Foster Mom MISTREATS Autistic Kid, She Lives To Regret It | Dhar Mann

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  • @DharMann
    @DharMann  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2117

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  • @Tenzi_
    @Tenzi_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6236

    No matter if a kid is “autistic” they shouldn’t be mistreated or used in a beneficial way for yourself, everyone is the same ❤️

    • @alex_910
      @alex_910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @Savetion (BEST VIDS ON YT) you literally have no videos-

    • @BlueX4u
      @BlueX4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Don’t say that why the hell would you say that

    • @Thestupidham
      @Thestupidham 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      So many bots in the replies-

    • @nataliaradulovic5541
      @nataliaradulovic5541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i like that!

    • @doggo_does_things
      @doggo_does_things 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      autistic people are still people

  • @B1U3M0NK3
    @B1U3M0NK3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    13:21 “aFtEr all I DiD fOr YoU”
    You did nothing for him💀💀

  • @Lisa-zh6mx
    @Lisa-zh6mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +755

    The foster mom gave clear signs from the beginning that she was not fit. But the foster care worker left him anyhow. I hope that more social workers will be given the authority to not leave a child when they see/hear red flags. Great video. Thank you to all our social workers and foster parents who make a real difference to our children.

    • @quionaphillips1266
      @quionaphillips1266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    • @bimbobaggypants4820
      @bimbobaggypants4820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was showing more red flags than a Chinese parade.

    • @reality_virtuality
      @reality_virtuality 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True and yes

    • @vuanitahaslam4492
      @vuanitahaslam4492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I saw the red flag AT the beginning I know the worker start to I don't know why she still left him

    • @iiiplaygames_
      @iiiplaygames_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its a youtube video its not that deep

  • @mebagel36
    @mebagel36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    “Oh my god im getting adopted? YAY” *starts happy dance 💀*

    • @Cupcake_oreo1293
      @Cupcake_oreo1293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lol

    • @rebeccalopez658
      @rebeccalopez658 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was born Autistic

    • @ReflectedmelonRoblox
      @ReflectedmelonRoblox 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rebeccalopez658nah cap

    • @HonoredOne161
      @HonoredOne161 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      monke

    • @home4l0ne
      @home4l0ne 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ReflectedmelonRobloxBeing autistic is fine.

  • @Xavierpng
    @Xavierpng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1518

    I'm autistic and this was one of the best videos I've ever seen. Autistic people aren't different from others, but they are special in their own way

    • @kylefx9451
      @kylefx9451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      3 minutes ago, Hello there!

    • @suhleena
      @suhleena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      43 mins ago

    • @abcfamily3593
      @abcfamily3593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Don't lie LMFJAUS

    • @labturtle2978
      @labturtle2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      bots can’t be autistic

    • @rsyllkn
      @rsyllkn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Your everywere bro, even on ihateyoungboy song.

  • @Dallasjclark4450
    @Dallasjclark4450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1539

    gosh this hurts me, how can anyone treat someone like that! Its crazy and how people only do it for the money! We were a foster family and took in 4 kids, it might be difficult but there still human beings! This just tells you about the world, Thank you Dhar Mann for for bringing the truth to the light!

    • @zvertex4439
      @zvertex4439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      My father treats me similar like this, but if i say anything, everyone would think that it is not that bad

    • @Dallasjclark4450
      @Dallasjclark4450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@zvertex4439 oh sorry, im praying for you!

    • @fredachildress3728
      @fredachildress3728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      My niece has a son who is autistic and he is a great young man. Her older daughter who is 22 years old and she is autistic, but she is on the end, so you don't even know it. Love both of them dearly, so if I ever hear of idiots mistreating them, or making fun of them, then the people would have to deal with my niece and me.

    • @laswadahmed5448
      @laswadahmed5448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mostly the people with almost no money

    • @laswadahmed5448
      @laswadahmed5448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I dont want to say anything until I'm in their position cause if I'm in their position there is a chance I will do the same thing

  • @cynthiawilson2703
    @cynthiawilson2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    Growing up in foster care I was treated like a paycheck. It sucked. I tell myself all the time I am no longer there. Thanks for raising awareness on foster care issues through so many of your videos.

    • @atrainbrady3208
      @atrainbrady3208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's not right when people who run foster care programs use it as a tax Wright off,something really needs to be done about that and severe consequences need to be suffered when people miss treat foster kids.

    • @krystalrussell4350
      @krystalrussell4350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry. You did not deserve that.

