely unaware of this fact because I don't want to f*cking traumatize them. When my nephews were born, there were rules. No more than an hour of socialization, there needs to be a firm plan on what's happening, I need to be able to leave at a moment's notice, and when I hold them, someone has to sit nearby so they can take them away if I start to panic. And it worked. My oldest nephew recently entered high school and I asked if he ever noticed and HE DID NOT!!! (^o^) The point is, if a little boy told me he found a snail on a trail I would IMMEDIATLY drop down next to him and ooh and aaah over his find and ask him questions about the snail and make up a funny story on what the snail was probably doing and then tell the munchkin I had to go and the second I was in my car, I would break down sobbing like I had just avoided a shark attack. ... Why couldn't I be afraid of spiders like everyone else...
Under other circumstances I might agree with you, but given that the other hiker apparently _shoved_ their four-year-old child aside without politely asking if they could pass, it reads more like "papa wolf" (the male equivalent to "mama bear") than "entitled dad".
@@MarsJenkar I agree that the other hiker was displaying some sh*tty behavior, but I have a feeling there's more to what happened on the other hiker's side. Not great behaviors on either side I guess :/
Story 5. I get the OP is upset about his dad missing his graduation, but he should tone it down a little. Did the dad adopt the step-daughter? If so, then she is legally his daughter and the OP's sister. The OP is being selfish as well. The step-sister never knew here biological dad, so her step-dad is her dad.
The problem is the dad treats the step-daughter as the golden child and always prioritizes her no matter what. The OP is nowhere near selfish. You don't get to pick favorites and then blame the least favorite for not wanting anything to do with you because of your negligence.
@@v.crowley High School graduation is more important. It's a once in a lifetime event for anyone who's graduating. There's no jealousy when the father is clearly picking favorites instead of treating both kids equally.
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Story about the graduation and the step sister:
OP's dad is an idiot.
High scholl graduation is a once in a lifetime event. Purposefully missing it for some other random event is not something you can make up for.
*Story 1:* I agree. If someone's in the way, you should ask politely *"Would you mind getting out of the way? There isn't much width for everyone here."* I don't get what made this hiker so entitled to the trail that he felt he could physically shove OP's son out of the way. That sort of behaviour is *not* okay.
Does that guy not know that there are some parents who would literally start breaking bones if he did that to their kids? It isn’t just entitlement, it’s utter stupidity.
@@GreatOldOne9866 Abso-fucking-lutely! Even an otherwise gentle person could go insane if it means protecting their child. Like *"What the fuck are you doing?!"* 🤬
Story 1: Wow, i have to applaud the OP for having the restraint for not getting physical with this jerk. There was absolutely no reason to push this kid out of the way like that. I'm just so glad that there was no physical altercation here. Hopefully the OPs kid still liked the snail.
Story 2: Okay i think the only parasite here is the girlfriend. Its one thing to have arguments, as i think thats common in pretty much all relationships, but the way the gf is acting, along with her choices of words, would honestly make me re-consider both moving in with her full-time and the relationship in general. I think this is more then enough grounds to leave her. Also, the OP makes more then she does, so how exactly is he financially dependant on her? That just makes no sense at all.
Story 3: No way is the OP a jerk here... the mother is here. Its bad enough that the brother isn't paying his share and the wife helped rack up a ton of debt here, but why does all of this fall onto the OP and her family here? That is majorly unfair here and the OP isn't breaking any agreements here... especially since they knew the OP was getting a new house. Why should the OP be paying anything when they aren't living there? Hopefully the OP goes low contact with them over this. Those people just suck.
Story 4: The stepdad is a big jerk here. Don't lie to your mom.... moms will ALWAYS find out when you lie to them sooner rather then later, its just a fact. I do think that the OP could give the half-siblings a bit of a chance here, especially considering how little they are, they are innocent in all of this, but its also something that can't be forced. Also, it is a bit fair and reasonable for the OP to view them as only half-siblings, because that is what they are.... no need to sugar coat it. Harvey isn't her dad and that's been made very clear as well. Overall, Harvey is a jerk here and OP is not selfish at all.
Story 5: No way is the OP a jerk here... i dont get why the dad is favoring the step-daughter over his own son here, but something tells me that something isn't being told here. I'm guessing the stepmom has a hand in a lot of this for him to favor her like this. Also, taking away money from the OP's birthday fund is a jerk move. I can totally see why the OP is mad here and wants to cut contact with the dad and stepmom. Also, i throw mud at the wife too..... why would you tell someone to skip out on their own graduation?? That's really stupid.
Story 6: OP is not a jerk at all here, the sister and the rest of the family are. How can you possibly expect that many people to live in a small place like that? It really sounds like the sister wouldve completely over-run that house as well. I can see the sister being in a tight spot, but that doesn't fall on the OP's shoulders. Also, screw the extended family here... if they have such a problem with all of this, then they should have no issues with housing her.
