When she said he would never be able to say that to her again, it should’ve been her walking out the door. That comment speaks volumes to his character
Every marriage is different. And 50/50 isn't just talking about money. Personally, as a married man I aspire to one day be the primary earner for my family. But I would never judge another man who would rather his wife work. It's not easy becoming the sole provider. I've been married for 12 years and I'm still not there yet. I'm getting closer though. I would rather my wife focus on other things, and not be burdened with having to work a full-time job. I don't believe that both spouses have to work full time jobs in the traditional sense, like 9 to 5, Mon - Fri. Maybe 1 spouse operates a small business, while the other works the traditional job to secure the health benefits. But like I said, every marriage is different. Do what works for you.
God bless you for trying to nurture your family and I pray he enables you to get to that point that you desire. Having both people work full time in many cases takes away from family’s the quality of life but for people with low incomes it’s the only choice
His wife doesn't have to work but he made an excellent point about spending his $$ while his wife stacks. I'm sorry but if you aspire for that, you're a fool. If a man is spending his $$ on the family and the wife on herself, she doesn't love you. Period.
Inflation and stagnant wages doesn't care about what you believe. Two income households are almost a necessity nowadays if you want to even think of building equity.
Love Unc Shay, he definitely come with the questions and put it in a comedic way, but allow the guests to feel open enough to share and answer the questions, Good job DWade
That’s why she decided to go 50/50. He’s acting like it’s something she wanted from the beginning. No, you said that to your WIFE and now she’s making sure she will ALWAYS have a place to live and you won’t be able to insult her with that BS again. He had no business saying that BS to his WIFE in the first place.
The 50/50 that a lot of people be thinking about is a miserable way to have a relationship…. If u gotta keep score like that we don’t need to be together cause that sounds exhausting trying to calculate every single thing y’all contribute to the relationship
Most relationships are 50/50 unless you're rich. I dont even get why avg ppl have these debates. This isnt the 1950s. For shannon and d wade ok I get it but if you're an avg guy working an avg job more than likely you're going to have to split chores at home with your wife bc she will be working and splitting the bills. It's that simple
Yep. Most men are not 6 figure earners. Based on cost of living and average salaries it’s not even feasible for the man to carry the entire burden financially. Split the bills, split the chores and keep a happy home. If you got it, that’s different. But most people don’t.
If you listened, the root of the problem were his words. He put her in that position to contribute 50%. When he said, "My house." She said to herself those words will never be spoken again. His mindset was Mine instead of saying Ours and meaning that. All because he purchased the home with his own money. It didn't have to be that way. It works for their household fine. Majority middle class households there is always a primary provider who pays more than the other.
You don't know that provoked him to say my house. Shannon said it best when why is matters to everyone else,, if it works for them. Its their business.
He used the fact that he was paying against her ! Lol he made her feel unsafe ! Are you serious . Don’t you see how F up this is??? He should have never told her that as an husband 🤬
@@ms.leslie9114 problem is you are seeing it from a broke / dependent women's perspective. Gabby is a rich women. She works hard. taking responsibility is nothing new to her. She been working her whole life. She has millions. and top of that she's dating a men she actually loves. Most of ya'll can't imagine being financially responsible cause you're broke.
Sounds like Gabby mouth wrote a check her career earnings can't cash. I get that she felt insulted by Dwyane saying his house, but very, very few actors have made the kind of money a top NBA player will have made who played in the past 20 or so years.
See that's where I think so many women are going wrong. If that's your husband then you should have access to some joint account with money in it so why would it be bad to cover a check? It isn't that's why alot of men are changing the way they look at things and the women they chose.
@Sammy Gulley I think both men and women are going wrong these days when it comes to money. Both should just be generous, but everybody is so selfish that they don't trust the people they choose. What's the point of choosing a mate if you don't go all in? Most women that earn good money don't mind using it on the home. I lived in my exes house and paid 60/40, me 40% but somehow we always had conversations about women using his resources. I never once used him, even paid for half of vacations and paid my portion of the bills from my savings account when I was out of work for a few months. In three years, he never once asked me if I needed money or help with anything. The problem is that when women work for survival and not because it's a cherry on top for the household, they fall into their masculine energy. Men don't like that. As the saying goes, you have to pay the cost to be the boss. But if you want a business partner, then 50/50, 60/40 will work fine, but there is no clear leadership established. Some men don't care about women's careers or supporting their careers but want the money from said career. I found that odd. Men are better off if they just become successful and bring a woman on after if they choose. That way he can manage the house well within his budget and what his wife makes doesn't even matter, it's extra.