    • @cynthiawilson2703
      @cynthiawilson2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@atrainbrady3208 it's the foster care kids who get punishes. Look up statistics on what happens after they age out. It's terrible

    • @atrainbrady3208
      @atrainbrady3208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cynthiawilson2703 when I mentioned consequences I was talking about the foster parents suffering consequences for miss treating children, its not right and when they abuse the children they are fostering and they need to be punished for abusing the kids.

    • @amandatomaino1409
      @amandatomaino1409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here.

  • @St4rryp3Rs0n
    @St4rryp3Rs0n 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    3:48 her pjs are so cute 😂😂

  • @koems
    @koems 2 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I have an autistic brother and it breaks my heart every day, seeing him come home and tell me about how his classmates refuse to let him play with them. Thank you, Dhar Mann, for spreading awareness. ❤️

    • @ruaflwr
      @ruaflwr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I know what that's like, I hope he finds classmates who want to play with him..

    • @koems
      @koems 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ruaflwr thanks man I appreciate that.

    • @NVR5802XFREEPALESTINE
      @NVR5802XFREEPALESTINE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@koems I hope he makes friends I have autism but my classmates most of them are nice 😊

    • @koems
      @koems 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@NVR5802XFREEPALESTINE Good for you! 👍

    • @Niiko_official
      @Niiko_official 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      WHtz autism

  • @ImAMaleCatOfficial
    @ImAMaleCatOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    9:55 So happy to see him dance with happiness!

    • @ImAMaleCatOfficial
      @ImAMaleCatOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      No Way! Thanks for liking my comment Dhar!
      Mann

  • @marysmycat6336
    @marysmycat6336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The kids energy when he's happy could light up a room It made me so happy

  • @shodiyaolaide9668
    @shodiyaolaide9668 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Kevin is soo cute and adorable i love the way kevin still smiling

  • @Takedownman
    @Takedownman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I have autism, so many people think worse about us, but many of us lead very productive lives once we figure out what our strengths are.

    • @izzysmessy
      @izzysmessy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. i have a friend who is autistic and he can name, free draw or tell you any facts about any country.

    • @nickriley4609
      @nickriley4609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Unfortunately not all us do...but good that you made it 👍

    • @Tarpehg
      @Tarpehg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also have autism

    • @F1RE_Jojo
      @F1RE_Jojo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Autism is never something to be embarrassed of so don't be afriad to be yourself even with autism

    • @stefaniepeoples73
      @stefaniepeoples73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Both my brothers have autism so I can agree
      My older brother aced the reading EOG
      And My younger brother got at least a 4 on all EOGs
      So pretty successful if I do say myself

  • @Happy-eq3sq
    @Happy-eq3sq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Sandra was a real piece of work and she didn’t have any remorse or learn her lesson! I’m so glad that he didn’t have to stay with her long and that Joy adopted him. A terrific kid that turned into a terrific young successful man. Thank you so much for another inspiring story. Please keep them coming, Dhar Mann.

  • @wacky9330
    @wacky9330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    7:40 “Back in my day, we had to walk hours to get to school”, the classic

    • @itshamdan2430
      @itshamdan2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is so relatable lmaoo
      Parents be like:

    • @itshamdan2430
      @itshamdan2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao bs guy hi 😂
      Iam mortis guy

    • @wacky9330
      @wacky9330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itshamdan2430 lmao hi 😂

    • @SalvoBS
      @SalvoBS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ong bs ppl

    • @itshamdan2430
      @itshamdan2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SalvoBS SELBO HERE TOOOO LMAOOO 😂🤣😂 HI

  • @Sam_Ur_Girl
    @Sam_Ur_Girl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    He did his happy dance it was so good

  • @TheRealZannerx
    @TheRealZannerx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    “Who cares what other people think…. We’ll dont” is probably the most inspirational thing the mean foster parent said

    • @vvfeet
      @vvfeet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💀

    • @Yo.ungNike
      @Yo.ungNike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeppp

    • @spiritsofwolves
      @spiritsofwolves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah honestly i was surprised but now that i think about it her character is the kind of person that doesnt care about what other people think of her

    • @mr.cockroach7494
      @mr.cockroach7494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep

    • @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl
      @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, as bad as she was, she was right about that 1 thing.

  • @MrBookworm01
    @MrBookworm01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Foster Mom: *makes it clear as crystal that she's only fostering children for the money*
    Social Worker: *doesn't notice the obvious red flags and leaves a vulnerable kid in her care*

  • @shamma_
    @shamma_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    "Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children."

