Should You Defend Your Partner Even When They’re Wrong? | A Couple Things Podcast EP 11

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  • @BeezyBee89
    @BeezyBee89 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Cheating isn't a mistake .. It's a choice .. Hypothetical or not, people really need to stop saying that it's a "mistake" .. Cheating ruins good people and shouldn't be taken lightly.

  • @stephaniebermudez8948
    @stephaniebermudez8948 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Defend them in public correct them in private

  • @NicaaaQ
    @NicaaaQ ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Soo happy you guys are back to doing the podcasts! You both have grown so much as a couple and even individuals since you guys started youtube!! Def a power couple and an influencer for first time parents! ❤️

  • @zoesoliel5485
    @zoesoliel5485 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The right time to have a kid is when you completely healed and did all the shadow work and financially ready

  • @LifeBeingDest
    @LifeBeingDest ปีที่แล้ว +5

    back and better love this podcast ❤🎉

  • @brebre708
    @brebre708 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The podcasts are my fav content from y’all! So happy you’re back🩷

  • @lexihernandez7924
    @lexihernandez7924 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So happy y’all are back !! Cooking dinner while listening to y’all was a vibe tonight 🔥

    • @lesetjalatoya
      @lesetjalatoya ปีที่แล้ว

      The fact that I am doing the exact same thing

  • @randomlycc
    @randomlycc ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow definitely don't agree with Juju regarding having a child freely cuss around u at home and not don't in public.... it all starts in the household, home training is key discipline is necessary for kids.
    I'm with Des on this one don't want my kids cussing period, not around me nor in public outside of my presence. Of course when they get to a certain age they going do what they want but atleast set the proper foundation

  • @neawoods6575
    @neawoods6575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me 2 seconds in: “OKAYYY INTRO!”
    Progress in any portion is progress. Keep going guys

  • @ashleygonzalez903
    @ashleygonzalez903 ปีที่แล้ว

    Destiny I love how you just have the sweetest soul.I feel because you were raised with love and not that much hate in your heart.That's a good thing.I wish I was more like you and wish I can humble my self more.

  • @xolucyyy2620
    @xolucyyy2620 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s how my man is, I get so upset & when he opens up I definitely cry because he’s opening up lol

  • @aprilbtw
    @aprilbtw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this podcast ! The only one I listen too all the way through. Lol !

  • @ajahthompson2399
    @ajahthompson2399 ปีที่แล้ว

    “mE I aM” had me deaaaaadddd 🤣😭 I never comment on videos but that shit had me WEAK! 💀

  • @brittanysneed9660
    @brittanysneed9660 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yayy I’m excited this is back❤ love y’all

  • @courtneysimmons2446
    @courtneysimmons2446 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay!! The podcast is back!!!

  • @Xdessssss
    @Xdessssss ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess stay consistent! I missed y’all🫶

  • @Deniseruiz5214
    @Deniseruiz5214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So excited for you guys to be back!! 🎉❤love you guys so so much

  • @rayettenicole3698
    @rayettenicole3698 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss…you guys are back! You guys always seem calm & serene on your podcast. Love it❤

  • @BlancoSisters
    @BlancoSisters ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your guys vibe! Thank you for posting again ❤

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I defended my with her family! With my parents. I just found your channel. ! Thank you for this topic!

  • @missashleylon
    @missashleylon ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Destiny is so patient 😭🙏🏽

    • @lesliecaulder8901
      @lesliecaulder8901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg I didn’t know know y’all had a podcast

  • @Andy-wz7jm
    @Andy-wz7jm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesssss my buddies are back!!!!! Guhuckkkk!!! 😅😅😅

  • @xcxiii9163
    @xcxiii9163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s definitely different circumstances to supporting your child. If he did right by his wife he wouldn’t have been homeless. I would’ve given him a deadline also & took the wife’s side and offered our support since she was on bedrest, and needs the support

  • @Reynaaaaaa444
    @Reynaaaaaa444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all back 💅🏼♥️

  • @jomesheagarcia1139
    @jomesheagarcia1139 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love AZ moved here last year and so thankful I did

  • @AsweetAroma-b2l
    @AsweetAroma-b2l ปีที่แล้ว

    I was like Julius cursing when my parents wasn’t around and loving it😂😂😂

  • @fatimanicole6982
    @fatimanicole6982 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been waiting for a new podcast episode, glad to see you're back. 🫶

  • @yesseniarosales2170
    @yesseniarosales2170 ปีที่แล้ว

    happy to see your videos again !!