If im worth 100 million and you worth 40 million you not paying nothing. I would married you. Thus man retire his money done. His wife out here still making millions smh.
Do you even understand why they go 50/50 they have responsibilities outside of their immediate family. Wade would be a 🤡 to support her family and his family especially if she’s a millionaire herself. Y’all sound delusional asl
Because u okay releasing control of your life to another person, like most women, when u don’t have any ownership of your home like in the example d wade stated , u have no power in the relationship
My first husband and I were married for 16 years and that's the way we did it. I would take certain bills and he would take the other bills, and that's the way we did it. I see nothing wrong in that, and people that's all in their business about them splitting 50/50, what say do you have in it anyway!
@@marycarr7038 what, you didn't know? if you're divorced, it just HAS to be because of money.. not because, maybe, y'all grew apart.. not because of any of the 200 other reasons people split.. forgive them.. people are so simple-minded.
If you listened to her, you would realized she talked about having to support other households. Seems they are both supporting other households on both sides from their individual bank accounts. Then they have to contribute to their immediate household. At the end of the day, you may still find that he contributes more in their household, even though they used the term 50/50.
Guess his wife wants everyone to know she holding her own too but a marriage is not about competition. Somethings in life is not meant for everyone to know. Great interview!
It's feels like competition to ya'll because you're broke. Gabby is a rich women. Like he said "why should she stack up her money while spending his". She should also spend hers. Most women are broke and entitled. Only thing they can offer is cooking and cleaning the house. Gabby doesn't have to do that, she can afford maids and chefs. So her way of contributing is different. No pressure on her side cause she got it like that.
@@Rendyau8179apparently you didn’t see her interview. You talking about her having millions and no pressure. She legit said she felt like she had a gorilla on her back and couldn’t relax. That’s no way to live.
It's weird that ppl assume 50/50 is all about money. It's about all the responsibilities... child rearing, cooking, cleaning, pet care, family business, extended family issues, etc. They both contribute to building their family and sustaining their marriage. What's the problem with that?
They put it out to the world and I am commenting. It's unequal & not apples to apples...Wade and Union are in completely different tax brackets. Not fair to her
I thought once your married that the money is no longer yours or mine but ours. So why is 50/50 even a thing? WE pay everything because the money is ours. Maybe I was raised differently.
@@terickastidbits2342 No it's a thing because women on the internet are making it a thing thinking that the majority of men out here are earning 6 figure incomes.
@@sammygulley7204 even without 6 figure incomes lots of women have scoffed at going 50/50 in public while splitting bills in private. But specifically women are upset that these two 7+ figure earners are splitting bills because Gabrielle Union put us in her business
@@terickastidbits2342 I mean yes she put it out there but the conversation of going 50/50 has been going on for about 3 years now on various podcasts. So yes she spoke to her situation but not to the conversation as a whole.
My gf and I also do things the same way. We own a house each, and float between the two. We came together with our own assets, we have them 'off limits'. We split things that we do together.
Honestly this is their business And it works for them. Its sad he had to even outline all of what they responsible for... thats not even our business... keep doing whats working in your❤ marriage ❤❤
People should be minding their own business. In marriage, you have an arrangement. We all have different situations. There should just be an equal distribution of responsibilities and a clear understanding of why things have to be done a certain way. That's just logic and some math.
No one is in my business because I don't announce it publicly. Maybe they should try it. Wade even indicated that he wished she wouldn't keep putting it in the streets! "I wish I could make my wife...if I could we wouldn't be in the headlines all of the time."
How they run their household honestly is their business, if someone runs theirs differently that’s cool too, whatever works for each individual let it be.