  • @aureliosvalle
    @aureliosvalle หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    7:12 Jayden: Sorry
    Sandra: Sorry sorry😂😂😂😂😂😂
    7:18 I’m so- (ugh there it goes again with “sorry”)

  • @sandyadair4118
    @sandyadair4118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love the way Kevin grew up I'm so proud of him. I was so happy that Joy adopted him this was heart touching to me. I'm truly proud of the way he treated the care mom. That had the nerve to ask Kevin for money. It's as I've said before we need to treat others with loving kindness.

    • @tylerbushell2333
      @tylerbushell2333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And brown hair is beautiful as blonde hair

  • @hijinx474
    @hijinx474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This video warms my heart at the end,I have a cousin who was mistreated in the foster system and then got adopted by my aunt. Thank you Dhar Mann!

  • @1uvxmxliie
    @1uvxmxliie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    As an autistic person, i loved this so much and its one of the best dhar mann videos ive ever seen. Keep up the great work dhar ❤️❤️

    • @johnmaestro8026
      @johnmaestro8026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What Does Autistic Mean? Lol haha

    • @1uvxmxliie
      @1uvxmxliie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@johnmaestro8026 A serious developmental disorder that impairs the ability to communicate and interact.
      Autism spectrum disorder impacts the nervous system.
      The range and severity of symptoms can vary widely. Common symptoms include difficulty with communication, difficulty with social interactions, obsessive interests and repetitive behaviours.
      Early recognition, as well as behavioural, educational and family therapies may reduce symptoms and support development and learning.

    • @johnmaestro8026
      @johnmaestro8026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1uvxmxliie means being too social? X

    • @PrimeProd777
      @PrimeProd777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I'm autistic but barely because I used to be in autistic classes for 11 years than in October 2021 I finally went to regular classes with regular education.

    • @TMMTOASTVRANDRL
      @TMMTOASTVRANDRL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PrimeProd777 a

  • @IchbinAndreaxx
    @IchbinAndreaxx ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Every child deserves a parent
    But not every parent deserves a child
    A wise person

    • @escasoh3
      @escasoh3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Whos the wise person

    • @Sophieisblue
      @Sophieisblue 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@escasoh3ur mum

    • @escasoh3
      @escasoh3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Sophieisblue bro got the whole squad laughing

    • @MelissaDuarte-fs7ku
      @MelissaDuarte-fs7ku 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know right

    • @Criskin19
      @Criskin19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      very true

  • @SeriouslyStėłła
    @SeriouslyStėłła 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love how the kid grows up but the parents never age😂😂

    • @baileyferguson5597
      @baileyferguson5597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Alice Lorger It's movie/show/ acting logic! Lol!

    • @danaabel1049
      @danaabel1049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, they don't age in the brains area

  • @MuhammadAhmad-xn9nl
    @MuhammadAhmad-xn9nl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    9:58 that dance tho

    • @GREEN-FLAUR
      @GREEN-FLAUR ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He’s sooo cute🥺

    • @Niallpro10
      @Niallpro10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@GREEN-FLAURfr

    • @SgtAlex15
      @SgtAlex15 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my opinion it doesn't really look that funny😐😐😕

    • @T4ctful
      @T4ctful 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Shimmy Shimmy Ya

  • @ThatOneBeamer
    @ThatOneBeamer ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This makes me so glad to have caring, loving parents that always care for me.

  • @Pleasure.on.Paints
    @Pleasure.on.Paints 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    "After all I did for you!?"
    Nah bro did nothing for him🤣🤣

    • @motazmedani622
      @motazmedani622 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nah bro you right

  • @oxasmd
    @oxasmd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    11:38 puberty hit hard asf on him 😭😭

    • @YoHeartChi
      @YoHeartChi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @MrSahalEMPatelhis deep voice

  • @userXOXO45
    @userXOXO45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Kids need to be filled with love, and not be mistreated❤

  • @euanberesford9974
    @euanberesford9974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    She actually has the nerve to ask Kevin for money after how she treated him, just WOW.

    • @Bittyboo14
      @Bittyboo14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yea and her only income was taking in foster kids. She's such a disgrace

    • @dyakeepclickin
      @dyakeepclickin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THAT NERVE THO

    • @Eimi_MJ
      @Eimi_MJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@dyakeepclickin she literally said "after all I did for you" and she did nothing for him.

