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I told my mom I was being molested by my step father at age 14. She didn’t believe me and did nothing. Then at 17 I started my first day of therapy, told my therapist, and he was arrested that day. To say it messed me up is an understatement. It’s nice to see this mother actually did something about it!
I'm sorry she didn't believe you. Being ignored by a parent or an adult is why these abusers keep abusing. May I ask, did your mom believe you after he was arrested?
The fact no one needs a “license to parent” is just, uhm, just, backwards? Wrong? Fucked up? So many things. Every parent should have to sign off and become a mandated reporter before they leave the hospital with their newborn. The ONE THING I thank the heavens above every night when I clock into shift as an RN that I am a mandated reporter is a god send to me, simply put, with ONE CALL, I can potentially end a child’s suffering through a thorough investigation is worth it to me. PS… Your mom has her own karmic hell awaiting her…believe that and wait on it…it’ll come. ;)
My daughter who is 14 now came out about her grandfather (my husband's father) molesting her. I never once doubted her and went to the police immediately. My husband was leaving me because he was in denial wanting me to drop the charges. But to me it didn't matter, no matter how much I loved him, my children will always come first. Edit: I didnt know what was happening because my guard was put down. You'd think your child would be safe being around their own family. I'm not trying to sound like a super hero. I just know some parents keep quiet to protect others other than their own children.
Every mother should treat this horrible crime the way you did. I hope your daughter is doing better and u momma bear are a treasure. I'm happy she has you as a mom. Never stop fighting. Good job mom.
PEGGY SUE, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. YOUR DAUGHTER IS BLESSED TO HAVE A MOTHER LIKE YOU! YOUR HUSBAND WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH HIS CHOICE. WHICH HE WILL REGRET!!
@@sarafreeman5073 I'm reading under this video of all the little girls whose mothers didn't believe them. Isn't that sad this is the least we can do for our daughters. For fucks sake. This particular crime makes me so damn angry.
@@fallyneprinciotta9058 I can't believe some of these so call mothers. To not believe your child when they tell you someone is abusing and molesting them. It is disgusting. It reminds me of the many many children who were abused and molested by a lot of Catholic Priest. They told their parents, but they didn't want to believe it was true. So they kept silent. Which caused many more children to be molested. NOTE! It happens in all churches not just the Catholic church. Just to be clear not knocking the True Catholic Faith at all.
@@DVD927 ummm kids can be told they were abused and they might belive they were. Also especially teenage children will say things not true to punish a parent for something they are upset about. But I get what u mean a kid says something u got to look into it. But you cant just assume something especially in messy divorces or break ups. I know this video isnt that but you cant just assume someone guilty purely off of their words. My cousin kid ran into her moms hand that had a cigarette in there hand. Cps was called, which is understandable, but when they interviewed her alone. She said she wasn't being fed was homeless and on the run from the cops. And my first thought is how is this 6 year old coming up with this. You want to believe them, why would they make that up? How especially that young but the truth is nothing Close to that. She wasn't mad at her mom...... but she still said those things. this guy deserves to be buried under the jail but just saying kids don't equal truth.
How this absolute monster isn’t in prison for life is disgusting. He’s “supervised” but out and living life. What a travesty on behalf of the justice system. Those poor girls, my heart goes out to them. He’s a monster.
Today people like him considered victims more than the real victims what evidence do they need? If he was a redneck he would be in prison even if he deny the charges. They would have believed the poor girls, especially if they described in details what has happened to them. But hey he is more important. No wonder those girls don’t speak out.
Statute of limitations. Only certain things could probably be charged. In my state unwanted touching like molestation is 3 years from the time of the incident that it can be charged. All depends on what they can prove and charge. It's not what you know it's what you can prove.
This country doesn’t take crimes against children or women seriously. It’s as if sex crimes are still downplayed because half of this country is still puritanical and doesn’t want to face that people are being victimized this way. Child molesters and rapists don’t stop even after being caught and spending a short time in prison. Child molestation and rape actually murders the victims soul - it’s a life sentence for the victims. The perpetrators should serve the same sentence.
Being abused as a child has affected me my whole life. These girls being abused by their own grandfather is so vile and disgusting. I hope they get all the help they need❤
I hope one day you can move forward with a healthy mindset. I refused to let my abuser control my entire life mentally. You too can move forward and love life. Keep the faith and find forgiveness. You deserve a beautiful life sweetheart ❤
Juli-Bean - I’m terribly sorry you were victimized this way. You are serving a life sentence as a victim - the perpetrators should get them same punishment as you’ve had to bear. Sending you light and love. 💕
I wouldn't even call any cops ....that would definitely be handled in my family by my family cause I don't think the system brings the proper judgement and I can't take the chance of them droping the ball and him only getting life in prison they don't know my family don't care about my family BUT BELIEVE THAT I DO 👿
They should be charged with the same charge as him and have and actually be judge harsher . She willing let him hurt those two girls and could have stopped it .
@@bltn7469 can we apply the same logic to gang bangers. If you can prove that there parents were aware of there lifestyle they could have stopped other people being victims to there children.
I'm 21. When I was 19 my mom made a joke about the time my oldest brother "supposedly molested me" when I was 4-6. (he was 18 at the time) I was shocked and in that moment realized I didnt remeber anything from that period of my life. I asked my dad and he affirmed I had told them that when I was younger but neither believed me. I started going to therapy and began recovering chunks of memories. Ive always doubted myself since I csnt remeber or recall anything actually happening. Then last week that brother showed up at my dads house for a family dinner. It was the first time I had seen him since he got arrested when he was 19 (unrelated) He refused to make eye contact with me or even aknowledge my existance. You could feel his guilt. In that moment I realized something had absolutley happened. I'm still processing and trying to deal with it. Parents if your kids EVER say something is going on- BELIEVE THEM.
You suppressed the memories as a way for your psyche to protect you! The last time he was around you were when you told so he naturally is remembering what he did and you bravely telling once he seen you again! The memories may begin to come back to you as you continue to see him or your own psyche feels you can now handle it!
"my mom made a joke about my molestation" They really "joke" about that huh? Ever think that maybe they just told you that for whatever reason? "Suppressed" memories are increasingly catching flak because some believe purported negative memories to be simply the power of suggestion, especially when it comes from an age range where most people dont remember what happened to them at that age (like 4-6 years old). Not saying this didnt happen but there have been lots of situations where someone doesnt remember any molestation, it gets suggested as having happened to them, and the mind starts creating faulty memories based on that suggestion and people think its legitimate because it gets validated by a therapist even though the therapist is not really in a position to either deny or confirm such abuse occurred. Its problematic for sure and I know because I spent a lot of time wondering why I couldn't remember anything from my childhood and leapt to the conclusion that I had been molested even though I had no memories of it or any clue as to who would do it.
@@StainsStainsStains well I guess that's possible. I was speaking off my own experiences tho. I very much knew I was molested and who all did it but after I was no longer around the people for years and became grown, once I seen them I went into a state of uncomfortablness, then as time went on vivid memories I had blocked out about it came back at once and on top of my other cousin trying to rape me after a night of partying with his woman and she stopped him while I was passed out drunk on their couch! I start spiraling! Even things that weren't sexual but were traumatic begin coming back! I even finally remembered why I wouldn't cry for years, I was about 5 and hurt myself, my big brother begin to always tell me not to cry and that I was alright to comfort me but that's why anytime I was sad I told myself that till I just stop crying all together. I think God is just answering my prayers to heal, forgive, be set free and move forward in life! I cry now and stopped telling myself that but I had forgotten those words came from him. When my son died I just kept saying them and was told to stop saying it, they asked why I wouldn't just let myself cry and it finally came back why.
@@StainsStainsStains I hope it didn't happen to her but that's weird her parents would say and do that! I'm just hoping it isn't a matter of deep blocking. Children can be coerced and take on memories that didn't happen so you are absolutely right!
Because it works. You should see my sperm donor turn into a weepy, tottering, "I'm a veteran!" feeble old man the second there's anyone around who might witness or stand up to his abuse. Once the door is closed behind the person he can't control that mask comes RIGHT off.
Look what the Golden State killer did. Acting like a feeble old man with dementia rolling into court in a wheelchair & his neighbor said it was total BS.
I've never seen someone with entirely selective dementia before. He absolutely remembers that he never did anything but he doesn't remember anything else. Remarkable!
I feel so lucky I was born into a family that wasnt sick & twisted. I cant imagine if my grandpa did this to me. He was my hero & I loved him until the day he passed away. He was a great man.
I must have have been pretty sheltered. The 1st time I heard about that kind of abuse happening in the immediate family I was shocked & sickened. It just never occurred to me that such thing existed.
It sure does. My father only did it to the middle child. Cause my younger sister and I were quite outspoken, unlike our sister who was quite. My dad took his life a few months ago. Telling me months before this, that he was sorry, and he shouldn't have drunk soo much. All i heard was him say, was selectively owning up to stuff. But blaming the alcohol. Ughh. Was too late, as far as I was concerned. He was apologising to the wrong child. But they both passed many years ago to cancer. I guess the guilt got him in the end. Mum found him hanging. He knew she'd find him. That's a cross she has to carry. Cause she never did anything about it either. Never kicked dad out, nor protected us. She protected him. Pfft
@@jaggirl I'm so sorry for you, and your sisters. My mom was exposed to that sort of thing, but she claimed that he never molested her. It was just the older daughters, who were young teens. It permeates the entire family though, because my grandmother didn't have the chance to leave him, with 14 children. There were no womens help centers available, and being a divorcee back then, was like having a Scarlet letter on your chest! My mom struggled with it for the rest of her life, and I''m sure my Aunts were traumatized as well. This was all back in the 1940's, so they were poor.
That is why I get so pissed off with QNon and all. They use these abuses as their political sword against trans/gays etc but don't give a shat that this going on in their family, neighborhood, community, and even the very people they call friends or righteous warriors.
@@morphergaming0531 huh? What? I am pretty unfamiliar with Qnon or whatever it’s called. But I am not sure a group would be ok with one way but not the other.
@@morphergaming0531 What? That type of stuff is extremely prevalent among those people and always has been. They are right. Show me any shred of evidence that this happens in the majority of normal families. One study or one statistic.
After my kid told me about my brothers abuse I worked with the police to do a recorded phone call. Seeing how this guy basically got away with it I'm glad I made that call. One of the hardest and best things I've ever done. NOTE: It took years of therapy for most of the story to come out. We only knew a fraction of the story at the time of the call so he got away with some of the worst things. He's on the registry for life in any case.
I just pray for these girls. I’m 53 and things that happened to me when I was 7 and 8 have severely affected me all my life. It is a terrible thing to carry.
@@gesundheit602I only remember my SA starring at age 6, maybe before this age. I'm 49 now, and been in therapy most of my adulthood. I had several molesters(monsters). Including my stepfather, who also touched his own daughter's. When I told my mother she decided to believe him and sent me to live with my grandparents. At least there I was safe. But the damage was already done. Bless you for sharing, as well as you Annabella dragonlady. The best thing I can do is protect as many children as I can by believing them when they confide in me.
I was molested by my stepfather in the 1960's and was brushed aside. Mother married the molester. I ran away from home age 16 and didn't see my mother again till I was 50. Videos like this bring it up for me because it never leaves you. In my story mother and molester are long dead now.