I get it.. if I can handle my own, let me upgrade us! I can bet Jay and Bey do “50/50” in some capacity.. I have never had a man take care of me except my dad.. I will contribute!! For us to be better
This is what is implied when men are asking what do you bring to the table? He's asking is everything going to fall on me or are you contributing? Not sure why so many are triggered by this. Even as a multi millionaire.... he's saying I'm not putting all my chips into this relationship while you stack yours. Then when things go bad you got all yours and can take half of what i have left
In this day and age if you have a family and your mot making 6 figures you have to have a 50/50 household. We both work so we both contribute to our family
That's what my wife and I agreed to before we got married, but I still end up contributing more money one way or another. She went through a bad divorce and I respected the financial abuse my wife had experienced. A pre-nup detailing 50/50 and independent finances gave both of us the feeling of agency, but it's not easy/perfect.
I'm reading a lot of, "people should stop worrying about how their marriage is set up," or "folk should mind their business." But THEY keep putting it out there! On what planet should either one of them be broadcasting their marital dynamics?!! C'mon, can we picture our grandparents defiantly putting their personal business out there in the barbershop or beauty salon? Here's my marriage cook, chapter 4: Recipe for Disaster--stir vigorously..
As individuals we do have a responsibility to take ourselves and things that matters to us...50/50 split is not crazy on either partner cause if the household is 50 split it makes things easier on both parties.....it's hard when one person is trying to do it all
Same. I wouldn't want my partner to carry the financial and emotional burden alone. Furthermore, if he is working all the time, when do we spend quality time together? What does that do to his health and well-being? Similarly, if we are both working, I don't expect to bear sole responsibility for the household chores or for taking care of the kids.
a womans money is irrelevant to a real man. D wade is beta simp, no man should be having a woman pay bills, thats a simp. he is not respected amongst men just so u know.
There are people out here debating on letting a parent move in with them, these millionaires are funding their entire families lives, which honestly I find a bit more problematic, but thats their business, along with their financial arrangements as a couple. I see nothing wrong with it and none of us who arent in their situation can judge.
Modernize marriages are very interesting and just becoming sadder by the minute in my opinion. Individualistic mentally we have is something else I tell ya. Why is it even a topic of discussion who pays what, this and that ?? We have lost our way in this society and May God help us all. Our relationships in my opinion are doomed 😢statistically speaking that is
Ppl only worried cuz they allow everyone in they business all the posting lol and expect ppl not to respond when u put it out on an outlet for the whole world to see
I get it where he’s coming from, some points are logical however as a man, he’s over rationalising things to the point where it seems that his masculinity is being compromised to an extent. As a man, him saying it’s my house shouldn’t have been questioned the way it was from her from a masculine standpoint for wade in relation to gabbies. Another thing to mention and the most important factor as to my belief on this specific topic is her track record with her male counterparts which is what ties things together imo
No one would comment and there would be no “think pieces” if Gabrielle didn’t talk so much. Keep your marriage business in house. No one needs to know what you do in your marriage.
He is making excuses. His wife clearly stated that she has bills and she needs to work. It's about money. But that's what she wants that's what makes her happy.
The comment she made to him really messed up the dynamic.. My husband purchased our home.. He can scream to the rooftops it’s his house. He is proud give it up !! 🙌🏼 My peaceful nights rest 😴 outweigh my ego. I am the boss of groceries/ decorations etc. 😂 I don’t care how much money I make , I am never going head to head with him. I have zero to prove to him .
Now Shannon is showing his hypocrisy. He admitted that he also judged Dwayne then TURNS AROUND and asks why WE are so consumed with their decision. C'mon man
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That "this my house" went over people heads
That's definitely the part I'm stuck on. That's a horrible thing to say to your wife. No wonder she's talking about 50/50
Exactly. Had he not said that...things would have been different.
He put her in survival mode smh..so she'll never feel like she can rest in him.
@maurese goodwin yes… and it was a strategic move, intentional and not a mistake at all
When she said he would never be able to say that to her again, it should’ve been her walking out the door. That comment speaks volumes to his character
Shannon: "When I leave, I don't want 50% of my nothing. I want all of my nothing" 😂
😂
You think that’s funny?
@@antoniomitchell1883sad boy
Every marriage is different. And 50/50 isn't just talking about money. Personally, as a married man I aspire to one day be the primary earner for my family. But I would never judge another man who would rather his wife work. It's not easy becoming the sole provider. I've been married for 12 years and I'm still not there yet. I'm getting closer though.
