“We didn’t know this was a thing” *five min later* “we were warned of scams” and then she said “I didn’t know twin adoption was rare” but in their adoption q&a she mentions how rare twin adoption is. LYING THROUGH HER TEETH!!!! This is why they can’t be trusted
Sometimes I feel so naive when I watch these vlogs and genuinely feel bad for them and then I watch you and you open my eyes to what’s really going on and cracking it wide open. Why can’t I see past the BS?! I feel so dumb. Thank you for what you do !!!
Alyssa, you are here.. so don't feel dumb. Your subconscious is telling you somethings up, which is more than can be said for the other 1000 something people commenting on their video eating it up.
Probably because you could not fathom doing the things people like this do. It would not be your first thought when seeing a video like this because the thought of lying to anyone about such a sensitive subject seems impossible......at least that is what I realized after watching a few of Josh's videos. I had the same thoughts in the past too
I had the same thing. I always feel so much empathy and appreciate people like Josh showing it’s not okay. Now with the video where they „got her“ I’m also thinking wtf?
Watching them is too goodnto be true. I know something was off. Especially now they have their baby and I feel something’s not cool deep down about them. Thanks for this
In the first video when Bella is on the phone she says 'this better not be a scam'. Then in this video they said they had never heard of adoption scams!! This couple IS the SCAM!!
I am sobbing my eyes out when I saw the first video at the end I actually cared for them, I was so shocked and, felt sorry for them I can’t believe they did this to their fans my respect for them is completely lost and I’m so disgusted they did this 😔
As an adoptive mom of three kids this video and this couple infuriated me with their actions. There is surely deceit in their actions. They are promoting a negative stereotype regarding birth moms and adoptions in general. When the process is done CORRECTLY, adopting is a safe and beautiful way to create family. Shame on them for tainting the idea of adopting as influencers.
How is there deceit in della and Bella’s actions? The woman they were going to adopt from was NOT a birth mom…. She wasn’t pregnant. She lied. Who cares if della has a blog and makes money
“She even met with an agency” the way he glossed over that part with no further details. She wouldn’t have been able to be represented by an agency or truly go THROUGH an agency without actually being pregnant. You’re 100% correct in your gut feeling, in my opinion. I feel the same.
Ya the agency HAD to have told them that this women is not legitimate being that the woman failed to make appointments and likely failed to give them validating the pregnancy information. If the woman had a zoom meeting with the agncy like they said happened then the agency very likely would have given them the warning and discretions but they did not give the same xtra details and didn’t want to admit that the agency likely warned them because they wanted to keep it going for the storyline they were in too deep
Josh they are avoiding an adoptive agency because they can’t film and exploit it all till after it’s final. They don’t want to wait a year or two for that to happen. They want content NOW. It’s disgusting.
@@ashleyrocha1028 Maybe so, I wouldn't know nor would I care if you did. Just like you don't know wtf they did either. I know for an absolute fact they have an agency. This dude has a channel consisting of bashing everyone else's lives. Lol Must suck to not have a life of your own so your channel has to be bashing others. I would hate to be a subscriber to a channel like that, that just feeds into negativity. Not sure how this popped up for me but this is nuts. Oh yeah, I know! He's literally taking all the channels who actually have a large following and bashing to get views. What a loser! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 BLOCKED THIS QUACK!
@@boycee1 they signed up with one, but found the woman through social media. They allegedly started feeling wary of her because she wouldn't ever goto the adoption agency meetings with them. It doesn't really make sense either way.
@Emily Walton If that's true, I'll be heartbroken. I started following her because I have fertility issues, and seeing her videos made me feel less alone.
I don't have any sympathy for these people. The music, the matching black shirts, the "ignoring" red flags all while admitting they were skeptical. They wanted to cut the line, and get a baby asap. Everyone else who's been waiting and doing it right be damned.
@Snarky1 That's nuts! Those Facebook groups are just hubs for "parents" who want to buy, sell and trade children like pokemon cards it abhorrent! We need to let Josh in on that whole world and let him turn the light onto all those cockroaches 🤔
The target scene is so fake! They didn’t have a cart, didn’t buy anything, they weren’t looking a twin things. It seems they filmed that after they found out so it looks like they were so excited and believed she was pregnant for longer than they really did, to make it look longer more elaborate to viewers. Hope that made sense
As someone who was adopted at birth this is so wrong. My parents waited over 10 years for me after losing twins and these people are willing to capitalize over this? Ridiculous. Thank you for sharing Josh. Great video as always! Also congratulations to your wife!
I gave my son up almost 22 years ago an the couple I picked only did the basics until he was in there hands cause they had had a family change there mind once an it crushed them 🥺 an after he was born an I was in the hospital I thought about changing my mind but I didn't cause I was a 17 year old that had no help but I would have never given him to them if I thought they would have exploited him 🤦🏻♀️
Yes, Congrats Cathy! I’ve only completed the first set of classes (pre-requisites) for nursing school like A&P 1 & 2, chemistry, etc., it’s hard! Cathy, you’re a rockstar, getting through nursing school & getting your license while raising a family is insanely difficult & amazing!!! My dear (we’re$ probably the same age. I applaud you. I have kids & I’ve worked for 9 years as a CNA (specifically inpatient hospice nursing assistants) (& all nurses too, I had the best nursing student validate me after a very traumatic birth alone (my husband was still deployed, I delivered at 36 weeks despite my older 4 kids all being born at about 40 weeks). I LOVE nurses & I love being a nursing assistant, because I love spending more time on patient care, but when I see good nurses, they make me want to get through that education & be a good nurse to people (not patients, but people). Sorry for the tangent, Congrats Cathy, I wanna be like you, Momma❤, even while you’re not on Josh’s channel, you’re still inspiring! Sending love to your family, I wish you all the best ✨
I am autistic and sometimes have trouble reading facial expressions. Though, also, I spend a lot of time attempting to understand ‘em. These are the most contrived expressions, I have ever seen.
My first thought when they said it was twin girls was "Well isn't that convenient that's exactly what they said they wanted. I bet it's a scam." Then bam that's what it was. My heart goes out to people who truly want to adopt for the right reasons and get scammed, but I have absolutely no empathy for these people.
I find it interesting that they didn’t show them actually putting together two cribs etc. all they showed was the wallpaper. But also if twins were going to be born so early they would have been in the NICU for weeks so the urgency at 26 weeks to have a nursery ready is a red flag in itself.
@@LuisaFernanda. yes! If they didn’t show SO much I wouldn’t question it but I dunno. They also said they haven’t been in the nursery but were able to edit a full video of it all… fishy.
As an adopted mom I'm livid! I came upon their page and seen they were friends with some people I follow. I listened to their infertility story and thought they were nice and would be good parents. The more I listened the madder I got. I started following them about 6 months ago, I was not really into their content until they started IVF, because I've been there. In the beginning Bella refused to talk about adoption , she wanted a baby of HER own. That made me upset, I do feel my children are my own no matter how they came into this world. Dallin said he would do anything to be a dad,but didn't want to adopt, it be giving up if they adopted. He later changed his mind after Bella said she had a dream about adopting a baby. This was right after the IVF failed. Dallin called an adoption agency the next day and was on board to adopt. When they got the call telling them they needed to start getting the nursery ready. Bella wanted to go shopping and out for dinner. She made a statement that really upset me. She was laughing and saying I'm going to be a mom and will be getting a baby before YOU, and I can still eat sushi. She didn't even think about the couples that follow them or the women who struggled with infertility. It came off as ..haha, I get a baby before you and can still eat sushi. She is all about herself, she is used to getting her way because of money. When they did the video of the first contact with their potential birth mom, Bella was so into the thought of twin girls that she didn't' even realize the woman was telling her what she wanted to hear. I kind of knew at that point that something was up. Bella said she dreamed her whole life for twin girls. They went on a podcast of their friends Matt and Abby to which they announced they were adopting. Dallin said he really didn't want to adopt, it was his last choice. He made it sound like if we can have our own baby then adoption will have to do. They got in to how adoption works and the cost. Bella said she would pay anything. Both her and Dallin was literally trying to buy a baby. They asked listeners to reach out if they knew of anyone giving up a baby/babies. Bella said they may be getting a baby through social media. I was so upset listening to them beg for a baby. They have an agency but are still looking on their own. I don't think they understand how they came off to birth parents. We waited 4 years for our first baby, we went strictly by the book be and waited OUR turn. My next two kids came quickly. We waited 6 months for our second baby and 18 months or our third. Bella and Dallin are not ready to be parents and might never be adoptive parents. They are to selfish and I have no doubt in my mind that they are actively trying to purchase a baby no matter the cost or what's fair for everyone. They are fake people. I am mad at myself for not seeing it sooner. I did tell them they were being scammed before the posted their scam video. If I was a birth mom looking to place my baby with a couple, I would be checking out of their social medias. I'd pass on The Lambert's. No doubt about it.🎉
Jatie vlogs is no longer friends with them because they see della as clout chassers . Jatie said they couldn't just hangout with della without turning it into a video
Congratulations Kathy! I've been a Registered Nurse for 28 years and would never look back. One piece of advice though, don't let the profession eat you up.