That is so sad! Sorry you went through that and didn’t have the support from the ONE person who should have protected you! Did your mom believe you when you saw her at age 50 again? I hope she holds some kind of accountability
The amount of people in these comments opening up about similar experiences to this story breaks my heart. It’s worse that many of them remain unheard or unbelieved. My heart goes out to everyone who has suffered in this way. Also kudos to this mother and other parents who listen to their children when they open up about abuse. It’s better to be safe than sorry, and a little bit of listening and investigating can go a long way. It might even save your child’s life! Hopefully more people realize that soon enough. If any of you reading this comment have suffered due to SA or abuse, know that you are strong and worthy of love and justice. You’ve got this shit!! 💜
Thank you for your incredibly kind and understanding comment! I'm a survivor of childhood domestic violence and SA (told my mum about the SA when I was 15) with my non-biological father being my abuser (I actually thought he *was* my biological father until I came out about the abuse, that's when he himself told me that he wasn't... and that's when he tried to manipulate me into saying I was lying). My mum believed me, thankfully. She took me to the police and I gave them my story... sadly, that's the last of the good news I have because they dropped the whole case due to "lack of evidence". However, I guess another form of "Good news" (depending on how you look at it) is that he died this year. He had a whole range of physical and mental health issues and he was very much alone. It's been several months since his death and I still don't know how I feel about it. On one hand, I'm very happy he can't hurt anyone else any more, but on the other, I feel like my chance to confront him one day has been taken away from me - not that it would have mattered if I'd have had that chance anyway, he developed dementia in the later years of his life, but still. I mostly just feel nothing about his death, or him as a person. I'm 31 now and I put off getting mental health help until now. I'm on a wait list for a specialist councillor and I'm going to be speaking to other therapists about other mental health issues I have while I wait. It's been a long, long journey but I'm finally arriving at a destination I would like to explore more. Abuse really does stay with you forever and although I believe I've coped well up to now, I still feel incredibly vulnerable and broken. Logically, I know I'm not, but that's one thing I hope to understand more in my therapy sessions. My heart really does go out to everyone else in the comments section too, I really wouldn't wish anything like this on anyone.
I was abused by my next door neighbor. I ran back home and told my mom and sister. Nothing was done about it and I blocked it out until I was 17 and a counselor asked me. The neighbor that molested me his sister always hated me and would tell me I was ugly and watch me cry as a little girl. These were adult people. Then when I was 48 my mom died and my abusers sister sent a card to the house expressing her condolences and addressed the card by writing out each person's name in my family but left my name out. My own sisters after knowing what my abuser did decided to be Facebook friends with him. Breaking ties with my family has been the best. I'm finally safe
I couldn't finish watching the video because the comments tore me up...so many hurt people. I thank all of you for giving me a glimpse into your lives. You remind me of the need to kind. God bless everyone who relates to this story.
The friend of my father molested me when I was 5 when I told to my dad, he invited him for dinner after the meal my dad called me and asked me to tell him in the front of this man what he did to me. The mansaid that I was lying so my dad smacked him and told him that a child of 5 years don't know about these things so I did not lie that he was the lies. He gave him a good beating and ask him to never talk to me nor anyone of my family. The man spend couple of hours at the hospital to be stitched back but he never said who did this to him. I never saw this shit of man again, my dad trusted me and this help me to not be traumatise by what happened to me.
@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree yes he did, he welcome him and made him feel welcome.... My dad enjoyed the deception, he trusted this man and this shit betrayed him so my dad took his time, feed him drunk with him and then confronted him... I really thought that my dad did not believe me when he invited him but I knew after the beating that all this was part of my dad game.
@@lilithst2340 I hope your dad reported him & it was documented that he sexually abused you to hopefully stop him abusing more children; and I'm glad your dad confronted him in front of you so you knew he believed you, and you knew he was a safe person to tell things to; that's a huge thing for a child knowing that they are supported 100% by their parent/s.
This is a horrific crime and we get to see a little glimpse of how detectives work the accused. Thank you for posting. This channel never ceases to amaze me.
There's countless programs that show what actually happens in an investigation, but I think this one is by far one of the most fucked up one I've seen in a long time. Monsters do exist
I think it says a lot to the professionalism of the detectives that they can talk to somebody like this who I know in their hearts they think is a monster but they treat them cordially and with respect in order to get his interrogation.
@@cameronrobinson3933 I’ve always thought this, too. I’m sure it helps to know that criminals can squirm out of a lot of charges they deserve if detectives don’t do the interrogation exactly by the book. Definitely takes a special individual to do that job.
@@cameronrobinson3933 oh he’s not the worst these detectives have encountered 🙄. Y’all are true crime aficionados and you know you’ve seen detectives play nicely with disgusting monsters
I grew up in a family FULL of men like this! Back in the day- we told but we weren't believed. Then they asked our abuser and he said no. They will never admit it and the people who enable them will continue to- trust me. My abuser works at a catholic school as a janitor- I saw in the local newspaper he got employee of the year. smh
Seeing as offending priests just get moved to different church's/send on paid vacation (they literally said a priest near where I live "got a promotion"), sounds like the pos is among friends.
I know how you feel but my own mother didn't even ask me about it until I was in my late 20's and said that she still wasn't sure I was telling her the truth!!!!...it's hard to deal with as a child but to not be believed later on in life is even worse!!!... I hope you're doing well and have an amazing life!!.. 💖🥰
This monster reminds me exactly of my father he molested me From the time I was 3 years old up till I was 11 and when I got older i Ran away. I told my mother about it and she did not believe me she was an addict and couldnt care less. Then when I was an adult and married with my own kids she had the nerve to call me up and tell me that she was getting counseling for him molesting me I could not believe it she never even asked me if it affected me God I hated her and him my biggest regret was not turning him and her in. I hope they're both rotting in hell right now.
I had suspicions about my stepdaughter (9 years old at this time) being molested by her biological father, I encouraged my wife to talk to her in a very sensitive manner and she did several times over the next 2 years and my stepdaughter said no over and over then when she was 17 she broke down and said he had been molesting her, it was so sad and I just wish there was more we could have done (I even confronted him back when I first suspected, just told him if he did ANYTHING to hurt her it would end badly for him). But he’s finally paying the price and I know he’s not anyone’s favorite inmate. My stepdaughter is now married and has a little girl of her own.
This is a case of a dad standing up to his father, all for the safety of his kids. Let's not discount the value of a dad in the household. Grandma couldn't stop him, it took another man, his own son, to put an end to this abuse... Real Fathers Matter✌🏾
So many people don't have a man in the household and if they do it's generally the one that's abusing them. A lot of men will seek out women with children so they can abuse them they're not interested in the woman they're interested in child. That's fine when I was dating men I never told him anything about me having children it was none of their concern. Unless I intended on having a long-term relationship. I never talk about my children to anyone it's another business and they are adults now. I don't trust people concerning my children I don't let them know anything personal about my children I never did I never told anybody if I'd girls boys I never told them their ages nothing
@@patriciapadilla2022 so if there‘s a man in the household it‘s generally the one who is abusing the children and also a lot of men will seek women with children to abuse them? That‘s complete BS! Get your sentences straight please! Most men are not abusers! That‘s ridiculous.
This vile disgusting pos doesn’t need a interpreter he suffers from self inflicted selective memory I can’t believe he got off...I’m sure if the cops had the resources they would look.deep into his past history and locations to find more victims,everybody in his community knows about it those poor kids,the grim reaper awaits his arrival....
I truly agree as well and personally can't comprehend why a man or anyone period can do something so atrocious, and despicable as well. If I had the authority, I'd for sure would castrate every damn man, and pedophile who does this to children etc.🤞
Its very often generational, learnt behaviour. Children who grow up in abuse can sometimes become desensitised & see it as a norm they model & repeat. Or, they repeat it to take back their lost power & avoid their victimhood. ( I did child psychology for mt teaching degree)
The same reason so many famous serial killers were involved in churches, they think it makes them look innocent, unfortunately it puts a bad taste in the mouths of many because they hear these stories and associate it with God which is far from His character and 100% against what the Bible teaches
I was sexually abuser from 4 to 12 by my grandfather, he sexually abused my mother as a child as well. It causesd a lot of issues in my life from hating my mother to men to having major PTSD etc. He was a monster who got 18 months for what he did to me while I got a life sentence. Many people ask me why I had a hard time with my mom, I am a mother and I would never put my child alone with someone who hurt me like that. Its taken me years to forgive her.
@Tina K....I was sexually abused as my brothers were but I was too small to remember....now in my late 60's and remembering bits by bits..doctor says my brain protected me by not remembering...my grandfather abused his 9 daughters too..my mom must also have been abused but never told us and didn't protect us..,she passed away before I remembered anything..but I'm sure my grandfather had been abused himself....why should a grown person abuse a young child when there are so many women around...what is it about a child that turns them on??? Doesn't make sense to me..
I went through something similar. Grandpa got nearly all the grandkids and all of his own kids. He was accused several times but theyd claim "they dreamt it up." I do not let anyone, not even family babysit. My kids are the first ones in our family who arent severely abused. They were never allowed alone with him and I had to guard the freaking bathroom so my kid could pee in their home the few times my kid met him. It is rough rebounding from generations of trauma. I didnt cry when he died. It has been 12 years since he died. It still effects the whole family.
Hopefully you’re with a complex-trauma informer therapist who knows what CPTSD is and not just PTSD. My mom raped my from age 5-10 and I’m 43 and just stated treatment about a year ago. Her abuse caused a unique mental illness and I’ve got a great mental health team, but still in treatment 4-5x a week for it. I hope you’re all doing well ❤️
I used to live in an apartment with my 5 and 6 year olds. Above us was a woman, her daughter and her boyfriend. We could hear the little girl crying at night and begging someone " no, no please don't). I called the cops, they went upstairs and came back by my door and said, we talked to the parents and everything is fine. They didn't see or talk to the little girl!! I was beyond mad and very concerned, couldn't sleep all night. The next morning the cops were knocking on my door, wanted to know if I had seen the upstairs neighbors. Turns out that he was wanted and they didn't bother to run his name the night before. They had packed up what they could and left in the middle of the night. I've often wondered how that little girl is doing now that she's grown.
If you could hear it through the walls, I personally would of videoed the whole thing. Called the police, then hand over the video to the police for them to investigate what the hell was going on!
Probably still too quiet and hard to catch in the moment. The police clearly didn’t care, the video/audio I doubt would have made a difference. Most people wouldn’t have even bothered to call the cops. She literally tried everything
Sorry that happened to u. Happened in my home to my daughter at 15 by my ex husband . I immediately called cops no question asked because it happened to me n my sis growing up with many family members , generations curse in my family with molestation smh. Once again sorry it happened to u because me my daughter spent a lot of time in therapy
A man in his eighties offered to buy a woman's six year old daughter for $150k outside a local Walmart last month. A man his age would absolutely do that.
@@AnotherWittyUsername. to me it just goes with society’s mentality to “respect your elders” and such. As of elderly people are capable of committing crimes, being rude/crass, being perverted, etc. Yes, some elderly are vulnerable. But not all. I’ve met plenty through my job who were perverts and made me uncomfortable. I also think some elderly think they are (or should be) allowed to behave a certain way.
Having to lie is one thing, having to lie in a second language makes it all the more obvious. The poor victims have to live with this trauma their whole life
Interesting take, I was thinking the same thing but from the opposite side. He could have not only played like he didn't understand everything in English but could have even used the brain injury that made him illiterate. He didn't though. I could be completely wrong but I have doubts about his guilt and this is part of my reason. Either way i feel terrible for this family because whether this is true or not there is obviously something splitting them apart.
@@maryault8928What I mean to highlight is the challenge of doing so. I can’t imagine the mental acrobatics that would be needed to pull it off. I imagine it’s like me having to lie to Japanese police with a basic level of grasp on the language. Your options are limited on what you can say to make your story make sense. I think the challenge itself makes lies much more obvious, and what we’re seeing in this interrogation is it going poorly. The variable itself carries a lot of weight during this interview. And I think it’s important to keep in mind when viewing this. Sometimes he isn’t thinking of a lie as much as just the right words to say and other times it’s extremely limited options to lie
@@tomasjosefvela1 he's a coward possessing an extremely selective memory portraying himself as a victim. Head injuries indeed have an impact in altering ones persona. Some become psychopathic serial killers just like the guy in Russia (will attach the link once I found it). However, no head injury ever made a pedophile. A pedophile is born not made. AND most pedophiles lack impulse control and become active child molesters. Note: Pedophile and child molester isn't the same thing. Edit: th-cam.com/video/8NaHaRS0_DA/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/PsuXCuZtbhk/w-d-xo.html
I was molested by my maternal grandfather. I told my mom not to leave me alone with him. She asked me why. I told her he'd been touching me since I was an infant at that time I was 3 years old. She confronted him but he lied and told my mom that I was an evil liar and they both beat me. After she left he beat me some more and his abuse got worse. My mom hates me for telling her what her dad did.