  • @norris.n9611
    @norris.n9611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the apple & onion part of the day🤭
    Thankyou for not forgetting it❤❤❤

  • @jessisblessed
    @jessisblessed ปีที่แล้ว

    Missed thissss!!

  • @Priss5116
    @Priss5116 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg Julius is so funny & destiny just looks at him like “wtf” 😳😂😂

    • @nayelijavier2320
      @nayelijavier2320 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik she stays judging him it’s so annoying

    • @Priss5116
      @Priss5116 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nayelijavier2320 I meant the faces she makes at him are funnyyy not hating

  • @Catherineann413
    @Catherineann413 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad you’re back & you didn’t give up on your couples podcast 👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissavillalobos-meza4415
    @melissavillalobos-meza4415 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Have your partners back in the situation but have a conversation in private to de-escalate and correct the situation.

  • @tahneethetourist
    @tahneethetourist ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome back friends 🤍

  • @bryanna_95
    @bryanna_95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is crazy! It is taking everyone down in a criminal enterprise. I love this Pod keep it going ❤

  • @JessicaDanielleT
    @JessicaDanielleT ปีที่แล้ว

    Yayyy! We back ! Missed the podcasts ❤

  • @kimberlyr3053
    @kimberlyr3053 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Destiny, I was the SAME way about saying bad words until i was like 19 and no one was telling me not to, etc. 😂

  • @mirabellebarim9997
    @mirabellebarim9997 ปีที่แล้ว

    The neat part is that you guys are different in someways but match so good ! Then I thought perhaps Koa as active as he is like dad but maybe he will have some of moms reserve ways like not feeling confrible saying bad words and to me taking sides hmm it all depends on what the topic and my belief on something? About the bed thing there are times I can’t sleep and have to so I’m all over the bed trying to find the spot that puts me to sleep or sometimes even going to the couch does it lol ..

  • @BrownieeTV
    @BrownieeTV ปีที่แล้ว

    Yayyyy 😍 finally new podcast

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You gotta always hold anyone accountable in the right way.. it’s the way you talk to people in general don’t disrespect anybody sit em down and get to know the why and then try to come up with solutions 💯💯

  • @edithsgrandbaby9371
    @edithsgrandbaby9371 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome back. We have misses you. ❤❤❤

  • @elianairene222
    @elianairene222 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAYYYY GLAD YOU GUYS ARE BACK❤

  • @puurrez4512
    @puurrez4512 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls be on your podcast shiii I love them 🥲

  • @giinelly22
    @giinelly22 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand abt the birth control. I also have the iud and told my ob i wanted to change it to the non hormonal one and he said he don’t recommend me too 😢 smh I also feel lik the one I have makes me super cranky and moody but don’t want to risk getting pregnant if I just don’t have anything 😢

  • @jcid90
    @jcid90 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy you're back! ❤

  • @Xokay96
    @Xokay96 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy you’re back ❤ always take the time u need, yall do a lot!

  • @Slay4407
    @Slay4407 ปีที่แล้ว

    YASSSSS 👏 Finally! 👏

  • @KP-nk7fo
    @KP-nk7fo ปีที่แล้ว

    I often sleep with my head next to the footboard lol and diagonal as well like Julius lol I think for me it changes up the energy and diagonal leaves more room for me to sprawl out

  • @kyriedavis7917
    @kyriedavis7917 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was your grandpa in sprite Julius he knew you were also going to Arizona !

  • @carlas866
    @carlas866 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys should just bring your own sheet. My husband and I do it in hotels as well

  • @avenabolarinwa4126
    @avenabolarinwa4126 ปีที่แล้ว

    To a certain extent but will definitely hold my child accountable… I’m with Julius get it together!!!

  • @deniserodriguez7210
    @deniserodriguez7210 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't be strangers. Come back soon. I missed y'alls podcast. I been watching you guys for years now. I'm that one Instagram comment defending Destiny when B's came for her because of the lounge wear.