    • @Me-su2bu
      @Me-su2bu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Eimi_MJ yeah, actually she did less than nothing…

    • @Saturn_Neptune_dragons
      @Saturn_Neptune_dragons 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IKR LIkE wHO DOES THiS WOMEN THINK SHE IS IT TAlKIn TO Like I mean when she AfTeR aLL I did for you I was laughing so hard at that moment 😂

  • @UrLocalAddi
    @UrLocalAddi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    KEVIN IS SO ADORABLE! ❤❤

  • @ALLYARTS240
    @ALLYARTS240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    Like a wise person once said: "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child."

    • @MC-gh7zn
      @MC-gh7zn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wise person indeed.

    • @Tieme911
      @Tieme911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I like that

    • @pvzgamerlegisniana6492
      @pvzgamerlegisniana6492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But who is the wise person?

    • @nuteijeru5456
      @nuteijeru5456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@pvzgamerlegisniana6492 definitely not you and your parents

    • @amiradjiar73
      @amiradjiar73 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Like a wise person once said every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child

  • @benstub445
    @benstub445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This was BY FAR the best video ever, and I've watched almost all of them. This was so heartwarming and inspiring, truly. This is a lesson that a lot of people sadly do not learn, and it's so amazing to be able to watch this. I hope everyone who is watching this has a safe, warm, and merry Christmas!

  • @Besogolden
    @Besogolden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Every kid deserves a loving home but not every parent deserves a kid

    • @davidlangford7863
      @davidlangford7863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't think there is any other way to put what you said any more eloquently as you did!

    • @francesca1386
      @francesca1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree.

    • @Besogolden
      @Besogolden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@francesca1386 thank u happy new year

    • @Besogolden
      @Besogolden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidlangford7863 thank u happy new year

  • @brookepotts7735
    @brookepotts7735 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Sandra: after all what I did for you
    me: you did nothing for him!😂

  • @weirdo5424
    @weirdo5424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    It’s so sad how many people actually treat foster kids like this whether they’re autistic or not!

    • @caileymurphy8164
      @caileymurphy8164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah adoption is a hard thing. I have to give up my son for adoption. It hurts alot still. But its open adoption. Its not the same as your own child. Or a Childs biological mother.
      Its very true foster kids are treated different..

  • @thejedicounciloffical
    @thejedicounciloffical 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    This is why we have to be careful of who we choose to be foster parents. Every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid.

    • @epicdino6679
      @epicdino6679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes

    • @abhishekr5375
      @abhishekr5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said my friend 👍🏻

    • @kathryncotter4933
      @kathryncotter4933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love the name above^

    • @mae2695
      @mae2695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my geez it’s the Jedi Council

    • @pasteltea2994
      @pasteltea2994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not every kid deserves a parent

  • @GOPHOMET
    @GOPHOMET 2 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    As an autistic person myself, the last thing I need is for someone to take advantage of my disability for their own personal gain. We are people. Some of us have high support needs. While others have low support needs. We are all unique and just want love and respect.

    • @Biancalovestosew98
      @Biancalovestosew98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly! I’m autistic too.

    • @brianbailey3300
      @brianbailey3300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly and I’m autistic myself,every human is different it doesn’t matter if your autistic or not we are all human beings and we all have our own different needs that’s just part of life some people are athletes there need is having more calories a day and they spend a lot of money on equipment to help loosen there muscles, I spend a lot of money on rollers to help loosen my back and autism and everything else wether it’s another disability or I should say a challenge and those challenges will only make you stronger and more capable of life and everything is different for everybody, we all have different experiences in life, that’s how the world progresses

    • @PortineYT
      @PortineYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm on the spectrum of autism as well

    • @dustinvalerio9741
      @dustinvalerio9741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So am I

    • @urokmonkey
      @urokmonkey ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m autistic as well and this is very true and very well said

  • @nicksilverstein1193
    @nicksilverstein1193 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    She is so good at playing a villain. I wonder if she can play a good person too lol

  • @TaegenGunn
    @TaegenGunn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    This breaks my heart that no one wants to adopt children simply because of their disability. I’m not a foster child but I do have Autism and know what it’s like to feel left out in general. Kids with disabilities have different special abilities and are extraordinary 💗

    • @idk.m60
      @idk.m60 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know right especially when they use kids because of their disability.