I'm surprised your mother went unscathed from his sexual abuse... I'm so sorry you had to go through such living hell... Sending you much love and white light your way. 😘❤️
It's amazing at 3 you were able to recognize something inappropriate was even happening, that you had the ability to remember the abuse as an infant, 1 & 2 year old and that you had the verbal ability to tell your mom. So sorry they didn't believe you. I hope something was eventually done.
@Mandy 0827 some people remember their baby years. I do. I thought everyone could. But I've asked other people, and their real recollection starts around 5,6. So, yeah, I believe she remembers. I have very clear memories of being dreadfully sick in the hospital at 18 months. Procedures were done, and it was traumatic, and the memory is crystal clear, along with what the nurses were saying.
Forgive them,because we are all sinners capable of the worst evil. God loves all of us,from the best to the worst.just like a father loves all his children or at least he should. I adore all my children,even when their horrible. Also,they should be in prison and ask Jesus for salvation and ask for forgiveness and a new beginning. If not his punishment will be eternal
My own mother abused me. I didnt even remember until i was 19 years old. I was alone at work and just started thinking about some stuff and realized that it wasnt normal. I completely broke down. I realized that i could never do that to a child. I was living with her at the time. The shock and horror and disgust.... Ill never tell her i remember. Ill also never speak to her again.
I was molested by multiple people in my family including my 3 older brothers it started at age 7. To date it’s gone untold and unresolved this effects me in more ways than one. I don’t know where I would be today without my therapist
I bear witness to your pain! 💔I'm so sorry these things happened to you..I pray for your complete healing from that pain..❤I know I need therapy as well but I don't even try. I feel like once I start crying it won't ever stop..thus wasting that therapist time. To participate in therapy requires a bravery that I just don't have. Sending you all my love and prayers 💗🙏🏾
It’s heartbreaking that he didn’t admit what he did to save the girls more trauma, and then after all that formal charges couldn’t be brought forward. That sickening old man doesn’t deserve his life. I’m a granny to a sweet trusting beautiful little soul and if anyone touched her and took her innocence, I think I’d kill them.
It's amazing how one's second language improves considerably when they're in denial, emotional, or want something. Freaking 10 years probibiation for a crime that could have got him life. He got off lucky there.
When I tried to tell my parents at age 7 that my brother was abusing me, they told me I was demon-possessed and to go to my room and pray about my sins. A part of me crawled back inside to a place so deep that I told no one else for over 40 years. There were no phone numbers to call back then, no organizations available for children to go to where someone would actually LISTEN. I was a tiny little girl - much, much smaller than all of my classmates. (I had skipped ahead two grades but was smaller than average anyway.) So, when trying to tell my much-loved parents only left me in fear & confusion, I didn't know what else to do or where else to go. And when my oldest brother - my only protector - left for college, I cried harder than ever before. I hid myself away & pretty much gave up on anything that mattered to me - anything to draw as little attention to me as possible. When I became a school teacher, I put up every poster, flyer, phone number, organizations, etc. that I came across so that students dealing with ANY kind of abuse had somewhere to turn to. But by far the most important thing I did was to just LISTEN. Eventually, I had students who weren't even mine coming to me - tearfully spilling out the most horrendous things. It was absolutely awful. But I could never ever turn a child or young person away, even if that meant sharing their heavy burdens. I wanted them to feel that they had at least one person in their corner who would fight for them. Many times over those years, that brother would call me as a part of his AA 12- Step program; he tried over & over to apologize to me. But all I could do was to tell him it was a long time ago, to forget it and that I never wanted to talk or hear about it ever again. To me, it was best to just to leave it alone & in the past. (I wanted no part of it or him). Idk if that was the right thing to do but, for myself & the sake of my own family, it was the only thing I COULD do. When I finally broke apart it wasn't pretty: repressing such intense emotions that I was unable to cope with as a child meant it had been festering my entire adult life. I won't go into details here; suffice it to say, that my husband figured it all out on his own. When I finally decided to "tell him", he said he had figured it out years ago. When I asked him how (since I NEVER spoke of it to ANYONE), he simply said, "Melinda, you are the nicest person I know. But it's clear you hate your brother. REALLY hate him. I figured there had to be a pretty good reason." He was right.
Their own grandfather ffs!?! I look at my nieces and nephews and feel such a fierce sense of protection over them, I just don't understand what thought process can lead to doing such things.
That's good, because my uncle used to come and get me out the bed while laying beside HIS daughter. Take me to the kitchen closet, give me junk food so he molest me, and you can't tell me his wife my AUNT (mom's sister) didn't know. I've blocked so much out that I can't even remember it all.
unfortunately the sad thing is, in a lot of cases of molestation, rape etc, unless the accusation is made immediately after the act and physical evidence is collected, there is no physical proof and it's very hard to obtain a conviction so the monsters get a way with it
I'm glad people listened. You'd be surprised how many parents blow it off. :( I expect his karma will not be far behind him, should catch up very soon.
My mom did. Her bf was actually on the registry..he even admitted he did it to me..she told me that we had to forgive him bc he was sick...I eventually told my sister who was in the middle east at the time serving the country...the cops came and got him..he wasn't supposed to be living with minors so it was an automatic parole violation , but he even admitted to the cops what he did..he got 18yr and was released after 14 in 2020. July 22nd 2022 h was raping a disabled woman..I will be in court to make sure he's not released
And he pretty much just got away with it. That disgusts me! No justice was served and those girls were given a life sentence of trauma. That just makes me sick to my stomach. I pray those girls are able to live happy, healthy lives and that God blesses them and their minds with peace & comfort.
My mom didn't believe me abd told me to repeat my story in front of him. He lied and said nothing happened. Told her i must have been dreaming. I was made to apologize to him....mere hours after it happened. I still felt him on me and still smelled like him. Months later I told my dad on one of his rare visits. He took my mom outside and talked to her. Then he left. No one said anything....I was punished by my mom for bringing it up to him. I told my aunt about 2 years later...she told me I should have beat him up..and left it at that. I brought it up again at 15...my mom beat me to a bloody pulp for mentioning it. I think I told a total of 10 ppl...all adults....no one did anything.
What in the hell is wrong with these men?? I can’t imagine! Both of my grandad’s were loving and caring, my dad was an awesome dad, my uncles were excellent, my older brother’s were and are caring. I didn’t realize there’s so many screwed up men. Especially a grandfather to do this to his innocent little granddaughters & the grandmother knew about it!!😢. It’s heartbreaking. I hope these girl received the help they needed to overcome this trauma.
A lot of Hispanic men are very small and stature and for some reason they gravitate to little girls I guess they physically feel more comfortable because they are generally very inadequate and physical size so they like little girls. I am Hispanic and I am saying this because I've noticed that. And it has always bothered me it's like it's totally acknowledged within the Latin Community there are a lot of perverted Hispanic men. But there's also a lot of perverted Caucasian men there are a lot of perverted men in general.
My mother was the type that would have beaten me, blamed me, and berated me if I had told her about my being abused. So I carry it with me, knowing it's too late to do anything. Some parents are simply more dangerous to tell about abuse. When I suspected my daughter had been molested by my adult birthson (who visited the family almost every weekend as an adult), I spent thirty minutes calming down, arranged a signal to have it communicated to have him leave immediately if my suspicion was confirmed. It was confirmed, he left, and my 11-year-old daughter never saw him again. She's now 23, the same age he was when he molested her. He spent 10 years in prison. It's heartbreaking even now. Everyone has to live with this offense for the rest of our lives.
My grandfather molested me for years as well. On his death bed I asked him “WHY?” I got a “ IM SORRY” and I was fine with that cuz he never ever apologized for anything.. He died a week later. I then told my mother, his daughter , and she has yet to, ask me what happened. Lisa 😢 Myrtle Beach 🏝 SC
I recently made a formal complaint to the police about a man who molested me at 14 years old, I’m 59 now, I didn’t tell my parents at the time because I felt I wouldn’t have been supported or believed, I still feel the same!
The people who know these things are happening, and don't do anything to make it stop or help the victims, are just as disgusting as the offender. Lock them both up!
My stepfather molested me from age 11-14 but I didn't tell. I wasn't sure where we would go. When I was 15 my younger sister told me he was doing the same to her. I finally told my mom and she confronted him with us all in the room. He denied it and so did my sister (she was scared) My mom thought I was trying to ruin her marriage. I got my own apartment. It was 1978 so that was still possible.
OMG!!!!...Ya know as a survivor myself and my stepsister ( who got it so much worse ) this is exactly how a true monster reacts to being told they've been caught!!!!... my heart absolutely breaks for these young girls and their family!!!...my/our abuser was my own father!!!...the even sadder part is he only got probation and never went to jail!!!????.. unfortunately for mine the worthless piece of s**t was never charged but I'm very thankful that he died a lonely sad death and not found for days!!!... I hope and pray that these young girls will be able to move forward but again I know how difficult and long that road can be!!!!... they will forever be in my heart and thoughts!!!... ❤️🙏💖🇨🇦
Back in the 60s, my stepfather molested me. I told my mom and her friend. I wasn’t believed. He told them that I had a nightmare. He abused me for a long time till I finally stood up for myself. I didn’t tell anyone. Back then you didn’t say anything to bring shame or embarrassment to your family. My mom finally divorced him when he turned to drugs and started carrying on with a neighbor. Eventually he got Parkinson’s disease and died. I was glad but still never said anything.
My sister SA'd me starting at the age of 5 until I was 11 and she moved out. I never told my parents. They sent me to stay with her and her boyfriend one weekend...he was a pervert too. I never went there again. When I was 33 I confronted her in an elevator full of people in a court house. (family court when I was getting custody of her daughter). It was the most freeing feeling ever!
I kinda knew he wouldn’t end up in prison as there wouldn’t have been any direct physical evidence which is a shame for those girls and his son must be mad as hell
Being a survivor myself, I empowered my 2 kids since the age of 3 (mine started when I was 4) about safe touch & who to go to, using even myself as an example. It was frustrating, but I knew it was necessary. My younger was able to come to me when him & a friend saw a man waving them to his window & they thought he was naked. They were 10. The man gave several reasons for why he did this when I confronted him. I told him to leave the neighborhood kids alone or he'd be in prison. A year later my son told me another man gave him the creeps. He wore a Metro Mobility Cab Driver uniform & was always handling $1 bills to the neighborhood kids. He also had different video game sets which he invited kids to come over & play. This is where my son didn't feel comfortable & I told him he had good instincts. He had his own video games, & his friends. A man didn't invite kids in to play video games. One afternoon I had the urge to call my son to see what he was up to. He & some friends were going to the corner store. I asked him w what money? He said the creep had given all the kids $1 & him $5 bc of good grades. I told him NO. I told him to give the money back to the guy, tell him his mother told him to & to come home for a few mins to talk. I told him he wasn't in trouble. When he came home he said the guy was disappointed & asked him to come in, but he said he had to get home. I told him he did good & his instincts were correct, the guy is creepy & explained how he's baiting the kids. Just as the guy in the window was bad news, so is this one. He understood & as I let him go outside, I went & spread the warning to other parents. I'm proud of this mother for turning her father in law in. When I was 14 & finally told my mother, she asked me if my adopted father should leave or stay! 🙀😿😾😷
As a survivor of SA therapy and prayer works but the damage that is done is never erased. It is a stain that lives in you forever. Your stolen innocence can never be recovered and there’s nothing anyone can do to make it better. Not a damn thing.
I am sooo blessed I had an amazing respectful grandpa!! He gave us everything and respected us sooo much! When we were going through our teenage years and started wanted to dress differently he would get soo mad if he saw us with inappropriate clothes he’d yell go cover up right now, and my grandma would tell him leave them alone but we respected him enough that we’d go cover up! I absolutely adore my grandpa!! ❤️❤️ Poor baby girls will never know what it’s like having a grandpa like mine and that’s heartbreaking out grandpas are suppose to protect us!!! 🥺🥺🥺
God bless the two little girls who were scared and didn’t understand what was happening. They trusted their grandfather to protect and take care of them. Not use them for his own sexual gratification. But, trust and believe, it’s not just grandparents who do this. Uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, older friends of siblings, neighbors, etc. most people never tell their story until they are older and able to provide for themselves. Them, most often, they are not believed. God help us all.