two reasons I feel like they contrived the whole thing (in on the scam). One: the language of the “birth mother” matched exactly their syntax and grammar styles, as well as their immature assumption of how a birth mother would act in this situation. Two: think like a family vlogger. EACH aspect of the pregnancy always gets its own video, it’s like a cardinal rule. The gender reveal, telling the family, finding out they’re adopting, nursery setup, etc. would have each been their own video but they instead SAVED all the footage for a “catfish” video.
I always wondered how they were going to get a NEWBORN adopted in a matter of weeks/months. People wait years and years to adopt newborns. It all made sense when this video came out.
My parents waited 11 years for my brother as a newborn and a year for me when I was born a year later. Thankful the adoption agency placed us together. However, they had to wait another year each for them to legally become our parents.
In the adoption world in private domestic adoptions money talks. The ones who get the babies are the ones who are high profile, have money etc. I’ve even seen adoption agencies scam families. I know of a family who had tried adoption after so many years of trying and loss. They signed with an adoption agency in Florida. And were told they matched with a birth mom. They weren’t told they were one of several couples in the running. When they got to the hospital for the baby’s birth, they saw an older couple and thought they were the parents of the woman. Nope. They were one of the families in the running (which is a sick and twisted thing to do as an adoption agency) This was an older couple 55+ and they already had 4 sons whose wives were all pregnant so grandma was having a midlife crisis and wanted a baby too. Those types of adoptions shouldn’t happen.
@@Weatheredstorms1 oh I absolutely agree with what your saying in that instance. My family was extremely lucky to have been able to adopt us without the issues of possibly being scammed. After they lost a child and were told they couldn't conceive again I believe they went through an agency with a lawyer and I'm not sure why exactly it took 11 years. That part of the process they never explained to us.
@@Weatheredstorms1 that is so disturbing. Sounds like grandma was competing with her daughter-in-laws for attention. I know mothers who are like that but not to go so far as to adopt. But they have tried to take their children's kids away from them. It's disturbing
We’ve had a newborn since she was 6 days old thru fostering and she’s almost a year and we haven’t even had the final home study despite TPR for adoption….my best friend was adopted through fostering as well she was placed at 9 months and it took almost 4 years then, which was the 80s…it legitimately never happens this quick…even with dang agencies specifically for newborn adoption 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Just came from your Jatie's video. I stopped watching Jatie a while ago after Josh ripped Katie's jumper in a prank (the action if it wasn't faked looked violent on his part) but I felt like Della's vlog was always genuine but after this video I became so much more aware of things you pointed out. As someone going through infertility issues I really felt sorry for Della's vlogs (I didn't watch part 1 because I never understood why they posted it but now I understand) I am now unsubscribed to both. You really opened my eyes to the danger these family channels can cause to their own children with exposure. Now I won't be watching any anymore. Thank you so much for the information it has educated me. Can't wait to watch more of your videos.
I also use to watch Della, I found them through Jatie, in my recommended and also felt they were the more kind and relatable couple. That's why I was subscribed to Della for a while, not Katie tho. But after seeing Josh videos on all of them, including the podcast EPs I've also unfollowed and unsubscribed. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
They 100 percent created this scam. You can see it clearly if you have that in mind during this entire video. They're showing what they "would do" for an expecting mother who they would be adopting from. If you listen to her repeat about the nursery also so many times 😂 We'll we have this nursery ALREADY guys, ya know, if anyone out there wants to give us a baby now. This is just to get more offers rolling in.
@@jennylynn3075 she could use an egg donar and his sperm and carry the chiled herself. They have fooled us all this is their scam there was 100% no one else involved.
I found your channel bc of the Beeston Fam. I was a fan of them before and Josh you completely opened my eyes to these families exploiting their children. Thank you!
I don't understand how a marriage works if you're watching each other lie like this. Lying over such an intense topic would seemingly solidify that persons ability for deceit and manipulation towards anyone. How do you not question everything your partner says forever?
Jatie moved to Arizona because of Della, they were literally inseparable (always together at each other's houses), and then they were not seen together. Della never said anything about it, but Jatie came out and said that Della used them for views (Jatie had a much bigger following). They said they just wanted friends who did not want to record all the time. But, Della later mentioned that they were one of the ones who taught them how to fake for views. Bella came out with a song about Katie, and that same day Jatie announced that they are having a baby. The whole situation is so weird.
How do you go to pregnancy classes & stuff like that without realizing they’re not pregnant? A fake bump? Nobody in the classes noticed it was fake? They never touched her belly or asked to go to any appointments with her to hear the heartbeats/ see the ultrasound? Sounds pretty shady to me & I feel like they knew it was fake and went with it for the “content” and sympathy.
That’s what I was wondering too. If they were able to make it out there for classes, I’m surprised they wouldn’t try to go to an appointment or two to see the babies.
There is nothing wrong with wanting a baby, but they adopted a baby and their are exploiting her, they are sick, fake and selfish, they literally film everything, even the first time they met her, they couldn't met their baby without a camera, they only want views... @@6livingmybestlife
Are you saying they actually transferred the embryos and got pregnant and then lied and said they got pregnant naturally? Or are you saying they lied about having infertility in the first place? Not arguing, just trying to understand.
While i dont agree with these people, getting pregnant after years of fertility issues or getting naturally pregnant before transfer 100% happens and more often than you would think
@Bayli Star I'm not going to say that's what they did. However, Brad and Rach got pregnant naturally (right before they were going to transfer) and that one seems true. But Rachelle and Justin? That one I don't believe. She had her appts for the fertility clinic but then "had to reschedule" and then all of a sudden she's naturally pregnant. They even did all the testing on Justin's sperm to see if anything changed and it had not. Their chances were basically nonexistent if I remember right. Their views were so low, I really do think they did this after seeing how the others jumped with this "miracle". I really wouldn't put anything past these family vloggers.
See I don't believe they were ever scammed at all. I think this was all one big play for content and their acting stinks. These people are fake to the core. They set this up. I wouldn't be surprised if they gave this woman money to play with them.
Congratulations Kathy! I know first hand how hard it is to go to school while raising kids. Nursing school is a whole other level. What an accomplishment to have under your belt.
You just have to take a look at their body language, to know that they are lying. The amount of time they blink when they talk to the camera, not able to hold “eye contact” looking away, Bella covering her mouth when her husband talks, closing / rubbing their eyes, arms crossed……sooooo many signs of them flat out lying or at least exaggerating their situation 😳🙈
Ive seen youtubers lose a child, or go through a divorce, and spend months away from youtube because they were actually devastated and grieving for real but these two absolutely had to make videos and edit them as soon as they could! That screams devastated 😏
Josh! My brother worked at the origami owl warehouse about 10 years ago! They hired a bunch of teenagers for extra help during the busy holiday season and my brother was one of those kids. His job was to pack orders so he’d collect all the charms and stuff from all over the warehouse to pack them up for deliveries. He worked the graveyard shift! They had people working all day and all night. They would supply everyone with tons of energy drinks to keep them up all night. And he said that Bella’s mom was super crazy and she would come in to give “pep talks” to the staff and that she would be running around like a crazy person dancing and singing and yelling during her pep talks. He only worked there for 2 months but he said it was and extremely strange experience!