I would rather my wife focus on other things, and not be burdened with having to work a full-time job. I don't believe that both spouses have to work full time jobs in the traditional sense, like 9 to 5, Mon - Fri. Maybe 1 spouse operates a small business, while the other works the traditional job to secure the health benefits.
But like I said, every marriage is different. Do what works for you.
Your family is lucky to have you.
God bless you for trying to nurture your family and I pray he enables you to get to that point that you desire. Having both people work full time in many cases takes away from family’s the quality of life but for people with low incomes it’s the only choice
His wife doesn't have to work but he made an excellent point about spending his $$ while his wife stacks. I'm sorry but if you aspire for that, you're a fool. If a man is spending his $$ on the family and the wife on herself, she doesn't love you. Period.
Inflation and stagnant wages doesn't care about what you believe. Two income households are almost a necessity nowadays if you want to even think of building equity.
No man should rather his wife work
She talk about it , that’s why people are in their business
That part
Exactly
Exactly 💯
Facts
People was in their business since the time they started dating.
Love Unc Shay, he definitely come with the questions and put it in a comedic way, but allow the guests to feel open enough to share and answer the questions, Good job DWade
He doing right!!! Pay up baby!!😂
And this is the moment the clock started ticking towards Dwayne and Gabby’s divorce. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can't say, "This is my house because I paid for it" to your husband or wife. It's insulting to your spouse and puts them in survival mode....smh
If a man moved into a Woman's house a woman would be quick to throw that up in his face in an argument
That’s why she decided to go 50/50. He’s acting like it’s something she wanted from the beginning. No, you said that to your WIFE and now she’s making sure she will ALWAYS have a place to live and you won’t be able to insult her with that BS again. He had no business saying that BS to his WIFE in the first place.
That's an independent woman in thought, word and deed.
Sure 👍
Yep, which explains alot.
I respect her for her being true to equality and not expecting to be equal in the relationship without equal responsibility
I respect this 10000%. If this how they stay happy and feel equal in the relationship, do it. Good for them!
Right...funny thing is single people giving married people suggestions and advice on a relationship
@@leeroyuckface6893 Right! 😂
But Gabrielle Union doesn’t seem like she’s happy with it.. that’s why it seems like she was stressed and in a way complained abt it
@@cindychelsea784 to be fair...she never seems happy about much. Just being honest.
The only reason she goes 50/50 is because he threw the house being his in her face.
At the end of the day whatever they do in their marriage is their business. I respect D WADE and Gabrielle and they look so happy. Much Love
I like it too they have good n health relationship
Eww did you see what they did to their son - gross
@@knockda887 what did they do to their child?
The 50/50 that a lot of people be thinking about is a miserable way to have a relationship…. If u gotta keep score like that we don’t need to be together cause that sounds exhausting trying to calculate every single thing y’all contribute to the relationship
Most relationships are 50/50 unless you're rich. I dont even get why avg ppl have these debates. This isnt the 1950s. For shannon and d wade ok I get it but if you're an avg guy working an avg job more than likely you're going to have to split chores at home with your wife bc she will be working and splitting the bills. It's that simple
Exactly bro ppl let social media influence them 2 much
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Yep. Most men are not 6 figure earners. Based on cost of living and average salaries it’s not even feasible for the man to carry the entire burden financially.
Split the bills, split the chores and keep a happy home. If you got it, that’s different. But most people don’t.
THANK YOU
That's why most modern relationships don't work
If you listened, the root of the problem were his words. He put her in that position to contribute 50%. When he said, "My house." She said to herself those words will never be spoken again. His mindset was Mine instead of saying Ours and meaning that. All because he purchased the home with his own money. It didn't have to be that way.
It works for their household fine. Majority middle class households there is always a primary provider who pays more than the other.
Yeah because he’s a man. So yes “his house”. Someone has to be the alpha, can’t be two . The man’s the leader while the woman follows
Don’t nobody want to here…”MY HOUSE”
They both seem individualistic which is why they have to be 50/50 to maintain a power balance.
@Eddybih03 you got to be kidding me! I'm laughing so loudly you can possibly hear me. 🤣
You don't know that provoked him to say my house. Shannon said it best when why is matters to everyone else,, if it works for them. Its their business.