I know first hand about how it feels to be violated by family members and I felt like it was my fault for the longest time and I was so disgusted with myself. I still to this day have a lot of mental issues from my experiences growing up with abusive family members.
Condolences for the others of you sharing your personal experiences in the comments. In my close family I grew up with a full handful of Brothers and no sisters. All of us that have married and had children made girls. We are so fortunate to be in such a safe family environment. None of our children and nieces have had to have these experiences. Bless you all victims. It makes me sad.
As a man. I am proud to say I singlehandedly raised my daughter while mom partied away and Department of Children's suddenly showed up with her on my door step when she was six. The thought of this makes me want to puke because as a man this never crossed my mind and actually grosses me out. My daughter had dozens of girls sleep over. I made damn sure a minor never saw me in skimpy clothing or barefooted even. Never cursed or was high or intoxicated in their presence. I see lots of families claiming this crime here, which is practically the worse crime imaginable besides murder. I'm damn proud to say there are many good decent men too. My condolences to those families who experienced this tragedy. I am a damn proud grandpa of two today who worship me so much at times I hae to tip toe to the kitchen cause I ain't got the energy they ask of me 24-7....Hell, why am I writing this? Guess this video and comments pissed me off..My point is...there are some good men... that's all, nuff said
I've never known of a man that wears skimpy clothes lol you're funny and obviously a good man a good grandpa and you were a great dad and still are I'm quite sure of that because if you weren't a good dad your daughter wouldn't be bringing her children around you.
My mom didn’t believe me!! I tried telling her from the age of 6 on, but she stuck up for him and said things like, “Why would he want you over me?” She thought I was trying to ruin their marriage….3rd stepdad…😒 I ended up in foster care for a bit, I moved back home, and she let him move back in. After she had enough of him beating on her she had him arrested. They went to court and he was charged with kidnapping her, beating her, raping her etc and my mom asked me why I wasn’t crying for her at the trial and I told her she got what she deserved!!! After that, he tried breaking into the house, but I ran to the sliding glass door with the biggest knife we had and I told him if he comes in I was going to stab him to death. Cops were called, and they caught him. He was impersonating an electrician and they found things in his duffel bag that showed his intention of causing serious harm to all of us….maybe, even death. The cops had the nerve to tell me that I could’ve got in trouble for using a knife to hurt him and that I should’ve used a frying pan or something, to which I responded I wanted him dead, and I wouldn’t care if I went to jail. I was 14. The nightmare of what that monster, and his brother, did to me no longer haunts me. I talk about it freely to anyone who’ll listen. It’s made me one of the strongest people I know, and I’m proud to feel that way. After years and years of therapy (that I put myself through) because she didn’t believe anything happened to me, I learned to not only forgive those monsters, I forgave my mom. It took 30+ years for her to admit that what she did was wrong. Therapy taught me that it’s hard for some women to accept that the man they chose to love her and her children was capable of such atrocities. It makes these types of women feel guilty and they try to hide the truth because it means they’ve made a bad decision and they couldn’t accept it. My life was a mess. I ran away more times than I can count, but my mom always let me come home. We’d argue, and I’d fly off the handle…I’d throw dishes at the wall, broke down my door, put holes in the wall, kicked in the front door, and hit my mom when she tried to discipline me. I was in such a bad place. At 17, I met a family who changed my life completely when I met a family who took me in. I kept my distance from the dad, but the mom became my hero. I loved her more than anything in the world. She taught me what it felt like to be loved as a daughter, and showed me what a loving family looked like. I was only there for a year, but her love and support changed the trajectory of my life. I wouldn’t be the woman I am today, and my boys wouldn’t be the amazing young men they are today. I used the love, Anne showed me to build the kind of life I deserved. My mom and I now have a wonderful relationship. I don’t feel uncomfortable telling her I love her, and I do feel she’s devastated that she didn’t believe me. Sidebar note: when I was being questioned by the police, I was able to give distinguishing details about their genitals that would’ve only been known if someone saw it. My foster parent’s motto was, “Shoot first, ask questions later!” God bless the men and women reading this message and know you’re not alone. Know you had nothing to do with their abuse. Put the disgust on them, they’re the ones who deserve it. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I told my mom I was molested by my female cousin, i was 7/8 when it happened. I FINALLY got to a point at 30, to tell my moms, she called me “crazy and it didn’t happen.” I laughed bc my moms use to hang out with her like BFF’s and she couldn’t get passed HER relationship with her, to HEAR her sons issues. Fast forward now… me and her relationship is STILL soured. She didn’t crack around that time and cared more about that drug more then the safety of her kids. It’s crazy things like this has happened to so many people. No matter the color. I pray peoples get to a place of healing and can push on forward. It can happen. Feel your feels and stand tall ✊🏿 ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻
This is a horrific crime. It destroys people’s lives. I am glad that you highlight it on your channel. Most channels focus only on horrific murders because I guess they get more views, but it is very brave to post this kind of crime. This awful behaviour (lets be honest, mainly perpetraated by men as result of not viewing women as human beings equal to men) must stop.Everyone should be aware of the lasting damage these predators cause.
I'm always impressed with how patient the detectives are when interviewing these clowns. I wouldn't have lasted 10 minutes in that room with him. Back the blue! 💙
My wife is Hispanic and we’ve been together for about 12 years. I can tell you from my experience that when you accuse a Hispanic person of lying when they didn’t, they will absolutely flip out. They raise their voice, get very animated and will defend themselves furiously. Again this is just my experience with my wife and her family but watching his reaction to this “shocking news” doesn’t line up with what I’ve seen from most Hispanic people. I’m not trying to make this racial I’m just giving my experience as someone who’s been around Hispanic people a lot. They’re very proud and would be extremely offended if they were accused of something this bad and they were innocent.
As a parent I never could understand why families don't believe the kids!! If either of mine ever said someone did something , that person better watch the fuck out because I'm coming for you. I could care less who it is! So happy this wasn't the case!
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Where are the evidence?
@@proudmen1220 victim blaming is not tolerated here sir.
Two children lost their innocence…THAT IS THE EVIDENCE.
Ewww.
Seek help.
Thanks for an amazing job as always!
Some heroes wear capes, some wear scrubs and some expose evil on TH-cam! 🙌
@@proudmen1220 It's where 'is' the evidence. The evidence is the testimony of his grandaughters...
J
I told my mom I was being molested by my step father at age 14. She didn’t believe me and did nothing. Then at 17 I started my first day of therapy, told my therapist, and he was arrested that day. To say it messed me up is an understatement. It’s nice to see this mother actually did something about it!
I'm so sorry you had to endure that.
I'm sorry she didn't believe you. Being ignored by a parent or an adult is why these abusers keep abusing. May I ask, did your mom believe you after he was arrested?
This is absolute terrible. I'm so sorry and can't imagine what you have gone through
The fact no one needs a “license to parent” is just, uhm, just, backwards? Wrong? Fucked up? So many things.
Every parent should have to sign off and become a mandated reporter before they leave the hospital with their newborn.
The ONE THING I thank the heavens above every night when I clock into shift as an RN that I am a mandated reporter is a god send to me, simply put, with ONE CALL, I can potentially end a child’s suffering through a thorough investigation is worth it to me.
PS…
Your mom has her own karmic hell awaiting her…believe that and wait on it…it’ll come. ;)
That is sad to hear. What does your mom say now
My daughter who is 14 now came out about her grandfather (my husband's father) molesting her. I never once doubted her and went to the police immediately. My husband was leaving me because he was in denial wanting me to drop the charges. But to me it didn't matter, no matter how much I loved him, my children will always come first.
Edit: I didnt know what was happening because my guard was put down. You'd think your child would be safe being around their own family. I'm not trying to sound like a super hero. I just know some parents keep quiet to protect others other than their own children.
Every mother should treat this horrible crime the way you did. I hope your daughter is doing better and u momma bear are a treasure. I'm happy she has you as a mom. Never stop fighting. Good job mom.
Thank you.
PEGGY SUE, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. YOUR DAUGHTER IS BLESSED TO HAVE A MOTHER LIKE YOU! YOUR HUSBAND WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH HIS CHOICE. WHICH HE WILL REGRET!!
@@sarafreeman5073 I'm reading under this video of all the little girls whose mothers didn't believe them. Isn't that sad this is the least we can do for our daughters. For fucks sake. This particular crime makes me so damn angry.
@@fallyneprinciotta9058 I can't believe some of these so call mothers. To not believe your child when they tell you someone is abusing and molesting them. It is disgusting. It reminds me of the many many children who were abused and molested by a lot of Catholic Priest. They told their parents, but they didn't want to believe it was true. So they kept silent. Which caused many more children to be molested. NOTE! It happens in all churches not just the Catholic church. Just to be clear not knocking the True Catholic Faith at all.
Parents who don't believe their kids when informed of abuse need to take note.
It’s the most sensible to believe children. Kids don’t just make up stuff like that.
*need to be shot.
I fixed it for you.
@@DVD927 Kids can be coursed into making false statements. That's why the experts need to assess all who are involved in each and every scenario.
@@ke9988 it can be very obvious sometimes tho esp when there is a clear motive to make them lie (divorce)
@@DVD927 ummm kids can be told they were abused and they might belive they were. Also especially teenage children will say things not true to punish a parent for something they are upset about. But I get what u mean a kid says something u got to look into it. But you cant just assume something especially in messy divorces or break ups. I know this video isnt that but you cant just assume someone guilty purely off of their words. My cousin kid ran into her moms hand that had a cigarette in there hand. Cps was called, which is understandable, but when they interviewed her alone. She said she wasn't being fed was homeless and on the run from the cops. And my first thought is how is this 6 year old coming up with this. You want to believe them, why would they make that up? How especially that young but the truth is nothing Close to that. She wasn't mad at her mom...... but she still said those things. this guy deserves to be buried under the jail but just saying kids don't equal truth.
How this absolute monster isn’t in prison for life is disgusting. He’s “supervised” but out and living life. What a travesty on behalf of the justice system. Those poor girls, my heart goes out to them. He’s a monster.
Today people like him considered victims more than the real victims what evidence do they need? If he was a redneck he would be in prison even if he deny the charges. They would have believed the poor girls, especially if they described in details what has happened to them. But hey he is more important. No wonder those girls don’t speak out.
Disgusting indeed!! No justice for these girls
Statute of limitations. Only certain things could probably be charged. In my state unwanted touching like molestation is 3 years from the time of the incident that it can be charged. All depends on what they can prove and charge.
It's not what you know it's what you can prove.
@@billyyank5807 Doesn't change the fact that that waste of oxygen would be better off in a cell for the rest of his life
This country doesn’t take crimes against children or women seriously. It’s as if sex crimes are still downplayed because half of this country is still puritanical and doesn’t want to face that people are being victimized this way. Child molesters and rapists don’t stop even after being caught and spending a short time in prison. Child molestation and rape actually murders the victims soul - it’s a life sentence for the victims. The perpetrators should serve the same sentence.
Being abused as a child has affected me my whole life. These girls being abused by their own grandfather is so vile and disgusting. I hope they get all the help they need❤
I hope you do, too, JB, it's never too late. Bless you in your healing. ❤️🙏
Sending you & yr family many blessings from God & the bottom of my heart💗
I hope one day you can move forward with a healthy mindset. I refused to let my abuser control my entire life mentally. You too can move forward and love life. Keep the faith and find forgiveness. You deserve a beautiful life sweetheart ❤
So sorry this happened to you
Juli-Bean - I’m terribly sorry you were victimized this way. You are serving a life sentence as a victim - the perpetrators should get them same punishment as you’ve had to bear. Sending you light and love. 💕
I can't even imagine being that grandmother. If my husband did something like that he'd better hope the police showed up to save him.
I emphatically agree
Pentecostal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Disgusting.
I wouldn't even call any cops ....that would definitely be handled in my family by my family cause I don't think the system brings the proper judgement and I can't take the chance of them droping the ball and him only getting life in prison they don't know my family don't care about my family BUT BELIEVE THAT I DO 👿
@@maryault8928 Some of us wished that our own would have had half your courage.