So beyond happy you dropped this early for us members! Thank you Josh! These people are just gross. They didn't go about this the right or even the legal route. So even IF they truly got scammed, I still don't feel bad, bc one they were already trying to heavily exploit two fetuses, not even living, breathing, born, people. Haven't even had the chance to scream, and yet they were exploiting them, well fake them, and two were going about it completely wrong. They have millions to their name, why couldn't they have gone through the proper legal routes right away, or why not do one flipping second of RESEACH into adoption!?
@Althea Baldwin you can have that all you want. As adults, who are able to make informed consent. Children can not make informed consent when it comes to being exploited on the internet. Plenty of mental health professionals are speaking up about this. Hell, children of family vloggers themselves are speaking up against it, many anonymously, for fear of their parents finding out. It's incredibly sad what's going on. These kids have ZERO protections, and what happened to many child actors b4 strict protective laws were put into place are now happening to these children. These folks already had fame, lots of it.
Can we just talk about how “easy” and upsetting it was for grown adults to be predatorily scammed on the internet…but they’ll continue to expose and exploit their innocent and impressionable children to the same toxicity without batting an eye?
I watched both video parts they released before watching your part yesterday and today. Thank you for opening my mind more compared to when I watched it first. Also thank you for telling us you will watch and post it so that we don’t give additional views to capitalize off a horrible and tragic situation.
I believe this is them knowing what was going on. If I personally was in their spot. I'd be broken, I wouldn't be able to talk about it. If I did I'd be in tears. They are so matter of fact and not emotional at all. I call bs to all this we thought we were getting babies.
I don't talk about this very often but I felt compelled to share this since the video was about this topic. In 2010 I gave birth to a baby girl I was not financially stable I was going through a divorce and I felt like adoption was an answer to this situation. Luckily I found the best adopted parents I ever asked for who to this day have just become a part of my extended family. It's very very careless on their part in this video to not have done their due diligence and verified everything. I know private adoptions are much cheaper then going through agency. Each state have their own set of rules when it comes to adoption. In Florida where I live when I went to meet up with the adoption agency I had to bring proof of pregnancy from a doctor. And then you get a bunch of profiles and you look through them to see who could possibly be a good fit once you pick them you can go out to dinner or you can go meet them somewhere to see if it works out you can go and you can research many different profiles if you want to. Usually right away the adoption agency will put the birth mother or parent birth parents into safe housing paying everything that it takes to move in or put you in a hotel they will provide you with a cell phone. They will pay all your utilities and give you money for groceries and expenses however where I lived at they had me file for Medicaid so that the adoption parents didn't have to cover all the medical bills to it. They provide you with maternity clothes they provide you with everything it's going to take to make sure that you are in a safe healthy situation and that the baby will be safe and healthy. When I went in to have my baby they gave me 72 hours with my baby to make sure it was something that I really wanted to do and after I did the signing of my paperwork they will then take care of you for the eight weeks that you're unable to work and your postpartum area. The one thing that I thought was pretty bad is after I signed my paperwork feeling shity about myself as it was for everything happening they handed me an envelope and inside was a check to cover the next two months of my rent my electric bill my food cost my cell phone by everything that they had already been paying for but they gave it to me in a check I felt like a lowlife that had just sold their kid for $6,000. But some agencies just continue to pay your rent directly and all that. Luckily I have people that treated me very well. A lot of times adopted parents would go to the private adoption route with their own attorney which is a lot cheaper than going through an agency cuz they have to make their money to and all expenses are paid for by the potential adopted parents . If these people literally just did this for clout it is sickening. And it is extremely disgusting that this woman was faking being pregnant just for adoption this happens a lot actually. I don't know these people this is the first time I've seen anything to do with them but I can tell you that it is very strange that they would jump all in like this without leaving a proof of pregnancy from a doctor. A birth mother has every right to change her mind even after the adoptive parents have paid in a ton of money I'm not even sure if they get their money back. Makes it really hard to feel bad for them anyone in their right mind would want proof of pregnancy even an ultrasound prove that you're pregnant before providing any Financial money or anything so that sounds a little bit sketchy. I do agree with you I feel like they wanted to adopt a child they saw an opportunity to make a video about it when in all the way before verifying that she was pregnant just to make a video because pregnancy adoption kids will gain you a lot of money and a lot of views. This is ridiculous if they truly wanted to adopt a child they would have went and done at the proper way and probably knew all along that this wasn't going to work but they want to trend on TH-cam and Tik-Tok. And I wonder if they are using the mother as an excuse not to because they do three huge background checks on you but I don't recall them ever doing that for any extended family of the adopted parents. And another thing that just came to mind for me is that if they're adopting babies from another state sometimes it takes up to a month to get that cleared by a judge to even be able to leave the state that the babies were born in. I am not sure all I know is Florida law because the family that I picked was in New Jersey and they actually stayed down here for a month after my paperwork was signed.
I really need you to cover jatie fam now and the drama between them and della. I’ve literally binged watched you since I found your channel. You’re brilliant!
You're also saying what I've been seeing recently, Dallon doesn't seem the least bit excited for any of this. It just looks and feels like nothing phases him.
I have said I don’t understand why she is in such a hurry. She’s 25?? And acts like me at 36 totally out of time…it’s bc they need to keep up w the family vlogging BS
If they were "raising awareness" they would have posted an uncut sit down video with low production. Not a 2 part monetized, clickbaited, overproduced and staged video. You don't title your first video "gender reveal" if you want to raise awareness about a scam. Makes no sense at all. Also congrats to your wife! Such a big accomplishment 🥳
I went through a very, very traumatic event in 2016 and to this day, very few people truly know what happened. I can’t bring myself to even say what happened in words and am still dealing with the effects of it to this day. The point you brought out about them making a video immediately after/during this happening….. it proved to me how evil this is of them. No trauma survivor would do this. To this extent. Gross.
Thanks for the coverage, Josh. This is so disturbing on so many levels. I thought the exact same thing about them blurring out their messages and not the woman’s messages. Very odd.
I knew it was a scam just by reading her texts. If I was giving up my baby I wouldn’t want to know what’s on their list to get, let alone act so excited about it. She seemed way too excited about giving them her “babies” imo
This makes me so upset! My husband was adopted at 16 days old. His parents went through 10+ miscarriages. They waited YEARS for a baby (my husband) This legit makes me furious! 😡 When they got the call about a baby (my husband) they didn’t have ANYTHING they needed because they never thought they’d be parents. Gosh this makes me absolutely FURIOUS!!! 😡 These people are garbage!!! They want a baby but for all the wrong reasons!!
And now they have a poor baby rocking it and currying her around a camera like a doll, prop or a family accessory? It is their next much toy after their dog!
I just started watching you after watching the video the beestons posted about you and i honestly have to say i love your channel! You have opened my whole perspective on family vloging and people that i have been watching for years. Thanks for your honest perspective! More people need to watch your videos!!
Lol I found him from the Beestons as well. 😂😂😂Initially I saw him a while back talking about Myka, but then I lost his name because all these other family vloggers showed up in my TH-cam feed. Good thing he came back though cuz it's opened me up to sooo much.
The trauma they'd have from this IMO wouldn't even allow them to make that first video I still can't even look at the ultrasound pictures of babies I've lost without losing it emotionally. I can't even stand these people. Its a money grab period.
Why are they hiding their messages and not the scammers? I think they had to have been saying something about skirting the system or leading her on. These people are disgusting! I wish we could see their messages.
I watched these videos before watching yours and completely agree with you and those are officially the last videos of theirs that I will ever watch because I don’t want to give them another cent of money
If she said she had trauma and ptsd from the way in which she got pregnant, I could not see her wanting a gender reveal party or any sort of party!! I’d think she’d want things done quietly w as little attention as possible. That message says nothing about “please have a gender reveal…”. It says she’s missing out on nursery prep and baby stores! So where’s the gender reveal request?
Currently pregnant from a traumatic situation- I haven’t announced, I haven’t posted anything, no baby shower, and no gender reveal. I’ve accepted things and I’m keeping my baby- but I don’t have it in me to do the celebratory things most people do. With my first pregnancy I did everything- that pregnancy was planned and I definitely see the change in how I’ve handled things. That being said, I knew someone who had been SA’d and they did a gender reveal, a baby shower, and everything else. It truly just depends on the person and how they process it. I took months and went the quiet route- she chose to make the best of her situation and enjoy her pregnancy to the fullest. I don’t think it’s fair to assume how one should handle that. That being said- this DEFINITELY is a scam and it’s iffy HERE.