    • @Ethans_Here
      @Ethans_Here 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@idk.m60 😔😭

    • @fatimehasan9510
      @fatimehasan9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah understand now

    • @abc.gamezTT2024
      @abc.gamezTT2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have it too :(

    • @Villancrusher
      @Villancrusher 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does Autism mean

  • @yastaku3590
    @yastaku3590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Who cares about what other people think?" "I do." "Well don't" is my favorite line

  • @avengerskirbypacmanmarioso2007
    @avengerskirbypacmanmarioso2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    7:13 sandra sings sorry sorry 🎶🎶

  • @ItzMiku_playzonYT
    @ItzMiku_playzonYT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    0:36 "Hi iM jOy"
    "AND I AM ANXIETY 👹"

  • @laylaj5141
    @laylaj5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Autistic doesn't mean bad, autistic means different. Different isn't bad, it's great to be different!

    • @GoombiSFM
      @GoombiSFM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well....

    • @tr0y644
      @tr0y644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      just call me a slur

    • @dariusanderson5944
      @dariusanderson5944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not good or bad.

    • @AspieLoner
      @AspieLoner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for giving me this, I may be autistic but that doesn't change who I am

    • @GoombiSFM
      @GoombiSFM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AspieLoner you should definitely change yourself

  • @alexymilhazes7082
    @alexymilhazes7082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    9:20 i almost cried at this part 😭😭😭😭😭😭 my heart just melted ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @RandomUserXD
      @RandomUserXD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cried 🥹 I loved this part

  • @danielcarrillo7243
    @danielcarrillo7243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    9:27 I like how do you say no it’s like he’s playing a game and when he lost he say no!!

  • @salmanvanoverberghe
    @salmanvanoverberghe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As an Autistic person, I felt so bad for Kevin and I'm glad he has a new foster mom who believed in him. This was one of my favourite videos

  • @aeromaximon
    @aeromaximon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Moral of the story: Foster children are meant to be treated with love and respect, not exploited for business.

  • @UnknownUser12316
    @UnknownUser12316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    12:42 "She believed in me when I had nothing, so I wanna give her everything" my favorite part

  • @esmereldawilliams2096
    @esmereldawilliams2096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    You should never mistreat anyone no matter if they have a disability or anything. Treat everyone the same and treat everyone the way you want to be treated. Remember, we’re not just telling stories, we’re changing lives. Dhar Mann is so inspirational and today’s lesson was fantastic!

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Thank you for watching, Esmeralda. I hope the message of this video inspired you. Follow me on Instagram for more inspiring videos and exclusive giveaways! bit.ly/3bXHUs6

    • @subtolotox
      @subtolotox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You gonna be slient and not reply to Dhar mann

    • @saxtonbird8371
      @saxtonbird8371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People always say treat autistic kids the same, but then the people that say that are always overly nice to autistic kids. that’s even worse lmfao

    • @takethatbihhometwin
      @takethatbihhometwin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@subtolotox frrr

    • @itismeeeeee1331
      @itismeeeeee1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes!!!!

  • @astralxxo
    @astralxxo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    the little boy is so wholesome 😭❤

  • @mfadlmula
    @mfadlmula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    When I was 4 I was sent to a foster care with me and my brother. We weren’t even aloud to sit on the couch and do much. This really hit me and I’m glade this video is around to see!❤️

  • @charlottewilson3922
    @charlottewilson3922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    "Everybody has a heart that can be touched by something.”
    “Autism can't define me, I define autism.”
    “Being on the spectrum and having other learning differences, I am used to working harder and have a great drive to succeed."
    These quotes are true, and we need to learn to respect everyone...equally!

    • @chlouieandchelzhae1197
      @chlouieandchelzhae1197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ah yes

    • @River_Does_Stuff_Art
      @River_Does_Stuff_Art 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just want to point out that the VAST majority of disabled people prefer to be called disabled. Obviously if you want to refer to yourself as differently-abled that's fine. But calling all disabled people differently abled or some other euphemism, only further stigmatizes disability as a whole.

  • @Sxmply_Miggy
    @Sxmply_Miggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    13:03 EMOTIONAL DAMAGE🔥

  • @jackiethecartoonfan2300
    @jackiethecartoonfan2300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “After all I did for you!”
    Yeah, neglecting to feed him, not buying any new clothes he wants and making him walk to school, etc.