Southside Chicago accent came out once folks took his 5th shot 😂😂😂
He started to sound like lil reese 😂😂😂
@@bossbynature8188 “while I’m spending all mine” lmaooo yea that’s Southside
59th st.
I know Gabby is competitive but being competitive in the marriage just to be able to boast… “I pay 50%” can cause problems later in the marriage.
He used the fact that he was paying against her ! Lol he made her feel unsafe ! Are you serious . Don’t you see how F up this is??? He should have never told her that as an husband 🤬
@@marcyscloset6835 People are responsible for their own feelings.
@@marcyscloset6835 I agree. His interview trying make it better made him look worse. 🤦🏾♀️
@@ms.leslie9114 problem is you are seeing it from a broke / dependent women's perspective. Gabby is a rich women. She works hard. taking responsibility is nothing new to her. She been working her whole life. She has millions. and top of that she's dating a men she actually loves. Most of ya'll can't imagine being financially responsible cause you're broke.
Pretty sure you got it backwards.
Because 85-15 leads to "you don't raise your voice at me in *MY* house!"
You didn’t tell one lie
If you gotta pay for respect you don’t have any respect
This clip’s gonna go viral in 5, 4, 3, 2 … 😂
He is going to be the poster child for Beta Males. He was better off not saying anything.
I clicked so fast lol
6:55 😂
Not just yet lol
No matter how Wade's explains it... The masses will ABSOLUTELY hear only what they want to hear lmao 🤣
Sounds like Gabby mouth wrote a check her career earnings can't cash. I get that she felt insulted by Dwyane saying his house, but very, very few actors have made the kind of money a top NBA player will have made who played in the past 20 or so years.
Ding ding ding 🎯
Unc said what it is: what works for them, WORKS FOR THEM.
D. Wade: Even our daughter, me and Gabby went 50/50 on that too 😂
His daughter ?
@@jays4113he actually has a daughter. Born a girl bro😭😭
@@aubhreypender3091you wild
@@stunnerkumah nah him and his wife have a daughter forreal. I’m not taking bout the son
This was genuine convo this was dope …. D Wade still got that Miami talk in him
I bet he has all kinds of things in him.
@@LeChina well i wouldn’t know 🤷🏾♂️
Where Dey do dat @ 😂
I am so glad that Wade is clearing this up. The people jumping on for the sound bytes was just annoying.
This sounds nice…but if my husband was worth 100 million dollars we not even splitting the check 😂😂😂
See that's where I think so many women are going wrong. If that's your husband then you should have access to some joint account with money in it so why would it be bad to cover a check? It isn't that's why alot of men are changing the way they look at things and the women they chose.
@Sammy Gulley I think both men and women are going wrong these days when it comes to money. Both should just be generous, but everybody is so selfish that they don't trust the people they choose. What's the point of choosing a mate if you don't go all in? Most women that earn good money don't mind using it on the home. I lived in my exes house and paid 60/40, me 40% but somehow we always had conversations about women using his resources. I never once used him, even paid for half of vacations and paid my portion of the bills from my savings account when I was out of work for a few months. In three years, he never once asked me if I needed money or help with anything. The problem is that when women work for survival and not because it's a cherry on top for the household, they fall into their masculine energy. Men don't like that. As the saying goes, you have to pay the cost to be the boss. But if you want a business partner, then 50/50, 60/40 will work fine, but there is no clear leadership established. Some men don't care about women's careers or supporting their careers but want the money from said career. I found that odd. Men are better off if they just become successful and bring a woman on after if they choose. That way he can manage the house well within his budget and what his wife makes doesn't even matter, it's extra.
If im worth 100 million and you worth 40 million you not paying nothing. I would married you. Thus man retire his money done. His wife out here still making millions smh.
Do you even understand why they go 50/50 they have responsibilities outside of their immediate family. Wade would be a 🤡 to support her family and his family especially if she’s a millionaire herself. Y’all sound delusional asl
Because u okay releasing control of your life to another person, like most women, when u don’t have any ownership of your home like in the example d wade stated , u have no power in the relationship
My first husband and I were married for 16 years and that's the way we did it. I would take certain bills and he would take the other bills, and that's the way we did it. I see nothing wrong in that, and people that's all in their business about them splitting 50/50, what say do you have in it anyway!