This ENTIRE story infuriates me. Also - what are the chances that she even reads her DMs let alone answers them but she finds one that says “ I want to give you my babies “ I mean cmon.
I could totally see them hammering down about the fact that they have all this stuff and a nursery, in hopes someone will feels sorry for them and give them a baby.
Thats was absolutely my thought too. This is actually what theyre hoping for. Maybe multiple “offers” will come to them now. Disgusting vile humans. I feel bad for any baby that goes into this “family”
One thing I noticed is the very first message they got from scammer said she was expecting twins , so when they got the ultrasound pics why was she sooo surprised they were twins ? This is all fake and done for views , so sick
They probably either didn't pass the background check or didn't actually go to a adoption agency. That's why they are trying to adopt a baby through their fans because it's the only option
The worst part is that these people wholeheartedly believe they are good people, they are so far up their own asses that they believe their lies they are feeding themselves. It's sad and scary
They seem like they are talking to a young child. My daughter is 12 and talks very similar. Red flags galore. Wow. This is definitely a ploy to skate around any adoption agency that sets real limits
They conveniently leave out so many details. As soon as they saw the “mom” texting them things like “my daughter only has 2 outfits that fit. Buy her some clothes” -- they should’ve just ghosted the scammer at that point and moved on. This whole thing is so ridiculous.
Why wouldn’t they expose the scammer to scare off other future potential scammers? Seems like they’re only exposing themselves making themselves look even more fraud and as if they made this all up themselves. How disgusting!!!!
If they were so skeptical and suspicious, why did they throw a gender reveal and a big party? Common sense says, if they have their doubts, play it safe and wait till it’s finalized and babies are theirs before all that
As someone who works with high risk pregnancies… I see so many red flags just in the text messages they had… so disappointing to see them exploit this whole situation
You are SO SPOT ON 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I'm trying to add the things i thought of while watching this, but you've covered most if not all of the things i took note of. Keep killin it Josh 👏👏👏👏
Bottom line, these two are not fit to be parents! They need several years to mature. I so hope their agency sees these videos and stops any future opportunity to adopt an innocent child
you are telling me that Bella who is obsessed w pregnancy and babies didn’t once ask to touch the woman’s belly when they met her?!?! you definitely would have been able to tell it was fake. I feel like that is like the first thing people do when they see a pregnant person.
Did you notice that we never saw a picture or video of the completed nursery? Why do you think that is? Because they probably never even completed the nursery!
I find it weird that they show everything EXCEPT proof that they have 2 of everything. They showed putting wallpaper up gender neutral wallpapper and showed looking at car seats and strollers but did show buying any of it. I feel like they def stretched this out more than what it was.
WAY TO GO KATHY! YOU'RE GONNA MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLES LIVES! & EVERYTIME SOMEONE UPLOADS A VIDEO/REEL/SHORTS I IMMEDIATELY CANT WAIT FOR JOSH TO MAKE A VIDEO! THE DAILY CONTENT IS APPRECIATED! I EVEN GOT MY BOYFRIEND WATCHING YOU RELIGIOUSLY NOW!!!
you are the only person i will watch ads for! and these people are nasty
Thank you for supporting me this way!!
Ditto that!
And I hate ads.
I concur 💯
@@thedcpJOSH THE FIRST BIT ABOUT YOU TALKING ABOUT HER MOTHER WAS MUTED FOR MOST I DONT KNOW IF THAT WAS INTENTIONAL BUT JUST LETTING YOU KNOW!!!
She is making money off 2 NON Existent kids! I can’t stand them couple SLEAZEBALLS! Myka Stauffer 2.0
“We didn’t know this was a thing” *five min later* “we were warned of scams” and then she said “I didn’t know twin adoption was rare” but in their adoption q&a she mentions how rare twin adoption is. LYING THROUGH HER TEETH!!!! This is why they can’t be trusted
THIS!
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Also just logically, why wouldn’t twin adoption be rare? TWINS are rare!! These people 🥴
@@elisabeth859 exactly
Did you notice that she keeps biting the inside of her cheek to keep her sad expression and not smile... They totally were lying through their teeth.
Sometimes I feel so naive when I watch these vlogs and genuinely feel bad for them and then I watch you and you open my eyes to what’s really going on and cracking it wide open. Why can’t I see past the BS?! I feel so dumb. Thank you for what you do !!!
Alyssa, you are here.. so don't feel dumb. Your subconscious is telling you somethings up, which is more than can be said for the other 1000 something people commenting on their video eating it up.
Probably because you could not fathom doing the things people like this do. It would not be your first thought when seeing a video like this because the thought of lying to anyone about such a sensitive subject seems impossible......at least that is what I realized after watching a few of Josh's videos. I had the same thoughts in the past too
Same
I had the same thing. I always feel so much empathy and appreciate people like Josh showing it’s not okay. Now with the video where they „got her“ I’m also thinking wtf?
Watching them is too goodnto be true. I know something was off. Especially now they have their baby and I feel something’s not cool deep down about them. Thanks for this
In the first video when Bella is on the phone she says 'this better not be a scam'. Then in this video they said they had never heard of adoption scams!! This couple IS the SCAM!!
She said this better not be a prank... but yeah pretty much the same.
And she said ppl warned them of scams too.
@@Megan-1234 I picked up on that too, Megan
Not defending their actions but they definitely said near the beginning of the video that they Did know about adoption scams.
I am sobbing my eyes out when I saw the first video at the end I actually cared for them, I was so shocked and, felt sorry for them I can’t believe they did this to their fans my respect for them is completely lost and I’m so disgusted they did this 😔
The fact that they made a 2 part video tells me everything I needed to know.
The thing that’s so sketchy to me, is the fact that they blurred out THEIR messages.. weird af to me.
As an adoptive mom of three kids this video and this couple infuriated me with their actions. There is surely deceit in their actions. They are promoting a negative stereotype regarding birth moms and adoptions in general. When the process is done CORRECTLY, adopting is a safe and beautiful way to create family. Shame on them for tainting the idea of adopting as influencers.
How is there deceit in della and Bella’s actions? The woman they were going to adopt from was NOT a birth mom…. She wasn’t pregnant. She lied. Who cares if della has a blog and makes money
Aren’t you exploiting their situation? Aren’t you making money from their social media blogs? How are you any different?
"Crying" and then looking at herself in the phone 🤳🙄🤦🏼♀️
“She even met with an agency” the way he glossed over that part with no further details. She wouldn’t have been able to be represented by an agency or truly go THROUGH an agency without actually being pregnant. You’re 100% correct in your gut feeling, in my opinion. I feel the same.
Ya the agency HAD to have told them that this women is not legitimate being that the woman failed to make appointments and likely failed to give them validating the pregnancy information. If the woman had a zoom meeting with the agncy like they said happened then the agency very likely would have given them the warning and discretions but they did not give the same xtra details and didn’t want to admit that the agency likely warned them because they wanted to keep it going for the storyline they were in too deep
Surely there would be records of her visits to hospital etc so how did they not notice this?
She did not meet with the agency
@@Stacy_SJA the pregnant girl allegedly did an hour zoom call with the agency though. According to them.
They said that she talked to the agency but always mads up a reason why she couldn't meet up.
Josh they are avoiding an adoptive agency because they can’t film and exploit it all till after it’s final. They don’t want to wait a year or two for that to happen. They want content NOW. It’s disgusting.
Lol They literally went through an adoption agency though. 😂😂😂
@@boycee1 and I won the lottery yesterday. 😂
@@ashleyrocha1028 Maybe so, I wouldn't know nor would I care if you did. Just like you don't know wtf they did either. I know for an absolute fact they have an agency. This dude has a channel consisting of bashing everyone else's lives. Lol Must suck to not have a life of your own so your channel has to be bashing others. I would hate to be a subscriber to a channel like that, that just feeds into negativity. Not sure how this popped up for me but this is nuts. Oh yeah, I know! He's literally taking all the channels who actually have a large following and bashing to get views. What a loser! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 BLOCKED THIS QUACK!
@@boycee1 PairTree and Adoptimist are not "agencies" 😂
@@boycee1 they signed up with one, but found the woman through social media. They allegedly started feeling wary of her because she wouldn't ever goto the adoption agency meetings with them. It doesn't really make sense either way.