  • @Maryanne.x0
    @Maryanne.x0 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m the same way with flying, it doesn’t matter how many times i fly the night before my flight i can’t sleep I’m up every hour and my anxiety gets so bad i cry it’s horrible

  • @allyzacaoile
    @allyzacaoile ปีที่แล้ว

    I was working at a hospital that yall came into while you guys were still living in LA and i really wanted to say hi but i was too shy. I LOVE YALL thank you for the content

    • @emmaanszk
      @emmaanszk ปีที่แล้ว

      omgg ur so lucky!!

  • @sanehiry
    @sanehiry 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you.

  • @jennyevans5457
    @jennyevans5457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If it’s a chaotic situation, like the one in the store and the wife acting like that it’s okay to correct her. If you’re around friends or something I’d say it’s okay to be like I don’t really agree but not get into detail lol. If my husband is confronting someone in public then yes I would have his back and correct him after or in private.

  • @cisi3447
    @cisi3447 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmaoo I was the same way I could not for the life of me cuss . I just didn’t like it and it wouldn’t come out when I would try until I was like 22 😭😭 then when I started cussing it didn’t even sound right cause I went so long not doing it 😂 27:55

  • @marisastafford3364
    @marisastafford3364 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wellcome back guys miss you all I really appreciate you both may God continue to bless you guys ❣️❣️❣️❤❤❤

  • @deajavu
    @deajavu ปีที่แล้ว

    JULIUS. i pray you see this. do you remember the intro to jkj?! i’ve been trying to find that song for years and i cannot find it 😭 please respond

  • @kaylawestbrook99
    @kaylawestbrook99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Juju you should try a supplement called GABA or Ashwaganda, they’re sold as gummies in Target, walmart, etc. & they help really well for anxiety and helping you stay calm

  • @misssunshine8469
    @misssunshine8469 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    sounds like both you have pretty bad anxiety.. Julius the showering multiple times a day can be anxiety, ocd... many of these things can get worse if not addressed so please see a professional for help. Thats probably also why you both are making "excuses" as you said... or Destiny feeling "sad" anxiety can definitely manifest in different ways and chip away at you. Also weed can make anxiety worse as well. Definitely can't teach kids when and how to use swear words.. they should not be using it at all, especially infront of adults... its disrespectful.

  • @kaedincrawford2700
    @kaedincrawford2700 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the Reddit destiny Please do more am I the Ass hole love those you guys give good opinions

  • @MarissaMKB
    @MarissaMKB ปีที่แล้ว

    I get flying anxiety too.

  • @vivianmateo4078
    @vivianmateo4078 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absotudalutely in public but Talk about and Correct it Let’s Get It Juju 😆😆😆😆❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @allisavalencia7351
    @allisavalencia7351 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to start a podcast so bad, I don’t really have a big following on social media and I don’t have a TH-cam. Where do I start and how do I promote and obtain sponsors ?

  • @marissaboomin
    @marissaboomin ปีที่แล้ว

    They can’t take it out for you in Cali?!!!!

  • @laurenenriquez1187
    @laurenenriquez1187 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, the best thing you can do when you are staying at a hotel or air bnb is to take off all of the sheets and check each corner of the mattress seams with a flashlight for bedbugs.

  • @meka8953
    @meka8953 ปีที่แล้ว

    NO BECAUSE THAT'S JUST BASICALLY SAYING YOU'RE NOT GOING TO HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR MISTAKES AND THAT'S NOT RIGHT

  • @looriechouu
    @looriechouu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listening while working, make my day go wayyyy faster🤣. I could listen to you all day long🩷.

  • @xcxiii9163
    @xcxiii9163 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also his grandpa was in AZ

  • @PeachyDaysAhead
    @PeachyDaysAhead 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gunna is my favorite artist. People saying he snitched don’t know anything people say things just to say it. I don’t think thug is coming out anytime soon

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤

  • @efizzleh
    @efizzleh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yall be like "were back!" And six months later we're still waiting...

  • @jennyevans5457
    @jennyevans5457 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hear that dehydration can cause bad sleep patterns 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe try to drink more water lol it’s worth a try.

  • @RKCOMPILATIONS
    @RKCOMPILATIONS ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally!