But you're not married to him anymore?..
@@condemnedpotbelly8491Maybe the husband passed away, maybe they divorced for OTHER reasons, we don’t have enough information bro.
And y’all divorced now sooo..?
@@strangertings9577 So...what? What are y'all, 15? If you got a question ask it.
@@marycarr7038 what, you didn't know? if you're divorced, it just HAS to be because of money.. not because, maybe, y'all grew apart.. not because of any of the 200 other reasons people split.. forgive them.. people are so simple-minded.
Love how they made pure comedy out of a too taken serious comment…good job fellas!
That not the way she made it sound, she made it sound like she is pressured to pay her half, that's why she has make sure she has enough money.
If you listened to her, you would realized she talked about having to support other households. Seems they are both supporting other households on both sides from their individual bank accounts. Then they have to contribute to their immediate household. At the end of the day, you may still find that he contributes more in their household, even though they used the term 50/50.
Guess his wife wants everyone to know she holding her own too but a marriage is not about competition. Somethings in life is not meant for everyone to know. Great interview!
It's feels like competition to ya'll because you're broke. Gabby is a rich women. Like he said "why should she stack up her money while spending his". She should also spend hers. Most women are broke and entitled. Only thing they can offer is cooking and cleaning the house. Gabby doesn't have to do that, she can afford maids and chefs. So her way of contributing is different. No pressure on her side cause she got it like that.
@@Rendyau8179thank you!
It's not a competition though and they both said that, she has her own responsibilities, he has his.
@@Rendyau8179apparently you didn’t see her interview. You talking about her having millions and no pressure. She legit said she felt like she had a gorilla on her back and couldn’t relax. That’s no way to live.
If you want to be equal in the relationship then also be equal in responsibilities and not expect gender roles for men
It's weird that ppl assume 50/50 is all about money. It's about all the responsibilities... child rearing, cooking, cleaning, pet care, family business, extended family issues, etc. They both contribute to building their family and sustaining their marriage. What's the problem with that?
Exactly it's should be
Did you hear what he said? They split it all financially. Also, he talked down to her.
Still ain’t buying the explanation but that’s their life.
Exactly
What’s so wrong with the explanation. Majority of marriages are like this when the wife is also making good money
Nobody cares what you think.
They put it out to the world and I am commenting. It's unequal & not apples to apples...Wade and Union are in completely different tax brackets. Not fair to her
He’s right about it being the think pieces about them that makes you assume the negative about everything they say
I thought once your married that the money is no longer yours or mine but ours. So why is 50/50 even a thing? WE pay everything because the money is ours. Maybe I was raised differently.
You were raised intelligently. This 50/50 conversation is some internet stuff. Most middle class families can only afford 50/50.
It’s a thing because Gabrielle made it a thing. She put us in her business and low key made herself a victim for something she wanted and encouraged
@@terickastidbits2342 No it's a thing because women on the internet are making it a thing thinking that the majority of men out here are earning 6 figure incomes.
@@sammygulley7204 even without 6 figure incomes lots of women have scoffed at going 50/50 in public while splitting bills in private. But specifically women are upset that these two 7+ figure earners are splitting bills because Gabrielle Union put us in her business
@@terickastidbits2342 I mean yes she put it out there but the conversation of going 50/50 has been going on for about 3 years now on various podcasts. So yes she spoke to her situation but not to the conversation as a whole.
I don't see nothing wrong with what wade said. Me and my wife are the same way and I'm we're where near a millionaire.
My gf and I also do things the same way. We own a house each, and float between the two. We came together with our own assets, we have them 'off limits'. We split things that we do together.
Lol this first time I have agreed with something said in a LONG TIME.
The problem people have this arrangement is that he earns more and it’s not logical for him to share 50/50 with his wife.
He makes 3X her salary, it doesn’t make any sense 🙄🤦🏾♀️
He not in the NBA anymore. His has to last a lifetime.
@@terryGrindz_69 thats where the idea of passive income comes in but still not logical.
Their expenses aren't half their net worths, that's basic math. Their expenses don't come up that high.