$20 says they'll come out and say "guess what, we're pregnant." "We had to go through the scam to get our own baby." I wouldn't put it past them.
I was thinking this too!!
I bet she dosent have infertility issues I wouldn't be surprised
@@emilywalton4105 agreed.
@Emily Walton If that's true, I'll be heartbroken. I started following her because I have fertility issues, and seeing her videos made me feel less alone.
@@des_18 why would you believe a stranger on TH-cam about anything
I don't have any sympathy for these people. The music, the matching black shirts, the "ignoring" red flags all while admitting they were skeptical. They wanted to cut the line, and get a baby asap. Everyone else who's been waiting and doing it right be damned.
Right! The black shirts were so weird to me especially after saying they’re “grieving”
Its so weird thinking about the producing of the video, them talking about what they will wear and what sad song is better for the video 🤢
If I'm not mistaken...they are actually wearing their own merch in this video! 🤦🏾♀️ Like seriously!? WOW! 💀
She reminds me of the I want it all and I want it NOW ( like the other couples) person.
@Snarky1 That's nuts! Those Facebook groups are just hubs for "parents" who want to buy, sell and trade children like pokemon cards it abhorrent! We need to let Josh in on that whole world and let him turn the light onto all those cockroaches 🤔
The target scene is so fake! They didn’t have a cart, didn’t buy anything, they weren’t looking a twin things. It seems they filmed that after they found out so it looks like they were so excited and believed she was pregnant for longer than they really did, to make it look longer more elaborate to viewers. Hope that made sense
As someone who was adopted at birth this is so wrong. My parents waited over 10 years for me after losing twins and these people are willing to capitalize over this? Ridiculous. Thank you for sharing Josh. Great video as always!
Also congratulations to your wife!
What else should they make videos about right, they have no other content ideas i guess 🙄 this family youtube stuff has to stop
They are lieing period.
I gave my son up almost 22 years ago an the couple I picked only did the basics until he was in there hands cause they had had a family change there mind once an it crushed them 🥺 an after he was born an I was in the hospital I thought about changing my mind but I didn't cause I was a 17 year old that had no help but I would have never given him to them if I thought they would have exploited him 🤦🏻♀️
@@ellerichardson1094you made the best decision for you and your son ❤
Her husband sounds like he’s reading from a script.
Yay congratulations Cathy! As a fellow nurse it’s the hardest thing to do, but so worth it. You look very dapper also Josh.
Yes, Congrats Cathy! I’ve only completed the first set of classes (pre-requisites) for nursing school like A&P 1 & 2, chemistry, etc., it’s hard!
Cathy, you’re a rockstar, getting through nursing school & getting your license while raising a family is insanely difficult & amazing!!!
My dear (we’re$ probably the same age. I applaud you. I have kids & I’ve worked for 9 years as a CNA (specifically inpatient hospice nursing assistants) (& all nurses too, I had the best nursing student validate me after a very traumatic birth alone (my husband was still deployed, I delivered at 36 weeks despite my older 4 kids all being born at about 40 weeks). I LOVE nurses & I love being a nursing assistant, because I love spending more time on patient care, but when I see good nurses, they make me want to get through that education & be a good nurse to people (not patients, but people).
Sorry for the tangent, Congrats Cathy, I wanna be like you, Momma❤, even while you’re not on Josh’s channel, you’re still inspiring!
Sending love to your family, I wish you all the best ✨
So they went to birthing classes but never attended a doctor's appointment with this person?
Bam!!!! You nailed it!
Or never felt the babies move? This whole situation is so sketchy to me.
And why would they need to attend birthing classes she isn’t having the baby
@@janinemaxwell4297 That's actually common with open adoption.
The two are NOT grieving or heartbroken. They can barely make themselves look upset.
I am autistic and sometimes have trouble reading facial expressions.
Though, also, I spend a lot of time attempting to understand ‘em.
These are the most contrived expressions, I have ever seen.
@@XOChristianaNicole we often have problems with reading emotions but we can spot fake a mile off. Mostly it is just because it confuses us.
Lol. That is exactly what I was thinking. These people are ridiculous.
@@XOChristianaNicole I learned a new word today 💃 "contrived" thank you !!!
My first thought when they said it was twin girls was "Well isn't that convenient that's exactly what they said they wanted. I bet it's a scam." Then bam that's what it was. My heart goes out to people who truly want to adopt for the right reasons and get scammed, but I have absolutely no empathy for these people.
Totally. They always babysit for their friend’s twin babies and post videos about it. Convenient.
Congrats to Kathy! My husband just graduated from nursing school last week! It makes you so proud of your spouse.
I find it interesting that they didn’t show them actually putting together two cribs etc. all they showed was the wallpaper. But also if twins were going to be born so early they would have been in the NICU for weeks so the urgency at 26 weeks to have a nursery ready is a red flag in itself.
I thought this was weird too like you guys showed all the receipts and texts and pictures but didn’t show that once. Hmm ok
@@LuisaFernanda. yes! If they didn’t show SO much I wouldn’t question it but I dunno. They also said they haven’t been in the nursery but were able to edit a full video of it all… fishy.
Right? They never showed two cribs, two car seats, etc.
As an adopted mom I'm livid! I came upon their page and seen they were friends with some people I follow. I listened to their infertility story and thought they were nice and would be good parents. The more I listened the madder I got. I started following them about 6 months ago, I was not really into their content until they started IVF, because I've been there. In the beginning Bella refused to talk about adoption , she wanted a baby of HER own. That made me upset, I do feel my children are my own no matter how they came into this world. Dallin said he would do anything to be a dad,but didn't want to adopt, it be giving up if they adopted. He later changed his mind after Bella said she had a dream about adopting a baby. This was right after the IVF failed. Dallin called an adoption agency the next day and was on board to adopt. When they got the call telling them they needed to start getting the nursery ready. Bella wanted to go shopping and out for dinner. She made a statement that really upset me. She was laughing and saying I'm going to be a mom and will be getting a baby before YOU, and I can still eat sushi. She didn't even think about the couples that follow them or the women who struggled with infertility. It came off as ..haha, I get a baby before you and can still eat sushi. She is all about herself, she is used to getting her way because of money. When they did the video of the first contact with their potential birth mom, Bella was so into the thought of twin girls that she didn't' even realize the woman was telling her what she wanted to hear. I kind of knew at that point that something was up. Bella said she dreamed her whole life for twin girls. They went on a podcast of their friends Matt and Abby to which they announced they were adopting. Dallin said he really didn't want to adopt, it was his last choice. He made it sound like if we can have our own baby then adoption will have to do. They got in to how adoption works and the cost. Bella said she would pay anything. Both her and Dallin was literally trying to buy a baby. They asked listeners to reach out if they knew of anyone giving up a baby/babies. Bella said they may be getting a baby through social media. I was so upset listening to them beg for a baby. They have an agency but are still looking on their own. I don't think they understand how they came off to birth parents. We waited 4 years for our first baby, we went strictly by the book be and waited OUR turn. My next two kids came quickly. We waited 6 months for our second baby and 18 months or our third.
Bella and Dallin are not ready to be parents and might never be adoptive parents. They are to selfish and I have no doubt in my mind that they are actively trying to purchase a baby no matter the cost or what's fair for everyone. They are fake people. I am mad at myself for not seeing it sooner. I did tell them they were being scammed before the posted their scam video. If I was a birth mom looking to place my baby with a couple, I would be checking out of their social medias. I'd pass on The Lambert's. No doubt about it.🎉
You need a life lol
Sadly I suspect they bought this blue eyed baby
Jatie vlogs is no longer friends with them because they see della as clout chassers . Jatie said they couldn't just hangout with della without turning it into a video
Gosh, I really wanted to “hate” you when another channel mentioned you- but your content is so spot on and can’t help but love your content! 👏🏼
Josh is amazing!! Uses his platform to speak up for the kids and stop exploiting them!! He stands for great things!
Congratulations Kathy!
I've been a Registered Nurse for 28 years and would never look back.
One piece of advice though, don't let the profession eat you up.
Amen to that!
I clicked this notification so quick!