He’s in his 70s… this just didn’t suddenly come upon him. This is who he is. Can’t help people like this. Death penalty for all child abusers
He got 10 years of probation.
@@Colicab83 jeez talk about putting the cat among the pigeons .
@@Colicab83 great! That’ll teach him a lesson…
@@angelaburroughs4584 I know right?! How pathetic
@@Colicab83 America is such a joke omg
People that know about child SA, like this grandmother, and do nothing should be charged with child endangerment and neglect.
They should be charged with the same charge as him and have and actually be judge harsher . She willing let him hurt those two girls and could have stopped it .
@@bltn7469 can we apply the same logic to gang bangers. If you can prove that there parents were aware of there lifestyle they could have stopped other people being victims to there children.
I agree
They are just as culpable. 💔
@@username-tv6uw not the same when dealing with adults. Children need protection.
I'm 21. When I was 19 my mom made a joke about the time my oldest brother "supposedly molested me" when I was 4-6. (he was 18 at the time) I was shocked and in that moment realized I didnt remeber anything from that period of my life. I asked my dad and he affirmed I had told them that when I was younger but neither believed me. I started going to therapy and began recovering chunks of memories. Ive always doubted myself since I csnt remeber or recall anything actually happening. Then last week that brother showed up at my dads house for a family dinner. It was the first time I had seen him since he got arrested when he was 19 (unrelated) He refused to make eye contact with me or even aknowledge my existance. You could feel his guilt. In that moment I realized something had absolutley happened. I'm still processing and trying to deal with it. Parents if your kids EVER say something is going on- BELIEVE THEM.
You suppressed the memories as a way for your psyche to protect you! The last time he was around you were when you told so he naturally is remembering what he did and you bravely telling once he seen you again! The memories may begin to come back to you as you continue to see him or your own psyche feels you can now handle it!
"my mom made a joke about my molestation"
They really "joke" about that huh? Ever think that maybe they just told you that for whatever reason? "Suppressed" memories are increasingly catching flak because some believe purported negative memories to be simply the power of suggestion, especially when it comes from an age range where most people dont remember what happened to them at that age (like 4-6 years old).
Not saying this didnt happen but there have been lots of situations where someone doesnt remember any molestation, it gets suggested as having happened to them, and the mind starts creating faulty memories based on that suggestion and people think its legitimate because it gets validated by a therapist even though the therapist is not really in a position to either deny or confirm such abuse occurred. Its problematic for sure and I know because I spent a lot of time wondering why I couldn't remember anything from my childhood and leapt to the conclusion that I had been molested even though I had no memories of it or any clue as to who would do it.
@@StainsStainsStains well I guess that's possible. I was speaking off my own experiences tho. I very much knew I was molested and who all did it but after I was no longer around the people for years and became grown, once I seen them I went into a state of uncomfortablness, then as time went on vivid memories I had blocked out about it came back at once and on top of my other cousin trying to rape me after a night of partying with his woman and she stopped him while I was passed out drunk on their couch! I start spiraling! Even things that weren't sexual but were traumatic begin coming back! I even finally remembered why I wouldn't cry for years, I was about 5 and hurt myself, my big brother begin to always tell me not to cry and that I was alright to comfort me but that's why anytime I was sad I told myself that till I just stop crying all together. I think God is just answering my prayers to heal, forgive, be set free and move forward in life! I cry now and stopped telling myself that but I had forgotten those words came from him. When my son died I just kept saying them and was told to stop saying it, they asked why I wouldn't just let myself cry and it finally came back why.
@@StainsStainsStains I hope it didn't happen to her but that's weird her parents would say and do that! I'm just hoping it isn't a matter of deep blocking. Children can be coerced and take on memories that didn't happen so you are absolutely right!
@@mahoganysweets67 I’m very sorry that happened to you. Terrible thing to endure.
Why do all these older abusers suddenly act like they are feeble and have dementia when they get caught. Ugh it’s so frustrating.
Because it works. You should see my sperm donor turn into a weepy, tottering, "I'm a veteran!" feeble old man the second there's anyone around who might witness or stand up to his abuse. Once the door is closed behind the person he can't control that mask comes RIGHT off.
Look what the Golden State killer did. Acting like a feeble old man with dementia rolling into court in a wheelchair & his neighbor said it was total BS.
he was also playing the "I no speaka the good english" card at first. then when they got him all worked up it wasnt that bad
@@NoMoreHeroesAnymore1334 you should dump that fool
You seriously need to ask why they do that?
I've never seen someone with entirely selective dementia before. He absolutely remembers that he never did anything but he doesn't remember anything else. Remarkable!
He confused dimentia with diabetes.
Exactly!
I suspect he has selective understanding of English too.
Well, to be fair, he has had 30+ years to adjust to his diagnosis lmao
Well, I don’t remember a lot, but I would definitely know that. This is sickening. Horrible. Sad
I feel so lucky I was born into a family that wasnt sick & twisted. I cant imagine if my grandpa did this to me. He was my hero & I loved him until the day he passed away. He was a great man.
Me to! It would have literally killed me if my dad or grandpa did this to me!
Would have ruined me 😢
Me too, my grandpa died when I was 11, I’m 32 now and there isn’t a day when I don’t think about it. I still miss him
There's definitely sick stuff in every family.. you just don't know about it.
@@d3l3tes00n oh yea def!! I say that all the time unfortunately
I must have have been pretty sheltered. The 1st time I heard about that kind of abuse happening in the immediate family I was shocked & sickened.
It just never occurred to me that such thing existed.
My father died 3 years ago knowing he should have gone to prison for 3 of us. This crap happens a lot more than people realize.
Absolutely true
I'm so sorry for your pain sweetie 😘
It sure does. My father only did it to the middle child. Cause my younger sister and I were quite outspoken, unlike our sister who was quite.
My dad took his life a few months ago.
Telling me months before this, that he was sorry, and he shouldn't have drunk soo much. All i heard was him say, was selectively owning up to stuff. But blaming the alcohol. Ughh.
Was too late, as far as I was concerned. He was apologising to the wrong child. But they both passed many years ago to cancer.
I guess the guilt got him in the end. Mum found him hanging. He knew she'd find him.
That's a cross she has to carry. Cause she never did anything about it either. Never kicked dad out, nor protected us.
She protected him. Pfft
@@jaggirl I'm so sorry for you, and your sisters. My mom was exposed to that sort of thing, but she claimed that he never molested her. It was just the older daughters, who were young teens. It permeates the entire family though, because my grandmother didn't have the chance to leave him, with 14 children. There were no womens help centers available, and being a divorcee back then, was like having a Scarlet letter on your chest! My mom struggled with it for the rest of her life, and I''m sure my Aunts were traumatized as well. This was all back in the 1940's, so they were poor.
He answered to God, on his judgment. He is getting what he deserved.
I’m convinced that molestation within families is an epidemic. Lots of children suffer at the hands of their family members. 😢 It is a pitiful shame.
It's amazing that the other family members are often complicit.
That is why I get so pissed off with QNon and all. They use these abuses as their political sword against trans/gays etc but don't give a shat that this going on in their family, neighborhood, community, and even the very people they call friends or righteous warriors.
@@morphergaming0531 huh? What? I am pretty unfamiliar with Qnon or whatever it’s called. But I am not sure a group would be ok with one way but not the other.
@@morphergaming0531 What? That type of stuff is extremely prevalent among those people and always has been. They are right. Show me any shred of evidence that this happens in the majority of normal families. One study or one statistic.
@@salvagemonster3612 ever heard of NAMBLA ?
After my kid told me about my brothers abuse I worked with the police to do a recorded phone call. Seeing how this guy basically got away with it I'm glad I made that call. One of the hardest and best things I've ever done. NOTE: It took years of therapy for most of the story to come out. We only knew a fraction of the story at the time of the call so he got away with some of the worst things. He's on the registry for life in any case.
Sending you & yr family many blessings from God & the bottom of my heart💗
I just pray for these girls. I’m 53 and things that happened to me when I was 7 and 8 have severely affected me all my life. It is a terrible thing to carry.
9 for me and you're so right...
@@pickledragonrebel I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this as well. Sending hugs and prayers for health and peace in your life.
@@gesundheit602 and to you and yours also....
@@gesundheit602I only remember my SA starring at age 6, maybe before this age. I'm 49 now, and been in therapy most of my adulthood. I had several molesters(monsters). Including my stepfather, who also touched his own daughter's. When I told my mother she decided to believe him and sent me to live with my grandparents. At least there I was safe. But the damage was already done. Bless you for sharing, as well as you Annabella dragonlady. The best thing I can do is protect as many children as I can by believing them when they confide in me.
I am so sorry!!! 💔
I was molested by my stepfather in the 1960's and was brushed aside. Mother married the molester. I ran away from home age 16 and didn't see my mother again till I was 50.
Videos like this bring it up for me because it never leaves you. In my story mother and molester are long dead now.
I hope you found some peace finally. Bless you. 💖
I’ll keep my specifics to myself, but I can relate and I’m very sorry that happened to you
That is so sad! Sorry you went through that and didn’t have the support from the ONE person who should have protected you!
Did your mom believe you when you saw her at age 50 again? I hope she holds some kind of accountability
We believe in you. God bless you 🙏🏻 🙌🏻
:)
The amount of people in these comments opening up about similar experiences to this story breaks my heart. It’s worse that many of them remain unheard or unbelieved. My heart goes out to everyone who has suffered in this way. Also kudos to this mother and other parents who listen to their children when they open up about abuse. It’s better to be safe than sorry, and a little bit of listening and investigating can go a long way. It might even save your child’s life! Hopefully more people realize that soon enough. If any of you reading this comment have suffered due to SA or abuse, know that you are strong and worthy of love and justice. You’ve got this shit!! 💜
I love your statement. It's compassionate and deeply empathetic. Thank you.
Thank you.
You're an angel! .😇
It changes you forever. You can never get the innocence back...than u suffer as a adult......... 😮💨😪
Thank you for your incredibly kind and understanding comment! I'm a survivor of childhood domestic violence and SA (told my mum about the SA when I was 15) with my non-biological father being my abuser (I actually thought he *was* my biological father until I came out about the abuse, that's when he himself told me that he wasn't... and that's when he tried to manipulate me into saying I was lying).
My mum believed me, thankfully. She took me to the police and I gave them my story... sadly, that's the last of the good news I have because they dropped the whole case due to "lack of evidence".
However, I guess another form of "Good news" (depending on how you look at it) is that he died this year. He had a whole range of physical and mental health issues and he was very much alone. It's been several months since his death and I still don't know how I feel about it. On one hand, I'm very happy he can't hurt anyone else any more, but on the other, I feel like my chance to confront him one day has been taken away from me - not that it would have mattered if I'd have had that chance anyway, he developed dementia in the later years of his life, but still. I mostly just feel nothing about his death, or him as a person.
I'm 31 now and I put off getting mental health help until now. I'm on a wait list for a specialist councillor and I'm going to be speaking to other therapists about other mental health issues I have while I wait. It's been a long, long journey but I'm finally arriving at a destination I would like to explore more.
Abuse really does stay with you forever and although I believe I've coped well up to now, I still feel incredibly vulnerable and broken. Logically, I know I'm not, but that's one thing I hope to understand more in my therapy sessions.
My heart really does go out to everyone else in the comments section too, I really wouldn't wish anything like this on anyone.
I was abused by my next door neighbor. I ran back home and told my mom and sister. Nothing was done about it and I blocked it out until I was 17 and a counselor asked me. The neighbor that molested me his sister always hated me and would tell me I was ugly and watch me cry as a little girl. These were adult people. Then when I was 48 my mom died and my abusers sister sent a card to the house expressing her condolences and addressed the card by writing out each person's name in my family but left my name out. My own sisters after knowing what my abuser did decided to be Facebook friends with him. Breaking ties with my family has been the best. I'm finally safe
I couldn't finish watching the video because the comments tore me up...so many hurt people. I thank all of you for giving me a glimpse into your lives. You remind me of the need to kind. God bless everyone who relates to this story.