@@marcyscloset6835that's his ney worth not what he makes, which is an entirely different thing
I was just reading in an Old book about Wolves in Sheep 🐑
I love that "my house" declaration. I felt that.
Honestly this is their business
And it works for them. Its sad he had to even outline all of what they responsible for... thats not even our business... keep doing whats working in your❤ marriage ❤❤
I would've said "mind your business" and kept it moving
Absolutely the worst kind of guy to marry - his description actually made it worse
He was better off remaining silent because this….. 🤦🏾♀️
Gabriel has a jezebel spirit, period
Ok..his problem, his marriage
Shannon don’t give Fox’s
club Shay Shay!!! Man you are a very natural interviewer.
CLUB SHAY IS GOING WITH UNC. DONE DEAL ALRDY. SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS. 😢
Fox gonna miss Shannon Sharpe.
Fantastic interview&chat!
Respect to wade where he didn't have to explain situation
I don't know why DWade went to so much detail, and uncle Shay's there asking the question then asking why people care so much DWade's business 😂😂😂
You noticed that flip too lol
People should be minding their own business. In marriage, you have an arrangement. We all have different situations. There should just be an equal distribution of responsibilities and a clear understanding of why things have to be done a certain way. That's just logic and some math.
don't put your business public then people won't say anything period
Facts
No one is in my business because I don't announce it publicly. Maybe they should try it. Wade even indicated that he wished she wouldn't keep putting it in the streets! "I wish I could make my wife...if I could we wouldn't be in the headlines all of the time."
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Tell that to the government becauae when you're marriage thats the government business too
How they run their household honestly is their business, if someone runs theirs differently that’s cool too, whatever works for each individual let it be.
I get it.. if I can handle my own, let me upgrade us!
I can bet Jay and Bey do “50/50” in some capacity..
I have never had a man take care of me except my dad..
I will contribute!! For us to be better
This is what is implied when men are asking what do you bring to the table? He's asking is everything going to fall on me or are you contributing? Not sure why so many are triggered by this. Even as a multi millionaire.... he's saying I'm not putting all my chips into this relationship while you stack yours. Then when things go bad you got all yours and can take half of what i have left
Shay love how you smiled and slipped out the back door on Skip
He takes care of everything and everyone but her.
That’s what it sounds like
In this day and age if you have a family and your mot making 6 figures you have to have a 50/50 household. We both work so we both contribute to our family
That's what my wife and I agreed to before we got married, but I still end up contributing more money one way or another. She went through a bad divorce and I respected the financial abuse my wife had experienced. A pre-nup detailing 50/50 and independent finances gave both of us the feeling of agency, but it's not easy/perfect.
What a surprise
L for marrying a divorced chick
@@bendover3653 Some dudes will never learn.. don’t care how much money they have 🤷🏻♂️
Marrying a divorced woman is a bad idea but I’m glad you guys had a pre-nup! Also a lot of women lie about abuses
After wade explained Shannon back pedaled 😂
This is the most diplomatic answer I have ever heard for a 50/50 couples split on expenses.
Gabby is the husband and he’s the wife.
Yes
That cognac lol😂
I'm reading a lot of, "people should stop worrying about how their marriage is set up," or "folk should mind their business." But THEY keep putting it out there! On what planet should either one of them be broadcasting their marital dynamics?!! C'mon, can we picture our grandparents defiantly putting their personal business out there in the barbershop or beauty salon? Here's my marriage cook, chapter 4: Recipe for Disaster--stir vigorously..
Exactly. People are in their business because they/she keeps putting it out there!
Dwyane and Gabrielle can live their lives however they want. It's no one else's business. Whatever works for them works for them.
What dwade said at 4:14 is very interesting 🤔
I think he just made it worse. Lol
Agree
100% of my income is my husband’s and 100% of his income is mine. A marriage is a resource sharing arrangement.
@@alexisjankowski3281 If he decided to do that on his own without pressure from you great.
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😂😂😂 He did. She runs everything
This finna go viral in 3, 2, 1 😂
4:51 When he put it like that.. I understand! Facts though. That's a business relationship.. but with someone you like.. right now, lol
This was good. I want to see the whole interview.
So many broke people mad they these people help each other. Misery loves company.