Hahaha I just got home from work after watching the first this morning while getting ready for work, saw this and straight clicked so hard 😂
Same
two reasons I feel like they contrived the whole thing (in on the scam). One: the language of the “birth mother” matched exactly their syntax and grammar styles, as well as their immature assumption of how a birth mother would act in this situation. Two: think like a family vlogger. EACH aspect of the pregnancy always gets its own video, it’s like a cardinal rule. The gender reveal, telling the family, finding out they’re adopting, nursery setup, etc. would have each been their own video but they instead SAVED all the footage for a “catfish” video.
I always wondered how they were going to get a NEWBORN adopted in a matter of weeks/months. People wait years and years to adopt newborns. It all made sense when this video came out.
My parents waited 11 years for my brother as a newborn and a year for me when I was born a year later. Thankful the adoption agency placed us together. However, they had to wait another year each for them to legally become our parents.
In the adoption world in private domestic adoptions money talks. The ones who get the babies are the ones who are high profile, have money etc. I’ve even seen adoption agencies scam families. I know of a family who had tried adoption after so many years of trying and loss. They signed with an adoption agency in Florida. And were told they matched with a birth mom. They weren’t told they were one of several couples in the running. When they got to the hospital for the baby’s birth, they saw an older couple and thought they were the parents of the woman. Nope. They were one of the families in the running (which is a sick and twisted thing to do as an adoption agency) This was an older couple 55+ and they already had 4 sons whose wives were all pregnant so grandma was having a midlife crisis and wanted a baby too. Those types of adoptions shouldn’t happen.
@@Weatheredstorms1 oh I absolutely agree with what your saying in that instance. My family was extremely lucky to have been able to adopt us without the issues of possibly being scammed. After they lost a child and were told they couldn't conceive again I believe they went through an agency with a lawyer and I'm not sure why exactly it took 11 years. That part of the process they never explained to us.
@@Weatheredstorms1 that is so disturbing. Sounds like grandma was competing with her daughter-in-laws for attention. I know mothers who are like that but not to go so far as to adopt. But they have tried to take their children's kids away from them. It's disturbing
We’ve had a newborn since she was 6 days old thru fostering and she’s almost a year and we haven’t even had the final home study despite TPR for adoption….my best friend was adopted through fostering as well she was placed at 9 months and it took almost 4 years then, which was the 80s…it legitimately never happens this quick…even with dang agencies specifically for newborn adoption 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Just came from your Jatie's video. I stopped watching Jatie a while ago after Josh ripped Katie's jumper in a prank (the action if it wasn't faked looked violent on his part) but I felt like Della's vlog was always genuine but after this video I became so much more aware of things you pointed out. As someone going through infertility issues I really felt sorry for Della's vlogs (I didn't watch part 1 because I never understood why they posted it but now I understand) I am now unsubscribed to both. You really opened my eyes to the danger these family channels can cause to their own children with exposure. Now I won't be watching any anymore. Thank you so much for the information it has educated me. Can't wait to watch more of your videos.
I also use to watch Della, I found them through Jatie, in my recommended and also felt they were the more kind and relatable couple. That's why I was subscribed to Della for a while, not Katie tho. But after seeing Josh videos on all of them, including the podcast EPs I've also unfollowed and unsubscribed. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
They 100 percent created this scam. You can see it clearly if you have that in mind during this entire video. They're showing what they "would do" for an expecting mother who they would be adopting from. If you listen to her repeat about the nursery also so many times 😂 We'll we have this nursery ALREADY guys, ya know, if anyone out there wants to give us a baby now. This is just to get more offers rolling in.
@@heavenj7 she has a very rare condition causing infertility she doesn’t produce eggs. The eggs she produced for ivf wasn’t viable.
I also believe they faked this!
Yes! Im so glad I am not the only one that was thinking this; they didn’t get scammed, they are scamming their audience!
@@jennylynn3075 she could use an egg donar and his sperm and carry the chiled herself. They have fooled us all this is their scam there was 100% no one else involved.
The facts are so ridiculous that this HAS to be what they did. Cancelled!!!!!
I found your channel bc of the Beeston Fam. I was a fan of them before and Josh you completely opened my eyes to these families exploiting their children. Thank you!
Same here!
Same ! 👍🏼
Same
I don't understand how a marriage works if you're watching each other lie like this. Lying over such an intense topic would seemingly solidify that persons ability for deceit and manipulation towards anyone. How do you not question everything your partner says forever?
Riiight??
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Been with my husband for over 16 years and I agree with you 100%!
Not a truthful spec of dignity not a way I could ever live.
No autonomy. Self absorbed. Serves a purpose...
👏👏👏
I'm so glad I found this channel. You're the only one keeping it real
Jatie moved to Arizona because of Della, they were literally inseparable (always together at each other's houses), and then they were not seen together. Della never said anything about it, but Jatie came out and said that Della used them for views (Jatie had a much bigger following). They said they just wanted friends who did not want to record all the time. But, Della later mentioned that they were one of the ones who taught them how to fake for views. Bella came out with a song about Katie, and that same day Jatie announced that they are having a baby. The whole situation is so weird.
How do you go to pregnancy classes & stuff like that without realizing they’re not pregnant? A fake bump? Nobody in the classes noticed it was fake? They never touched her belly or asked to go to any appointments with her to hear the heartbeats/ see the ultrasound? Sounds pretty shady to me & I feel like they knew it was fake and went with it for the “content” and sympathy.
That’s what I was wondering too. If they were able to make it out there for classes, I’m surprised they wouldn’t try to go to an appointment or two to see the babies.
Exactly like they are two grown adults, like in their mid to
Late 20s, they know better.
I hope Della watches this. They need counselling.
I don't think it's anyone's place to judge. Nothing wrong w wanting a baby.
@@6livingmybestlife I agree! strictly out of concern.😌
There is nothing wrong with wanting a baby, but they adopted a baby and their are exploiting her, they are sick, fake and selfish, they literally film everything, even the first time they met her, they couldn't met their baby without a camera, they only want views... @@6livingmybestlife
These people have lawyers on speed dial yet they didn’t think twice about running this by them?
Was there even really a ‘scammer’ in the scenario. The texts could’ve EASILY been done by a friend to help the ruse
He did suggest that on his first video.
The next thing they'll do..."after YEARS of infertility WE GOT PREGNANT NATURALLY!!" I've seen a few family vloggers do this.
Rachelle and Justin 🙄🙄 Josh should cover them at some point too…I can’t stand Rachelle and all her grifting
Yep, they did this after Brad and Rach pulled it. Funny how both of them were "just getting ready to transfer their embryos".
Are you saying they actually transferred the embryos and got pregnant and then lied and said they got pregnant naturally? Or are you saying they lied about having infertility in the first place? Not arguing, just trying to understand.
While i dont agree with these people, getting pregnant after years of fertility issues or getting naturally pregnant before transfer 100% happens and more often than you would think
@Bayli Star I'm not going to say that's what they did. However, Brad and Rach got pregnant naturally (right before they were going to transfer) and that one seems true. But Rachelle and Justin? That one I don't believe. She had her appts for the fertility clinic but then "had to reschedule" and then all of a sudden she's naturally pregnant. They even did all the testing on Justin's sperm to see if anything changed and it had not. Their chances were basically nonexistent if I remember right. Their views were so low, I really do think they did this after seeing how the others jumped with this "miracle". I really wouldn't put anything past these family vloggers.
See I don't believe they were ever scammed at all. I think this was all one big play for content and their acting stinks. These people are fake to the core. They set this up. I wouldn't be surprised if they gave this woman money to play with them.
Congratulations Kathy! I know first hand how hard it is to go to school while raising kids. Nursing school is a whole other level. What an accomplishment to have under your belt.
You just have to take a look at their body language, to know that they are lying. The amount of time they blink when they talk to the camera, not able to hold “eye contact” looking away, Bella covering her mouth when her husband talks, closing / rubbing their eyes, arms crossed……sooooo many signs of them flat out lying or at least exaggerating their situation 😳🙈
Them constantly say they don’t understand how people can scam others when the bulk of her money is from scamming people through a MLM…oh the irony…
Just imagine how many teenage girls are out there trying to get pregnant so she can get her foot in on the social media path.
This video is eye opening!! This is nuts.
Ive seen youtubers lose a child, or go through a divorce, and spend months away from youtube because they were actually devastated and grieving for real but these two absolutely had to make videos and edit them as soon as they could! That screams devastated 😏
Me too.