    • @alanaheiman3478
      @alanaheiman3478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah I agree she did nothing for him

    • @AIEchidna
      @AIEchidna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lucas Garcia hahahahahahaha-

    • @rosy_bird6
      @rosy_bird6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly, she completely mistreated him

    • @Jeff-fu8is
      @Jeff-fu8is 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All these things are exactly what I was thinking. She didn't do a damn thing for him. She was arrogant and selfish and she absolutely belittled the boy

    • @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl
      @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, she did nothing good for him

  • @lakshaysaharan3818
    @lakshaysaharan3818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This kid is the cutest and best child actor in Dhar man team ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ile-des-Soeurs_Verdun
    @Ile-des-Soeurs_Verdun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    7:15 "Apologizing isn't always gonna get you out of things". Well, she got that right at least

  • @Eidiya-
    @Eidiya- 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love this awesome story and i enjoyed it
    ( i love how mrs. Celey and joy never aged 😂 )

  • @rebeccawood7126
    @rebeccawood7126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    All kids deserve parent, not all parents deserve kids

  • @UnknownUser12316
    @UnknownUser12316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    12:25
    Sandra: After you left, I wasn't allowed to be a foster parent anymore.
    Kevin: I'm really sorry to hear that.
    Me if I was Kevin: That's what you get for treating me that way. Serves you right *leaves*

    • @Y4mira
      @Y4mira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was him like a normal parent

  • @elsannapunzel2413
    @elsannapunzel2413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mrs. Celley: Doesn't even let him to eat a bowl of spaghetti
    Mrs. Celley again: After all I did to you!?

    • @saintdenis3238
      @saintdenis3238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Many abusers lack remorse so they don't feel like they did anything wrong

  • @Adrija_1st
    @Adrija_1st 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    He is so appreciative and shes just
    Mistreating him for no reason and she
    Was apparently SoO nIcE

  • @Emotionful23
    @Emotionful23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    As someone who is adopted anytime they post a video about adoption makes me feel so happy! Sadly things like this do happen. We should treat people with respect and kindness no matter what!

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Glad this video made you happy. Thanks for watching. Stay tuned for more.

    • @TTVtsbIoI
      @TTVtsbIoI 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      L LMAOOOO

    • @Emotionful23
      @Emotionful23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TTVtsbIoI what’s so funny?

    • @TTVtsbIoI
      @TTVtsbIoI 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Emotionful23 u adopted haha

    • @olibonbon1770
      @olibonbon1770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TTVtsbIoI And your dad left you

  • @j.jbishop5749
    @j.jbishop5749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love the video, felt so bad for the kid in the beginning glad he finally got someone to take care of him the right way and glad he got a little vengeance on Sandra at the end

    • @KBAFourthtime
      @KBAFourthtime ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And she had absolutely no right to get mad at him for *fairly* refusing to help her!

  • @moshi29.
    @moshi29. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    13:20 After all I did to you!
    LOL she didn't even feed him when he is young. Great video Dhar Mann!!! I always watch your videos everytime you uploaded. 😀👍

    • @enriqueiii9209
      @enriqueiii9209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree also eating time was at 7am and 7pm but for her it was when ever she was hungry. LOL

    • @Y4mira
      @Y4mira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@enriqueiii9209 well my mum doesn’t feed me from 5 at to 7pm he is just complaining

  • @zenitsuagatsumaiscool
    @zenitsuagatsumaiscool 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    11:51 “Don’t leave me hanging” Ahh moment💀

  • @suryaramprakash5455
    @suryaramprakash5455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I can’t believe how this foster mom is treating her kid who has Autism, no kid should ever be treated that way
    Thanks, Dhar Mann for this Wonderful Video to Spread Awareness to kids who has Autism. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @willchristly7185
      @willchristly7185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He wasn’t even treated that badly

    • @Axolotlguy646
      @Axolotlguy646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@willchristly7185 he was abit

    • @rayanking4773
      @rayanking4773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willchristly7185 he was dude

    • @willchristly7185
      @willchristly7185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rayanking4773 how he was given a shelter and enough food to survive

    • @deepfryer767
      @deepfryer767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willchristly7185 yeah but the parent clearly gave him the bare minimum, it was only for the money.