I understand self the deal 2 people is blocking the trail in some way the dad in the wrong OP couldve say son move out the way for other people can pass by how the hiker handle it is wrong couldve say excuse me polite way no one own the trail both handle in wrong way that's my opinion I went hiking at Alaska & there's trail I make sure I don't block other side same for my family when we was at the cruise
Hike/snail. ESH. Just because OP loves their kid and thinks they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, everyone else does not, nor are they required to. While the guy didn't need to push the kid, OP sucks for not moving idk his or her kid out of the way immediately upon realizing someone else was coming up the trail. They knew they were in a narrow section, so should have cleared the path right away, not let their kid bother a total stranger. Some people hike for exercise and track time and steps and want to get their heart rate to and maintain it at a certain level. Stopping to talk to your kid about a snail isn't in their plan. If they don't seem to want to deal with your kid, move your kid aside. Explain to them afterward that some people want to keep moving as they're exercising or don't like kids or however you want to explain it.
"I WENT *RAGE MODE* and TAUGHT HIM A LESSON he'll never forget."
the lesson: you need to leave
Story 2. Dude, are you ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY, CERTAIN you want to move in with her?
High school graduation only happens once! THAT takes priority!
Story 2. Do not move in and move on.
Story 5: It's sad how common it is for a parent to prefer their step-kid over their bio kid.
Uhm am I crazy or there’s only like 4 stories
@@nycity197 No, there's 6 stories, he just didn't bother putting the last two in their own chapters.
No. You do *NOT* treat kids like that. If that were one of my nephews I saw him do that to, that guy’s moon cheeks would be eating gravel.
Tough talk considering that this might have happened in America. Good way to get yourself filled with lead injections. Honestly people talk so tough without considering the fact that hey the guy probably got a gun and do you honestly think the guys chocolate lab which mind you those are big dogs would just sit there and watch you hurt its owner. Honestly y'all have low IQ. It's a trail take your son or nephew and move about the way because not everybody is wanting to entertain the damn kid.
Story #3- Sadly this happens about 90% of the time when dealing with family! You didn’t have a good understanding of what your brothers part financially was before letting them move in! Your big error, should have and agreement with all four adults on paper BEFORE they come in the door. Your mom wants you to continue with payments even though she was the one wanting them to move in! I bet SIL saw this as free place to live, babysitting and her getting to spend more money!! Your brother is weak to not insist on paying half of the low rent, but you knew that - the reason he moved in! He should have insisted the wife get a job to help and pay off her bills! You and husband did the exact right thing, you would have never gotten your parents to understand what was going on!! You mom is now in the hot seat and will have to make him pay the house payment !! Good for you and your husband for making the right choice!
Story 2. So your girlfriend wants you to starve, dehydrated, and bored yourself to death
Either that or she’s trying to the OP to change their mind about moving in together.
I'm sorry to say but to be honest Op in tne graduation one, I think your father doesn't care about you I think this is his do-over family and you just need to cut your losses and move on. This is honestly heartbreaking to hear. And to be honest I think he's only taking care of you because he would look bad if he just abandoned you.
Story 5: OP is not the jerk at all, like wtf. The dad wants to miss OP's graduation for something that probably will happen again. Graduation only happens once so why don't go to that. You also spend your life at school up to that point so their is no reason why the dad can't go. I feel bad of OP because this not the first time this has happened.
bro this guy is crazy
#5: I was all set to say, "It's graduation. Get over it." But even outside of the father-daughter thing, which I thought was silly you mentioned, they were still so.... many... other examples...
Story 5: as a high school graduate, I can confirm you HAVE to be at the Ceremony in order to graduate. Also like another comment said, graduating HS is a once in a lifetime experience.
I don't know about where you live, but here in the US attending the commencement ceremony is not a requirement for graduating and receiving your high school diploma
Commencement ceremony in Oregon is optional.
Not a requirement for my high school nor my friends' high schools in various states in the United States, even if you don't graduate early you have a choice to walk or not
OP NTA, I am thousands of miles away from you and my heart is breaking for you. Your so called dad is just an organ donor and nothing more. I honestly hope you can live with Grandparents because your organ donor is pure scum. I pray 🙏🏻 that you find your path and do everything in your power in honour of your Mom and Grandparents. I think you should share this with your organ donor and open his eyes to exactly how awful he and his 2nd wife and family has treated you. Please keep on the straight and narrow and make a fortune so when he wants to borrow, you can say I don’t give to strangers.
@@angelamurray2725 why are you responding on a thread instead of the main comments?
Story 5: The dad and the step-mom are jerks. If you have a favorite child, you are not a good parent. Ironic that the step-mom said that her daughter shouldn't be denied a dad, but the way they neglected the OP, they're denying him parents. Block their numbers and never speak to them again.