  • @amandacortes23
    @amandacortes23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My daughter will be 13 next month and she cusses in her room but she knows it’s not allowed in front of my face at that age. I was her age so I know they cuss behind my back

  • @sadienicole2002
    @sadienicole2002 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yayayayayaayyayayyyyyyyy all I can say

  • @stephaniebertolli1375
    @stephaniebertolli1375 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nope no cussing allowed in front of me!!!!! I have two adult kids and they know better !!! I always tell my kids to be better than me because I sure be cussin like crazy lmao

  • @Chiichii0503
    @Chiichii0503 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Favorite coupleeeee❤❤❤ i love the reddits… i think the parents should not condon their son behavior the dad was not wrong for kicking him out because why you cheating on your pregnant wife

  • @Patikake14
    @Patikake14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Juju is high af😂

  • @JustPassingBy_Yolo
    @JustPassingBy_Yolo ปีที่แล้ว

    Depends what they did that was wrong... if they cheated or killed someone, nope not defending. Something else then maybe....

  • @lizethortiz9260
    @lizethortiz9260 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me I am 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @avenabolarinwa4126
    @avenabolarinwa4126 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe you guys can take a walk every night after dinner and that will help you guys sleep well at night

  • @tahneethetourist
    @tahneethetourist ปีที่แล้ว

    To play devils advocate: what if the person who hugged the baby was an old man instead of an old lady? Would you still think the mom over reacted?
    In my opinion no lol, but it’s an interesting double standard.
    Also I don’t have kids but I hate seeing young kids curse. I feel like it’s a direct reflection of what’s going on in their home life and how they are being raised if they feel comfortable enough to be cursing in front of adults.
    Great podcast today. I’m glad you guys are back 🤍

  • @Chiichii0503
    @Chiichii0503 ปีที่แล้ว

    Juju i think they anxiety from flying is definitely a mental thing you can control maybe you should try meditation

  • @bryanna_95
    @bryanna_95 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Trump Rico 😅

  • @zoesoliel5485
    @zoesoliel5485 ปีที่แล้ว

    Des a good girl lol

  • @lilly5976
    @lilly5976 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is a grown man that cheated on his pregnant wife and then lied and blamed his wife for him needing “space”. He can go sleep with the person he cheated with and his parents shouldn’t let him stay with him. Grown folk decisions need grown folk problem solving. He doesn’t need to be coddled for making poor life choices.

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The average age these days for when women get pregnant is 27 and women also have to know there is more risk in having kids when the women is 35+ it’s called geriatric pregnancy and you are most likely to have a miscarriage, or congenital disorder and high blood pressure.. so your 20s and early 30s(30-32) will definitely be the best years to have healthy kids.. stats say everything 💯

  • @BeezyBee89
    @BeezyBee89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RICO charge = fraudulent business dealings .. AKA lying about how you getting money.

  • @xcxiii9163
    @xcxiii9163 ปีที่แล้ว

    The wife was probably scared and didn’t register the thought that the lady had dementia, also jts the sons fault. He shouldn’t have left her by herself . & I think the husband should’ve pulled her aside to calm her down & said his apologies

  • @sammywilliams6
    @sammywilliams6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Juju you better make sure your son is disciplined first and not just cursing on every point he wants to make 😂😂💯

  • @avenabolarinwa4126
    @avenabolarinwa4126 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys get some alcohol and spray it all around the headboard and footboard and you’d find out instantly if there’s bedbugs

  • @yadiramarquez8778
    @yadiramarquez8778 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍

  • @deniserodriguez7210
    @deniserodriguez7210 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂

  • @vee3476
    @vee3476 ปีที่แล้ว

    The wife with the child was in the wrong she over did the dramatics. In most cases I think couples should have each others back in public except in situations like that.
    I personally don’t think kids should curse in front of their parents it’s crossing the respect line.

  • @stephaniebertolli1375
    @stephaniebertolli1375 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh but wait, my kids be saying they grown and so that is their excuse to cuss.... smh I tell em' then that means they ain't too old to get ass whoppin"!!! lmao

  • @jennyevans5457
    @jennyevans5457 ปีที่แล้ว

    The kids cussing is not okay with me. I think, like there’s a time and a place but if you are too lenient with your kid then they think it’s whatever. Gotta set some boundaries and explain to your kid.

  • @amandacortes23
    @amandacortes23 ปีที่แล้ว

    My friend has a daughter who’s 12 and lets her cuss at home in front of her, but she’s never allowed to cuss AT someone or name call.

  • @ashleygonzalez903
    @ashleygonzalez903 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait so you guys pay for your own orders.