  • @rosemarysoto4276
    @rosemarysoto4276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I just don’t understand one bit how someone can be so evil how can such a person use a poor autistic child to live off of the foster care system that is not acceptable that should be prohibited wow but I am so glad that at the end this little boy turned out to be a very successful young man thanks to the lady who actually became the real mother of him the one who really cared for him Mrs. Jacobs may the Lord bless her and her family as well my love and my heart go out to you all especially this little angel God bless you sweetie👏👍❤️✌️

  • @lianjagdeo5000
    @lianjagdeo5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kevin in 99% parts:😄 that 1% at 10:45 :😐

  • @RiverGrinch
    @RiverGrinch ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love how she goes “After all I did for you!” When in reality she didn’t do anything

  • @tylerandunknown3300
    @tylerandunknown3300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “There are many people out there who wants to adopt you.” - Joy
    I agree with the character but Kevin just doesn’t know it yet. He deserves better from Sandra.😢

    • @arrensu
      @arrensu ปีที่แล้ว

      ADOPT ME LIKE THE ROBLOX GAME

  • @macc9667
    @macc9667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    11:07 it took him 10 years to get a bottle of orange juice out of the fridge

  • @mszafran51
    @mszafran51 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Kevin is such a sweet kid! I would have loved to adopt him in a heartbeat! His reaction to Ms Jacobs was priceless and made my day! Sandra was also quite entertaining to watch. Unfortunately, stuff like this happens! I get so aggravated when I hear people taking advantage of a child, specifically with disability to make extra cash. This is so inhuman and those people should be penalized!

    • @macbetheditz
      @macbetheditz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would adopt him too!

  • @SantinaRoccuzzo
    @SantinaRoccuzzo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This foster mom needs a lifetime in prison as most foster moms and dads do since the system fails most children.

    • @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl
      @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She didn't really do anything to warrant life in prison. The punishment she got is punishment enough.

  • @thegoofiestofgoobers2020
    @thegoofiestofgoobers2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "After all I did for you!?" more like "after all of the abuse!?" Great video man, keep up the good work!

    • @Shadow_Knight14
      @Shadow_Knight14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good roast

    • @user-oh6xq8lx3z
      @user-oh6xq8lx3z 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless both you and whoever is reading, dont forget Jesus loves you. He died on the cross for our sins and rose three days later. Have an amazing and safe day!❤️!!!!

    • @Shadow_Knight14
      @Shadow_Knight14 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly,I didn’t get that

  • @turntablethomas2584
    @turntablethomas2584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cried when Joy revealed her adoption certificate. I think it’s the sweetest moment in a Dhar Mann video ever. :)

  • @semithegamer5342
    @semithegamer5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    thank you dharmann, im a muslim and im fasting and these amazing videos pass my time thank you again 😊❤

  • @ashlogical
    @ashlogical 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kevin is literally so adorable when he looks so happy 😭❤️‍🩹

  • @sincerelygabs.
    @sincerelygabs. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Damn, I hate how people irl actually do this. It hurts me a lot; no one should have to go thru this torture 😩 Thanks for spreading a warinesses about this Dhar! Love the vid 💕

    • @sincerelygabs.
      @sincerelygabs. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@axinark Wow, I’m so sorry! U don’t deserve to get treated differently just because u have a different ability! That isn’t fair. That’s one thing I hate about life. People are treated unfair. 😔

    • @autisticprincess
      @autisticprincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I get picked on for being autistic too because I collect build a bears and I in a group home wich I hate 😐🌸

    • @beary1959
      @beary1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      if i was that autistic kid, i would tell her to give the the amount of money she would've given his foster mother and every day she would treat me like her actual child i would give her 1/30 of the amount

    • @maryalicesawesomevids
      @maryalicesawesomevids 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@autisticprincess I love build a bears you shouldn’t get made fun of for that bc there’s nothing wrong with it

    • @skysquad285
      @skysquad285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m a still a huge Barbie fan @ almost 13 yrs old, no one has ever picked on me for it but I’ve heard other ppl getting picked on for it. No one should deserve this sort of abuse and bullying 😞😞

  • @fredthethird3944
    @fredthethird3944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    10:32 you can almost say he was in joy to be adopted by joy

  • @stillgaming5631
    @stillgaming5631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I can’t believe she had the nerve to say “after all I did for you” at the end. Nice video Dhar Man!

    • @MiyahSundermeyer
      @MiyahSundermeyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She also had the nerve not to apologize for the way she treated him. Instead she tried to gaslight him and throw a fit when she didn't get her way. However, she's an example of a narcissist and therefore the world owes her some sort of living. What a loser

  • @DelsaMohtasha
    @DelsaMohtasha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so happy for Kevin when he got adopted by joy

  • @madalynn_grace
    @madalynn_grace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    When Joy told Kevin that she was the one adopting him, I started jumping around and dancing in my bed and I had a big smile on my face! Joy is definitely the one for him! Thanks Dhar for all your content! ❤️❤️

  • @Imslayingtheday
    @Imslayingtheday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This story also teaches me how I am so lucky and that I shouldn’t be ungrateful for anything.