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They’ve been blocking any adoptee/birth mom calling them out. I got blocked too for calling out the two part video.
Ive been patiently waiting all day and i JUST got done working ao the timing couldnt be any more perfect!
Josh! My brother worked at the origami owl warehouse about 10 years ago! They hired a bunch of teenagers for extra help during the busy holiday season and my brother was one of those kids. His job was to pack orders so he’d collect all the charms and stuff from all over the warehouse to pack them up for deliveries. He worked the graveyard shift! They had people working all day and all night. They would supply everyone with tons of energy drinks to keep them up all night. And he said that Bella’s mom was super crazy and she would come in to give “pep talks” to the staff and that she would be running around like a crazy person dancing and singing and yelling during her pep talks. He only worked there for 2 months but he said it was and extremely strange experience!
Thank you for sharing that info!
He also compared Bella’s mom’s pep talks to Steve Ballmer’s stage presence 😅 so that’s saying A LOT!
So beyond happy you dropped this early for us members! Thank you Josh! These people are just gross. They didn't go about this the right or even the legal route. So even IF they truly got scammed, I still don't feel bad, bc one they were already trying to heavily exploit two fetuses, not even living, breathing, born, people. Haven't even had the chance to scream, and yet they were exploiting them, well fake them, and two were going about it completely wrong. They have millions to their name, why couldn't they have gone through the proper legal routes right away, or why not do one flipping second of RESEACH into adoption!?
I don't know Della personally nor do I have the right to judge them. But, sometimes people want fame and and not just fortune only.
@Althea Baldwin you can have that all you want. As adults, who are able to make informed consent. Children can not make informed consent when it comes to being exploited on the internet. Plenty of mental health professionals are speaking up about this. Hell, children of family vloggers themselves are speaking up against it, many anonymously, for fear of their parents finding out. It's incredibly sad what's going on. These kids have ZERO protections, and what happened to many child actors b4 strict protective laws were put into place are now happening to these children. These folks already had fame, lots of it.
@@tbld2827 The fact of the matter is Della already has fame, that's the weird part
She cried when she thought she was getting a baby, now there are no tears now that she's not getting a baby? They are the scammers!
Can we just talk about how “easy” and upsetting it was for grown adults to be predatorily scammed on the internet…but they’ll continue to expose and exploit their innocent and impressionable children to the same toxicity without batting an eye?
I watched both video parts they released before watching your part yesterday and today. Thank you for opening my mind more compared to when I watched it first. Also thank you for telling us you will watch and post it so that we don’t give additional views to capitalize off a horrible and tragic situation.
I believe this is them knowing what was going on. If I personally was in their spot. I'd be broken, I wouldn't be able to talk about it. If I did I'd be in tears. They are so matter of fact and not emotional at all. I call bs to all this we thought we were getting babies.
Get the scammer to come on and tell her side of the story 😂
Lol that'd be crazy and she shows their texts
Why?? She's still a horrible person. Her side doesn't deserve to be heard.
She did this to multiple families.
Its all bull shit ,this couple should be jailed for this .
I don't talk about this very often but I felt compelled to share this since the video was about this topic. In 2010 I gave birth to a baby girl I was not financially stable I was going through a divorce and I felt like adoption was an answer to this situation. Luckily I found the best adopted parents I ever asked for who to this day have just become a part of my extended family. It's very very careless on their part in this video to not have done their due diligence and verified everything. I know private adoptions are much cheaper then going through agency. Each state have their own set of rules when it comes to adoption. In Florida where I live when I went to meet up with the adoption agency I had to bring proof of pregnancy from a doctor. And then you get a bunch of profiles and you look through them to see who could possibly be a good fit once you pick them you can go out to dinner or you can go meet them somewhere to see if it works out you can go and you can research many different profiles if you want to. Usually right away the adoption agency will put the birth mother or parent birth parents into safe housing paying everything that it takes to move in or put you in a hotel they will provide you with a cell phone. They will pay all your utilities and give you money for groceries and expenses however where I lived at they had me file for Medicaid so that the adoption parents didn't have to cover all the medical bills to it. They provide you with maternity clothes they provide you with everything it's going to take to make sure that you are in a safe healthy situation and that the baby will be safe and healthy. When I went in to have my baby they gave me 72 hours with my baby to make sure it was something that I really wanted to do and after I did the signing of my paperwork they will then take care of you for the eight weeks that you're unable to work and your postpartum area. The one thing that I thought was pretty bad is after I signed my paperwork feeling shity about myself as it was for everything happening they handed me an envelope and inside was a check to cover the next two months of my rent my electric bill my food cost my cell phone by everything that they had already been paying for but they gave it to me in a check I felt like a lowlife that had just sold their kid for $6,000. But some agencies just continue to pay your rent directly and all that. Luckily I have people that treated me very well. A lot of times adopted parents would go to the private adoption route with their own attorney which is a lot cheaper than going through an agency cuz they have to make their money to and all expenses are paid for by the potential adopted parents . If these people literally just did this for clout it is sickening. And it is extremely disgusting that this woman was faking being pregnant just for adoption this happens a lot actually. I don't know these people this is the first time I've seen anything to do with them but I can tell you that it is very strange that they would jump all in like this without leaving a proof of pregnancy from a doctor. A birth mother has every right to change her mind even after the adoptive parents have paid in a ton of money I'm not even sure if they get their money back. Makes it really hard to feel bad for them anyone in their right mind would want proof of pregnancy even an ultrasound prove that you're pregnant before providing any Financial money or anything so that sounds a little bit sketchy. I do agree with you I feel like they wanted to adopt a child they saw an opportunity to make a video about it when in all the way before verifying that she was pregnant just to make a video because pregnancy adoption kids will gain you a lot of money and a lot of views. This is ridiculous if they truly wanted to adopt a child they would have went and done at the proper way and probably knew all along that this wasn't going to work but they want to trend on TH-cam and Tik-Tok. And I wonder if they are using the mother as an excuse not to because they do three huge background checks on you but I don't recall them ever doing that for any extended family of the adopted parents. And another thing that just came to mind for me is that if they're adopting babies from another state sometimes it takes up to a month to get that cleared by a judge to even be able to leave the state that the babies were born in. I am not sure all I know is Florida law because the family that I picked was in New Jersey and they actually stayed down here for a month after my paperwork was signed.
Wow you are an incredibly strong woman ❤ I can't imagine how difficult it was to go through that
Agreed😊
Omggggg !! We have such a similar story and I’m from Jersey how weird lol
Thank you.
Your are amazing for sharing all this, thank you ❤
The level of narcissism is astounding.
I really need you to cover jatie fam now and the drama between them and della. I’ve literally binged watched you since I found your channel. You’re brilliant!
You're also saying what I've been seeing recently, Dallon doesn't seem the least bit excited for any of this. It just looks and feels like nothing phases him.
I have said I don’t understand why she is in such a hurry. She’s 25?? And acts like me at 36 totally out of time…it’s bc they need to keep up w the family vlogging BS
because their competitors are already light years ahead and they need to be doing this for their channel and "cArEeR"
Im 25 not in a hurry but than again my child will cost me money not make me money
If they were "raising awareness" they would have posted an uncut sit down video with low production. Not a 2 part monetized, clickbaited, overproduced and staged video. You don't title your first video "gender reveal" if you want to raise awareness about a scam. Makes no sense at all.
Also congrats to your wife! Such a big accomplishment 🥳
I went through a very, very traumatic event in 2016 and to this day, very few people truly know what happened. I can’t bring myself to even say what happened in words and am still dealing with the effects of it to this day. The point you brought out about them making a video immediately after/during this happening….. it proved to me how evil this is of them. No trauma survivor would do this. To this extent. Gross.
😢😢 sending love your way💝💝🌻🌻🌻🌻🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓💓
Aww I'm sorry that happened to you, i hope oneday you feel safe and comfortable enough to share with someone you trust🤗💕💕
@@Hollyhock7 thank you times a million 💕❤️💗💖❣️💓
@@matyfortune5734 thank you so much 🙏🏼 much love to you!
Thanks for the coverage, Josh. This is so disturbing on so many levels. I thought the exact same thing about them blurring out their messages and not the woman’s messages. Very odd.