The friend of my father molested me when I was 5 when I told to my dad, he invited him for dinner after the meal my dad called me and asked me to tell him in the front of this man what he did to me.
The mansaid that I was lying so my dad smacked him and told him that a child of 5 years don't know about these things so I did not lie that he was the lies.
He gave him a good beating and ask him to never talk to me nor anyone of my family.
The man spend couple of hours at the hospital to be stitched back but he never said who did this to him.
I never saw this shit of man again, my dad trusted me and this help me to not be traumatise by what happened to me.
So glad your dad gave him what he deserved the sick animal.
He gave him dinner?
@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree yes he did, he welcome him and made him feel welcome.... My dad enjoyed the deception, he trusted this man and this shit betrayed him so my dad took his time, feed him drunk with him and then confronted him... I really thought that my dad did not believe me when he invited him but I knew after the beating that all this was part of my dad game.
@@lilithst2340 I hope your dad reported him & it was documented that he sexually abused you to hopefully stop him abusing more children; and I'm glad your dad confronted him in front of you so you knew he believed you, and you knew he was a safe person to tell things to; that's a huge thing for a child knowing that they are supported 100% by their parent/s.
Should have turned him I too. It would have stopped that thing hurting other kids, I'm sure you weren't the only one then or now. Stay strong.
This is a horrific crime and we get to see a little glimpse of how detectives work the accused. Thank you for posting. This channel never ceases to amaze me.
Amen!!
There's countless programs that show what actually happens in an investigation, but I think this one is by far one of the most fucked up one I've seen in a long time. Monsters do exist
I think it says a lot to the professionalism of the detectives that they can talk to somebody like this who I know in their hearts they think is a monster but they treat them cordially and with respect in order to get his interrogation.
@@cameronrobinson3933 I’ve always thought this, too. I’m sure it helps to know that criminals can squirm out of a lot of charges they deserve if detectives don’t do the interrogation exactly by the book. Definitely takes a special individual to do that job.
@@cameronrobinson3933 oh he’s not the worst these detectives have encountered 🙄. Y’all are true crime aficionados and you know you’ve seen detectives play nicely with disgusting monsters
I grew up in a family FULL of men like this! Back in the day- we told but we weren't believed. Then they asked our abuser and he said no. They will never admit it and the people who enable them will continue to- trust me. My abuser works at a catholic school as a janitor- I saw in the local newspaper he got employee of the year. smh
Absolutely nauseating..
Seeing as offending priests just get moved to different church's/send on paid vacation (they literally said a priest near where I live "got a promotion"), sounds like the pos is among friends.
I’m sorry this happened to you and how awful to see this piece of filth in the newspaper. Hope you have lots of happiness ahead.
I know how you feel but my own mother didn't even ask me about it until I was in my late 20's and said that she still wasn't sure I was telling her the truth!!!!...it's hard to deal with as a child but to not be believed later on in life is even worse!!!... I hope you're doing well and have an amazing life!!.. 💖🥰
This monster reminds me exactly of my father he molested me From the time I was 3 years old up till I was 11 and when I got older i Ran away. I told my mother about it and she did not believe me she was an addict and couldnt care less. Then when I was an adult and married with my own kids she had the nerve to call me up and tell me that she was getting counseling for him molesting me I could not believe it she never even asked me if it affected me God I hated her and him my biggest regret was not turning him and her in. I hope they're both rotting in hell right now.
I had suspicions about my stepdaughter (9 years old at this time) being molested by her biological father, I encouraged my wife to talk to her in a very sensitive manner and she did several times over the next 2 years and my stepdaughter said no over and over then when she was 17 she broke down and said he had been molesting her, it was so sad and I just wish there was more we could have done (I even confronted him back when I first suspected, just told him if he did ANYTHING to hurt her it would end badly for him). But he’s finally paying the price and I know he’s not anyone’s favorite inmate.
My stepdaughter is now married and has a little girl of her own.
I wish more kids had someone in their life like you ❤
Sending you & yr family many blessings from God & the bottom of my heart💗
You are such a good (step)dad ❤️❤️ don’t ever forget
@@Bootyjuice.. Thanks, kids don't always seem to realize lol...
You’re not her step dad you’re her DAD, every child needs a father like you in their life, even if it didn’t help right away you cared enough to try
This is a case of a dad standing up to his father, all for the safety of his kids. Let's not discount the value of a dad in the household. Grandma couldn't stop him, it took another man, his own son, to put an end to this abuse... Real Fathers Matter✌🏾
It usually the fathers committing the assault ✌🏼
@@davidEFF That wouldn’t be a real father though.
🤣
So many people don't have a man in the household and if they do it's generally the one that's abusing them. A lot of men will seek out women with children so they can abuse them they're not interested in the woman they're interested in child. That's fine when I was dating men I never told him anything about me having children it was none of their concern. Unless I intended on having a long-term relationship. I never talk about my children to anyone it's another business and they are adults now. I don't trust people concerning my children I don't let them know anything personal about my children I never did I never told anybody if I'd girls boys I never told them their ages nothing
@@patriciapadilla2022 so if there‘s a man in the household it‘s generally the one who is abusing the children and also a lot of men will seek women with children to abuse them? That‘s complete BS! Get your sentences straight please! Most men are not abusers! That‘s ridiculous.
A 70 year old man doesn't just start doing that. How many other victims does he have? He needs an interpreter imo.
That’s a good point. An old man doesn’t wake up one day and say “I’m going to start molesting kids.”
This vile disgusting pos doesn’t need a interpreter he suffers from self inflicted selective memory I can’t believe he got off...I’m sure if the cops had the resources they would look.deep into his past history and locations to find more victims,everybody in his community knows about it those poor kids,the grim reaper awaits his arrival....
Yes, they should have absolutely got a Spanish speaking detective
Probably dozens…
@@amandarodriguez1605 I need an interpreter. Either speak Spanish or English.
I will never understand this level of evil.
I truly agree as well and personally can't comprehend why a man or anyone period can do something so atrocious, and despicable as well. If I had the authority, I'd for sure would castrate every damn man, and pedophile who does this to children etc.🤞
It makes no sense to me either.
I think it goes to show molesters don’t operate with a normal brain. Something is fundamentally wrong with them .
Its very often generational, learnt behaviour. Children who grow up in abuse can sometimes become desensitised & see it as a norm they model & repeat. Or, they repeat it to take back their lost power & avoid their victimhood. ( I did child psychology for mt teaching degree)
The sickening betrayal,of two little girls,by their own grandfather.There is no redemption,for that.No punishment is enough.
Millstone around his neck
100% agree
Oh he will get punished in prison that's for sure.
buried alive with some spiked food to give them hope to live so theyll have so suffocate after dealing with laxatives and rat poison
"When you hang from a gibbet at your window for the sport of your own crows, then I will have peace with you"
My mother never believed me. I’m glad to see there are some parents out there that will do something for their kids
HUGSlove
It's amazing how frequently guilty people slide "church" into interrogation conversations.
The majority of crimes committed are by the religious and mostly christians.
That’s because they’re false prophets, really demons.
The same reason so many famous serial killers were involved in churches, they think it makes them look innocent, unfortunately it puts a bad taste in the mouths of many because they hear these stories and associate it with God which is far from His character and 100% against what the Bible teaches
I was sexually abuser from 4 to 12 by my grandfather, he sexually abused my mother as a child as well. It causesd a lot of issues in my life from hating my mother to men to having major PTSD etc. He was a monster who got 18 months for what he did to me while I got a life sentence. Many people ask me why I had a hard time with my mom, I am a mother and I would never put my child alone with someone who hurt me like that. Its taken me years to forgive her.
God bless you❣️ I am so sorry!!! 💔
@Tina K....I was sexually abused as my brothers were but I was too small to remember....now in my late 60's and remembering bits by bits..doctor says my brain protected me by not remembering...my grandfather abused his 9 daughters too..my mom must also have been abused but never told us and didn't protect us..,she passed away before I remembered anything..but I'm sure my grandfather had been abused himself....why should a grown person abuse a young child when there are so many women around...what is it about a child that turns them on??? Doesn't make sense to me..
I went through something similar. Grandpa got nearly all the grandkids and all of his own kids. He was accused several times but theyd claim "they dreamt it up." I do not let anyone, not even family babysit. My kids are the first ones in our family who arent severely abused. They were never allowed alone with him and I had to guard the freaking bathroom so my kid could pee in their home the few times my kid met him. It is rough rebounding from generations of trauma. I didnt cry when he died. It has been 12 years since he died. It still effects the whole family.
I don’t understand how a someone would let their kid be around their former abuser. Like these depraved shitheads wont jump on the opportunity again.
Hopefully you’re with a complex-trauma informer therapist who knows what CPTSD is and not just PTSD. My mom raped my from age 5-10 and I’m 43 and just stated treatment about a year ago. Her abuse caused a unique mental illness and I’ve got a great mental health team, but still in treatment 4-5x a week for it. I hope you’re all doing well ❤️
I used to live in an apartment with my 5 and 6 year olds. Above us was a woman, her daughter and her boyfriend. We could hear the little girl crying at night and begging someone " no, no please don't). I called the cops, they went upstairs and came back by my door and said, we talked to the parents and everything is fine. They didn't see or talk to the little girl!! I was beyond mad and very concerned, couldn't sleep all night. The next morning the cops were knocking on my door, wanted to know if I had seen the upstairs neighbors. Turns out that he was wanted and they didn't bother to run his name the night before. They had packed up what they could and left in the middle of the night. I've often wondered how that little girl is doing now that she's grown.
She’s dead, buried in a shallow grave.
If you could hear it through the walls, I personally would of videoed the whole thing. Called the police, then hand over the video to the police for them to investigate what the hell was going on!
Probably still too quiet and hard to catch in the moment. The police clearly didn’t care, the video/audio I doubt would have made a difference. Most people wouldn’t have even bothered to call the cops. She literally tried everything
Was this in Orlando Floridas?!? Bc I have a VERY similar story
Omg
This guy is 70 years old!!!! I doubt these 3 young people are his only victims! This monster has left at lest 50 years of victims in his wake! 🤬
It’s so wonderful that their parents believed them AND did something about it.
My father molested me as a little girl until I was 12. I am sorry we had to go through this experience ! Love y'all...🥀❤️🥀❤️🥀
i'm so sorry that happened to you. you didn't deserve it. i hope you got away from him.
Sorry that happened to u. Happened in my home to my daughter at 15 by my ex husband . I immediately called cops no question asked because it happened to me n my sis growing up with many family members , generations curse in my family with molestation smh. Once again sorry it happened to u because me my daughter spent a lot of time in therapy
❤❤❤❤I am so sorry this happened to you, too. I pray that we all can heal.. one day.❤❤❤
Loved how there was ZERO hesitation on the detective's part when asked "Do you think at my age I would do this?".
A man in his eighties offered to buy a woman's six year old daughter for $150k outside a local Walmart last month. A man his age would absolutely do that.
52:02
"Do you t-"
"YES." 👁👄👁
@@AnotherWittyUsername. to me it just goes with society’s mentality to “respect your elders” and such. As of elderly people are capable of committing crimes, being rude/crass, being perverted, etc. Yes, some elderly are vulnerable. But not all. I’ve met plenty through my job who were perverts and made me uncomfortable. I also think some elderly think they are (or should be) allowed to behave a certain way.
@@AnotherWittyUsername. Hell, *the case with Cherry Periwinkle....* That man was DISGUSTING his entire life too.
Having to lie is one thing, having to lie in a second language makes it all the more obvious. The poor victims have to live with this trauma their whole life
What does lying in a second language have to do with anything 🤔I'm confused 😕
Interesting take, I was thinking the same thing but from the opposite side. He could have not only played like he didn't understand everything in English but could have even used the brain injury that made him illiterate. He didn't though. I could be completely wrong but I have doubts about his guilt and this is part of my reason. Either way i feel terrible for this family because whether this is true or not there is obviously something splitting them apart.
@Zen Solipsist ...actually it is much easier "to lie in a second language" and even easier when a translator/ interpreter is involved...