  • @c0zy2flii
    @c0zy2flii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I went to foster care!!!🥺🥺😣 This makes me feel… I’m just happy kids out there get good families🥹🥹

  • @Phathu_j
    @Phathu_j ปีที่แล้ว +13

    thank you for inspiring us Kevin you are a good person don't let anyone ever mistreat you like that!

  • @xo_cherri
    @xo_cherri ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As in autistic women in foster care, I feel that I can very related to this, this is a true example of how the foster care industry acts. Even though I never got adopted and will age out soon.Thank you Dhar man for making such great representation.

    • @victoriasalter1701
      @victoriasalter1701 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How are you doing?

    • @aoifekennedy9004
      @aoifekennedy9004 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry to hear that how are you doing now ? Hope your ok and your doing well now x

    • @johnnyjoestar3495
      @johnnyjoestar3495 ปีที่แล้ว

      No wonder💀

    • @aoifekennedy9004
      @aoifekennedy9004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnnyjoestar3495that is so rude of you people can’t help that they have disabilities like they don’t choose to be disabled. I have a few disabilities and I was a lucky one as I had and still have a loving family are you saying that’s bad ? Well ? Anyway back to what I was saying that is still so rude of you people can’t help that they have disabilities they didn’t choose to be like this or be abandoned or anything

  • @cadenceecore
    @cadenceecore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    12:09 If i were him, as soon as i saw her, i would slap her and walk away.
    Btw this is an amazing story

    • @kevonwinters
      @kevonwinters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slapping her would be assault on 4K

    • @Shapeshifter-of-Names
      @Shapeshifter-of-Names ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd hear what was Going on (Things That is Downhill)

  • @StevenMontoya45
    @StevenMontoya45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whenever he said “NOOOO” To her at the dinner, I literally teared up a bit 😭

  • @LaiklynnNelson
    @LaiklynnNelson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Team he deserves everything
    👇
    He is so KIND
    Edit omg this is the most likes I've ever gotten THANK YOU
    Edit two omg THANK YOU I've never gotten more likes

    • @ooo_oøoox
      @ooo_oøoox 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s 23 likes…

  • @bethanyleadbitter4060
    @bethanyleadbitter4060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Only half way into watching this and it’s really heartbreaking, feel really sorry for Kevin.
    Glad joy adopted him xx

  • @lovelyicecream5000
    @lovelyicecream5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Cant wait!! Dhar Mann is so addicted ❤️

  • @Absalon040
    @Absalon040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg the evil foster mom is my fav actor she is littrly the best evil actor👍

  • @MinecraftDuck1238
    @MinecraftDuck1238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    6:28 Kevin deserves to talk back

    • @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl
      @ChristopherBingham-xx8xl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know if I'd call that talking back. It's more like reasonable requests. If you call that backtalk, then yeah, he has every right to do it in this case.

  • @BH-iq3ic
    @BH-iq3ic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It is really sad , that people are mistreating people with disabilities. I don't want that for myself, because of my diabetes. It's really not nice. Thank you Dhar Mann for making videos like this. They're really helpful to me!

    • @taysloverr
      @taysloverr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow exactly😀🥺😢💔👌

    • @eldallascuh7015
      @eldallascuh7015 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      BH no one give a damm that Dhar man fault for making fun of people nd u just sad cuz we don’t care

    • @BH-iq3ic
      @BH-iq3ic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eldallascuh7015 If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all!

  • @noahsearth6762
    @noahsearth6762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No matter if a kid is “✌🏼autistic✌🏼” they shouldn’t be _mistreated_ or _used_ in a beneficial way for yourself, everyone is the same. 9:55 His dance moves made me crack up so hard loool

  • @vythir4245
    @vythir4245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have an autistic friend, whose parents are divorced and he lives with his mother, and he says all his autism does to make an impact on his life, is motivate him. He also says that Autism was once a challenge, but after about a month, he said it did not negatively impact him. This guy is one of my best friends.

  • @tabithamwangi2693
    @tabithamwangi2693 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the kid has an excellent talent..keep up the good work Dhar..you are changing lives...