When they want you to move your reptiles thats when they crossed the line
Story 4: I think Harvey doesn't like mom forcing that BS on them
The narrator of this channel makes me feel like I'm listening to Guy Fieri.
Yeah pushing is assault the guy would have been carried to the ambulance if it was me
*hearse
*assault
And if I was a hiker dude and you try to hit me because I moved your son out the way to go pass I would have use my second amendment right congratulations you made your son into a statistic.
Story 4. Wait, why are you on harvy's back. If the op felt funny she could have said something to her mother. The only thing he did wrong was getting in their dam business
Story 3: It looks like there was some communication issues, OP assumed that the brother would pay half the rent and brother/ parents assumed he would not pay anything.
I see both parties sharing the blame for the outcome, it is nice to help family but communicate clearly what are the expectations before agreeing to help.
If OP communicated to the parents that they will move out, why are the parents upset after the fact?
Ultimately, it looks like this family has a communication problem that runs deeper than this story.
#5: sometimes you don't even need to hear the story...
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I have a girl best friend. (Im a guy) In class, im sitting right behind her when she keeps talking to this guy named ian. Ive been friends with my best friend since year 1. (7 years old) now im 11 and shes 11 too. She started talking to him since the start of this year and im starting to feel left out since she has been talking to him more than me at this point. I was like nah its fine.. I never told her i have trust issues but if i did it would probally make it awkward. I dont know what to do and i dont wanna leave her as a best friend since shes the only best friend that never 3rd parties me. Now its kinda looking like it.. I never make anyone feel left out.Again, i do not know what to do as im afraid she will talk to him more than me. Sometimes she just ignores me (not in a offensive way) while chatting with her other friend. Any solutions? Am i the jerk for thinking that im uncomfortable that she is talking to other guys? This is really taking a mental tole on me. It is like lighting up a fire but when its extremely dim, lighting it up again. It got to the point where the guy gave her and i my phone number for a project. This is taking such a mental tole on me that i have negative thoughts like, “Am i not good enough for her?”“Am i worthless to her?”. I sometimes have su1c1dal thoughts.(not all thr time, just when i feel left out.)
Bro the most crazy thing about the story is the titles
Last story, OP NTA. Why is it we hear so many stories about people wanting to move in with family or friends but expect them to get rid off their pets.🤦♀️😤
she said OP would have to get rid of there pets wtf how dare she make those demands the pets are family too
ITS A KEVIN!!!!
Story 3: Parents definitely AH for trying to throw OP under the bus, OP partly AH, could have at least talked to the brother if he's willing to cover half... Due to this particular circumstance I feel sorry for the brother, because he gets it hard twice...
Nah dad out of pocket with that hiker. If that hiker had a gun on him he would have had a full rights to pull it out and say say that again mf. Also to be honest the dad is being a little entitled to hear you don't own the trail anymore than the hiker does. Move your kid out the way and don't take up the entire space.
Last story: So...the sister can't afford to rent a place for her and her three children (that she chose to have) because she doesn't earn enough as a waitress. But she won't learn a better paying trade because trade work is blue collar trash. So if she makes less than blue collar trash, what does that make her and her job exactly?
FYI, I hate it when people look down on tradies. Without sparkies, plumbers, chippies, grease monkeys, brickies, garbos, and other tradies (who I can't remember is a job right now for some reason - it's been a long day and I'm tired, sue me), we wouldn't have all the shit that "professional" people rely on and take advantage of. How are the POS systems going to run without sparkies to make the things, wire the building so you have electricity for the computers and POS equipment and lights, electricity to keep the fridge and freezer in the kitchen running? You gonna wash your hands, the dishes, the fresh vegetables in hand sani? How you gonna flush the toilets? Get water? You hate plumbers and you need them to set all that up. With those in mind, are you going to build the restaurant? Because you need chippies and brickies for that, not to mention tilers, painters, insulators, sparkies, plumbers...you'll need grease monkeys to keep your car running so you can drive to the place you in work that was built by "blue collar trash". I hate people that shit on tradies, tradies keep our civilisation running, respect them
Story #4 I don't think I will ever understand why people feel indifferent or even hostile to half-siblings. I mean, they are the children of one of the parents I'd assume they love, and many adopted children don't have this kind of issue.
Don't get me wrong. I don't think the step-father should encourage the OP to lie to their mom, but I do find it weird that they are indifferent.
Story 4: I have 2 half brothers from my Birthmother and my younger half brother was adopted with me while our older half brother was adopted by a different family so I don’t know where he is and I honestly don’t care does that make me a jerk?
story 4 why did the mother think she was gonna get remarried and OP was just gonna be all happy and lovely with the new babies OP didn't even say they hated them also why was she eavesdropping on OP in the first place
TY for the video.