@@maryault8928What I mean to highlight is the challenge of doing so. I can’t imagine the mental acrobatics that would be needed to pull it off. I imagine it’s like me having to lie to Japanese police with a basic level of grasp on the language. Your options are limited on what you can say to make your story make sense. I think the challenge itself makes lies much more obvious, and what we’re seeing in this interrogation is it going poorly. The variable itself carries a lot of weight during this interview. And I think it’s important to keep in mind when viewing this. Sometimes he isn’t thinking of a lie as much as just the right words to say and other times it’s extremely limited options to lie
@@tomasjosefvela1 he's a coward possessing an extremely selective memory portraying himself as a victim. Head injuries indeed have an impact in altering ones persona. Some become psychopathic serial killers just like the guy in Russia (will attach the link once I found it). However, no head injury ever made a pedophile. A pedophile is born not made. AND most pedophiles lack impulse control and become active child molesters.
Note: Pedophile and child molester isn't the same thing.
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I was molested by my maternal grandfather. I told my mom not to leave me alone with him. She asked me why. I told her he'd been touching me since I was an infant at that time I was 3 years old. She confronted him but he lied and told my mom that I was an evil liar and they both beat me. After she left he beat me some more and his abuse got worse. My mom hates me for telling her what her dad did.
I'm surprised your mother went unscathed from his sexual abuse... I'm so sorry you had to go through such living hell... Sending you much love and white light your way. 😘❤️
I am so sorry for you!! :-(
It's amazing at 3 you were able to recognize something inappropriate was even happening, that you had the ability to remember the abuse as an infant, 1 & 2 year old and that you had the verbal ability to tell your mom. So sorry they didn't believe you. I hope something was eventually done.
@Mandy 0827 some people remember their baby years. I do. I thought everyone could. But I've asked other people, and their real recollection starts around 5,6. So, yeah, I believe she remembers. I have very clear memories of being dreadfully sick in the hospital at 18 months. Procedures were done, and it was traumatic, and the memory is crystal clear, along with what the nurses were saying.
Forgive them,because we are all sinners capable of the worst evil. God loves all of us,from the best to the worst.just like a father loves all his children or at least he should. I adore all my children,even when their horrible. Also,they should be in prison and ask Jesus for salvation and ask for forgiveness and a new beginning. If not his punishment will be eternal
My own mother abused me. I didnt even remember until i was 19 years old. I was alone at work and just started thinking about some stuff and realized that it wasnt normal. I completely broke down. I realized that i could never do that to a child. I was living with her at the time. The shock and horror and disgust.... Ill never tell her i remember. Ill also never speak to her again.
I was molested by multiple people in my family including my 3 older brothers it started at age 7. To date it’s gone untold and unresolved this effects me in more ways than one. I don’t know where I would be today without my therapist
I bear witness to your pain! 💔I'm so sorry these things happened to you..I pray for your complete healing from that pain..❤I know I need therapy as well but I don't even try. I feel like once I start crying it won't ever stop..thus wasting that therapist time. To participate in therapy requires a bravery that I just don't have. Sending you all my love and prayers 💗🙏🏾
The Grandmother knew, she is complicit and as innately evil as he is.
It’s heartbreaking that he didn’t admit what he did to save the girls more trauma, and then after all that formal charges couldn’t be brought forward. That sickening old man doesn’t deserve his life. I’m a granny to a sweet trusting beautiful little soul and if anyone touched her and took her innocence, I think I’d kill them.
I am also a grandmother i KNOW i kill them!
That's a terrible idea because then granny would go to prison for murder.
"I hit my head and can't remember anything." Proceeds to tell his entire life story.
It's amazing how one's second language improves considerably when they're in denial, emotional, or want something. Freaking 10 years probibiation for a crime that could have got him life. He got off lucky there.
Exactly what I was thinking
When I tried to tell my parents at age 7 that my brother was abusing me, they told me I was demon-possessed and to go to my room and pray about my sins.
A part of me crawled back inside to a place so deep that I told no one else for over 40 years.
There were no phone numbers to call back then, no organizations available for children to go to where someone would actually LISTEN. I was a tiny little girl - much, much smaller than all of my classmates. (I had skipped ahead two grades but was smaller than average anyway.) So, when trying to tell my much-loved parents only left me in fear & confusion, I didn't know what else to do or where else to go. And when my oldest brother - my only protector - left for college, I cried harder than ever before. I hid myself away & pretty much gave up on anything that mattered to me - anything to draw as little attention to me as possible.
When I became a school teacher, I put up every poster, flyer, phone number, organizations, etc. that I came across so that students dealing with ANY kind of abuse had somewhere to turn to. But by far the most important thing I did was to just LISTEN. Eventually, I had students who weren't even mine coming to me - tearfully spilling out the most horrendous things. It was absolutely awful. But I could never ever turn a child or young person away, even if that meant sharing their heavy burdens. I wanted them to feel that they had at least one person in their corner who would fight for them.
Many times over those years, that brother would call me as a part of his AA 12- Step program; he tried over & over to apologize to me. But all I could do was to tell him it was a long time ago, to forget it and that I never wanted to talk or hear about it ever again. To me, it was best to just to leave it alone & in the past. (I wanted no part of it or him). Idk if that was the right thing to do but, for myself & the sake of my own family, it was the only thing I COULD do.
When I finally broke apart it wasn't pretty: repressing such intense emotions that I was unable to cope with as a child meant it had been festering my entire adult life. I won't go into details here; suffice it to say, that my husband figured it all out on his own. When I finally decided to "tell him", he said he had figured it out years ago.
When I asked him how (since I NEVER spoke of it to ANYONE), he simply said, "Melinda, you are the nicest person I know. But it's clear you hate your brother. REALLY hate him. I figured there had to be a pretty good reason."
He was right.
Their own grandfather ffs!?! I look at my nieces and nephews and feel such a fierce sense of protection over them, I just don't understand what thought process can lead to doing such things.
That's good, because my uncle used to come and get me out the bed while laying beside HIS daughter. Take me to the kitchen closet, give me junk food so he molest me, and you can't tell me his wife my AUNT (mom's sister) didn't know. I've blocked so much out that I can't even remember it all.
I'm So Sorry for anyone that has Suffered Abuse! My heart hurts for them! I hope Justice is Served!🙏🙏🙏🙏
He Got 10 Years Probation, Instead Of Life In Prison ? WTF ? 🤔
He obviously benefitted by not confessing, and by not showing any remorse... 😧
Absolutely f’d up justice system we have 💔🤬
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unfortunately the sad thing is, in a lot of cases of molestation, rape etc, unless the accusation is made immediately after the act and physical evidence is collected, there is no physical proof and it's very hard to obtain a conviction so the monsters get a way with it
@@Baysidemom2 20% of rape accusations are false.
He’s a disgusting old pig, 10 years probation is a joke. What’s wrong with the justice system ?
if you are innocent, ask for a lawyer. if you are guilty, ask for a lawyer.
Respect to his granddaughters for having the courage to stand up to this monster. Hopefully he received a very long sentence.
10 years probation . No conclusive evidence sadly .
He got away with it. The kids not.
This guys memory becomes miraculously great when it needs to be.
Exactly what I was thinking
I'm glad people listened. You'd be surprised how many parents blow it off. :(
I expect his karma will not be far behind him, should catch up very soon.
Chomos get put in protective custody so they dont get killed. They get to chill with all the other pedos
I'm sure there are very few parents that would blow this off. Especially now.
Karma isn't real.
Trust me, only the good are punished...
Bad deeds are always rewarded.
In my experience especially
My mom did. Her bf was actually on the registry..he even admitted he did it to me..she told me that we had to forgive him bc he was sick...I eventually told my sister who was in the middle east at the time serving the country...the cops came and got him..he wasn't supposed to be living with minors so it was an automatic parole violation , but he even admitted to the cops what he did..he got 18yr and was released after 14 in 2020. July 22nd 2022 h was raping a disabled woman..I will be in court to make sure he's not released
@@cookiesnruntz it happens everyday
And he pretty much just got away with it. That disgusts me! No justice was served and those girls were given a life sentence of trauma. That just makes me sick to my stomach.
I pray those girls are able to live happy, healthy lives and that God blesses them and their minds with peace & comfort.
My mom didn't believe me abd told me to repeat my story in front of him. He lied and said nothing happened. Told her i must have been dreaming. I was made to apologize to him....mere hours after it happened. I still felt him on me and still smelled like him. Months later I told my dad on one of his rare visits. He took my mom outside and talked to her. Then he left. No one said anything....I was punished by my mom for bringing it up to him. I told my aunt about 2 years later...she told me I should have beat him up..and left it at that. I brought it up again at 15...my mom beat me to a bloody pulp for mentioning it. I think I told a total of 10 ppl...all adults....no one did anything.
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What in the hell is wrong with these men?? I can’t imagine! Both of my grandad’s were loving and caring, my dad was an awesome dad, my uncles were excellent, my older brother’s were and are caring. I didn’t realize there’s so many screwed up men. Especially a grandfather to do this to his innocent little granddaughters & the grandmother knew about it!!😢. It’s heartbreaking. I hope these girl received the help they needed to overcome this trauma.
Well its not only men, there obvisoly are woman who have done same kind of things!
A lot of Hispanic men are very small and stature and for some reason they gravitate to little girls I guess they physically feel more comfortable because they are generally very inadequate and physical size so they like little girls. I am Hispanic and I am saying this because I've noticed that. And it has always bothered me it's like it's totally acknowledged within the Latin Community there are a lot of perverted Hispanic men. But there's also a lot of perverted Caucasian men there are a lot of perverted men in general.
You think this is shocking wait until you find out how many women do it, and how they get away with it far more easily.
Count your blessings
Thanks for the great content as always!!!
This man is a sicko to say the least. Those poor Grandkids
A grandfather in my town was found guilty of sexually abusing his grandchildren & the police officers were pretty horrified.
This is true in every city & town on the globe
I'd be in jail for sure
Well….yeah.
I can't believe I live in a world where molesters and predators are treated like human beings. They're beasts, worse than rabid dogs. 4-13? WTF
My mother was the type that would have beaten me, blamed me, and berated me if I had told her about my being abused. So I carry it with me, knowing it's too late to do anything. Some parents are simply more dangerous to tell about abuse.
When I suspected my daughter had been molested by my adult birthson (who visited the family almost every weekend as an adult), I spent thirty minutes calming down, arranged a signal to have it communicated to have him leave immediately if my suspicion was confirmed. It was confirmed, he left, and my 11-year-old daughter never saw him again. She's now 23, the same age he was when he molested her. He spent 10 years in prison. It's heartbreaking even now. Everyone has to live with this offense for the rest of our lives.
Dirty bastards everywhere its madness , sorry to hear you got no justice, God will punish that fucker accordingly 😊🤗
My grandfather molested me for years as well. On his death bed I asked him “WHY?” I got a “ IM SORRY” and I was fine with that cuz he never ever apologized for anything.. He died a week later. I then told my mother, his daughter , and she has yet to, ask me what happened.
Lisa 😢
Myrtle Beach 🏝 SC
'To me I didn't do that' He wants his wife to show up and cover for him as she always has. She is worse than him in my opinion! It's disgusting!
Not worse, but definitely just as horrible.
this is disgusting...The absolute worst kind of monster ..and if his wife knew then she is just as much if not more a monster
Agreed!
Absolutely
10 years probation?! youve got to be kidding me, that makes me furious
I recently made a formal complaint to the police about a man who molested me at 14 years old, I’m 59 now, I didn’t tell my parents at the time because I felt I wouldn’t have been supported or believed, I still feel the same!
The people who know these things are happening, and don't do anything to make it stop or help the victims, are just as disgusting as the offender.
Lock them both up!
“You’ve been diagnosed with dementia?”
“Yeah”
“How long ago?”
“I don’t know. I forgot”
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I laughed at that too…
wtf. seriously you can remember some things but not that. and he got off basically.
definitely something not right. he barely knew his birthdate and address. but he remembers what he claims he didnt do
I actually laughed at that as well. Haha.
i thought that was funny af
My stepfather molested me from age 11-14 but I didn't tell. I wasn't sure where we would go. When I was 15 my younger sister told me he was doing the same to her. I finally told my mom and she confronted him with us all in the room. He denied it and so did my sister (she was scared) My mom thought I was trying to ruin her marriage. I got my own apartment. It was 1978 so that was still possible.