Come on. It’s the 50/50 mindset to me. Nobody is consumed with their business. They keep putting their business out there✌️.
As individuals we do have a responsibility to take ourselves and things that matters to us...50/50 split is not crazy on either partner cause if the household is 50 split it makes things easier on both parties.....it's hard when one person is trying to do it all
The moisture is strong in this one.
I'm glad Wade had a chance to clarify. But I wonder why she didn't explain it like this........🤔
That’s pride right there
I lovedddddd how he explained this. This makes a lot of sense!!
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Thanks for the clarification 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Emasculation at its finest listen to this mfr if you want to
I bet your single 😂😂😂😂 broke n- word don’t pay shhhhh so why should I.
I don’t see why a woman shouldn’t contribute if she is making money also. I’m a woman!!
I agree women wanted equal were equal
Same. I wouldn't want my partner to carry the financial and emotional burden alone. Furthermore, if he is working all the time, when do we spend quality time together? What does that do to his health and well-being? Similarly, if we are both working, I don't expect to bear sole responsibility for the household chores or for taking care of the kids.
a womans money is irrelevant to a real man. D wade is beta simp, no man should be having a woman pay bills, thats a simp. he is not respected amongst men just so u know.
Makes you wonder what argument pop off, for a man to say this is my house?
There are people out here debating on letting a parent move in with them, these millionaires are funding their entire families lives, which honestly I find a bit more problematic, but thats their business, along with their financial arrangements as a couple. I see nothing wrong with it and none of us who arent in their situation can judge.
I'm so happy they finally had a kid together so that the mother of his eldest children can finally have her kids back to her.
Soo pretty much gabby wears the knee high capri pants in the relationship lol
Modernize marriages are very interesting and just becoming sadder by the minute in my opinion. Individualistic mentally we have is something else I tell ya. Why is it even a topic of discussion who pays what, this and that ?? We have lost our way in this society and May God help us all. Our relationships in my opinion are doomed 😢statistically speaking that is
Ppl only worried cuz they allow everyone in they business all the posting lol and expect ppl not to respond when u put it out on an outlet for the whole world to see
I get it where he’s coming from, some points are logical however as a man, he’s over rationalising things to the point where it seems that his masculinity is being compromised to an extent. As a man, him saying it’s my house shouldn’t have been questioned the way it was from her from a masculine standpoint for wade in relation to gabbies. Another thing to mention and the most important factor as to my belief on this specific topic is her track record with her male counterparts which is what ties things together imo
Wow, that “this is my house” is crazy when you’re married. Maybe shouldn’t have gotten married 🤷🏽♀️
Shan whoever doing your thumbnails don’t give af 😂😂😂😂
No clue why this is a problem. To me this is success! Think Billionaires going through this?
No one would comment and there would be no “think pieces” if Gabrielle didn’t talk so much. Keep your marriage business in house. No one needs to know what you do in your marriage.
Great convo…people should really mind their own business. Unsolicited commentary from folks who don’t know them from Adam. 🙌🏾 D Wade
look at this dude at 0:20 lol
Let ‘em know D-wade !!!
He is making excuses. His wife clearly stated that she has bills and she needs to work. It's about money. But that's what she wants that's what makes her happy.
He didn't say anything different. It's 50/50! He just tried to spin it, but it's 50/50.
That man said no MY WIFE
The comment she made to him really messed up the dynamic.. My husband purchased our home.. He can scream to the rooftops it’s his house. He is proud give it up !! 🙌🏼 My peaceful nights rest 😴 outweigh my ego. I am the boss of groceries/ decorations etc. 😂 I don’t care how much money I make , I am never going head to head with him. I have zero to prove to him .
Now Shannon is showing his hypocrisy. He admitted that he also judged Dwayne then TURNS AROUND and asks why WE are so consumed with their decision. C'mon man
Love this conversation. Here yall go doing think pieces, he talkkng bout yall lol
She pegs him no lube
DWade really likes men but is married to a woman. Time and time again this guy shows his true colors 🌈
My girl is the same. She wants to feel like she’s contributing. Of course I spoil her and our love keeps getting better.
Finally some good content Unc!!!!! Love this interview!!!!!
Me too very educational
I love this!! ❤
Why he look like Rick Ross @ 3:17 lol