Story 1: To the OP, all I have to say is “Way to go, Papa Wolf.” Seriously, who shoves a toddler out of the way? The jerk could have gone to prison for assaulting a minor and we all know what prison inmates do to people whose crimes involve children.
Story 2: How exactly is the OP a parasite? And how exactly are they financially dependent on their girlfriend when they make twice as much as her? The girlfriend’s logic doesn’t make any sense. Does she not want the OP to literally spend any money? Like at all? Including food and medicine? That impossible! And if it is possible, she’s going to have to demonstrate. I’m starting to think this is a ploy to make the OP not want to move in with her. The OP is basically walking on eggshells with this hypocrite.
story 1: guy on the trail is lucky he wasn't knocked out by the dad.
Story 4: your she is the jerk. I understand that you shouldn't lie to your mom, but her having another husband was her trying to fill a void for you in a different father figure. Step dad could have said it differently, but the 16 year old should have more honest conversations with her mom to help with these type of transition.
Story 5: you are in the right.
The attitude of the dad is a good way to make his son a statistic. A fatherless statistic. Because they don't want to see we don't even know if that hiker had a gun or not.
@@AnimeGamer501st Agreed, When I am with my kid I carry so that would be about the same for the other guy. Obviously not a parent because if you were you would know that feeling of even hearing someone hurt a child, the anger feeling where you would risk that part of your life for that child either way.
@@sumonick2005 the guy said the hiker pushed the kid out the way for all we know he's simply just nudged him out the way either way keep your kid out of the middle of a freaking trail. Not everyone wants to entertain them.
@@AnimeGamer501st Kids are kids. They move around and are outdoors... again have one and control every move they make without abuse. Good luck.
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yes I’m still doing this and won’t stop until sad I’m doing this just to be petty
What contribution do you plan on making to society?
@@PajamaCatWithRamen I’m doing this just to petty u started this fucker
The story about the op being a parasite. Dude call it over . She’s just going to get worse.
Ok someone please tell wy would i wanna have relatinships these days you cant trust anyone the only thing a relationship is good for these days is money benefits no love no just being together ure only together for one Material reason and if one thing goes wrong its over i rather stay alone then waste my time with that
Believe it or not, that was originally why people got married.
I have a half brother but I still call him my brother
Quit playing house with people you aren't married too
I like kids. I think they're f*cking adorable. But I'm also pedophobic.
If they get too close my lizard brain activates and tells me they're going to tear my throat out. It's a phobia. I can't control it. If I could, I would have had a very profitable career in Japan teaching English to babies. (I literally got approached on the street with offers ALL THE TIME.)
But I have worked my *ss off to make sure that kids around me are completely unaware of this fact because I don't want to f*cking traumatize them.
When my nephews were born, there were rules. No more than an hour of socialization, there needs to be a firm plan on what's happening, I need to be able to leave at a moment's notice, and when I hold them, someone has to sit nearby so they can take them away if I start to panic. And it worked. My oldest nephew recently entered high school and I asked if he ever noticed and HE DID NOT!!! (^o^)
The point is, if a little boy told me he found a snail on a trail I would IMMEDIATLY drop down next to him and ooh and aaah over his find and ask him questions about the snail and make up a funny story on what the snail was probably doing and then tell the munchkin I had to go and the second I was in my car, I would break down sobbing like I had just avoided a shark attack.
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Why couldn't I be afraid of spiders like everyone else...
People who are just watching the car racing
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Story 1: TBH, I get some entitled vibes from "You need to apologize to my child RIGHT NOW."... anyone else?
Under other circumstances I might agree with you, but given that the other hiker apparently _shoved_ their four-year-old child aside without politely asking if they could pass, it reads more like "papa wolf" (the male equivalent to "mama bear") than "entitled dad".
@@MarsJenkar I agree that the other hiker was displaying some sh*tty behavior, but I have a feeling there's more to what happened on the other hiker's side. Not great behaviors on either side I guess :/
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Story 5. I get the OP is upset about his dad missing his graduation, but he should tone it down a little. Did the dad adopt the step-daughter? If so, then she is legally his daughter and the OP's sister. The OP is being selfish as well. The step-sister never knew here biological dad, so her step-dad is her dad.
The problem is the dad treats the step-daughter as the golden child and always prioritizes her no matter what. The OP is nowhere near selfish. You don't get to pick favorites and then blame the least favorite for not wanting anything to do with you because of your negligence.
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Get new girlfriend
Story 5: OP is an adult… stop being jealous of a child -_-
There's no jealousy, dip sh*t.
At 18 you're a legal, functioning adult
Whining that a 14yr ALSO has a ceremony going on and the parents choosing the CHILD's event is sad
@@v.crowley High School graduation is more important. It's a once in a lifetime event for anyone who's graduating. There's no jealousy when the father is clearly picking favorites instead of treating both kids equally.
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Ya not buying the bogus title story XD