OMG!!!!...Ya know as a survivor myself and my stepsister ( who got it so much worse ) this is exactly how a true monster reacts to being told they've been caught!!!!... my heart absolutely breaks for these young girls and their family!!!...my/our abuser was my own father!!!...the even sadder part is he only got probation and never went to jail!!!????.. unfortunately for mine the worthless piece of s**t was never charged but I'm very thankful that he died a lonely sad death and not found for days!!!... I hope and pray that these young girls will be able to move forward but again I know how difficult and long that road can be!!!!... they will forever be in my heart and thoughts!!!... ❤️🙏💖🇨🇦
Bless ya heart.
How do you know someone is a grape victim? They tell TH-cam comments for attention lmao
Bless you sweetheart , from ireland 🇮🇪 with love
Glad the piece of crap rotted like a piece of crap
So sorry for You and your sister. I hope he Burns in hell!
@@Nuttypro-f Not for attention, for awareness
Im from PR and we say always say "be careful". Its like saying "take care".
Back in the 60s, my stepfather molested me. I told my mom and her friend. I wasn’t believed. He told them that I had a nightmare. He abused me for a long time till I finally stood up for myself. I didn’t tell anyone. Back then you didn’t say anything to bring shame or embarrassment to your family. My mom finally divorced him when he turned to drugs and started carrying on with a neighbor. Eventually he got Parkinson’s disease and died. I was glad but still never said anything.
My sister SA'd me starting at the age of 5 until I was 11 and she moved out. I never told my parents. They sent me to stay with her and her boyfriend one weekend...he was a pervert too. I never went there again. When I was 33 I confronted her in an elevator full of people in a court house. (family court when I was getting custody of her daughter). It was the most freeing feeling ever!
16:30 is straight out of a sketch.
AG: I have dementia
P: Dementia? You were diagnosed with that? How long ago?
AG: I don't remember...
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I laughed out loud on accident when he said that, it was so predictable
@@irisgreene4175 timing was down too a t, glad you too enjoyed :)
Unreal.. I worked with dementia patients for over 12 years.. This is so pathetic...
"Maybe 30 or 40 year ago"
I kinda knew he wouldn’t end up in prison as there wouldn’t have been any direct physical evidence which is a shame for those girls and his son must be mad as hell
Being a survivor myself, I empowered my 2 kids since the age of 3 (mine started when I was 4) about safe touch & who to go to, using even myself as an example. It was frustrating, but I knew it was necessary.
My younger was able to come to me when him & a friend saw a man waving them to his window & they thought he was naked. They were 10. The man gave several reasons for why he did this when I confronted him. I told him to leave the neighborhood kids alone or he'd be in prison.
A year later my son told me another man gave him the creeps. He wore a Metro Mobility Cab Driver uniform & was always handling $1 bills to the neighborhood kids. He also had different video game sets which he invited kids to come over & play. This is where my son didn't feel comfortable & I told him he had good instincts. He had his own video games, & his friends. A man didn't invite kids in to play video games.
One afternoon I had the urge to call my son to see what he was up to. He & some friends were going to the corner store. I asked him w what money? He said the creep had given all the kids $1 & him $5 bc of good grades.
I told him NO. I told him to give the money back to the guy, tell him his mother told him to & to come home for a few mins to talk. I told him he wasn't in trouble.
When he came home he said the guy was disappointed & asked him to come in, but he said he had to get home. I told him he did good & his instincts were correct, the guy is creepy & explained how he's baiting the kids. Just as the guy in the window was bad news, so is this one.
He understood & as I let him go outside, I went & spread the warning to other parents.
I'm proud of this mother for turning her father in law in. When I was 14 & finally told my mother, she asked me if my adopted father should leave or stay! 🙀😿😾😷
As a survivor of SA therapy and prayer works but the damage that is done is never erased. It is a stain that lives in you forever. Your stolen innocence can never be recovered and there’s nothing anyone can do to make it better. Not a damn thing.
I am sooo blessed I had an amazing respectful grandpa!! He gave us everything and respected us sooo much! When we were going through our teenage years and started wanted to dress differently he would get soo mad if he saw us with inappropriate clothes he’d yell go cover up right now, and my grandma would tell him leave them alone but we respected him enough that we’d go cover up! I absolutely adore my grandpa!! ❤️❤️ Poor baby girls will never know what it’s like having a grandpa like mine and that’s heartbreaking out grandpas are suppose to protect us!!! 🥺🥺🥺
I’d love to see his wife’s interview.
She’s as guilty.
God bless the two little girls who were scared and didn’t understand what was happening. They trusted their grandfather to protect and take care of them. Not use them for his own sexual gratification. But, trust and believe, it’s not just grandparents who do this. Uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, older friends of siblings, neighbors, etc. most people never tell their story until they are older and able to provide for themselves. Them, most often, they are not believed. God help us all.
I know first hand about how it feels to be violated by family members and I felt like it was my fault for the longest time and I was so disgusted with myself. I still to this day have a lot of mental issues from my experiences growing up with abusive family members.
Thanks for the upload!
Just love that they kept the cuffs on during interrogation.
Condolences for the others of you sharing your personal experiences in the comments. In my close family I grew up with a full handful of Brothers and no sisters. All of us that have married and had children made girls. We are so fortunate to be in such a safe family environment. None of our children and nieces have had to have these experiences. Bless you all victims. It makes me sad.
"Raise your right hand."
*raises left hand*
"...great."
How long have you had dementia? "I don't know, I forgot".😂 I don't think that was supposed to be funny, but it gave me a chuckle.
It happens so much behind closed doors and never comes to light...
Believe your kids. Fact find later.
All these posts about being abused is truly heart breaking.
It's so annoying his first language isn't English. He can hide a lot of deception behind his poor attempt at communicating.
Whenever stranger Stories Drop a analysis Vid it’s bound to be Heat , top tier content 👌🏿
As a man. I am proud to say I singlehandedly raised my daughter while mom partied away and Department of Children's suddenly showed up with her on my door step when she was six. The thought of this makes me want to puke because as a man this never crossed my mind and actually grosses me out. My daughter had dozens of girls sleep over. I made damn sure a minor never saw me in skimpy clothing or barefooted even. Never cursed or was high or intoxicated in their presence. I see lots of families claiming this crime here, which is practically the worse crime imaginable besides murder. I'm damn proud to say there are many good decent men too. My condolences to those families who experienced this tragedy. I am a damn proud grandpa of two today who worship me so much at times I hae to tip toe to the kitchen cause I ain't got the energy they ask of me 24-7....Hell, why am I writing this? Guess this video and comments pissed me off..My point is...there are some good men... that's all, nuff said
I've never known of a man that wears skimpy clothes lol you're funny and obviously a good man a good grandpa and you were a great dad and still are I'm quite sure of that because if you weren't a good dad your daughter wouldn't be bringing her children around you.
Eva Samlot, Thank God there are good men still out there, my husband of 39 yrs is one, you sound a lot like him ❣️ Thank you ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
My mom didn’t believe me!! I tried telling her from the age of 6 on, but she stuck up for him and said things like, “Why would he want you over me?” She thought I was trying to ruin their marriage….3rd stepdad…😒 I ended up in foster care for a bit, I moved back home, and she let him move back in. After she had enough of him beating on her she had him arrested. They went to court and he was charged with kidnapping her, beating her, raping her etc and my mom asked me why I wasn’t crying for her at the trial and I told her she got what she deserved!!! After that, he tried breaking into the house, but I ran to the sliding glass door with the biggest knife we had and I told him if he comes in I was going to stab him to death. Cops were called, and they caught him. He was impersonating an electrician and they found things in his duffel bag that showed his intention of causing serious harm to all of us….maybe, even death.
The cops had the nerve to tell me that I could’ve got in trouble for using a knife to hurt him and that I should’ve used a frying pan or something, to which I responded I wanted him dead, and I wouldn’t care if I went to jail. I was 14.
The nightmare of what that monster, and his brother, did to me no longer haunts me. I talk about it freely to anyone who’ll listen. It’s made me one of the strongest people I know, and I’m proud to feel that way.
After years and years of therapy (that I put myself through) because she didn’t believe anything happened to me, I learned to not only forgive those monsters, I forgave my mom. It took 30+ years for her to admit that what she did was wrong. Therapy taught me that it’s hard for some women to accept that the man they chose to love her and her children was capable of such atrocities. It makes these types of women feel guilty and they try to hide the truth because it means they’ve made a bad decision and they couldn’t accept it.
My life was a mess. I ran away more times than I can count, but my mom always let me come home. We’d argue, and I’d fly off the handle…I’d throw dishes at the wall, broke down my door, put holes in the wall, kicked in the front door, and hit my mom when she tried to discipline me. I was in such a bad place.
At 17, I met a family who changed my life completely when I met a family who took me in. I kept my distance from the dad, but the mom became my hero. I loved her more than anything in the world. She taught me what it felt like to be loved as a daughter, and showed me what a loving family looked like. I was only there for a year, but her love and support changed the trajectory of my life.
I wouldn’t be the woman I am today, and my boys wouldn’t be the amazing young men they are today.
I used the love, Anne showed me to build the kind of life I deserved.
My mom and I now have a wonderful relationship. I don’t feel uncomfortable telling her I love her, and I do feel she’s devastated that she didn’t believe me.
Sidebar note: when I was being questioned by the police, I was able to give distinguishing details about their genitals that would’ve only been known if someone saw it.
My foster parent’s motto was, “Shoot first, ask questions later!”
God bless the men and women reading this message and know you’re not alone. Know you had nothing to do with their abuse. Put the disgust on them, they’re the ones who deserve it.
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I told my mom I was molested by my female cousin, i was 7/8 when it happened. I FINALLY got to a point at 30, to tell my moms, she called me “crazy and it didn’t happen.” I laughed bc my moms use to hang out with her like BFF’s and she couldn’t get passed HER relationship with her, to HEAR her sons issues. Fast forward now… me and her relationship is STILL soured. She didn’t crack around that time and cared more about that drug more then the safety of her kids. It’s crazy things like this has happened to so many people. No matter the color. I pray peoples get to a place of healing and can push on forward. It can happen. Feel your feels and stand tall ✊🏿 ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻
Stay awesome. Keep using your strength for greatness!!
I was also molested by an older teenage cousin. I am female. That messed me up in so many ways. So I feel you, brotha.
Suspect: "I have dementia". Cop: "When were you diagnosed with that?" Suspect: "I can't remember." 😆 😆 😆
Thank u for a new video!
This is a horrific crime. It destroys people’s lives. I am glad that you highlight it on your channel. Most channels focus only on horrific murders because I guess they get more views, but it is very brave to post this kind of crime. This awful behaviour (lets be honest, mainly perpetraated by men as result of not viewing women as human beings equal to men) must stop.Everyone should be aware of the lasting damage these predators cause.
I'm always impressed with how patient the detectives are when interviewing these clowns. I wouldn't have lasted 10 minutes in that room with him.
Back the blue! 💙
I heard him ask for a lawyer multiple times. That's a violation of his rights.
A grandpa is supposed to be a safe place of love and wisdom. This is so sick. Abhorrent. Evil.
My wife is Hispanic and we’ve been together for about 12 years. I can tell you from my experience that when you accuse a Hispanic person of lying when they didn’t, they will absolutely flip out. They raise their voice, get very animated and will defend themselves furiously. Again this is just my experience with my wife and her family but watching his reaction to this “shocking news” doesn’t line up with what I’ve seen from most Hispanic people. I’m not trying to make this racial I’m just giving my experience as someone who’s been around Hispanic people a lot. They’re very proud and would be extremely offended if they were accused of something this bad and they were innocent.
Absolutely 100%
I think you're right but that's also true for almost anyone innocent that was accused of something this terrible.
As a parent I never could understand why families don't believe the kids!! If either of mine ever said someone did something , that person better watch the fuck out because I'm coming for you. I could care less who it is! So happy this wasn't the case!