I knew it was a scam just by reading her texts. If I was giving up my baby I wouldn’t want to know what’s on their list to get, let alone act so excited about it. She seemed way too excited about giving them her “babies” imo
Well said
I agree ☝🏼 it sounded dodgy & too good to be true!
They went to a birthing class in person but didn’t go to a sonogram appointment together?! Strange
Did they say it was in person? For some reason I assumed it was zoom/virtual
Right lol
They keep saying they were skeptical, but Bella says she 100% trusted her, what?
This makes me so upset! My husband was adopted at 16 days old. His parents went through 10+ miscarriages. They waited YEARS for a baby (my husband) This legit makes me furious! 😡 When they got the call about a baby (my husband) they didn’t have ANYTHING they needed because they never thought they’d be parents. Gosh this makes me absolutely FURIOUS!!! 😡 These people are garbage!!! They want a baby but for all the wrong reasons!!
This is disgusting. They don't deserve to have a baby because they are only going to exploit the child.
I commented on one of their videos and said hope if you get a child you don't exploit it 😅
Greedy and evil, disgusting
And now they have a poor baby rocking it and currying her around a camera like a doll, prop or a family accessory? It is their next much toy after their dog!
I just started watching you after watching the video the beestons posted about you and i honestly have to say i love your channel! You have opened my whole perspective on family vloging and people that i have been watching for years. Thanks for your honest perspective! More people need to watch your videos!!
Lol I found him from the Beestons as well. 😂😂😂Initially I saw him a while back talking about Myka, but then I lost his name because all these other family vloggers showed up in my TH-cam feed. Good thing he came back though cuz it's opened me up to sooo much.
@@LaylaOlsen Literally his videos about matt and abby and miah knight kill me they are so valid
Ooh now I gotta search for this
The trauma they'd have from this IMO wouldn't even allow them to make that first video I still can't even look at the ultrasound pictures of babies I've lost without losing it emotionally. I can't even stand these people. Its a money grab period.
That’s what I said yesterday on the other video. True story
Exactly xx
Why are they hiding their messages and not the scammers? I think they had to have been saying something about skirting the system or leading her on. These people are disgusting! I wish we could see their messages.
What I was thinking too!!!
I watched these videos before watching yours and completely agree with you and those are officially the last videos of theirs that I will ever watch because I don’t want to give them another cent of money
None of this would have happened if they didn't post personal information on social media. I'm so glad to have a normal non-social media life.
If she said she had trauma and ptsd from the way in which she got pregnant, I could not see her wanting a gender reveal party or any sort of party!! I’d think she’d want things done quietly w as little attention as possible.
That message says nothing about “please have a gender reveal…”. It says she’s missing out on nursery prep and baby stores! So where’s the gender reveal request?
Currently pregnant from a traumatic situation- I haven’t announced, I haven’t posted anything, no baby shower, and no gender reveal. I’ve accepted things and I’m keeping my baby- but I don’t have it in me to do the celebratory things most people do.
With my first pregnancy I did everything- that pregnancy was planned and I definitely see the change in how I’ve handled things.
That being said, I knew someone who had been SA’d and they did a gender reveal, a baby shower, and everything else. It truly just depends on the person and how they process it. I took months and went the quiet route- she chose to make the best of her situation and enjoy her pregnancy to the fullest.
I don’t think it’s fair to assume how one should handle that. That being said- this DEFINITELY is a scam and it’s iffy HERE.
This ENTIRE story infuriates me. Also - what are the chances that she even reads her DMs let alone answers them but she finds one that says “ I want to give you my babies “ I mean cmon.
I could totally see them hammering down about the fact that they have all this stuff and a nursery, in hopes someone will feels sorry for them and give them a baby.
Thats was absolutely my thought too. This is actually what theyre hoping for. Maybe multiple “offers” will come to them now. Disgusting vile humans. I feel bad for any baby that goes into this “family”
Bingo! It's already happening. They have fans in their comment section offering to get pregnant for them to adopt their baby.
Omg that’s such a good thought I didn’t even consider. Makes this even more sick 😮
@Tracy that's gross af! People are insane.
@Tracy omg are you serious! How can someone be so invested in a youtube channel that they'd actually give away their baby
One thing I noticed is the very first message they got from scammer said she was expecting twins , so when they got the ultrasound pics why was she sooo surprised they were twins ? This is all fake and done for views , so sick
They probably either didn't pass the background check or didn't actually go to a adoption agency. That's why they are trying to adopt a baby through their fans because it's the only option
The worst part is that these people wholeheartedly believe they are good people, they are so far up their own asses that they believe their lies they are feeding themselves. It's sad and scary
Wait if they knew already it was identical twin girls what’s the point of a gender reveal?
I guess so they could throw an INSANE party and "surprise" their family/friends 🙄I cannot wrap my head around this, it's beyond crazy..
Matt and Abby did their gender reveals that way too. They knew but were just telling friends/family. I think it’s dumb 😅
to reveal to their family? to each their own when it comes to that… this was done in poor taste. they’re some cringy ppl.
They seem like they are talking to a young child. My daughter is 12 and talks very similar. Red flags galore. Wow. This is definitely a ploy to skate around any adoption agency that sets real limits
They conveniently leave out so many details. As soon as they saw the “mom” texting them things like “my daughter only has 2 outfits that fit. Buy her some clothes” -- they should’ve just ghosted the scammer at that point and moved on. This whole thing is so ridiculous.
I wouldn't even be surprised if they made up the whole thing.
They did! Arie and Lauren are also influencers and they know Della!
I wanted to snark on their IG post SO bad.... but I had not not give them the engagement. Thanks for covering this!!
Why wouldn’t they expose the scammer to scare off other future potential scammers? Seems like they’re only exposing themselves making themselves look even more fraud and as if they made this all up themselves.
How disgusting!!!!
If they were so skeptical and suspicious, why did they throw a gender reveal and a big party? Common sense says, if they have their doubts, play it safe and wait till it’s finalized and babies are theirs before all that
As someone who works with high risk pregnancies… I see so many red flags just in the text messages they had… so disappointing to see them exploit this whole situation
Like the casual amnio just for shits and giggles? Like what?!
@@caseygraham5002 that’s exactly what I was questioning!! you normally don’t just have an amnio for no reason..
Exactly! I have twins and I have a friend who had to have an amnio ONLY because her daughter had a bunch of markers for genetic abnormalities.
Yes! The amnio! I was thinking wait what? She doesn't say why she had it... strange.
You are SO SPOT ON 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm trying to add the things i thought of while watching this, but you've covered most if not all of the things i took note of.
Keep killin it Josh 👏👏👏👏
Bottom line, these two are not fit to be parents! They need several years to mature. I so hope their agency sees these videos and stops any future opportunity to adopt an innocent child
Everything about their videos are so wrong. It’s a pure slice of evil.
you are telling me that Bella who is obsessed w pregnancy and babies didn’t once ask to touch the woman’s belly when they met her?!?! you definitely would have been able to tell it was fake. I feel like that is like the first thing people do when they see a pregnant person.
Did you notice that we never saw a picture or video of the completed nursery? Why do you think that is? Because they probably never even completed the nursery!
I find it weird that they show everything EXCEPT proof that they have 2 of everything. They showed putting wallpaper up gender neutral wallpapper and showed looking at car seats and strollers but did show buying any of it. I feel like they def stretched this out more than what it was.
Such a good point. Didn’t even show themselves looking at twin strollers and we only saw one crib.
I literally LOVE being a member!!!
Me too
Same
Literally knew this was a scam from the moment she said twins….very rarely are twins given up for adoption
WAY TO GO KATHY! YOU'RE GONNA MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLES LIVES! & EVERYTIME SOMEONE UPLOADS A VIDEO/REEL/SHORTS I IMMEDIATELY CANT WAIT FOR JOSH TO MAKE A VIDEO! THE DAILY CONTENT IS APPRECIATED! I EVEN GOT MY BOYFRIEND WATCHING YOU RELIGIOUSLY NOW!!!
No Josh, you are not the only one that sees past this bullshit. I'm right with you. This is just GROSS!!
I was waiting for your response to it!!! The fact these people put a camera on this situation is disgusting.
Notice how they said they got tons of messages about potential babies but only got really excited about the possibility of twins…. 🤑🤑
Dr. Phil did a show EXACTLY like this. Influencers need to stop this shit... lying is a lowest form of humanity. Buy a doll.
Get a dog